5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
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Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
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Thanks for this video l lost my Dad last week and my brother this year, l also lost my two brothers last two years. My heart is broken.
This video made me sad and sorry for your loss... that God bless you... my dad died months ago and this video helped me... your video made me think that grief is a process and not a task... Thank You... you are helping everyone learn grief and what you can do... thank you and God bless you... if you can reply plz tell me how I can help myself with grief...
Thank u
Thank you
My aunt passed away this morning. She was 46... I'm praying that I see my family on the other side. This world is going to self destruct and maybe soon.. we all have to be going somewhere. I pray so hard that we are reunited with our lost loved ones. Her death caught us completely off guard, she was over at my moms house spending the night with my grandmother and mother, she helped my dad last night when he caught a stomach bug, she got down in the floor last night and cleaned up my dads vomit from the floor and they laughed together while cleaning up.. this morning she never got up.. she was healthy, she was fine last night.. we dont know what happened, or why it happened... I'm completely terrified of death, terrified of what's on the other side. I'm really starting to feel lile this material world made of matter is just a bad place. In order to live on earth and survive, something always has to kill something else in order to survive, you literally cannot avoid it. Plants, animals, resources, ect... something must always die and consume something else.. this world is full of decay, death, evil, ect.. I don't believe in reincarnation, the idea it doesnt make sense and seems very unreasonable. Btw I appreciate the video but it wasn't really alot of help. I guess no body really has any truth or answeres about life or death. We are all just guessing and hoping. The recycling of souls I guess could be a theory, but if it is then that means they cycle is never ending and we are literally trapped with no way home.. my hope is set on seeing my loved ones again, hoping and praying we can all be together again one day. If souls are being recycled then we are literally stuck in matrix by some other power that isn't the almighty and its feeding off our lifes miseries and pain... simple reincarnation leaves you utterly hopeless because you have no way of remembering your previous failures in past lives so that you can correct them and work at fixing it... which is the best way to keep souls in the dark and to be able to feed off the misery of their lives.. idk my heart is broken, my heart breaks for all the people losing loved ones.. the pain is so terrible.
Whoevers reading this it's OK to cry
I lost my mother over a month ago. I've cried and let it out with my friend, he is always there for me.
I still am crying and grieving. I tell you. I am not doing well right now. I am struggling, even though I move on with life. I still feel empty.
Never be afraid to cry and or letting out how you feel God only knows how many times I cried and felt sadness an heart wrenching
Grief.
My Mom passed away 6 days ago. I didn't realize how much pain I would be in. I am 45 years old and she was 64 years old.
@@YeolandaKing I get it, it is always painful. It takes time to heal completely, memories will
Come up, you will think of your mom, you may even cry, that is all part of grief, it sucks, but grief is part of a loss, losing a parent hurts more than anyone can imagine.
I understand, it hurts right now, never be ashamed to cry and grieve, it helps you get over the huge pain.
@@christinescullion4549 Thank you! It seems to be okay sometimes. I do think of the memories and sometimes it makes me smiles, while other times I just brake down and cry. I know in time it will get easier. I will just have to give it time and hopefully it will get easier for me like it is suppose to do.
Thx
The hardest part is that you can’t see your loved ones after they are gone and you miss them painfully 💔
Yep my dad died
My grandma died yesterday.
My cousin died of a heart attack, when she was 2 years old she had a heart transplant, she only was in her teenage years. She was a good cousin and I’m going to miss her. 😢💔
@@cmworkman94 oh no😢😢😢 I'm so so sorry 😔 that's very sad 😢 life isn't fair!
@@alial-hussain5692 rip god bless you and her my uncle died yesterday morning…..
Coping with death is so much more than just the loss. Many of you know it's also about coping with change. It's really hard.
It's the hardest thing to go through. Time does not heal you from the death of a true loved one. I get tired of people telling me that when it isn't true. I know people go awkward and don't know how to comfort so they say that to try and help. I just wish people would realize that saying time heals all, doesn't help for this. It actually hurts more because you looks so hard for that to happen and get let down when it doesn't.
Exactly.... sometimes you don't get used to it at all... it's not natural .. One must willingly accept that it's not the norm and force to move on day by day
Suraiya Rowshan No time doesn’t heal. God heals you over time. You have to look at it in a different way. Remember this. Yes things do get better over time, But the Bible says God helps those who help themselves so be intentional about getting better and pray, read the Bible, pour out your honest heart to God. Yes of course he already knows your hurt but he wants to hear it from you yourself.
@Suraiya Rowshan Hi Suraiya, I think the commenter below you has left a beautiful message. The reality is different for everyone. I think having social support is vitally important. Be around family and friends who are positive. If you can make it to a support group, gym class, book club or anywhere where you can be surrounded by people I think it's important. The key is to somehow continue or create new avenues for a healthy life because, we must go on. All the best. God bless.
@Suraiya Rowshan I completely understand. It is very hard, especially in the beginning and the first few years. Remember to be gentle with yourself and not hard on yourself. May Allah give you all the light and support that you and everyone needs. I'll keep you in my dua.
I was my mother's caregiver for 10 years. She just died July 10, 2019. My heart is broken into millions of pieces. I have cried every day since she left. Some days more than other. I miss you mama.
Thank you for this video.
Bernard Sebranek sorry for your loss, it will be okay
It will take time but I’m sure she’s proud and thankful of you
Sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss. God's blessings upon you. 💕
Jesus loves you
”I’ve always believed that death is a fate far better than life, for you will be reunited with lost loved ones.”
- Ragnar Lothbrok
Nice quote!
