Body Count with Jasmin "Watch Jazzy" Brown

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Season 1 Episode 3 | Let's talk about SEX, baby -- cause some of us want a freak in the morning and a freak in the evening 👀 Ladies, is it just me, or are you also tired of how society shames you for your body count, or how men oftentimes use it against you? I mean let's be real, most of our thoughts and mindset around sex are just plain-old antiquated, in my opinion. Sit on my couch for a conversation with my girl, the hilarious -- and also my whole arch nemesis on Sistas and ZATIMA, Jasmin "Watch Jazzy" Brown, for a conversation about all things S-E-X. I mean we're talking losing our virginities, hoe phases and hoe-tations, slut shaming, and more!
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  • @elizabethwanjiku7831
    @elizabethwanjiku7831 Год назад +131

    I'm a virgin at 32. Proud and grateful to God

    • @bjess2008
      @bjess2008 4 месяца назад +9

      My best friend was too I was so proud and honored to her friend she knew what she deserved and waited

    • @BritnieCurl
      @BritnieCurl Месяц назад +2

      You should be love. That's amazing. Proud of you

    • @BeautySupply_Sista
      @BeautySupply_Sista 27 дней назад

      Proud of you too sis. ❤❤❤

    • @QueenRonny
      @QueenRonny 3 дня назад

      You go girl!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @divinegreatness7740
    @divinegreatness7740 Год назад +117

    Jazzy need to come back for another episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
      Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
      ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
      Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
      ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @ravensnaetion
    @ravensnaetion Год назад +203

    This was so good!!! We need more women to have discussions like this.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Год назад +4

      The women I know have always had these conversations. We just don't in a public setting.

    • @ravensnaetion
      @ravensnaetion Год назад +4

      @@fah232 Same with my friends and I. I think younger girls could learn a lot from these topics.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Год назад +1

      @@ravensnaetion Absolutely

    • @JSmooth89
      @JSmooth89 Год назад +5

      I was confused at how they said bodycount doesn't matter, and then brought up a bunch of reasons as to why bodycount does matter...

    • @whiteyobanion1104
      @whiteyobanion1104 Год назад +1

      It was a train wreck.

  • @OurKindofEntertainment
    @OurKindofEntertainment Год назад +33

    As a guy who is saving himself for marriage, I appreciate this conversation because it gives me a bit more perspective from the female side of things. I had a situation not too long ago when a girl didn't want to be in a relationship with me because my body count is 0 AND the fact that I'm waiting until after I get married to get jiggy with it.
    She said that sex is a big factor for her in a relationship/marriage. If her partner isn't good at it then that's a no no. Even worse would be to wait until AFTER marriage to discover her husband is a dud in the bed.
    Geez, people lied when they told me that the worst thing that a girl can say is "No" 😒

    • @beautybeads7285
      @beautybeads7285 Год назад +20

      Don't be discouraged, brother. Keep waiting. There are Christian women who are abstaining and will work with you til it's right once you're married. The problem is too many of us are claiming to be Christians and freely engaging in pre-marital sex. They are developing appetites and preferences that they should not have walking into marriage. Period.

    • @brendapkindred
      @brendapkindred Год назад

      Ladies, this was awesome! Thank you for sharing your truth.

    • @OurKindofEntertainment
      @OurKindofEntertainment Год назад +7

      ​@@beautybeads7285 yeah it's not like I judged her at all because of her sexual past either. It's funny how looking back you realize how certain standards change as you get older. Personally, my 'virgin' decision was made when I came to Christ at 8. As I got older, I wanted to make my decision to NOT have sex prior to marriage a personal one rather than a 'because I'm Christian' one. I mean we all get older and start asking questions about things.
      The bible speaks against people getting piercings and tattoos. How come this deacon, pastor, usher, gospel singer, etc. in the church has a tattoo, piercing, spoke about their 'wild times' in their youth and still claim to love God? Made me realize that just because we do unbiblical things, that doesn't mean God loves us less. It's a matter of realizing we did those things but want to DO BETTER to get closer to Him.
      I wanted to eventually get married to a virgin, but as I got older; I realized that situation looks less and less likely as time goes on. I'm about to turn 32 in a couple of months and I realize that my standard needed a bit tweaked just a bit. Would I still like to marriage a virgin? Yes. Does my future wife HAVE to be a virgin? No!

