Just had a girl message me on tinder saying “I’ll say hi first since men don’t do that anymore.” I replied “I used to message first but y’all never message back.”
Yep. I couldn't help it and looked up that chick on tt just to see if she stacks up to her comments; and no surprise, she is like a 6, extra lbs, sleeved, aggressive makeup, and looked in her early 40s not 30s (likely her mileage). She also has other vids that seem to be just ragging on men.
It's the other way around. There's no effort and no rejection for guys online so they all play the numbers game. In real life most women don't get much chance to meet anyone interested and asking them out in their normal routine.
Even if you have a good profile your odds are slim. Speaking from experience. Doesn’t make it entirely pointless, but don’t expect a lot. Most women have horrific profiles as well btw I’m literally doing a “study” on this right now and am collecting the worst bios I can find. It’s genuinely concerning the shit I’ve read and I’m not even taking pictures into account on this
If I wasn't horned up, I would never even browse, I know what kind of candidates exist in 2022 without even being in the dating scene. Further observations proved I was 100% right. It is truly a cess pool out there.
There will be always something missing for them. Easy to do this without facing the consequences of demostrating how rude you are and how ill you are inside. That btw it is what see does in the 'video'.
@@Sketch_Sesh I’m actually not even including those since that’s nearly every other bio. I have gathered a few juicy ones where the bitch literally said her dog comes first. Sounds like a keeper!
It's worse than that. A recent study showed that girls only swipe right on only 8% of male profiles. Now here's the worst part: Most girls on dating apps have no intention of actually meeting in person. They just use these apps to get free attention and social validation, and nothing more. So, you can invest all this time and energy into it, only to get flaked on or ghosted at the last minute.
@@masternoremac3738 sure they help. But I have seen some dorky looking, average height guys with some beautiful women. How do you explain that if it's down to 100% looks?
I'm 5'5" and I've always had an abundance of women in my life. Even on garbage dating apps to this day. Tired of men crying about their height. Fix that weak as perspective. I know people that are blind, lost lims, or in a wheel chair, that would give ANYTHING to have this be their biggest problem. Again FIX YOUR PERSPECTIVE. Get fit, better clothes, good fragrances, better body language, practice small talk and banter. Get to work!! Much love from Seattle!!
Yes, people in Seattle have a reputation of being cold and standoffish. It helps being friendly without being a simp. Yes, be in great shape and project status.
A lot of us men don't go around taking photos all day like women hence we have nothing but terrible selfie photos so it's probably best to pay somebody to take professional photos for us.
Thoughts on Facebook? I haven’t updated photos in years and I almost feel it’s better to just close it off and hide it than be seen as not being sociable or active because you don’t document your whole life.
I think you'd be better off not giving a damn. Most women on dating apps are just looking for attention, free meals, and cash. Is that really what you are looking for in a woman?
Back when I was subscribed to eight major dating sites from 2012 to 2017, I had professional headshot and posing photos taken, I got 100+ dates in that time, a lot of the women commented how nice my photos and profile were.
Never do dinner dates unless it's someone you already know in real life as a good prospect, otherwise it turns women off, costs a lot and puts pressure to talk for hours. If you must use these apps, Go for coffee and then take it from there. If they like you they will sit in their car somewhere romantic and get it on
@@IGamingStation - 100+ actual dinner or coffee dates in 5 years. That was how many women agreed to a foodie call with me. The number of actual matches was way higher.
I deleted it all, social media, dating apps etc. I feels lonely for sure, but I have been scheduling dinners with friends and family. Not only am I spending more time with people who actually love me but I’m not addicted to my phone and able to sit though an entire meal just talking and laughing and enjoying that moment which you’ll never get back. Not having social media and dating apps forces you to reach out to real people for human interaction and I’ve never felt more alive.
Best advice, men. Go live your best life. Meet women organically doing stuff you like. Modern women using dating apps are losers and men using aps are being rejected by superficial losers. Aps destroy your self esteem by constant rejection. So get out and live life, and don't worry. Most women aren't worth the time and effort.
In my best days as an absolute stud, online dating was not good for me. That was early 2000s. I probably had a 1% success rate. Maybe less. But women actually seemed to put in some effort. Now with the modern aps and attitudes it seems like a total waste of time.
I'm a 22 year old broke male from California. Here is my list of standards I use to prequalify women for the first date. If there is a single thing on here she cannot meet, she's disqualified and I will never date her. FWB is fine, but I won't commit to her. Let me know what ya'll think since most females get triggered when they see it. -No mental health issues, traumatized or unstable women in general. -No guy friends and no talking to exes. -Not have an ugly laugh nor an ugly moan. -No obese women. -Can't want marriage. -No single moms. -Not smoke or drink alcohol. -Have her own source of income. If we live together, I won't charge her to live with me or for groceries. But she is responsible for the personal expenses she had before we met. -Must be over all her exes and not carry any past anger, grudge or trauma onto me. -Can't be super into style/fashion, wear fake lashes, paint herself in makeup or drown herself in perfume. -No unnecessary fake body parts or cosmetic procedures. -Have love, respect and goals for herself. -Be an asset, not a liability. Provide more than sex, cooking and cleaning. -Her girlfriends are what she ends up like, so they must be of high value. If her girlfriends are hoes, smoke, drink, or club on weekends then I can't date her. -Must have either big tits, a big ass, or both. I'm not coming home to a flat girl. -No drama queens, party goers, ravers, clubbers, strippers, sex workers, pornstars, or anyone famous. -No liberals, pronoun/gender identity believers or gun haters. -Must prefer home meals over eating out. -Must go to bed before 9PM and be willing to sleep with a box fan on with bedroom temperatures under 68 degrees if she lives with me. Good sleep is more important to me than women.
I actually had a girl compliment me on my pictures the other day. I didn't spend money on a photo shoot but definitely took some time to get some good ones and edited them. I'm 41 and not super attractive but I have had alot of success on dating apps. I get alot of matches from really attractive women and a few of them have turned into dates and more. Good photos and minimal texting, dont try to sleep with them right away, setting up a coffee date first, then invite them over for a second date is what has been working for me lately
Exactly, although I haven't invested in proper photos I've still been able to stick to messaging that focuses only on arranging dates. Coffee first date, then something fun the second.
Default swiping behavior of men: "Looking for something to Accept!" Default swiping behavior of women: "Looking for a reason to REJECT!" (I bet 50% of those in real life could make an emotional impact but they get reduced to words, numbers, photo lighting etc)
The numbers are far worse than that now. I would argue that only the top 1-5% of men get any results from online dating nowadays. And even those guys have to deal with tons of flaking, ghosting, catfish, liars, etc. It's just a huge cesspool now.
Approaching random women is high effort with a low reward structure. Online dating is more efficient hence it's low effort low-medium reward hence it's the superior way to date in the modern era.
