Some of yall are genuinely beautiful and I refuse to believe that yall never dated before UNLESS you had no interest yourself this one is to everyone in the comment section but feels more at place here
Advice: Just make yourself available by going out to gatherings (clubs, sports, restaurants, gym groups) and let it happen. As you meet more people, you'll find yourself be attracted to certain types of people, and in turn, some will be attracted to you. Once you hit adulthood, it's likely that you'll have relationship with a co-worker (statistically), but this can be a nightmare. Trying to force yourself into a relationship is not my suggested way, as it's too construed and artificial. Eventually, you'll probably end up with one life partner, so make sure they're the right person.
Oh, and most important rule (not tip, but rule): Make sure you are happy yourself before inviting someone else into your life. If you're unhappy with yourself, then the problem will never fix itself no matter who comes into your life. You must know yourself, your values, virtues before engaging with another person in a deep level. I believe this is the principle factor to my single state. I'm still trying to figure myself out haha. We all are. That's what makes life interesting, eh?
Girl I can relate to how you are feeling I am 28 years old and I have never had a boyfriend and never been on a date and I’m behining to think that I’m the only girl this has ever happened to point is that I never get guys I like mainly because I give up on them too soon as well… you got this just be yourself you look awesome and you have a very mature personality I’m sure he will love you to bits ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
hahaha, I love your energy 😂😂👏 I feel you, I'm 23 and haven't had a bf yet~ but it's ok 😊 what will happen, will happen 😂 u r really cute and pretty, btw! 🔥😊
I’m the opposite where I had so many ex boyfriends for the past 30 years and what’s strange for me is to not have a boyfriend. 😅 Now I’m practicing being single for more than 1 year, my goal is to be single for 2 years :))
Just wanted to say, I have also never been on a date ever. I'm 19, and also hadn't done anything with a guy including holding hands until very recently. I understand a lot of the things you struggle with. I tend to find reasons to not date also, like tell myself I will date once I move out or finish my studies. Recently I was asked out by my crush and I found reasons to cancel on him, logically talking myself out of dating him even though I wanted to. My advice is maybe to try to figure out whether it is a fear for you, because sometimes these excuses we make are only covering for a bigger reason, like the fear of intimacy, social anxiety or even abandonment issues. If not, then I'd suggest you just live in accordance to your values and what you want whether that's studying. If you find it is just a bluff for the root cause, then I would suggest you try to ease yourself into dating or find ways to deal with that main issue. For example if you have bad social anxiety, sometimes it helps to plan the date yourself and make it as laid back as possible with the least amount of anxiety triggers like choosing a casual walk in the park over a dinner/lunch date. Also, just because you mentioned how you never go out that could be also why you have never dated. A lot of my experience with guys happened naturally, being in social settings and similarly because I am rarely in those settings I rarely interact with guys. Maybe try to attend more social events, this can allow you to naturally find a guy but not focus on that rather than dating sites and blind dates that is only about dating and not just general socialising. That was long, I hope it is helpful.
I feel like you keep saying '21 years of being single' but I hope you understand that the first 17 years probably don't even count 😂 but like how is everyone expected to have had a relationship by 21 even???? im literally the same as you and an awkward mess lol. like there are no prospects in my future rn either so dont feel to bad 😂
23 years and counting…. of being single. So I can totally relate to the first two min of this video 🥲 never been on a date, not even like a not serious date lol. Ndjdjdkdi
I am not the most suitable person to give a love advice... But maybe this subject has more layers. As you said, something has to do with you being busy, but also maybe, just maybe, could also be because you want to do things right in all aspects of your life. Give yourself the opportunity to let things go in that area of your live and talk to persons that wouldn't be your first choice to talk to.
(In terms of finding someone advice) Open up about about your physical insecuties to a guy friend. In his words "that's fine, I'd totally [redacted] you" Totally not what I was going for but oh well.
24 and went on my first ever date a few weeks after my birthday, and it was rough 😂 lots of awkwardness from my side but after a few months and lots more dates, I'm a little bit more confident and know what I like, dislike, redflags etc. But all this to say I relate so much from this video, I have little to no social interactions and I kinda shut myself out of the world and the whole dating scene haha. Just kind of mentally drained from the experience 😂❤
Happy birthday na na.You are not in a paradox but just that you don't really make a 💯🧡 effort and focused on your personal life as against your studies and now your career.This lifestyle and ambition if prolonged can be damaging in the long run.
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totally relate girl, except I'm 26 and have my first real date ever tomorrow. So nervous, fingers crossed it goes well!
oh wow!! keeping my fingers crossed as well :) and glad you could relate!
This is me tonight! I am 27.
Good luck I hope it went well for you
How did it go?
Some of yall are genuinely beautiful and I refuse to believe that yall never dated before UNLESS you had no interest yourself
this one is to everyone in the comment section but feels more at place here
Advice: Just make yourself available by going out to gatherings (clubs, sports, restaurants, gym groups) and let it happen. As you meet more people, you'll find yourself be attracted to certain types of people, and in turn, some will be attracted to you.
Once you hit adulthood, it's likely that you'll have relationship with a co-worker (statistically), but this can be a nightmare.
Trying to force yourself into a relationship is not my suggested way, as it's too construed and artificial. Eventually, you'll probably end up with one life partner, so make sure they're the right person.
Oh, and most important rule (not tip, but rule):
Make sure you are happy yourself before inviting someone else into your life. If you're unhappy with yourself, then the problem will never fix itself no matter who comes into your life. You must know yourself, your values, virtues before engaging with another person in a deep level.
