WHY WEDDINGS ARE/AREN'T IMPORTANT TO US?||The Nook||FT Lydia KM, Clare Karatu & Coco Vanveen||Part 1

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024
  • On the debut episode of the Nook we explore the role of Weddings in Women's Socialisation: Traditions, Expectations, and Identity.
    Follow our guests:
    Lydia KM: / _lydiakm
    Clare Karatu: / clare_karatu
    Vanessa Coco: / coco_vanveen
    Article link: www.southernli....

Комментарии • 102

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv Год назад +173

    Team Lydia like this 😂 where you go we go love love this conversation

  • @lillykananatv9172
    @lillykananatv9172 Год назад +45

    Lyd wherever you go I go just love you mamiii

  • @teresiamiruru8531
    @teresiamiruru8531 Год назад +14

    On the question about shinning more on the wedding day … i think men shine more on the proposal and traditional wedding kwaito ,ruracio etc…coz it shows them more in a bold way and in commitment and responsibility .. so the wedding the bride shines more coz of the “price” paid she is the prize to be celebrated aririririri 😅😅.

  • @beautylandboutique4976
    @beautylandboutique4976 Год назад +57

    Team Lydia....we follow you everywhere Lydia ♥️♥️
    I'd listen to you all day!

  • @florahgathoni4648
    @florahgathoni4648 Год назад +48

    Time to make a 'Joyride Home Game' cards/questions. Would sell easy. Great conversations ❤

  • @ashleyadewa6593
    @ashleyadewa6593 Год назад +33

    Claire is/was such a gem. The nook is something I didn't know I needed in my life. Well done Joyride ❤

  • @themuyabliss
    @themuyabliss Год назад +20

    Lydia in Joyride???? MAGIC😮🎉❤

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts Год назад +24

    This was such a well balanced conversation. The fact that you did not lock out the unmarried, absolutely perfect.
    Coco is a complete reflection of me, the awareness, the wholeness and the need to have men that are respectful and are confident enough in their masculine without having to let us to bring out our survival mode.
    Regardless, there was so much to learn from All the Ladies..💐🌹

  • @wawanjohi
    @wawanjohi Год назад +11

    I saw Lydia and screamed....almost broke my fingers nikikimbia huku, too much love for Lyd😊

  • @juotton
    @juotton Год назад +21

    Clare is so interesting and she just really captures your attention with whatever she says ❤❤❤...love love her ❤

  • @BeautyMe-g1y
    @BeautyMe-g1y Год назад +11

    Clare smiled throughout the conversation...she's absolutely stunning 😍😍

  • @christineokumu5200
    @christineokumu5200 Год назад +11

    This was a nice conversation but it lacked a woman who "has a Pinterest board" and was super passionate about her wedding

  • @njukisperspective
    @njukisperspective Год назад +13

    It's beautiful to see these smart, opinionated and powerful women together. ❤️❤️

  • @reginahwaithira8684
    @reginahwaithira8684 Год назад +4

    I keep on listening to this podcast ❤️ It is so educative, especially the realness with Claire Karatu 💯...every lady needs (The Nook) in her life .

  • @kendiivonne3095
    @kendiivonne3095 Год назад +10

    Clare is so pretty 😍😍.... beautiful smile , gorgeous voice ❤

  • @TalithaCumi1
    @TalithaCumi1 Год назад +10

    Just like the den, the nook is on fire 🔥🔥.. Everything about Joyride is just perfect👌 kudos guys for the great wisdom, knowledge and enlightment we get from your wonderful conversations for free.❤❤

  • @itsWanza
    @itsWanza Год назад +11

    Wow! That lady on the furthest right is so pretty!!!😍😍
    Such a great conversation!🙌🙌

  • @yvonnewanjiru3962
    @yvonnewanjiru3962 Год назад +19

    Hey Wanjiru. Can MAUA solve our wedding dresses pain point?
    Had trauma as a child and didn't want a wedding. I thought the dress must be white and I felt unworthy. Did therapy later. I want a lilac dress when my time comes.
    Would be honoured to get a MAUA wedding gown.

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 Год назад +5

    Claire's English 😢 it's perfect ❤i love it from pronunciation of words 😊

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv Год назад +7

    Wanjiru hii nayo umetuspoil eeeei ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ms.sonnie3000
    @ms.sonnie3000 Год назад +4

    Claires voice and eloquence 😍

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 Год назад +6

    Claire you resemble Maureen waititu and I love your voice

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 Год назад +3

    Please work on the sound or is it the gentle voices of the girls? I had 🎧 but I found the sound low. Fan numero uno 1

  • @kaihuramercy1673
    @kaihuramercy1673 Год назад +6

    This was so beautiful cant wait for part 2

  • @MUGUNAKENDI
    @MUGUNAKENDI Год назад +3

    Clare' s smile🥰🥰🥰🥰 ....she's so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SakeKasir
    @SakeKasir Год назад +4

    Great conversation. Am glad to see that am not the only one that has never envisioned having a wedding.
    I like the idea of a marriage setting, and the dowry ceremony + going to the AG will do for me.