I shudder to think how long things have to decline for in order for things to change. Cause no one's in charge, women don't learn, men stopped caring & they can't just ban dating apps. So we are literally screwed until things crumble completely. Meaning it won't softly start to improve, things will get so much worse before they ever get better. We're on a steep decline.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 How is it more efficient? You realize that even average girls on dating apps and websites get hundreds of messages per day, while most men get next to nothing out of it?
@@joshspiker Optimize your dating profile and you will be able to get a 5-10% match rate, it only takes like 15mins to swipe through 100 profiles in a day hence 5-10 matches in 15 minutes is more efficient than anything you could ever pull off in real life.
Few months ago i met a woman through online dating.Our first two dates were good.We already hugged and kissed a few times and were holding hands.She was jobless and completely broke.But at least she was slim and good looking.So therefore i invited her on a 4 day trip at the beautiful coast in croatia.I said that i would pay all the expenses.So we drove to the coast.She started to complain about the drive, because it took 4 hours to get there.Then she complained about the hotel room, although it was okay.Then she complained about the restaurant, although it was okay.Then she complained about the beach.Then she became bossy and complained about me.Then i completely ignored her and she luckily left by herself already after two days. Damn it! Women have become almost useless.Their three holes are their only plus.
Your first clues should have been she was jobless and broke...Why entertain anyone like that? She's not committed to working why would be committed to a relationship?
You are in Croatia and spent money on a woman without sex? Are you a joker? I have a VIP package in Zagreb. 5 girls, 5 nights, and I make those girls do Dubai potty stuff.
Bought The Unplugged Alpha book and followed the advice for dating profiles. I saw a marked increase in likes with using the professional photos alone. Test out different strategies for doing your bio based on your goals/values. Be aware of your area and demographics. E.g., San Diego has more of a “hookup culture” than Salt Lake City. The number one aspect is to be interesting by focusing on yourself, keep pursuing excellence and the women will come. Not being a fat body helps also. Level up gents.
I don’t know why people complain about online dating. It has never been any easier to find decent dates. If your dates are train wrecks then you might want to learn how to filter and qualify better
Bottom line is, even if you do get swiped right on and if you get a date, you can get dumped in a heartbeat. Women have ridiculous standards because they have endless options. And we men, are providing them with these options. Get off the dating apps. They'll see their options dry up and they'll have to get back to work to actually meeting a decent guy. The hard way. Online dating has destroyed courtship. Everyone on a dating site is part of and contributes to this problem.
Reasons I swipe left or block women on dating sites and will send less than a handful of "likes" every week: Overweight Tattoos Piercings Dyed hair Single moms "I'm vaccinated" "I'm pro choice" "I'm strong and independent" I spend less than 5 minutes a day on dating sites when I even bother to open them. I've got better things to do. Like working out or reading a good book.
So how do you give the power to people that don't know what they want. So by going into these apps as a man you are given the power to people that don't know what they want so the way you beat them at this game is not playing at all. So make it your game by approaching them in real life without them expecting it and doesn't matter how tall or short you are or how you look like as long as you know what to say , how to say it and how to peak their interest through conversation you'll be all right. The only advice I can give you when it comes to conversation is the easiest thing to do be truthful and honest what I mean by that is tell her what brought you to her whether it is a certain body part that looked good to you whatever it is bro just say it.
Single guy here, 41, on zero dating apps. I have no interest in dating right now. Some female firends and one guy when we go out, don't get why I don't bother going up to talk to girls. For one, most cases I am give/take 2x their age, plus I just have to much going on and dont need that type of headache.
As Will Rogers once said “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” To get better photos men could try something like the book ‘500 Poses for Photographing Men’, and learn about the fundamentals of a good photo. A good book for that is ‘Stunning Digital Photography’ by Tony Northrup. It also contains a great section on portraits. For 10 bucks it’s more than worth your time and money. And maybe invest in a good compact camera. Most brands like Sony, Canon and Fujifilm make affordable cameras with great lenses, great sensors and excellent auto focus (AF). Auto focus is where it’s at in the camera world, and the best way to keep all your images sharp. Just briefly, and there would be people here better qualified to speak on this than me, but technically speaking, sharp photos with uncluttered backgrounds using the rule of thirds - that’s a good start. Learn to use the histogram on your camera - keep the mountain in the middle so that you’re well exposed. Understand that a focal length on the camera will dramatically change how your face looks. A 50mm focal length is about the same as how the human eye sees. However, longer focal lengths 80mm-120mm are more pleasing to the eye. Do not take pictures of your face using a wide angle lens - less than 30-40mm. Wear something that looks good e.g. button-up shirt (no logos) nice pants, nice hair cut etc. Your best bet are some nice candid shots of you in your environment doing shit you like to do.
Anyone notice she swipped left on Duke Uni Grad degree, Sr. Product Manager that was 5'11". Guy looked fit, well dressed and still didnt make the cut to even have a basic match. Let alone message or meet. Yet they complain there are no men available...so delusional its comical. "Buy a dog, die alone..."
It reminds me of an interview that Matt Drudge did a few years ago. He was referring to news and news websites, but basically he was implying that all online platforms are digital ghettos. You're in a situation where someone else controls the terms and conditions for communications. And you have to agree to them surveilling everything that you do in order to be there. They can they can monitor what you search, who you view, who views you, and read all your messages. If you choose to use those apps then you have to go into it with the understanding that they are going to have total control.
In bumble or any dating app, if you don’t want a relationship or don’t want kids, should you lie and put that you do to better your chances? Especially when you just want to get laid?
Probably better to play coy and tell them that you're taking it one step at time, kinda going with the flow sort of thing as most girls prefer doing that themselves and they can't decode such fuckboy language so tis what i'd suggest :).
I can't say online dating in it itself is bad or a waste of time. I personally know a handful (5 guys or less) that ended up finding good wives on dating apps. But when I asked them how one told me "I had to go through a lot of duds". I would agree never pay money for points or credits. Waste of time and the odds are too stacked against you to pay.
I fully disagree with this advice. Y'all are telling men to outright lie about height, and be very deceptive in photos. This is the very thing we complain about with women. Starting relationships on dishonesty is failure. Main takeaway is women have ruined dating through hypergamy and promiscuity, wasting their best years chasing Chad, sleeping around, and then after the wall often with kids they get ultra picky. Don't play that game.
Real dating : talk to a girl, get a number, meet her Online dating : make a profile, have good pictures, pay money for a match, write the correct messages, probably meet... It's just adding more steps that makes it more complicated
Tinder doesn't work for facially less attractive men. You could be 9/10 in looks and be broke, unemployed, and fresh out of college but still have a greater chance of initial success (even if it's for a one night stand or some attention depending on what you're after) than a guy with 4/10 looks but is rich since he doesn't stand out as women consider him ugly and that someone better will come along. It's very superficial and is essentially endless profile shopping since men outnumber women online. I've quit using these apps years ago and prefer cold approaches, meeting women in public and through social circles as I found it to be a more successful and healthy way of developing your social skills, confidence and game in-person - I haven't looked back since.
