Truth! Had this happen to me when I was younger and I dropped her before she even had a chance to drop me. “Know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away, know when to run!” 🎼 🎵 😂
Another hot tip! Mixed signals or hot and cold doesnt make the cut! Move on from mixed signals brothers. Most of us older gents know this but the young guys linger on mixed signals too long. And also dont take things too personally. It really isnt you sometimes, its something their going thru. Dont read into it and wonder why. Just move on
I've learnt in life to come to except that not everybody will like me and i have to be comfortable with that. There is someone for everyone take care of yourself first and everything will fall into place
Great tips OG. I have to say I agree AND disagree with some of these. Reason being, some people (especially nowadays) are shy or socially awkward and though they may like someone or be interested in building a deeper connection, they may not have the social capacity to do so, hence some of these signs may exist as a form of protection or barrier to not seem awkward. Overall though, I agree.
Next vid. Signs a women doesn't like you but need to get her rent paid. Sign 1: She make herself more available around your payday. Sign 2: She real friendly, but asks to borrow money etc..... To all my OG's if they don't like you. The hell with 'em. Blend with the honies that do.
We have a saying in Spanish that goes "el interés tiene pies" is something like "if someone is interested in something he/she will pursue it". If a woman is into you there will be clear signs, if not, move on.
Thanks for the shoutout! Much appreciate this video, as well as many others. One thing I learned from last year is that "No message is a message." Again another solid video with excellent points.
@@brandonbennett4615 "No message is a message" In a metaphorical sense, it's true. But in a literal sense it's not. You get no message from person B, in which absolutely literally nothing exists.
4:25 I've always said this, short or delayed responses are clear signs of a lack of interest. Take any woman's celebrity crush do you think they would ignore them or wait no matter how "busy" they were?
One of the things I've been doing to combat my lack of confidence is to ask myself and really analyze WHY I feel so insecure?? What chain of events in my life brought me to that state of mind?? What is it I'm afraid of, what is it I'm afraid she'll do if I let my hair down and 100 percent be myself?? Then I try to challenge those fears. I still have a way to go down this path, but I've found this to be quite helpful over the years!
Another sign is her asking you lots of questions while avoiding answering anything personal or deeper. If the dynamic changes when YOU ask the questions regardless what kind of relationship you’re in… You may be part of a huge manipulation of your time, or likely just another somebody in her mix. A lot of men find out five or ten years into a relationship that their wives don’t like them. If you check 8-9/10 boxes she doesn’t have to like you to with you.
So if there's a closed door between us whenever we talk, I should take that as a sign, huh? JUST KIDDING!! I enjoy your videos, bruh! Even though we all come to the dating world with our own individual experiences and advice, I've found yours to be the most ubiquitous in terms of capturing 'common' experiences that most men can relate to, and I always get something out of listening to you. BTW, I've never known a woman to NOT accept a compliment, even if she's accepting it thru that closed door I mentioned. PS... Nice sport coat, O.G.!
Effort… when a woman’s feeling you, she will make an effort. Women break their rules for men who they are feeling. These women are paying for their own flight to go see some dude on the other side of the world but she gives you excuses and can’t take a 30 minute ride or Uber to come see you or meet up she’s just not feeling you bro. Move on‼️
The thing is, they need to act like they're interested if they truly are and not just pretend...especially when it comes to unreasonable ghosting, which I hate a lot. But that's another topic for another day.
My personal stance on this is that you gotta make sure you play your cards right to increase the chances of her being interested in you. If she does any or all of these things you mentioned in the video, then most likely she ain't into you like that. And if she's single, that's not your loss, but hers. She's the one who missed out on a great guy.
I think it's imperative to know when a woman likes you, loses interest in you and when she is just using you for attention. Men have to not have eyes for just one woman, there are lots of options out there.
