Inconsistency, inconsistency, inconsistency - absolutely brother. The difference is day & night when you find a woman who's actually interested in you.
If a woman isn't building it with you, be it a family, a business, or an empire, she's using you. If she's willing to take half your shit if you split, she's using you. If she works because she's got to make her own and she also benefits from yours, she's using you. If she's "your friend" she's using you.
As a female subscriber, you're dead on with these points. But, don't confuse this for the woman who you have a romantic interest in, but she has already told you that she just wants to be friends (no benefits). If you continue to do friendly things, like give her a ride, help her fix something that's broken, or buy her a meal, after she said she only wants to be friends, that's your problem at that point. Her female friends might buy her a meal, give her a ride, help her fix something, or give her money too. So, LISTEN to what she says and believe her. If she keeps using you because she knows you're interested in her, and you allow it, she's not a good person, but you're a fool. Don't let that happen to you.
@@57palmtreeThanks for reading brother. I appreciate you. ☺️ I’m always glad to chime in. They say nice guys finish last. But, I try to look out for the good guys, so that doesn’t have to happen.
Excellent!!!!!! Respect over love. It took me a long time to understand this one. Love is something that the heart feels, and sometime the heart can be wrong. But it's no denying whether a person treats you with respect or not. And if you don't get it move on.
Hey ...... Mr. Style OG- Much Respect! I asked this female out to lunch . We were seated and handed the menu's. The waitress took our order and soon the food was at our table . We talked and enjoyed our lunch ...... The waitress came back to check and see that everything was good. This female asked the waitress to see the menu AGAIN and then said that she wanted to place an ORDER TO GO. I paid for the complete meal - needless to say we NEVER went on a second date. WAS SHE USING ME- WAS THE TO GO FOOD FOR HER MAN AT HOME?
She probably had no intention of ever seeing you again, so thought she might as well exploit the situation and get a second meal out of you. That's brutal!
All excellent points. Brothers watch out there are a lot of them out to get something for nothing. I have a buddy of mine who is being used big time by his girlfriend, everyone tells him, including other women, and he says he knows, but does nothing to change his situation. Some people you just can't help or they just don't want to be helped. Cheers.
In the initial phase of introduction women asking what you do for a living to figure your earning potential to determine if she wants to give you time and attention.
Thanks OG. All hit on my ex wife. I tried the mind frame of staying for family and potential. Ended up being miserable for nearly 8 years. Finally decided that me being a father was jeopardized by the manipulation and disrespect. We also have feelings no matter how masculine we are. #peacekings
We show appreciation and gratitude when we are not using you. Everything you provide is a big deal to us. When we are not using you, we are bragging about you around even to your friends.
I used to be the nice guy lol . I still am but with a difference the older I’ve gotten the less Inout up with . Been out with this girl three times now so this time around Intested her and asked if she wanted grab a coffee instead of dinner or drinks she actually agreed . Also she texted me her new number since she got it changed . So she’s def making an effort !
Friendship is huge as a foundation for romantic relationships. If a woman can’t understand your boundaries (says her place & “love” supersede friendship) and is inconsistent all she’s interested in is pushing her agenda. The dating might be great, the sex and cooking might be fantastic but get out of there as soon as possible.
Well said. I like how you stressed "reciprocity" being the key point of focus. When there is clear communication and reciprocity no one gets used in a relationship.
Made a lot of valid points my good man. Experienced a few of them myself. Gentlemen, protect yourself. These women are extremely crafty to say the least. Bless up
Well, it's not an issue for me, I live 6mos a year in Thailand 6 mos. in the Philippines presently in Makati Philippines but usually in George Town Maylasia over Christmas and New Years, my lifestyle I'm always on the move, women only get what I'm willing to give in the time that I'm in town.
My brother this hit me hard. I’m currently in this situation with my women. I point out things I feel is disrespectful and she gas lights every single conversation and make it a argument. My family and friends to tell to leave, but my child is holding me back. I’m currently in the process of moving out and starting fresh. Thanks for the clarity in this video. I know I wasn’t tripping
I had to walk way from my relationship after 14 years I’m done been taken advantage of and nothing in return.I’ll never date a low value woman again l learned my mistake
The things OG talked about here are very visible in most “relationships” nowadays, and to see them all we have to do is pay attention. Especially with women, too often they will tell on themselves without intending to.