Oh wow!! I'm struggling with the loss of my boyfriend. He died 8 weeks ago in a very tragic Trucking accident. This has been the hardest thing I have ever had to experience. just skimming through these comments and I found your quote, it's beautiful thank you so much for sharing. I really needed to see this.
My grandpa had a asthma attack which led to brain damage then a heart attack. I’m very sad and he taught me how to play basketball any weather even in the winter he took me out to play.His chances of survival is very low.I need faith and God
@@levip9185 I'm very sorry!! I hope you are ok.
Yea,I’m okay I guess but he was my role model I loved how calm he was all the time and funny.Whenever I’m stressed out I call him,he makes everything so ok for me.He was my everything and I didn’t get to say anything to him when it happened.
I’m not going to say last words because he is in a coma and I have Faith that he will wake up.Thank you very much for caring and the heart attack didn’t happen I mean to say some else.
I lost my mom 11 days ago from cancer. I quit my job to be with her everyday and take care of her. I don't regret that one bit. It was time with her I would never get back. I miss her so much! This pain runs deep! 💔🙏🏼
Sooo true I'd do anything for a minute with my nan ❤❤❤
I moved back to the east coast from CA to take care of my mom. I thought she would get better but she passed away. It’s been 6 years and I’m still grieving. I know how you feel Sal Cee and I’m so sorry for your loss.I don’t regret the year and a half I was able to spend with my mom and I’d do it again for her. It’s just gut wrenching. May you find peace.🙏
Oh I’m so sorry 😞
Oh how this comment resonates. 😔
Lost my Father a year ago to Cancer, I also quit my job to care for him and spend that precious time with him that couldn’t be replaced.
The loss and void definitely run so deep. 😭💔
Lost my grandfather in 2019 to cancer too. He had dealt with cancer multiple times his and had gotten through it. He was a strong, nice, smart person. I miss him so much
I'm currently sitting on the floor of my father's hospital room, they say he won't last long.
My father developed intestinal cancer, and fought for 2 years longer than his doctors predicted. Watching him deteriorate has been the hardest things I have been through.
I don't know how to feel. I obviously feel sad, but there are so many other feelings going on, that I feel confused as well.
Thanks for reading.
D Sev It’s the same with me... I lost my dad because of pancreatic cancer and It was always really hard to see him in the hospital... I understand perfectly how you feel
@@saralove8509 it's been 2 months now, give or take a week, and it still doesn't feel real
D Sev I have some tips for losing someone very close to you by dad died too a few days after my birthday first you need to think how happy he is in heaven he gets to see his loved ones in heaven tip two always remember you will get to see him again when it’s your turn god opens the golden gates for you tip three pray every night this helped me a lot last tip is too try not to cry I hope this helps a lot
Im so sorry :( I hope things get better ❤️ stay strong🙏
i understand your situation. remember you're not alone.
I just lost my 18 year old friend in a car accident yesterday... I can't stop crying... He was a good friend and it was all so sudden. May he rest in peace.
Debbie Lim I am so sorry for your loss
Sending you love
God Will Always love him❤
A sudden loss is the worst. May he rest in peace. Take your time and get the help you need. He will always be a part of you. Only God can get you through this.
I'm so sorry:((
I lost my little brother he was only 5 years old and he drowned i miss him and his smiles and his laugh more than anything😭😭😢😢😢😢
kenan obeidat I lost my baby girl she was six and I miss her so so very much to. ❤️
kenan obeidat I lost my little brother too, he was 14,suffering from muscular dystrophy. He was bedridden for the last 4 years of his life. It's been almost 18 years. Still feels like yesterday.
plz call me 9259621289
kenan obeidat dam I'm so sorry that's sad
kenan obeidat sorry to hear that my grandad died 1 week a go ❤️😭😭
I’m gonna watch this when my father dies, my father has cancer, and he is very old and I’m only 11... I’m gonna miss him I’ll edit this comment when that happens. I just know he is gonna die soon he has 3 types of cancer plus he smokes, and he is very weak. I’m gonna miss him so much
Update: my father died 2 hours ago. R.I.P my dad
Roblox ASAP my dad died this morning and I came hear and I saw your comment was recent bro it’s hard and I just want you to know that I’m praying for you and your not alone in this journey of unreal and unimaginable loss. I pray that you never have to edit your comment and your dad recovers.
Christopher Knight thank you so much, sadly i dont think my dad is going to make it. Every story has to come to an end. Im praying every Day.
Anyways thank you so Much
My Nan has cancer it’s her last few days she stopped having treatment and she’s in pain I am 11 too and I love her so much.
@@Ecozzy5 same. I’m 11 and my grandma died this morning.
I have cancer my mom recently died I'm the same age almost 12 now
The sadness will fade, the loss you feel is perminent
IRARELY THInk of my spn now
He died very ypung but ihink thsyit helped esearch
😂😂😂
Its not just the person but the memories, the emptiness that is created by their absence. Its so painful that you just want to see them not even physically touch them but just see them for one last time just once.
My mom had a crdiac arrest infront of me out of no where. She was 57 this happened 8months ago.. Its hard to get over im sorry4every one that has to deal with the loss of a loved one. God bless
I feel you. Lost my mom to the same out of nowhere feeling lost right now
💓
How are you now? My mum died of a heart attack 4 months ago.
My mom died nov 17 2019 I am still heartbroken
@@Adriannachantell God bless you!
