My dad and my step mom were friends and God told my dad that my step mom was going to be his wife. (But he never told her) fast forward my step mom gets married to another guy and my dad is one of the groomsmen. 2 years later my step mother's husband had some severe mental disorders and ended up committing suicide. And my dad didn't want to marry my step mom because he was friends with her husband and all of these other things and asked the pastor and the pastor said that it was ok and well they got married. My parents say that God will tell you who your husband/wife is "IF" he can trust you with it. And once he tells you, it's your time to prepare. Prepare meaning draw closer to God, let him heal you and work on things that you need to work on and in his time it'll happen.
God said... now I appreciate God for his word, ask him to give me the virgin Mary's grace to ponder these things in my heart while he works on me and on his man. I'm not hung up on the word coming true. My trust is in God and like Heather said, his Zeal for God, his piety and chastity will be confirmations...
What I have realized is that when God gives you a vision, it doesn't necessarily mean that it will happen immediately. I believe God will show you the outcome so that you can stay encouraged and motivated during the middle of the test. I've learned that my visions from God should only be shared with wise counsel as well. Thanks for another great video!
I knew within 15 minutes too. We didn't tell each other either. Lol. I allowed him to me who I was. I waited 13 years for a husband. I waited an entire year and we married after 14 years of waiting. And he is more than what I prayed for.
I just want to encourage all of you single ladies to WAIT on GOD! I am married and have been for almost 4 years. I met my husband when I was in the military. I was in a VERY dark place and so was he. We had no church, christian friends, groups like pinky promise so we lived in sin although we tried to get right. Since getting married we both have tried following God and my husband is a COMPLETELY different person. I on the other hand have SO many pass issues God and I are trying to work on. I want to encourage all my sister's in Christ to wait on The Father bcus a lot of times we rush things, but in that alone time with God (that I didn't get) God can work on you and rid you of things that will negatively affect your marriage. I wish to God I could and would have spent that alone time with God b4 marriage, bcus my issues have put my husband through it all. It's not worth hurting someone who loves you bcus you don't want to be single. Hang on to your singleness until God is ready to place you with someone who will sharpen you. I love yall. Stay strong and DO NOT listen to satan and his lies about how much happier you will be. Not always the case.
Alicia Mc I pray my sister, God gets the glory from my story. I really love my single sisters and just want to encourage them to stand strong. Marriage doesn't equal happiness, fulfilment and joy. Those are found in Christ alone. Having a family is hard work especially trying to live like Christ. There were times I would just break down at how bad I treated my spouse and distanced my self from my family bcus of pass issues I didn't allow God to work on b4 marriage. I'm learning slowly, but surely.
Amen! Yes, there is power in your testimony and I pray God uses you you continue to minister and speak into the lives of women. "And they overcame him because of the blood of the Lamb and because of the >>>word of their testimony
Alicia Mc thank you so much sister for encouragement. that means a lot to me. For the longest time, I didn't think I had a testimony. But, I guess I do. If I can help one woman wait on God, it would bring so much joy to know I helped a sister say no to satan and his lies. May God bless you as well my beautiful sister. And may your life be filled with Love, Joy and Peace in Jesus Name. 😘💓👆🙏🙌
Planning ahead of the Lord can cause you to get into an even deeper situation that took the mighty hand of God to get you out of. This is coming from a domestic violence survivor who escaped death not once but twice from someone. Now, its just me and God as I go through the healing process.
Is better that it stay between you and GOD ...when GOD tell you who going to be your husband dont tell nobody just thank HIM trust GOD and keep busy ...
Well maybe you did hear from God tho people make mistakes all the time an Even marry wrong people without consulting God so if your sure you heard from God stay in prayer. The enemy might send someone to abort To try to abort God plan.. I wouldn't give up unless God says truely that was not him.
@@chrisanshaunagracie4217 Amen Sis! That's wisdom. I get so frustrated seeing women give up on Gods promise because they lack understanding and dont seek God for wisdom and instruction. The vision is yet for an appointed time. Many things can and will happen between the conception of a promise and the manifestation of it.... But God reveals the end result.
I was just crying my eyes out about this and 10 minutes later, you posted this. I didn't have wifi, so I had to wait. I was friends with this guy for three years. Someone told me that he was my husband. Few weeks passed, I told him I liked him. Let's say, after a year of heartbreak, confusion, and mind games. I ended it. I cried nonstop because I planned our future and he made baby names with me. Then, suddenly I had peace. Now, I founded out that he blocked me on social media. So today, old feelings of hurt resurfaced. I had to forgive myself and him all over again. Yet, I have to thank God. We were unequally yoked. Thank you for this confirmation.
Turquois Goins he didnt obey holy spirits nudges perhaps.. its so sad when the imperfect people he sends go down hill or mistreat.. then god must uproot his princesses and send love in another who should pursue.. relationships r oportunities sent.. he missed a good one i bet. blessings
Anna Clark Thanks. It was a learning experience for me, since I never been in a relationship. He was a good guy, but he wasn't godly. He was the Pastor's son. He literally told me, "If I wanted to purse you, I would have". That crushed me to the core. That is all I wanted. Honestly, we were not spiritually compatible. I was looking at potential and not reality. Reality was he wasn't a believer, he went to church because he had to, not because he wanted to grow his relationship with God like me.
Turquois Goins aww honey i praythat you heal from that pain of not being pursued.. God always claims us and loves us more than anyone else can and ever will. Go to him about moving forward. Next time ask God to confirm it with two to three signs and also signs from him
Very opposite..God told me he wasn't the one (even after 3 yrs with him,) & I didnt listen. Married him anyway. 7 months in and living with much regret. smh! If you ask God for his permission to be with someone and he says NO, listen 😏
"Remember he's your brother until he becomes your husband" Quote from my first lady to my sisters in the church. My question now is, is it wrong to have a crush on somebody in the church? #sincerequestion
Andrea Hlongwane I think it has something to do with the whole awakening love before time. that instruction in the Bible was given to the young daughters of Jerusalem. and it's important because God knows our hearts would grab what was just a crush and run faster than his leading. you can't help attraction. but don't dwell on the feelings. they either came from the enemy as a diversion, or the Lord. pray and ask God to reveal the truth and he will. it may come in the form of your crushes disinterest, or a discovery of his fiance/girlfriend. or you may find out he has qualities/desires you don't care for. if he pursues then always pray. but always pray God will reveal it's root in time. be blessed sister!!
Thank you for putting it into perspective Funny thing is that after sending this question and reading my bible God revealed this to me: 2 Timothy 2:22 (NLT) Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts. Underlying meaning for "youthful lust" or "passion" (for other translations) and "crush" = infatuation/ desire So yah prayer for discernment and self-control is key to determine whether the enemy is enticing your senses or God is revealing something to you.
Andrea Hlongwane I feel like it's not entirely wrong because it is a human desire to want to be with someone especially physically. it's important to guard your heart however so you can actually come to understand your crush and why you like them. that's why it's good to become friends first and hang out in groups to see all sides of him. just to confirm your crushing on him and why it is there. it's easy to fall for looks but see the heart and character behind it too.