This was phenomenal OG! Being honest I bypassed some of the things you mentioned bc during that time I didn't know anything about covert narcissists, so I didn't know they were red flags the entire time! That exp plus this game, I'm on point now! I know this wasn't about Covert Narcs but they have similar behavior mentioned! #Shalom
Salute O.G. Good information here. I left a controlling Female who had masculine tendencies who would be loving one day and cold 🥶 as a Siberian turd the next day, no compromise. I left her stankin when she tried to keep my engagement ring 💍. Found a Woman who is 💯 percent with me, a true ride or die. The old Fiancé showed up at a function but quickly got shut down and set on fire 🔥 literally embarrassed.
Big bro ,ever since I was the age of twenty-one my bs radar has been at an all time high my boi and I learned from an early age to use my cut off hand 😂🤣
If she is asking for money and you set a boundry and say no sorry i cant for whatever xyz reason and then their dynamic of energy shifts from hot to cold towards ie dry texts instead of sending loving and messages of affirmation etc then yeah she is using you if she talks about doing stuff together that is what she wants and not what you want to do then yeah she is using you if she is asking you to move in with them not even month into the relationship then yeah shes planning to royally screw you over if she cant ask how your day is or ask how you are doing and you are doing all the work to show your interest then yeah she aint interest in in having a connection with you she just wants you to use you if she disregards your life ambitions and goals and constant goes on about themselves then yeah shes using you if she is financially irresponsible and there house is a mess and doesnt even look after their dog properly then yeah they will be taking advantage you Never make a woman think you have oxfam tattooed on your head You are not a charity case I know all this to well because ive been there and been trapped because of women like this no more Focus on yourself and make sure you spend money on you because you do not matter to these women you are not important and you will never be good enough the only person you should care about and have a great relationship with is yourself MGTOW !!!
Question. A friend of mine is friends with a woman, who recently started to hang out with him A lot. Every day... So little to no time woth me anymore. She uses drugs and he knows! But tells me he wont be tempted . She will be there, every morning, daytime, evening. Is she basically obsessed? Or in love with him? F**** him? .. Also he is making excuses now...😢. I guess i should leave him?!!!!!
This would have been a great conversation with his friend Kevin Samuels. The Godfather and the O.G. talking key points about today's type of dating and self improvement.
I could film a 90 minute documentary on the number of fellas i've seen fall victim to this. Some figured it out before it got too late....others not so much
Lack of interest also shows up in how she is dressed when you all meet up. Does she show up makeup free, hair looking so so and in sweat pants? Not interested in you like that.
When a woman wants to give up the goods in a couple of days or in a week and basically the relationship friendship at the moment. Watch out! In some point in time she’s going to be asking for some financial help and as soon as you tell her. You don’t trick off money like that or that’s not your style. It’s going to be hell because a woman well at least some do. If they give their body to you. They expect you to help them financially and depending on the woman. She could be the date from hell from cutting your tires or tearing up some shit. Some women don’t t look at it as an equally exchange of sexual pleasure between two adults. Cause if you lay up with some of these to early and decide the sex was bad and try to leave it might come what it cost this afternoon. Play that 30 days wait crap that some women play with men. That way if you refuse to pay her rent,phone bill or car repair and won’t have to worry about. Her throwing in your face she gave you some or ahh you didn’t say no when we had sex.
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Inconsistency, inconsistency, inconsistency - absolutely brother.
The difference is day & night when you find a woman who's actually interested in you.
for real!
Be careful of the ones who just talk nice and look nice. Sometimes thats all they bring to the table.
Indeed!
Yes. That happened to me in my early 20s, she looked and talked a very good game but I didn't know any better then.
Fdacts!!!!!
My ex took the table
Those ones look good from far but trust me they are far from good!
If a woman isn't building it with you, be it a family, a business, or an empire, she's using you. If she's willing to take half your shit if you split, she's using you. If she works because she's got to make her own and she also benefits from yours, she's using you. If she's "your friend" she's using you.
Been there done that, glad I have had a woman who has been in my corner for the last 30 years and we have built together, Salute OG
Salute!
The way a person carries themselves definitely shows their true character, and you can judge whether or not you want to deal with them based on that.
Never let a woman take your kindness for a weakness.
