My grandmother told me that when you have sex you share your soul. Soul ties are real. I have been shamed for having a low-body count. It took me a while to appreciate that I don't have to do all the things to be my authentic self. I commend you for sharing so much
@@TanyaEHoodJust speaking facts, I can guarantee you ain't no dude out here shaming women for having a low body count, it has to be loose women saying these things to you. No Christian woman would say this to you, just keeping it a buck. Don't listen to these women or even me, follow what God says.
The reason why I love seeing conversations like these is that people can see our favorite actors and actresses in their real spaces. This allows people to be able to differentiate between the character and the person. Good talk!
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I would like to piggy back on that as well I loved the transparency as well as being comfortable and free to tell their truth awesome platform thank you Crystal you are truly breaking barriers love your podcast keep it coming.😊❤
Sometimes we give too much at the girlfriend stage. We have to learn when to hold back on the wifey treatment at the girlfriend stage because sometimes these men don’t deserve all of that.
Dummies... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
My body count is actually 5.. that shouldn’t take away from a woman’s (speaking for myself experience). I realized I LOVE women .. as much as I do men. I can please a man as much as I can please a woman. I understand that this is your experience and opinion. I’m just speaking up for myself and also trying to relate to the audience (as I’m sure you are). “Spin around the block” I don’t mind anyone who doesn’t have “experience”. That means nada to me. I am not vulnerable to just anyone. I know some people that hold sex in that same regard. I am 27 and I still don’t share my body with anyone (hence my body count being 5).
I’m almost 30 and I still feel too young for this conversation going on here😂 This is quite educative yet hilarious. Bring back Jazzy sometime soon. And Crystal, you’re foiiiiiiine!
I feel the same way. Im just turned 29 this month.I’m might not be so experienced but this so educated & hilarious 😂 as well. Feels like they can be our girlfriends.
@@itbrittbritt don't run up your body count like these old birds. Trust me when I say men can never be shamed into marrying woman with high body count. We see a woman with a high body count the same way you see a guy who constantly got his azz kicked in fights time and time again in his past - he just got beat and abused by the other guys and never won - now he says he's going to protect you😅. you stop being attracted to him even though he may treat you well. Worse is when everyone knows you are married to the guy that constantly got his azz kicked in his past - just a loser. Same way men see guys who are married to women we know who has a high body count- he's married to a loser - "she got her azz kicked by many men" - also throat cancer (from giving plenty of head) and HPV is at an all time high among these blk female number runners-don't do it!
I waited until marriage before losing my virginity. Though divorced now, I have no regrets about waiting. Intimacy in a relationship is a beautiful thing, a soul connection worth its weight in gold.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As a guy who is saving himself for marriage, I appreciate this conversation because it gives me a bit more perspective from the female side of things. I had a situation not too long ago when a girl didn't want to be in a relationship with me because my body count is 0 AND the fact that I'm waiting until after I get married to get jiggy with it. She said that sex is a big factor for her in a relationship/marriage. If her partner isn't good at it then that's a no no. Even worse would be to wait until AFTER marriage to discover her husband is a dud in the bed. Geez, people lied when they told me that the worst thing that a girl can say is "No" 😒
Don't be discouraged, brother. Keep waiting. There are Christian women who are abstaining and will work with you til it's right once you're married. The problem is too many of us are claiming to be Christians and freely engaging in pre-marital sex. They are developing appetites and preferences that they should not have walking into marriage. Period.
@@beautybeads7285 yeah it's not like I judged her at all because of her sexual past either. It's funny how looking back you realize how certain standards change as you get older. Personally, my 'virgin' decision was made when I came to Christ at 8. As I got older, I wanted to make my decision to NOT have sex prior to marriage a personal one rather than a 'because I'm Christian' one. I mean we all get older and start asking questions about things. The bible speaks against people getting piercings and tattoos. How come this deacon, pastor, usher, gospel singer, etc. in the church has a tattoo, piercing, spoke about their 'wild times' in their youth and still claim to love God? Made me realize that just because we do unbiblical things, that doesn't mean God loves us less. It's a matter of realizing we did those things but want to DO BETTER to get closer to Him. I wanted to eventually get married to a virgin, but as I got older; I realized that situation looks less and less likely as time goes on. I'm about to turn 32 in a couple of months and I realize that my standard needed a bit tweaked just a bit. Would I still like to marriage a virgin? Yes. Does my future wife HAVE to be a virgin? No!
You’re doing the right thing. Not everyone is on your spiritual path. It doesn’t make your path less important. Let no one change you, but be patient because you deserve someone who cherishes it the way you do and knows the importance of waiting like you.