Andrea Hlongwane. No it is not wrong.why would it be wrong. What comes before marraige?you do not just walk into marraige platonicly. The question is: is he compatible and right enough for you to continue this crush. If not then you should direct your emotions differently. Before you let your emotions go wild make sure practical stuff is in place before entertaining a crush further. Such as: does he have a relationship with God. Is he a good stuard in little things. Cam he provide. Do you guys have same values. Can you actualy havea conversation. Ect ect Dont entertain a crush further if the right stuff is not in place.but obviously crush comes before a ring. Obsviously ecceot for atraction on physical there must be a intellectual atraction
God told me to love him, like HE loved me. I didn't listen and fell in love with him. He proposed after a year in 2010. Unfortunately we broke up in 2013. We don't talk anymore and it hurts every birthday/anniversary/graduation/accomplishment without him. I haven't been able to let him go. 3 years post breakup I still have dreams of him. Listen to Heather!! Don't take him into your heart until God says. I wouldn't wish this heartache on anyone.
Give God your pain. I was heartbroken for two years and struggled. Tell Him you don't want it. He doesn't want you to suffer anymore. My broken heart was healed when I got baptized. :) Many think finding a new bf/gf will heal it. But only God/Jesus can do it. You can message me if you want.
Stilleto Stoner I had a very similar situation. my ex boyfriend & I were together for 2.5 yrs. during the course of our relationship he put thoughts of marriage in my ear. I read countless of books on marriage during that time to be sure that's what I wanted. one of the books I read was "Praying for your future husband." As I read I actively prayed & I thought I heard God give me confirmation that my ex was going to be my husband. however, as our relationship progressed things b/tween worsened & we broke up. It took me 2 yrs. to heal from that relationship. I cried sometimes b/c I couldn't understand why I still loved & cared. This yr. is that 2nd yr. & I recently just received closure & it took his absence from my life to receive it b/c he still maintained a friendship with me that I entertained. However, he has resurfaced in my life again as a born again Christian. A God fearing man & although I no longer feel emotionally attached I am wondering if God can restore feelings. Although I do not want to give back into the thought that he is supposed to be my future husband. I've been praying extensively on this issue.
Thank u so much for this Sis, I have been having different dreams of a guy in my church for about a year now one of them is that we was praying together like Husband and wife. I asked God to confirm if this is my Husband but keep dreaming of him again. I have decided to leave it all alone. I do not want to let this man into my heart. I want to fall in love with the Lord more and enjoy my singleness I am so not ready to be a Wife yet. Love u Sister Heather u are such a Beautiful Amazing Woman of God. God bless u Sis xx
Bookie Ka Hiya, how are u? and thank u, u know the dreams are still happening to me lool. sometimes he is in my dreams but we don't speak to each other and other times we do. Had one recently where I heard him talking to his friend and said "r u gonna talk to her and then he said to his friend" the ball is in her court now but the ball has already been caught' (weird) then we was talking saying we need to start praying together studying together etc. Dream switched and then he was in my kitchen at the table in my old house then it switched to my house I am living in now sitting at my kitchen table. I asked him what drink would he like i opened the fridge all there was was milk and juice he asked for the same drink I like. Then I said to him I need my car, he said dont worry u will get your car soon. The end (weird right)
These are great points! I think at the end of the day, you just "know" in your spirit when you meet your spouse. I've heard this a lot from multiple happily married couples. You can ask for confirmation though (like I did) if you need that additional assurance.
THIS WAS SO GOOD. God has been speaking to me on this and i felt so much confirmation from this on time message. thank you, Heather, for being a vessel
Agreed.. Planning ahead of the Lord is really frustrating.. Usually it's you like the person a lot and it feels so strongly you two are meant to be... Actually it's your feelings and not God telling.. End up guy is not pursuing and you questioning why God bring that person on your path...
Sweet Love i always wonder why there was so many men that have come into my life but it never last. the only guy that ever persued me was a guy that i almost had to file a restrainning order against. life is just so ironic for me... they just don't want me
Sweet Love now i am just so fruastrated and angry because no one wanted relationships with me but the one time i actually find a man that actually wanted a relationship with me and to sick it out with me i was forced to let it go... again life is ironic
I am trying to get to know God and every day i pray. But at the same i am struggling with the fraustion asking God to guide me and show me and tell what to do. Every morning i pray and every night i pray.
Sweet Love I'm dealing with same situation. The connection was so strong that I was sure it was God led but when I asked for clarity he showed me that this man was not for me and I felt shame for making an idol of the thought of marriage with him. But thank God for the Holy Spirit and discernment!!
Sweet Love Sis, Listen!!!! Girl I had done planned my life out with this man who was my best friend! I had our son's name picked out and the area where we were going to live etc and was so heartbroken when he got another girl pregnant!!! So hurt I could not bear to remain friends with him. I've moved on now but I still sometimes wished he had sense enough to see I was a great catch lol!! Lawd these emotions be all over the place hahahahahahahaha
thank you for such an important message, Heather! it's so crucial that we constantly check ourselves and walk behind God, not in front of Him, especially when it comes to relationships. God's will is always worth the wait :)
Omg!! I know the spirit led you!!!! I am dealing with this right now. I was told the same thing by God and I wasn't attracted to the guy. At all! So I knew it wasn't me but now I'm asking God for confirmation. I created a Life!!! OMG you are so on point. I can't believe this.
The testimony at the end was for me! It has really encouraged me to keep fighting the good fight of faith -in this area especially. God is so faithful. Thanks Heather -I love you! 😘
Exactly what I need to seal the confirmation. God gave me a scripture a few days ago. And I heard it again through someone else. I kept on telling God to give me that scripture a 3rd time and I requested I hear it today, because I was becoming a little impatient. Went to church, thought I'd here it at church, but heard nothing. Hang out with people longer than usual at church so maybe I'd hear it in a conversation but no one mentioned it. Then when am about to close my eyes, now close to midnight, trying to position my phone properly before sleeping then realised I pressed some buttons and am on my RUclips page and I have never watched any of your videos, never seen you before, and am very skeptical about people I don't know unless the Holy Spirit directs but you appeared under suggested videos. I heard you mention that scripture. Thanks. God richly bless you.
You know it's crazy because this Monday that just past, my friend and I was talking and was telling me how I was not in position to have found my husband. I've been talking with guys, moving ahead of God like ok this could be a potential only for me to be back at square one. SINGLE...sometimes my self esteem issues makes me move ahead of Him because I'm thinking to myself like I'm not a pretty girl, what's the point of me waiting just for God to destroy someone life because they are my husband. I don't want for him to regret having me as his wife. I'm 29 and still till this day, it's a battle but in order for my husband to love me, I have to love what God created in the mirror which is ME
Lisa Pierce- Lisa you just hit the nail on the head with realizing that you need to allow God to love you first before any man because I have found out that in my journey with the Lord, God too wants me to work on myself and with my relationship with Jesus before He brings a wife into my life. Good for you for seeing this 😊😊
Wow...this really hit hard and was def right on time because i've felt myself taking my eyes off God and looking at His hands and blessings instead. I hope i can stay focused on being a bride of Christ instead of getting distracted with not being a wife. Thank you for speaking on this!!