As a female subscriber, you're dead on with these points. But, don't confuse this for the woman who you have a romantic interest in, but she has already told you that she just wants to be friends (no benefits). If you continue to do friendly things, like give her a ride, help her fix something that's broken, or buy her a meal, after she said she only wants to be friends, that's your problem at that point. Her female friends might buy her a meal, give her a ride, help her fix something, or give her money too. So, LISTEN to what she says and believe her. If she keeps using you because she knows you're interested in her, and you allow it, she's not a good person, but you're a fool. Don't let that happen to you.
well said!
@@TheStyleOGThanks OG. Keep the 🔥 videos coming. Women learn about the needs of you guys from these videos too. 😉
will do!
Thank you for commenting from the female point of view. It makes this video that much more relevant and timely.
@@57palmtreeThanks for reading brother. I appreciate you. ☺️ I’m always glad to chime in. They say nice guys finish last. But, I try to look out for the good guys, so that doesn’t have to happen.
Continue giving us that Knowledge Style O.G. SALUTE
Salute!
Good information my brother!
Thanks!
Excellent!!!!!! Respect over love. It took me a long time to understand this one. Love is something that the heart feels, and sometime the heart can be wrong. But it's no denying whether a person treats you with respect or not. And if you don't get it move on.
well said!
Hey ...... Mr. Style OG- Much Respect! I asked this female out to lunch . We were seated and handed the menu's. The waitress took our order and soon the food was at our table . We talked and enjoyed our lunch ...... The waitress came back to check and see that everything was good. This female asked the waitress to see the menu AGAIN and then said that she wanted to place an ORDER TO GO. I paid for the complete meal - needless to say we NEVER went on a second date. WAS SHE USING ME- WAS THE TO GO FOOD FOR HER MAN AT HOME?
That was the biggest red flag ever!
Huge red flag let that one go!
Yup!
she probably did take a meal home to another guy
She probably had no intention of ever seeing you again, so thought she might as well exploit the situation and get a second meal out of you. That's brutal!
All excellent points. Brothers watch out there are a lot of them out to get something for nothing. I have a buddy of mine who is being used big time by his girlfriend, everyone tells him, including other women, and he says he knows, but does nothing to change his situation. Some people you just can't help or they just don't want to be helped. Cheers.
Cheers!
If She Is Calling You or want something from you Only when she needs something! USED!..
Used!
In the initial phase of introduction women asking what you do for a living to figure your earning potential to determine if she wants to give you time and attention.
This explains exactly what I'm going through! You opened my eyes O.G. thank you!
hope it helps!
Have 2 friends going through it right now, sharing the video immediately. Thank you so much and Salute 🙏🏾
Salute!
Thanks OG. All hit on my ex wife. I tried the mind frame of staying for family and potential. Ended up being miserable for nearly 8 years. Finally decided that me being a father was jeopardized by the manipulation and disrespect.
We also have feelings no matter how masculine we are. #peacekings
O.G. I was just starting to scab up from the last video, You Still cutting the cancer out i see.
Thank you, because 4 of these signs are plaguing me
My guy!
Great points there my friend. I experience some of those. Another good one 💪🏾👊🏾
Salute!
We show appreciation and gratitude when we are not using you. Everything you provide is a big deal to us. When we are not using you, we are bragging about you around even to your friends.
appreciate the input!
@@TheStyleOG Salute Sir! and Congrats on the lovely wife!
I used to be the nice guy lol . I still am but with a difference the older I’ve gotten the less Inout up with . Been out with this girl three times now so this time around Intested her and asked if she wanted grab a coffee instead of dinner or drinks she actually agreed . Also she texted me her new number since she got it changed . So she’s def making an effort !
appreciate the input!
She's playing you brother sorry
Friendship is huge as a foundation for romantic relationships. If a woman can’t understand your boundaries (says her place & “love” supersede friendship) and is inconsistent all she’s interested in is pushing her agenda. The dating might be great, the sex and cooking might be fantastic but get out of there as soon as possible.
Good information!!
Well said. I like how you stressed "reciprocity" being the key point of focus. When there is clear communication and reciprocity no one gets used in a relationship.
Indeed!
Great video Jeff! 🫡
Thanks 👍
Well done and excellent advice. Thank you and keep up the great work!
Thanks!
