Thank you so much for this overwhelming support from everyone 🙏 I'm truly blown away by how many people have reached out & commented. I can't explain how much it all means to me. Especially those people who even helped me by becoming patreons. That support means more to me than I can put into words. Sorry if I can't reply to every comment. I'm doing my best but I wasn't expecting this much support ❤️ I wasn't expecting any help or support. I purely made this to help others speak out about what they may be going through but too afraid to speak up. As you've seen from this video if I can do it for the world to see don't be embarrassed confiding in a mate 👍
You said this is nothing compared to what you've been through in the past. As a man in my late 60's who's certainly seen the ups and downs of life, my advice is to use what you've been through in the past to draw strength from to handle what you are now facing. You've done it before so you know what you are capable of mate, and can do it again.
You have to go to your son. That will fill the voids, give your life purpose, and the payoff is the love you'll get in return. The joy thats missing is giving back, that's why sharing and helping with this video feels good. Give back to your son. He needs you and you need him.@Campingdownunder
Hang in there. I lost everything at 60 and wasn't sure what I was going to do. I had already retired on just a partial pension and had health issues that prevented me from returning to work. It was a terrible 2 years sorting everything out, but now at 67 I have to say I have never been happier in my whole life. You are never too old to begin from where you are. You have your rv, you are still young, you have a job. Why throw your money away on a house? Nothing wrong with renting a room and spending most of your time travelling. It is your time, follow your dreams, travel, explore. Maybe in time your son will see what an adventure your life is and want to join you camping. Hang in, it gets better, I promise.
My hometown was hit with a suicide of a 38 year old this week. Seeing you sharing your struggles means so much more than you could possibly know. Thank you.
Your channel has been around since 2006. This video that you've posted 6 days ago has more views than any other video you've made. That's a lot of love and support brother. Keep on going!
I lost everything at age 57 and was left with a heap of debt. Sounds like she was never going to move anyway and probably had someone else in the pipeline. All I can say is respect for putting this together. Keep your head up brother and just keep moving forward one day at a time.
Nah mate you don’t have to take responsibility for anything. You made a big move to better your family, if she folded after 3 months that speaks volumes about her and not you. You seem like a really great bloke, and you’re so brave to speak about your feelings. No idea why I was recommended this but you’ve gained a subscriber! Take this opportunity to explore and take everything in freely. Look forward to updates and hope things get better
I’m nearly 40 and have been through some shit. Videos like this are really important because it shows real life and its ups and downs. When you’re going through hell, keep going!
Women won't divorce unless they've already got someone else lined up and ready to go. Impossible to have a committed relationship while that's secretly going on.
She lined his replacement up long before he made the move to do this. I feel for this man, I've seen it happen to a friend and it's probably the greatest act of betrayal I've ever witnessed. @@daronykoy8244
I don't think you realize how many men needed to hear you. As a young man myself, I can speak for many of us...Thank you for opening up in a world where, as men, we are unconsciously told to hide our worries and "be strong". Life is extremely hard, and it feels like we are expected to be these dull rocks, and that we shouldn't show any of our emotional depth. We need brothers like you in our lives to share with. Thank you.
I'm not a camper....but this video popped up and I'm suffering terribly from depression. So you've got a new subscriber. I'm happy to watch and hope for your upswing to happen soon.
So sorry to hear you are suffering from depression. My wife also has depression and I just feel helpless. I really hope you get better, sending you all my love!
We dont belong here, even through your depression youre thinking of someone elses well being. youre an angel, and Jesus is calling you.....just listen. I love you and i pray that you hear Him.
This is the first time I've come across your channel but wow I'm seriously touched by your candor. Thank you for expressing these feelings that so many of us experience but often struggle to articulate. Great thing that you're doing for the community, we're all connected by our love of seeing these parts of Australia but also all have experiences in life that can obscure the beauty of it. Gonna be following your story from now on and have no doubt that with this sort of attitude you'll land on your feet and find that stability again. Much love
Farrk mate I feel for you. My wife left a 28 year marriage and 3 kids to find the spark. Lost everything including all future dreams . Bought a caravan, no rent al dramas or expense, live on my own now, won’t ever rely on someone else to provide happiness. Been 6 years now and gets better every day. Hang in there bud 🤙
Sorry to hear that mate. This is the third time I've started from scratch with nothing. It bloody sucks. Glad to hear things improved for you. I'd actually prefer living out of a caravan than a house. At least your free to travel where ever you like & find work anywhere 👍
@@Campingdownunder yeah that’s right. Rent’s cheap, bout $100-120/week electricity included, no bond no rent in advance no lease. There’s always something going on in parks, keeps you from dropping off the radar. It’s your own house you can do what you want when you want. I personally would think about heading back to the parents for a bit and set yourself up for your new adventure. And spend some time alone to process what’s gone down. Don’t put too much faith in the modern woman. If they’re single at this age they’re meant to be. There’s a lot of information out there by both male and female psychologists on how the female mind works. Do a little research, accept any faults of your own, you’ll no doubt find some peace of mind. If your crazy enough to have another go at least you’ll no what red flags to look for. It’s hard to come up with a plan when your devastated but that worked for me and looking back on 6 years I don’t think I could do anything better. Best of luck and stay strong 🤙
I would disagree. Evidence shows people are the biggest healers for mental health. Loneliness is more damaging to your health than smoking. You need one or two people you can see every week just for enjoyment. A minority of people can do the hermitd life, but not many.
@@MrZoomah Have to agree there, even introverts need to be around people, just less than normal. I find I can't be around too many people but I also can't be alone for too long. It's a balance.
There's some truth to what both you and the OP says. Humans do feel best when we have a close circle of peers. But too many people are not happy with themselves, and look for happiness from others. 'I will be happy when I get a girlfriend/boyfriend'. That is a surefire way to have a TOXIC relationship. To only be happy because of someone else, is to leech their happiness. These people jump from relationship to relationship as in, they're not single for a long time at all. Which imo sounds like what Camping Downunder's Ex is like. To derive your happiness from another and not yourself, means you will sap their happiness. How can you truly love someone else if you don't love yourself first? The answer is, painfully.@@MrZoomah
Amazing share. Single mom and psychologist so I get where you’re coming from on so many levels. It will change, there are always choices.. And there are always helpers. Just keep showing up for yourself and it will all fall into place. You’ve got this!! 💖
Hey Brother, single dad here with a special needs kiddo. I had this vid pop up in suggested and RUclips has done myself and probably plenty of others a huge favour by doing so. I'm a huge advocate for speaking up, even more so for men, so you are doing a huge service to heaps of communities. A HUGE cheers! 🍻 I'm just getting back into camping myself so I'll be supporting ya all the way. My motto above all else - If you're not doing what makes you happy, then what on earth are you doing! So, keep on doing that.. ya love the outdoors, ya love Perth, (so do I), your vids make a difference and sharing your thoughts always helps. Always here for a chat if ya need another ear. ✌️
Rock on Marc you seem like a great dad. Men these days have it harder than ever. I lost my father in Law and my dad. My Dad most recently, 3 years ago. He was my best friend. I have 2 daughters and they are incredible so that really helps me.
When we embrace the change it makes it easier, focus on your channel you can make difference in someone else's life by sharing you're truth. My suggestion if I was you,work for now stay with that lady save your money, when she leaves quit your job and get to know yourself again, head to a area that's affordable and start again. People that jump into relationships quickly after ending one haven't healed, don't be hard on yourself, if she couldn't wait 3 months that shows you her commitment level to the connection..enjoy the ride. be flexible with change, most people freak out, reality is change is much better than staying in stagnate energy. Heal your heart and trust in process. .Let go of the idea you can't do it on you own, you can and you will. Best of luck buddy. Nothing is permanent remember that !😊
@@MomeGnome that's your opinion is it?,you are not being helpful, I mentioned he look for gold while being there,that's a way of garnering income,it earns you money, doesn't fall into the hobby bracket,maybe that is a way out, I don't know,until you actually are the father of a teenage son with a disability and don't have your own home or not much money like the both of us are going through I am sorry but you really wouldn't have any idea of our situation 🆗
You did NOTHING wrong. Any normal spouse would’ve said to go for 3 months as you’ve secured a job. It’s her loss, do not think you have done anything wrong at all.
Agreed; she wanted to live in the new area, so it made sense for him to start working in the new area and get established. Then she gets pissy about him not waiting 3 months before going to the new area? Come on.....that's some mind job.
Mate being away for 3 months is nothing. If that's all it's taken for her to leave, she probably isn't the most loyal person in the world. I get that there are always other things going on. Relationships are so bloody complicated and some other little things have probably compounded, but at the same time, 3 months away to try and get a head start on your new life together is nothing but a small amount of patience and support. If it wasnt now, then it would have been in a month, a year etc. Endure the sting and come out stronger for it. God bless brother, never apologise for following your dreams 👍
Do you really think that crap is helpful? No matter how you slice it, what he’s done has got him there. I understand you’re trying to be supportive but you’re actually just enabling. ‘If you you want more of what you’ve got, do more of what you’ve done’. He is 100% responsible for his situation, that’s the simple fact.
@@newforestpixie5297calling his wife “a cow” is not helpful at all. People fall apart. No matter what he cares about her so calling her names just makes him feel bad and defensive, so good for you for being that guy. It happens….obviously, she didn’t pack it in over 12 weeks.
Don't anybody say the RUclips algorithm doesn't work. Never seen your channel before but this video popped up. I've lost everything too. Home, car, dogs, job, belongings....basically my entire life. I have no kids and my family couldn't care less. Nightmares every night, wake up to shock at my reality every morning etc etc. And you're right, there is absolutely nothing worse than feeling completely alone on this planet. We'll be okay though man, we'll get back up there. Well done on making this video, you are crushing it!
Yeah same, i think it's because i've looked some outdoors/camping/construction videos that yours popped up and i'm happy to have seen it. It made me remember that happiness don't last forver so it's cool to enjoy it while it's last
Mate I listened to every word you said and I was touched by your raw honesty. It made me feel like you were talking directly to me. Your story is very similar to mine, and where your at is very similar to me. I can really empathise with you in your pain. I have tremendous respect for your honesty. I just subscribed after watching your this clip. Please keep us all in the loop.