Online Dating has run its course. I was an early adopter from 2010 to about 2016 and There was never a shortage. Now.... good luck even getting a conversation. It's a waste of time.
I would like to see the talking lady's profile. I'm on my end 40s, back to dating. I like photography so I took my pictures myself with a tripod. Registered on Bumble a few days ago and got around 150 likes in 3 days which seems pretty decent in the Montreal area. Maaaaaaaann, from that I got only nine matches. Leaving apart a very few hot moms (4 or 5 max) who i would not date, the rest were a disaster eithre due to the horrible profile pictures or hate comments in their profile descriptions. Yes, some dudes still don't get how to take good pictures but netither do lots of ladies. Just sharing my experience since in our days it all seems to be on men's sholuders.
Height means nothing when it comes to dating…I’m 5’ 9” with shoes on and I have never had a problem dating 7’s & 8’s on a consistent basis…why because I’m confident in who I am, better than average looks, well groomed and know how to dress for any occasion…most guys are corny and are afraid women…I have never had a problem talking to women because I never put women on a pedestal and I know that 9/10 she is going to benefit from me being in her life…Confidence in who you are is the key in any relationship social or business
I don’t know if I’d pay much attention to her video. Think she’s acting because she’s on camera like “watch me say no to all” I’m sure she liked a few of the guys
Go online to date and your pics will be examined and scrutinized down to the minimal percent. And IF your pics pass the initial bar your info will disqualify you. If you're not rich, super adventurous, super good looking, you get any matches.
Prior to tie-dye shirt guy was a guy posing with a literal fish (he obviously has gone fishin, caught a bite), Jaren (male Karen?) Was just delayed in giving his input.
I am from Turkey. Women similar too. They think them self 10. Even they are 1. As a result of statistics, 96% of women in my country called themselves very beautiful. Its more than Europa and even Russia. Lol. Hello from Turkey.
3:10 well for one it looks sunny so why would he smile when naturally you're going to squint? I know, you can't ask emotional creatures a rational question but I was told smiling makes you look soft and women are looking for that protect-them vibe so the dude with the stronger eyebrow ridge shouldn't smile but maybe he shouldn't look at the camera either so it doesn't look like he took the picture himself, maybe as if some girl took it for him where he could tilt the camera? I don't know, I don't do photography but you really could angle it and look away and make women think that an ex-girlfriend took the picture maybe get some of that pretty selection going on because women are that gullible
Sorry guys but investing in a photoshoot fore online dating beyond nuts. Problem with online dating is People pretending to be a different person. Met the person in real life and you will call them false advertising. People lie,brag, posting unrealistic pictures and act totally different online. All men stop wasting money on narcissistic women.
What? Only 4% of men in North America are 6’2? Wow I didn’t know that. I’m finally in the top percentage of something 👍🏻. It’s taken me 38 years to realize how easy I’ve had it in my life. I wish I knew these things years ago
Online dating is a waste of time and in some ways a cop out for men that don’t want to approach women in person…most women online don’t look the same in person and they often don’t tell the truth about who they are…the best way to meet a woman is in person so you can check out how she looks physically, her attitude and whether she is actually attracted to you…if a woman doesn’t have “burning desire” like Cooper always says leave her alone…a man should only date women that are more into him than he is into her
That's what happens after decades of spineless, over-the-top pathetic sוmpy behaviour on the part of men. Women actually started believing them. Crazy, huh?
If you are on bumble then you are not watching channels like this to be a better man. Bumble is an app that doesn't let the man make the first move. You do NOT want a woman from bumble. Just like she will automatically swipe left, if you somehow manage to get someone off of bumble you will automatically get swindled, divorced, and sent through the justice system to squeeze every last drop out of you. If you have to use a dating app then fine at least make it your best profile but don't use feminazi sjw apps like bumble or okcupid, etc.
Why even go on dating apps? There’s lot of girls that would swipe left for me based on looks, but in real life they will let me bang if I portray myself as funny, confident, fun. You’re much better off talking to random girls you meet out and about through your errands etc than online dating. That is a waste of time.
Online dating is more efficient is why. You swipe on 100 women a day within 15-20 minutes, how long do you think it would take to introduce yourself to 100 women irl?
@@4evahodlingdoge226 you target women you like, or that you know you’re their type. Online dating is giving free attention away for free. Also only letting them decide based on your looks, which as a man is the least important thing.
@@hattrick257 If you swipe on 100 girls a day for 30 days that's 3000 women, at even a matchrate of 5-10% that's between 150-300 which can be achieved if you put in the effort into your profile. The whole point is to have options, if you only cold approach irl you won't have nearly the same amount of options hence online dating is just way superior.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 You're speaking theoretically. In theory, it's more efficient. But the guys who've actually used these apps for a long period of time know that's it's largely a huge waste of time.
@@joshspiker That's like saying most businesses fail so don't start a business. No, do your research, plan accordingly, set yourself up for success and the chances for failure is a lot less. Stop worrying about what happens for the average guy, the average human being is mediocre and doesn't put in much effort.
Online dating has worked out well for a lot of people that I know. I have never used it to spin plates. I have used it in search of a longterm relationship. Rich and the boys make a good suggestion to cultivate a high-quality profile. Take time and take good pictures. Like any experience in life, you get out of it what you put into it. I do round up to my height on the app. But we’re only talking about half an inch here. Still, it makes a difference. If your objective is a long-term relationship, go into this understanding that dating is a process of elimination. That is why the platform works well. It allows put on your profile what you value and your interests. And this helps to narrow the pool. OLD is not for the faint of heart. There will be rejection, awkward situations, and disappointments. But to quote Garth Brooks, life is not tried; it’s merely survived if you are standing outside of the fire. There are no unicorns out there. But there are plenty of good women. You just have to put in the time to elevate yourself and to find the right lady. I met my lady on Match and she brings to our relationship a full slate of green flags. There are very few red flags, and we both have them, we have identified them, and we work on them. Good luck in your quest, boys!
Women have absolutely no game - zero effort. Whales on POF msg going - “hello”. U R expected to do all the chasing even when they are 🤮. 90% are not worth the effort and the other 10% get hounded !
Before online dating was the norm, some 10 years ago, women did not have access to men ouside their social circle, unless they went to clubs/bars and met men there. The social circle of a women in real life its rather small after she is out of the college and takes the adult responsabilities of having a job. She could date a guy from work, church, someone she's been introduced by a friend or from club/bar as mentioned above. But what apps like tinder, hindge etc have done is gave women opportuinities they did not have before. She can now hook up with random guys from those apps browsing their profiles from the comfort of her home, without anyone knowing or calling her a slut! Those apps are like a secret power that they now have. As before they would give chances to other less attractive men from their social circle, now those guys have nothing. And they chase the validation and sex from the top 10-20% who fuck them then kick them to the curb.
