Where Have I Been? Losing My Best Friend.

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • Hi, guys! Welcome back. You might have been wondering where I've been. It's been one month since my beloved dog, Beau, passed away. So, let's catch up and have a chat about grief and the lessons learned from loss.
    I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of the messages and DM's about Beau. It's been one the biggest gifts and I cherish every message.
    Thank you for all of your support, kindness, and understanding during this time. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section. And if you don't mind to like this video for the algorithm. I've been gone for over a month now and I want RUclips to see that I'm still here.
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    Brianna
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  • @BriLamberson
    @BriLamberson  Год назад +10

    Hey guys! I'm back. It's been just over a month since my beloved Beaubie passed away. If you want to find out more about that and where I'm headed in the coming months, watch this week's video. Sending you hugs! XO, Brianna

    • @Marie-oy1bd
      @Marie-oy1bd Год назад +1

      Thinking of you and sending hugs! It's the hardest thing, losing our pups.

  • @carolinehalter6984
    @carolinehalter6984 Год назад +5

    I'm so sorry you lost your dog. It can be just as devastating as losing a person in your life, especially if it's unexpected. Thanks for sharing.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      You are so kind. Thank you so much. It’s so true. 💞😘

  • @g.970
    @g.970 Год назад +1

    Oh I totally understand how you feel. March 26th was the 38th anniversary of our Old English Sheepdog Megan dying at age 7 of mammary cancer. It was fast and sudden. We knew something was wrong when she didn’t want to play frisbee because she would play 24/7, even getting my husband up in the middle of the night by hitting him over the head. Lol. We miss her every day.
    Our second OES, Ashley, made it to 13. Pets are family members and when we lose them it breaks our hearts forever. I’m so sorry for your loss .
    To the extreme, Megan rode with me in the front passenger seat of my old 1964 Porsche. When she suddenly died, I sold that car. It was our car together and I could no longer enjoy driving it. 😢

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Oh Gretchen how hard. That’s just the worst. Megan and Ashley both sound so lovely. I know your pain. It’s life altering. They are our family for sure. So losing them is just as hard as losing a human. They are truly God’s gift to us. Sending you healing hugs. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @lindylee1139
    @lindylee1139 Год назад +1

    Had a good cry watching this remembering my beloved fur baby who passed away 4 years ago! It’s so important to grieve each loss in life as they come so we don’t have buried grief that piles up. IMHO.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Oh Lindy I’m sending you hugs. Our animal family members are so special. You’re absolutely right about not letting it pile up. But boy was that a tough ride. Glad you’re on the other side. Have you welcomed another pet into your life? If so, how long did you wait?

  • @MZ-arch
    @MZ-arch Год назад +1

    I'm truly sorry for your loss. Grief is a difficult process, and although I already went through serious grieving for my elders and some friends, I know the grief for a companion animal is huge and unique. They give so much love and companionship! After having been a dog person all my life, my children wanted a cat that I resisted as much as I could. Ended up having this cat for 17 years, and it became my baby even after our kids grew up and left. I was also recommended at the time he died to bring a new puppy or kitten into our lives. I am proud to have resisted, as it is important to give grief its time. Only time heals, and each one "pet" is irreplaceable. All the best to you in this process, a baby is a true blessing anytime, that would add meaning and change your life. 🧡

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Wow. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry for all the loss you’ve experienced. I believe loss makes us so much more compassionate as people. Here’s to taking all the time we need to grieve. Hugs 🤗

  • @sunshinesummer2024
    @sunshinesummer2024 Год назад +1

    Bri, grief is so hard and sneaks up on us when we least expect it. Take care of yourself and give yourself grace. So nice to lean on your loved ones. And, I love the hoop earrings you’re wearing. :)

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Man that’s so true, Summer. I’m learning how to get back to taking care of myself. It’s a challenge but it’s starting to feel more doable. Glad you like the earrings. They’re from Ross. 😀