As an Aussie Mum with a son who has Down Syndrome and Autism and who is currently going through treatment for brain cancer, thanks for keeping it real. Im on meds for anxiety and depression and youre right it doesnt stop the hits coming, but it helps me deal with them as best i can and keep moving forward. I hope you reach a happier place soon...you never know whats around the corner.
I’m also a mum with a child with down syndrome and Autism and another Tucson with Autism I’m so sorry to hear about your health. I’ve healthy issues but nothing compared to what you’re going through. :-(
Mate, this is the first time I have seen one of your videos which was just by chance. I can assure you it's not your fault at all. You did what any responsible person would have done in your situation. Now you have to bite the bullet again and go back for your son. He's your responsibility not your mates and you have to put his needs ahead of what you want at the moment. Once you have some stability and security in you and your son's life then you can reevaluate. Hopefully you will see this when you have your break and your head clears. Best wishes.
Yes mate This may not be want you want or need at the moment. But it seems like the best want or forward. You could get the job back or a job and settle in a different area in S.A. for a while to see how things go. Never be in a rush to live your life,as that's not really living. A. God Bless.
Firstly congratulations on the bravery to share this to the world. It takes immense courage. Secondly, I would go see the doctor. You might be amazed the additional clarity and personal resources you gain with appropriate support. Third and last, I am typically against people offering advice to people on the internet. I don't know the full situation and who makes me qualified. With that in mind, I do however agree with the comment I am replying to. There is no shame in going back to be with your so , rebuilding and then having another crack in a year or two.
Agree with this comment. Go back and you'll feel better being with your son and he'll feel better having you around also. It doesn't mean you've failed in trying to make a change in your life, the relationship breakdown wasn't part of the plan and threw you curve ball. Time to go back and regroup, get some stability for the time being and reduce the stress levels so you can think clearly again and then you'll find a way forward. Improvise, adapt and overcome. Best of luck
If a woman won’t work a hard as you have to get this far she’s not worth your time especially if she jumped straight into the arms of another! I look at relationships like this - Is it equal ? Do you get back what you give or do you have to give give give to maybe get something? Does she weaponise anything in your present relationship or from your past relationships, Don’t spend your life needing a partner I’m on my own after 4 serious relationships 6 kids, The damage family break ups family courts and greedy selfish people hav caused kills men ! It took me years of depression to realise I’m at my best alone, I make seriously great money cleaning and bird proofing solar panels for my self it’s crazy money ! Good luck reach out if you need. Cheers pj
You're not alone mate, theres many of us out here drowning in depression and financial difficulties and our families are suffering too. I'm so glad your video popped up in my feed. Keep being open and posting your progress. Don't give up. It's hard but you've taken the first step by reaching out. I'm glad you did. Answers might open up and maybe you can encourage many others as you go.
I met a writer/author when I was living in LA. I asked him, what is your most important advice for a story teller, writer. He told me, tell the real, the ugly, the hurt. It's what people can relate to. With you brother, I'm in the thick of it too.
Yehhhhhhh!!!!! The ugly, painful truth so needs to be shared… we’re such a wounded species 😢 the facade is sooooo damn boring! 😅this man is an absolute legend! May he be totally blessed… & you too eastongreen🥰🌟❤🌟
Man ,,All I Can Say is Stay strong,,,Don't Give up,,,WE All Go thru this Sort of stuff,,,And Its Fukn Hard !!,,,Much Respect for telling it like it is !!
AHD with your spelling I highly doubt you know exactly the prices of both. And he could sell his car? Maybe when he keeps going homeless his car is still a place he can always fall back on, a last resort maybe? Who says he’s driving it EVERY single day to use fuel? Assumptions.
Wow. I’ve never seen a video like this before. Possibly the best mental health advice I’ve seen. Your strength and courage to be so vulnerable is heartbreaking. I really do hope you weather this storm and see the sunshine and rainbow afterwards. You’re in a situation a lot of fathers find themselves in. Just by sharing you’ve made us realise we’re not suffering on our own. God bless you and enjoy your camping trip with your mate.
When my marriage fell apart I hit a wall so I went to see a mental health nurse, he told me how I was feeling was perfectly normal and if I didn’t feel like that he would be concerned. My relationship with my kids is better than ever and I have been with my partner now for 6 years married for nearly 1, it gets better mate. If you were looking after some bird and her 5 kids and she finds someone new in such a short time that says more about her than you. Accept the hard times and celebrate the good no matter how small and day by day it will get better, good luck
Yeah I’d take that as a huge load off my shoulders and now you’ve got more time and money to focus on himself and his kid and find a new partner that respects him
"If you were looking after some bird and her 5 kids and she finds someone new in such a short time that says more about her than you" I totally agree and it was something that stood out to me.
@@taiopaisley1928 lotta guys have been dry for so long that they are just tools for women who wet their willy. a good willy sucker will never be lonely, and will always search for the richest willy
Men need to hear this. We don't talk about it nearly enough. Good on you for having the courage to put it out there authentically. You've helped more people with this hard hitter than we'll ever know. All the best mate
My brother, ive lost everything more then once..and im still here and prospering😎 my point is, the mind is powerful, it controls the body, when your hard to deny, your chances greatly increase. The beautiful thing about a brokenheart, is what was inside. Kia kaha my bro❤
Thanks for speaking about it mate. My ex wife cheated with 7 other people and convinced my family I cheated on her and I got blamed. When I looked for help all I got told was to man up and get over it. You are a true man for sharing too help others.
@@perrrry That's a disgusting sexist comment, I'm an Aussie women and was cheated on probably up to 5 x times with different girls (one as young as 14 - omfg this is rape - she also had endured SA from her dad for years so was a little messed up re: relationships with men; as soon as I found out he'd been cheating and lying about his whole identity, I left). I had to get a restraining order against him when he falsely claimed I'd broke and entered his house, only to type a Word doco (?) on his PC. He also said he'd secretly filmed us being intimate and would post that online. I was only 18-19 at the time and had no experience in looking for psychopathic liars. Revenge porn, staling weren't crimes in 2011 (or so I was told). I was lucky he was too lazy to be really dangerous, he threatened to kill me, my dog, my family by burning down the house. I woke up my parents screaming in my sleep thinking he was on top of me, violating me (edit: he was outside, across the road, watching the house, breaking the restraining order but because of CHOGM, the police were too busy to enforce). Don't ever make such a sexist statement again. We all suffer from low-empathy, worthless people, no matter the gender.
@@skullsaintdeadI agree. However, I do think women are significantly less loyal in relationships. And when they cheat, there’s always an excuse ( there is absolutely no excuse for cheating) most guys at least own it, and take responsibility. Women always blame someone or something else. That is awful that happened to you. I’m so sorry you had to go through that .
@@skullsaintdead jesus calm down. Learn what the purpose behind a questionmark, and reading the first 5 lines of your comment you kinda imply there is some truth to it. " I'm an Aussie women and was cheated on probably up to 5 x times with different girls"
Dude, this is insane. You only moved there in the first place for family reasons. You’re very brave to speak so candidly. I hope everything works out for you ❤
I hope you read these comments. I’ve never watched any of your videos before and this video just popped up in my feed. I never comment either, but I want to share that you are not alone. Praying for you, Paul.
I gotta tell you, despite how you're feeling now.. posting a video like this and everything you have disclosed in the video shows tremendous strength and courage. Thank you for sharing. Hang in there.
You’ve got this! ❤ it may seem like everything has fallen apart but what I’ve always said is everything happens for a reason. I am proud that you’re taking the time to talk about it because so many of us are going through something similar to this but we sit in silence and hold it all in! Thank you for being brave and just know time heals everything and you are better off.
I'd never seen your channel pop up before now and I just wanted to comment and say how much appreciate you sharing this kind of thing, it's so important for men to talk about what's going on for them especially about costardy issues and struggling to be in kids lives, to have this demonstrated in a casual video is exactly what so many people need to see! All the best with your journey mate, you've got this so just keep on keeping on and don't isolate yourself completely for too long!
went through the same with my daughter didnt see her for 6 yrs, your son will come back and believe me it will be better, head up and sounds rough but keep doing what You want/need to do
Not sure if you'll read this mate. But I can give you one thing that you can do now that has always helped me out. At the end of each day just write down 3 good things that happened to you. Could be as simple as you saw an interesting bird when you were out walking that you've never seen before. Keep the positive thoughts flowing and you will be amazed what can change in a year
Thank you for posting this. You're not alone brother. I've lost not everything, but most everything too. Husband, step child, health, ability to do my nursing job, and thus ability to provide for myself. Extremely hard times but there is a way through. One day, one hour, one minute at a time. You're a brave man and I admire your honesty and vulnerability.
Thank you for your honesty and your bravery ❤ I hope your reset trip goes well. You may be alone in your struggle but you are not struggling alone. Sending positivity your way.
Same, I hadn’t seen any of your other videos, but stayed and watched until the end. I really appreciate the realness. It’s a rare thing to find these days. I can see a real joy and passion in what led you there, hold that close. Hoping this community can hold you up now!
I know this isn't for everyone, but I decided relatively early in my life not to get married/move in with anyone. Was just a personal choice, I still dated and had some pretty long-term relationships, but I've just seen marriage (or the equivalent of co-habiting) destroy so many men that I've known, both financially and emotionally, I just figured it wasn't for me. I really couldn't be happier to be honest. Luckily, I never had a major urge to have kids. When kids are involved, this whole calculation changes, but really with the right mindset I think living alone can be fantastic. Obviously if a relationship just ended, it's going to be rough going for a while, but yeah... Keep an open mind about it and don't be too hard on yourself. Men can be really hard on themselves, especially when they've convinced themselves they've failed their family. It's important to take responsibility, but men have a tendency to take on too much IMO.. Again, don't be too hard on yourself.