No hate on my homie, but he is a given: slim- athletic,good looking, cute face latino that lives with his parents and has a job that pays him $5 dollars above the minimum wage and gets more action than me and/or anyone else that I know... I live semi alone with my disabled mother,I have my own townhouse with 4 bedrooms with a 2.5 bath that im shy of paying it off very soon, and I make around $80k a year. In medical terms, I'm consider Obese at 5"11 and 260 lbs..I could be a provider for a woman, but I guess women are after Chads and when chad knocks them up and leaves them with their baby behind, they hoping they could find me to come to their rescue (That ain't happening!)...Similar thing with my buddy, I know what he pulling; I ain't mad at him (don't hate the player;hate the game), but he is a given Chad.While I do find it a bit challenging to date because women have all this expectations and want some Chad caliber good looks too...But you, right Internet Dating or Dating Apps are terrible..I did a while ago Plenty of Fish and that was a big tidious.Now I don't do social media in trying to meet woman, I rather try to meet a woman walking out in public and myself come tak to her...Wish you luck guys.
A lot of those fotos were bad, sunglasses and hats, but she skipped past about 5 pretty good looking guys and shes likely just avg herself. When I did eHarmony 10-15 yrs ago I got about 3 out of 10 women I messaged interested and met with. Most were average/little chubby, some above average, hot but single for good reason. Basically way below my standard of who I had been with by meeting people through friends or just life. Meet people in life in person guys, don't demean yourselves with this crap. And when you do, do not commit, do not move in, do not pay more than half.
Guys are going to be guys. And they're actually going to be more "real and honest" in their photos. Because they''re not going to spend 10 minutes on a selfie including filters etc.... Women do that nonsense. And then when you show up to meet her, you're like, who the flip are you? I know guys that would spend more time taking the right photo of their car to post in their profile.... rather than themselves. And I'm pretty sure Rich Cooper knows what I'm saying.
@@nates.8402 not sure what planet 🌎 u live on cant be earth definitely cant be amerikkka or u would now vast majority of woman 5,5 still dont want to date someone equal height as them they say it all the time they perfer taller even on rich coopers show they say it
Online dating is a low risk low reward approach. You don’t risk getting rejected, fumbling to find your words or having an awkward conversation but in return you are competing with thousands of men and chances of success are slim unless you stick out (money, status, looks). Just go to a bar and approach a chick.
As someone who does photography for a living, all these guys had horrible pictures! Maybe invest into getting some good pictures taken of you that show case what your lifestyle is all about
Even when you play that game right, look what you get - the leftovers. Unless you want to be the last man in the gang bang, dating doesnt work, period.
The truth about online dating is simply don't do it.
Facts such a waste of time and energy
You can do it...just don't ever ever ever pay for this garbage
Or pay somebody to take professional photos of you and slay.
Exactly
Women are attracted to personality. They don't even care if the guy is attractive or not in real life. Just look around!
Just had a girl message me on tinder saying “I’ll say hi first since men don’t do that anymore.” I replied “I used to message first but y’all never message back.”
u dropped this 👑
...and she didn't reply :D
Let us know after you smashed that
If I don’t message the girl first it’s because I don’t care and she’s “hot enough to bang” but that’s really it
And she didn’t respond lol
Any reasonable woman, is getting hit on irl, and has no need for online dating. All women doing online dating are bottom of the barrel
But these 35+ overweight single moms still looking for chads lol
Yep. I couldn't help it and looked up that chick on tt just to see if she stacks up to her comments; and no surprise, she is like a 6, extra lbs, sleeved, aggressive makeup, and looked in her early 40s not 30s (likely her mileage). She also has other vids that seem to be just ragging on men.
It's the other way around. There's no effort and no rejection for guys online so they all play the numbers game. In real life most women don't get much chance to meet anyone interested and asking them out in their normal routine.
Or they're extremely vain & pretentious hot ones that need extra attention & validation, so they match but never message or reply.
And if they do they have no real intention of ever meeting. Its just a bonus for them. A cherry on an already very large sundae.
Even if you have a good profile your odds are slim. Speaking from experience. Doesn’t make it entirely pointless, but don’t expect a lot. Most women have horrific profiles as well btw I’m literally doing a “study” on this right now and am collecting the worst bios I can find. It’s genuinely concerning the shit I’ve read and I’m not even taking pictures into account on this
If I wasn't horned up, I would never even browse, I know what kind of candidates exist in 2022 without even being in the dating scene. Further observations proved I was 100% right. It is truly a cess pool out there.
There will be always something missing for them. Easy to do this without facing the consequences of demostrating how rude you are and how ill you are inside.
That btw it is what see does in the 'video'.
They all put
“ I like to travel “
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Don’t forget the most popular bios: “I’ve had muh fun”, “not here for games” and “muh kids come first”
@@Sketch_Sesh I’m actually not even including those since that’s nearly every other bio. I have gathered a few juicy ones where the bitch literally said her dog comes first. Sounds like a keeper!
If she needs a dating app, she is low value.
What about men?
Truth is unless you’re a chad aka a top 15-20% you are going to to get very little to no matches whatsoever
Even if you're a good looking guy they're still gonna date some chicken leg loser dude they met at the gym.
I guess the question is...how do you become that top chad?
It's worse than that. A recent study showed that girls only swipe right on only 8% of male profiles. Now here's the worst part: Most girls on dating apps have no intention of actually meeting in person. They just use these apps to get free attention and social validation, and nothing more. So, you can invest all this time and energy into it, only to get flaked on or ghosted at the last minute.
@@jsts22 Genetics are everything...
@@masternoremac3738 sure they help. But I have seen some dorky looking, average height guys with some beautiful women. How do you explain that if it's down to 100% looks?
Honestly in terms of interacting with women I’ve gotten way better results IRL vs dating apps
Amen
Facts
Same
YESSSSSS IRL is where it’s at…don’t buy into the dating app world. Full of scammers, both male & female con-artists!
I'm 5'5" and I've always had an abundance of women in my life. Even on garbage dating apps to this day. Tired of men crying about their height. Fix that weak as perspective. I know people that are blind, lost lims, or in a wheel chair, that would give ANYTHING to have this be their biggest problem. Again FIX YOUR PERSPECTIVE. Get fit, better clothes, good fragrances, better body language, practice small talk and banter. Get to work!! Much love from Seattle!!
Excellent comment. I've been bald AF since my twenties and I got more ass than a toilet seat because I DONT CARE.
@@mrsherwood2599 haha exactly!!!
Yes, people in Seattle have a reputation of being cold and standoffish. It helps being friendly without being a simp. Yes, be in great shape and project status.
