The Main Reason Men Don't See The Feminine/Nurturing Side Of Women
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Some men bring out the man in me, I don’t feel safe around them.
Other men, make me feel safe and the safer I feel the softer, more relaxed, more feminine I become.
It goes the other way round too, you bring out the bitch energy in some men by being over bearing and over critical
As a girl, I agree. When a guy is the one constantly initiating the hugs, the hand-holding, the sweet messages, etc, it doesn't allow me the space to even recognize I want those small, intimate things because he's already initiating them. Giving your girl that space lets her actually *feel* the attraction she has for you and to act on it!
Thank you for this 💯
I agree💯
sometimes the honeys are simply going thru things in their life that dont show them their nurturing side thats out of your control and im a huge believer in having self love instead of expecting them to accept you to feel loved
These are facts
correct. many have issues they dont speak of and are barely survivng mentally and emotionally themselves. And come from families with the same issues, and are looking to be saved. So yeah how they can be nurturing when they need nurturing themselves.
I'm a 37 year old woman married twice. You're kinda right. We like for him to reach out... but yea if it's too feminine like "why you don't say I love You?" "Why you don't touch me?" ... it's a turn off. I'm not sure why we are wired this way... but you're right. It feels better the other way around more often than not.
Lowkey I ain’t even thought of this. But on the real, there’s nothing wrong with doing all this if she’s your girl. Even then, there’s a time and place for all that. But niggas be doing all this bs too early and they wonder why they don’t get the same energy back. This was fire bro
Facts nothing wrong with showing your shorty affection just let it be her idea most of the time. You reciprocate. Appreciate the support my brother 🙏
@@boneysouthwest I agree bro. Say less, keep doing your thing💯
For those of you who don’t get how women can turn on the feminine and turn it off. It all depends on the man! Women can tell when a man isn’t a provider, when he’s always whining complaining not sure of himself etc as in some men come in strong they just have a aura that they exude.
You talkin about her soft touch that’s making me want to reach out to her but thank god I’m watching Tarik haha! Nah we goin with the flow. Let her come around.
Lol...that ORIGINAL intro was by the group "Switch" titled "I call your name".
Great falsetto arrangement, but also an anthem for simpish behavior.
Btw Tarik..... you are SPOT ON! A man has to be able to take accountability as to why he brings out the worst in women. Bottom line....if you're experiencing the same type of failures over & over, you're likely the problem.
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Neither men or women find a needy, clingy person attractive and it changes the power dynamic. It’s important to have self-worth, self-confidence and to find peace with yourself. Of course a man can be soft and romantic when appropriate but he should also have strong boundaries (as should women). Women will often consciously and unconsciously “test” you to see if you have strong boundaries and are personally strong enough to not allow her to be dominant or disrespectful or walk all over you. Always push back when a woman does that. I do NOT mean be aggressive, mean or disrespectful back. Just quietly look at her and tell her that you need to get going and LEAVE, when she sees you are willing to leave her alone when she behaves badly you show you have strong self esteem. Don’t argue, beg or react negatively. Just tell her the date is over and just GO. She should immediately apologize and if she doesn’t you need to give VERY serious consideration to if she is the one for you. Whether you are a man or a woman NEVER be with someone who is disrespectful, scathing, demeaning, patronizing, rolls their eyes at you, turns their back to talk to someone else in a rude manner or shows disgust or contempt. ALL of these are the absolute worse signs of what will be a toxic relationship. Please read John Gottman and his books written after studying relationships for 25 years at his Love Lab at the University of Washington in Seattle.
I feel like it should be both people doing these things if they really like each other. If not then one will do more than other ones or neither will care for each other. So some of the things you were right but some of them you were wrong. So its a 50/50 on this one with me.
it has to be this way cause it sure as hell isn't the other way around
Nowadays, you can barely be cordial with a woman without turning her off. I do best when I talk to women like a dude. No pleasantries, or niceness, just logistics. Simps have conditioned women to think that when you show any niceness, you're probably a needy simp.
I disagree.... if a guy treats me like a dude then I'm done.
@@feliciaallen6228 How about all the nice guys that treat you like a QUEEN, that you FRIEND ZONE. Look at YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR, and NOT what SOUNDS GOOD.
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Polarity is crucial, sacred part of equation. Thanks for keeping it real.
Agreed bro 💯🤙🏾
Honestly the only reason men don't see my feminine side is because if I sense I have to keep my guard up around you I will never be able to f**kng RELAX or be Myself. They more so bring the man out of me. If your more man than me then ill fall back and be sweet and gentle.
You don’t need to turn a flip on from masculine to feminine. You’re either masculine or feminine naturally. I don’t have a switch for women I’m not interested in I’m just as masculine with them but I don’t interact with them. You’re just a masculine women that’s it and that’s probably why you attract more feminine men who make you feel like that guard needs to be up.
"Nice little soft thang " 😂
Watch your old skool uncles around ya aunties and u will see exactly what he talking about.
Her spft demeaner, that caressing side you talk about… that’s the only reason I still believe in our relationship after hurdles and smaller breakups. That’s Who she is, the other parts may be there but those should be tamed by the man. I guess.
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Yo, you're right but I know from experience you're talking good mid level talking points but to have ultimate success and to be that guy she will always think about for the rest of her life to get her mind wrapped around everything about you ,you have to be intouch with and understand your softer feminine like nature or traits that all men have to a certaun degree but rarely and when the situation lines up in such a way....understand the mind of the woman your dealing with and sometimes when she deserves it blow her mind with a new experience and be 100% all in mentally physically and spiritually and emotionally...but she has to do the work on her end before for you and be 10 toes down with your program or showing she'll sacrifice for you not just compromise....careful tho this will drive her literally even moire crazy than they naturally are for you lol..but then get back on you man- ish ..remember man cones first for the equation to work...but do go all out for her only when she's done her part as a woman in the relationship that goes for all levels of man and women relationships...women love for the right man to put them to work and lead the way!
So tired of this topic I generally think allot of people aren't educated on this subject
I am a Latin man and thankfully, my Dad was a very strong, masculine figure. I am starting to realize that a lot of Black American men are total simps, no disrespect. I worked with a Black guy who was highly educated, had a very good position in our company, I travelled with him one time and he was the biggest simp I have ever seen.
watch yourself ... yall latina men are racist as fuck check your own community before you come around trying to check ours.
@Cyro Lacorte, I think you meant to say that Black American men are the most masculine men, but you were surprised to see a simp Black American guy.
Ok cool. What ELSE is MY problem? How much its my fault?
It's nobodies fault. Just bringing awareness to the patterns we might have that's sabotaging our love lives. Trust me, women have plenty of strange habits too that they think are normal but are actually a turn off
We're all just human and it's good to have these conversations
You dont have a problem. Nothing wrong with showing a woman that you care.
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