Thank you so much for delivering this message, because in my own life, I am struggling with a similar situation, yet the guy I am speaking to has told me that the Lord has laid me upon his heart, yet, I have not received the same confirmation. Your video spoke volumes to me and has encouraged me to continue praying about God's will for my life and if this man is truly the Lord's intended for me. May God continue bless you and your ministry!
Ivy Kate I’m in the exact same situation. He told me that God said that I was is wife and I’m the one for him.. But I haven’t got the same confirmation yet from God.. I’ve been praying and praying and I still haven’t got anything yet...
This has happened to me several times ! But it’s always been my own “wishful thinking” . I even had several “signs” and “confirmations “ so much so that after the last time I stopped believing in “ signs and confirmations “. So several years later I’m still single but until a guy actually pursues ME and I’m actually standing at the altar with a guy putting a ring on it, I probably won’t trust it lol 😂
I don't know any grown women beyond high-school age that crush on men who do not like them back. I personally feel that this message could have gotten to the real heart of the issue. As single women with friends who are sometimes unaware or too self-involved to play match-maker, we are told to "get out there," "be seen," and "show interest" in addition to being wise, prayerful and watchful about potential partners. The challenge is finding the balance between appearing "available" to the right man and appearing thirsty. A lot of women are struggling to see the fruits of God's sovereignty in their lives and what actually happens when they wait and trust on God. That is something that affects not just our relationship choices, but sets a pattern of decision-making for all major life events. We are learning to be led by God which often takes mistakes, embarrassment, wisdom and discernment. It is a life long lesson and I am still learning.
This right here is everything!! I feel like this & some many things have happen because I feel God has told me who my husband is. This was confirmation, motivation & encouragement. Thank you Heather!!
I really love the point that you bought out towards the beginning of the video. How can you claim rights on a man who has not even shown you interest or LED you to believe that he is interested in you. I have seen so many girls fighting with each other or getting mad at another girl because a guy was interested in her, when really if they were so sure that it was God's will, there wouldn't be any need to fear. If you know something is God's will there is peace and you will not be anxious or desperate. Great Point! Really loved this video. I think as women of God we need to be more careful before we Proclaim God told me this or that. If God is really speaking something to you keep it to yourself and see what happens. Love is patient
Hi, Heather. I have a burning question. In one of your old videos with Pastor Cornelius, you stated that you cried for half your relationship. can you elaborate? The proceeding convo was about how much your husband had changed from courtship to recent.
Great talk. I really think God doesn't choose a spouse for you. He has only set guidelines of who will make an acceptable spouse within christian principles. There are a whole lot of people you are compatible with as long as they fall within the Christian principles of how that person should be. It is not JUST A PARTICULAR PERSON. There is no such thing a soulmate. There are only a finger full instances in the Bible when God directed a person to a specific person. Now that you have heard Heather's talk don't go on divorcing and saying I married the wrong person because God did not direct me to them. God respects the convenat of marriage regardless of who you make it with. Yes there are special instances when God directs but that ain't the rule of thumb. God lets you choose that is why he says 'He who finds a wife'. There are several logical and biblical reasons why the concept of God chooses a spouse for you is not true.
Respectfully, I don't agree with that. I believe that God does know who your spouse is. Even before you've met this person. He knew your type before you were even born. So it only makes sense that God has someone who has these Godly attributes that you are attracted to. As Christians, our lives are not our own, it belongs to God. He has a will and a plan for our lives. And we have to be able to lay down our will, and let God's will be done in our lives. And in the beginning, as you know in Genesis, Adam did not pick out a wife. God put him to sleep and took a rib to make his wife. Therefore he did not choose. A god-ordained union, is already predestined, so of course he knows our spouse. & therefore that is a soulmate If only it is house that is good for your so. Someone who does not complete you, but rather compliments you. Someone who is going to help you with the plan that God has for you. God also news your children even before it you even met your spouse. And for example, God knew only your parents DNA could create "YOU". No one else's DNA can create Who You Are. And it wouldn't make sense to say that God only knows your children after you've met your spouse. And I believe that God knows your spouse because God is all knowing. If he doesn't want you to be with someone, you're not going to be with that person. And God always brings the right person into your life. And so it only makes sense that God knows your spouse. Now I'm not trying to say that God chooses your spouse and you have no attraction to them. God will always give you a spouse that you were attracted to. If you have no attraction to them, and that clearly means that's not the one God has for you. Can I believe when it says " he who finds a wife" means he does find a wife, because the guy is the one who's meant to pursue. Once they've met, and are married, then that means he has found a wife. As the verse says.
The truth is God is still speaking, but that doesn't mean we rush him ahead of time, your duty if you believe he showed you is to pray and seek him continually. He alone will finish that which he started in your life. God is still saying something child of God, your job is to seek him continually
Yay! great video, so happy to see such diverse content on Heather's page with sound Godly advice and principles. Thanking God for your growth as well Heather!
thank you, Mrs. Lindsey. this is a timely message for me, since i am facing a similar issue. i hv been afraid of some1 from church who claimed to have heard from God, and this message encourages me.
Your testimony has been a blessing to my life, I was dating a Christian guy that I liked a lot but I felt in my heart the the Lord was telling me that he was not my spouses
My! My! My! This video was so in point. I wish that I would have heard this years ago when I first started dating. I went from relationship to relationship looking for marriage and validation from guys who weren't meant to be my husband. They were complete Bozo's.
Thanks Heather! Your story blesses me, uplifts me alot, gets me back in line, Always. You were created for me girl, am telling you. You went through all you went through for me! thank you Jesus.
She said "prophelied" LOL i'm using that. but this is so needed. always test everything with God and ask for His confirmation especially with those we date/court/marry.
Very Beautiful Message of Faith and Hope.Im waiting for the Lord to give the Beautiful Jubilee Charitable moment to marry my beloved.Even though we are not talking now.I have faith in the Holy Family of Mary and of the Lord.Happy Holidays and a Wonderful. New Year 2019
Heather I love your videos my "wife" is the one who introduced me to your channel. I've watched a number of your videos and I know she has too, but I struggle with trying to determine if it's the Lord telling me what I should do or me trying to pursue what I believe is right and at the same time is the Lord telling her something and how do I discuss that with her.