Another great topic for the sistas, I am married myself but I have been preaching this to my good friends for years. The women that I have in my life that express they want to find that good man and want to find solid relationships, you have to be in touch with your source, and know your worth stop giving Everyman a piece of you, Everyman doesn’t deserve you, and then it 10x harder to detach if it doesn’t work out. That’s when those feeling of low esteem kick in and the devil just loves when we hate ourselves, he will send another an another disappointment our way to distract from what God truly has aligned for us.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As black women we should be able to open our hearts and minds to have conversations like this because can teach and learn from one another without any judgements. We are not better than the other. We all go through different experiences in life. As a black woman, I enjoy listening to these videos. Thank You for keeping it positive. Looking forward to more episodes.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
This girl chat was so needed! Growing up, I didn’t have the sex conversation with the women in my life and i didn’t have anybody show me those sacred things about my body. I learned about sex and the female body through my own personal experiences. It wasn’t until i got in college and had a hoe phase where I really learned. Thank you for opening our minds to this conversation. It’s so needed especially in this age of social media and young women trying to figure out their sexuality.
I love the sexual health discussion. Get a Pap sis it’s important. Recently found out I had fibroids and I was stressed out but through research and questioning my doctor I found out its not detrimental. So I’m changing my diet to shrink them naturally and keeping my body active. #kips
i relate sooo much to Crystal when she spoke on her "hoe phase" in college .. I was hurt so i wanted to do the same as the guy did to me,.. also relate to Jas when she said she dated older men when she was younger. this was very relatable for sure . Now that im older I value myself a whole lot better in a different way. Also I put God first so i don't move the way i used to.
Dude. Did you even listen? She has been with so many men the number will demoralize her partners. Easily 100+ bodies. She has been obsessing about secks since she was 10. She is worn-out and ran through like no one else. You really want her overweight body with a worn-out whistle sack in a catcher's mitt? :D
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I heard the podcast first then came and watched it .Jazzy was so hilarious, real and personal you can’t help but love her . I appreciate you two for being upfront and honest with this conversation.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Ive only had ONE really open conversation amongst females in 30++ years, and that was 15 years ago 😅.. thank you both for letting me into the girl chat 🤗😁
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Its ridiculously insane to equate how many men you sleep with to how experienced you are and to say you dont want a man with a low body count. Thats so careless
This is SO HELPFUL for young ladies!!! I LOVE THIS CONVERSATION, you two beautiful Queens being CANDID & EXPOSING THINGS!!! SHINING LIGHT & SHARING INSIGHT!!! ✨This is INCREDIBLE!!!
Baby when I say yalll dropping gems 💎 I needed to hear this no lie. I love your podcast so much Crystal, So real, so raw, living y’all’s truth. So informative. It’s really amazing to see and watch. Like frfr thank you Crystal 🫰🏽thank you sharing and teaching. Jazzy is amazing and so radiant ❤. Y’all need to do more project together 🎉
I most definitely can relate this episode. Having father issues and being sexually abused. It still hinders me as I getting older. I’m trying to get over it; but it seems hard
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Such a real conversation! I was deep in while driving and SIRI got on my nerves everytime she gave me directions😭 I love how transparent you are Jasmin, the educational gems, and the cozy environment ☀️ good job ladies 🫶🏾
This is probably the only conversation that I've heard on this subject where I feel it's shared with candour. I wish the 20yr old me would've heard this and maybe JUST MAYBE so many mistakes would've been avoided. However, I've learnt so much already listening to both of you. I'm enlightened and I'll definitely pass the torch. THANK YOU.
Body count does matter .. no matter if you had a connection or not. We have to learn and be held strong on giving our body to the right person .. or hold off early until you find that person
This episode was EVERYTHING!! I promise you I wanted to come through and bring some popcorn and wine and join Crystal and Jasmin in this conversation. Sooo good!!!
So appreciated the topics of conversation, this is the sisterhood I've missed. I feel @ this stage in my life I'm seeking the men who feel comfortable with communicating on a deep level yet also casual conversations now and then is pleasant.
I wasnt sexually active until I was 19 years old. My parents allowed me to date at 16, but I never allowed anything to happen. Just wasnt on my mind lol. Love this chat for sure!!
Love seeing the off screen chemistry and it's amazing hearing both of your experiences and advice, I'm sure it was a much needed Big Sister advice moment for so many females, myself included 💜
This was one honest, revealing conversation that is needed especially for our young generation to learn from the big sisters.This was a good dose of healthy.Much love from Kenya!! Thanks
Uhmmm... was it 🤷🏽♂️ Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I love, love, love this!!!! Often times us as women don't have a safe space to share all our fears, insecurities, questions etc and this show has really hit home on multiple topics. So kudos to you two beautiful ladies for being so raw and authentic because a lot of us can relate❤
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
The fact that Jazzy personality on the show is so genuine makes it so much more authentic and Crystal love and affection for Devale is always showing as her natural way based on the energies in these conversations.
