@@DaBaseBallZ Nu-uh, no to dating guys who don't like cats xD It's fine if they're allergic or can't have any, but not liking them is a sign of bad taste and character lmao
Every kid in my family has gone through the "but i wanna blow out all the candles" phase. Simply asking if they would be happy if someone threw a tantrum on THEIR birthday usually ends that phase.
Story 1: I think we can all agree that this family is insane, but I'd like to take a second to talk about that whole "your opinion doesn't matter because you don't have kids" thing. There's a reason the laws aren't made by victims and why sick people aren't the ones who decide how much medicine they get -- because logic requires clear heads, which generally precludes people with emotional investment. If you can't look past the fact that you have kids, no, you're not in any position to talk about what should be.
Story 2: Great tactic, Kate. If you keep pushing, OP will totally come around on not wanting to be your son. 🙄 For real, though, this kid is the most mature redditor ever. He's being as nice as possible and taking her feelings into consideration, but also not giving her false hopes.
On one hand yes, on the other hand, I can also see it as the OP separating himself from the rest of the household (they all live together now,). I don't think he should be forced to do anything, but just going by what he himself describes, it sounds like Kate is simply trying hard to build a closer bond with him and make him feel included in the new family unit (she's probably worried that since her kids call OP's dad 'dad' now, the OP might feel neglected if she doesn't build a bond with him too - it's good that she cares about it!). Neither Kate nor his dad are forcing the OP to call Kate mum. The mother's day outing - the OP says his dad called it "a family thing", not that OP has to celebrate Kate as his mum now. To me it sounds like the OP is having a problem accepting Kate and the new situation he's found himself in, and that he's making a point to set himself apart, which surely causes a bit of stress for the rest of the family. He literally says that 'he doesn't feel obligated' to try. Which I can understand, especially at this age. It's hard. He's not the AH. But from what he himself is describing, I don't think Kate is an AH either (unless she tries pushing harder and actually insists on him calling her mum etc - then of course she'd be an AH. But, again, from OP's own mouth, it doesn't sound like she's doing that). I think he could show a bit more consideration for Kate and his Dad, because like it or not, this is his new family situation, so "I don't feel obligated to try and bond with these people" is just not helpful to anyone, himself included. And I think as he matures he might come to soften at least a bit, unless some bridges get burned on the way (hopefully not!). I hope for all of their sakes they work it out. [EDIT: I mean that both sides could show more understanding. And again, it all hinges on whether the OP under-emphasised or over-emphasised certain things, I can see it going both ways from what he describes).
@@AW-uv3cb I feel like OP should tell ALL members of his mother's side of the family that his father and Kate are trying to remove the memory of his mother from any situation if they keep pushing - as that is the truth when they keep pushing.
It's crazy to me how many adults there are in the world who haven't learned the most simple childhood lesson that if you say mean things to people, then they won't want to invite you to their parties. That's something most people learn in kindergarten.
Story 4: So four other people had already complained about this woman at work, yet (seemingly) nothing was done until the fifth person. Sounds like an unpleasant place to work.
1. Get the cats and the tree so close to the camera that they start to feel self-conscious. 2. Put a teleprompter in front. 3. They (including the cat tree) will probably start presenting the show just to not feel awkward and embarrassed with the camera so close!