    • @bes-t222
      @bes-t222 Год назад +8

      You’re doing the right thing. Not everyone is on your spiritual path. It doesn’t make your path less important. Let no one change you, but be patient because you deserve someone who cherishes it the way you do and knows the importance of waiting like you.

    • @kraziikiim
      @kraziikiim Год назад +3

      @@OurKindofEntertainmentkeep waiting for the right woman. I’m 26 and still a virgin. We are out here.

  • @Jessfit_lyfe
    @Jessfit_lyfe Год назад +34

    OMG I done fell in love with Jazzy. She is gorgeous & sooooo funny. Definitely need a part 2 🔥🔥🔥

    • @ihavenoson3384
      @ihavenoson3384 Год назад +1

      Dude. Did you even listen? She has been with so many men the number will demoralize her partners. Easily 100+ bodies. She has been obsessing about secks since she was 10. She is worn-out and ran through like no one else. You really want her overweight body with a worn-out whistle sack in a catcher's mitt? :D

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @beloved4053
    @beloved4053 Год назад +11

    I loved this! So many unspoken conversations especially STD testing requirements. Ladies, prevention is better than cure. Make it a prerequisite.

  • @AnetraRenay-fm2iw
    @AnetraRenay-fm2iw Год назад +5

    New Year, New SHE! I love this episode so much!!! Two beautiful queens having an open conversation without judgment! I love it!

  • @briw3951
    @briw3951 Год назад +5

    Such a real conversation! I was deep in while driving and SIRI got on my nerves everytime she gave me directions😭 I love how transparent you are Jasmin, the educational gems, and the cozy environment ☀️ good job ladies 🫶🏾

  • @Iamrafana
    @Iamrafana Год назад +36

    The energy between the two of you is🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @chalaantv5712
    @chalaantv5712 Год назад +51

    THIS EPISODE was not to be missed !!! You both are stunning , hilarious and real ! Im watching this again with my glass of wine later 😂😂😂

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
      Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
      ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @Laurie14822
    @Laurie14822 Год назад +12

    Love seeing the off screen chemistry and it's amazing hearing both of your experiences and advice, I'm sure it was a much needed Big Sister advice moment for so many females, myself included 💜

  • @JSmooth89
    @JSmooth89 Год назад +9

    Am i the only logical brain in the building?.....How can you say that bodycount doesn't matter in one breath then, then say that you don't want a low bodycount man in the next? Hypocritical....Whether or not they realize it, they acknowledged that men and women BOTH JUDGE bodycount, just in different ways, and then STILL claimed that bodycount doesn't matter. WTF

    • @ihavenoson3384
      @ihavenoson3384 Год назад +4

      I can confirm to you that these women lie a lot and like you noticed, there are a lot of inconsistencies that prove it. They are not very high IQ and lying requires that. Let me tell you that these grills probably have 100+ body counts. When they refuse to say it aloud, it is too high. The guest even reveals that she cannot tell her count to her momentary partner without him feeling crushed by it. "Oh no I am dating a serial 304." :D

  • @miksjohnson7295
    @miksjohnson7295 Год назад +7

    The fact that Jazzy personality on the show is so genuine makes it so much more authentic and Crystal love and affection for Devale is always showing as her natural way based on the energies in these conversations.

  • @jessieblazefink7384
    @jessieblazefink7384 Год назад +21

    You and Jazzy??! HILARIOUS!! This about to be juicy…so ready for a good laugh

  • @rainwash1365
    @rainwash1365 11 месяцев назад +9

    Its ridiculously insane to equate how many men you sleep with to how experienced you are and to say you dont want a man with a low body count. Thats so careless

  • @Tee_gotti
    @Tee_gotti Год назад +81

    Jazzy is so beautiful and I love the fact that she was so open about her “Hoe Phase” such a relatable topic lol. And the whole journey period, I feel a lot of women can relate to this especially being based off of how a person was raised or what they wanted for themselves. I definitely Remember wanting to know so much about sex at about 16y/o. Lol Love you both.

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @gigimac6044
    @gigimac6044 Год назад +24

    I wasnt sexually active until I was 19 years old. My parents allowed me to date at 16, but I never allowed anything to happen. Just wasnt on my mind lol. Love this chat for sure!!

  • @9darshana
    @9darshana Год назад +12

    This is why I don't want a man's love, I want his respect. I just feel like a man's version of "love" is whack. If he can "love" me and sleep with other women this means that he has a warped diminished version of "love" that I won't tolerate. With them its all about respect.