Big Cuzco, you stay coming through with them gifts, however that jacket is fire. What pants and shoes are you sporting with it? I am on that jacket my guy
There is this girl. When do chatting, we do dating but when I ask if shes in a relationship with other guy, she refuses to answer. I just dont get it - why cant she just admit or she can she say she's single.
One point I can raise is, when there're remarks with personal attacks lacking any objectivity from the woman. Occasionally leading to character bashing and a little application of harassment-strategy on the man. 😐
Guys another few signs 1. She pulls away from your hug. 2. She doesn't even smile at you when you smile at her. 3. She seems bored, uninterested and annoyed with you around. 4. (Goes with 3) She immediately becomes unhappy or annoyed when you show up.
That "boredom" is a HUGE one. At this point in life, I know how to spot it and avoid it, but as a younger man, I did not. Boredom is definitely one of my red flags.
😂😂now that's some insight there. Lol... my bro.. you just to dang intelligent lol lol you hit a home run here!!! " she's probably not feeling you, my guy"😂😂 Move on, my brother➡️➡️🚶♂️🚶♂️abort... abort..😅😅 salute bro❤
If u bring uo anything physical or sexual to her snd shes like im not that time of girl or she on some lets wait a while janet Jackson type mess, then she dont like u like that. Respect style og.👏🏽
Today, my MO is to give a chick the same energy she gives me. If she texts back short, or doesn't text back at all, then I'll respond in kind. Or if she says "let me think about it", "we'll see", or "I'll let you know", my response is "no problem hon, take all the time you need," and move on, I don't attempt to check back in, I don't follow up, no "hey is everything ok," none of that. And if she hits you back, wonderful. If she doesn't, it's all good. Also, I tell guys to think about all the chicks who liked you, but YOU didn't like. Remember all the things you did to push her away? That's what she's doing to you broham. Rejection goes both ways. Sometimes you'll dish it out; other times you'll have to take it. But it's all good tho 😉
Question….if you ask her to be your gf & she says we will talk about it soon, is that basically another way of saying no? lol let alone our conversations are always very dry, meaning I do most of the talking & her answers are always short, for example: yep to almost everything lol I think it’s pretty obvious…….
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If you gotta question if she likes you, that’s your sign right there!
Yea 😢😂
That list was 100% on point!!! Reciprocation when you first meet someone is huge!! If she doesn't have a desire to match your energy, move on!!
Move on!
Big faaaaaxs g stop wasting your energy
Funny thing is these signs start to show right before a break up as well.
For real!
Truth! Had this happen to me when I was younger and I dropped her before she even had a chance to drop me.
“Know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away, know when to run!” 🎼 🎵 😂
@@halfnorfolk5310 Kenny Rodgers was teaching life lessons when people thought he was singing about cards lol
@@h0llyw00dhoward7😂😂 me too just found that out today
Another hot tip! Mixed signals or hot and cold doesnt make the cut! Move on from mixed signals brothers. Most of us older gents know this but the young guys linger on mixed signals too long.
And also dont take things too personally. It really isnt you sometimes, its something their going thru. Dont read into it and wonder why. Just move on
@davidlapointe4710 - Great point about mixed signals. One of my guys once said, "Treat mixed signals as a 'NO' and move on."
@@Deephouse_Gent66 anything other than a yes is a no! Is what i tell my friends 😂
If you are watching this video there is a 95.5% chance that she doesn't like you
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Haha...more like 110% chance that she ain't feeling you homey...so keep it moving....her lose...haha
I've learnt in life to come to except that not everybody will like me and i have to be comfortable with that. There is someone for everyone take care of yourself first and everything will fall into place
If you feel doubt or uncertainty for any reason, move on…. that’s all the signs you need.
Great tips OG. I have to say I agree AND disagree with some of these. Reason being, some people (especially nowadays) are shy or socially awkward and though they may like someone or be interested in building a deeper connection, they may not have the social capacity to do so, hence some of these signs may exist as a form of protection or barrier to not seem awkward. Overall though, I agree.