I was told today my grandad is getting an operation this Thursday and he only has a 25% chance of coming out alive😓🤞🏻 please can I get a few prayers🙏🏻
Sending prayers from India for your grandad. May grandad be healed by Jesus stripes
Daniella Sylvester thanks much
How did the operation go? Do lemme know
Daniella Sylvester good news and bad news, the bad news is that his heart is now to weak to get the operation and the good news is that he will stay with us for another couple of weeks he will be in pain but at least I’ll get to see him a bit longer ❤️
@@curtismcgrane3763 Everything works together for good for those who love Him, the Bible says. God has got this situation under His control. My sincere request to you is to trust Jesus thru all of this. May grandad be strengthened and healed in Jesus name. Thanks for replying, Curtis. Will continue to pray for grandad
I lost my gf this week. She was suffering from ovarian cancer.
She was such a brave girl. She used to smile always even through she was in such a pain.
This video is really helping.
It's my motta now. Smile like I'm not in Pain.😊❤️
My wife died, I loved her so much , she died on 7 or 8th December 2018. The true sadness Pierce my brain and soul is when I ask myself "when did my wife really die"?, I was a workaholic...worked earned some money and what do I have now? Neither money not love ... I am crying while I am typing this. I could not even see her one last time before her death. I was working on 7th December and on the 8th her brother said to me , there is still some hope left, but actually she was dead and the Doctor put her on some artificial life support to show them or fooled him and my wife's parents .To hide her mistakes and lack of knowledge in the field of c section or natural birth or even how to use vacuum delivery equipment... Doctor played a cruel trick.... to show that my wife is still alive by piercing some kind of tube in her chest and making her lungs work ... See this has been done when my wife was dead...and when my brother in law asked doctor to let him in to see her for a while , Doctor did not agree, the doctor said she is in intensive care unit and also on a so called life support in a glass box. Going back to me ...I still remember..On December 7th at 7:20 am ( morning ) my wife called me .... I could not even talk to her for 1 minute...the most regretful thing I have ever done in my entire life...that was when, she called me one last time... before going in to the labour room, but I couldn't pick up her call because I was in a hurry to get to work in time..., so what did my wife do, she sent a selfie to my WhatsApp, that is the only one thing I have in my life now . I see it everyday and cry... and pray....I am sad ....but please keep reading...READ....... Because I will teach you how I found a different way to help myself without sinking into the sea of sorrows GRIEF DISAPPOINTMENT and stay afloat ......first thing first ....I know you must be thinking ......yes "My life has no meaning" "I cry everyday" ......YES..YES..yes me too.. i am just like you ....but I do one thing nobody else does..... Because we have to respect the judgement of our Lord JESUS CHRIST... All mighty Lord will do everything for our good only or for our well-being only...just believe what happened is for good only...NOW THE MAIN PART..... Well this is what I do ...That is ...I PRAY FOR SOULS IN PURGATORY AND MY WIFE IF SHE IS IN PURGATORY. I OFFER MASSES AND TRY TO ATTEND MASSES ...AS MANY AS POSSIBLE...AS AN OFFERING FOR THE SOULS IN PURGATORY TO GO TO HEAVEN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, BECAUSE THEY CANNOT PRAY FOR THEMSELVES...THEY CAN ONLY ACCEPT THE PAIN AND THE SUFFERING AS THE PENANCE FOR ALL THE WRONGDOING OR THE CRIMES THEY HAVE COMMITTED ON EARTH. THIS IS THE GREATEST CHARITY A HUMAN CAN DO ON THIS EARTH WHILE HE OR SHE IS ALIVE....By doing so, it will help us , our dear ones who passed away. Please everyone pray for all souls in purgatory and pray to our Lord Jesus Chris and Mother Mary ....Pray for mercy from God. Pray to saints and they will also help us to climb the hill ....to Heaven and when we get to the top, we will see everyone we loved and everything we love to have ....and of course an eternal life of joy , happiness and presence of God which every soul adores after death.
Mom is currently dying of ovarian cancer , I'm sure she only has days left . I loved her I mich she is my best freind .
So sorry for your loss but i'm am here if you want to talk about it
My mother dies when i was 10 of cancer today actually is her anniversary feb.13.2014 thats the day i would never see her again. The sad thing is that you would think that my father would remember what today is for me.. He doesnt not one bit he acts as if nothing has happened now tht he has his gf i can never forget the cries of my grandma saying i murdered her. Because of that i believe her
Rishi
My heart goes out to you sweetheart. What a terrible disease Cancer is....My prayers are with you... much love to you.
I’m gonna miss you dad. So much I love you more then I ever showed. I wish I can hear your voice again. God please give me the strength
Praying for you. May you find strength, peace and support at this time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
I just lost my sister today. I needed something to ease the pain. I love her so much. I will remember her for as long as I live.
Hope you are doing well in life❤️
How have you been since posting this.
@@djmgoblue still not over, and probably wont get over it in my whole life. It's still difficult to breathe, but living becomes a bit tolerable day by day. I think, things do get better but it just takes a great amount of time. Thanks for asking. :))
@@marcuspalmer2981 thank you. Bless you :))
@@camilledelavin9253 thanks for sharing. May you continue to be comforted and encouraged. I lost my pops less that a month ago, and my world was turned upside down. I miss him so much. I want to wake up to this just being a dream. Although I have faith in the Lord, the reality of him not being here is tough 😪
Thank you. I have been struggling for 2 months since August 2019 my sister passed from cancer and the pain has been unimaginable. I have resentment and struggle with my faith thereafter. Losing a sibling close to you is never easy. It hurts so bad. All I did was cry and when I go a few days without crying iy comes out the blue when I am driving and sometimes I have to pull on the side and sometimes someone will see me and comes over to see if I am ok. Life is very hard and becomes dull even when the sun is out it hard to smile. Unbelievable can go and on. I just mustard up the strength to pray and ask God to strengthen me and my unbelief in him as I am only human and there's so many unanswered question we have no clue about this life and the afterlife and to please help me understand his way of doing the things that he do and his purpose. I dont want to be live my life bitter it s not a good feeling and I want to see my sister again one day because I know we all don't go the same time but we all will leave this earth so I want to be prepared too. I am taking it one day at a time and allow myself to grieve when necessary because thats the only thing will bring me closer to healing.