  • @ceecee93_
    @ceecee93_ Год назад +26

    Jazzy is veryy open and honest ❤ love her character as well. #KeepItPositiveSweetie Crystal you are bringing the heat with this podcast!

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
      Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
      ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @denisefields5397
    @denisefields5397 Год назад +11

    This was amazing!! So educational and needed. Thank you for being true and raw❤❤

  • @sommore8085
    @sommore8085 Год назад +4

    This is one of the realest podcasts ever

  • @keiasnow4138
    @keiasnow4138 Год назад +1

    I love this….. This really touched a lot of females to know that some of the things that we have been and went through that we can now see and know that we were not alone and that it’s okay to talk about it and to not feel embarrassed or shamed….. Females are very sensitive and we fear to open up about a lot of topics because people can be so judgmental and mean….. To see you being so transparent, understanding and honest means so much to us Females….. Sexual Health is very important…These episodes are getting better and better every week Ms. Crystal ❤

  • @ludakkris
    @ludakkris Год назад +15

    So far this is the issue I have with this body count conversation with women. At a certain age I will say men do need to be a bit more realistic with the amount of partners a woman has been with. But at the same time, majority of women including these two grown women constantly show that they don’t care about how men feel about certain situations because it doesn’t benefit them. Some of the reasons we ask because we want to know what her mental state was like. Was she the type of girl who just gave it out, was she the type of woman who was just carefree and reckless. We want to know because we as men understand that with more the more sex you have with a different men it doesn’t take a toll on a woman. Because men will use and discard you and know you hate men and all men ain’t shit. Not to mention we think about will she teach our daughter that sleeping around is good thing to do. Whats the old saying “a fathers job is to make sure our daughter doesn’t end up on the poll”. Men don’t want a promiscuous partner. The difference is we don’t care if your good in bed or not we like to be the one to teach. But as the ladies pointed out they don’t want to teach a man. Do you see the difference? We have to have a lot of sex but that does not mean a lot of partners. Also women tend to like men who other women have find attractive and has been with a lot of women because it is a testimony to him understanding women. Thats why the popular boys had women going crazy while the popular girls didn’t have the boys sweating her the same. Women need to come to terms that you are inherently selfish and only like the double standard when it benefits yourself. Are the one’s who need to grow up. Also a woman can say a man MUST make X amount of money (even if they don’t have it), has to be X height (if he’s not she will ignore everything else that makes him a great partner), not to mention he HAS to have a big xyz. All men say is don’t be a hoe. You see how the difference?

  • @epw621
    @epw621 Год назад +1

    Listen this was my kind of conversation. I was literally playing psalm sleep sounds last night and found this channel and have been tuned all the way in. Love it ❤

  • @SamanthaLopez-yp4rd
    @SamanthaLopez-yp4rd 4 месяца назад

    Yall beautiful ladies couldn't get anymore organic, than this, on all topics, everything hit! I love you both

  • @babyrheas
    @babyrheas Год назад +1

    Such a vulnerable, postive and honest conversation this was. I love this podcast! Keep them coming!!❤❤

  • @CassidyAndHerfivepack
    @CassidyAndHerfivepack Год назад +7

    I’d love to be on set with y’all, I just know we all laughing non stop lmao! This was great. & a great laugh that we all needed.

  • @franzonifranzoni4174
    @franzonifranzoni4174 Месяц назад

    I relate to jas so much ...her relationships with guys in the past remind me so much of mine ❤

  • @clutchesllc1930
    @clutchesllc1930 Год назад +4

    Jazzy is crazy 😂😂😂 the overnight pad! Love this conversation. ❤

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 Год назад +13

    Honestly this Episode was just to make them feel better abt their 20+ bodies on Them....

    • @unclewells7194
      @unclewells7194 3 месяца назад

      Probably more like 40 -50 lol

    • @j.d.walker5678
      @j.d.walker5678 2 месяца назад

      Unfortunately 100+.... True Repentance is their only Hope

  • @annedumornay95
    @annedumornay95 Год назад +1

    Ladies, I admire the transparency of your podcast. Jazzy, I've always loved your videos on Facebook you made me laugh. I was also sexually abused then because of my daddy issues I've dated older guys as well. I went through a phase of sexual liberation as well. I'm finally breaking the vicious cycle. Therapy ia a God send.
    Thanks for being so relatable! 🎉❤

  • @demetriswashington8573
    @demetriswashington8573 Год назад

    Yessssssssss please do a RUclips, I love her and her honesty and not sugar coating anything. You ladies are so beautiful

  • @tiffanymoss-robinson7407
    @tiffanymoss-robinson7407 Год назад +4

    I love this conversation, and my body count is boring, lol. I've been with my high school sweetheart for 35 years, but it was a very interesting conversation. I totally agree

    • @ArethaRenee
      @ArethaRenee Год назад +8

      That’s something great to be able to say.

