Life with the Lindseys - Ep. 56 - Why Cornelius Resigned from Pastoring
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- Is God asking you to step out on faith and you’re struggling to obey? Listen in to this week’s episode of Life With the Lindseys as Cornelius and Heather share their stores of faith, obedience, and recognizing the beauty and gift in where God has us now.
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I grew so much spiritually from watching Heather for years online. Thanks babe💜💜
I learned 3 things from this podcast:
1. Christians are not perfect.
2. Follow Jesus's calling, not man's.
3. Mind your own relationship with God. While you work with yours hands.
I do want to make it known that not ALL church culture is completely broken or slanderous. Sadly, that comes when people do not fully surrender to Christ and His Identity. No way can you take on the identity of Christ and have a heart of trash. I understand that this is a personal experience but I’ve heard it sooo much. And I want people to know the church ain’t all messed up now. God got some people that are serving and living well in the church! I pray that God may continue to keep and bless the Lindsey Family. Blessings.
I totally agree
Agreed , they have a right to feel their pain and disappointment from members but still as Christians they should have guarded the hearts of new comers. And let it known that it’s still important to congregate and tithe.
I feel a lot of people will take the video out of context to not go to church or donate/give.
Yes! :)
Amen
I just wanna say hey to my sisters and brothers in Christ! I got saved 8/6/20 all glory to God! and I’m so excited for my journey! I love you all so much 💙
Psalm 51:10 "Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me."
Praying for rest, restoration, healing, forgiveness and protection for anyone who may need it🙏🏽💗
Amen!!!
People truly do not know what goes into ministry, the cost of the mantle and the attacks from the enemy and “know it’s all”. Can wait to see what God has for you two in the future.
GIRL. They have NO idea. But, this made us SO strong and literally UNBREAKABLE.
Yes , it is a heavy mantle. This is why the people who are truly called to be a pastor and ministry, will have God's strength to carry out the mission. God will fulfill His purpose through your life. However, if someone is walking in a ministry that God truly did not call them to be in, there are situations like this that occur, where down the road, it gets too heavy and you don't have God's grace to carry you through it. God will only give you the grace, through the Holy Spirit, for the mission that He called you to do. ( this is no shade to the Lindsey's)
It’s sad to see them get so much hate. I understand people are not perfect, because we are not Jesus!! But let’s remember all of the good they’ve done. I discovered Heather about 4 years ago, and watching her videos helped me get out of a bad relationship where I would have ended up miserable. He wanted to marry me, and people told me that he was “the best I could do”. Listening to Heathers teachings gave me the strength to do what was right, and listen to that voice telling me he was not the one!! I believe God was telling me all along to leave, but I couldn’t get myself to do it. In that time I got so much closer to God, I took a year off to focus on singleness and seeking Jesus. 🤍 I am now very happily married to an incredible man who loves me and loves God! Praise God!! And thank you Heather for your faithfulness. May God bless you two in this next season, don’t give up. 🤍
Welcome to the kingdom!!!! I put in and put in and put in until I was burnt up and out. Now I am mobile and global and I still flow with God and rock with God and minister but in a kingdom way and with much freedom than being bound to one location and etc.. I could see Cornelius shifting to a kingdom mindset and BOOM this is Right on time!!!!! Yasssssss!!!! Glory!!!!!
Hallelujah!
You both are pure in heart. Ministry is NOT EASY! It’s so easy for people to try and shame, humiliate, slander, tear their leaders, their pastors and each other down. If you are not in ministry or a position of leadership you have NO idea (I’m just gonna leave that right there). I know for a fact that you all are doing right, because the enemy is busy and mad! They did this to Jesus. I love y’all, not because you’re Cornelius and Heather, but because you are my brother and sister in the Lord. I stand with you all. Keep being bold, pure, and sold out for Jesus! They cannot curse what God has already blessed. The enemy has been DEFEATED in Jesus name.