Crystal thank you so much for making this podcast. From your life story to this episode you have me in tears. I’m finally to a point where I’m accepting my self for who I am. I’m finally seeing all the goodness in me that everyone else sees. I relate to you so much. From our childhood discipline to suicidal thoughts at a young age and looking like you have it all, to the hoe phase, to wanting to be on tv your whole life. We both sing and have a deep range. Despite all you’ve been through you remain positive which is how I live my life. So grateful everyday because I made it. And I am so grateful that you made it too 💚
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
@@kesemawalker2019 Amen!!! let’s goooo! 🙏🏾 let’s change the narrative… 🙌🙏🏾 It’s worth the wait!! for the right man who takes on the challenge… (women need to challenge men and make them step up their game…) The man… rather the king ( and we not talking materialistic wise, we talking characteristics, moral, integrity) who takes our hands in marriage and promises to keep us safe from harm… the King that understands and values the essence of a woman’s existence and treasure that which she holds sacred …. allowing her through his love to further blossom into the flower she was born to be… For which to break generational curses and establish the foundation of truth in a society that praises and applauds fornication and adultery rather than the beauty and sacredness of love between a man and a woman - it’s worth the wait not for them but for you…
@@orteganism that’s totally awesome and good to know. I know everybody’s story and journey is different but if we still wanna be old school, that should be okay to. So good to know there are still men out here representing and respecting this. 🙏🏾🙌
Coming from a black 45 year old male this by far is the best episode I’ve ever seen!!! I’ve learned so much from hearing y’all truth. Thank you so much for putting out such great content.
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Love it!! Keep it real sweetie!!!! My cheeks are hurting from laughing 🤣🤣 One thing that stuck me with me is "You had me and didn't appreciate me!" That right there should always play in your mind so you do not double back!!
Love this conversation. Continued transparency and showing the world that even our favorite actresses/actors go through the same thing we do. A constant reminder that we are all human and there's nothing new under the sun. May God continue to bless the both of you
I totally agree to bring Jazzy back. She got that cheerful and cool vibe. Shoo bring the whole cast of sistahs and Zatima one by one. Then after you do that, bring them all back and have a reunion. Crystal you motivate me so much.
Jazzy is so beautiful and I love the fact that she was so open about her “Hoe Phase” such a relatable topic lol. And the whole journey period, I feel a lot of women can relate to this especially being based off of how a person was raised or what they wanted for themselves. I definitely Remember wanting to know so much about sex at about 16y/o. Lol Love you both.
Uhmmm... ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Let me just say I'm halfway through this episode, and I wanna be on the sofa discussing this topic with you'll too because I am learning, sis, I'm learning.😮
That relationship with daddy and girls are really needed. Being a daddy's girl and how open he was with me was both good and bad because my tolerance for guys with BS was extremely low. I would leave a relationship quickly, and sometimes some things could have been worked on. But I still don't feel bad about compromising too much of myself.
I appreciate this conversation. It's funny how so many women who are ashamed of their body count still want men who are sexually experienced. Body count does matter. If you are emotionally present with the people who you have sex with, then you are sharing the most intimate parts of yourself with them, which ultimately create soul ties. But mature men don't truly care "how many" men a woman has slept with, it's more about "who" they slept with. Men understand attractive women get attention. If I am attracted to a woman, I know a lot of other men are too. Jasmin and Crystal represent the type of women who I've always been attracted to but who were generally always out of my reach because they generally dated multiple men and would be in and out of relationships all the time... so they were never truly single.
I loved this conversation!!! Jasmine & Crystal Kudos to y’all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!! Glad to see RAW, Vulnerable dialogue between y’all two. SEX is so taboo especially in our community. It’s like everyone is doing it but it’s shamed or frowned upon in some instances . We’re all Sexual, Sensual & Soulful. As a Sexual Abuse Survivor I can totally relate to Jasmine for years I was HyperSexual an used Sex to gain my power back !! So glad God & Therapy saved my life !
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm... Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔 Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔 ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽 But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕 It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I really had to take my time with this episode because my goodness it was so good! This was a great candid conversation. And Jazzy is so hilarious without even trying 😅
Ladies, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I looking for a foundation in places that was wrong because I did not know where to start and what to do. So sleeping with different men is what I thought was right. Now at 40 I know how respect myself and the process.
Crystal, I love your craft and the “Keep it Positive, Sweetie” episodes. I am so enjoying your latest real girl talk with Jasmine Brown. Having been married for 19 years (yrs.) before my knight and shining armor went to be with the Lord almost four yrs. ago, watching this segment was cathartic for me. I haven’t had a man touch me since my Boaz left. I’ve experienced and graduated from an HBCU, Jesuit College and a major university therefore relatability of your conversation connects fully. I am close friends with one of the characters on “House of Payne.” My journey matches you and Jasmin’s. I had college flashbacks. Thanks for being real and beautiful. Watching you two has been very therapeutic. I so needed this. Thank You! Blessings🙏🏽
SADLY as women this is why we will never understand men. Instead of dismissing men and what they deem important how about ask men WHY it matters to them. As women we value certain things too
Crystal, honestly I'm beginning to see your kind of person you are and you are really amazing... Would love a podcast that talks about healing from breakups
Can’t lie as a man watching this podcast dope info and perspective. Loved that you highlighted health - get tested, re learning education and importance of each partner’s experiences being catered to you/them. Communication fam🥂🙏🏽
I’ve learned so much just from this Episode, so insightful for me being just 20. It’s always a pleasure seeing women with wisdom share pieces of their journeys 💗!