  • @wa_wira
    @wa_wira Год назад +7

    Congratulations 🎉 JoyRide
    Feeling safe in the Nook!!
    Had reflective session..
    Literally answering the questions from an honest personal perspective with the girls,,,
    Well, I must say I should have done better.
    I remember being a flower girl severally.
    But unlike most girls I never thought about my own wedding ever😒..
    Maybe if I did,I'd have chosen better life partner Just maybe or let's say made better life choices
    I actually thought about a wedding when life gave me a second chance for a "life time commitment" but kinda felt like it was too late considering the circumstances around it...but...who knows 😅
    Waiting for more rides❤❤

    • @mercykirugu8371
      @mercykirugu8371 Год назад

      Same here being a flower girl to so many weddings I never thought of mine..though I did mine but didn't work

  • @wanjiku_her
    @wanjiku_her Год назад +7

    Loooooving the conversation 🎉❤ giving me wedding fever😂

  • @halimaprecious8038
    @halimaprecious8038 Год назад +2

    I'd love a black wedding myself,and i would love to attend also

  • @ndanumue7137
    @ndanumue7137 Год назад +3

    Even i want a black wedding dress! I also wanted a black themed wedding but change of plans after hearing Clare's pov😂Only i will be in black, every other person can be colourful😂

  • @lynetmuriuki
    @lynetmuriuki Год назад +7

    Yaani kuna watu wanafanyiwa ruracio mara twice😁 Lovely podcast Njiru

  • @bancynthamba4719
    @bancynthamba4719 Год назад +2

    Such an amazing episode am loving this🎉🎉

  • @dianamutanu3796
    @dianamutanu3796 Год назад +2

    The love I have for this podcast is too much I love the conversation 😍

  • @eunicenzuki9219
    @eunicenzuki9219 Год назад +4

    Lydia all the wayyyy❤🎉

  • @lillieGatz
    @lillieGatz Год назад +7

    Team Lydia Km❤❤❤🎉

  • @talesofkiki5099
    @talesofkiki5099 Год назад +7

    Team lyddd heeeeeyyyyyyy❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BHS_Africa_Pod
    @BHS_Africa_Pod Год назад +4

    I have never thought of my wedding, lol, like at all. It has never occurred to me that I should have one 🤣 I was more committed to being a kick ass doctor, which i imagined way too many times, eish

  • @gracegift7994
    @gracegift7994 Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤ it's like breathing in freeeeeesh pure air phew 🎉

  • @Lavvvvvyyyyy
    @Lavvvvvyyyyy Год назад +1

    Claire's smile 😩😩😩🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @Grow_with_Mercy
    @Grow_with_Mercy Год назад +6

    I LOOOOOOOVE the conversation ❤,
    Lots of eye openers here
    I have been reminded about so much.
    And I like what @lydia mentioned on marriage and kids....
    I have been learning this morning of how it is very important to have the two as key then Kids will just flow when you two are GOOD
    the Triangle
    God, Husband, wife ....... Kids come after that but let them know you value them😊😊

  • @adelinemalemba1276
    @adelinemalemba1276 Год назад +2

    I've kept saying aaaaauw all through this episode..❤❤

  • @trendingentertainment2544
    @trendingentertainment2544 Год назад

    Beautiful ladies am such a big big fun of clair from when she was doing the cooking show at switch tv

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 Год назад +1

    Lovely ladies
    Just this morning I was wondering when will lydia come to the podcast 🎉🎉

  • @valentinembuthia5564
    @valentinembuthia5564 Год назад +3

    Here for lydia KM!!

  • @annkibe5506
    @annkibe5506 Год назад +3

    I love me some Lydia ❤

  • @lillykananatv9172
    @lillykananatv9172 Год назад +11

    Among the first one the comment section..
    Atleast I need a like button to niice🥰

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 Год назад +2

    Claire I love the way your pronounce Barack

  • @sharonjepchumba2547
    @sharonjepchumba2547 Год назад +1

    I just saw Lyd and I had to click
    Hey babes am here

  • @nimohke7961
    @nimohke7961 Год назад +4

    Great conversation ladies❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 Год назад +1

    The Nook🎉❤
    Love love the conversation
    I'm seeing marriages on a whole new perspective now