A new AITA post is just what I need (I've recently found myself in a cheating situation. For the record, I didn't know she was married. The most messed up part is that this isn't even the first time something like this has happened)
@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 I hooked up with my ex gf (we haven't seen each other in 5 years, and we happened to run into each other in a bar). I was under the impression she was single but found out later from a friend that she's married and has a 2 year old. It's been 3 days, and I still haven't told anyone (aside from the friend). I just feel like an idiot and a dirtbag because this is the second time I (unknowingly) got involved with a married woman. I just thought that I could trust her because even though she's an ex, we still always had some form of mutual respect
@@SomedudeonRUclipsB It's not your fault mate, she was deceiving you. I completely understand that you feel guilty, but just take your time to work through it. You didn't do anything wrong
@@errantwinds-up8uu Thanks, mate. I'm just conflicted on what to do next. Do I contact the husband? I know that I probably should, but like I said, I already went through a cheating incident a little over a year ago, and dealing with all that again sounds exhausting. It was not the exact same situation, of course, but still. I'm also concerned that people will start thinking that I'm doing it on purpose or something. I feel like I need a vacation from everything, lol
Story 6: Selfish means putting your own needs above someone else's. If there's no child there to put your needs above, you're not being selfish. You're simply living your life. Also, if you're someone who thinks someone else is selfish, surely you wouldn't want them to have children, right? A selfish person would not be a good parent. In reality it's just an ugly word people like to use in a weak attempt to pressure others to have children. That's not okay to do. Children should be 100% wanted and loved. Don't buy into the myth that it's different when it's your own children. If that was the case, we wouldn't have parents hurting, neglecting or even killing their own children. Let people live their life the way they want to no matter if they want children or not. It has literally nothing to do with you what someone else chooses for themselves.
I'm also going to pick a nit here with people that throw around the word selfish. Selfishness isn't inherently bad. Choosing to put food into your belly is a selfish act. Wanting to spend the night alone instead of showing up to a party is also a selfish act. But there's nothing wrong with it. Selfishness is only bad when you're doing something wrong.
Story 5: My Dad is very very slow to get ready for anything. And while this might not be the solution for everyone , it's gotten to the point where we just tell him to be somewhere an hour before the actual time.
No matter how revolting some of these stories are, Vincey and his kitties always manage to leave a smile on my face. Thank you for being so wholesome every day❤️🐱
Story 4: Lol. Performance-based bonuses are a case of exactly what it says on the tin. If you think you "deserve it more," you're wrong. I'm betting this employee has been fired by now, and everyone in the office's lives are better off for it. I just feel for whoever has to work with her next, because she is the kind of person who never learns.
I never dreamed of forcing my step son to call me mom even though his mom passed when he was 8 and his dad and I married when he was 11. He will be 20 next month and calls me mom by his choice and has for years
Post 6: Lindsay ''just being honest'' is a excuse to be a Ahole and thats something im sick of seeing to like why is she so miserable to make comments on someone elses life. Is it cause her's is miserable?
Story 1: NTA. stop spoiling your kids. do you want them to be failures in life because they're raised having the world handed to them on a silver platter? also, a 35-year-old having temper tantrums at someone else's birthday? that's a result of these dumb "you don't have kids, so you don't understand" viewpoints. Story 2: NTA. if someone doesn't view you as a parent, forcing it is going to make them hate you outright. why do people try to force these parent relationships on kids that are not theirs who actively tell them that they don't want a parent and child relationship? and then somehow, they're mad at it? Story 3: NO. she doesn't love you if she is removing photos of you and her and is instead talking to her ex. it's gonna hurt for a while, but you're gonna be happier for it. you're an ATM to her and nothing more. but now you can find someone who actually does care about you and someone who will love you. best of luck, OP. Story 4: LMAO what? nah, coworker doesn't "deserve" anything from you, OP! if they're sitting on their phone instead of working, maybe they can work instead. their expenses are not your concern, nor are they your problem. and the others? if they feel it's fair, then they can share their earnings. if she didn't want suspension, then she shouldn't have bugged OP and the others for their bonuses when she doesn't even put in the hard work OP does. FAFO. Story 5: NTA. stop being so late. I HATE it when my mother doesn't get me somewhere on time, and guess what? I was the one to yell at her for it! she has gotten much better and is always on time for things. it's incredibly rude to be late for something. a minute or so? fine. not like they're gonna be calling me in the second I get there. 20-30 minutes without notice? nah, you might as well just cancel. having someone cancel plans just to be over an hour late? gtfo. that's just rude. get there on time, or don't tell someone to cancel for you. Story 6: NTA. you know what they say: don't bite the hand that feeds you. and guess what? people don't need kids to be happy! people who think this way are weird af. kids are not toys, not pets, but living beings. KIDS ARE KIDS. not everyone has the time or capital to raise them, and not everyone wants to spend every waking hour looking after them. oh, and there's a difference between being honest and being an ahole.