@@stevec3526 💯
I have all that and still struggle
A lot of us men don't go around taking photos all day like women hence we have nothing but terrible selfie photos so it's probably best to pay somebody to take professional photos for us.
It's actually better to pay for professionals girls to f you, more economic.
It's better not to bother with dating sites at all.
Even if we’re not online dating, I think it’s important to take good photos. We will get older and looking at back at these photos.
Thoughts on Facebook? I haven’t updated photos in years and I almost feel it’s better to just close it off and hide it than be seen as not being sociable or active because you don’t document your whole life.
I think you'd be better off not giving a damn. Most women on dating apps are just looking for attention, free meals, and cash. Is that really what you are looking for in a woman?
Back when I was subscribed to eight major dating sites from 2012 to 2017, I had professional headshot and posing photos taken, I got 100+ dates in that time, a lot of the women commented how nice my photos and profile were.
Never do dinner dates unless it's someone you already know in real life as a good prospect, otherwise it turns women off, costs a lot and puts pressure to talk for hours. If you must use these apps, Go for coffee and then take it from there. If they like you they will sit in their car somewhere romantic and get it on
100+ dates, like actual meetups or just matches?
@@IGamingStation - 100+ actual dinner or coffee dates in 5 years. That was how many women agreed to a foodie call with me. The number of actual matches was way higher.
@@daveg4417 yeah, that sounds completely doable. Not sure I'd want to date that many strangers but good for you.
I deleted it all, social media, dating apps etc. I feels lonely for sure, but I have been scheduling dinners with friends and family. Not only am I spending more time with people who actually love me but I’m not addicted to my phone and able to sit though an entire meal just talking and laughing and enjoying that moment which you’ll never get back. Not having social media and dating apps forces you to reach out to real people for human interaction and I’ve never felt more alive.
100% rl connections is def. where it’s at! Good that you have found what makes you happy and contented.♥️
Best advice, men. Go live your best life. Meet women organically doing stuff you like. Modern women using dating apps are losers and men using aps are being rejected by superficial losers. Aps destroy your self esteem by constant rejection. So get out and live life, and don't worry. Most women aren't worth the time and effort.
In my best days as an absolute stud, online dating was not good for me. That was early 2000s. I probably had a 1% success rate. Maybe less. But women actually seemed to put in some effort. Now with the modern aps and attitudes it seems like a total waste of time.
I'm a 22 year old broke male from California. Here is my list of standards I use to prequalify women for the first date. If there is a single thing on here she cannot meet, she's disqualified and I will never date her. FWB is fine, but I won't commit to her. Let me know what ya'll think since most females get triggered when they see it.
-No mental health issues, traumatized or unstable women in general.
-No guy friends and no talking to exes.
-Not have an ugly laugh nor an ugly moan.
-No obese women.
-Can't want marriage.
-No single moms.
-Not smoke or drink alcohol.
-Have her own source of income. If we live together, I won't charge her to live with me or for groceries. But she is responsible for the personal expenses she had before we met.
-Must be over all her exes and not carry any past anger, grudge or trauma onto me.
-Can't be super into style/fashion, wear fake lashes, paint herself in makeup or drown herself in perfume.
-No unnecessary fake body parts or cosmetic procedures.
-Have love, respect and goals for herself.
-Be an asset, not a liability. Provide more than sex, cooking and cleaning.
-Her girlfriends are what she ends up like, so they must be of high value. If her girlfriends are hoes, smoke, drink, or club on weekends then I can't date her.
-Must have either big tits, a big ass, or both. I'm not coming home to a flat girl.
-No drama queens, party goers, ravers, clubbers, strippers, sex workers, pornstars, or anyone famous.
-No liberals, pronoun/gender identity believers or gun haters.
-Must prefer home meals over eating out.
-Must go to bed before 9PM and be willing to sleep with a box fan on with bedroom temperatures under 68 degrees if she lives with me. Good sleep is more important to me than women.
That’s a lot to ask being broke
It’s the minimum. I look for a billion little things, so I had to make this list so that I don’t have to look for as much on the first date
@@tyronesmith3812 1. must like red hot chili peppers under the bridge. 2. Must not be old enough to know the song.
One of my qualifiers is not being over 30. But I didn’t add that on there because I’ll know a woman’s age by her looks before I even talk to her
@@tyronesmith3812 fotos are typically from years ago, usually at a slim point in their lives.
Make another rule:
No. Old. Fotos.
Bottom line avoid dating apps.
Waste of time. Bottom line.
Actually I agree. I never get a online dating. But I have friends doing good. Evet they dont have chad look.
I actually had a girl compliment me on my pictures the other day. I didn't spend money on a photo shoot but definitely took some time to get some good ones and edited them. I'm 41 and not super attractive but I have had alot of success on dating apps. I get alot of matches from really attractive women and a few of them have turned into dates and more. Good photos and minimal texting, dont try to sleep with them right away, setting up a coffee date first, then invite them over for a second date is what has been working for me lately
Exactly, although I haven't invested in proper photos I've still been able to stick to messaging that focuses only on arranging dates. Coffee first date, then something fun the second.
@@anthonybatissa1417 Not quite, but my career and growth come first.
@@anthonybatissa1417 not even close! I live in a studio apartment and live on a teachers salary
@@anthonybatissa1417 work place romance. Great place to meet people but a great place to make real messy situations
Come on mate. You're fine looking. Don't put yourself down like that!
Protect your mental health. Stay off the Dating Apps
Default swiping behavior of men: "Looking for something to Accept!"
Default swiping behavior of women: "Looking for a reason to REJECT!"
(I bet 50% of those in real life could make an emotional impact but they get reduced to words, numbers, photo lighting etc)
Too bad online apps have become the norm now and all women go for the top 10-20% of men from those apps. Shit's screwed up......
İts same in real life too. They sometimes date with out of %10-20 percantage but they dont respect them. And dont give them them sex best way.
The numbers are far worse than that now. I would argue that only the top 1-5% of men get any results from online dating nowadays. And even those guys have to deal with tons of flaking, ghosting, catfish, liars, etc. It's just a huge cesspool now.
Online dating apps are destroying the experience of modern approach. It all but completely dissolved the natural organic way to meet someone new.
Approaching random women is high effort with a low reward structure. Online dating is more efficient hence it's low effort low-medium reward hence it's the superior way to date in the modern era.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 modern dating strategy that's been normalized yes. Superior? Absolutely not my friend.
I shudder to think how long things have to decline for in order for things to change. Cause no one's in charge, women don't learn, men stopped caring & they can't just ban dating apps. So we are literally screwed until things crumble completely. Meaning it won't softly start to improve, things will get so much worse before they ever get better. We're on a steep decline.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 How is it more efficient? You realize that even average girls on dating apps and websites get hundreds of messages per day, while most men get next to nothing out of it?