I’m in my 60’s. I’ve struggled with depression since my early teens. Life didn’t turn out the way I thought it would. I count my blessings though: I’ve been married for 40 years; I have a roof over my head; I have a steady job; I have positive people around me. I still struggle. I hope you find some answers on your 10 day trip with your friend. You’re not alone. Definitely not after this video. 👏🏻
I’m the same. I’m in my early 60s. I’ve had major depression since my late teens. My life took the rocky road. Nothing was easy. I think you have to appreciate what you do have. A roof over your head, food in your belly etc. it’s only now I’ll be able to do a bit of travel and spoil myself a bit but my health isn’t great anymore.
37 here, same boat. Got so many things I want to do in my head but always feel stuck. Definitely didn't turn out like I thought it would but you do have to try and look at the good stuff that's going on, even if life isn't what you want it to be
@@protocoldroid7388yeah when a 60 year old says since their teens it means “for a while”. Did it make you feel better? Sounds like you relate more than you’d let on if you just said nothing.
Man your comment made me sad, I've had more than a fair share of dark days mate, just remember life can turn upside down and leaves you feeling nothing but hopelessness but has a strange way of turning back around. Just don't go it alone share it with someone.
I get that feeling a lot. And man does it scare people (friends AND mental health professionals) when I say that I just want to sleep and not wake up until I'm 'well' in my head, my heart and my soul ! It's not that I don't want to be alive - I very much do! My desire IS to enjoy life AND to be able to be at peace and confident in my ability to cope in difficult times. I want to have the equanimity to embrace life's challenges and be able to make mindful decisions in the way I have in the past. But so often now there's a thick and discombobulating mental and emotional pall surrounding me. It envelops and attaches to me. It drags off me so heavily; it obscures my path and taints my objectivity so much that life seems unsolvable and overwhelming. I get so lost in that murkiness, so tired of trying to climb up and out into clarity, that I just want take a mental holiday. Take a time-out from the struggle and come back refreshed and in better shape to cope with everything. And I don't want to just sleep, because of the oppressive and vivid nightmares. I just want to switch off for a while, recharge, recover and then return to life, back in charge of my mental health.
Hey bro - really appreciate you speaking out, we need to talk about real sh*t more often rather than the social media gloss and fakery. I don’t have any answers for myself or anyone else, sadly, but all I can say we just have to keep getting up and going every day. You just don’t know what’s around the corner. Keep talking about things, it will help. Best wishes for you mate
Don’t take this the wrong way, but she was looking to end your relationship regardless of wether you left or not. A normal relationship would get over you being absent for 3 months, and her finding another partner quickly also suggests that had little to do with it either. It sounds like it was a convienent reason for her to blame you and get what she wanted. Absolutely not your fault at all, don’t let her twist it like it was.
Exactly what Instated above. She had the backup guy long before the 3 months. When the time came to choose not to be able to see that “other” guy she chose to brake it up.
100% agree with this - women are incredibly capable at twisting things to make men feel terrible. honestly mate you're well away from this one... she sounds awful 3 months is NOTHING
Women are extremely good at creating an excuse based on blaming the bloke. They'll never tell the truth that they just got sick of you. I know because I'm a woman.
I was a my rock bottom a year ago, thanks to people like you I came out of it, i am the happiest I have ever been in the last 20 years. I promise you that the same will happen to you. It's ok to not be ok. You are an inspiration to all men out there. Things will get better brother, stay strong. Sending love from 🇨🇦 Canada
Glad you’re doing better these days dude. I’m from Canada as well And I have to ask, is your username “landmine lieutenant” a reference to Celph Titled?
Traveling helps a lot! Even if you have nothing, starting fresh in a brand new place that no one knows you, going to a new church, joining a men’s group, or finding a new job helps tons. Be honest with your position, with the new people you meet, don’t be too proud to say you’re starting from scratch, etc. people will generally understand and try to help. I’m in a great place right now but God knows I’ve been in that spot so many damn times it’s depressing. You’re not the only one who’s been there, don’t be ashamed
Mate, so brave being open and vulnerable - starting the chat and showing you don't have to keep your struggles to yourself. You've got a community around you and shows if you reach out there will always be someone there to support you xx
@@DrGreenThumbNZLmate he made a video last year basically saying how broke he was and didn’t seek donations. He’s just trying to shed a light on men’s mental health.
Hey Paul it's Tim here from the old Big River days! Very sorry to hear about your current situation. One step in front of the other champ. You got this mate!
It sounds like you’re happiest when you’re out, camping and exploring, and making the videos to share with those of us who can’t do the same. There are people who would never see the beauty of nature except to your videos. Life has many high points and dark valleys. Follow your passion and head towards the light.
This is a very important video. You’ve shown people that you can be feeling down and hopeless but by sharing those thoughts, and taking time to clear your head, you can get through this. Such an important message for all of us, but guys especially. No one has the “perfect life”. There are great times, and there are shit times. That’s life. Thank you for sharing. First of your videos that I’ve seen. I’ve now subscribed, so I’m looking forward to hearing your updates. Good luck with finding your way through. You’ll get there. Sending lots of love from Qld Xx
You were chasing a dream, she didn’t have enough faith to wait. You don’t know me at all, but I’m proud you’re still here. Dealing with all that and you’re still here. I’m looking up to you! Please stay with us and not give up. You have our support
Thank you for sharing your innermost feelings and the things that many people are too scared to share. I am not super familiar with your channel but you have gained a new supporter. Even if you may feel physically alone at this time, there are 1000s of people on this channel who support you as a person. If necessary reaching out for counseling or other mental health support can be good too. You got this man bad times will always pass ❤
I just discovered your channel. This story is absolutely touching. You had a plan to better your families lives, and 3 months is no time. You coulda had a head start for everyone. But it didn’t work out. Stay in contact with your son daily, video call especially. Find side work, stack up cash, and socialize. Meet new people. I’m not religious, but listening to Dave Ramsey and dr John Delony helps me a lot.
I think you should look at this as a new chapter in your life, you have a nice camper set up, you have your freedom, and most importantly, you have your health. I lost my health to cancer, I'm ok after surgery, but left with disabilities, I can no longer do the things I love. If you have your health, you have everything you need.
Mate. I hit rock bottom 3 years ago. My partner of 6 years cheated on me with a close friend. I packed up and started again. I was also in a job that I didn't see a future in. Fast forward three years, I've just gotten engaged and am focusing on a new career that brings me fulfilment. I could never have seen where I am today, but I hope that you can keep moving on every day and just taking one step forward. Even just taking the step of sharing this with us is such a huge one to begin with. Much love mate
Sorry that you’re going through all this, brother! Praying that you find the change that you are after ❤ Thank you for trying to stay positive through the rough times. You are a legend and are loved!
@@Campingdownunderit’s true. I lost everything ten years ago. It hurts like nothing I ever experienced and still does if I let it. But life goes on regardless and you make the best of it. You will be fine, give it time and don’t dwell on it, don’t blame yourself and keep on doing what you love.
I 3rd this comment. It’s been my experience that closure of a life chapter allows a new chapter to commence. I encourage you to keep your exciting dream to work, live, and explore WA. May your new home be ‘just around the corner’ and within your budget. Thank you for sharing your raw feelings. May you be blessed by doing so.
@@MGTOWGreatestHits He did say it's on him for moving too quickly and not waiting. I watched his previous video about his kids and seems like he's selfless to a fault. He left his first wife who cheated on him from the start with so many men she couldn't count and left her two cars and all the house furniture so he started from scratch. He got another partner and started from scratch again I don't like the term man-up, but having some bloody self respect would've saved this guy a lot of money so he's not constantly on struggle street.I'd be fighting DHS tooth-and-nail if my ex was abusing my kids like that and I couldn't see them. I'd make her chase me for child support.
@@seanrawlinson Totally! It’s the pathetacism mode, sitting there whining like a baby about some rotten skank, leaving his own son with a friend, it’s a recipe for the situation he’s in. I’m a single dad with full time care of my son and we homeschool and we’re both so unbelievably happy with that, our energy and resources go to that, I’m not chasing dirty cheating whores or letting anyone cuck me or take my time, energy or finances away from us, and that must be number one priority. He should be thinking more like this particularly given how finite his resources are.
I'm not really in to camping, but I stumbled across this video when you first posted it. I just spent the last 40 minutes trying to find it again to check in and see how you're doing. I hope you're doing okay ❤
I'm doing a lot better thank you. Not much has changed with my situation besides I've moved into a more stable share house. But I'm staying positive that things will improve 😀
It's a brave thing to spill your guts online to strangers. You have a lot to gain from these experiences, and I believe that you will look back at this time and will be glad it turned out in your favor. Thanks for sharing 😌
Thank you for being so brave and talk about your personal struggles. As a serving law enforcement officer, we had yet lost another member to suicide just days ago. Please keep moving forward and just believe everything will work out! They just WILL. Please don’t stop fighting for those you love and love you. ❤
Hey mate, I lost my son last year. He was addicted for years prior to that. Just hang in there mate, dig down for that next bit of positively. Things get better bit by bit, you are right we are not alone. There is always hope, always. Thank you so much for sharing! I lost a son, it is the most unimaginable emptiness and permanent thing I have experienced. You have yours, even though right now you are not together. Things will change, just keep on the course. We sometimes have to appreciate the things we have to help us through the very rough times.
Never seen your stuff before, just popped up on my homepage. I hope this burst of views gives you the momentum needed to push through this bad time. Brave video. All the best.
Hello from New Zealand. Kudos to you for finding the energy and courage to make this content. It will surely help others, especially men, who often find it difficult to reach out. Im happy to hear you received a lot of support. Keep going, don't give up, and just know there will be a way to be with your son again.
I really enjoyed watching this. I finally realised that I am not the only one going through this. I am in the exact same situation. Yet I am now 50 years old. The depression and anxiety are so full on! I spend most days contemplating which tree is the strongest, for my body weight It’s taken balls to publish this!