Story 6: Lindsey (and OP's brother since he condones this and probably talks about OP and Lily behind their backs, too) can, as Simon Pegg would say, pffft, jog on.
Story 6 annoys me because she totally misunderstands what selfishness is. Not bringing a human life into this world isn’t selfish, on the contrary, all the reasons to have kids are self-serving. Kids are innocent and beautiful to have one is giving a gift to yourself because YOU want kids and YOU want to make a family. Yes you can act selflessly towards the kids but uh… that’s the least you can do and what you should be doing. Having kids is selfish and that’s okay, humans do things for themselves. She’s just jealous and projecting because she doesn’t think not having kids should be an option.
14:34 "Oh weird. So am I. Lindsey isnt allowed at my Thanksgiving. If that means you cant or wont come, fine. But I will *not* let my wife be disrespected in my home again."
The only other thing I'll add is that it's good on Josh (the brother) for defending/standing up for his partner, even if she is in the wrong, but I hope he is able to realize what she's doing and doesnt nuke his relationship with his family.
Story 5: The fact that the kids canceled their plans and their grandparents didn't value their time even a little pisses me off. Teenagers wanting to spend time with family is rare enough as it is without this. And as someone who's dealt with a lot of people like this, it always gets to a breaking point. "Oh, I live an hour away." I've lived in a rural area all my life, and am over an hour away from most places. You know how I solve that problem? By leaving at the appropriate time.
My husband and I are late to things often and I feel badly, but generally only by 5-10 minutes! He has ADHD which I know, not completely an excuse, but he really does have a hard time planning out how long a task, like getting ready, will take. We're working on it. But I just can't imagine being someone who literally doesn't care about other people's time!
@@errantwinds-up8uu ADHD is actually a pretty solid excuse, and 5-10 minutes late isn't so bad. These people are way later than that without the excuse. I used to have to work with a guy who'd been more than a half hour away 15 minutes after the time he was supposed to be there, and he'd be sitting in a McDonald's drivethru calling saying he was running late.
@@errantwinds-up8uuI also have ADHD and 5-10 minutes late is usually acceptable, just give a minor heads up if it’s closer to 10 or anything more than that. Idk, that’s hat I think lol
I have an acute case of feline paralysis, good thing Vincey posted a video so I have something to do until this passes (a.k.a. the feline in question wakes up).
Post 1: Nah not the Ahole its the persons birthday and it should be the birthday person blowing the candles out and its their day. Theres a lot of stories like this where people feel entitled to steal the thunder on other peoples days and im like how can people do this
Hi Vincey and Vincey fam. I have some not so happy news to share. My 15 year old cat Dusty has a mammary tumor and I’m torn between getting her surgery or putting her down. I’ve been crying for days now over it and I’m just trying to give her all the love I can in the meantime while I try to decide what to do 😭 if you have cats please cuddle them for me
I'm so sorry dear. I do have cats and I'll cuddle them for you. I can't imagine how hard that is, but I'm sure you'll make the decision that is best for your Dusty
Breaks my heart reading this. I inherited 6 cats with my girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) moving in, and while I love them all there’s one that’s 8 years old who is my absolute favorite. Even though she’s perfectly healthy, I still tear up a little every once in awhile thinking about how I won’t have her forever. Just make yours as comfy as you possibly can. If her stomach will tolerate it, consider getting her some of whatever her favorite meat is to nibble on. For what it’s worth, this random internet guy’s thoughts are with you in making such a difficult choice.
I have a similar but not nearly as bad experience as op of post 2. A few years ago my father yelled at me on the Saturday before Mother’s Day (that Saturday was also my late mother’s birthday) over missing the Mother’s Day celebration with grandmother. (He also remarried when I was 16 but even he would never even try to force me to be anything other than friends with his wife)
Vicey I lost my ear buds I haven't had your stories at work all week. The week dragged on n on but guess what I found them yay now works not so bad ahaha
0:57 but the family literally set this precedence..! They should have cut it out earlier. Now they need to "phase it out" rather than act like it's their fault. The adults did that.