  • @ajnawangari
    @ajnawangari Год назад +2

    My wedding song right now is Conversations in the dark by John Legend

  • @YoungShiro
    @YoungShiro Год назад +1

    What a wholesome conversation. I enjoyed watching this ❤

  • @GivenMvula
    @GivenMvula Год назад +2

    Now I want to see Barak😊

  • @mekales8596
    @mekales8596 Год назад +1

    Walking down the aisle song from this moment by Shania Twain

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 Год назад

    Amazing conversations and ladies. I love it. Am learning everyday Good job Nook

  • @lamuriasworld
    @lamuriasworld Год назад

    Ooh yes girl power💞❤️❤️i am so happy 🥺🤗🤭

  • @gracesamuel9136
    @gracesamuel9136 Год назад +2

    Ben was just chilling 😂

  • @edwins..kitchendiaries
    @edwins..kitchendiaries Год назад +2

    Team lydia km here

  • @Qoieli
    @Qoieli Год назад +3

    Lydia🎉🎉

  • @mekales8596
    @mekales8596 Год назад

    The black wedding dress is like miss Tina Turner's wedding color theme

  • @woniwa
    @woniwa Год назад +13

    A white wedding i.e. dresses, 'decor, function etc isn't even a day, it's only a matter of hours!!! My hope is that the same favor and intricate detailing that goes into those few hours, continues into the marriage/partnership. Otherwise save your money, you will need it for therapy in the near future.

  • @goodgalgonebadchannel3718
    @goodgalgonebadchannel3718 Год назад +2

    Mukamiiii❤

  • @itscoachsamba
    @itscoachsamba Год назад +1

    Interesting conversation. Lots of open-minding AHA and Mm-hmm moments... Can you talk about Polygamy? It's clear in modern society a modern man is can't commit to one woman.

  • @variniawandere4468
    @variniawandere4468 Год назад +1

    I love to see this❤

  • @TerryKaranja-vi9dd
    @TerryKaranja-vi9dd Год назад

    Congratulations guys!!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @shirokuriah
    @shirokuriah Год назад

    This was really nice

  • @riyahshamar2222
    @riyahshamar2222 Год назад +6

    Lyd 😍😍😍

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL Год назад +9

    Is it weird that I am ready for marriage that pertains a wedding I even have it set out like I have the songs and all...However, NO MAN 😢 😂😂😂I don't know why deep down I feel I am going to have a wedding latest next year like I am so sure na akuna mtu eiiii God I trust in you ju these thoughts have never been in my mind😢

    • @stacythondi7353
      @stacythondi7353 Год назад +2

      Woow, it all starts in the mind, pray about it and God will make it happen dear 🙏😊❤

    • @YoungShiro
      @YoungShiro Год назад +1

      Pray about it dear. Our God performs miracles.

    • @riswanjiru8682
      @riswanjiru8682 Год назад

      It's the biological clock that one 😅

    • @greatness23FL
      @greatness23FL Год назад

      @@riswanjiru8682 I'm only 24 😂 clock iko sawa

  • @eunicevetu8955
    @eunicevetu8955 Год назад

    I love this ❤❤

  • @sallykhasoha9413
    @sallykhasoha9413 Год назад

    loving this!!!!!

  • @coca3845
    @coca3845 Год назад +1

    just wow!😍

  • @wanguichristine5461
    @wanguichristine5461 Год назад

    @Clare your husband bringing the cows is so significant.

  • @irenekeseu1840
    @irenekeseu1840 Год назад

    Coco ❤

  • @LauraPosh247
    @LauraPosh247 Год назад +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @FrancyWangui
    @FrancyWangui Год назад +1

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 Год назад

    Yesssssssssssss

  • @outshanklod6028
    @outshanklod6028 Год назад +3

    Its interesting having clare ..her reality verses expectations is on point .Please give us her insta

  • @carol76798
    @carol76798 Год назад

    😍😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥❤

  • @sharzykish502
    @sharzykish502 Год назад +3

    clara and barack😛

  • @salina9033
    @salina9033 Год назад

    When Wanjiru Njiru said she's a rebel without a cause especially with her family i was liiiike yessssssssssss!!!!!!😂i'm definitely being a rebel to some degree when it comes to my wedding

  • @bettykanjatv
    @bettykanjatv Год назад

    🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @maureenchepkemoi4880
    @maureenchepkemoi4880 Год назад

    Early 20s joyriders 😂👋

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 Год назад

    😂😂😂

  • @carolinemarangu8174
    @carolinemarangu8174 Год назад

    I identify with Coco on the kind of guy I want

  • @kindoreen7887
    @kindoreen7887 Год назад +2

    ❤❤

  • @LisaM007
    @LisaM007 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @SuhailaKoki254
    @SuhailaKoki254 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @LisaM007
    @LisaM007 Год назад

    ❤❤