This was right on time Heather because its this guy who claims he wants to be with me and be there for my son, but something inside me telling me something different
Can't wait to fellowship with you next weekend at HOH Atl. So question: what if it's the other way around. This guy I'm dating says God told him I am the one but I am hearing NOTHING lol but for real -help please. Love and blessings
Wow! I was told that by a certain lady in my life. As I told her by question and statement: "I wish you had not told me that. How would you suppose I'd respond to that? I could never know for sure if you heard or knew that from God, or your own wishful thinking. We continued to build a wonderful friendship, which I allowed to turn to courting (no intimacy beyond and kiss and hug). I actually proposed. She accepted. That was nearly 2 months ago. Now, ever since that proposal from my mouth, I haven't felt right about that - awkward and not enthusiastic to continue daily lengthy conversation - as we currently live in different States - far apart. I told her of this, yet she believes it is nothing more than my own fear/anxiety or old habit (indeed problematic) of indecisiveness rearing its ugly head. I am still feeling raw and foolish just the same. Clearly I need to make and stick with a decision - life-altering either way. Without question this is the most difficult decision of my adult life.
But what can a girl do if the man was pursuing me, he was the one who awaiked love and did everything to gain my attention... And l still know he was sent by God. And then he decided to take time off to hear from God... l understand but he was communicating to me for 4 months and l became open for him and didn't expect he would decide to take that time to ask God. We don't communicate and l try to forget the situation and give it to God but my heart hurts.
Question, I had a dream that my guy friend said to me "You are the one I am to marry". Do you think that could be God's way of telling me first or could it be just a dream? This is also what sparked my feelings for him. I prayed to God about it but just can't see confirmation yet. We truly have a Christ-centered friendship and are on the same level spiritually. He's a bit more mature in Lord than I. Which I LOVE. I respect him so much. I don't know why I am just dealing with feelings of uncertainty. He even pursued the friendship by approaching me first, asking for my number 2 months later and even adding me on fb. I guess I'm uncertain now because we are distanced apart because of being in the military. We also met in a bible study btw. Been friends for 3 months. *sigh* ok I'm done ranting.
TBeauty_ Keep praying Sis, please don't let him into your heart until you get confirmation from God. And always rememeber God should always be first place in your heart even when you are married. God will tell you if he is the one or not, wait on the Lord #praying for u. Keep me posted🙏🏾❤
But how do I hear God tho? Like before I did not follow his Will, been through hell and back and I am just 21 years of age, now I am ready to move forward and have my diplomas and everything. But I met this guy and contrary to my previous relationships, we are not rushing, we are going sloooooow, that is frustrating to me. I know that God sent me this man to teach me patience but is he the man for me, where are the signes and what signs should I look for?
Jacquie Nnyoung The 'signs' I'd look out for are the fruits of the Holy Spirit. We shall know them by their fruit. Also, don't give in to the frustrations dear. Whenever you feel weary always tell yourself "Greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world". Claim the word of God over your life because it's Alive and Active. Let God do His work in your heart. Be Blessed :-)
Hey! I went through this SAME thing when I was single to the point that I was super OCD about it. I over thought everything and tried so hard to make sure I was doing it "right". What I learned is that it is best to put less attention on what the outcome will be and put more attention on growing in your relationship with God. This is the time to learn more about yourself (which is actually the MOST important factor in choosing a spouse) so that way you understand who God has created you to be and so you can see where God is calling you to go. I think the reason it can be so hard for us ladies is because we have this place in our hearts where we long for that companionship and that's natural, but it cannot take the place of enjoying our lives, understanding ourselves, or connecting with God. Take this time to give it to God. How? Simply ask him and seek him. Find what works for you to connect with him (there is no right or wrong way). I listened to worship music, journaled, and sometimes took a walk and prayed. See this as a time of freedom! There's so much for you to learn about yourself and God! That's the MOST important thing. You'll gain more clarity as time goes on, but don't put a limit on it. Take one day at a time 😊 much love!
so this guy told me 3 weeks ago that the Lord said I'll be his wife ... but I didn't get my confirmation from God, because he insists and i don't want to be led by my flesh... I'm so confused
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My dad and my step mom were friends and God told my dad that my step mom was going to be his wife. (But he never told her) fast forward my step mom gets married to another guy and my dad is one of the groomsmen. 2 years later my step mother's husband had some severe mental disorders and ended up committing suicide. And my dad didn't want to marry my step mom because he was friends with her husband and all of these other things and asked the pastor and the pastor said that it was ok and well they got married. My parents say that God will tell you who your husband/wife is "IF" he can trust you with it. And once he tells you, it's your time to prepare. Prepare meaning draw closer to God, let him heal you and work on things that you need to work on and in his time it'll happen.
Detective Hawk ..wow. .love this testimony
Wow God just used you to speak to me !! This was good !
Detective Hawk ... Putting me straight; powerful testimony
God said... now I appreciate God for his word, ask him to give me the virgin Mary's grace to ponder these things in my heart while he works on me and on his man.
I'm not hung up on the word coming true. My trust is in God and like Heather said, his Zeal for God, his piety and chastity will be confirmations...
I like this
What I have realized is that when God gives you a vision, it doesn't necessarily mean that it will happen immediately. I believe God will show you the outcome so that you can stay encouraged and motivated during the middle of the test. I've learned that my visions from God should only be shared with wise counsel as well. Thanks for another great video!
Ms Beyourbest very wise words, Truth!
Ms Beyourbest Yes sis that is true he does confirm to both sides
Amen...Yes He does! God isn't going to confuse us...He is a God of clarity and peace. Have a wonderful day ladies :)
Thank you and you too
You are your own god. You were the one giving yourself all those visions all this time.
"Whoever God has for me is not going to try to have sex with me" Good encouraging wisom here!
Beloved Women with Christina Patterson I say the same thing!!
Amen
Amen until we are married
He will still want to have sex with you. I think what you mean is that he won't only want that.
@@DeaconChriss exactly
the biggest key word she said was. THE ENEMY CAN SPEAK TO YOU AS WELL.
I knew within 15 minutes too. We didn't tell each other either. Lol. I allowed him to me who I was. I waited 13 years for a husband. I waited an entire year and we married after 14 years of waiting. And he is more than what I prayed for.
So encouraging!
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I just want to encourage all of you single ladies to WAIT on GOD! I am married and have been for almost 4 years. I met my husband when I was in the military. I was in a VERY dark place and so was he. We had no church, christian friends, groups like pinky promise so we lived in sin although we tried to get right. Since getting married we both have tried following God and my husband is a COMPLETELY different person. I on the other hand have SO many pass issues God and I are trying to work on. I want to encourage all my sister's in Christ to wait on The Father bcus a lot of times we rush things, but in that alone time with God (that I didn't get) God can work on you and rid you of things that will negatively affect your marriage. I wish to God I could and would have spent that alone time with God b4 marriage, bcus my issues have put my husband through it all. It's not worth hurting someone who loves you bcus you don't want to be single. Hang on to your singleness until God is ready to place you with someone who will sharpen you. I love yall. Stay strong and DO NOT listen to satan and his lies about how much happier you will be. Not always the case.
Keri Brown wow amen! thank you for sharing ♡♡♡
Alicia Mc I pray my sister, God gets the glory from my story. I really love my single sisters and just want to encourage them to stand strong. Marriage doesn't equal happiness, fulfilment and joy. Those are found in Christ alone. Having a family is hard work especially trying to live like Christ. There were times I would just break down at how bad I treated my spouse and distanced my self from my family bcus of pass issues I didn't allow God to work on b4 marriage. I'm learning slowly, but surely.