Today my older brother was hit and killed while rollerblading to work at 6:30 in the morning. The street had no sidewalks and was poorly lit, coupled with the fact that the driver was distracted and speeding. She killed him instantly. His lifeless body on the the cold road. He was only 19.😭I looked up to him so much, I love you Robbie. I will never let you down...
I’m so sorry about your loss . My prayers are with you 🙏🙏🙏
I'm so sorry
I'm so sorry:(*
💜love and light to you
Thanks bro, my grandpa passed away in a car accident he was 79 fully fit and now he is gone. I will be his legacy. Can't thank you enough
Thanks for watching bro, and happy to hear that 💪✊keep going man
that’s so crazy, so was mine but he was 90
@@dankscoob6248 depends how much yiu care for him. But most likely, yes!
My dad died yesterday at a gun accident him being gone has just crushed me
My dad past away yesterday shits hard man it’s all fine then it hits you he’s gone from this point on you can’t talk or interact with him anymore I’m only 14 so it’s like holy shit man I’m only a freshman I thinks it was for the good he couldn’t walk or breath without his head laid down God took his suffering away which I thank him for I couldn’t stand seeing him like that but it still hurts to loose him stay strong brother I get the pain
@@canttamemeh2180 I’m scared that my dad will die
@@oscarmartinez3186 prayers are heading too him as we speak stay strong brother
@@canttamemeh2180 you replied to the wrong guy but thx
@@canttamemeh2180 nope nvm I’m an idiot thx
My name is Marvin. I lost my older brother, followed by my mother and then grandmother. I watched this video to help and give me hope. I am going through the motions and just moving about life. I don’t want this anymore. I needed this.
My wife died, I loved her so much , she died on 7 or 8th December 2018. The true sadness Pierce my brain and soul is when I ask myself "when did my wife really die"?, I was a workaholic...worked earned some money and what do I have now? Neither money not love ... I am crying while I am typing this. I could not even see her one last time before her death. I was working on 7th December and on the 8th her brother said to me , there is still some hope left, but actually she was dead and the Doctor put her on some artificial life support to show them or fooled him and my wife's parents .To hide her mistakes and lack of knowledge in the field of c section or natural birth or even how to use vacuum delivery equipment... Doctor played a cruel trick.... to show that my wife is still alive by piercing some kind of tube in her chest and making her lungs work ... See this has been done when my wife was dead...and when my brother in law asked doctor to let him in to see her for a while , Doctor did not agree, the doctor said she is in intensive care unit and also on a so called life support in a glass box. Going back to me ...I still remember..On December 7th at 7:20 am ( morning ) my wife called me .... I could not even talk to her for 1 minute...the most regretful thing I have ever done in my entire life...that was when, she called me one last time... before going in to the labour room, but I couldn't pick up her call because I was in a hurry to get to work in time..., so what did my wife do, she sent a selfie to my WhatsApp, that is the only one thing I have in my life now . I see it everyday and cry... and pray....I am sad ....but please keep reading...READ....... Because I will teach you how I found a different way to help myself without sinking into the sea of sorrows GRIEF DISAPPOINTMENT and stay afloat ......first thing first ....I know you must be thinking ......yes "My life has no meaning" "I cry everyday" ......YES..YES..yes me too.. i am just like you ....but I do one thing nobody else does..... Because we have to respect the judgement of our Lord JESUS CHRIST... All mighty Lord will do everything for our good only or for our well-being only...just believe what happened is for good only...NOW THE MAIN PART..... Well this is what I do ...That is ...I PRAY FOR SOULS IN PURGATORY AND MY WIFE IF SHE IS IN PURGATORY. I OFFER MASSES AND TRY TO ATTEND MASSES ...AS MANY AS POSSIBLE...AS AN OFFERING FOR THE SOULS IN PURGATORY TO GO TO HEAVEN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, BECAUSE THEY CANNOT PRAY FOR THEMSELVES...THEY CAN ONLY ACCEPT THE PAIN AND THE SUFFERING AS THE PENANCE FOR ALL THE WRONGDOING OR THE CRIMES THEY HAVE COMMITTED ON EARTH. THIS IS THE GREATEST CHARITY A HUMAN CAN DO ON THIS EARTH WHILE HE OR SHE IS ALIVE....By doing so, it will help us , our dear ones who passed away. Please everyone pray for all souls in purgatory and pray to our Lord Jesus Chris and Mother Mary ....Pray for mercy from God. Pray to saints and they will also help us to climb the hill ....to Heaven and when we get to the top, we will see everyone we loved and everything we love to have ....and of course an eternal life of joy , happiness and presence of God which every soul adores after death.
What's happening to you today 3 years later?
I’m sorry for your loss
I'm so glad I came across this video. I lost my husband three months ago and I have three children to raise...there are days I feel like superwoman and days I feel like I dont know how to go on but I love how you said we never complete the grief cycle..we just learn to cope with it better as time goes on. I will become the legacy my husband left behind through me and his children. Bless you and thank you for your wisdom and selfless act to help those in need during this hour. Shalom
Shalom Tadaisha. Thank you for sharing - and I'm so glad it helped!! Keep riding those waves, and keep me posted with how it's all going.
msT4Christ333 uk
MsT4: I lost my spouse and o feel like you. Just reading your post helps me to know I’m not the only one .
msT4Christ333 i lost my hb last week. I am crying so much
Amen,, how are you doing now? I just lost my husband 3 days ago?