Brother dropping more gems than a Manhattans jewler.
Salute!
Made a lot of valid points my good man. Experienced a few of them myself. Gentlemen, protect yourself. These women are extremely crafty to say the least. Bless up
Bless up!
Well, it's not an issue for me, I live 6mos a year in Thailand 6 mos. in the Philippines presently in Makati Philippines but usually in George Town Maylasia over Christmas and New Years, my lifestyle I'm always on the move, women only get what I'm willing to give in the time that I'm in town.
OH MY GOODNESS!!! I'VE BEEN WAITING ON THIS ONE😭😭😭👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
here ya go!
Thanks SOG. I'm in this situation with someone right now. I really dig her but she's showing all these signs. Damn!
my pleasure!
My brother this hit me hard. I’m currently in this situation with my women. I point out things I feel is disrespectful and she gas lights every single conversation and make it a argument. My family and friends to tell to leave, but my child is holding me back. I’m currently in the process of moving out and starting fresh. Thanks for the clarity in this video. I know I wasn’t tripping
Yes, Sir, that is the financial and emotional part. Thank you very much.
Another great video 💯💪🏿
Thanks again!
I had to walk way from my relationship after 14 years I’m done been taken advantage of and nothing in return.I’ll never date a low value woman again l learned my mistake
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks Michael!
You welcome keep up the good work GOD BLESS 🙏
As an older O.G you hit nail on the head on all points listen up men, great job Jeff.
Thanks Tim!
The things OG talked about here are very visible in most “relationships” nowadays, and to see them all we have to do is pay attention. Especially with women, too often they will tell on themselves without intending to.
Amen brother because they DAM SHO do be using. 😅😅 Keep up the good work bro.
Will do!
I'm going through this right now
I found the inconsistency very interesting..
I've added it to my knowledge!
Thank you G!!
No problem!
Great vid, we need more like this one. Brothers out here NEED this info 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
More to come!
I met this girl few weeks ago I’m confused now because she tells me we’re friends but we sometimes fool around so now I’m really confused.
U are so right bro...respect
Respect!
I would like to know what your wearing in this video because the jacket and white shirt combo looks good,but what pants and shoes are your wearing
Universal truth.......Salute King.
Salute!
This was phenomenal OG! Being honest I bypassed some of the things you mentioned bc during that time I didn't know anything about covert narcissists, so I didn't know they were red flags the entire time! That exp plus this game, I'm on point now! I know this wasn't about Covert Narcs but they have similar behavior mentioned! #Shalom
That is all of them
Speaking the gospel. Salute, Style OG.
I try!
Yes all of them hit home
Salute O.G. Good information here. I left a controlling Female who had masculine tendencies who would be loving one day and cold 🥶 as a Siberian turd the next day, no compromise. I left her stankin when she tried to keep my engagement ring 💍. Found a Woman who is 💯 percent with me, a true ride or die. The old Fiancé showed up at a function but quickly got shut down and set on fire 🔥 literally embarrassed.
yep. Just learned the lesson 2 months ago...and trust me, no one is gonna tangle the Raven now...😁
Best video ever. This will surely help me in the future when considering a relationship!
Hope it helps!
Just passing Thur what's up big brotha another high quality video, I approve of this message✍️
My man!
Phenomenal video.. Much love, Jeff. Salute.
O.G !!! My guy!!!
Salute!
Been there done that I appreciate the reminder
no doubt!
If you're a 'nice guy' by nature, you gotta be X-TRA careful out there.
Indeed!
Very Informative.
Glad you think so!
You nailed it Jeff 👍🏾
#Narcissistic
Noted!!! Big Homie!
My guy!
Lol.lol dang bro u telling it all. Lol lol you looking out for the men.. I hear ya. L❤❤u bro!!
Spot on
Big bro ,ever since I was the age of twenty-one my bs radar has been at an all time high my boi and I learned from an early age to use my cut off hand 😂🤣
have to!
True statements
Salute!
Nice guys finish last! Never give them too much, or too little. Show some love but demand some love. Women should make gifts too!
Also, if you don't know her from work/mutual acquaintances, first date is drinks only. Maybe a walk, as a bonus.
appreciate the input!