As I get older, the more I see the importance of boundaries. Burnout is real, praying for you Brother 🙏🏿
Yes
Cornelius...I just want to say THANK YOU for all your selfless work as well as your Wife for standing by your side and supporting you. May God CONTINUE to bless you all, your heart, your life, and your all the works of your hands. With love Brother and Sister Lindsey🙏🏽✝️💛💫
Cornelius cracks me up omg he’s so real and raw I love it
I love the Lindsey's!! Both helped me with my walk with Christ.
Im literally crying me and my husband been through this u guys its gunna make yall strong there is true freedom in Christ Jesus
Congrats on making the best choice for you and your family ❤️ it’s so important to protect your peace
Pastor Cornelius your time as a pastor was not in vain. So many of your sermons have helped me.
I’ve heard some really GOOD sermons from him as well!
Yes I honestly love him and Heather! I love how real he is.
I love how y’all shared the story of how you opened your home to others and would cook for everyone. Ppl love to spread gossip and tell all the negative things about a person but they forget all the good you’ve done in your life. We are only human..judge others the same way you’d want to be judge. I pray we all ease up on one another. God bless you all and your family!!
This is so real! Thank you for sharing your story and experience. It takes a lot of faith and courage to hear God and obey when he tells us a season is over. Thank you for being so real and honest.
It was so beautiful hearing Heather say that there was no pressure from her hubby for her to conform to what a First Lady is supposed to look like. It’s so validating as I’m in my own relationship and thinking about what my role is supposed to be when I don’t feel called to ministry to pastor. This is on time. Thank you Lindsey’s!
It was so nice to not have that pressure!
I totally loved it when she said that too. I'm glad she was also true to herself and not try to fake it to maintain a certain type image... authenticity will set you free!
I love your sentiment in saying “I’m not leaving the altar, I’m just taking it with me”! I could weep just hearing that! I’m so very proud of you Cornelius for standing on what God is calling you into for your new season! That takes faith, but also a lot of courage! We are ALL called to reach the WORLD not just the church. I pray so many more blessing for you and Heather’s family!! Xoxo 💕
Only 3 minutes in and I cannot stop thinking...Logan has Cornelius' WHOLE face.
They are REAL life twins!!
Omg I always say the same thing 😆 twins
And Taylor is Heather’s twin
I love y’all.. period! Your character shows through the screen and hearing this makes me support yall even more!!
Cornelius is hurting; I can feel his disappointment. He is a healer. Ive prayed for your heart, I've prayed that you never give up. You are a church on the GO, leave your foot prints everywhere sir!
Cornelius: “When I get to Heaven I’ll sleep for like a day, that’s a thousand years on earth right?” 😂😂😂 hilarious
God bless you both, thank you for being so real with us... people really need that these days. I pray that God directs you on to His next mission and may you continue to fulfill the purposes for which you were created. Amen!
Your ministry,pinky promise brought me to new levels in my walk in Christ.May you be blessed.
Makes the two of us ..❤️
I wouldn’t be the same person I am today if it weren’t for Heather’s sermons
I pray for healing in your hearts and good memories of the last season as you step into this new one.
Francis Chan did the same thing, tell people to mind they business. God recently told me to leave the nursing field after 9yrs and move to another state, I was nervous and scared at first but now I can't wait to go after living in NC for 22 yrs. God is leading you in another direction and I'll be praying for you and your family. Rock out Lindsey's
Whew! I think the level of transparency reveals that just as much as members of the congregation can be hurt or experience abuse from their leaders... so can leaders experience the same times 10 from members/assistants. Pray that both of you continue your healing process in peace.
I love a how raw they are about these topics because people think it’s beautiful and it’s easy and it’s not easy. 🤗🤗🥰🥰
I am a Pk and when I say I hear you I really hear you. I'm praying for your family and I know God is going to bless you in an incredible way because the calling and blessing is in you and nothing (no opinion or jealousy) can ever take that away.