    • @tiffanymoss-robinson7407
      @tiffanymoss-robinson7407 Год назад +2

      @@ArethaRenee thank you. I'm proud and grateful ❤️

    • @kiviwoods6643
      @kiviwoods6643 Год назад +4

      Never boring but Respectful.!!!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @balukaatlanta5851
    @balukaatlanta5851 Год назад +1

    I love you Jazzy ur so real👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾thnk u Crystal for this platform so inspiring a lot to learn

  • @elisapride6350
    @elisapride6350 Год назад +1

    I love the realness of this conversation.

  • @moca1992
    @moca1992 Год назад

    This is a beautiful conversation and thanks to Jas and Crystal for this one.

  • @QueenErikaJershelle
    @QueenErikaJershelle Год назад +2

    😂😂Jazz was funny and said some truth 🫶🏽 I love this for the both of you ❤️

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 Год назад

    Loved this I felt like I was in the room with two of my sisters honestly. Sisters I probably needed growing up during my crazy journey of self discovery, love, sex, and relationships too. I had some people but you ladies made a lot very transparent, clear, and relatable for women when we go through different experiences from relationship intimate moments to the young womanhood moments we experience as teenagers and adults too. Great episode you both are great together feel the sisterhood, chemistry, and good vibes. You beautiful ladies take care of each other. I hope you bring on the whole cast of Sistas and Zatima one day Crystal! Loved this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Love_Child
    @Love_Child 11 месяцев назад

    Such beautiful souls they are! Brightening up our lives!❤❤

  • @belindamcclam9129
    @belindamcclam9129 Год назад +1

    What a way to start my day love this. This is so good spread ❤️ love

  • @jacbro33
    @jacbro33 Год назад

    I love this. This was a real honest interview. Wishing jazz and cam the best. Chrystal wishing you the best as well.. love is cards for you both !!

  • @yolandestevens7613
    @yolandestevens7613 Год назад +1

    Yaaasss ladies talk dat talk I love it❤❤❤❤ body count ain't shit AS LONG AS you don’t have a deathly STD IJS

  • @Nmomo8691
    @Nmomo8691 Год назад

    Woow crystal honestly I have never wanted to listen in to podcasts but woow these conversations are really so healthy and worth listening to. Thank you. Love from 🇺🇬 uganda. Want more.Keep it up.
    I can't believe I have listened to 3 of ur podcasts I also can't believe my self but you are really and admirable human being and woman

  • @howwelearngrowdaily
    @howwelearngrowdaily Год назад

    I'm so loving you podcast show ❤. Enriching conversation ladies!

  • @Qveenidaa
    @Qveenidaa Год назад +1

    Crystal I really enjoyed this episode of the podcast you and jazzy give every good advice and i love it and laughing ass well

  • @shaylamontgomery9023
    @shaylamontgomery9023 Год назад

    I luv this stuff conversation for ur black women thank you both. You ladies are amazing I luv how you both are supportive and giving grace to one another ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @angellathomas1683
    @angellathomas1683 Год назад +1

    Jasmin hilarious 🤣🤣🤣I’m not playing wit u

  • @calandra4156
    @calandra4156 7 месяцев назад

    OMG love this episode. Soooo good, I can relate on so many levels.

  • @boitshwarelosehako3315
    @boitshwarelosehako3315 Год назад

    I really loved every bit of the chat you had. I felt like I was sitting with you both and I really learned a lot from the two amazing talented women❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JRob594
    @JRob594 Год назад

    Most people men and women have their guard up because they have been hurt so badly that's why it's very important to heal first

  • @NiaJolie
    @NiaJolie Год назад +10

    I'm 40 and only have had sex with one man. I don't think I've ever seen 11 men in real life that I'm even attracted to

  • @cherylcharles3270
    @cherylcharles3270 Год назад +2

    Jasmin your story is so relatable

  • @cartiersworld8207
    @cartiersworld8207 Год назад

    This conversation speaks to my soul.