Please seek help mate. I know you probably have but I don't know what else to say. Please don't follow through with the permanent solution . You never know what is round the corner and there is no coming back from suicide. It's painful I understand but please stay in the fight.
Thank you for sharing your story. You don't know how important it can be for someone experiencing something similar to be able to hear it from someone with a platform what they're going through. Continue to share your story and just know that you are the voice for many. ✌
Thankyou for sharing your story, so sorry to hear that your at your lowest point. You haven't lost everything though , you have air in your lungs you have got our beautiful country to explore and the freedom to go where ever you want, YOU will find a way to make things happen and feel whole again. My motto I live by every day is. A set back is a set up for an even greater comeback, so this is just a set back for bigger things to come. Stay positive always and manifest great things, You have got this. God bless and take care.
You’ve inspired me to help more people and to check in on my mates more often. Thank you! I hope things change and your situation improves man, I really do
I spent decades battling depression. Good on ya for being vulnerable. It helps. My key to handling depression is faith, turn to God when you feel alone. Bless you brother, you got this.
What a great video. Was feeling like shit today, knowing I'm not alone helps alot. I miss my son so much it hurts, I feel ya pain my friend. Stay strong.
Oh my God mate....I feel for you....I'm a 62 year old lady lived in my little motorhome for 5 years now after 20 year relationship breakdown...and boy do I feel lonely, depressed and don't know what to do sometimes but I do try to be positive and look at what I've got...wish I had someone to share my love of travelling Australia and nature also. You're only young...make the most of it...I'm sure things will get better for you....don't worry be happy...turn the music up and SING....(no sad songs tho) ❤
I appreciate the comment 👍 I'm glad to see your making the most of your situation and staying positive aswell. I always try and stay positive. But it's pretty hard sometimes
Thanks for sharing your story and helping others to know they are not alone. Your video came as a random recommendation but has really touched my heart. God wants you to know that He loves you and understands your struggles. Hang in there mate, I am praying that things look up for you ❤
I am absolutely not a camper or remotely interested in camping but for some reason I got this video on my feed. Take care mate, keep your head up. I respect that you take responsibility for your part but it honestly doesn't seem like you did a lot wrong. And about taking meds: they are not about changing your circumstances, see them as a crutch if you suffer from anxiety. All the best, just hang in there!!
Any blokes priority is to secure an income for their family, you made the right decision. Stop the doom. Keep fit keep fighting. You sound persistent, you can talk well and you’re doing something. Keep looking for answers - they are out there! Good luck.
Sometimes, one day at a time is all that you can manage, and that’s alright. Don’t beat yourself up. In my hard times I’ve often had to remind myself “This too, shall pass”, and eventually, it does. Wishing you well, brother.
Mate, you sound incredibly humble despite your predicament. Haven't been following you for long, but it does sound like you will find a solution. Take my hat off to you for wearing your heart on your sleeve. Wish you all the best.
Hey dude. Sounds like a pretty woeful situation you've found yourself in. I think you hit the nail on the head with the idea of moving back to get yourself back to a stable and reliable situation. The "same" is not always such a negative thing. Especially when you're trying to fix issues as fragile as yours. I used to post fairly similar content and cover similar issues but deleted the lot because I felt so much shame and weakness from it. It is not easy or natural for a lot of people to be that open or vulnerable. Whatever you do decide, sounds like you've got some great humans in your life that you can chat with and vent to. That's a huge asset you have. Take good care of yourself and your boy.
Thanks for sharing your story, this is probably the video I needed to see right now at this very moment. I'm a Kiwi that moved to New York (to be with my wife) and things haven't been plain sailing to say the least. The fact that I am 9000 miles away from home, without anyone I can call my mate is frustrating. Your video (that I stumbled upon) actually made me pick up the phone and organize a consultation. For that, I am very grateful.
Best wishes bud, you've taken some hard knocks, but I see strength in you to overcome the adversity and raise yourself up. I lost my son seven years ago, and at times, the pain and heartbreak can overwhelm you, but we have to keep searching for the happy times ahead and dig deep for our inner strength. Greetings from South Africa
My 10 year relationship has just ended mate. I moved out of the family home and into my campervan just after the New Year, so I can totally relate to how you must be feeling. Keep moving forward, things WILL get better, trust me. Hey, they can't get any worse for either of us can they! I've suffered with depression my entire adult life and I'll be starting counselling on Monday. I'm also joining the local gym, as exercise has always helped in the past for me. Small steps forward is all we take right now matey 💪
My parents separated when I was 8, it’s been a long time now and my parents are able to be in the same house now thankfully. They are now doing much better, my mom shattered my dads whole world. I can promise you ten years later they are both doing well and level headed enough to live in the same house for me instead of moving back to the city. It will get better♥️ I’m proud of you for continuing to move forward. I wish you the very best in your life to come.
Well done it’s good to have a plan. Man or woman this stuff is hard. Sadly it’s socially easier for women to open up than men, good on you for your courage. Hoping for the best for you.
councelling does sht.. learn from what happened.. do what you want with your life, fk them.. so many guys, friends, commited suicide, because of women.. fk that..leave, start again. you cant see in there head, they allways have alterior motives.. they win all the time. back in the 70,s. to claim ''madnes'', kill your wife, it was 3 yrs jail.. not now, there protected.. they dont realise, without men,,nothing happens.. girl friend said ,70,s, whats the most important thing in your life,, i said,, my car,, she said, what about me,, i said,,no car,, no you.. work it out..
Only found your channel today. First video I am watching. Struck a chord with me. The employment situation in W.A is very weird. All you hear is the shortage of manpower and endless jobs. The reality is, I've been unemployed in WA twice , and once unemployed and over 40, bizarrely becomes difficult to near impossible to find work. Also went through a very messy divorce , during which, my job was also made redundant. Very tough times indeed. All the best , regards Rich
Sharing the hard stuff and asking for help is the beginning of the healing process. Keep it up and thanks for sharing. I am hoping for some better days for you!
You've done everything right mate, 3 months is a very short period especially to move so far, secure a job and a house under the current circumstances. Just focus on yourself now and let your future find you.
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Thank you so much for this overwhelming support from everyone 🙏 I'm truly blown away by how many people have reached out & commented. I can't explain how much it all means to me. Especially those people who even helped me by becoming patreons. That support means more to me than I can put into words. Sorry if I can't reply to every comment. I'm doing my best but I wasn't expecting this much support ❤️ I wasn't expecting any help or support. I purely made this to help others speak out about what they may be going through but too afraid to speak up. As you've seen from this video if I can do it for the world to see don't be embarrassed confiding in a mate 👍
Hey mate I've sent you a msg on Facebook
Hopefully I responded to it. I've responded to all the messages I can see on Facebook 👍@@lifestyledownunderadventur5456
You said this is nothing compared to what you've been through in the past. As a man in my late 60's who's certainly seen the ups and downs of life, my advice is to use what you've been through in the past to draw strength from to handle what you are now facing. You've done it before so you know what you are capable of mate, and can do it again.
You have to go to your son. That will fill the voids, give your life purpose, and the payoff is the love you'll get in return. The joy thats missing is giving back, that's why sharing and helping with this video feels good. Give back to your son. He needs you and you need him.@Campingdownunder
Hey mate I know life’s hard right now but keep pushing keep trying, life’s not easy but your situation is temporary and things will get better.
Hang in there. I lost everything at 60 and wasn't sure what I was going to do. I had already retired on just a partial pension and had health issues that prevented me from returning to work. It was a terrible 2 years sorting everything out, but now at 67 I have to say I have never been happier in my whole life. You are never too old to begin from where you are. You have your rv, you are still young, you have a job. Why throw your money away on a house? Nothing wrong with renting a room and spending most of your time travelling. It is your time, follow your dreams, travel, explore. Maybe in time your son will see what an adventure your life is and want to join you camping. Hang in, it gets better, I promise.
My hometown was hit with a suicide of a 38 year old this week. Seeing you sharing your struggles means so much more than you could possibly know. Thank you.
Your channel has been around since 2006. This video that you've posted 6 days ago has more views than any other video you've made. That's a lot of love and support brother. Keep on going!
I lost everything at age 57 and was left with a heap of debt. Sounds like she was never going to move anyway and probably had someone else in the pipeline. All I can say is respect for putting this together. Keep your head up brother and just keep moving forward one day at a time.
My exact thoughts too.
This was my thoughts also she 100% was seeing someone
No doubt she will be back once his channel blows up
Nah mate you don’t have to take responsibility for anything. You made a big move to better your family, if she folded after 3 months that speaks volumes about her and not you. You seem like a really great bloke, and you’re so brave to speak about your feelings. No idea why I was recommended this but you’ve gained a subscriber! Take this opportunity to explore and take everything in freely. Look forward to updates and hope things get better
Plus she has 5 kids... faaack that 😅 the man dodged a bullet
Agree 100%
Same, new sub
Agree, woman fold all the time if things get a bit harder.
And another one. Nothing wrong with any decisions you made. Folding after 3 months like most have said is your ex loss.
I’m nearly 40 and have been through some shit. Videos like this are really important because it shows real life and its ups and downs. When you’re going through hell, keep going!
Yeah it's a pretty shit club to be a part of, unfortunately more and more of us are joining every day.
Me too brother
This guy is smoking meth.
Almost 40. Fucked up a lot.
@AHD2105 Sell his vehicle which helps him get a bit of income? And you think you can get a decent house for a Hilux? Is this what they call girl math?
Dude, the courage to film this and go through all this and still keep going. This is the beginning of a big triumph, for sure.
Wait, 3 mths she ended it AND found someone else?? Mate, you are NOT the problem! Hope things turn out for the best for you. Hang in there 💞
seriously! with 5 kids as well! Gross
Yeah, I can't roll my eyes hard enough at her 🙄
Technically she was already cheating on him.
So she just jumped ship.
Poor guy, sounds like he's better off without her. @@the-based-jew6872
who are already popping out kids of their own@@GillianMulholland
The fact that she found someone so fast tells you everything. You can be something great.