Post 6: Can someone please explain to me how OP and his wife waiting to have kids is selfish? And how exactly that effects Lindsay? I'm really confused.
Okay, time to drown in the comments section Story 3 - If I were OP, I’d contact the ex/obvious affair partner and tell him to have fun being her new personal bank, because that’s all he’ll be to her, 🤑 💲💲. Story 5 reminds of the show Everyone Loves Raymond. The dad would tell Raymond and his brother to follow the AIS (Ass In Seat) rule, and if they weren’t ready to go in time, they get left behind and too bad for them.
Stepmother trying to become mom story: just no. My late stepmother was amazing and I adored her, buy early on in her and my dad's marriage, she sent me a birthday card which she signed her name as "Mom". I loved her, but I already had a mom. So I told her to please not refer to herself as my mom. I said that I loved her, but I had a mom. She understood and never did it again. Her marrying your dad doesn't automatically make her your mom. It makes her your stepmother. My mom remarried also, and I didn't call my stepfather "dad"; and he never expected me to.
I’ve never understood why not having kids is selfish. It almost feels like they are telling on themselves. “I’m sleep-deprived, broke, and stressed, and you should be too!”
It assumes you're withholding love and resources from potential kids. What they leave out is that no child wants to be raised by people who don't want them.
I dunno. People do go through rough patches in relationships and it sounded like she was telling him all the "right things." Once he got some facts, he did leave.
Hi, Vincey! I've been listening to your videos for months. You helped me focus on school work through my senior year of high school. Now that i'm graduated, you've become a daily in my chores, background noise, decompressing, and so on. Love from the US! 🩷 (ps. thank you for being there as I make sugar cookies for the first time. 😋)
I’m convinced that Vincey is the perfect man. He’s attractive, respectful, funny, and HAS CATS! We need more people like Vincey in this world.
Agreed 😂❤
And we also have to be more like Vincey (No need to get cats if you're allergic or just don't like them (for whatever reason))
Lets aspire to be positive and cat-loving like Vincey!!!
I hope this comment won't age badly in some years
@@DaBaseBallZ Nu-uh, no to dating guys who don't like cats xD It's fine if they're allergic or can't have any, but not liking them is a sign of bad taste and character lmao
Pikachu hiding behind the scratching post waiting to strike 😄
Whole new definition to "suprise Pikachu"
Its a Weeping Angel, but cats and viewers clicking so very fast keepng Vincey safe)))
Pikachu 😈
👀 peek-a-chu
And now I can't look at the video without seeing Pikachu, it's hilarious thank you 😂😂😂.
Every kid in my family has gone through the "but i wanna blow out all the candles" phase. Simply asking if they would be happy if someone threw a tantrum on THEIR birthday usually ends that phase.
1- NTA, those kids are going to be socially ostracized by other kids!
The hell is wrong with this family. But yeah no more family parties.
The cats hanging out on the tree in the background is adorable
Nez is being especially cute today!
Nez was slowly becoming a loaf and it was glorious
Agreed ❤
April fools video should be the cats on screen with no Vincey
The kitties back on the cat tree :3 they seem to really love it
Story 1: I think we can all agree that this family is insane, but I'd like to take a second to talk about that whole "your opinion doesn't matter because you don't have kids" thing. There's a reason the laws aren't made by victims and why sick people aren't the ones who decide how much medicine they get -- because logic requires clear heads, which generally precludes people with emotional investment. If you can't look past the fact that you have kids, no, you're not in any position to talk about what should be.
"I love entitled people!" - Vincey out of context 🤣
I’m just imagining cats being front and center on holidays 😂😂😆
Story 2: Great tactic, Kate. If you keep pushing, OP will totally come around on not wanting to be your son. 🙄
For real, though, this kid is the most mature redditor ever. He's being as nice as possible and taking her feelings into consideration, but also not giving her false hopes.