  • @spoildchik1
    @spoildchik1 11 месяцев назад

    See that birth control part is why I take an all-natural bc... And I don't even want another child. But, I don't want the prescription side effects.... The last 5 minutes hit me hard. I needed to hear this

  • @taralindsay4012
    @taralindsay4012 Месяц назад

    Crystal dear, be patient and preserve your heart baby girl. Everyone is not worthy of our kindness.
    Keeping it positive and please do not misinterpret my message; Review Empaths & Codependency with your counselor.
    I have learned via counseling, Some people are narcissists and will take advantage of Empaths such as us. Protect yourself and your heart. I had to turn off that gift of giving for some individuals. It’s not for everyone.
    We desire to be seen, heard, valued, appreciated and Good Enough.
    I have learned; however, still struggling with my passion and love for people. As Jazzy stated, we are seeking love, validation but not getting it in return. Sex is NOT equivalent to LOVE.
    You are worth more. Be patient; love will come; however, you will reach a plateau and it will take time. Love yourself FIRST beautiful 💛💛💛

  • @kortnebear1513
    @kortnebear1513 Год назад +8

    the definition of a hoe has not changed! it is a person who has sex, frequently, within (special mention) small intervals of time with different people. certain folks don't think further than sex... 👀👀

    • @tamiajackson
      @tamiajackson Год назад

      Thank you Jesus for Mary Magdalene and that GREAT LESSON FOR MANKIND

    • @j.d.walker5678
      @j.d.walker5678 2 месяца назад

      Everything Mary Magdalene sowed, She Reaped... No escaping that Sis

  • @kayw5562
    @kayw5562 8 месяцев назад

    Well they talked about everything and anything loved this episode!

  • @apresdavis
    @apresdavis Год назад

    "Ya'll had me so immersed, I Luved It, Great Episode!!!"

  • @TT-pb7ml
    @TT-pb7ml 6 месяцев назад

    You ladies are hilarious but so honest I love this

  • @janeikawiggan8648
    @janeikawiggan8648 Год назад +3

    virgin here and probably will be forever

  • @DivineGrace2011
    @DivineGrace2011 Год назад

    This was good Crystal and Jasmine... I wrote down some great bullet points from this...Loved it

  • @christinarach340
    @christinarach340 Год назад +1

    Can I know where that couch is from…😊 it’s beautiful and looks cozy

  • @just_ashhh
    @just_ashhh Год назад +1

    Love you & Jazzy!! Such a great episode. Couldn’t stop laughing ! 😂❤

  • @zamariafowlkes1433
    @zamariafowlkes1433 Год назад

    This was literally the best podcast ever these two are hilarious together❤😂😂

  • @lifewithme_share
    @lifewithme_share Год назад +1

    Y’all are funny had me laughing so hard jazzy said Coochie smell like Mildew 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @OrganizationBae
    @OrganizationBae Год назад

    I never had these conversations with anyone growing up and it feels like these episodes are from the eye of a big sister. I wish I could book a session off camera.

  • @janessamarie4601
    @janessamarie4601 Год назад +1

    I haven’t heard anyone ask me that since I was in my early 20s. We’re grown grown now 😂

  • @PhetteHollins
    @PhetteHollins Год назад

    Beautiful convo. Thanks ladies.

  • @istayzen
    @istayzen Год назад +1

    I think a heaux is someone who will let anybody hit it , he or she is not selective and anybody can get it. Just having sex just to have it. Now if you’ve slept with over 100 or even 1000 it would make one question why so many people. Is there a void? Do you have a sex addiction or sexual trauma? Was is the root cause for that body count? This was an awesome episode! Can we talk about how beautiful Jazzy and Crystal are! ❤Jazzy is so funny and you ladies have shed some perspective about why these conversations need to be had!