Amen! Yes, there is power in your testimony and I pray God uses you you continue to minister and speak into the lives of women.
"And they overcame him because of the blood of the Lamb and because of the >>>word of their testimony
Alicia Mc thank you so much sister for encouragement. that means a lot to me. For the longest time, I didn't think I had a testimony. But, I guess I do. If I can help one woman wait on God, it would bring so much joy to know I helped a sister say no to satan and his lies. May God bless you as well my beautiful sister. And may your life be filled with Love, Joy and Peace in Jesus Name. 😘💓👆🙏🙌
I'm married and that's the only that helps me stay strong. Is the alone time that I spent with God in my singleness.
Planning ahead of the Lord can cause you to get into an even deeper situation that took the mighty hand of God to get you out of. This is coming from a domestic violence survivor who escaped death not once but twice from someone. Now, its just me and God as I go through the healing process.
Dominique What a testimony! May the Lord every part of your heart, mind and soul.
Yo!!! I know you from Daughters of "Virtue." Wow! Small world. Girl how are you? dm me or something?
Hey Kate! I remember you! I can't find you on groupme, are you able to find me?
Haha the quotation! Yeah, it's been a while, not looking to rejoin at all
Yeah, I'm on Facebook, though cause I couldn't find you either.
Is better that it stay between you and GOD ...when GOD tell you who going to be your husband dont tell nobody just thank HIM trust GOD and keep busy ...
Happened to me recently! My "husband" is now engaged to someone else, sometimes we hear what we want to hear and attach "God said" to it lol!
lool same situation here
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Well maybe you did hear from God tho people make mistakes all the time an Even marry wrong people without consulting God so if your sure you heard from God stay in prayer. The enemy might send someone to abort To try to abort God plan.. I wouldn't give up unless God says truely that was not him.
@@chrisanshaunagracie4217 Amen Sis! That's wisdom. I get so frustrated seeing women give up on Gods promise because they lack understanding and dont seek God for wisdom and instruction. The vision is yet for an appointed time. Many things can and will happen between the conception of a promise and the manifestation of it.... But God reveals the end result.
I was just crying my eyes out about this and 10 minutes later, you posted this. I didn't have wifi, so I had to wait. I was friends with this guy for three years. Someone told me that he was my husband. Few weeks passed, I told him I liked him. Let's say, after a year of heartbreak, confusion, and mind games. I ended it. I cried nonstop because I planned our future and he made baby names with me. Then, suddenly I had peace. Now, I founded out that he blocked me on social media. So today, old feelings of hurt resurfaced. I had to forgive myself and him all over again. Yet, I have to thank God. We were unequally yoked. Thank you for this confirmation.
Turquois Goins he didnt obey holy spirits nudges perhaps.. its so sad when the imperfect people he sends go down hill or mistreat.. then god must uproot his princesses and send love in another who should pursue.. relationships r oportunities sent.. he missed a good one i bet. blessings
Anna Clark Thanks. It was a learning experience for me, since I never been in a relationship. He was a good guy, but he wasn't godly. He was the Pastor's son. He literally told me, "If I wanted to purse you, I would have". That crushed me to the core. That is all I wanted. Honestly, we were not spiritually compatible. I was looking at potential and not reality. Reality was he wasn't a believer, he went to church because he had to, not because he wanted to grow his relationship with God like me.
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God bless you with His best this year Turquoise
Turquois Goins aww honey i praythat you heal from that pain of not being pursued.. God always claims us and loves us more than anyone else can and ever will. Go to him about moving forward. Next time ask God to confirm it with two to three signs and also signs from him
Very opposite..God told me he wasn't the one (even after 3 yrs with him,) & I didnt listen. Married him anyway. 7 months in and living with much regret. smh! If you ask God for his permission to be with someone and he says NO, listen 😏
Thank you for shearing this, God bless you💕 I pray God truns you situation around! When we give all things to him he can do wonderful thing!
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Same thing just happened to me
There is no condemnation in Christ my question is are you guys now seoerated
How did you know he said no?
confirmation is key! and the power of shut up! lol
"Remember he's your brother until he becomes your husband" Quote from my first lady to my sisters in the church.
My question now is, is it wrong to have a crush on somebody in the church? #sincerequestion
Andrea Hlongwane I think it has something to do with the whole awakening love before time. that instruction in the Bible was given to the young daughters of Jerusalem. and it's important because God knows our hearts would grab what was just a crush and run faster than his leading. you can't help attraction. but don't dwell on the feelings. they either came from the enemy as a diversion, or the Lord. pray and ask God to reveal the truth and he will. it may come in the form of your crushes disinterest, or a discovery of his fiance/girlfriend. or you may find out he has qualities/desires you don't care for. if he pursues then always pray. but always pray God will reveal it's root in time. be blessed sister!!
Thank you for putting it into perspective
Funny thing is that after sending this question and reading my bible God revealed this to me:
2 Timothy 2:22 (NLT)
Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.
Underlying meaning for "youthful lust" or "passion" (for other translations) and "crush" = infatuation/ desire
So yah prayer for discernment and self-control is key to determine whether the enemy is enticing your senses or God is revealing something to you.
Andrea Hlongwane I feel like it's not entirely wrong because it is a human desire to want to be with someone especially physically. it's important to guard your heart however so you can actually come to understand your crush and why you like them. that's why it's good to become friends first and hang out in groups to see all sides of him. just to confirm your crushing on him and why it is there. it's easy to fall for looks but see the heart and character behind it too.
No it's not wrong.
Andrea Hlongwane. No it is not wrong.why would it be wrong. What comes before marraige?you do not just walk into marraige platonicly. The question is: is he compatible and right enough for you to continue this crush. If not then you should direct your emotions differently. Before you let your emotions go wild make sure practical stuff is in place before entertaining a crush further.
Such as: does he have a relationship with God. Is he a good stuard in little things. Cam he provide. Do you guys have same values. Can you actualy havea conversation. Ect ect
Dont entertain a crush further if the right stuff is not in place.but obviously crush comes before a ring. Obsviously ecceot for atraction on physical there must be a intellectual atraction
Indeed God is faithful, he will arrange both together to fulfill his purpose.
God told me to love him, like HE loved me. I didn't listen and fell in love with him. He proposed after a year in 2010. Unfortunately we broke up in 2013. We don't talk anymore and it hurts every birthday/anniversary/graduation/accomplishment without him. I haven't been able to let him go. 3 years post breakup I still have dreams of him.
Listen to Heather!! Don't take him into your heart until God says. I wouldn't wish this heartache on anyone.
Stilleto Stoner Thanks girl. May the PEACE of Jesus that surpasses all human understanding be upon you.
Give God your pain. I was heartbroken for two years and struggled. Tell Him you don't want it. He doesn't want you to suffer anymore. My broken heart was healed when I got baptized. :)
Many think finding a new bf/gf will heal it. But only God/Jesus can do it. You can message me if you want.