Even though I lost my uncle 3 years ago, I still cry ever time I think of him
Same ..
thanks keshav for making this video.. 2 weeks ago I lost my grandpa. after the death of my mom and grandma, he was my mom, grandpa, grandma and a best friend.. I was very sad that I have lost 3 most loved ones of life...
My pleasure Vishal. Hope you inherit his will and become his legacy.
Bro they will be together and pray for you from above.
I lost my mom very sudden in her sleep when I was 20 years old. July 20th 2019 she will be gone 17 years I still struggle god I do everyday. She was my best friend I have good days but alot of bad I go to her grave every weekend I think it hurts so bad I never got to say goodbye my brothers and sisters was so young thank you for your talk and god bless Jay 💛
I lost my mom when I was 11. I miss her with all my heart. I love her very much and think about her everyday❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I’m so sorry that must be rly hard
My mom passed away 2 days ago and I am absolutely heartbroken and lost.
Stay strong. Take your time. Sending you love & courage Rachel!!
So sorry for your loss.
my dad passed away today...
@@keshavbx Thank you so much for that!!
@@eveyjohnson I'm so sorry to hear that. Its been over a year now that I lost my mom and it's still hard learning to live without the one and only person to have always been there my whole life that loved me unconditionally and always had my back. Now I don't have that and never will. But I'm still learning to live without her. I am praying for you!!!
I lost a bird I tried to save today and the bird meant the world to me because it was just a baby. I'm glad I can help from you.
i found this video knowing ill need it in the future. and here i am. crying for the loss of my boy bestfriend. the only person i could spill my thoughts to. i feel there no point in living.
You have opened my eyes Keshav,I lost my Dad yesterday and I would sit in the corner and mourn the entire day.But after watching this video it had changed my entire mindset,I will adapt the good qualities dad had to become a better person
In tears watching this coping with my grandmas death... so much pain
I lost my mother 3 days ago..... My whole being was called home in 5 days. My mom was very strong and didn't die struggling. I feel a huge void in my body and heart.
Today at morning 12:47 my grandpa died with the virus... Our family cried and I cried I've been crying for hours and I've been hugging my mom bc I feel sad I wanna die so I can just meet my grandpa again because respect has become my life...
My story is nowhere near as emotional as everyone else's, but I want to share it. Two or so years back, I got a kitten. His name was gomez, and the moment we got him he chose me. He was so sweet, everytime I said 'kiss', he would boop his head on my lips. He was always by my side, and was the quirkiest little guy. He suddenly passed away, and I started being angry. I was angry that he was leaving, angry that I wouldnt ever see him again. I broke alot of things out of anger, and that was around four months ago. I miss him, and I wish I could hug and kiss him again.
Losing a beloved pet is matters, it IS emotional. Be with your emotions. My thoughts are with you.
I lost my dog 3 days ago,I am depressed,I can't help myself with eating,sleeping he was very close to me and I was very close to him,whenever I go out he comes with me.
The loss of an animal is the loss of family...the loss of a loved one...some people struggle more with the loss of an animal because their love is truly unconditional and they are so pure of ❤️
My 15 yr old cat, Garfield, died 2 weeks ago. My tears still soak my face.😿💔😭
@@sheilagunn596 you will be okay with time.
Today my teacher died and I felt like I didn't appreciate her enough and now I feel so sad for her so I am emotional and wanted to watch videos to help me feel better.
I lost my grandfather I called him dad
Sorry for your loss. Sending you 10x strength and positivity. Hopefully the tips in the video help you too.
red-x man it’s going to be okay 😀
I am there with you. I am a follower of Jesus. More energy and positivity to you. God bless
My Grandfather killed himself on Sunday 😥
I feel your pain I’ve lost my grandpa too he’s was like my dad he actually take care of me as a kid I miss him so much😢
My wife just passed a few weeks ago. I took care of her for 5 years, and the last few months were horrible for her. But, she had me loving her every step of the way. I treasure that awful experience of being with her to the end.
I needed this today. Thank you so much.
You're so welcome!
Thank you
I love you hector rest in piece
I just lost my Grandfather today, I honestly can't stop thinking about him. He's in a better place now.
Exactly pray for him god will be merciful
One month ago my best friend in life died unexpectedly. It's been a roller coaster of emotions. Sometimes it seems as if I will never get through this terrible pain.
I will do my best to honor his memory. I hope we can meet again someday somehow. Rest in peace my friend.
I was crying about something it reminded me of my bestfriend (she was my cat) miss her I wish she was still here she would try to cuddle with me and make me feel better I can’t stop crying now 💔😭I had her since I was born😭
I know the pain 😭😭
This pain I feel is so unbearable... Words can’t describe how I feel ..... I’m so broken!...... is so hard to wake up every morning and know this nightmare is real !!
I Miss You so Much My BabyBrother
My deepest sympathies go out to you, my friend. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Know that we're here for you.
Im watching this because im turning 11 on saturday (may 25th) its may 22nd today and brother just died in a car accident. He was only 17 when he died. I cant believe it.❤
I lost my father to pancreatic cancer 3 days ago. This brings me some comfort. Thank you
If your reading this you have probably lost somone special which is why your watching this vid all I've got to say is they are in a better place and that they are watching you from above proud of you and you have got to stay strong and it's ok to cry and be devastated it's all part of life ۱❤
Mum passed away yesterday, thank you and thanks for everyone who is putting effort to make us feel better. It's tough and it's the worst feeling ever, I cry because I miss you mum, thank you for everything you sacrificied for me, I will be strong as you always told me, I love you forever mum..