On one hand yes, on the other hand, I can also see it as the OP separating himself from the rest of the household (they all live together now,). I don't think he should be forced to do anything, but just going by what he himself describes, it sounds like Kate is simply trying hard to build a closer bond with him and make him feel included in the new family unit (she's probably worried that since her kids call OP's dad 'dad' now, the OP might feel neglected if she doesn't build a bond with him too - it's good that she cares about it!). Neither Kate nor his dad are forcing the OP to call Kate mum. The mother's day outing - the OP says his dad called it "a family thing", not that OP has to celebrate Kate as his mum now. To me it sounds like the OP is having a problem accepting Kate and the new situation he's found himself in, and that he's making a point to set himself apart, which surely causes a bit of stress for the rest of the family. He literally says that 'he doesn't feel obligated' to try. Which I can understand, especially at this age. It's hard. He's not the AH. But from what he himself is describing, I don't think Kate is an AH either (unless she tries pushing harder and actually insists on him calling her mum etc - then of course she'd be an AH. But, again, from OP's own mouth, it doesn't sound like she's doing that). I think he could show a bit more consideration for Kate and his Dad, because like it or not, this is his new family situation, so "I don't feel obligated to try and bond with these people" is just not helpful to anyone, himself included. And I think as he matures he might come to soften at least a bit, unless some bridges get burned on the way (hopefully not!). I hope for all of their sakes they work it out. [EDIT: I mean that both sides could show more understanding. And again, it all hinges on whether the OP under-emphasised or over-emphasised certain things, I can see it going both ways from what he describes).
@@AW-uv3cb I feel like OP should tell ALL members of his mother's side of the family that his father and Kate are trying to remove the memory of his mother from any situation if they keep pushing - as that is the truth when they keep pushing.
It's crazy to me how many adults there are in the world who haven't learned the most simple childhood lesson that if you say mean things to people, then they won't want to invite you to their parties. That's something most people learn in kindergarten.
Story 4: So four other people had already complained about this woman at work, yet (seemingly) nothing was done until the fifth person. Sounds like an unpleasant place to work.
1. Get the cats and the tree so close to the camera that they start to feel self-conscious. 2. Put a teleprompter in front.
3. They (including the cat tree) will probably start presenting the show just to not feel awkward and embarrassed with the camera so close!
😂
Awww fluffy baby bath time in the background!!! So precious and cute
A new AITA post is just what I need (I've recently found myself in a cheating situation. For the record, I didn't know she was married. The most messed up part is that this isn't even the first time something like this has happened)
I'm so sorry to hear that, ick!
That sucks to hear.
Yeah, can't blame you if you didn't know and you were lied to.
@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 I hooked up with my ex gf (we haven't seen each other in 5 years, and we happened to run into each other in a bar). I was under the impression she was single but found out later from a friend that she's married and has a 2 year old. It's been 3 days, and I still haven't told anyone (aside from the friend). I just feel like an idiot and a dirtbag because this is the second time I (unknowingly) got involved with a married woman. I just thought that I could trust her because even though she's an ex, we still always had some form of mutual respect
@@SomedudeonRUclipsB It's not your fault mate, she was deceiving you. I completely understand that you feel guilty, but just take your time to work through it. You didn't do anything wrong
@@errantwinds-up8uu Thanks, mate. I'm just conflicted on what to do next. Do I contact the husband? I know that I probably should, but like I said, I already went through a cheating incident a little over a year ago, and dealing with all that again sounds exhausting. It was not the exact same situation, of course, but still. I'm also concerned that people will start thinking that I'm doing it on purpose or something. I feel like I need a vacation from everything, lol
'You dont understand because you dont have children'
'Id be a better parent than you'
Story 6: Selfish means putting your own needs above someone else's. If there's no child there to put your needs above, you're not being selfish. You're simply living your life. Also, if you're someone who thinks someone else is selfish, surely you wouldn't want them to have children, right? A selfish person would not be a good parent. In reality it's just an ugly word people like to use in a weak attempt to pressure others to have children. That's not okay to do. Children should be 100% wanted and loved. Don't buy into the myth that it's different when it's your own children. If that was the case, we wouldn't have parents hurting, neglecting or even killing their own children. Let people live their life the way they want to no matter if they want children or not. It has literally nothing to do with you what someone else chooses for themselves.