I play broke at timed just to see how she reacts
If she is asking for money and you set a boundry and say no sorry i cant for whatever xyz reason and then their dynamic of energy shifts from hot to cold towards ie dry texts instead of sending loving and messages of affirmation etc then yeah she is using you if she talks about doing stuff together that is what she wants and not what you want to do then yeah she is using you if she is asking you to move in with them not even month into the relationship then yeah shes planning to royally screw you over if she cant ask how your day is or ask how you are doing and you are doing all the work to show your interest then yeah she aint interest in in having a connection with you she just wants you to use you if she disregards your life ambitions and goals and constant goes on about themselves then yeah shes using you if she is financially irresponsible and there house is a mess and doesnt even look after their dog properly then yeah they will be taking advantage you
Never make a woman think you have oxfam tattooed on your head
You are not a charity case
I know all this to well because ive been there and been trapped because of women like this no more
Focus on yourself and make sure you spend money on you because you do not matter to these women you are not important and you will never be good enough the only person you should care about and have a great relationship with is yourself
MGTOW !!!
Wanting to be treated as a wife but treats you as a boyfriend is also being used. You can't do the minimum input and expect the maximum output.
agreed
100 percent providing for a woman is called being used.
Salute
Salute!
Great job Jeff💪🏿👊🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿
Thanks!
Facts period
Salute!
Question. A friend of mine is friends with a woman, who recently started to hang out with him A lot. Every day... So little to no time woth me anymore. She uses drugs and he knows! But tells me he wont be tempted . She will be there, every morning, daytime, evening. Is she basically obsessed? Or in love with him? F**** him? .. Also he is making excuses now...😢. I guess i should leave him?!!!!!
Also looking to see if hes home yet, hours before he is. And " oh.i texted you, but cant get through"*
True
appreciate the feedback!
OG is the true 🐐 of mens spaces on YT for this one
Salute!
This is the truth❤
Salute!
I think there's a song called evil woman 😂
I needed this video. Ive been having alot of women i use to be crazy about years ago, hmu out the blue.
Hope it helps!
If you gotta' ask......you already have your answer.
most likely!
I knew a lady who just wanted to be around me for the compliments.
Yea that's when they looking attention and it's a disgusting trait.... Men are not here to compliment 24/7
That's selfish hope but good you caught on to it
Bobby B checking in ✊🏾
Bobby!
Thanks Style OG.👍🏽 You just described my ex-wife!😏
💯
Excellent subject bro' young guys need to understand this, that booty makes us partially dumb sometimes 😊
Salute!
Great feedback bro. It’s about getting back what you’re giving me. If you not on the same page then it’s time for me to turn the page.
This would have been a great conversation with his friend Kevin Samuels. The Godfather and the O.G. talking key points about today's type of dating and self improvement.
miss my guy!
I could film a 90 minute documentary on the number of fellas i've seen fall victim to this. Some figured it out before it got too late....others not so much
it happens!
If u aint the guy she really wanted than she's using u
most likely
💯
❤
Lack of interest also shows up in how she is dressed when you all meet up. Does she show up makeup free, hair looking so so and in sweat pants? Not interested in you like that.
indeed!
When a woman wants to give up the goods in a couple of days or in a week and basically the relationship friendship at the moment. Watch out! In some point in time she’s going to be asking for some financial help and as soon as you tell her. You don’t trick off money like that or that’s not your style. It’s going to be hell because a woman well at least some do. If they give their body to you. They expect you to help them financially and depending on the woman. She could be the date from hell from cutting your tires or tearing up some shit. Some women don’t t look at it as an equally exchange of sexual pleasure between two adults. Cause if you lay up with some of these to early and decide the sex was bad and try to leave it might come what it cost this afternoon. Play that 30 days wait crap that some women play with men. That way if you refuse to pay her rent,phone bill or car repair and won’t have to worry about. Her throwing in your face she gave you some or ahh you didn’t say no when we had sex.
The older I get, the more callous I've become. Wives take advantage too!
Salute 🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
Salute!
I can see her USING ME for my handicap parking permit.
uh oh!
All women use men. Mic 🎤 drop
This video helps to put a woman on ice if she’s a user.
hope so!
The spirit of Jezebel is alive and kicking in this day and age. Stay alert gentlemen
No emotion with some women nice guys finish last. Unfortunately
Im going to show this to my wifes boyfriend...if he lets me
good sign...
Saaalute
Salute!