Great point. It's not about you necessarily, but the other person may not be used to being around people like that. It happens from time to time.
Next vid. Signs a women doesn't like you but need to get her rent paid. Sign 1: She make herself more available around your payday. Sign 2: She real friendly, but asks to borrow money etc..... To all my OG's if they don't like you. The hell with 'em. Blend with the honies that do.
These points work well for women also.Thwy are spot on!!
We have a saying in Spanish that goes "el interés tiene pies" is something like "if someone is interested in something he/she will pursue it". If a woman is into you there will be clear signs, if not, move on.
agreed!
On point O.G. can you do a video on when a woman is just using you. Some of my friends need that one. Thanks 🙏🏾 and salute
I have been there myself 😂😰
"I appreciate everything you do for me" 😂
Yes I can!
@cliftonsledge962 That would be a good topic!
Had this happen to me but from a female friend. Took years to see it and finally 👻
Thanks for the shoutout! Much appreciate this video, as well as many others. One thing I learned from last year is that "No message is a message." Again another solid video with excellent points.
Good point!
Metaphorically, yes, but literally, no. So I have to disagree.
@@Barber747 To each it's own, I acknowledge and respect your opinion, but I wish that you explained to rationale in why disagree.
@@brandonbennett4615 it's self-explanatory my dude. Think about it
@@brandonbennett4615 "No message is a message" In a metaphorical sense, it's true. But in a literal sense it's not. You get no message from person B, in which absolutely literally nothing exists.
4:25 I've always said this, short or delayed responses are clear signs of a lack of interest. Take any woman's celebrity crush do you think they would ignore them or wait no matter how "busy" they were?
Indeed!
@PremierAutoMan86 You’re correct, they ABSOLUTELY would not!
When you meet a girl definitely ask her questions and and peep how long she take to text and does she compliment me. And things like that
Another physical barrier I’ve noticed is her looking at her mobile phone 📱 when she’s with you. 🤔
Hey OG, can we get a post about wellness for men in their 40’s? Things like nutrition, exercise, health, mental health, etc. Thanks OG!
I like the idea!
Im married now, 24 years and going. But this advice would have saved me some sorrows in my early teenage years. Lol. Spot on video, thanks boss.
I share these with my son
appreciate that!
I absolutely agree with all of these points. 👍Men shouldn't have to badger women to go on dates, yet, tons of men still do it.
😂 True Statement Brother 😊 I feel this is true for men also.
No doubt
I think you nailed them all...
Salute!
Yes, those are some great points. Although I hit a home run but due to the age gap her interest level started to decline.
Yes!!!! I've experienced all 12 of them.....constantly.
Great video Jeff. Many of us gentlemen have good intentions that some women don’t see or don’t even pay attention to.
Thanks Melvin!
Women sense a lack of confidence the way dogs and other animals sense fear. If you are not sure of yourself, you better believe that she knows.......
indeed!
I had a ton of confidence when I was younger 😂. Sometimes they simply don't care.
One of the things I've been doing to combat my lack of confidence is to ask myself and really analyze WHY I feel so insecure?? What chain of events in my life brought me to that state of mind?? What is it I'm afraid of, what is it I'm afraid she'll do if I let my hair down and 100 percent be myself?? Then I try to challenge those fears. I still have a way to go down this path, but I've found this to be quite helpful over the years!
It d matter nowadays! The game is really simple, rock with the one that likes you! Always set and stick to your boundaries
Harsh but true😭😭😭🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Truth!
He was spot on with these signs.
appreciate the feedback!
Just starting in Georgia, inventory is coming in now, tables, chairs and pop ups to start
Very informative. Thanks again, Jeff. Salute.
Right on time. My dad told me all these. A good refresher OG
Thanks!
Saaalluuute, my Style OG...you've done it agaun, sir. Keep up the grind to help us Men...
Big up!
Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thank you! You too!
You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much GOD BLESS 🙏
All these points were dead on.