    • @tamiajackson
      @tamiajackson Год назад

      Sex addiction usually comes from sexual trauma... Or abusive childhood including sexual abuse or you being privy to sexual abuse of your mom from your dad etc... It can affect men in this way.. Men can grow up never being sexually abused.. But because they grew up seeing or hearing your dad sexually abusing your mom it can make you a sexually abusive guy or just sexually addicted.. Same can happen to women... Etc.. So to me a guy who asks what's your body count? Is very empty and void of sense.. The questions they should ask is.. Did anyone ever take advantage of you? Were you ever physically abused etc.. Like they should ask.. Cuz you know... Those are the important questions... What is your love language? Etc.. Like not on the first date but after you notice some stuff about the woman.. That's when you know or as a man leave room and make the woman comfortable enough to open up to you.. Etc

  • @gracejemimah3182
    @gracejemimah3182 Год назад +1

    Live from Kenya......I really love you Crystal ❤❤

  • @dmason5249
    @dmason5249 Год назад +1

    That couch 🛋 looks soooooooo comfortable!!!😊😫

  • @kenchumah9497
    @kenchumah9497 Год назад +1

    Two beautiful and awesome African Queens 🌹🌹

  • @NanaTheDon
    @NanaTheDon Год назад

    I really loved this episode 😫❤️

  • @eastvids4971
    @eastvids4971 Год назад +1

    So basically yall just play yall selves in those Tyler Perry shows 😂

  • @ladybren5
    @ladybren5 Год назад +1

    Remember on this episode when jasmine asked crystal did she spin the block and crystal said no i never do that then shen turned around and said well i did do that with on dude i dated it was off and on for 5 years my question is when jasmine ask that question why crystal lie and then turn around and tell the truth?

  • @ItsKeia_
    @ItsKeia_ Год назад +1

    Hey Crystal girl, where is your couch from?

  • @monicanicole2284
    @monicanicole2284 Год назад +1

    Jazzzy I was hollering great Episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @epiphanyperry1877
    @epiphanyperry1877 Год назад

    Love the transparency in this conversation. I was confused because first Jazmine said she's been told to freeze her egss then later she talked about caring for the kids, learning to delegate and wufely duties but didn't say she's married?

  • @tyylizzz5535
    @tyylizzz5535 Год назад +5

    when jasmin was talking about her daddy issues and where they stem from, I’ve never related so much in my life. That survival mode that he was in. Yes he was there physical but that emotional aspect was missing.

  • @taliajazze3007
    @taliajazze3007 3 месяца назад

    Great episode!!!

  • @1.0.2.4
    @1.0.2.4 Год назад

    I need to know Jasmin and Crystal’s skin routine and makeup!

  • @chriscynthiachambers4748
    @chriscynthiachambers4748 Год назад

    Girl! I love this open conversation!

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 Год назад

    If you’re 30+ this shouldn’t be a question 😅😅 love Jazzy! She seems like such a cool person!

  • @KeysToMillions
    @KeysToMillions 11 месяцев назад +1

    Jasmine actually favors Adina Howard in the 90s.

  • @maxinemartin0502
    @maxinemartin0502 Год назад

    Love this collaboration 😊🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤why to go Crystal (Fatima) & Jazmin (Deja) enjoyed this conversation @keepitpositivesweetie

  • @fromkimwithlove
    @fromkimwithlove 11 месяцев назад +49

    Notice how they contradicted themselves!!! So, its ok to sleep around, but it will cause you emotional pain & confusion!!! Ladies, be very wise & discerning who you admire & take advice from!!!

    • @eeforest7122
      @eeforest7122 4 месяца назад +1

      interesting observation.

    • @PRYNCE55
      @PRYNCE55 25 дней назад +1

      They’re not promoting it they are just unapologetically owning the phase they went through.

  • @lornarandle1064
    @lornarandle1064 Год назад +313

    The reason why I love seeing conversations like these is that people can see our favorite actors and actresses in their real spaces. This allows people to be able to differentiate between the character and the person. Good talk!

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

    • @CC-Queen
      @CC-Queen Год назад +1

      Yep I agree, I love the comfortable setting, feet on couch girl talk vibe.

    • @lasuneajohnson123
      @lasuneajohnson123 10 месяцев назад +1

      I would like to piggy back on that as well I loved the transparency as well as being comfortable and free to tell their truth awesome platform thank you Crystal you are truly breaking barriers love your podcast keep it coming.😊❤

  • @OurKindofEntertainment
    @OurKindofEntertainment Год назад +268

    From enemies on Zatima/Sistas to couch buddies chatting about life on KIPS! I'm here for this! 'Deja Daddy Jeremy' has entered the chat!