Seems liked she literally had someone on the sideline just waiting for you to go peacefully
@@daronykoy8244 i was thinking the same thing. She is blaming you so she can keep her secret unoticed and play victim.
Women won't divorce unless they've already got someone else lined up and ready to go. Impossible to have a committed relationship while that's secretly going on.
She lined his replacement up long before he made the move to do this. I feel for this man, I've seen it happen to a friend and it's probably the greatest act of betrayal I've ever witnessed. @@daronykoy8244
Perhaps, it also doesn’t take ppl long to fall in love if they’re emotionally needy. Choose your partner wisely
I don't think you realize how many men needed to hear you. As a young man myself, I can speak for many of us...Thank you for opening up in a world where, as men, we are unconsciously told to hide our worries and "be strong". Life is extremely hard, and it feels like we are expected to be these dull rocks, and that we shouldn't show any of our emotional depth. We need brothers like you in our lives to share with. Thank you.
I'm not a camper....but this video popped up and I'm suffering terribly from depression. So you've got a new subscriber. I'm happy to watch and hope for your upswing to happen soon.
So sorry to hear you are suffering from depression. My wife also has depression and I just feel helpless. I really hope you get better, sending you all my love!
Go see a doctor they can really help 👌
We dont belong here, even through your depression youre thinking of someone elses well being. youre an angel, and Jesus is calling you.....just listen. I love you and i pray that you hear Him.
Try Ketamine therapy. I was severely depressed for 3 years and I was cured after 4 treatments. It's expensive, but worth it.
Stop watching yt. It makes you more depressed
This is the first time I've come across your channel but wow I'm seriously touched by your candor. Thank you for expressing these feelings that so many of us experience but often struggle to articulate. Great thing that you're doing for the community, we're all connected by our love of seeing these parts of Australia but also all have experiences in life that can obscure the beauty of it. Gonna be following your story from now on and have no doubt that with this sort of attitude you'll land on your feet and find that stability again. Much love
Farrk mate I feel for you. My wife left a 28 year marriage and 3 kids to find the spark. Lost everything including all future dreams . Bought a caravan, no rent al dramas or expense, live on my own now, won’t ever rely on someone else to provide happiness. Been 6 years now and gets better every day. Hang in there bud 🤙
Sorry to hear that mate. This is the third time I've started from scratch with nothing. It bloody sucks. Glad to hear things improved for you. I'd actually prefer living out of a caravan than a house. At least your free to travel where ever you like & find work anywhere 👍
@@Campingdownunder yeah that’s right. Rent’s cheap, bout $100-120/week electricity included, no bond no rent in advance no lease. There’s always something going on in parks, keeps you from dropping off the radar. It’s your own house you can do what you want when you want. I personally would think about heading back to the parents for a bit and set yourself up for your new adventure. And spend some time alone to process what’s gone down. Don’t put too much faith in the modern woman. If they’re single at this age they’re meant to be. There’s a lot of information out there by both male and female psychologists on how the female mind works. Do a little research, accept any faults of your own, you’ll no doubt find some peace of mind. If your crazy enough to have another go at least you’ll no what red flags to look for. It’s hard to come up with a plan when your devastated but that worked for me and looking back on 6 years I don’t think I could do anything better. Best of luck and stay strong 🤙
Good for you buddy. Can’t wait to get back on the road again in my van. 🇦🇺
@@Campingdownunder sounds like you answered your own question. A caravan could work for you and your son while you decide what you want to do next.
@@scooterdude2030 i agree with you, older single women are single for a reason. i call them R.U.O.s ... recreational use only.
The moment you realise you don't need anyone to be happy is the moment you'll start feeling better, Wishing you all the strength in these hard times.
Very true.
I would disagree. Evidence shows people are the biggest healers for mental health. Loneliness is more damaging to your health than smoking.
You need one or two people you can see every week just for enjoyment.
A minority of people can do the hermitd life, but not many.
@@MrZoomah Have to agree there, even introverts need to be around people, just less than normal. I find I can't be around too many people but I also can't be alone for too long. It's a balance.
Exactly ..it's not good to be sooo needy ....
There's some truth to what both you and the OP says. Humans do feel best when we have a close circle of peers. But too many people are not happy with themselves, and look for happiness from others. 'I will be happy when I get a girlfriend/boyfriend'. That is a surefire way to have a TOXIC relationship. To only be happy because of someone else, is to leech their happiness. These people jump from relationship to relationship as in, they're not single for a long time at all. Which imo sounds like what Camping Downunder's Ex is like.
To derive your happiness from another and not yourself, means you will sap their happiness. How can you truly love someone else if you don't love yourself first? The answer is, painfully.@@MrZoomah
As a 30 year old man this hits really hard. Thank you for being open and showing that this is real life.
At 30 You're just beginning to live. There's so much ahead of you; you have no idea.
Happy Trails. 👍👍
Amazing share. Single mom and psychologist so I get where you’re coming from on so many levels. It will change, there are always choices.. And there are always helpers. Just keep showing up for yourself and it will all fall into place. You’ve got this!! 💖
Hey Brother, single dad here with a special needs kiddo. I had this vid pop up in suggested and RUclips has done myself and probably plenty of others a huge favour by doing so. I'm a huge advocate for speaking up, even more so for men, so you are doing a huge service to heaps of communities. A HUGE cheers! 🍻 I'm just getting back into camping myself so I'll be supporting ya all the way. My motto above all else - If you're not doing what makes you happy, then what on earth are you doing! So, keep on doing that.. ya love the outdoors, ya love Perth, (so do I), your vids make a difference and sharing your thoughts always helps. Always here for a chat if ya need another ear. ✌️
Rock on Marc you seem like a great dad. Men these days have it harder than ever. I lost my father in Law and my dad. My Dad most recently, 3 years ago. He was my best friend. I have 2 daughters and they are incredible so that really helps me.
When we embrace the change it makes it easier, focus on your channel you can make difference in someone else's life by sharing you're truth. My suggestion if I was you,work for now stay with that lady save your money, when she leaves quit your job and get to know yourself again, head to a area that's affordable and start again. People that jump into relationships quickly after ending one haven't healed, don't be hard on yourself, if she couldn't wait 3 months that shows you her commitment level to the connection..enjoy the ride. be flexible with change, most people freak out, reality is change is much better than staying in stagnate energy. Heal your heart and trust in process. .Let go of the idea you can't do it on you own, you can and you will. Best of luck buddy. Nothing is permanent remember that !😊
Single dad too. Have to tornados at home. Kudos for you. And keep it up
Yeah Marc, I am a single father with a young bloke who has cerebral palsy, sometimes life throws you curve balls but you gotta do what you gotta do
@@MomeGnome that's your opinion is it?,you are not being helpful, I mentioned he look for gold while being there,that's a way of garnering income,it earns you money, doesn't fall into the hobby bracket,maybe that is a way out, I don't know,until you actually are the father of a teenage son with a disability and don't have your own home or not much money like the both of us are going through I am sorry but you really wouldn't have any idea of our situation 🆗
You did NOTHING wrong. Any normal spouse would’ve said to go for 3 months as you’ve secured a job. It’s her loss, do not think you have done anything wrong at all.
Agreed; she wanted to live in the new area, so it made sense for him to start working in the new area and get established.
Then she gets pissy about him not waiting 3 months before going to the new area? Come on.....that's some mind job.
yes 12 weeks soon goes for gods sake. cow .
Mate being away for 3 months is nothing. If that's all it's taken for her to leave, she probably isn't the most loyal person in the world.
I get that there are always other things going on. Relationships are so bloody complicated and some other little things have probably compounded, but at the same time, 3 months away to try and get a head start on your new life together is nothing but a small amount of patience and support.
If it wasnt now, then it would have been in a month, a year etc. Endure the sting and come out stronger for it.
God bless brother, never apologise for following your dreams 👍
Do you really think that crap is helpful? No matter how you slice it, what he’s done has got him there. I understand you’re trying to be supportive but you’re actually just enabling. ‘If you you want more of what you’ve got, do more of what you’ve done’. He is 100% responsible for his situation, that’s the simple fact.
@@newforestpixie5297calling his wife “a cow” is not helpful at all. People fall apart. No matter what he cares about her so calling her names just makes him feel bad and defensive, so good for you for being that guy. It happens….obviously, she didn’t pack it in over 12 weeks.
Don't anybody say the RUclips algorithm doesn't work. Never seen your channel before but this video popped up. I've lost everything too. Home, car, dogs, job, belongings....basically my entire life. I have no kids and my family couldn't care less. Nightmares every night, wake up to shock at my reality every morning etc etc. And you're right, there is absolutely nothing worse than feeling completely alone on this planet. We'll be okay though man, we'll get back up there. Well done on making this video, you are crushing it!
Yeah same, i think it's because i've looked some outdoors/camping/construction videos that yours popped up and i'm happy to have seen it. It made me remember that happiness don't last forver so it's cool to enjoy it while it's last
How about we start a TG channel for our sorry asses and work together to get filthy rich?
@@MarketingStrategies28 what's TG?
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Mate I listened to every word you said and I was touched by your raw honesty. It made me feel like you were talking directly to me. Your story is very similar to mine, and where your at is very similar to me. I can really empathise with you in your pain. I have tremendous respect for your honesty. I just subscribed after watching your this clip. Please keep us all in the loop.
I also just subscribed because of the courage and vulnerability it took to make this video.
Everybody loves a good comeback story. Keep going and don't give up!
As an Aussie Mum with a son who has Down Syndrome and Autism and who is currently going through treatment for brain cancer, thanks for keeping it real. Im on meds for anxiety and depression and youre right it doesnt stop the hits coming, but it helps me deal with them as best i can and keep moving forward. I hope you reach a happier place soon...you never know whats around the corner.
Stay strong
I’m so sorry, you have so much on your plate. Blessings to you and your dear son. 💕
I’m also a mum with a child with down syndrome and Autism and another Tucson with Autism I’m so sorry to hear about your health. I’ve healthy issues but nothing compared to what you’re going through. :-(
Self sacrifice is the purest form of love there is.❤ You should be very proud of your character.