Crystal you're gem and God bless your heart. Just recognize myself in you when you said "not to allow someone who do not appreciate it ruin your heart". Thank you.
I think it depends on the person, belief, faith, culture, upbringing etc when it comes to body count. I am almost 40 and can only count 1 and a half because the other one I didn’t let to go that length if you get what I mean 😅 I felt guilty even though I was already separated from my ex husband at this time. I just feel like God’s temple which is my body should be treated with more respect, but this is me. People have their own opinions 🤎
Just from the jump *chefs kiss*. You Allspice chemistry in this conversation is great. Also this is a much needed conversation. Bc for real, grow up! 🥰
Loooooove this!!!!❤ I really appreciate this grown and realistic content. I’m sure so many women can relate to so much in this discussion. Thank you so much for this ladies.
This episode was so lit 🔥. Crystal and Jasmine for an hour 😩 give me more! Crystal your podcast is giving me life. ❤❤❤ Jasmine, yes yes yes you should start a RUclips channel. I’d have them notifications on! ❤ ❤❤
Yo, I am a 26 year old Nigerian man who has never left his country... stumbled across your page, really should not be able to relate to your content but i can. I love it and i find you inspiring. Thank you keep Going. God bless you
My grandmother told me that when you have sex you share your soul. Soul ties are real. I have been shamed for having a low-body count. It took me a while to appreciate that I don't have to do all the things to be my authentic self. I commend you for sharing so much
Wow, that's different, never heard of a woman being shamed for having a low body count, that's abnormal.
Yep, it happens. I have been asked what's wrong with me🙄
@@TanyaEHoodMy guess would be it's mainly single unmarried baby mama's saying this to you. Because no god fearing married woman would say this to you.
@adim00lah thanks so much for the encouragement 😊
@@TanyaEHoodJust speaking facts, I can guarantee you ain't no dude out here shaming women for having a low body count, it has to be loose women saying these things to you. No Christian woman would say this to you, just keeping it a buck.
Don't listen to these women or even me, follow what God says.
I'm a virgin at 32. Proud and grateful to God
My best friend was too I was so proud and honored to her friend she knew what she deserved and waited
You should be love. That's amazing. Proud of you
Proud of you too sis. ❤❤❤
You go girl!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Proud of you too!
The reason why I love seeing conversations like these is that people can see our favorite actors and actresses in their real spaces. This allows people to be able to differentiate between the character and the person. Good talk!
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Yep I agree, I love the comfortable setting, feet on couch girl talk vibe.
I would like to piggy back on that as well I loved the transparency as well as being comfortable and free to tell their truth awesome platform thank you Crystal you are truly breaking barriers love your podcast keep it coming.😊❤
Sometimes we give too much at the girlfriend stage. We have to learn when to hold back on the wifey treatment at the girlfriend stage because sometimes these men don’t deserve all of that.
Faaaccttssssss❤❤❤
when u both are in love everybody gives it all. Its only feels bad when its doesn`t work out for some reasons.
I agree its always nice to leave a little mystery
I agree! I don’t play house and you will not get this cow for free LOL.
@@kham__mokha7045love
I love this conversation. This is something that people are always mute about especially with fear of being judged.
That part 👏🏽
Women I know have always had these conversations, just not in/on a public platform.
Men have not been mute about it at all.
Dummies...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Jazzy need to come back for another episode 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
From enemies on Zatima/Sistas to couch buddies chatting about life on KIPS! I'm here for this! 'Deja Daddy Jeremy' has entered the chat!
My body count is actually 5.. that shouldn’t take away from a woman’s (speaking for myself experience). I realized I LOVE women .. as much as I do men. I can please a man as much as I can please a woman. I understand that this is your experience and opinion. I’m just speaking up for myself and also trying to relate to the audience (as I’m sure you are). “Spin around the block” I don’t mind anyone who doesn’t have “experience”. That means nada to me. I am not vulnerable to just anyone. I know some people that hold sex in that same regard. I am 27 and I still don’t share my body with anyone (hence my body count being 5).
I would love to see an episode on
How do men deal with a woman who had better (sex in bed) but in love with the man their with
The Ty Foundation 😮
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I’m almost 30 and I still feel too young for this conversation going on here😂
This is quite educative yet hilarious.
Bring back Jazzy sometime soon.
And Crystal, you’re foiiiiiiine!
I feel the same way. Im just turned 29 this month.I’m might not be so experienced but this so educated & hilarious 😂 as well. Feels like they can be our girlfriends.
I’m 33 and I feel to young for this conversation too. You are not alone 😩
I’m 24 but seeing Crystal on YT and hearing this conversation amongst 2 successful black women in the industry, I could not subscribe quick enough!
She is definitely fine! ❤❤❤
@@itbrittbritt don't run up your body count like these old birds. Trust me when I say men can never be shamed into marrying woman with high body count. We see a woman with a high body count the same way you see a guy who constantly got his azz kicked in fights time and time again in his past - he just got beat and abused by the other guys and never won - now he says he's going to protect you😅. you stop being attracted to him even though he may treat you well. Worse is when everyone knows you are married to the guy that constantly got his azz kicked in his past - just a loser. Same way men see guys who are married to women we know who has a high body count- he's married to a loser - "she got her azz kicked by many men" - also throat cancer (from giving plenty of head) and HPV is at an all time high among these blk female number runners-don't do it!