My pet guinea pig died this morning. I’m still crying. Everything around me reminds me of her. This video really helped. Thank you so much
My grandfather died this month and his funeral was today. He was the funniest person I new I miss his jokes and he had the best laugh. He made a big difference in my life. Nothing is the same without him. My grandmother misses him so much she said she wanted die just to see him again. I miss him so much.
I lost my BF In a car accident a week ago it’s like my life is so different now... I miss him soooooooo much. I’ll do anything to see his face or hear his voice again.... I still can’t believe he’s gone..
“There is no right way to deal with grief there’s only your way.” Perfectly put, perfectly true. Thank you. 🙏🏾
i lost my mom's dad (grandpa) i loved him so much he was the best grand father i chould have asked for he died today and ive never fealt so sad in my life. he was in his 60's and i loved him my mom's sisters and she and my grandma (husband of him) were the saddest there.He lived a good life but its really emotional for me if he could here me i whould say that i love him and wish him luck in his next life.(and i have depression too..)
-From Akif Ersin At Turkey (im turkish and know english by the way)
2020 has been the roughest year of my life.. My uncle died, then my grandpa, and then a pet that has been with me since birth, and I didn't use to cry that much. But now I've been crying nonstop and it hurts..I'm not the type to open up and tell people my problems because I feel like such a burden once I do.
The worst year for me too, both of my pet died and my uncle, my
I miss my grandpa he was the only won.
He thought me how to catch fish,be nice,be gentle,how to pet good
All the stuff I still can't get over him. So that's why I choose this video.
I JUST MISS HIM😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I was gonna tell him something but on the day I wanted to tell him something he died..
But he's not in pain anymore
To my grandpa,I miss you so much I wish you could never die but you been living for to much so...death struck you
And maybe there will be flying cars in the furture! I'll check for you.. senicrly you grand daughter sofia-
I lost my dad. Suddenly and unexpectedly from a heart attack. I'm just a teenager, just a girl. And he kept my family afloat. He was my heart and soul and now I have to provide for my family. He was the only person in the world who understood me. He gave me my heart and my passion. He was just like me and I'm just like him. Thank you. I have not stopped crying.
Please stay strong, baby girl
''I don't know what happens after you die, but i know you can't kill energy. i do feel the presence of a lot of people who have passed away.''
-Lil Peep
I lost my mom 7 weeks ago unexpectedly to covid. She was such a huge part of my life. She was a very influential person and left a legacy. I agree with Keshav and I’m trying to follow in mams footsteps . This is my first ever huge loss and it’s so painful. But I think we should all be aware of how fragile life is and how in a moments notice it can all be over on this world and live every day being the best person you can be. 💞🌈💞
Stay strong, I lost my mom 11days ago too 💔💔💔
Also is this may just be me but if you hold something of the person you've lost and you say their name out loud close your eyes I promise you you will feel their energy and spirit in the room. And there's never a set limit or expected time where you should not be sad and cry. absolutely cry! crying is one of the best ways to fully emotionally process it because when that happens you've allowed yourself to drop all your exterior guards and armor and everything else you use to protect yourself from letting other people see your vulnerability and if you allow that to happen you feel like a release you feel so much better and every time it'll get a little bit less painful and eventually you'll just smile when you think of the person
I lost my dad 1 week ago. He was 79, it isn’t easy to accept the fact, despite of all the treatment over 21 days
dad is gone for ever. Only his memories are there to cherish...
I'm watching this a year after losing my friend at 6am and I can't get it out of my head I still haven't got over it
My uncle died 3pm UK time today, 25th August 2019 from committing suicide, his daughter, my best friend, my cousin had gone out this morning seeing him eating his breakfast and came back at 3pm looking for him and found him on the floor surrounded by blood and purple puke, it is honestly the worst thing I have dealt with. It was so out of the blue and he had so many people that dared about him. He was only 54 years old and he had 4 kids and grandkids that he loved so very dearly just to find out he was more depressed than we thought. He tried it last week but failed as ky cousin came in to find him doing it and stopped it right away and through his drugs away however he kept getting them back. I miss him so much and the thing that keeps me motivated, despite it happening today is saying to myself *He is in a better place now, he doesn't need to struggle anymore, he will finally be happy again* The police left 7 hours ago and I feel like a failure, as my auntie is getting all the blame from his family and I couldnt do anything about it. Even though I am only 10, I know, I'm young, but I know that it isnt just me who is dealing with this sort of grief, hundreds of people committ suicide DAILY and leave their family and friends with never ending grief. If you have suicidal thoughts, please contact a professional because remember, you only have one shot in life and once you're gone, it's all gone. Thank you for reading this and I hope this can help people going through deaths of loved ones, my cousin is coming over tommorow because he was the only person he had left despite us as her sisters despised and still do despise her as she is the only daughter who gets inheritance as she was the only one there for him all this time. Wish me and all oc my family the best of luck please, I wish you all the same
Thank you for reading
Xoxo- Alexandria xxx
Lost my grandad 1 and half a month ago, he was so close to me, so is my grandma, but she couldn't bear the loss and today when I woke up, I saw her lying in her lifeless body, I love them so much and i will forever, trust me it's painful, I will make them proud, I love you grandparents
I lost my brother 3 weeks ago ...so painful and i miss him everyday 😢😢
Sorry for your loss.
