My mom is a "facebook" influencer and I hate her for it...

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  • @LLynneM
    @LLynneM 7 месяцев назад +54

    Love love love Sophia. This one *-female-* _young woman_ is more than holding her own, in a space full of men. 😂
    1 suggest? Lessen + shorten up those TLDRs. Ya can’t stop the flow every time someone turns up, that’s what happens when ya late.

    • @OKOPShow
      @OKOPShow  7 месяцев назад +4

      Yeah great suggestion!

  • @wb624
    @wb624 7 месяцев назад +34

    39:52 the family influencers are the worst. Its one thing if the mom was just video taping herself, but to expose your children and share stuff that should never leave the walls of your home is another level of emotional abuse. More countries need to develop regulations on what is allowed on social media, and the internet in general. And the OP asked for help to see a therapist and neither of the parents are getting her that help, What the fuck? That mom is a narcissist and the dad is just an enabler for her bull shit. I hope OP and her bother get out of that house asap and cut contact with their mom.

  • @elliebellie3852
    @elliebellie3852 7 месяцев назад +17

    I'm so relieved you guys upped the dollar amount for going another hour. It's hard streaming for hours on end, so please take good care of yourselves!

  • @Nathan_Bookwurm
    @Nathan_Bookwurm 7 месяцев назад +43

    S1: you send mum a message: "mum, I'm now 16. Only two years to go and then you'll be having new content to post about how your child fled the house and went no contact. If you're lucky, you'll also be able to post about a divorce."

    • @MidnightAndLuna
      @MidnightAndLuna 7 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly! That’s the message she should send to her mom

  • @ec9833
    @ec9833 7 месяцев назад +14

    Suggestion? Maybe do a reader board down at the bottom of the screen w/a brief description of what y’all are reading about, instead of interrupting to do so for everyone coming in every couple of minutes.

    • @OKOPShow
      @OKOPShow  7 месяцев назад +2

      Great idea! We're trying to add that! Still getting used to the lives

  • @Urrarg
    @Urrarg 7 месяцев назад +8

    Story 2: NTA. If the mom thought the rule was fair enough to place on an adult who paid rent and bills then she should have no problem following it herself while at a house she doesn't even live in. After all, she thought it was a fair rule to place on an adult. Was the move petty? Sure. Was OP an A-hole for upholding her mom's rule at her house after the way her mom acted? I don't think so. In the end all OP did was put a mirror up to them. It's the parent's fault they didn't like what stared back at them.

  • @willexes
    @willexes 7 месяцев назад +14

    30:21 The Facebook mom sounds like such a narcissist, the dad needs to fire her (or downgrade her to a part-time employee)

  • @Franklinandme
    @Franklinandme 7 месяцев назад +3

    37:58 "little to no instructions"?!?! The child has literally flat out stated what she needs/wants from her mother!!!! 🤯

  • @Doktah_Zari
    @Doktah_Zari 7 месяцев назад +6

    Story 2 urks my nerves, when it's a male in OP situation they will laugh about it, but when it's a female, being petty is all of a sudden not okay? Double standers from reddit as always! 🤦🏾
    Story 3: As someone with Autism, there is no excuses for OP husband here, that guy us an AH through and through, hope she can squeeze him dry!

  • @gwendolynspendulum
    @gwendolynspendulum 7 месяцев назад +8

    I want John’s girlfriend Nyma to be in an episode, PLEASEEEE

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад +2

    2:35:10 Oh, this is what Redditor called Kevin and the Big Rig.
    The rest of the stories from this OP are great and could easily fill an entire episode.
    ETA: It gets so much better! Kevin nearly kills OP at one point.

    • @brag0001
      @brag0001 2 месяца назад

      OP nearly kills the both of them just to get rid of Kevin in the end 😂

  • @badkitty4922
    @badkitty4922 7 месяцев назад +6

    I'm in PA, and this just popped up in my notifications.
    YT is messing with you guys but, I'm here for you!❤❤❤

  • @sharine8512
    @sharine8512 3 месяца назад

    In the case of the husband (James), he is a demon. The wife thinks she is losing someone, but she is getting rid of a cruel and heartless person.