Another sign is her asking you lots of questions while avoiding answering anything personal or deeper. If the dynamic changes when YOU ask the questions regardless what kind of relationship you’re in… You may be part of a huge manipulation of your time, or likely just another somebody in her mix. A lot of men find out five or ten years into a relationship that their wives don’t like them. If you check 8-9/10 boxes she doesn’t have to like you to with you.
OG is making a masterpiece
Let him cook !!!
Salute!
Thanks for the reminders Jeff.
no problem!
Yes very true on all points and if any of these signs are seen just move on in life.
yup!
So if there's a closed door between us whenever we talk, I should take that as a sign, huh? JUST KIDDING!! I enjoy your videos, bruh! Even though we all come to the dating world with our own individual experiences and advice, I've found yours to be the most ubiquitous in terms of capturing 'common' experiences that most men can relate to, and I always get something out of listening to you. BTW, I've never known a woman to NOT accept a compliment, even if she's accepting it thru that closed door I mentioned. PS... Nice sport coat, O.G.!
Respect for this subject ty Jeff
Respect!
Effort… when a woman’s feeling you, she will make an effort. Women break their rules for men who they are feeling. These women are paying for their own flight to go see some dude on the other side of the world but she gives you excuses and can’t take a 30 minute ride or Uber to come see you or meet up she’s just not feeling you bro. Move on‼️
Effort!
The thing is, they need to act like they're interested if they truly are and not just pretend...especially when it comes to unreasonable ghosting, which I hate a lot. But that's another topic for another day.
I agree with all of your points, brother.
Salute!
This one stings the nostrils 😮
you guys come to me for the truth! appreciate the super chat
@@TheStyleOG Amen O.G.
Amazing advice!! We need more dating content (well, I do anyway 🙈😂)
THXS OG
Love that blazer brother...
appreciate it!
Spot on list 👌🏾‼️
Returned friend Jason Burke here, thank you Bro amazing content
Thanks for the visit!
Respect and Salute OG !!! Another great content
Respect!
On point Jeff! Salute 🫡
Good Stuff....I will take notice!!
Right on!
My personal stance on this is that you gotta make sure you play your cards right to increase the chances of her being interested in you. If she does any or all of these things you mentioned in the video, then most likely she ain't into you like that. And if she's single, that's not your loss, but hers. She's the one who missed out on a great guy.
I operate on my basis they don't like me. Makes it easier
lol!
I think it's imperative to know when a woman likes you, loses interest in you and when she is just using you for attention. Men have to not have eyes for just one woman, there are lots of options out there.
discernment!
Spot on 💯
💯
Great Vid Unc Salute 🫡
Salute!
Ayeeeee thxs og
You hit these... On point
Salute!
Yes your on point
Salute!
Dope vid Og
Thanks!
Beyond facts, straight up gospel.
Salute!
Awesome video
Thanks!
all great information for us the women wont tell us at all lol good luck out there fellas
Salute!
If she says “I’m really busy,” that means she’s really busy thinking of ways to get away from you 😜.
most likely!
LOL! I've been there once. Thankfully for me it doesn't happen often 😂😂😂
Actually she means she's getting busy with someone else 😅
Great tips O.G.
Appreciate it!
Big Cuzco, you stay coming through with them gifts, however that jacket is fire. What pants and shoes are you sporting with it? I am on that jacket my guy
got on sweatpants. often times shorts when I film. lmao
@@TheStyleOG much respect, got you lol. What would you suggest ?
But they like that money 💰 tho 😂
That they like! More so love it.
And gifts lol
more like LOVE❤😂
No money, no honey.
Get your money up then date. Anything else is a set up to fail.
When she says "you're too short" after the date.
well...
After a “free meal” they do get emboldened!😂
Stop buying food for them.
Great helpful tips!
Thanks!
Hmmm great points there!!
Glad you think so!
@@TheStyleOG yes indeed 👊🏾💪🏾
Keep the vids coming from a seasoned vet
will do!