@@joshspiker Optimize your dating profile and you will be able to get a 5-10% match rate, it only takes like 15mins to swipe through 100 profiles in a day hence 5-10 matches in 15 minutes is more efficient than anything you could ever pull off in real life.
"Their standards go up as their options become smaller", this just breaks all the laws of physics for me, can't help these kinds of women.
Few months ago i met a woman through online dating.Our first two dates were good.We already hugged and kissed a few times and were holding hands.She was jobless and completely broke.But at least she was slim and good looking.So therefore i invited her on a 4 day trip at the beautiful coast in croatia.I said that i would pay all the expenses.So we drove to the coast.She started to complain about the drive, because it took 4 hours to get there.Then she complained about the hotel room, although it was okay.Then she complained about the restaurant, although it was okay.Then she complained about the beach.Then she became bossy and complained about me.Then i completely ignored her and she luckily left by herself already after two days. Damn it! Women have become almost useless.Their three holes are their only plus.
Your first clues should have been she was jobless and broke...Why entertain anyone like that? She's not committed to working why would be committed to a relationship?
You are in Croatia and spent money on a woman without sex? Are you a joker?
I have a VIP package in Zagreb. 5 girls, 5 nights, and I make those girls do Dubai potty stuff.
Bought The Unplugged Alpha book and followed the advice for dating profiles. I saw a marked increase in likes with using the professional photos alone. Test out different strategies for doing your bio based on your goals/values. Be aware of your area and demographics. E.g., San Diego has more of a “hookup culture” than Salt Lake City. The number one aspect is to be interesting by focusing on yourself, keep pursuing excellence and the women will come. Not being a fat body helps also. Level up gents.
Ok lets just say you get likes and all ....but how you going to keep their interest if you are not interested enough. Its just a big waste of time
If this is my competition why aren't I getting matches? Why are all these dudes in hats and sunglasses? You can't see their face
I don’t know why people complain about online dating. It has never been any easier to find decent dates. If your dates are train wrecks then you might want to learn how to filter and qualify better
Wow these guys had a lucky escape from this woman did not choose them
Bottom line is, even if you do get swiped right on and if you get a date, you can get dumped in a heartbeat. Women have ridiculous standards because they have endless options. And we men, are providing them with these options. Get off the dating apps. They'll see their options dry up and they'll have to get back to work to actually meeting a decent guy. The hard way. Online dating has destroyed courtship. Everyone on a dating site is part of and contributes to this problem.
Reasons I swipe left or block women on dating sites and will send less than a handful of "likes" every week:
Overweight
Tattoos
Piercings
Dyed hair
Single moms
"I'm vaccinated"
"I'm pro choice"
"I'm strong and independent"
I spend less than 5 minutes a day on dating sites when I even bother to open them. I've got better things to do. Like working out or reading a good book.
Is it bad my ex gf identified as 5 of those?
Broo those are all red flags indeed
I saw a bumble ad with a girl joking about going on free foodie date, not joking. It’s defo catered to women, men will follow obviously
So how do you give the power to people that don't know what they want. So by going into these apps as a man you are given the power to people that don't know what they want so the way you beat them at this game is not playing at all. So make it your game by approaching them in real life without them expecting it and doesn't matter how tall or short you are or how you look like as long as you know what to say , how to say it and how to peak their interest through conversation you'll be all right. The only advice I can give you when it comes to conversation is the easiest thing to do be truthful and honest what I mean by that is tell her what brought you to her whether it is a certain body part that looked good to you whatever it is bro just say it.
Single guy here, 41, on zero dating apps. I have no interest in dating right now. Some female firends and one guy when we go out, don't get why I don't bother going up to talk to girls. For one, most cases I am give/take 2x their age, plus I just have to much going on and dont need that type of headache.
Gentlemen: Put your phone in your pocket. Dress nice. GET OUT!
1:44 sht neck beard. But Rich you look like an old man with the Santa beard and the coke bottle glasses.
As Will Rogers once said “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.”
To get better photos men could try something like the book ‘500 Poses for Photographing Men’, and learn about the fundamentals of a good photo. A good book for that is ‘Stunning Digital Photography’ by Tony Northrup. It also contains a great section on portraits. For 10 bucks it’s more than worth your time and money. And maybe invest in a good compact camera. Most brands like Sony, Canon and Fujifilm make affordable cameras with great lenses, great sensors and excellent auto focus (AF). Auto focus is where it’s at in the camera world, and the best way to keep all your images sharp.
Just briefly, and there would be people here better qualified to speak on this than me, but technically speaking, sharp photos with uncluttered backgrounds using the rule of thirds - that’s a good start. Learn to use the histogram on your camera - keep the mountain in the middle so that you’re well exposed. Understand that a focal length on the camera will dramatically change how your face looks. A 50mm focal length is about the same as how the human eye sees. However, longer focal lengths 80mm-120mm are more pleasing to the eye. Do not take pictures of your face using a wide angle lens - less than 30-40mm. Wear something that looks good e.g. button-up shirt (no logos) nice pants, nice hair cut etc. Your best bet are some nice candid shots of you in your environment doing shit you like to do.
Anyone notice she swipped left on Duke Uni Grad degree, Sr. Product Manager that was 5'11". Guy looked fit, well dressed and still didnt make the cut to even have a basic match. Let alone message or meet. Yet they complain there are no men available...so delusional its comical. "Buy a dog, die alone..."
Fellas, just COLD APPROACH...... fuck "investing" in a photo shoot....lmaoooooo....
It reminds me of an interview that Matt Drudge did a few years ago. He was referring to news and news websites, but basically he was implying that all online platforms are digital ghettos. You're in a situation where someone else controls the terms and conditions for communications. And you have to agree to them surveilling everything that you do in order to be there. They can they can monitor what you search, who you view, who views you, and read all your messages. If you choose to use those apps then you have to go into it with the understanding that they are going to have total control.
In bumble or any dating app, if you don’t want a relationship or don’t want kids, should you lie and put that you do to better your chances? Especially when you just want to get laid?
Probably better to play coy and tell them that you're taking it one step at time, kinda going with the flow sort of thing as most girls prefer doing that themselves and they can't decode such fuckboy language so tis what i'd suggest :).
You do with a unicorn which counts 😁
Yes. Lie. They lie with every breath. Get in, get out, ghost.
Lol you so right” taking it slow” “ seeing where things go” are my go to
Be honest about your intentions
Don't do online dating. Meet in person.
Lmaooo she swiped left cuz he’s 5’11 💀 💀 💀
I can't say online dating in it itself is bad or a waste of time. I personally know a handful (5 guys or less) that ended up finding good wives on dating apps. But when I asked them how one told me "I had to go through a lot of duds". I would agree never pay money for points or credits. Waste of time and the odds are too stacked against you to pay.