Although I am extremely saddened to hear you guys are leaving, I pray the best for you on your journey! I have grown tremendously from attending your church and I still plan to attend the Gathering Oasis. Thank you guys for everything and please never stop doing the work God has called you to! Yalls zeal for Jesus is contagious, admirable, and definitely needed in these times!
Aww! We LOVE and appreciate you! The new pastor is amazing! We will NEVER, EVER stop honey! Hugs! Praying for you!
My heart broke for the both of you when I listened to this. I am praying for your healing in every way.
Dear friend, I hope all is well with you and that you are as healthy in body as you are strong in spirit. 3 John 1:2
The Lindseys are a breath of fresh air & a blessing to the body of Christ! I’ve been riding with you from afar for years. As the Lord closes this door, I’m excited to see what the Lord has in store for you. 💜🌟💜
I pray that God continues to bless them greatly. Looking at Cornelius, he looks hurt and worn out. I've heard so much slander about them and I'm glad they addressed a lot things in this podcast. Much love and much blessing to them❤
I definitely agree church culture is trash. I think that's one of the reasons why God allowed this pandemic. He's tearing down and rebuilding.
I totally agree with you!!
That is why I don't attend church regularly. I am going to go back but it's so much drama
Sounds like ya'll leaving church to do Kingdom which is awesome... We have been led to do the same and I have never seen God come through like He does now! Blessings on your journey
Understanding your calling is critical!! I'm glad that they're learning theirs and leaning into that!!
I just want to say thank you to you and Cornelius. I have followed your ministry closely for over 5 years now! You both helped me grow so much in Christ. Thank you again from my heart. God is taking you two to a higher level IJN
He looks so let down that it breaks my heart 💔 Heather is so dope tho, truly showing how a wife should uplift and encourage her husband! Praying for you guys.
Alexus I thought I was the only one who saw this. He is hurt and Heather is being the strength of her family. 🙏🏽
Omg!!! Thank you so much for your transparency… Your integrity… And speaking truth to power!!! Despite the challenges it is obvious you are healed… Hall… And happy!!! I am 64 years young…And I celebrate you both!!!
So happy for you guys! Cornelius was always one of my favorite pastors. So I’ll continue to support his decision no matter what. He’s just the coolest and realest person ever! Xoxo
wow....he said im not leaving the alter I'm just taking the alter with me. that's the perfect way to put it as well as when heather said he just simply is not graced in that way and is simply moving on. like....there's so much to be able to glean from you two especially being a young woman of God who is learning to walk with him and not feel the need to conform to any church culture and persona and stuff. love yall. i hope I can have a mentor like yall one day seriously. wish yall the best like yall are dope in so many ways
I REALLY appreciate the TRANSPARENCY in this podcast!🔥🥰
God sees fruit. HE is always watching and HE will deal with people and situations. Continue to do HIS work your flowers are in Heaven waiting for both of you. But..none of us are perfect all of us need grace. Including those crazy, vindictive folks. God has a special place reserved for them if they choose not to change.
This is soooo sad , i feel This mans hurt and disappointment through the screen! 😢 thank you two for what you’ve done Pinky Promise gave me hope and helped me become celibate. Your labor was not in vain and may you continue working for God!!!
People dont understand business or church and what it takes to run a church.. Please continue to do the right thing.. Forget the haters . believe me you have made a impact on someone
If you're called in the 5-fold ministry, and have experienced this, it will resinate, bear witness, and bring comfort because this is REAL talk. Love and honor to them.
Cornelius I wish you the Best. You are real and unique. Without a doubt, your heart is sincere and precious. God is with you and I thank him for you. I pray that you and Heather have peace, prosperity and favor whatever you guys decide to do.
I get it. I admire you guys. God bless you both. Thank you for being real and raw with where you are.
