The narc I once knew was talking loudly on his cell phone to someone, claiming that we had just come from a concert and saying how great it was. Fact is, we could not get tickets and had only driven to the location. After the call, I asked him why did he claim that we had actually been at the concert. He became totally enraged, yelling, "We DID go to the concert. We drove up there, didn't we!" Sad, how delusional narcs are. They will stick to their twisted lies, no matter what!
I don't think they do. They know what they're doing. My ex lied about cancer treatments and a cleaning business and an ex while she was with him at his house. So, she didn't believe any of it...
I knew a narcissist who made up a whole daughter. Guys a loser but apparently his daughter ( who doesn’t exist), is a successful lawyer and conveniently she lives in the states ( we’re in the UK). Funny thing is I’ve known him my entire life and he can’t conceive that we all know he’s made it all up. Weird!
Wow. I really wonder if narcissists and/or pathological liars that do things like this are just not as intelligent as those that know how to not tell such obvious lies.
@@LookingBehindtheMirror Sorry I was travelling when I was listening, And commented before the video ended. Just heard you say narcissists make things up and that’s what came into my head. I’m just listening to the rest of the video now and I’m way off topic and I have listened before, because I have commented before 🥴, world of my own. But I have the opportunity to listen again now and there’s no such thing as too much education ☺️. But in response to your comment. Sometimes you think this guy is a moron and then sometimes not. I think narcissists are bizarre, and pretty disturbing. I have experienced the false facts syndrome from him and other narcissists too. Even when you know what you are dealing with it’s hard to converse with a narcissist. Creepy, that’s how I feel about them. Thanks for the second time for the video. Take care ☺️
No need to apologize! I do that all the time when I’m listening to RUclips. Haha. Sometimes something strikes you and you just want to say something before listening to the rest of it.
When I first met my ex narc, he told me he taught metaphysics at Washington University. I called Washington University and they just laughed and said we don't teach metaphysics here we are a serious University. I confronted him on it and he just laughed It Off.
"He's just a friend" about the rebound hookups when I'd dump her (which she would flaunt on social media while insulting me), or guys shes keeping on the chain when we dated. If I came with proof or made the mistake of explaining basic human behavior, which was always, I would get cussed out and ghosted lol I was always "overthinking" and had "anger problems" which made me think I had BPD at one point, because that relationship made me so stressed and doubting myself if I was overreacting. Great channel, I've experienced so much of what your videos cover which other channels neglect.
Sounds like my ex. They are good at making you think you’re the problem. They don’t take accountability to anything they do. They gaslight and confuse you
Yup. Some of the biggest lies from a narc (that I wasn’t related to), was that she had 7 siblings and that she was in college on a soccer scholarship. She was just a random coworker. But later I found out she never played soccer for any college, and she only had 2 siblings. These creatures will lie when they don’t even need to. They lie about things that you don’t even ask about.
I always thought they were just too scared to ask for toilet paper so they phrase it as a question. My narcs mother was malignant so I figured it was a coping mechanism. I had to learn when they were asking for something.
Brilliant 🤩 👍🏻. Yeah I was thinking about that recently. We’re so accustomed to having our reality dictated by them. It’s amazing how many ways we are affected. Thank you 😊
My x-husband was a dyed in the wool narcissist. His “very smart” sister dealt with it this way. When he lied . . . She said YOU ARE LYING! (And that was the end of the discussion)
I really enjoy your videos. Listening to you is similar to having a real friend tell you what you need to hear because they love you. I made it clear to my narc that I knew he was a liar and had lied to me about everything from the get go and I could see a fear in his eyes that he had been exposed, but his only response was, "I am sure you have lied to me to". He couldn't come up with any examples, but he feels justified in his lies. As far as he is concerned, that conversation never happened and all of our problems are my fault. I would witness him telling lies to his family about his employment status all the time. He did the same thing to ppl at church. I couldn't stand it, I did not want to be party to his lies. He has a realtor license, therefore, he works in his mind. I have experienced the text message denial scenario. You text something and they deny receiving the text even when you have the entire conversation. I am fortunate to have disconnected from him emotionally, so he cannot really hurt me now, but he still tries to crazy make by trying to get me to talk. I have to be really careful not to be pulled into his fantasy. Avoid talking, avoid eye contact, avoid, avoid, avoid. I am so glad I am not on FB and other social media platforms. Once he is gone, I am hoping to never see him again, lol
The narc I once knew was talking loudly on his cell phone to someone, claiming that we had just come from a concert and saying how great it was. Fact is, we could not get tickets and had only driven to the location. After the call, I asked him why did he claim that we had actually been at the concert. He became totally enraged, yelling, "We DID go to the concert. We drove up there, didn't we!" Sad, how delusional narcs are. They will stick to their twisted lies, no matter what!
Classic! I’m glad to hear that this is someone you “once knew”. Life’s too short for that nonsense.
And they believe their own lie🤥
That's the saddest and scariest bit.
I don't think they do. They know what they're doing. My ex lied about cancer treatments and a cleaning business and an ex while she was with him at his house. So, she didn't believe any of it...