    • @niyajackson901
      @niyajackson901 Год назад +5

      My body count is actually 5.. that shouldn’t take away from a woman’s (speaking for myself experience). I realized I LOVE women .. as much as I do men. I can please a man as much as I can please a woman. I understand that this is your experience and opinion. I’m just speaking up for myself and also trying to relate to the audience (as I’m sure you are). “Spin around the block” I don’t mind anyone who doesn’t have “experience”. That means nada to me. I am not vulnerable to just anyone. I know some people that hold sex in that same regard. I am 27 and I still don’t share my body with anyone (hence my body count being 5).

    • @sdtvmounts7955
      @sdtvmounts7955 Год назад

      I would love to see an episode on
      How do men deal with a woman who had better (sex in bed) but in love with the man their with

    • @heavenleighlove
      @heavenleighlove Год назад

      The Ty Foundation 😮

    • @heavenleighlove
      @heavenleighlove Год назад

      He 😮😮

    • @heavenleighlove
      @heavenleighlove Год назад

      The

  • @tashaskymusic9947
    @tashaskymusic9947 Год назад +519

    Still a virgin and proud of it 😌 so not everyone has a body count

    • @kesemawalker2019
      @kesemawalker2019 Год назад +47

      Me too love😊

    • @tashaskymusic9947
      @tashaskymusic9947 Год назад +42

      @@kesemawalker2019 Amen!!! let’s goooo! 🙏🏾 let’s change the narrative… 🙌🙏🏾 It’s worth the wait!! for the right man who takes on the challenge… (women need to challenge men and make them step up their game…)
      The man… rather the king ( and we not talking materialistic wise, we talking characteristics, moral, integrity) who takes our hands in marriage and promises to keep us safe from harm… the King that understands and values the essence of a woman’s existence and treasure that which she holds sacred …. allowing her through his love to further blossom into the flower she was born to be… For which to break generational curses and establish the foundation of truth in a society that praises and applauds fornication and adultery rather than the beauty and sacredness of love between a man and a woman - it’s worth the wait not for them but for you…

    • @orteganism
      @orteganism Год назад +39

      This is so refreshing because there are men that still respect that.

    • @tashaskymusic9947
      @tashaskymusic9947 Год назад +16

      @@orteganism that’s totally awesome and good to know. I know everybody’s story and journey is different but if we still wanna be old school, that should be okay to. So good to know there are still men out here representing and respecting this. 🙏🏾🙌

    • @arthurmcnallyzhou5349
      @arthurmcnallyzhou5349 Год назад +16

      Finally some decent women

  • @denisemitchell6649
    @denisemitchell6649 Год назад +162

    I love the sexual health discussion. Get a Pap sis it’s important.
    Recently found out I had fibroids and I was stressed out but through research and questioning my doctor I found out its not detrimental. So I’m changing my diet to shrink them naturally and keeping my body active. #kips

    • @nigamtatyana3427
      @nigamtatyana3427 Год назад +5

      What diet are u gonna be on sis? I am in the same situation, stressed😢

    • @kseke25
      @kseke25 Год назад +4

      Please get surgery if you need to. Time is of the essence when it comes to fibroids.

    • @TUFT_QUEEN
      @TUFT_QUEEN Год назад

      What all did you do

    • @nigamtatyana3427
      @nigamtatyana3427 Год назад +2

      @@kseke25 Got surgery but still bleeding a lot that causes a severe anemia🥲

    • @richardredmond1480
      @richardredmond1480 Год назад

      Constant sex is good for your fibroids

  • @soloist72
    @soloist72 Год назад +672

    Sometimes we give too much at the girlfriend stage. We have to learn when to hold back on the wifey treatment at the girlfriend stage because sometimes these men don’t deserve all of that.

    • @kham__mokha7045
      @kham__mokha7045 Год назад +11

      Faaaccttssssss❤❤❤

    • @mademedia1705
      @mademedia1705 Год назад +50

      when u both are in love everybody gives it all. Its only feels bad when its doesn`t work out for some reasons.

    • @upskill46
      @upskill46 Год назад +17

      I agree its always nice to leave a little mystery

    • @auntiesister
      @auntiesister Год назад +22

      I agree! I don’t play house and you will not get this cow for free LOL.

    • @SandraJohn-r7l
      @SandraJohn-r7l Год назад

      ​@@kham__mokha7045love

  • @NaturalFactual
    @NaturalFactual Год назад +4

    Sexual Soul Ties are Real and Dangerous! A soul tie is always forms once you have sex with a person it's Biblical, due to you're exchanging unknown Spirits during sex. Therefore, Be Careful.