I waited until marriage before losing my virginity. Though divorced now, I have no regrets about waiting. Intimacy in a relationship is a beautiful thing, a soul connection worth its weight in gold.
Your right
"Not Lamb skin..I just had a lamb chop the other day" LMAO Jazzy is CRAZY! Love the transparency between you two!
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As a guy who is saving himself for marriage, I appreciate this conversation because it gives me a bit more perspective from the female side of things. I had a situation not too long ago when a girl didn't want to be in a relationship with me because my body count is 0 AND the fact that I'm waiting until after I get married to get jiggy with it.
She said that sex is a big factor for her in a relationship/marriage. If her partner isn't good at it then that's a no no. Even worse would be to wait until AFTER marriage to discover her husband is a dud in the bed.
Geez, people lied when they told me that the worst thing that a girl can say is "No" 😒
Don't be discouraged, brother. Keep waiting. There are Christian women who are abstaining and will work with you til it's right once you're married. The problem is too many of us are claiming to be Christians and freely engaging in pre-marital sex. They are developing appetites and preferences that they should not have walking into marriage. Period.
Ladies, this was awesome! Thank you for sharing your truth.
@@beautybeads7285 yeah it's not like I judged her at all because of her sexual past either. It's funny how looking back you realize how certain standards change as you get older. Personally, my 'virgin' decision was made when I came to Christ at 8. As I got older, I wanted to make my decision to NOT have sex prior to marriage a personal one rather than a 'because I'm Christian' one. I mean we all get older and start asking questions about things.
The bible speaks against people getting piercings and tattoos. How come this deacon, pastor, usher, gospel singer, etc. in the church has a tattoo, piercing, spoke about their 'wild times' in their youth and still claim to love God? Made me realize that just because we do unbiblical things, that doesn't mean God loves us less. It's a matter of realizing we did those things but want to DO BETTER to get closer to Him.
I wanted to eventually get married to a virgin, but as I got older; I realized that situation looks less and less likely as time goes on. I'm about to turn 32 in a couple of months and I realize that my standard needed a bit tweaked just a bit. Would I still like to marriage a virgin? Yes. Does my future wife HAVE to be a virgin? No!
You’re doing the right thing. Not everyone is on your spiritual path. It doesn’t make your path less important. Let no one change you, but be patient because you deserve someone who cherishes it the way you do and knows the importance of waiting like you.
@@OurKindofEntertainmentkeep waiting for the right woman. I’m 26 and still a virgin. We are out here.
This was so good!!! We need more women to have discussions like this.
The women I know have always had these conversations. We just don't in a public setting.
@@fah232 Same with my friends and I. I think younger girls could learn a lot from these topics.
@@ravensnaetion Absolutely
I was confused at how they said bodycount doesn't matter, and then brought up a bunch of reasons as to why bodycount does matter...
It was a train wreck.
Another great topic for the sistas, I am married myself but I have been preaching this to my good friends for years. The women that I have in my life that express they want to find that good man and want to find solid relationships, you have to be in touch with your source, and know your worth stop giving Everyman a piece of you, Everyman doesn’t deserve you, and then it 10x harder to detach if it doesn’t work out. That’s when those feeling of low esteem kick in and the devil just loves when we hate ourselves, he will send another an another disappointment our way to distract from what God truly has aligned for us.
I wish I read this at the age of 20. Even teenage years. I also wish I saw this at a younger age .
*video
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
As black women we should be able to open our hearts and minds to have conversations like this because can teach and learn from one another without any judgements. We are not better than the other. We all go through different experiences in life. As a black woman, I enjoy listening to these videos. Thank You for keeping it positive. Looking forward to more episodes.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I loved this! So many unspoken conversations especially STD testing requirements. Ladies, prevention is better than cure. Make it a prerequisite.
This girl chat was so needed! Growing up, I didn’t have the sex conversation with the women in my life and i didn’t have anybody show me those sacred things about my body. I learned about sex and the female body through my own personal experiences. It wasn’t until i got in college and had a hoe phase where I really learned. Thank you for opening our minds to this conversation. It’s so needed especially in this age of social media and young women trying to figure out their sexuality.
I love the sexual health discussion. Get a Pap sis it’s important.
Recently found out I had fibroids and I was stressed out but through research and questioning my doctor I found out its not detrimental. So I’m changing my diet to shrink them naturally and keeping my body active. #kips
What diet are u gonna be on sis? I am in the same situation, stressed😢
Please get surgery if you need to. Time is of the essence when it comes to fibroids.
What all did you do
@@kseke25 Got surgery but still bleeding a lot that causes a severe anemia🥲
Constant sex is good for your fibroids
i relate sooo much to Crystal when she spoke on her "hoe phase" in college .. I was hurt so i wanted to do the same as the guy did to me,.. also relate to Jas when she said she dated older men when she was younger. this was very relatable for sure . Now that im older I value myself a whole lot better in a different way. Also I put God first so i don't move the way i used to.