I can relate to the hurt from TOXIC church culture & cliques or “mafia “ mentality . The church either elevates people in popular culture to suit their unrealistic ideas or/and cancels those people when they don’t live up to those ideas. I pray for healing for you both and may God’s peace lead you where you ought to be.
Yeah agree, I really don't know why ppl are acting as if this doesn't happen in the church. I think church is a great place to be, but I also believe that all church has problems some just more than others and more visible than others. Have had some experiences myself. But hey give it all to Christ right. 😃
I am so sorry to hear about your experience with this. Jesus dealt with all of this with the Pharisees and saducess which is why he tells us to do things unto Christ instead of people. People will never appreciate or understand what you/me/them/us do. Keep doing what God has called you to do and don’t look for credit from people. No matter where you go with this gospel you will encounter the same issues
neveahrogers THATS a goood point!! Thanks for this comment!!
This is sooo true!!!!
This was needed for me to hear! Thank you for your transparency. I pray your fire be restored and all that was attempted to be taken from you.
I love Pastor Cornelius. He is one of the the most humble pastor's I have ever met. Yo he is super funny. I woke up thinking about you guys. I know you guys will still be cultivating greatness. In the next chapter of your lives.
Church culture no, but ministry yesss. You do have the heart of a pastor. I love you guys. Heather is super humble too. She personally thanked me for serving at one of her Pinky Promise conferences in Atlanta. Low key I side eyed her because I was surprised how approachable she was.
My 1st time listening to their podcast...Cornelius is a riot!!! Heather is drop dead gorg (on the outside too) I can see why they have an awesome marriage.
Wow. This is a word in itself!
To God be all the glory. Thank you so much Cornelius for how much you allowed God to use you for his Glory. Literally you have been poured out as a drink offering. Thank you.
There is so much learning ahead.
At the end of it all our first calling remains Jesus, his word and his glory to us first before anything else. We March on!🙏🙏🙏. Hello Heather!👋🏽
I love how transparent both of you were and it made me want to cry how much you’ve served and sacrificed while wanting to make a difference. I had to start praying for the both of you. I could see how much you had to carry. May God continue to also heal you through the pain and suffering you experienced as well.
I use to didn’t get while ministers didn’t really get close to their flock until years later. I realize it’s to protect themselves from all of the drama that comes with leading emotionally damaged people who hurt you bc they’re hurting. People don’t realize the pain and attacks you experience serving the very people you love and trying to help. God bless you on your new journey. Keep up the good work.
I couldn't help but to pause this and pray for the both of you. I feel like the enemy sees your hearts and is trying to slander you especially because you are willingly to call out the the unauthentic and selfish behavior in the church culture. Don't get discouraged God has bigger plans for you both. We need more real voices that have a heart for God's people. It's refreshing and encouraging. Keep your heads up guys God got your family! 🙏🏿💯
Sincerely Praying for your marriage. Trust and believe the battle y’all are fighting is not over.
Praying for your heart/ soul pastor not to be offended and bitter.
And for your wife to see your pain and take part in your healing.
Please hear in love the heart of an Elder .
Just let it all hang out Cornelius!😆 I love it! I appreciate y’all’s authenticity. Seriously. It’s rare and I love it! Wishing y’all the absolute best!
Transparency---thank you! God bless you and your family.
Cornelius and Heather i can relate to this God called me out of the chruch system yall are not meant to be there Its a different season for you guys be bless
Lol! When Cornelius said he didn't know who would be his Pastor I was like "Holy Spirit" baby... he the best Pastor ever. In the 3.5years since he called me out of church system, I can honestly say I have never regretted It
This was transparent & dope!!! Good for y’all. I wish more saved folk would walk in their own truth and quit watching others.