  • @ankhwisdom1111
    @ankhwisdom1111 Год назад +92

    I think sex is sacred. Energy exchange and deep emotions. I can't just body everyone. Soul ties are real. #pisces

  • @TanyaEHood
    @TanyaEHood Год назад +138

    My grandmother told me that when you have sex you share your soul. Soul ties are real. I have been shamed for having a low-body count. It took me a while to appreciate that I don't have to do all the things to be my authentic self. I commend you for sharing so much

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 6 месяцев назад +2

      Wow, that's different, never heard of a woman being shamed for having a low body count, that's abnormal.

    • @TanyaEHood
      @TanyaEHood 6 месяцев назад

      Yep, it happens. I have been asked what's wrong with me🙄

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@TanyaEHoodMy guess would be it's mainly single unmarried baby mama's saying this to you. Because no god fearing married woman would say this to you.

    • @TanyaEHood
      @TanyaEHood 6 месяцев назад

      @adim00lah thanks so much for the encouragement 😊

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@TanyaEHoodJust speaking facts, I can guarantee you ain't no dude out here shaming women for having a low body count, it has to be loose women saying these things to you. No Christian woman would say this to you, just keeping it a buck.
      Don't listen to these women or even me, follow what God says.

  • @zaniquehenry6618
    @zaniquehenry6618 Год назад +281

    I love this conversation. This is something that people are always mute about especially with fear of being judged.

    • @maatshatiyeomowale1876
      @maatshatiyeomowale1876 Год назад +1

      That part 👏🏽

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Год назад +3

      Women I know have always had these conversations, just not in/on a public platform.

    • @RoblEsquire
      @RoblEsquire Год назад +5

      Men have not been mute about it at all.

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Dummies...
      ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

    • @mixedfeelings8789
      @mixedfeelings8789 Год назад

      Uhmmm...
      ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
      But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
      It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽‍♂️)

  • @meekbeing
    @meekbeing Год назад +11

    Be careful what you want and desire because Jasmin basically prayed, meditated, and desired to be SEXY at the age of 10 years old... but, then she frames her teen and early twenty years as Men only wanting her for Sex... She Got what she wanted...But, framed it like Men saw her for nothing more than Sex... when all they were doing was giving her what she secretly, privately, ignorantly, passionately desired and asked for. I repeat be careful what you ask for because you just might get it. Teach the Youth. Protect the Youth. Correct the Youth. #My2Cents

    • @meekbeing
      @meekbeing Год назад +2

      Thank you Jasmin and Crystal for your transparency

    • @TheNOchick
      @TheNOchick Год назад +1

      Thank UUUUUU..was saying that

  • @yolandaslade1059
    @yolandaslade1059 Год назад +27

    I will have to disagree with you ladies, I am 56 years old and my body count is 5! :)

    • @Marrriagesshoudexpireevery4yrs
      @Marrriagesshoudexpireevery4yrs Год назад +1

      Much respect to you. I don’t think they realize how much body count is like education, our permanent path in life we can never move away from nor escape it.

  • @brittanysnipes3063
    @brittanysnipes3063 Год назад +53

    i relate sooo much to Crystal when she spoke on her "hoe phase" in college .. I was hurt so i wanted to do the same as the guy did to me,.. also relate to Jas when she said she dated older men when she was younger. this was very relatable for sure . Now that im older I value myself a whole lot better in a different way. Also I put God first so i don't move the way i used to.

  • @elles.6768
    @elles.6768 Год назад +4

    What is the age group for the comment section? What was so good and educational about this conversation? I'm in my 40s and felt like they should've kept this conversation on that couch without the cameras rolling. I can't believe they're friends. I don’t watch the show but Jasmin sounds like she's for the streets and Crystal seems confused and hypocritical. She doesn’t seem to carry herself like the type of God fearing man she wants. I was shocked at her outfit at the BET awards. She seems confused about what side of the fence she wants to be on. Like a Meagan Good type.

  • @RoblEsquire
    @RoblEsquire Год назад +6

    This is a very very very sad and lacking of educational discussion on the topic... I can see why so many women are confused, angry, upset, etc about it...
    As the data shows, men care and will continue to CARE! There is no reset on body count and its quite evident in both these single women's lives; why no man has decided them worthy enough to put a ring on it. Men who just want to hit dont care. Men who are thinking longterm care. Its not insecurity its protecting ourselves and our investment.