I fully disagree with this advice. Y'all are telling men to outright lie about height, and be very deceptive in photos. This is the very thing we complain about with women. Starting relationships on dishonesty is failure. Main takeaway is women have ruined dating through hypergamy and promiscuity, wasting their best years chasing Chad, sleeping around, and then after the wall often with kids they get ultra picky. Don't play that game.
That is true
The guy with the chainsaw, lol, I got some tree branches in the back that need trimming why don't you come on by we'll hang out.
Real dating : talk to a girl, get a number, meet her
Online dating : make a profile, have good pictures, pay money for a match, write the correct messages, probably meet...
It's just adding more steps that makes it more complicated
I’ve met 23 years of great relationships online. You have to know how the hell to do it. 😊
I got banned on match, bumble, Facebook dating,okcupid and pof for shirtless pictures 😂 Tinder is my only option at this point 😅
she swiped left on all the guys, thats crazy
6'8 35 year old single father and I haven't been on a date since me and my mother's daughter split.
damn this made me so hopefull, soo many guys are soo low on the totempole!
Tinder doesn't work for facially less attractive men. You could be 9/10 in looks and be broke, unemployed, and fresh out of college but still have a greater chance of initial success (even if it's for a one night stand or some attention depending on what you're after) than a guy with 4/10 looks but is rich since he doesn't stand out as women consider him ugly and that someone better will come along. It's very superficial and is essentially endless profile shopping since men outnumber women online. I've quit using these apps years ago and prefer cold approaches, meeting women in public and through social circles as I found it to be a more successful and healthy way of developing your social skills, confidence and game in-person - I haven't looked back since.
Online Dating has run its course. I was an early adopter from 2010 to about 2016 and There was never a shortage. Now.... good luck even getting a conversation. It's a waste of time.
too many apps for that to be true. i'd suggest to get creative and change your approach including the law of averages..
I would like to see the talking lady's profile. I'm on my end 40s, back to dating. I like photography so I took my pictures myself with a tripod. Registered on Bumble a few days ago and got around 150 likes in 3 days which seems pretty decent in the Montreal area. Maaaaaaaann, from that I got only nine matches. Leaving apart a very few hot moms (4 or 5 max) who i would not date, the rest were a disaster eithre due to the horrible profile pictures or hate comments in their profile descriptions. Yes, some dudes still don't get how to take good pictures but netither do lots of ladies. Just sharing my experience since in our days it all seems to be on men's sholuders.
İts like She is gone for shopping, trying clothes she "feels like" to wear then buying nothing at the end of the day.
-Next Day = Repeat
Now I know why women call me a catfish. I'm 7 feet tall and they are always surprised and just want to meet for that alone.
In other words, it's over
get creative .. too many females on the planet for pessimistic thinking mi amigo
@@nates.8402 Oh I know, I'm a passport bro, it's over those who want to stay in the states though
Height means nothing when it comes to dating…I’m 5’ 9” with shoes on and I have never had a problem dating 7’s & 8’s on a consistent basis…why because I’m confident in who I am, better than average looks, well groomed and know how to dress for any occasion…most guys are corny and are afraid women…I have never had a problem talking to women because I never put women on a pedestal and I know that 9/10 she is going to benefit from me being in her life…Confidence in who you are is the key in any relationship social or business
I am 5'11 women say 5'2 - 5'6 is my range. Women say 5'9 and 5'10 say what happens if I wear heels 😆. Makes me laugh.
I don’t know if I’d pay much attention to her video. Think she’s acting because she’s on camera like “watch me say no to all” I’m sure she liked a few of the guys
She didn’t seem like she wanted to find anyone.
What's wrong with 5'11"?! I'm 4'11" so height has never really been a problem for me.
"They get pickier as they get older" Funny, because guys get pickier about women as women get older.
Go online to date and your pics will be examined and scrutinized down to the minimal percent. And IF your pics pass the initial bar your info will disqualify you. If you're not rich, super adventurous, super good looking, you get any matches.
At 1.38, what’s a fish photo? 🐠
Prior to tie-dye shirt guy was a guy posing with a literal fish (he obviously has gone fishin, caught a bite), Jaren (male Karen?) Was just delayed in giving his input.
if you are east asian, just don't even think about online dating. I do way better in real life.
I am from Turkey. Women similar too. They think them self 10. Even they are 1. As a result of statistics, 96% of women in my country called themselves very beautiful. Its more than Europa and even Russia. Lol. Hello from Turkey.
But what about if you WFH
Great learning here.
So Jaren Scott has been banned from several social mediaites__wtf did he do to get kicked off.
From my own experience, hat means you are bald or going bald and sun glasses mean you have eye bags.
3:10 well for one it looks sunny so why would he smile when naturally you're going to squint? I know, you can't ask emotional creatures a rational question but I was told smiling makes you look soft and women are looking for that protect-them vibe so the dude with the stronger eyebrow ridge shouldn't smile but maybe he shouldn't look at the camera either so it doesn't look like he took the picture himself, maybe as if some girl took it for him where he could tilt the camera? I don't know, I don't do photography but you really could angle it and look away and make women think that an ex-girlfriend took the picture maybe get some of that pretty selection going on because women are that gullible
Sorry guys but investing in a photoshoot fore online dating beyond nuts. Problem with online dating is People pretending to be a different person. Met the person in real life and you will call them false advertising. People lie,brag, posting unrealistic pictures and act totally different online. All men stop wasting money on narcissistic women.
I'm 5-6. Dating apps are a waste of time for me.
Height is nearly all the care about, 98.9% of the time.
What? Only 4% of men in North America are 6’2? Wow I didn’t know that. I’m finally in the top percentage of something 👍🏻. It’s taken me 38 years to realize how easy I’ve had it in my life. I wish I knew these things years ago
Guys take note of how Chinese ladies dress and look in dating sites. The competition is enormous. They wantbto show their best face.
Rich, Jonny Bravo gave you a shout-out
Online dating is a waste of time and in some ways a cop out for men that don’t want to approach women in person…most women online don’t look the same in person and they often don’t tell the truth about who they are…the best way to meet a woman is in person so you can check out how she looks physically, her attitude and whether she is actually attracted to you…if a woman doesn’t have “burning desire” like Cooper always says leave her alone…a man should only date women that are more into him than he is into her
How are you going to meet many women in a short amount of time? What are you going to run to every bar in a 40 mi radius of you? get real dude
They swipe left 95 percent of the time its fucked up even if it looks good
That's what happens after decades of spineless, over-the-top pathetic sוmpy behaviour on the part of men.
Women actually started believing them.
Crazy, huh?
Shopping, Women love shopping.
dont do online dating if you:
1. are short
2. not a super chad
What are some reasons why one could be banned from a dating app?