I So Love These Two ... Since 2014 When i first Came Across Heather Lindsey they Came a Long Way People Have to Understand as Well that They are Human and have lives too .. I have 2 Teen kids i Understand Where they're coming from
I will pray for you both and for your family. Please stay fired up for Jesus no matter what. God is faithful. You guys are a beautiful couple rooted in Christ Jesus. Brother Cornelius just wanted to offer this word of encouragement to you - remember even Jesus needed to be alone with His Father so enjoy just letting the Lord love you in this time and His love will propel you to where He needs you to go next. I don't know exactly what your current situation is but one thing I know and one of life's greatest comfort is to know that God sees all no matter what jam the enemy may throw us in and no matter the tongue of the evil. The Lord always leads us in triumph and the Lord vindicates us so we can truly rest in the Lord. The battle is always the Lord's. God bless you both.
If I really were to write. It would be an epistle. So I’ll say this THANK YOUUUU SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING!!!!!!! looking forward to what’s next ♥️
I love Christ, I love the church, I love you guys, but I'm not even sad to hear this. I'm happy for you Cornelius. May the next chapter bring you much joy, much peace and much fruit.
I applaud you two for having boundaries
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 your marriage and your children are your first ministry and why do ppl think pastors have to be broke, busted and disgusted?! I will not sit under broker busted and disgusted leadership! You should receive a stipend from the church because pastors do ALOT!!!! People treat pastors like they are God lol having to deal with people is mentally exhausting !
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The jadedness in their voices is so telling and heartbreaking. I hate this for y’all :(
Esp in Cornelius tone talking about the slow loss of such a big dream/idea. Y’all should be proud of yourselves for sticking in it for as long as you did! Praying for you and your family. Thank you for keeping it real with us
I’ve been blessed by your ministry, specifically PINKY PROMISE. Praying the best for you and your family going forward.
What a blessing to know & honor that your season is complete as a pastor and moving forward with new assignments that God has for you!
Oh God... may God heal and guide you guys... all we can do is mention you in our prayers.
Wow! I AM TRULY AMAZED at your endurance and resilience and faithfulness!!! Was there anything that YOU DID enjoy about your journey as a Pastor? Or not really...?
Lol! People got saved and I met some of the most AMAZING people on this planet. I’m still very close to a lot of the members. :) Now, I wasn’t a pastor so my husband would have to share his side.
I thought that I was the only one that felt like this . Thank you for always being truthful and keeping it 💯 . This podcast speaks volumes
I understand you Cornelius & Lindsey. Thats a reality in a ministry. God will surely reward you. Your good works will never be in vain!♥️ God sees everything.
Cornelius, you have such a good heart. God bless yall, God sees yall and he will bless yall for everything yall did.
Amen! When he said he use to cook after church 😭😭😭😭😭
Pastors are needed. Pastoring is not easy at all and very painful but Gods people are precious and true shepards are needed. There is the good and the bad but Pastors are needed. The culture is out of order but I believe it's possible to shepard outside of this world's church culture
Anything worth something is painful and difficult!! Look at Christ's ministry. Look at Moses!! They were used and abused by so many!! But they saw the greater purpose and kept pressing in the pain!!
We must go where we are called.
Gods people are precious and worth it
This testimony was so real and heart felt. Thank you both for sharing ❤️
God bless your faithfulness Heather and Cornelius... I'm always blessed Heather's Instagram posts....God bless you two💜
I'm grateful that God lead my Pastors to speak on Inner Healing and Deliverance. Bitterness, unforgiveness, and rejection, just to name a few. The body of Christ fails to realize that if we first, don't recognize that we have that problem. Secondly, repent and ask God for forgiveness and thirdly, put in the work to actually change our ways. These things hinder our growth in Christ. Some of us may have all the spiritual gifts God created. However, He will not allow us to tap into them until we mature spiritually and submit to His authority; His will, His ways, His Son Jesus Christ. I'm only speaking from experience.
On happier note, I appreciate you both and your authenticity and vulnerability. I pray that you and your family prosper on your next journey. I'm excited for you two!!