  • @TheTbear103
    @TheTbear103 Год назад +1

    I cried my eyes out watching this. We've had our dog for 8 yrs & he's our baby too. My dad passed in November. Sending healing thoughts

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Hey Teddi! I hope it was a good cry. Wish I could be there to give you a hug. I’m so sorry about your dad. That’s just awful. I think about losing my parents all the time and it terrifies me. So go easy with yourself. I can imagine how much more it would take to heal from losing a parent. 💞

  • @michellewithless
    @michellewithless Год назад +3

    This couldn’t be more timely. My Buddy just died suddenly Thursday night, April 6th of heart failure. EVERYTHING you said resonated with me. I’m so sorry this has happened to you, but know there are people that know what you are going through. Thanks for helping me.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Oh my gosh, Michelle! I am so sorry for your loss. That is the worst feeling in the world and I know how heartbroken you must feel. Please cry as much as you need to and take all the time you need to grieve. It really helped for me to talk to him as if he were still here and to write him letters as well. It took me a solid month to start feeling like myself again. My prayers are with you.

  • @rachelpendlebury8772
    @rachelpendlebury8772 Год назад +1

    Bri, I’m so sorry about your loss. We lost our dog Stella unexpectedly to what they believe was cancer as well, at the end of March. Beau seemed like the sweetest. I hope you and your husband are doing well and Im glad you have support through this time. ❤

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much, Rachel! 🥰 miss him everyday. But it’s gotten so much easier over the last few weeks.

  • @wannabe41
    @wannabe41 Год назад +2

    Bri, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious fur baby. I don’t have children and my cats are definitely like children to me. I recently observed the 2 year anniversary of the death of a cat I had for 16 years. Muff got me through a couple of bouts of unemployment, at least one heartbreak and everything in between. There’s nothing like the bond between a pet and his/her human. Much love and peace to you and Mike.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you dear Katherine. You’ve been so amazing during this time. Sounds like you get it and have been through it too. It’s so hard to lose our animal family members. They’re just so loyal and understanding. Much love to you. Thanks for all you do. 💞😘

  • @drawingout.net-vmcg
    @drawingout.net-vmcg Год назад +2

    Dear Brianna, I totally get your deep grief. It is the worst grief and all my thoughts are with you. We lost our last two dogs to cancer, Timmy at 3 years (leukemia) and Shaggy just shortly after his 10th birthday (melanoma). So I gt it totally and send heartfelt sympathy to you and Mike. It will take time to heal and take that time. It is important. And you know what, Beau wants you to give your love to another dog but when you're ready to do so. Go gently.🐾❤

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Vera. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your two dogs. Isn’t it just the worst feeling in the world to know that they’re suffering in silence? It breaks my heart. Thank you for your kind words and your thoughtfulness. Big hugs to you. 💞

  • @luluandmeow
    @luluandmeow Год назад +1

    I have learnt to appreciate every single day with my beloved Meow because life is really short and it can end when you least expect it but when I was younger I did not think about death. I am very sorry about your loss, he was a lovely boy but you will always be his mama. Love x

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you. You’re so sweet. Funnily enough, my husband and I talked about Beaubie dying quite a lot. It was always in the back of our minds. But when that time came it was still a shock. Hugs.

  • @chirpchirp8011
    @chirpchirp8011 Год назад +1

    Oh no. I'm sorry for your loss. I know how you feel. Over the years I've lost many of our pets. I love and miss them all, they're all my babies.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you 🙏 so much. It is hard but inevitable if we want to have the love of animals. Thanks for being here and commenting. 💞

    • @chirpchirp8011
      @chirpchirp8011 Год назад +1

      @@BriLamberson Here's a big hug for you.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thanks 🙏 dear.