Stilleto Stoner I had a very similar situation. my ex boyfriend & I were together for 2.5 yrs. during the course of our relationship he put thoughts of marriage in my ear. I read countless of books on marriage during that time to be sure that's what I wanted. one of the books I read was "Praying for your future husband." As I read I actively prayed & I thought I heard God give me confirmation that my ex was going to be my husband. however, as our relationship progressed things b/tween worsened & we broke up. It took me 2 yrs. to heal from that relationship. I cried sometimes b/c I couldn't understand why I still loved & cared. This yr. is that 2nd yr. & I recently just received closure & it took his absence from my life to receive it b/c he still maintained a friendship with me that I entertained. However, he has resurfaced in my life again as a born again Christian. A God fearing man & although I no longer feel emotionally attached I am wondering if God can restore feelings. Although I do not want to give back into the thought that he is supposed to be my future husband. I've been praying extensively on this issue.
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"Let's see if the proof is in the pudding.""Give that idol to the Lord."Awesome word Ms. Heather.
The heading alone deserves a "like" !! God has to be everything for us before He brings us to our help-meet. Blessings and thank you Heather!!
Thank u so much for this Sis, I have been having different dreams of a guy in my church for about a year now one of them is that we was praying together like Husband and wife. I asked God to confirm if this is my Husband but keep dreaming of him again. I have decided to leave it all alone. I do not want to let this man into my heart. I want to fall in love with the Lord more and enjoy my singleness I am so not ready to be a Wife yet. Love u Sister Heather u are such a Beautiful Amazing Woman of God. God bless u Sis xx
Bookie Ka Hiya, how are u? and thank u, u know the dreams are still happening to me lool. sometimes he is in my dreams but we don't speak to each other and other times we do. Had one recently where I heard him talking to his friend and said "r u gonna talk to her and then he said to his friend" the ball is in her court now but the ball has already been caught' (weird) then we was talking saying we need to start praying together studying together etc. Dream switched and then he was in my kitchen at the table in my old house then it switched to my house I am living in now sitting at my kitchen table. I asked him what drink would he like i opened the fridge all there was was milk and juice he asked for the same drink I like. Then I said to him I need my car, he said dont worry u will get your car soon. The end (weird right)
These are great points! I think at the end of the day, you just "know" in your spirit when you meet your spouse. I've heard this a lot from multiple happily married couples. You can ask for confirmation though (like I did) if you need that additional assurance.
THIS WAS SO GOOD. God has been speaking to me on this and i felt so much confirmation from this on time message. thank you, Heather, for being a vessel
Amen sister! I have heard so many woman use that term only to be disappointed. As you stated GOD will finish what he started. Let GOD be GOD!
Agreed.. Planning ahead of the Lord is really frustrating.. Usually it's you like the person a lot and it feels so strongly you two are meant to be... Actually it's your feelings and not God telling.. End up guy is not pursuing and you questioning why God bring that person on your path...
Sweet Love i always wonder why there was so many men that have come into my life but it never last. the only guy that ever persued me was a guy that i almost had to file a restrainning order against. life is just so ironic for me... they just don't want me
Sweet Love now i am just so fruastrated and angry because no one wanted relationships with me but the one time i actually find a man that actually wanted a relationship with me and to sick it out with me i was forced to let it go... again life is ironic
I am trying to get to know God and every day i pray. But at the same i am struggling with the fraustion asking God to guide me and show me and tell what to do. Every morning i pray and every night i pray.
Sweet Love I'm dealing with same situation. The connection was so strong that I was sure it was God led but when I asked for clarity he showed me that this man was not for me and I felt shame for making an idol of the thought of marriage with him. But thank God for the Holy Spirit and discernment!!
Sweet Love Sis, Listen!!!! Girl I had done planned my life out with this man who was my best friend! I had our son's name picked out and the area where we were going to live etc and was so heartbroken when he got another girl pregnant!!! So hurt I could not bear to remain friends with him. I've moved on now but I still sometimes wished he had sense enough to see I was a great catch lol!! Lawd these emotions be all over the place hahahahahahahaha
thank you for such an important message, Heather! it's so crucial that we constantly check ourselves and walk behind God, not in front of Him, especially when it comes to relationships. God's will is always worth the wait :)
Omg!! I know the spirit led you!!!! I am dealing with this right now. I was told the same thing by God and I wasn't attracted to the guy. At all! So I knew it wasn't me but now I'm asking God for confirmation. I created a Life!!! OMG you are so on point. I can't believe this.
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CharmeleT Hey! I'm kind of dealing with the same thing right now! Any update on your situation?
Oh my! Im going through it right now! I need an update from you please. From anybody I am so confused right now
April A Girrrrlll God gave me an update today!!!
Sarah C what was the update?
The testimony at the end was for me! It has really encouraged me to keep fighting the good fight of faith -in this area especially. God is so faithful. Thanks Heather -I love you! 😘
Exactly what I need to seal the confirmation. God gave me a scripture a few days ago. And I heard it again through someone else. I kept on telling God to give me that scripture a 3rd time and I requested I hear it today, because I was becoming a little impatient. Went to church, thought I'd here it at church, but heard nothing. Hang out with people longer than usual at church so maybe I'd hear it in a conversation but no one mentioned it. Then when am about to close my eyes, now close to midnight, trying to position my phone properly before sleeping then realised I pressed some buttons and am on my RUclips page and I have never watched any of your videos, never seen you before, and am very skeptical about people I don't know unless the Holy Spirit directs but you appeared under suggested videos. I heard you mention that scripture.
Thanks. God richly bless you.
Gosh I just prayed minutes ago about this and there I find your video! You have no idea how it speaks to me!!
You know it's crazy because this Monday that just past, my friend and I was talking and was telling me how I was not in position to have found my husband. I've been talking with guys, moving ahead of God like ok this could be a potential only for me to be back at square one. SINGLE...sometimes my self esteem issues makes me move ahead of Him because I'm thinking to myself like I'm not a pretty girl, what's the point of me waiting just for God to destroy someone life because they are my husband. I don't want for him to regret having me as his wife. I'm 29 and still till this day, it's a battle but in order for my husband to love me, I have to love what God created in the mirror which is ME
Lisa Pierce- Lisa you just hit the nail on the head with realizing that you need to allow God to love you first before any man because I have found out that in my journey with the Lord, God too wants me to work on myself and with my relationship with Jesus before He brings a wife into my life. Good for you for seeing this 😊😊
Thank you for this wonderful message!!!! So God will show both sides that they are meant to be together. Wonderful!!!!
Why are you always on time !! Thank youuu 💛
Right! As I'm in the mist; Heather is posting a video. That's true anointents.
Janaya L she is spot onnn
Wow...this really hit hard and was def right on time because i've felt myself taking my eyes off God and looking at His hands and blessings instead. I hope i can stay focused on being a bride of Christ instead of getting distracted with not being a wife. Thank you for speaking on this!!