If you are on bumble then you are not watching channels like this to be a better man. Bumble is an app that doesn't let the man make the first move. You do NOT want a woman from bumble. Just like she will automatically swipe left, if you somehow manage to get someone off of bumble you will automatically get swindled, divorced, and sent through the justice system to squeeze every last drop out of you. If you have to use a dating app then fine at least make it your best profile but don't use feminazi sjw apps like bumble or okcupid, etc.
Why even go on dating apps? There’s lot of girls that would swipe left for me based on looks, but in real life they will let me bang if I portray myself as funny, confident, fun. You’re much better off talking to random girls you meet out and about through your errands etc than online dating. That is a waste of time.
Online dating is more efficient is why. You swipe on 100 women a day within 15-20 minutes, how long do you think it would take to introduce yourself to 100 women irl?
@@4evahodlingdoge226 you target women you like, or that you know you’re their type. Online dating is giving free attention away for free. Also only letting them decide based on your looks, which as a man is the least important thing.
@@hattrick257 If you swipe on 100 girls a day for 30 days that's 3000 women, at even a matchrate of 5-10% that's between 150-300 which can be achieved if you put in the effort into your profile.
The whole point is to have options, if you only cold approach irl you won't have nearly the same amount of options hence online dating is just way superior.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 You're speaking theoretically. In theory, it's more efficient. But the guys who've actually used these apps for a long period of time know that's it's largely a huge waste of time.
@@joshspiker That's like saying most businesses fail so don't start a business. No, do your research, plan accordingly, set yourself up for success and the chances for failure is a lot less. Stop worrying about what happens for the average guy, the average human being is mediocre and doesn't put in much effort.
Online dating has worked out well for a lot of people that I know. I have never used it to spin plates. I have used it in search of a longterm relationship.
Rich and the boys make a good suggestion to cultivate a high-quality profile. Take time and take good pictures. Like any experience in life, you get out of it what you put into it.
I do round up to my height on the app. But we’re only talking about half an inch here. Still, it makes a difference.
If your objective is a long-term relationship, go into this understanding that dating is a process of elimination. That is why the platform works well. It allows put on your profile what you value and your interests. And this helps to narrow the pool.
OLD is not for the faint of heart. There will be rejection, awkward situations, and disappointments. But to quote Garth Brooks, life is not tried; it’s merely survived if you are standing outside of the fire.
There are no unicorns out there. But there are plenty of good women. You just have to put in the time to elevate yourself and to find the right lady. I met my lady on Match and she brings to our relationship a full slate of green flags. There are very few red flags, and we both have them, we have identified them, and we work on them.
Good luck in your quest, boys!
Try doing this shiz in your 60's... I'll just enjoy my dog and hobbies.
Incredibly informative
Women have absolutely no game - zero effort. Whales on POF msg going - “hello”. U R expected to do all the chasing even when they are 🤮. 90% are not worth the effort and the other 10% get hounded !
In a matter of 1 year the RP went from “ just become awesome and you’ll get girls” to “just give up”
What do you mean?
I'm 5' 8' I'm screwed lol
Try 5’7 lmao
GEEZ,, TALK ABOUT PICKY!
I think tinder banned me because I asked a girl her weight in messages. Is that possible?
Before online dating was the norm, some 10 years ago, women did not have access to men ouside their social circle, unless they went to clubs/bars and met men there. The social circle of a women in real life its rather small after she is out of the college and takes the adult responsabilities of having a job. She could date a guy from work, church, someone she's been introduced by a friend or from club/bar as mentioned above. But what apps like tinder, hindge etc have done is gave women opportuinities they did not have before. She can now hook up with random guys from those apps browsing their profiles from the comfort of her home, without anyone knowing or calling her a slut! Those apps are like a secret power that they now have. As before they would give chances to other less attractive men from their social circle, now those guys have nothing. And they chase the validation and sex from the top 10-20% who fuck them then kick them to the curb.
No hate on my homie, but he is a given: slim- athletic,good looking, cute face latino that lives with his parents and has a job that pays him $5 dollars above the minimum wage and gets more action than me and/or anyone else that I know...
I live semi alone with my disabled mother,I have my own townhouse with 4 bedrooms with a 2.5 bath that im shy of paying it off very soon, and I make around $80k a year.
In medical terms, I'm consider Obese at 5"11 and 260 lbs..I could be a provider for a woman, but I guess women are after Chads and when chad knocks them up and leaves them with their baby behind, they hoping they could find me to come to their rescue (That ain't happening!)...Similar thing with my buddy, I know what he pulling; I ain't mad at him (don't hate the player;hate the game), but he is a given Chad.While I do find it a bit challenging to date because women have all this expectations and want some Chad caliber good looks too...But you, right Internet Dating or Dating Apps are terrible..I did a while ago Plenty of Fish and that was a big tidious.Now I don't do social media in trying to meet woman, I rather try to meet a woman walking out in public and myself come tak to her...Wish you luck guys.
Aaron Clarey: "The Menu"
A lot of those fotos were bad, sunglasses and hats, but she skipped past about 5 pretty good looking guys and shes likely just avg herself.
When I did eHarmony 10-15 yrs ago I got about 3 out of 10 women I messaged interested and met with. Most were average/little chubby, some above average, hot but single for good reason. Basically way below my standard of who I had been with by meeting people through friends or just life.
Meet people in life in person guys, don't demean yourselves with this crap. And when you do, do not commit, do not move in, do not pay more than half.
Guys are going to be guys. And they're actually going to be more "real and honest" in their photos. Because they''re not going to spend 10 minutes on a selfie including filters etc.... Women do that nonsense. And then when you show up to meet her, you're like, who the flip are you?
I know guys that would spend more time taking the right photo of their car to post in their profile.... rather than themselves.
And I'm pretty sure Rich Cooper knows what I'm saying.
I'm AMAZED at how many guys wear ball caps in their photos. Lose the ball caps! You are not 10 years old!
Dude said all those profiles sucked ...what ??? ...there were some decent ones in there.
im 5,5 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️at this point why try based on this video
even rich cooper say 5,5 guys have no chance
target females in that range buddy, lmao ( what planet is this)
@@nates.8402 not sure what planet 🌎 u live on cant be earth definitely cant be amerikkka or u would now vast majority of woman 5,5 still dont want to date someone equal height as them they say it all the time they perfer taller even on rich coopers show they say it
Online dating is a low risk low reward approach. You don’t risk getting rejected, fumbling to find your words or having an awkward conversation but in return you are competing with thousands of men and chances of success are slim unless you stick out (money, status, looks). Just go to a bar and approach a chick.
+ u get a better idea of their status versus expending energy in the wrong direction etc etc
avoiding any me too movements
As someone who does photography for a living, all these guys had horrible pictures! Maybe invest into getting some good pictures taken of you that show case what your lifestyle is all about
With that being said, fuck all these dating apps get your Instagram looking right and you’ll have better results there
Even when you play that game right, look what you get - the leftovers. Unless you want to be the last man in the gang bang, dating doesnt work, period.