As someone who would like to have kids, I 100% agree with you!
I'm also going to pick a nit here with people that throw around the word selfish. Selfishness isn't inherently bad. Choosing to put food into your belly is a selfish act. Wanting to spend the night alone instead of showing up to a party is also a selfish act. But there's nothing wrong with it. Selfishness is only bad when you're doing something wrong.
My puppy quietly watches Jinn and Nez, but she’s desperate to chat with Chia. When she sees Chia she coos (it’s her cutest noise, tbh 😂)
Vincey absolutely rocking the original Ninja Turtles hoodie! Love it. The face cam really does add some magic.
Story 2 you really gotta let those things happen naturally and pressuring someone, especially a teenager, is only going to backfire
Story 5: My Dad is very very slow to get ready for anything. And while this might not be the solution for everyone , it's gotten to the point where we just tell him to be somewhere an hour before the actual time.
It's been a while since I've said it but: story 4 is a Reddit Classic™
No matter how revolting some of these stories are, Vincey and his kitties always manage to leave a smile on my face. Thank you for being so wholesome every day❤️🐱
Story 4: Lol. Performance-based bonuses are a case of exactly what it says on the tin. If you think you "deserve it more," you're wrong. I'm betting this employee has been fired by now, and everyone in the office's lives are better off for it. I just feel for whoever has to work with her next, because she is the kind of person who never learns.
I never dreamed of forcing my step son to call me mom even though his mom passed when he was 8 and his dad and I married when he was 11. He will be 20 next month and calls me mom by his choice and has for years
I love seeing the cats in the background. They help me not to get too frustrated at the entitled people in the posts.
Post 6: Lindsay ''just being honest'' is a excuse to be a Ahole and thats something im sick of seeing to like why is she so miserable to make comments on someone elses life. Is it cause her's is miserable?
Day 161 of telling the Vincey Fam god-awful jokes I've heard on the internet:
What do you call an alligator wearing a vest?
An investigator.
Classic lol. Duckdective is on the case 🦆
Story 1: NTA. stop spoiling your kids. do you want them to be failures in life because they're raised having the world handed to them on a silver platter? also, a 35-year-old having temper tantrums at someone else's birthday? that's a result of these dumb "you don't have kids, so you don't understand" viewpoints.
Story 2: NTA. if someone doesn't view you as a parent, forcing it is going to make them hate you outright. why do people try to force these parent relationships on kids that are not theirs who actively tell them that they don't want a parent and child relationship? and then somehow, they're mad at it?
Story 3: NO. she doesn't love you if she is removing photos of you and her and is instead talking to her ex. it's gonna hurt for a while, but you're gonna be happier for it. you're an ATM to her and nothing more. but now you can find someone who actually does care about you and someone who will love you. best of luck, OP.
Story 4: LMAO what? nah, coworker doesn't "deserve" anything from you, OP! if they're sitting on their phone instead of working, maybe they can work instead. their expenses are not your concern, nor are they your problem. and the others? if they feel it's fair, then they can share their earnings. if she didn't want suspension, then she shouldn't have bugged OP and the others for their bonuses when she doesn't even put in the hard work OP does. FAFO.
Story 5: NTA. stop being so late. I HATE it when my mother doesn't get me somewhere on time, and guess what? I was the one to yell at her for it! she has gotten much better and is always on time for things. it's incredibly rude to be late for something. a minute or so? fine. not like they're gonna be calling me in the second I get there. 20-30 minutes without notice? nah, you might as well just cancel. having someone cancel plans just to be over an hour late? gtfo. that's just rude. get there on time, or don't tell someone to cancel for you.
Story 6: NTA. you know what they say: don't bite the hand that feeds you. and guess what? people don't need kids to be happy! people who think this way are weird af. kids are not toys, not pets, but living beings. KIDS ARE KIDS. not everyone has the time or capital to raise them, and not everyone wants to spend every waking hour looking after them. oh, and there's a difference between being honest and being an ahole.
Story 6: Lindsey (and OP's brother since he condones this and probably talks about OP and Lily behind their backs, too) can, as Simon Pegg would say, pffft, jog on.