OMG I done fell in love with Jazzy. She is gorgeous & sooooo funny. Definitely need a part 2 🔥🔥🔥
Dude. Did you even listen? She has been with so many men the number will demoralize her partners. Easily 100+ bodies. She has been obsessing about secks since she was 10. She is worn-out and ran through like no one else. You really want her overweight body with a worn-out whistle sack in a catcher's mitt? :D
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I heard the podcast first then came and watched it .Jazzy was so hilarious, real and personal you can’t help but love her . I appreciate you two for being upfront and honest with this conversation.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I love Jasmin. Shes so beautiful and funny. I love her talent. I hope her show takes off. I feel like she deserves that happiness.
Ive only had ONE really open conversation amongst females in 30++ years, and that was 15 years ago 😅.. thank you both for letting me into the girl chat 🤗😁
Y’all are a mess!!!! I’m over here hollering 😂 Love the friendship and the HONESTY
The energy between the two of you is🔥🔥🔥🔥
THIS EPISODE was not to be missed !!! You both are stunning , hilarious and real ! Im watching this again with my glass of wine later 😂😂😂
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
New Year, New SHE! I love this episode so much!!! Two beautiful queens having an open conversation without judgment! I love it!
This conversation was so REAL ❤ two beautiful people….
Its ridiculously insane to equate how many men you sleep with to how experienced you are and to say you dont want a man with a low body count. Thats so careless
This is SO HELPFUL for young ladies!!! I LOVE THIS CONVERSATION, you two beautiful Queens being CANDID & EXPOSING THINGS!!! SHINING LIGHT & SHARING INSIGHT!!! ✨This is INCREDIBLE!!!
You and Jazzy??! HILARIOUS!! This about to be juicy…so ready for a good laugh
Baby when I say yalll dropping gems 💎 I needed to hear this no lie. I love your podcast so much Crystal, So real, so raw, living y’all’s truth. So informative. It’s really amazing to see and watch. Like frfr thank you Crystal 🫰🏽thank you sharing and teaching. Jazzy is amazing and so radiant ❤. Y’all need to do more project together 🎉
Need more of jazzy segments: balancing life any situation with more of an experience & lessons among them
I most definitely can relate this episode. Having father issues and being sexually abused. It still hinders me as I getting older. I’m trying to get over it; but it seems hard
Have you tried talking to a therapist about your truama?
@@ayomide1743 no; but I am going to
@@honeyantionette456 Also trauma release from the body, it carries all those memories...Breathwork changed my life as a survivor.. x
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Such a real conversation! I was deep in while driving and SIRI got on my nerves everytime she gave me directions😭 I love how transparent you are Jasmin, the educational gems, and the cozy environment ☀️ good job ladies 🫶🏾
This is probably the only conversation that I've heard on this subject where I feel it's shared with candour. I wish the 20yr old me would've heard this and maybe JUST MAYBE so many mistakes would've been avoided. However, I've learnt so much already listening to both of you. I'm enlightened and I'll definitely pass the torch. THANK YOU.
That’s so real I’m just starting my college journey and am almost twenty and I’m so thankful for this.
I think sex is sacred. Energy exchange and deep emotions. I can't just body everyone. Soul ties are real. #pisces
i totally agree with you sis
😂
Soul Ties is crazy!!! 💯
I'm with you
#Teampisces❤
Body count does matter .. no matter if you had a connection or not. We have to learn and be held strong on giving our body to the right person .. or hold off early until you find that person
This episode was EVERYTHING!! I promise you I wanted to come through and bring some popcorn and wine and join Crystal and Jasmin in this conversation. Sooo good!!!
So appreciated the topics of conversation, this is the sisterhood I've missed. I feel @ this stage in my life I'm seeking the men who feel comfortable with communicating on a deep level yet also casual conversations now and then is pleasant.
I wasnt sexually active until I was 19 years old. My parents allowed me to date at 16, but I never allowed anything to happen. Just wasnt on my mind lol. Love this chat for sure!!
Same for me.
Exact Same Sis!
Me to
Love seeing the off screen chemistry and it's amazing hearing both of your experiences and advice, I'm sure it was a much needed Big Sister advice moment for so many females, myself included 💜
This was one honest, revealing conversation that is needed especially for our young generation to learn from the big sisters.This was a good dose of healthy.Much love from Kenya!! Thanks
Uhmmm... was it 🤷🏽♂️
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I love, love, love this!!!! Often times us as women don't have a safe space to share all our fears, insecurities, questions etc and this show has really hit home on multiple topics. So kudos to you two beautiful ladies for being so raw and authentic because a lot of us can relate❤
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Two beautiful accomplished ladies having an honest conversation and being vulnerable. I love to see it ❤
The fact that Jazzy personality on the show is so genuine makes it so much more authentic and Crystal love and affection for Devale is always showing as her natural way based on the energies in these conversations.
This was a good one Crystal. Keep them coming. When she said, " i was just peeing and going" 😆 I almost passed out!