Love you and love your vlogs ❤️
Appreciate you!
Dope video, I was wondering if you could do a video on if a woman just only wants a man around to do stuff for her, basically using the man
This is self explanatory tho you’ll know when she using you. Ask her to do something for you better yet if she don’t willingly do it cancel her
Salute
Salute!
Man! I need a shout out!!
i got you!
The most obvious sign is "I don't like you like that" 😂😂
Crazy hot matrix. We men can be a 5 but rich and we get 10d 😂
When you notice the signs that she is not interested in you, say nothing and leave.
There is this girl. When do chatting, we do dating but when I ask if shes in a relationship with other guy, she refuses to answer. I just dont get it - why cant she just admit or she can she say she's single.
What if she constantly talks to you about her exs?
i dunno… when she throws up the pony tail… its game onn 😂😂😂
in the right situation...
All Trues
Salute!
One point I can raise is, when there're remarks with personal attacks lacking any objectivity from the woman. Occasionally leading to character bashing and a little application of harassment-strategy on the man. 😐
Whoa! My future X demonstrated half of these traits 💔
'Solid'
Salute!
My guy said "If she just wants to hang out with you and the crew, you know what to do" 😂 Thats real spit 🫡
Salute!
Agreed
Bruh' your spot on
Salute!
Guys another few signs
1. She pulls away from your hug.
2. She doesn't even smile at you when you smile at her.
3. She seems bored, uninterested and annoyed with you around.
4. (Goes with 3) She immediately becomes unhappy or annoyed when you show up.
That "boredom" is a HUGE one. At this point in life, I know how to spot it and avoid it, but as a younger man, I did not. Boredom is definitely one of my red flags.
If that's the case, she may have her own problems whether it has anything to do with you or not. Especially if you did nothing to warrant it.
Vital
Our feet will always be facing you when we are interested as well.
😂😂now that's some insight there. Lol... my bro.. you just to dang intelligent lol lol you hit a home run here!!! " she's probably not feeling you, my guy"😂😂 Move on, my brother➡️➡️🚶♂️🚶♂️abort... abort..😅😅 salute bro❤
Ha!
If u bring uo anything physical or sexual to her snd shes like im not that time of girl or she on some lets wait a while janet Jackson type mess, then she dont like u like that. Respect style og.👏🏽
respect!
I've learned to never bring up the topic of sex unless she brings it up.....I mean don't compliment her physical appearance (breast, a$$) even
I know all these signs
Makes sense. I used to wonder why this chick would only talk to me from her 12th story window.
If she files a restraining order against you then this is also a clear sign of disinterest…….sometimes.
Today, my MO is to give a chick the same energy she gives me. If she texts back short, or doesn't text back at all, then I'll respond in kind. Or if she says "let me think about it", "we'll see", or "I'll let you know", my response is "no problem hon, take all the time you need," and move on, I don't attempt to check back in, I don't follow up, no "hey is everything ok," none of that. And if she hits you back, wonderful. If she doesn't, it's all good.
Also, I tell guys to think about all the chicks who liked you, but YOU didn't like. Remember all the things you did to push her away? That's what she's doing to you broham. Rejection goes both ways. Sometimes you'll dish it out; other times you'll have to take it. But it's all good tho 😉
Big small or medium signs,that is ok.I move on as if I never met her.
as you should
Question….if you ask her to be your gf & she says we will talk about it soon, is that basically another way of saying no? lol let alone our conversations are always very dry, meaning I do most of the talking & her answers are always short, for example: yep to almost everything lol I think it’s pretty obvious…….
she's saying no
@@TheStyleOGthat’s what I thought lol just wanted to confirm, thank you, brother much appreciated 🙏
Instead of looking for small signs, stop playing games and just ask her directly.
🎉🎉🎉
fucking spot on.
All these clues are like when you marry them 😊
Body language is🗝️ if you can read it you wil be good