I believe this is the principle factor to my single state. I'm still trying to figure myself out haha. We all are. That's what makes life interesting, eh?
this is actually really meaningful advice! thank you so much :)
this was so relatable LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL i love this naproud!!
hahahaha thanks Swathi!!!
Girl I can relate to how you are feeling I am 28 years old and I have never had a boyfriend and never been on a date and I’m behining to think that I’m the only girl this has ever happened to point is that I never get guys I like mainly because I give up on them too soon as well… you got this just be yourself you look awesome and you have a very mature personality I’m sure he will love you to bits ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
hahaha, I love your energy 😂😂👏
I feel you, I'm 23 and haven't had a bf yet~ but it's ok 😊 what will happen, will happen 😂 u r really cute and pretty, btw! 🔥😊
Aww thank you so much! 🥺🥺💕💕
I’m the opposite where I had so many ex boyfriends for the past 30 years and what’s strange for me is to not have a boyfriend. 😅 Now I’m practicing being single for more than 1 year, my goal is to be single for 2 years :))
Just wanted to say, I have also never been on a date ever. I'm 19, and also hadn't done anything with a guy including holding hands until very recently. I understand a lot of the things you struggle with. I tend to find reasons to not date also, like tell myself I will date once I move out or finish my studies. Recently I was asked out by my crush and I found reasons to cancel on him, logically talking myself out of dating him even though I wanted to. My advice is maybe to try to figure out whether it is a fear for you, because sometimes these excuses we make are only covering for a bigger reason, like the fear of intimacy, social anxiety or even abandonment issues. If not, then I'd suggest you just live in accordance to your values and what you want whether that's studying. If you find it is just a bluff for the root cause, then I would suggest you try to ease yourself into dating or find ways to deal with that main issue. For example if you have bad social anxiety, sometimes it helps to plan the date yourself and make it as laid back as possible with the least amount of anxiety triggers like choosing a casual walk in the park over a dinner/lunch date. Also, just because you mentioned how you never go out that could be also why you have never dated. A lot of my experience with guys happened naturally, being in social settings and similarly because I am rarely in those settings I rarely interact with guys. Maybe try to attend more social events, this can allow you to naturally find a guy but not focus on that rather than dating sites and blind dates that is only about dating and not just general socialising. That was long, I hope it is helpful.
aw thank you so much for all of your advice! :)
This is so relatable though lol I’m about to go on a date for the first time ever. So nervous 😓
omg good luck for your date! hahaha glad you found it relatable :)
I feel like you keep saying '21 years of being single' but I hope you understand that the first 17 years probably don't even count 😂 but like how is everyone expected to have had a relationship by 21 even???? im literally the same as you and an awkward mess lol. like there are no prospects in my future rn either so dont feel to bad 😂
hahahahahahaha that's very true about the first 17 years 😂😂
Same here 🤣 I'm 19 and I find dating so awkward 🤣
This is extremely relatable 😂
23 years and counting…. of being single. So I can totally relate to the first two min of this video 🥲 never been on a date, not even like a not serious date lol. Ndjdjdkdi
Just found your channel and I love it already! And you’re an army! YESSSS 😁💜
aw thank you so much!!!! and yes hehe 💜💜💜
You seem so sweet and I enjoyyyeddd your video. I related a lot. Hope u have a wonderfull life. 💞
awww thank you so much, this is so kind of you 💓 hope you have a wonderful life too!
You're so cute, I'm happy I stumbled upon ur channel!
aw thank you so much 😳💖😆
I am not the most suitable person to give a love advice... But maybe this subject has more layers.
As you said, something has to do with you being busy, but also maybe, just maybe, could also be because you want to do things right in all aspects of your life.
Give yourself the opportunity to let things go in that area of your live and talk to persons that wouldn't be your first choice to talk to.
Just be yourself. That’s legit all the advice I have 😂
it's good advice though :)
I didn't go on my first date until I was 21 either. 33 years later, and we're still together.
omg the fish is on point
I'm almost 20 years old and I've never dated or kissed or hugged anyone
STOP THIS IS ME RN
I've outlasted you by a whole decade haha. Basically, I've been working (excuse) and not prepared yet.
Same exact situation here
(In terms of finding someone advice) Open up about about your physical insecuties to a guy friend.
In his words "that's fine, I'd totally [redacted] you"
Totally not what I was going for but oh well.
Just to clairify nothing happened, so I'll be joining you in the 21 and never dated club too 🤣
hahaha I think there's actually a lot of us 🙃
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Nice sharing
thank you!
My friend Phupha is single
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24 and went on my first ever date a few weeks after my birthday, and it was rough 😂 lots of awkwardness from my side but after a few months and lots more dates, I'm a little bit more confident and know what I like, dislike, redflags etc.
But all this to say I relate so much from this video, I have little to no social interactions and I kinda shut myself out of the world and the whole dating scene haha. Just kind of mentally drained from the experience 😂❤
I want to say something but I'll keep it to myself since nobody understands.
weird cause’ im also 21 and single. youtube finally exposed me oh god help lol
the algorithm knows 😏
Happy birthday na na.You are not in a paradox but just that you don't really make a 💯🧡 effort and focused on your personal life as against your studies and now your career.This lifestyle and ambition if prolonged can be damaging in the long run.
honestly, I do agree with you :) thanks for the birthday wishes + comment!
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you are quiet cute just get a dating app and go on a couple free dates with dudes
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happy birthday!
@@bryantanwz thank you!