Ron & Anamie I understand your pain 💯.
my dad is fighting pancreatic cancer and its looking bad, he is my best friend and the person dearest to my heart and i dont think i can do this without him
I am sorry ,my mom is my heart and soul and she is very sick now,I am preparing for worst
This video made my day , i always had depression in my life for the tiniest stupid things , but now i know that I wasted my life and be grateful , thank you 🙏. Greetings from Kuwait ❤️👋
I feel so bad since my cousin is facing this but it’s her grandfather I love my grandfather I am grateful I have an amazing grandfather but when they go a-away it hurts deep inside I lost my first dog ( well my grand parents dog),uncle,cousins. It’s to hard!! I am to scared to hurt myself, but I’m bullied but thank good that does not stop me but it really hurts when somebody feels that sadness. All I want to say is that if you something hard, think twice.
For Jay, you shall forever be in our hearts brother with love from Botswana..a very good video Kesh .
+Brains Vasco Always. Ke le boga tata
You're welcome.. ee rra
My dog died today.. she was a gift straight from heaven im not saying that because she’s mine. She was a gift I cried for 5 hours but.. Rest In Peace misha. I love you 💕
They live through us my friend. We must live and honor them with our lives. Thank you for being strong and sharing!🔥
Pedro De Leon Jr 100% my man.
Everyone in the comment section saying that they lost their beloved ones,
Don't worry one day we will all follow them 😉
I lost my best friend of 7 years...3 weeks ago...I still cry everyday remembering her.Her laugh I couldn't help but laugh along with,her smile I loved to see everyday,I miss her so much.
Rest easy Cami ❤️
5-3-05 to 8-4-19
I lost my cousin/best friend
My mother just died to cancer all I need is a prayer 🙏🏽
KESHAV, thanks for the video Brother, I've had depression since i was 15, and lost my mum in 2000, which made it worse, I'm now 41 and wrote my life off..this world is bad but it helps knowing a good brother like u is out in this world doing Good, Thanks Bro, I wish u every success in this cruel world...Peace 🙂
Arsenio Wonga god bless you sir even i lost my grandpa last week due to lung and brain cancer
Hi... umm I lost my great grandad today and I am only 12 btw I am a girl but he was the last great grandparent I had he did not die from covid-19 he was really supportive for me because I dance and every time we would leave he would always say to keep up with my dancing but now I have one less supporter for me and it was hard tbh to think that oh I want to visit him but he is not here and I am saddened he would always give me warm hugs and kisses and each hug he felt weaker and weaker and it saddened me and I love him so much love you grandad pet (sam) watching this makes me feel better but now I have to cope with a big change knowing that now I have no great grand parents....
I never got to see my grandpa. He died before I was born. I miss him even though I never met him in person. But there is a photo of him and I look at it and just smile. Love you grandpa ❤️❤️
The reason im here m'y grandma died 2 days ago because of Covid-19 and i can't stop crying and i have exams on 1 october but i can't focus whenever i try to do something i remember her she was my favorite person on earth but she's not with me anymore i miss her so much 😭
my grandma passed earlier tonight. i hope you're doing ok and knowing she will always love you and is always watching over you. it'll get better.
My grandma has passed away today. I'm shattered into pieces right now. My grandad passed away 5 years ago
I'm watching this because of Cameron Boyce.
I miss him.
* I'm sorry for your loss..🙏 *
me too :(:(:( I still can't believe it!
@@ironmight4334 he was a huge part of my childhood, I miss him so damn much. He was taken too soon. 🤧💔🙏
Same , even though I can't believe I'm actually crying for someone I've never met 😢😢 he felt like a close friend
Me too I miss him so much and I wish this was all a nightmare
@@mariamebeid8123 Same here, he was a huge part of my childhood.. .
Badly needed it bcz of Sushant Singh ,, Hope You will be happy wherever u are .....
Lost my twin brother 3 months ago, its like im having to learn who i am all together again
Kevin Hofer so sorry for your loss . My prayers are with you ✝️🙏
I'm so heartbroken... it hurts so bad 2020
I lost my father 16 days ago. From then, life isn't the same. I just turned 22 a few days ago and the very thought that he's never gonna be here kills. The fact that he'll never be with us for my graduation or my wedding or when I give birth and so on and on, just sucks. I wish that he had spent some more years with us. I loved him, i love him and i'll always love him till my last breath. Hope we all get through this and hope is the only thing that's left with us for now.
I love you daddy 🧡
And I miss your presence every single day 😭💓
I'm watching as one of my beautiful cousins just passed away today, I love her so much and will miss her always!
I lost my grandmother last week and tday is the funeral she was like a mother to me I never had one mine died before I was born it
Do you feel better now? I am scared for the future
I lost my grandfather today. I am 24, so to me, he, the only man in the family, was this symbol of unshakable strength, it was all normal, it was my life, I couldn't imagine it being any other way. And as I listened to this video, having it in the background, I cried. I cried and cried and cried and cried and... honestly, I should be glad I am letting it all out. I love him. This love knows no past tense. Eventually, the pain will get better and fade, but memories will stay. I felt like you were talking not to an audience but directly to me. I am far from recovering, it's all too fresh, but the memory is there. Will always be.
Sitting at my cubicle realizing my mom isn't coming back, she has been gone for a week now. I think I have been low-key waiting for her to return but I have realized she is gone forever. My mom was my heart and soul, she sort of became my child over the last year's of her life since her health declined. I never expected to be living in my 30's without my mom. She was an imperfect angel, seriously! So funny , empathetic and educated. So selfless, strong and gentle with her love . Idk how I will get thru this !