This was SO Good! Real, Funny, and Educational! Love It!!!!
Crystal thank you so much for making this podcast. From your life story to this episode you have me in tears. I’m finally to a point where I’m accepting my self for who I am. I’m finally seeing all the goodness in me that everyone else sees. I relate to you so much. From our childhood discipline to suicidal thoughts at a young age and looking like you have it all, to the hoe phase, to wanting to be on tv your whole life. We both sing and have a deep range. Despite all you’ve been through you remain positive which is how I live my life. So grateful everyday because I made it. And I am so grateful that you made it too 💚
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Still a virgin and proud of it 😌 so not everyone has a body count
Me too love😊
@@kesemawalker2019 Amen!!! let’s goooo! 🙏🏾 let’s change the narrative… 🙌🙏🏾 It’s worth the wait!! for the right man who takes on the challenge… (women need to challenge men and make them step up their game…)
The man… rather the king ( and we not talking materialistic wise, we talking characteristics, moral, integrity) who takes our hands in marriage and promises to keep us safe from harm… the King that understands and values the essence of a woman’s existence and treasure that which she holds sacred …. allowing her through his love to further blossom into the flower she was born to be… For which to break generational curses and establish the foundation of truth in a society that praises and applauds fornication and adultery rather than the beauty and sacredness of love between a man and a woman - it’s worth the wait not for them but for you…
This is so refreshing because there are men that still respect that.
@@orteganism that’s totally awesome and good to know. I know everybody’s story and journey is different but if we still wanna be old school, that should be okay to. So good to know there are still men out here representing and respecting this. 🙏🏾🙌
Finally some decent women
This episode had me in tears from start to finish . Thank you both for speaking on this topic and for keeping us laughing 😂😂.
Coming from a black 45 year old male this by far is the best episode I’ve ever seen!!! I’ve learned so much from hearing y’all truth. Thank you so much for putting out such great content.
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Crystal is literally my sister in my head. I love how she carries herself. 🥰
Love it!! Keep it real sweetie!!!! My cheeks are hurting from laughing 🤣🤣 One thing that stuck me with me is "You had me and didn't appreciate me!" That right there should always play in your mind so you do not double back!!
Love this conversation. Continued transparency and showing the world that even our favorite actresses/actors go through the same thing we do. A constant reminder that we are all human and there's nothing new under the sun. May God continue to bless the both of you
I love Jazzys personality 😍😍😍 found your podcast today & im obsessed!
This is good! Thank you ladies for being so open & transparent. I’m 36 & this is really helping me ❤️🙌🏾
Walking in your truth and being honest about your mistakes now turns your past mistakes to simply “past experiences”.
I totally agree to bring Jazzy back. She got that cheerful and cool vibe. Shoo bring the whole cast of sistahs and Zatima one by one. Then after you do that, bring them all back and have a reunion. Crystal you motivate me so much.
This episode made me see Jazzy in a different light… idk if that Shan interview showed her in the best light. This one was MUCH better.
Jazzy is so beautiful and I love the fact that she was so open about her “Hoe Phase” such a relatable topic lol. And the whole journey period, I feel a lot of women can relate to this especially being based off of how a person was raised or what they wanted for themselves. I definitely Remember wanting to know so much about sex at about 16y/o. Lol Love you both.
Uhmmm...
ALL Strong Men Desire Purity 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Thank You Crystal For Yet Another Great #KIPS Episode Jazzy Is Hilarious😂😂😂❤
Let me just say I'm halfway through this episode, and I wanna be on the sofa discussing this topic with you'll too because I am learning, sis, I'm learning.😮
Jazzy is crazy 😂😂😂 the overnight pad! Love this conversation. ❤
That relationship with daddy and girls are really needed. Being a daddy's girl and how open he was with me was both good and bad because my tolerance for guys with BS was extremely low. I would leave a relationship quickly, and sometimes some things could have been worked on. But I still don't feel bad about compromising too much of myself.
The episode was everything. I truly love the real authentic conversation between you too.
Man Jazzy is hilarious 😂😂😂😂
I appreciate this conversation. It's funny how so many women who are ashamed of their body count still want men who are sexually experienced. Body count does matter. If you are emotionally present with the people who you have sex with, then you are sharing the most intimate parts of yourself with them, which ultimately create soul ties. But mature men don't truly care "how many" men a woman has slept with, it's more about "who" they slept with. Men understand attractive women get attention. If I am attracted to a woman, I know a lot of other men are too. Jasmin and Crystal represent the type of women who I've always been attracted to but who were generally always out of my reach because they generally dated multiple men and would be in and out of relationships all the time... so they were never truly single.
I love this conversation overall. The subject and the openness in regards from celebrities!!!
I loved this conversation!!! Jasmine & Crystal Kudos to y’all 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!! Glad to see RAW, Vulnerable dialogue between y’all two. SEX is so taboo especially in our community. It’s like everyone is doing it but it’s shamed or frowned upon in some instances . We’re all Sexual, Sensual & Soulful. As a Sexual Abuse Survivor I can totally relate to Jasmine for years I was HyperSexual an used Sex to gain my power back !! So glad God & Therapy saved my life !