  • @jacquelinea8224
    @jacquelinea8224 Год назад +2

    It is so good to see you. I've been missing you hard! The way you process challenges always impresses me. You are strong and beautiful. ❤️ Love the bells at the end of the video.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Aww. I’ve been missing you too. And missing our group and RUclips. Glad to be back. It’s been a rough time but so many good memories. Better to have loved, right?!

    • @jacquelinea8224
      @jacquelinea8224 Год назад +1

      @@BriLamberson 1000%. Love is everything.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      So true ❤❤❤

  • @77Crazycat77
    @77Crazycat77 Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry Bri. I just can't stop crying. I can see myself in you because I fear the day the same happens to me. Benny is almost 9, and although we have two children, not children anymore in fact, we love him like he was an adopted human child. You are right about needing time to greave. Life has a way of sending us lessons and opportunities to learn. You're growing and Bo had tonnes of love in his life, from his loving parents.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Hi Catarina! I’m so glad that we could connect. Your dog sounds so sweet and I am glad that you get to love him while he’s with you. It’s good to know that I’m not crazy for feeling like he was my baby. I still miss him every day but the pain has subsided quite a lot. My husband and I are thinking we’ll get another dog in the next few months or so. My only advice is to take all the pictures and videos and do all the fun things with them now.

    • @77Crazycat77
      @77Crazycat77 Год назад +1

      @@BriLamberson 💕

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      ♥️

  • @ms_prescott_regrets
    @ms_prescott_regrets Год назад +1

    I’m so very sorry to hear about Beau. I know from my friends how devastating it is to loose a pet to illness. You still need to go through the grieving process like any other death. I still haven’t gotten a new cat since my cat died. Having an animal love you is one of the greatest compliments in life. The only thing more is when children love you (ones that aren’t yours. That’s just my opinion) We will still be here when you are ready to share more content so take all the time you need. Lots of love ❤️

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much, dear! It’s very true. The grieving process doesn’t really change even though it’s our pets. I’m so sorry to hear about your cat. They are such special little creatures. Thank you for all of your support and kind words. It means so very much to me. XOXO.

  • @MissLilly-vn2wt
    @MissLilly-vn2wt Год назад +1

    First, we understand and feel the grief you have and I'm imagining going through 💜 hope you find peace💐 and happy birthday 🎂 (I will turn 39 this year) celebrating what life is really about is key as time passes and life changes, we cannot stop change and we have to understand that in order to handle it with grace, as always I feel you have such amazing content, I always enjoy it and appreciate it💐💜 life happens as your making plans and as it makes plans for us, so shine bright with grace💐👸🦸‍♀️ best regards 🥀Miss. Lilly 🥀

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Hi Miss Lilly! I suppose we all go through loss and grief. Sometimes it just takes a while to readjust happy early birthday! I hope it’s filled with all the good things. Thanks for being here always. XOXO Brianna.

  • @susannehakanlind2942
    @susannehakanlind2942 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry to hear this. I have lost some of my very loved dogs and cats through the years. It is hard. All my beutiful animals has been my children. Thinking of you and your hubby ❤️❤️❤️

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you, Susanne! Isn’t it just the hardest to go through that? I’m very sorry for your losses. Do you have new pets now?

    • @susannehakanlind2942
      @susannehakanlind2942 Год назад +1

      Yes dear, it is very hard to go trough. But as you said; the more you have loved, the more pain. And that is a comfort. Your beautiful dog has been so muched loved by you. He died happily. No, don’t have and pets now. I want to, but my hubby is not that keen. I give my love to the neighbour cats instead. And They give me love back ❤️

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      So good! Glad you’ve got some animal friends to love on. Our neighbors got a dog we’ve been doting on too.

  • @gracedarlenemcpherson9079
    @gracedarlenemcpherson9079 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thanks so much Grace. That means a lot to me. He was my baby. I’ll miss him forever.