You are only there as a supporting actor of them 🎯
I knew a narcissist who made up a whole daughter. Guys a loser but apparently his daughter ( who doesn’t exist), is a successful lawyer and conveniently she lives in the states ( we’re in the UK). Funny thing is I’ve known him my entire life and he can’t conceive that we all know he’s made it all up. Weird!
Wow. I really wonder if narcissists and/or pathological liars that do things like this are just not as intelligent as those that know how to not tell such obvious lies.
@@LookingBehindtheMirror Sorry I was travelling when I was listening, And commented before the video ended. Just heard you say narcissists make things up and that’s what came into my head. I’m just listening to the rest of the video now and I’m way off topic and I have listened before, because I have commented before 🥴, world of my own. But I have the opportunity to listen again now and there’s no such thing as too much education ☺️.
But in response to your comment. Sometimes you think this guy is a moron and then sometimes not. I think narcissists are bizarre, and pretty disturbing. I have experienced the false facts syndrome from him and other narcissists too. Even when you know what you are dealing with it’s hard to converse with a narcissist. Creepy, that’s how I feel about them.
Thanks for the second time for the video. Take care ☺️
No need to apologize! I do that all the time when I’m listening to RUclips. Haha. Sometimes something strikes you and you just want to say something before listening to the rest of it.
@@LookingBehindtheMirror That’s exactly what happened 😂. Couldn’t curb my enthusiasm 😆
When I first met my ex narc, he told me he taught metaphysics at Washington University. I called Washington University and they just laughed and said we don't teach metaphysics here we are a serious University. I confronted him on it and he just laughed It Off.
"He's just a friend" about the rebound hookups when I'd dump her (which she would flaunt on social media while insulting me), or guys shes keeping on the chain when we dated.
If I came with proof or made the mistake of explaining basic human behavior, which was always, I would get cussed out and ghosted lol
I was always "overthinking" and had "anger problems" which made me think I had BPD at one point, because that relationship made me so stressed and doubting myself if I was overreacting.
Great channel, I've experienced so much of what your videos cover which other channels neglect.
Sounds like my ex. They are good at making you think you’re the problem. They don’t take accountability to anything they do. They gaslight and confuse you
Yup. Some of the biggest lies from a narc (that I wasn’t related to), was that she had 7 siblings and that she was in college on a soccer scholarship. She was just a random coworker. But later I found out she never played soccer for any college, and she only had 2 siblings. These creatures will lie when they don’t even need to. They lie about things that you don’t even ask about.
Stay away from them.
I always thought they were just too scared to ask for toilet paper so they phrase it as a question. My narcs mother was malignant so I figured it was a coping mechanism. I had to learn when they were asking for something.
Yah he says he never hit me...although he kicked, spit choked pulled my hair pushed me..fractured my arm and punched me multiple times with no remorse
Mi
Mi7
Hope you're away and safe now.
Classic Domestic Violence Abuser.
I suggest Lundy Bancroft’s book “Why does he do that”. Misogyny and power
Finances...promises to pay back...
Brilliant 🤩 👍🏻. Yeah I was thinking about that recently. We’re so accustomed to having our reality dictated by them. It’s amazing how many ways we are affected.
Thank you 😊
He would look away when I did that
I just love your channel 😍 thanks for the great content! So informative and oddly calming lol
Thanks for watching! I’m glad you’re enjoying it.
I lived through all of your examples. It was beyond exhausting. They are DELUSIONAL!
My x-husband was a dyed in the wool narcissist. His “very smart” sister dealt with it this way. When he lied . . . She said YOU ARE LYING! (And that was the end of the discussion)
I really enjoy your videos. Listening to you is similar to having a real friend tell you what you need to hear because they love you. I made it clear to my narc that I knew he was a liar and had lied to me about everything from the get go and I could see a fear in his eyes that he had been exposed, but his only response was, "I am sure you have lied to me to". He couldn't come up with any examples, but he feels justified in his lies. As far as he is concerned, that conversation never happened and all of our problems are my fault. I would witness him telling lies to his family about his employment status all the time. He did the same thing to ppl at church. I couldn't stand it, I did not want to be party to his lies. He has a realtor license, therefore, he works in his mind. I have experienced the text message denial scenario. You text something and they deny receiving the text even when you have the entire conversation. I am fortunate to have disconnected from him emotionally, so he cannot really hurt me now, but he still tries to crazy make by trying to get me to talk. I have to be really careful not to be pulled into his fantasy. Avoid talking, avoid eye contact, avoid, avoid, avoid. I am so glad I am not on FB and other social media platforms. Once he is gone, I am hoping to never see him again, lol
The lies are practice..
Declaring reality omg yes.
You make such great content, very well spoken and really relatable. Thank you 👍
Thank you!
Everyone that isn't here lies
Yep 🚬🦲
I’m glad I listened again. 🤩
Just like you practice the piano or tennis etc.
Narcissist always lie . They believe their own lies 😅😅
🙏🏻 🌟 🙏
Hahahaha!
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