So raw & uncut from the start. I loved this conversation....thank you😊
I am so so happy you created this podcast/platform! This is the girl chat, big sister hug that is soooo needed! Thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
Jazzy is veryy open and honest ❤ love her character as well. #KeepItPositiveSweetie Crystal you are bringing the heat with this podcast!
Uhmmm...
Sounds a bit Hypocritical to demand that men accept your promiscuouity, When God, Himself told You 👈🏽 to be Chaste 🤔
Then, to tell Abby man to See that Very same Gid in you, whom Y'all Contradict 🤔
ALL Strong Men, Ultimately, Desire Purity & Tradition 🙏🏽
But, Your Stubborn Pride will make you a delusional W$hore 😕
It's actually Your Shame & Insecurity (that make one point the fingers and disregard that Mirror🤷🏽♂️)
I love this i could not stop laughing, and Jazzy is so beautiful, and I love seeing her off screen. Both of you are so great. I love this show.
Jas is hilarious! I love the transparency!!! Love y’all chemistry❤
They more I get to know Crystal, the more I admire her
I really had to take my time with this episode because my goodness it was so good! This was a great candid conversation. And Jazzy is so hilarious without even trying 😅
This is one of the realest podcasts ever
Ladies, thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I looking for a foundation in places that was wrong because I did not know where to start and what to do. So sleeping with different men is what I thought was right. Now at 40 I know how respect myself and the process.
I loved this! Jazzy is so honest. I wish we could hear more from her or maybe y'all can have a segment series ??
IVE LEARNED ABT SO MANY AWESOME ACTORS FROM SISTAS!!! LOVE THIS!!!
This was amazing!! So educational and needed. Thank you for being true and raw❤❤
Crystal, I love your craft and the “Keep it Positive, Sweetie” episodes. I am so enjoying your latest real girl talk with Jasmine Brown. Having been married for 19 years (yrs.) before my knight and shining armor went to be with the Lord almost four yrs. ago, watching this segment was cathartic for me. I haven’t had a man touch me since my Boaz left. I’ve experienced and graduated from an HBCU, Jesuit College and a major university therefore relatability of your conversation connects fully. I am close friends with one of the characters on “House of Payne.” My journey matches you and Jasmin’s. I had college flashbacks. Thanks for being real and beautiful. Watching you two has been very therapeutic. I so needed this. Thank You! Blessings🙏🏽
SADLY as women this is why we will never understand men. Instead of dismissing men and what they deem important how about ask men WHY it matters to them. As women we value certain things too
Crystal, honestly I'm beginning to see your kind of person you are and you are really amazing... Would love a podcast that talks about healing from breakups
I’d love to be on set with y’all, I just know we all laughing non stop lmao! This was great. & a great laugh that we all needed.
Can’t lie as a man watching this podcast dope info and perspective. Loved that you highlighted health - get tested, re learning education and importance of each partner’s experiences being catered to you/them. Communication fam🥂🙏🏽
Jazzy start the RUclips!!!!!! We need more. 😂
I’ve learned so much just from this Episode, so insightful for me being just 20. It’s always a pleasure seeing women with wisdom share pieces of their journeys 💗!
I knew this episode will be 😂😂😂😂 jazzy isn't a serious person I swear and added crystal 😅😅. Thanks
Crystal you're gem and God bless your heart. Just recognize myself in you when you said "not to allow someone who do not appreciate it ruin your heart". Thank you.
Love this episode! Mental intimacy is amazing and can be just as good as sex. Felt like I was on the couch with y’all.
I think it depends on the person, belief, faith, culture, upbringing etc when it comes to body count. I am almost 40 and can only count 1 and a half because the other one I didn’t let to go that length if you get what I mean 😅 I felt guilty even though I was already separated from my ex husband at this time. I just feel like God’s temple which is my body should be treated with more respect, but this is me. People have their own opinions 🤎
Just from the jump *chefs kiss*. You Allspice chemistry in this conversation is great. Also this is a much needed conversation. Bc for real, grow up! 🥰
Loooooove this!!!!❤ I really appreciate this grown and realistic content. I’m sure so many women can relate to so much in this discussion. Thank you so much for this ladies.
I relate to jas so much ...her relationships with guys in the past remind me so much of mine ❤
I love it she said “it’s 2023 my mileage went back down to 1 “ 😅😂 that was a good one
Yall beautiful ladies couldn't get anymore organic, than this, on all topics, everything hit! I love you both
This episode was so lit 🔥. Crystal and Jasmine for an hour 😩 give me more!
Crystal your podcast is giving me life. ❤❤❤
Jasmine, yes yes yes you should start a RUclips channel. I’d have them notifications on! ❤ ❤❤
Yo, I am a 26 year old Nigerian man who has never left his country... stumbled across your page, really should not be able to relate to your content but i can. I love it and i find you inspiring. Thank you keep Going. God bless you
Love this episode! This grown woman ish right here! 👏🏾👏🏾