  • @kimmetcalfe6408
    @kimmetcalfe6408 Год назад +1

    ❤prayers to you and your family 🙏❤️

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you so much Kim. I really appreciate you 💞🙏😘

  • @dinahassan4320
    @dinahassan4320 Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss 🙁

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much Dina. That’s so kind of you. 💞

  • @barbsorichetti4289
    @barbsorichetti4289 Год назад +1

    HI Bri its nice to see you I've missed you but totally know how you must of felt .It took me two years after my Emma died ( she was eighteen so let a huge hole in my husband and my life)when we got a puppy (same breed ) so much fun ,we often call her Emma by mistake and we feel that just means we will always remember her .

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Hi, Barb! I’ve missed you too. It’s so good to be back. Your Emma sounds lovely. What a hard loss. So happy you have a new puppy to love on. I’m looking forward to that day when Mike and I can have a new baby to bond with.

  • @pattisole7881
    @pattisole7881 Год назад +1

    ❤🐾❤

  • @acminkus
    @acminkus Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @suzanner3894
    @suzanner3894 Год назад +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you dear Suzanne. I’m praying that too. He was the sweetest boy.

  • @asmrEspresso
    @asmrEspresso Год назад +1

    I am so glad you are getting better and very happy to hear that you will be hosting the 10x10 challenge again!! Big hugs to you! *bisous*

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you love. Me too. And yes! I’m so excited for the style challenge. Hugs 🤗 and bisous.

  • @pretaporterp
    @pretaporterp Год назад +1

    I'm sorry for your loss of sweet Beau. ❤❤

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you so much. That’s so kind 💞

  • @angelmuscledoc
    @angelmuscledoc Год назад +1

    March 8th we lost of beloved dog Dozer.....my son rescued him 13 years ago.
    It has been very difficult , especially for me.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Wow. Just four days after Beau. 😢 I’m so sorry Angel. That’s the hardest. My heart is with you. Please feel free to reach out anytime. What kind of dog was he?

    • @angelmuscledoc
      @angelmuscledoc Год назад +1

      @@BriLamberson he was a boxer / pit .....if you ever want to talk , private message me💔

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Boxer Pits are the best. ☺️🥹

  • @angelmuscledoc
    @angelmuscledoc Год назад

    Sending you hugs💔

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      Thank you dear. Hugs right back at you. 💞

  • @debbic2055
    @debbic2055 Год назад +1

    It’s hard to lose a fur baby. Hang in there.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      It so is. So many of us go through it. Thanks for your well wishes and support. 💞

  • @luluandmeow
    @luluandmeow Год назад +1

    I hope you will consider adopting from a shelter, an adult dog rather than a puppy will show his true personality and adult dogs do need a second chance because puppies will always find a home. I used to do rescue and it's such a difficult job to get good homes, please do not go to a breeder or pet store. Thank you.

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  Год назад

      We got Beau from a shelter and will adopt from a shelter. Thank you for your concern.

  • @Ceaaa22
    @Ceaaa22 Год назад

    My condolences for your loss, Brianna.

  • @melindaferreira9879
    @melindaferreira9879 11 месяцев назад +1

    I wondered what happened. 🥹🙏🕊️💕...

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  11 месяцев назад

      Aww. Yes. It’s so sad and I miss him everyday. But I’m feeling back to myself again.

    • @melindaferreira9879
      @melindaferreira9879 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@BriLamberson great to have you back! You were missed!

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  11 месяцев назад

      I’ve been back for a while! Have you not been seeing my videos? Let me know. Thanks for your support. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @melindaferreira9879
      @melindaferreira9879 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@BriLamberson I just started receiving notifications of your videos . I've been a subscriber for quite awhile so I'm not sure what happened.. anyway... I can now receive your content again! Yay!😊

    • @BriLamberson
      @BriLamberson  11 месяцев назад

      Wow! That is so surprising. Thank you for letting me know. Do you have notifications turned on? I’m sad that RUclips hasn’t been sending my videos out to my followers. Glad that we’re reconnected again.