Love Hot Fuzz
Story 6 annoys me because she totally misunderstands what selfishness is. Not bringing a human life into this world isn’t selfish, on the contrary, all the reasons to have kids are self-serving. Kids are innocent and beautiful to have one is giving a gift to yourself because YOU want kids and YOU want to make a family. Yes you can act selflessly towards the kids but uh… that’s the least you can do and what you should be doing.
Having kids is selfish and that’s okay, humans do things for themselves. She’s just jealous and projecting because she doesn’t think not having kids should be an option.
“Getting hot in the hoodie” lol lol
14:34 "Oh weird. So am I. Lindsey isnt allowed at my Thanksgiving. If that means you cant or wont come, fine. But I will *not* let my wife be disrespected in my home again."
The only other thing I'll add is that it's good on Josh (the brother) for defending/standing up for his partner, even if she is in the wrong, but I hope he is able to realize what she's doing and doesnt nuke his relationship with his family.
I do wish OP had said something earlier, but I wouldn't want Lindsay at my home either.
I am against anyone blowing on cakes
Story 5: The fact that the kids canceled their plans and their grandparents didn't value their time even a little pisses me off. Teenagers wanting to spend time with family is rare enough as it is without this. And as someone who's dealt with a lot of people like this, it always gets to a breaking point. "Oh, I live an hour away." I've lived in a rural area all my life, and am over an hour away from most places. You know how I solve that problem? By leaving at the appropriate time.
My husband and I are late to things often and I feel badly, but generally only by 5-10 minutes! He has ADHD which I know, not completely an excuse, but he really does have a hard time planning out how long a task, like getting ready, will take. We're working on it. But I just can't imagine being someone who literally doesn't care about other people's time!
@@errantwinds-up8uu ADHD is actually a pretty solid excuse, and 5-10 minutes late isn't so bad. These people are way later than that without the excuse. I used to have to work with a guy who'd been more than a half hour away 15 minutes after the time he was supposed to be there, and he'd be sitting in a McDonald's drivethru calling saying he was running late.
@@mage1439 Thanks for the compassion, and yeahhh that's just terrible behaviour from your former coworker.
@@errantwinds-up8uuI also have ADHD and 5-10 minutes late is usually acceptable, just give a minor heads up if it’s closer to 10 or anything more than that. Idk, that’s hat I think lol
Vid before bedtime is a blessing I will sleep will good tonight thank you so much.
I have an acute case of feline paralysis, good thing Vincey posted a video so I have something to do until this passes (a.k.a. the feline in question wakes up).
idk if its bc i'm sick but the yellow gameboy and yellow switch almost made me cry
Post 1: Nah not the Ahole its the persons birthday and it should be the birthday person blowing the candles out and its their day. Theres a lot of stories like this where people feel entitled to steal the thunder on other peoples days and im like how can people do this
Hi Vincey and Vincey fam. I have some not so happy news to share.
My 15 year old cat Dusty has a mammary tumor and I’m torn between getting her surgery or putting her down. I’ve been crying for days now over it and I’m just trying to give her all the love I can in the meantime while I try to decide what to do 😭 if you have cats please cuddle them for me
I'm so sorry dear. I do have cats and I'll cuddle them for you. I can't imagine how hard that is, but I'm sure you'll make the decision that is best for your Dusty
Sorry to hear that! Decisions like that are always hard. Do what you can and hope the healing process goes well for you ❤
I’m so sorry for the dilemma you are facing. I’ll give all my cats love and cuddles and I hope you and your furry friend can have peace and love❤
Breaks my heart reading this. I inherited 6 cats with my girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) moving in, and while I love them all there’s one that’s 8 years old who is my absolute favorite. Even though she’s perfectly healthy, I still tear up a little every once in awhile thinking about how I won’t have her forever. Just make yours as comfy as you possibly can. If her stomach will tolerate it, consider getting her some of whatever her favorite meat is to nibble on. For what it’s worth, this random internet guy’s thoughts are with you in making such a difficult choice.