May God give you strength, answers and help.
Mate, this is the first time I have seen one of your videos which was just by chance. I can assure you it's not your fault at all. You did what any responsible person would have done in your situation. Now you have to bite the bullet again and go back for your son. He's your responsibility not your mates and you have to put his needs ahead of what you want at the moment. Once you have some stability and security in you and your son's life then you can reevaluate. Hopefully you will see this when you have your break and your head clears. Best wishes.
this is the correct answer
I agree. This is the way forward.
Yes mate This may not be want you want or need at the moment. But it seems like the best want or forward. You could get the job back or a job and settle in a different area in S.A. for a while to see how things go. Never be in a rush to live your life,as that's not really living. A. God Bless.
Firstly congratulations on the bravery to share this to the world. It takes immense courage.
Secondly, I would go see the doctor. You might be amazed the additional clarity and personal resources you gain with appropriate support.
Third and last, I am typically against people offering advice to people on the internet. I don't know the full situation and who makes me qualified. With that in mind, I do however agree with the comment I am replying to. There is no shame in going back to be with your so , rebuilding and then having another crack in a year or two.
Agree with this comment. Go back and you'll feel better being with your son and he'll feel better having you around also. It doesn't mean you've failed in trying to make a change in your life, the relationship breakdown wasn't part of the plan and threw you curve ball. Time to go back and regroup, get some stability for the time being and reduce the stress levels so you can think clearly again and then you'll find a way forward. Improvise, adapt and overcome. Best of luck
It takes a real man to express his true feelings.
If a woman won’t work a hard as you have to get this far she’s not worth your time especially if she jumped straight into the arms of another!
I look at relationships like this -
Is it equal ? Do you get back what you give or do you have to give give give to maybe get something?
Does she weaponise anything in your present relationship or from your past relationships,
Don’t spend your life needing a partner I’m on my own after 4 serious relationships 6 kids,
The damage family break ups family courts and greedy selfish people hav caused kills men !
It took me years of depression to realise I’m at my best alone,
I make seriously great money cleaning and bird proofing solar panels for my self it’s crazy money !
Good luck reach out if you need.
Cheers pj
You're not alone mate, theres many of us out here drowning in depression and financial difficulties and our families are suffering too. I'm so glad your video popped up in my feed. Keep being open and posting your progress. Don't give up. It's hard but you've taken the first step by reaching out. I'm glad you did. Answers might open up and maybe you can encourage many others as you go.
I met a writer/author when I was living in LA. I asked him, what is your most important advice for a story teller, writer. He told me, tell the real, the ugly, the hurt. It's what people can relate to. With you brother, I'm in the thick of it too.
Yehhhhhhh!!!!! The ugly, painful truth so needs to be shared… we’re such a wounded species 😢 the facade is sooooo damn boring! 😅this man is an absolute legend! May he be totally blessed… & you too eastongreen🥰🌟❤🌟
Man ,,All I Can Say is Stay strong,,,Don't Give up,,,WE All Go thru this Sort of stuff,,,And Its Fukn Hard !!,,,Much Respect for telling it like it is !!
Hang in there mate. We all here to support you ❤
Mate don’t ever stop making these vids. Your helping so many people.. you could be saving someone’s life.
I'm already feeling more positive after watching it
Don't be selfish dude
AHD with your spelling I highly doubt you know exactly the prices of both. And he could sell his car? Maybe when he keeps going homeless his car is still a place he can always fall back on, a last resort maybe? Who says he’s driving it EVERY single day to use fuel? Assumptions.
Wow. I’ve never seen a video like this before. Possibly the best mental health advice I’ve seen. Your strength and courage to be so vulnerable is heartbreaking. I really do hope you weather this storm and see the sunshine and rainbow afterwards. You’re in a situation a lot of fathers find themselves in. Just by sharing you’ve made us realise we’re not suffering on our own. God bless you and enjoy your camping trip with your mate.
When my marriage fell apart I hit a wall so I went to see a mental health nurse, he told me how I was feeling was perfectly normal and if I didn’t feel like that he would be concerned. My relationship with my kids is better than ever and I have been with my partner now for 6 years married for nearly 1, it gets better mate. If you were looking after some bird and her 5 kids and she finds someone new in such a short time that says more about her than you. Accept the hard times and celebrate the good no matter how small and day by day it will get better, good luck
Yeah I’d take that as a huge load off my shoulders and now you’ve got more time and money to focus on himself and his kid and find a new partner that respects him
@@goseone412 absolutely
"If you were looking after some bird and her 5 kids and she finds someone new in such a short time that says more about her than you" I totally agree and it was something that stood out to me.
Year thats so fucking quick she must be a supermodel
@@taiopaisley1928 lotta guys have been dry for so long that they are just tools for women who wet their willy.
a good willy sucker will never be lonely, and will always search for the richest willy
Men need to hear this. We don't talk about it nearly enough. Good on you for having the courage to put it out there authentically. You've helped more people with this hard hitter than we'll ever know. All the best mate
This video shows how strong you really are. The Universe will provide, and you have all of us cheering you on.
My brother, ive lost everything more then once..and im still here and prospering😎 my point is, the mind is powerful, it controls the body, when your hard to deny, your chances greatly increase. The beautiful thing about a brokenheart, is what was inside. Kia kaha my bro❤
Thanks for speaking about it mate. My ex wife cheated with 7 other people and convinced my family I cheated on her and I got blamed. When I looked for help all I got told was to man up and get over it. You are a true man for sharing too help others.
Australian women knows absolutely nothing about loyality do they?
Is your name David by any chance? Its just that youve described someone I know.
@@perrrry That's a disgusting sexist comment, I'm an Aussie women and was cheated on probably up to 5 x times with different girls (one as young as 14 - omfg this is rape - she also had endured SA from her dad for years so was a little messed up re: relationships with men; as soon as I found out he'd been cheating and lying about his whole identity, I left). I had to get a restraining order against him when he falsely claimed I'd broke and entered his house, only to type a Word doco (?) on his PC. He also said he'd secretly filmed us being intimate and would post that online. I was only 18-19 at the time and had no experience in looking for psychopathic liars. Revenge porn, staling weren't crimes in 2011 (or so I was told). I was lucky he was too lazy to be really dangerous, he threatened to kill me, my dog, my family by burning down the house. I woke up my parents screaming in my sleep thinking he was on top of me, violating me (edit: he was outside, across the road, watching the house, breaking the restraining order but because of CHOGM, the police were too busy to enforce). Don't ever make such a sexist statement again. We all suffer from low-empathy, worthless people, no matter the gender.
@@skullsaintdeadI agree. However, I do think women are significantly less loyal in relationships. And when they cheat, there’s always an excuse ( there is absolutely no excuse for cheating) most guys at least own it, and take responsibility. Women always blame someone or something else. That is awful that happened to you. I’m so sorry you had to go through that .
@@skullsaintdead jesus calm down. Learn what the purpose behind a questionmark, and reading the first 5 lines of your comment you kinda imply there is some truth to it. " I'm an Aussie women and was cheated on probably up to 5 x times with different girls"
Dude, this is insane. You only moved there in the first place for family reasons. You’re very brave to speak so candidly. I hope everything works out for you ❤
I hope you read these comments. I’ve never watched any of your videos before and this video just popped up in my feed. I never comment either, but I want to share that you are not alone. Praying for you, Paul.
I gotta tell you, despite how you're feeling now.. posting a video like this and everything you have disclosed in the video shows tremendous strength and courage. Thank you for sharing. Hang in there.
You’ve got this! ❤ it may seem like everything has fallen apart but what I’ve always said is everything happens for a reason. I am proud that you’re taking the time to talk about it because so many of us are going through something similar to this but we sit in silence and hold it all in! Thank you for being brave and just know time heals everything and you are better off.
I'd never seen your channel pop up before now and I just wanted to comment and say how much appreciate you sharing this kind of thing, it's so important for men to talk about what's going on for them especially about costardy issues and struggling to be in kids lives, to have this demonstrated in a casual video is exactly what so many people need to see! All the best with your journey mate, you've got this so just keep on keeping on and don't isolate yourself completely for too long!
You aint lost everything, you've gained your freedom back.
and that expensive truck
@@terrytownsend5583 Wow, you really didn't get the point of this video, did you?!
Ìve been happily married for 14 years and I'm really free my wife has never stopped me doing anything
Classic reply from a teen.
@catsandcrafts171
..honestly, the uploader need to stop chasing females... he can't afford to live but has no intrest on working....🤦♂️
As a fellow SA I appreciate what you’ve done, I’m living in NSW now and married. I sometimes suffer from depression and you’re not alone mate.
went through the same with my daughter didnt see her for 6 yrs, your son will come back and believe me it will be better, head up and sounds rough but keep doing what You want/need to do
It sounds like you’ve had a lucky escape ….things will get better ❤🏴
Absolutely what I was thinking
Not sure if you'll read this mate. But I can give you one thing that you can do now that has always helped me out. At the end of each day just write down 3 good things that happened to you. Could be as simple as you saw an interesting bird when you were out walking that you've never seen before. Keep the positive thoughts flowing and you will be amazed what can change in a year
Great Advice 👌👌
Agree 100%
This is great advice and amazingly powerful to reset your mindset.
Thank you for posting this. You're not alone brother. I've lost not everything, but most everything too. Husband, step child, health, ability to do my nursing job, and thus ability to provide for myself. Extremely hard times but there is a way through. One day, one hour, one minute at a time. You're a brave man and I admire your honesty and vulnerability.
Please keep in close contact to the people that you care about. It's the hardest thing to do but the best
❤❤❤ stay strong 💪
Thank you for your honesty and your bravery ❤ I hope your reset trip goes well. You may be alone in your struggle but you are not struggling alone. Sending positivity your way.
First time I’ve come across you and I sat and watched this. Very touching, keep pushing mate. All the best
Same, I hadn’t seen any of your other videos, but stayed and watched until the end. I really appreciate the realness. It’s a rare thing to find these days. I can see a real joy and passion in what led you there, hold that close. Hoping this community can hold you up now!