Thank you so much for delivering this message, because in my own life, I am struggling with a similar situation, yet the guy I am speaking to has told me that the Lord has laid me upon his heart, yet, I have not received the same confirmation. Your video spoke volumes to me and has encouraged me to continue praying about God's will for my life and if this man is truly the Lord's intended for me. May God continue bless you and your ministry!
Ivy Kate I’m in the exact same situation. He told me that God said that I was is wife and I’m the one for him.. But I haven’t got the same confirmation yet from God.. I’ve been praying and praying and I still haven’t got anything yet...
Ivy Kate Can you tell me your update?
Ivy Kate update?
My friend prayed to God and felt peace. They had met five years before at church.
This is a good message for men too! And the same can be said of other things too, like jobs.
This has happened to me several times ! But it’s always been my own “wishful thinking” . I even had several “signs” and “confirmations “ so much so that after the last time I stopped believing in “ signs and confirmations “. So several years later I’m still single but until a guy actually pursues ME and I’m actually standing at the altar with a guy putting a ring on it, I probably won’t trust it lol 😂
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I love that last story. God is so faithful. His timing is impeccable. #Idontmindwaiting ❤
there's no one like you Heather! thank you for your ministry
This video is bomb! I have to share it. Thank you for delivering this message Heather
God bless you Heather Lindsey
I don't know any grown women beyond high-school age that crush on men who do not like them back. I personally feel that this message could have gotten to the real heart of the issue. As single women with friends who are sometimes unaware or too self-involved to play match-maker, we are told to "get out there," "be seen," and "show interest" in addition to being wise, prayerful and watchful about potential partners. The challenge is finding the balance between appearing "available" to the right man and appearing thirsty. A lot of women are struggling to see the fruits of God's sovereignty in their lives and what actually happens when they wait and trust on God. That is something that affects not just our relationship choices, but sets a pattern of decision-making for all major life events. We are learning to be led by God which often takes mistakes, embarrassment, wisdom and discernment. It is a life long lesson and I am still learning.
I really needed this, thank you Heather!!!
true Sis Linsley. Thank you so much for this word,i wish every girl will get the opportunity to watch. GOD bless you.
This right here is everything!! I feel like this & some many things have happen because I feel God has told me who my husband is. This was confirmation, motivation & encouragement. Thank you Heather!!
I really love the point that you bought out towards the beginning of the video. How can you claim rights on a man who has not even shown you interest or LED you to believe that he is interested in you. I have seen so many girls fighting with each other or getting mad at another girl because a guy was interested in her, when really if they were so sure that it was God's will, there wouldn't be any need to fear. If you know something is God's will there is peace and you will not be anxious or desperate. Great Point! Really loved this video. I think as women of God we need to be more careful before we Proclaim God told me this or that. If God is really speaking something to you keep it to yourself and see what happens. Love is patient
Hi, Heather. I have a burning question. In one of your old videos with Pastor Cornelius, you stated that you cried for half your relationship. can you elaborate? The proceeding convo was about how much your husband had changed from courtship to recent.
Olashade Abidoye Hi! Can you please link the video? I would really like to watch it. Thank you!
Just the word I needed! So accurate and pertinent for me. I am so in need of a prayer with those words. Gob bless you my sister !
Praise God your awesome us Women need to pump our breaks and wait on,Jesus Amen
Yessssss! Girl you did that video😍I agree 100% with everything you said and it was right on time for me! Thank you Lord again!🙌🏾💖And I will take heed.
Like, where was this when I needed it!
Great talk. I really think God doesn't choose a spouse for you. He has only set guidelines of who will make an acceptable spouse within christian principles. There are a whole lot of people you are compatible with as long as they fall within the Christian principles of how that person should be. It is not JUST A PARTICULAR PERSON. There is no such thing a soulmate. There are only a finger full instances in the Bible when God directed a person to a specific person.
Now that you have heard Heather's talk don't go on divorcing and saying I married the wrong person because God did not direct me to them. God respects the convenat of marriage regardless of who you make it with. Yes there are special instances when God directs but that ain't the rule of thumb. God lets you choose that is why he says 'He who finds a wife'.
There are several logical and biblical reasons why the concept of God chooses a spouse for you is not true.
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Omg you totally rock. I want to say so much right now. AMEN!!!!
Respectfully, I don't agree with that. I believe that God does know who your spouse is. Even before you've met this person. He knew your type before you were even born. So it only makes sense that God has someone who has these Godly attributes that you are attracted to.
As Christians, our lives are not our own, it belongs to God. He has a will and a plan for our lives. And we have to be able to lay down our will, and let God's will be done in our lives.
And in the beginning, as you know in Genesis, Adam did not pick out a wife. God put him to sleep and took a rib to make his wife. Therefore he did not choose. A god-ordained union, is already predestined, so of course he knows our spouse. & therefore that is a soulmate
If only it is house that is good for your so. Someone who does not complete you, but rather compliments you. Someone who is going to help you with the plan that God has for you.
God also news your children even before it you even met your spouse. And for example, God knew only your parents DNA could create "YOU". No one else's DNA can create Who You Are. And it wouldn't make sense to say that God only knows your children after you've met your spouse.
And I believe that God knows your spouse because God is all knowing. If he doesn't want you to be with someone, you're not going to be with that person. And God always brings the right person into your life. And so it only makes sense that God knows your spouse.
Now I'm not trying to say that God chooses your spouse and you have no attraction to them. God will always give you a spouse that you were attracted to. If you have no attraction to them, and that clearly means that's not the one God has for you.
Can I believe when it says " he who finds a wife" means he does find a wife, because the guy is the one who's meant to pursue. Once they've met, and are married, then that means he has found a wife. As the verse says.
amen! I love every point you made! that testimony blew me away. She waited three years!
The truth is God is still speaking, but that doesn't mean we rush him ahead of time, your duty if you believe he showed you is to pray and seek him continually. He alone will finish that which he started in your life. God is still saying something child of God, your job is to seek him continually
Yay! great video, so happy to see such diverse content on Heather's page with sound Godly advice and principles. Thanking God for your growth as well Heather!
thank you, Mrs. Lindsey. this is a timely message for me, since i am facing a similar issue. i hv been afraid of some1 from church who claimed to have heard from God, and this message encourages me.
Your testimony has been a blessing to my life, I was dating a Christian guy that I liked a lot but I felt in my heart the the Lord was telling me that he was not my spouses
THIS IS SO REAL! A topic worthy of regular updating 🎯
You are so insightful! This is good info even for a guy, haha. I could binge watch your videos, you are very encouraging!
Awesome video Heather!!!! Thank you!!!!
Thanks pastor Heather .. going through this right now .. almost the same exact situation
My! My! My! This video was so in point. I wish that I would have heard this years ago when I first started dating. I went from relationship to relationship looking for
marriage and validation from guys who weren't meant to be my husband. They were complete Bozo's.
Thank you Heather for this message. God bless you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Amen I needed to hear this. Just went through this.
Thanks for sharing this advice to many watching. God bless you.
Thank you Jesus!! This is so on time for my life!!