Blessings! 😊
This podcast was amazing!! Thank you Cornelius and Heather Lindsey for sharing this new update. My husband look forward to being a part of one of your marriage retreats, and the Pinky Promise Conference.
Understand THIS! Gossip is from the pit of hell!
All day!!!!
great testemonies....He always does have a way out,,,,,thank You Lord....
May that which was meant for evil, be turned for your good.
“No weapon formed against you shall prosper..” ❤️ Be blessed.
I remember when Heather started out selling bracelets yearssses ago I think like 2010.... I had found her on Twitter. I have learned so much from Heather and grew so much in my walk learning from Heather. I’ve been following her for years and Saw her ministry grow and take off!!! I love Heather. She was always friendly. I will be praying for you Heather and Cornelius.
Awesome podcast!! Ya'll spoke truth. I look forward to seeing what's ahead for you both.
I love their podcasts! I hope they keep doing them🙏🏽
Lord thank you guys for opening your hearts and been transparent with your testimonies. I needed this for sure... 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I loved this! Thank you two for sharing, it's appreciated. :)
Because my parents are pastors, this is personal.It’s been 22 years. It’s scary how only one person gets called but the entire family has to support the ministry. It’s hard. On pastors, and the family.
From counselling families, to giving, and sacrificing for the church - people never appreciate this. It’s as if the church expects the pastor to carry the entire congregation. With what? How ? This isn’t just for anybody.
May God remember those he anointed and appointed.
Yup! Same here...come from a line of 3 generations of Pastors. This is real. I respect and pray for them!
Many are called but few are chosen... when you are chosen, just like Israel GOD remembers them and provides for them. There are miracles that happen and JESUS” is with you - the HOLY GHOST is with you wherever you go.
Phew, this comment 🙌🏽
This!!! so spot on
“..there are nations waiting for your obedience!” 🙌🏾
Real and Raw. Love yall
Wow!! You really have a pure heart, and you truly had a sincere heart for the ppl!! I truly understand you’re pain and why you made the decision you made. Thank you for all you contributed to the body of Christ both you and your wife! Praying for your healing and recovery !! Thanks for sharing your story...very enlightening! Ministry burnout is real 😔
Great will be your reward in heaven👑
God will lead you ps. Cornelius. Just rest in Him ❤
This was really good I listen the whole way through... very raw and human .. guys this is just the beginning 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕
This is Awesome! Thank you for sharing and GOD Bless you!
This was beautiful and I look forward to seeing where God leads you next. We need to remember that everything we do is part of our ministry and for the kingdom.
I love y’all !
i just stepped out on faith to start a youtube channel about empowering women of all sizes! ♥️
so inspiring!!
Kingdom' s have polictics, there is no disciple without polictics- and let's be clear Jesus is an activist !!! Kingdom minded seeds to be sown !!! I love it !!!
This is so sad because Pastors are human like the rest of us. I have been in Christ for close to 11 years and I have experienced the whole clique thing. The hardness of acceptance if you are not in certain circles and if you don’t have certain gifts and talents. I cleaned my church and I loved serving God in this way, some may of thought I was not worth anything because of it but I know my Daddy adores me and I am his princess. At the end of the day we are called to love people and this is what I vow to do. I do not care who you know or what you can do. I have felt isolated in the place I should have felt the most love but I know there are so many people who experience this. I am so sorry for all you have been through. I thankful for this type of transparency; it’s definitely healing.
Love ya'll so much,,, your transparency all these years is what has kept me connected to you!
Cornelius heart is so big thats why he guards it ( introvert) I can relate. Both of them listening to God and doing what the Lord told them to do allowed them to help me with my walk. Heather pulled me out of one of the toughest times of my life by showing me how to lean on Jesus. Thank you both. Nothing but blessings for you, your future and family. Keep shining.
I love this. I support you both and I am praying for God to open up the windows of heaven and shower yall with MORE blessings!