I’m in my 60s and the last 13 years I’ve been on my own. It’s been the happiest time of my life once you get used to it
I know this isn't for everyone, but I decided relatively early in my life not to get married/move in with anyone. Was just a personal choice, I still dated and had some pretty long-term relationships, but I've just seen marriage (or the equivalent of co-habiting) destroy so many men that I've known, both financially and emotionally, I just figured it wasn't for me. I really couldn't be happier to be honest. Luckily, I never had a major urge to have kids. When kids are involved, this whole calculation changes, but really with the right mindset I think living alone can be fantastic. Obviously if a relationship just ended, it's going to be rough going for a while, but yeah... Keep an open mind about it and don't be too hard on yourself. Men can be really hard on themselves, especially when they've convinced themselves they've failed their family. It's important to take responsibility, but men have a tendency to take on too much IMO.. Again, don't be too hard on yourself.
me too, 66.. love it.. i think for me,, not them..
10 more years big daddy, you will soon have to meet your maker.
I’m in my 60’s. I’ve struggled with depression since my early teens. Life didn’t turn out the way I thought it would. I count my blessings though: I’ve been married for 40 years; I have a roof over my head; I have a steady job; I have positive people around me. I still struggle. I hope you find some answers on your 10 day trip with your friend. You’re not alone. Definitely not after this video. 👏🏻
I’m the same. I’m in my early 60s. I’ve had major depression since my late teens. My life took the rocky road. Nothing was easy. I think you have to appreciate what you do have. A roof over your head, food in your belly etc. it’s only now I’ll be able to do a bit of travel and spoil myself a bit but my health isn’t great anymore.
Are you sure or did some woke doctor just tell you you had "depression" when you were down for a while?
I'm 40 and struggling hard with anxiety and depression
37 here, same boat. Got so many things I want to do in my head but always feel stuck. Definitely didn't turn out like I thought it would but you do have to try and look at the good stuff that's going on, even if life isn't what you want it to be
@@protocoldroid7388yeah when a 60 year old says since their teens it means “for a while”.
Did it make you feel better? Sounds like you relate more than you’d let on if you just said nothing.
I really needed this. I'm in such a dark space and feel like I've lost everything. Often I hate waking up
Man your comment made me sad, I've had more than a fair share of dark days mate, just remember life can turn upside down and leaves you feeling nothing but hopelessness but has a strange way of turning back around. Just don't go it alone share it with someone.
I get that feeling a lot. And man does it scare people (friends AND mental health professionals) when I say that I just want to sleep and not wake up until I'm 'well' in my head, my heart and my soul ! It's not that I don't want to be alive - I very much do! My desire IS to enjoy life AND to be able to be at peace and confident in my ability to cope in difficult times. I want to have the equanimity to embrace life's challenges and be able to make mindful decisions in the way I have in the past. But so often now there's a thick and discombobulating mental and emotional pall surrounding me. It envelops and attaches to me. It drags off me so heavily; it obscures my path and taints my objectivity so much that life seems unsolvable and overwhelming. I get so lost in that murkiness, so tired of trying to climb up and out into clarity, that I just want take a mental holiday. Take a time-out from the struggle and come back refreshed and in better shape to cope with everything. And I don't want to just sleep, because of the oppressive and vivid nightmares. I just want to switch off for a while, recharge, recover and then return to life, back in charge of my mental health.
So many people suffer .. and we loose good people to easy so please stay strong..
Hey bro - really appreciate you speaking out, we need to talk about real sh*t more often rather than the social media gloss and fakery. I don’t have any answers for myself or anyone else, sadly, but all I can say we just have to keep getting up and going every day. You just don’t know what’s around the corner. Keep talking about things, it will help. Best wishes for you mate
Don’t take this the wrong way, but she was looking to end your relationship regardless of wether you left or not. A normal relationship would get over you being absent for 3 months, and her finding another partner quickly also suggests that had little to do with it either. It sounds like it was a convienent reason for her to blame you and get what she wanted. Absolutely not your fault at all, don’t let her twist it like it was.
Exactly what Instated above. She had the backup guy long before the 3 months. When the time came to choose not to be able to see that “other” guy she chose to brake it up.
100% agree with this - women are incredibly capable at twisting things to make men feel terrible. honestly mate you're well away from this one... she sounds awful
3 months is NOTHING
You haven’t lost your kids, you can just go home, living that far away from them will be difficult, to be honest I see it as your choice.
Women are extremely good at creating an excuse based on blaming the bloke. They'll never tell the truth that they just got sick of you.
I know because I'm a woman.
Absolutely agree.
I was a my rock bottom a year ago, thanks to people like you I came out of it, i am the happiest I have ever been in the last 20 years. I promise you that the same will happen to you. It's ok to not be ok. You are an inspiration to all men out there. Things will get better brother, stay strong. Sending love from 🇨🇦 Canada
Glad you’re doing better these days dude. I’m from Canada as well
And I have to ask, is your username “landmine lieutenant” a reference to Celph Titled?
Traveling helps a lot! Even if you have nothing, starting fresh in a brand new place that no one knows you, going to a new church, joining a men’s group, or finding a new job helps tons. Be honest with your position, with the new people you meet, don’t be too proud to say you’re starting from scratch, etc. people will generally understand and try to help. I’m in a great place right now but God knows I’ve been in that spot so many damn times it’s depressing. You’re not the only one who’s been there, don’t be ashamed
@@Day-ZDukeyes sir, the one and only
That's a beautiful positive story bro, well done
Hang in there. We've all been thru shit. It'll get better.
Mate, so brave being open and vulnerable - starting the chat and showing you don't have to keep your struggles to yourself. You've got a community around you and shows if you reach out there will always be someone there to support you xx
he just wants donations
@@DrGreenThumbNZLmate he made a video last year basically saying how broke he was and didn’t seek donations. He’s just trying to shed a light on men’s mental health.
Hey Paul it's Tim here from the old Big River days! Very sorry to hear about your current situation. One step in front of the other champ. You got this mate!
Hey bro, thank you for sharing. You may not see it now but things will get MUCH better. Much love from New Zealand.
It sounds like you’re happiest when you’re out, camping and exploring, and making the videos to share with those of us who can’t do the same. There are people who would never see the beauty of nature except to your videos.
Life has many high points and dark valleys. Follow your passion and head towards the light.
Perfectly said! ❤
This is a very important video. You’ve shown people that you can be feeling down and hopeless but by sharing those thoughts, and taking time to clear your head, you can get through this. Such an important message for all of us, but guys especially. No one has the “perfect life”. There are great times, and there are shit times. That’s life.
Thank you for sharing. First of your videos that I’ve seen. I’ve now subscribed, so I’m looking forward to hearing your updates. Good luck with finding your way through. You’ll get there.
Sending lots of love from Qld Xx
You have brothers around the world thinking of you mate. More than most of us ever get. Stay strong. You have life in you.
You were chasing a dream, she didn’t have enough faith to wait. You don’t know me at all, but I’m proud you’re still here. Dealing with all that and you’re still here. I’m looking up to you! Please stay with us and not give up. You have our support
It's madness to think a woman with 5 kids would leave security for a poor plan
Thank you for sharing your innermost feelings and the things that
many people are too scared to share. I am not super familiar with your channel but you have gained a new supporter. Even if you may feel physically alone at this time, there are 1000s of people on this channel who support you as a person. If necessary reaching out for counseling or other mental health support can be good too. You got this man bad times will always pass ❤
I just discovered your channel. This story is absolutely touching. You had a plan to better your families lives, and 3 months is no time. You coulda had a head start for everyone. But it didn’t work out.
Stay in contact with your son daily, video call especially. Find side work, stack up cash, and socialize. Meet new people.
I’m not religious, but listening to Dave Ramsey and dr John Delony helps me a lot.
I think you should look at this as a new chapter in your life, you have a nice camper set up, you have your freedom, and most importantly, you have your health. I lost my health to cancer, I'm ok after surgery, but left with disabilities, I can no longer do the things I love.
If you have your health, you have everything you need.
Mate. I hit rock bottom 3 years ago. My partner of 6 years cheated on me with a close friend. I packed up and started again. I was also in a job that I didn't see a future in. Fast forward three years, I've just gotten engaged and am focusing on a new career that brings me fulfilment.
I could never have seen where I am today, but I hope that you can keep moving on every day and just taking one step forward. Even just taking the step of sharing this with us is such a huge one to begin with.
Much love mate
Sorry that you’re going through all this, brother! Praying that you find the change that you are after ❤ Thank you for trying to stay positive through the rough times. You are a legend and are loved!
Hang in there mate when one door closes another will open, sometimes the worst things in life can happen for the best! 😉✌️
Thanks mate I hope so 😀
@@Campingdownunderit’s true. I lost everything ten years ago. It hurts like nothing I ever experienced and still does if I let it. But life goes on regardless and you make the best of it. You will be fine, give it time and don’t dwell on it, don’t blame yourself and keep on doing what you love.
I second that. My worst life experience turned out to be a blessing in disguise, although it took several years for me to realise it!
I 3rd this comment. It’s been my experience that closure of a life chapter allows a new chapter to commence. I encourage you to keep your exciting dream to work, live, and explore WA. May your new home be ‘just around the corner’ and within your budget. Thank you for sharing your raw feelings. May you be blessed by doing so.
Stop blaming yourself please. Life happens, sh!t happens. Stay strong. Good luck. You're not alone. Sending love. ❤
The problem is, he’s not blaming himself.
@@MGTOWGreatestHits thats dead right, needs to take some ownership stop blaming others. Man up
@@MGTOWGreatestHits He did say it's on him for moving too quickly and not waiting. I watched his previous video about his kids and seems like he's selfless to a fault.
He left his first wife who cheated on him from the start with so many men she couldn't count and left her two cars and all the house furniture so he started from scratch. He got another partner and started from scratch again
I don't like the term man-up, but having some bloody self respect would've saved this guy a lot of money so he's not constantly on struggle street.I'd be fighting DHS tooth-and-nail if my ex was abusing my kids like that and I couldn't see them. I'd make her chase me for child support.