Thanks Heather! Your story blesses me, uplifts me alot, gets me back in line, Always. You were created for me girl, am telling you. You went through all you went through for me! thank you Jesus.
Hey Heather! Yes, God will confirm!!!
Thank you so much for this message! i will most definitely use this advice!
She said "prophelied" LOL i'm using that. but this is so needed. always test everything with God and ask for His confirmation especially with those we date/court/marry.
Very Beautiful Message of Faith and Hope.Im waiting for the Lord to give the Beautiful Jubilee Charitable moment to marry my beloved.Even though we are not talking now.I have faith in the Holy Family of Mary and of the Lord.Happy Holidays and a Wonderful. New Year 2019
Wow, Heather! I am so encouraged by your obedience to the Holy Spirit
Thank God he gave you that word to share
Heather I love your videos my "wife" is the one who introduced me to your channel. I've watched a number of your videos and I know she has too, but I struggle with trying to determine if it's the Lord telling me what I should do or me trying to pursue what I believe is right and at the same time is the Lord telling her something and how do I discuss that with her.
Thank you for this. It's always wise to wait on the Lord.
On time word. Bless you my sister.
Your Isaac and your Ishmael. we have to learn to hear his voice.
Debrah Faustine do you have any tips on how?
Melissa Marie fast and pray
Melissa Marie sorry I haven't checked in so long. It was a sermon in my church but I found something similar here. Hope it helps sermoncentral.com
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thanks, God bless you ...💗
thank you for this video Heather. its blessed me.
This was right on time Heather because its this guy who claims he wants to be with me and be there for my son, but something inside me telling me something different
Ashley McClain listen to your gut always
What is the update on that ?
Ashley McClain what is the update on that
Good stuff! I enjoyed this.. I better start praying for my wife
You give me so much life! Thank you sista! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Am looking for a prayer to meditate upon when am fasting
So much wisdom in this!!!!!!
What if it was felt/heard strongly by both sides and then it became one sided? Nothing makes sense anymore.
yasssss, absolutely love this message ❤❤
" this lady prohelied " I'm weakkkkkkk!!!!!
Thank you so much needed to hear this 💕🙏🏼
thank you for making this video this is something I truly needed to hear!
Can't wait to fellowship with you next weekend at HOH Atl. So question: what if it's the other way around. This guy I'm dating says God told him I am the one but I am hearing NOTHING lol but for real -help please. Love and blessings
Prophetlie! LOL! So important to have a discerning spirit when it comes to your potential mate.
This is so good and so true!
your hair looks so good!
I need to hear that video about God will not send a marriage man to another woman
preach it girl! :)) you are inspiring and beautiful. thank you.
Wow! I was told that by a certain lady in my life. As I told her by question and statement: "I wish you had not told me that. How would you suppose I'd respond to that? I could never know for sure if you heard or knew that from God, or your own wishful thinking. We continued to build a wonderful friendship, which I allowed to turn to courting (no intimacy beyond and kiss and hug). I actually proposed. She accepted. That was nearly 2 months ago. Now, ever since that proposal from my mouth, I haven't felt right about that - awkward and not enthusiastic to continue daily lengthy conversation - as we currently live in different States - far apart. I told her of this, yet she believes it is nothing more than my own fear/anxiety or old habit (indeed problematic) of indecisiveness rearing its ugly head. I am still feeling raw and foolish just the same. Clearly I need to make and stick with a decision - life-altering either way. Without question this is the most difficult decision of my adult life.
But what can a girl do if the man was pursuing me, he was the one who awaiked love and did everything to gain my attention... And l still know he was sent by God. And then he decided to take time off to hear from God... l understand but he was communicating to me for 4 months and l became open for him and didn't expect he would decide to take that time to ask God. We don't communicate and l try to forget the situation and give it to God but my heart hurts.
Question, I had a dream that my guy friend said to me "You are the one I am to marry". Do you think that could be God's way of telling me first or could it be just a dream? This is also what sparked my feelings for him. I prayed to God about it but just can't see confirmation yet. We truly have a Christ-centered friendship and are on the same level spiritually. He's a bit more mature in Lord than I. Which I LOVE. I respect him so much. I don't know why I am just dealing with feelings of uncertainty. He even pursued the friendship by approaching me first, asking for my number 2 months later and even adding me on fb. I guess I'm uncertain now because we are distanced apart because of being in the military. We also met in a bible study btw. Been friends for 3 months. *sigh* ok I'm done ranting.
TBeauty_ Keep praying Sis, please don't let him into your heart until you get confirmation from God. And always rememeber God should always be first place in your heart even when you are married. God will tell you if he is the one or not, wait on the Lord #praying for u. Keep me posted🙏🏾❤
TBeauty_ dont worry God will confirm his word in due time....relax dear iam also sailing in the same boat...but if its Gods will it will kam to pass
But how do I hear God tho? Like before I did not follow his Will, been through hell and back and I am just 21 years of age, now I am ready to move forward and have my diplomas and everything. But I met this guy and contrary to my previous relationships, we are not rushing, we are going sloooooow, that is frustrating to me. I know that God sent me this man to teach me patience but is he the man for me, where are the signes and what signs should I look for?
Jacquie Nnyoung The 'signs' I'd look out for are the fruits of the Holy Spirit. We shall know them by their fruit. Also, don't give in to the frustrations dear. Whenever you feel weary always tell yourself "Greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world". Claim the word of God over your life because it's Alive and Active. Let God do His work in your heart. Be Blessed :-)
Hey! I went through this SAME thing when I was single to the point that I was super OCD about it. I over thought everything and tried so hard to make sure I was doing it "right". What I learned is that it is best to put less attention on what the outcome will be and put more attention on growing in your relationship with God. This is the time to learn more about yourself (which is actually the MOST important factor in choosing a spouse) so that way you understand who God has created you to be and so you can see where God is calling you to go. I think the reason it can be so hard for us ladies is because we have this place in our hearts where we long for that companionship and that's natural, but it cannot take the place of enjoying our lives, understanding ourselves, or connecting with God. Take this time to give it to God. How? Simply ask him and seek him. Find what works for you to connect with him (there is no right or wrong way). I listened to worship music, journaled, and sometimes took a walk and prayed. See this as a time of freedom! There's so much for you to learn about yourself and God! That's the MOST important thing. You'll gain more clarity as time goes on, but don't put a limit on it. Take one day at a time 😊 much love!
Thanks you so much for the advice, I will definitely try the walk and pray advice! Walking always gives me some clarity❤
Ng'endo Mutahi thanks so much for the kind words, I will take this time to grow as a person, I need to grow as a woman!❤
Yeeeessss I needed this . On time!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🙏🙏
so this guy told me 3 weeks ago that the Lord said I'll be his wife ... but I didn't get my confirmation from God, because he insists and i don't want to be led by my flesh... I'm so confused
Tania Aka Hey Sis take it to the Lord in prayer and wait He will show you if he is the one or not. God bless u🙏🏾❤
Thanks for your confirmation!