I have a similar but not nearly as bad experience as op of post 2. A few years ago my father yelled at me on the Saturday before Mother’s Day (that Saturday was also my late mother’s birthday) over missing the Mother’s Day celebration with grandmother. (He also remarried when I was 16 but even he would never even try to force me to be anything other than friends with his wife)
Day 1,187 of reminding everyone to do things for yourself because you're worth it
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Vicey I lost my ear buds I haven't had your stories at work all week. The week dragged on n on but guess what I found them yay now works not so bad ahaha
Sorry lads,I may always at least be one hour late for Vincey on weekdays from now on (Sunday-Thursday). School sucks
Vincey moving the cat tree closer and closer to the camera every episode 😂
Day 892 of reminding everyone to drink some water! Stay hydrated, friends!
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Hello Vincey family, wishing you very well today!
0:57 but the family literally set this precedence..! They should have cut it out earlier. Now they need to "phase it out" rather than act like it's their fault. The adults did that.
I love your silly little accent. The way you say hour really tickles my ears just right. Your voice is the perfect background noise.
Obligatory algorithm support. Story 2 is another classic story of a failed/forced blended family smh
Eating an açai bowl and listening to Vincey is my pre-therapy therapy session, even though most of the stories are so bad, lol.
Aha! I snuck in here 11 seconds in.
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Great job!!
Story5: My parents were habitually late for everything until they were empty nesters. It turns out it was the fault of the kids. 😬🤷♂️
Post 6: Can someone please explain to me how OP and his wife waiting to have kids is selfish? And how exactly that effects Lindsay? I'm really confused.
Okay, time to drown in the comments section
Story 3 - If I were OP, I’d contact the ex/obvious affair partner and tell him to have fun being her new personal bank, because that’s all he’ll be to her, 🤑 💲💲.
Story 5 reminds of the show Everyone Loves Raymond. The dad would tell Raymond and his brother to follow the AIS (Ass In Seat) rule, and if they weren’t ready to go in time, they get left behind and too bad for them.
Stepmother trying to become mom story: just no. My late stepmother was amazing and I adored her, buy early on in her and my dad's marriage, she sent me a birthday card which she signed her name as "Mom". I loved her, but I already had a mom. So I told her to please not refer to herself as my mom. I said that I loved her, but I had a mom. She understood and never did it again. Her marrying your dad doesn't automatically make her your mom. It makes her your stepmother. My mom remarried also, and I didn't call my stepfather "dad"; and he never expected me to.
Josh and Lindsey are going to turn up to Thanksgiving. Be ready for an update.
I love so much how these videos have evolved! Just so awesome and always entertaining! Thanks for making my morning 😊
I would 100% watch the cats-with-background-narration channel.
Selfish is such an odd choice of word, how is producing children the opposite?
You've had 3 children, that is so.. generous?
I’ve never understood why not having kids is selfish. It almost feels like they are telling on themselves. “I’m sleep-deprived, broke, and stressed, and you should be too!”
It assumes you're withholding love and resources from potential kids.
What they leave out is that no child wants to be raised by people who don't want them.
Another day, another cool Vincy hoodie! 💛Ninja turtles rock!
Edited to add: The shirt is even better!
The titles of these videos are always so eye catching and outrageous. It's great to figure out whether the person who made the title is crazy or not
Hi Vincey and Beautiful Kitties !
1 minute! New record!
I had a feeling you’d enjoy that comment! Been watching since 2019 on the original Vince channel every morning, keep up the good work! 😊
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I'm sorry, but OP in story 3 is a shmuck. He knew something was wrong and was still throwing her money by the fistload.
I dunno. People do go through rough patches in relationships and it sounded like she was telling him all the "right things." Once he got some facts, he did leave.
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Not first, again
Good luck next time ❤
14 minutes ago?! I'm early!!!!!
Hi, Vincey! I've been listening to your videos for months. You helped me focus on school work through my senior year of high school.
Now that i'm graduated, you've become a daily in my chores, background noise, decompressing, and so on.
Love from the US! 🩷 (ps. thank you for being there as I make sugar cookies for the first time. 😋)