@@seanrawlinson Totally! It’s the pathetacism mode, sitting there whining like a baby about some rotten skank, leaving his own son with a friend, it’s a recipe for the situation he’s in. I’m a single dad with full time care of my son and we homeschool and we’re both so unbelievably happy with that, our energy and resources go to that, I’m not chasing dirty cheating whores or letting anyone cuck me or take my time, energy or finances away from us, and that must be number one priority. He should be thinking more like this particularly given how finite his resources are.
All the best and thank you for sharing your story ! Much love from your neighbor in New Zealand !!!!
I'm not really in to camping, but I stumbled across this video when you first posted it. I just spent the last 40 minutes trying to find it again to check in and see how you're doing. I hope you're doing okay ❤
I'm doing a lot better thank you. Not much has changed with my situation besides I've moved into a more stable share house. But I'm staying positive that things will improve 😀
It's a brave thing to spill your guts online to strangers. You have a lot to gain from these experiences, and I believe that you will look back at this time and will be glad it turned out in your favor. Thanks for sharing 😌
Thank you for being so brave and talk about your personal struggles. As a serving law enforcement officer, we had yet lost another member to suicide just days ago. Please keep moving forward and just believe everything will work out! They just WILL. Please don’t stop fighting for those you love and love you. ❤
Hey mate, I lost my son last year. He was addicted for years prior to that. Just hang in there mate, dig down for that next bit of positively. Things get better bit by bit, you are right we are not alone. There is always hope, always.
Thank you so much for sharing! I lost a son, it is the most unimaginable emptiness and permanent thing I have experienced. You have yours, even though right now you are not together. Things will change, just keep on the course. We sometimes have to appreciate the things we have to help us through the very rough times.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost mine too back in 2013. You're right, it's the hardest thing I've ever gone through.
Sending you the biggest hug.
So sorry to hear about your Son mate.
Don't ever apologize for been authentic
Thank u for sharing your story. Stay strong and have faith in yourself.❤
Never seen your stuff before, just popped up on my homepage.
I hope this burst of views gives you the momentum needed to push through this bad time. Brave video. All the best.
Hello from New Zealand. Kudos to you for finding the energy and courage to make this content. It will surely help others, especially men, who often find it difficult to reach out. Im happy to hear you received a lot of support. Keep going, don't give up, and just know there will be a way to be with your son again.
I really enjoyed watching this. I finally realised that I am not the only one going through this.
I am in the exact same situation. Yet I am now 50 years old. The depression and anxiety are so full on! I spend most days contemplating which tree is the strongest, for my body weight
It’s taken balls to publish this!
Please seek help mate. I know you probably have but I don't know what else to say. Please don't follow through with the permanent solution . You never know what is round the corner and there is no coming back from suicide. It's painful I understand but please stay in the fight.
Sorry to hear about your suffering mate. Do what you can to survive the hardest times and try to keep going. You can do it 🙏
Choose Jesus and you will be freed from Satans prison 🙏🏽❤️ he comes to lie, decide and steal souls
Hi mate, don't know you at all but would do anything to help you. Kills me to hear you are struggling that much.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other, I thought happiness was no longer obtainable at one point, but I found it. Keep on swimming.
Thank you for sharing your story. You don't know how important it can be for someone experiencing something similar to be able to hear it from someone with a platform what they're going through.
Continue to share your story and just know that you are the voice for many.
✌
Thankyou for sharing your story, so sorry to hear that your at your lowest point. You haven't lost everything though , you have air in your lungs you have got our beautiful country to explore and the freedom to go where ever you want, YOU will find a way to make things happen and feel whole again. My motto I live by every day is. A set back is a set up for an even greater comeback, so this is just a set back for bigger things to come. Stay positive always and manifest great things, You have got this. God bless and take care.
You’ve inspired me to help more people and to check in on my mates more often. Thank you! I hope things change and your situation improves man, I really do
Praying for you and your son mate . Hopefully a speedy solution is just around the corner
I spent decades battling depression. Good on ya for being vulnerable. It helps. My key to handling depression is faith, turn to God when you feel alone. Bless you brother, you got this.
What a great video.
Was feeling like shit today, knowing I'm not alone helps alot.
I miss my son so much it hurts, I feel ya pain my friend.
Stay strong.
I’m sorry for your loss brother. You’re going to get through this.
Oh my God mate....I feel for you....I'm a 62 year old lady lived in my little motorhome for 5 years now after 20 year relationship breakdown...and boy do I feel lonely, depressed and don't know what to do sometimes but I do try to be positive and look at what I've got...wish I had someone to share my love of travelling Australia and nature also. You're only young...make the most of it...I'm sure things will get better for you....don't worry be happy...turn the music up and SING....(no sad songs tho) ❤
I appreciate the comment 👍 I'm glad to see your making the most of your situation and staying positive aswell. I always try and stay positive. But it's pretty hard sometimes
@@Campingdownunder I totally understand
I got deserrted by my wife after 8 children. Over time one recovers. It me 10 years.
Be happy
Im gere to talk always
Thanks for sharing your story and helping others to know they are not alone. Your video came as a random recommendation but has really touched my heart. God wants you to know that He loves you and understands your struggles. Hang in there mate, I am praying that things look up for you ❤
I am absolutely not a camper or remotely interested in camping but for some reason I got this video on my feed. Take care mate, keep your head up. I respect that you take responsibility for your part but it honestly doesn't seem like you did a lot wrong. And about taking meds: they are not about changing your circumstances, see them as a crutch if you suffer from anxiety. All the best, just hang in there!!
Any blokes priority is to secure an income for their family, you made the right decision. Stop the doom. Keep fit keep fighting. You sound persistent, you can talk well and you’re doing something. Keep looking for answers - they are out there! Good luck.
Sometimes, one day at a time is all that you can manage, and that’s alright. Don’t beat yourself up.
In my hard times I’ve often had to remind myself “This too, shall pass”, and eventually, it does.
Wishing you well, brother.
I needed this today! Thank you 🙏 This video is also proof that you are right where you need to be. Your willingness to heal is healing you. ❤🎉
Mate, you sound incredibly humble despite your predicament. Haven't been following you for long, but it does sound like you will find a solution. Take my hat off to you for wearing your heart on your sleeve. Wish you all the best.
Thank you for the kind words mate it means a lot 🙏👍
Hey dude.
Sounds like a pretty woeful situation you've found yourself in.
I think you hit the nail on the head with the idea of moving back to get yourself back to a stable and reliable situation. The "same" is not always such a negative thing. Especially when you're trying to fix issues as fragile as yours.
I used to post fairly similar content and cover similar issues but deleted the lot because I felt so much shame and weakness from it. It is not easy or natural for a lot of people to be that open or vulnerable.
Whatever you do decide, sounds like you've got some great humans in your life that you can chat with and vent to. That's a huge asset you have.
Take good care of yourself and your boy.
Thanks for sharing your story, this is probably the video I needed to see right now at this very moment.
I'm a Kiwi that moved to New York (to be with my wife) and things haven't been plain sailing to say the least. The fact that I am 9000 miles away from home, without anyone I can call my mate is frustrating. Your video (that I stumbled upon) actually made me pick up the phone and organize a consultation. For that, I am very grateful.
Good for you brother. Look after yourself.
I'm a Kiwi who moved to Australia and I feel the same as you 😢 I don't have family in NZ but I really miss living there
Best wishes bud, you've taken some hard knocks, but I see strength in you to overcome the adversity and raise yourself up. I lost my son seven years ago, and at times, the pain and heartbreak can overwhelm you, but we have to keep searching for the happy times ahead and dig deep for our inner strength. Greetings from South Africa
My 10 year relationship has just ended mate. I moved out of the family home and into my campervan just after the New Year, so I can totally relate to how you must be feeling.
Keep moving forward, things WILL get better, trust me.
Hey, they can't get any worse for either of us can they!
I've suffered with depression my entire adult life and I'll be starting counselling on Monday. I'm also joining the local gym, as exercise has always helped in the past for me.
Small steps forward is all we take right now matey 💪
My parents separated when I was 8, it’s been a long time now and my parents are able to be in the same house now thankfully. They are now doing much better, my mom shattered my dads whole world. I can promise you ten years later they are both doing well and level headed enough to live in the same house for me instead of moving back to the city. It will get better♥️ I’m proud of you for continuing to move forward. I wish you the very best in your life to come.
Well done it’s good to have a plan. Man or woman this stuff is hard. Sadly it’s socially easier for women to open up than men, good on you for your courage. Hoping for the best for you.
councelling does sht.. learn from what happened.. do what you want with your life, fk them.. so many guys, friends, commited suicide, because of women.. fk that..leave, start again. you cant see in there head, they allways have alterior motives.. they win all the time. back in the 70,s. to claim ''madnes'', kill your wife, it was 3 yrs jail.. not now, there protected.. they dont realise, without men,,nothing happens.. girl friend said ,70,s, whats the most important thing in your life,, i said,, my car,, she said, what about me,, i said,,no car,, no you.. work it out..
Prayers and thoughts from Northern California! Im not having a good year either but you can always rely on nature for peace of mind.
Only found your channel today. First video I am watching. Struck a chord with me. The employment situation in W.A is very weird. All you hear is the shortage of manpower and endless jobs. The reality is, I've been unemployed in WA twice , and once unemployed and over 40, bizarrely becomes difficult to near impossible to find work. Also went through a very messy divorce , during which, my job was also made redundant. Very tough times indeed. All the best , regards Rich
wait till you are over 60... they wont even look at you for work unless you have a specific skill set.
wa is a stemcell clone state
Sharing the hard stuff and asking for help is the beginning of the healing process. Keep it up and thanks for sharing. I am hoping for some better days for you!
You've done everything right mate, 3 months is a very short period especially to move so far, secure a job and a house under the current circumstances. Just focus on yourself now and let your future find you.