Be strong for her,she will want you to be happy and live your life.
paul leeming I’m sorry for your loss🙏❤️
🙏🙏❤️
Recently my dog Rocky ran away and I can’t help but think that it was all my fault. Not even a month later my other dog mimi had passed away and it’s been really hard to deal with all that at once. Thank you for making this video. It made me feel a lot better💕❤️💕❤️
I miss her so much 😔
Best friend died about 7 months ago. I was so disoriented and couldn't believe that it was the end of our friendship. The hardest part of it was the last words he said to me. "See you tomorrow buddy." It just hurts so much.
Keshav I have been following you since many months. I lost my husband this month. The pain is unbearable. Noone can understand what I am going through. I have a baby 4 years old. She misses her father badly. Wrote this just to tell everyone reading this love the people around you. You never know what will happen in future. Nothing is important than life. ❤️
I found ur video, I lost my significant other yesterday suddenly of a heart attack, I've been so sick and can't stop crying, I can't imagine living my life without him, we had so many plans and dreams that now will never be filled, and that's the hardest thing to accept.
jgirl 34 I’m so sorry sweetie. I hope you’re doing better... take it one day at a time
I am so very sorry for you. My love died in a trucking accident in July. My heart is shattered..I feel you.i wish I could take your pain away but I am lost on how to help myself.
Thanks for this video, it helped me feel a little better. I lost my father suddenly a few days ago, I've been crying since then especially because I didn't get a chance to say goodbye. I know that he loved me, and he knew that I loved him so I guess that'll have to suffice. He was not only my father figure, but a big part of my support network I've been struggling with several debilitating medical conditions for the past 8 years, and he was my main transportation to doctors and other places I ever needed to go to, and when I did he never made a fuss he just said, "whenever you need me I'm here." And now he's just not here when I need him the most 😢 I wish he could've stayed by side until my health improved enough where I could lead a stable life on my own 2 feet. This happening also greatly reignited my fear of being left alone, my family besides my parents are mostly self serving and I can't rely on them and my social life is pretty dead thanks to my medical issues. I don't think I could survive in my current situation without my parents.
I lost my wife 2 weeks ago from covid-19. The feeling of having to watch the love of your life slowly choke to death, alone in icu and not being able to do anything about it...is indescribably horrific and it tore a hole in me. She tried to call me while I was at work, before they sedated her because knew she wasn't coming back. I missed her calls due to the poor reception where I work. She left her sister a message to give me saying "tell trinity that I love him.". I loved her more than I ever thought I could love someone. And although my heart still beats... I died with her in icu that day.
How are you now?
So Heartfelt ❤️ Don't forget the precious pets. I lost my 15 year old Daughter in July 93, my father in December 93 and my partner in 97 all in the UK. I bought a jack russell terrier in 2005 and he filled the void of all the losses above but 8 weeks ago aged 14 he passed away and Totos death has devastated me beyond belief. He gave me more love and understanding than all humanity put together and also gave me a virtual sword and shield to fight the good fight as a minority gender and in all my years I've never ever felt so devastated and lonely like I do now. I often mistakenly refer to him as Emma my Daughter because his passing has brought all the past losses flooding back and I'm walking in a daze. Toto was also there for my 5 year recovery from kidney cancer and I miss the little guy so much, he was my little buddy like a shadow and just made the world an okay place to be once again. I'm looking for a new jr puppy but it's the toughest part of my life for sure. When you started talking I just cried with such intensity and I REALLY need to get back on my feet but I hear what you are saying. I guess we're ALL dying from the moment we are born and yes, life is precious, pitifully short and precious. Thank you for your video, it helped, but I'm still crying. I guess I'll try to motivate myself to move forward in life. Much Gratitude
Stephanie Sancia
I can really appreciate your story because it's a lot like mine. I lost my husband who was also my best friend at the end of 2012. I then lost numerous family members including my mom. Thank goodness I still had my kids, my little brother, and my dog, Woofie. Then about 4 years ago my dog wasn't doing well and it was the weekend. I knew that I was probably going to have to put a stop to his pain on Monday morning. My brother buried him in his backyard for me and it's been really hard. I did get another dog. One that really needed a forever home. I thought, okay maybe now I can move forward. Then just a year ago, my little brother was murdered. I'm hurting so much and I'm not sure what to do! I keep telling myself that I CAN get through this, but it seems like I've stopped living. Sorry about writing so much. I just want you to know that you're not alone and I hope and pray that you're able to find happiness again! XOXOXOXOXO
Lost my grandpa a few hours ago, I still don't want to believe he's gone, he was a butefull human being he was a doctor that saved many people he always helped me and my family when we needed help the most he was that person that made my live easy and happy and now he is gone forever and I won't see him again and I just don't know how to deal with it, I made a new life goal, I want to become a doctor just like him and fulfill his legacy but I don't know if I'll make it, if I won't become a doctor I won't have a life goal anymore and then I just wouldn't want to live
I lost my grans friend too and she was kinda like another gran! She died 3 months ago. I know how it feels, it feels painful
my beloved grandma passed away today at the age of 88 and I miss her dearly. I just can’t bare the thought of there being no one to tell me stories about her childhood anymore and still have outdated views on society and whatnot. Grandma, I miss you so much.
I thought you would all like this quote coming from a psychiatrist who was murdered in the Nazi concentration camp.
“If we know the why of our existence we are able to bear any how.” So folks keep the torch burning fir those we lost and for those we continue to live for .
"what are their best qualities and how you can apply them to your own life"....well spoken