  • @Dire2717
    @Dire2717 5 месяцев назад

    Why is it always expected for the kids or adult children to be the bigger person in any and all interactions and issues they have with their parents when most of the times the parents are at fault? Why as a society is it soooo effing common to hold children in a higher standard of behavior and actions than their own parents and the older adults in the situation? This needs to stop, no matter your age, you should always be hold accountable and willing to fix your mistakes and accept your faults, children should never be the ones having to mold themselves and accomodate their adult parents in order to keep the peace, its not peace if one of the parts involved have to make themselves smaller in order for the other part to be "happy" seek therapy if you are the adult parent and be better or your children so that they can be better to their children as well

  • @HusbanduCos
    @HusbanduCos 7 месяцев назад +30

    Wait, guys, no sex blanket: red on one side with "no sex" and green on the other with "sex"

    • @lexc.7991
      @lexc.7991 7 месяцев назад +2

      Haha nice! Or a black blanket with red lettering and green lettering, respectively 😊

    • @HusbanduCos
      @HusbanduCos 7 месяцев назад

      @@lexc.7991 oooh that's a good idea too!

  • @carinaraymond2
    @carinaraymond2 7 месяцев назад

    I had to go read the kevin in a big rig saga. It is REALLY LONG but OP barely survived hundreds of mishaps, finally got rid of Kevin and made the entire trucking company change their training and hiring so that people like FK weren’t endangering people everyday in a giant truck. I am glad OP survived long enough to report him and be taken seriously.

  • @Franklinandme
    @Franklinandme 7 месяцев назад +1

    11:55 my money is on it being channon rose, not sure if her kid(s) are old enough to have posted this but I've seen footage of her husband being like 'yea ima go but you have to promise you're going to actually put your phone down and WATCH YOUR KIDS'

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад +5

    The influencer story has a perfect solution from another Reddit story. OPs brother was an influencer and the parents allowed it cuz he paid for everything. I think pranking OP was really popular. So OP bought a Bluetooth speaker and played Isneyday songs whenever he came around making the video unusable.

  • @theempath2428
    @theempath2428 2 месяца назад

    My brothers got treated way better than me (us) They got to do a lot more than I or my sister could. They even got out of chores because they were “bad at it”. They were allowed to ride bikes down the road, go on dates earlier, you name it. My dad is super misogynistic. 🙄😒

  • @willexes
    @willexes 7 месяцев назад +5

    1:43:25 James only cares about what he wants and not about his wife at all, he is such a major A-hole.

  • @babygodzilla.
    @babygodzilla. 7 месяцев назад +13

    Great stream! Join the Discord to chat with everyone in the meantime before tomorrow’s stream!
    discord.com/invite/vvpKf3DF

    • @OKOPShow
      @OKOPShow  7 месяцев назад +4

      THANKS BB G!!

    • @tiffanywiseman706
      @tiffanywiseman706 7 месяцев назад +2

      The stream of lil sillies that never ends on discord!

  • @hazyhaunter559
    @hazyhaunter559 7 месяцев назад +2

    I know this is to repost the live but i kinda miss watching a video with out the constant TLDRs.
    It just feels like it takes a bit of time and i just want to listen to their takes on the story. This is just me though i know people enjoy lives.

  • @Mochi-ds8kp
    @Mochi-ds8kp 7 месяцев назад

    I've been really into the song "Somebody's Watching Me" by Rockwell lately and couldn't help but think how fitting it is to the theme of the first story 😅

  • @ValleyLili
    @ValleyLili 7 месяцев назад +3

    One is not unfit to be a mom cause of BPD, I have 4 kids and they live with me, not there dad!

  • @maribirik1
    @maribirik1 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hellooo, from Spain, live in Berlin. Currently on holiday in Argentina :)

  • @bridgetcooney5085
    @bridgetcooney5085 7 месяцев назад

    I think petty is almost always an asshole. But they're forgetting that "Justifiable Asshole" is absolutely a valid judgement. Usually in those justified cases, they're an asshole, but not THE asshole. THE asshole is generally the person who starts it.

  • @mfrancis7297
    @mfrancis7297 7 месяцев назад +4

    Wow seeing sam back in the orange jacket, havent seen him wear it in a hot minute

  • @I_Say_Nae
    @I_Say_Nae 7 месяцев назад

    Point of contention, $7000 would pay for three semesters at the university I attended from 2008-2012. $7000 on dorm decor is ridiculous.

  • @toxickirstyx3153
    @toxickirstyx3153 7 месяцев назад +1

    Second story reminds me of my dad telling my boyfriend he had to stay in the spare bedroom when he stayed over. At that time I was 25. He's my first boyfriend and we're still together 5 years later in our own three bedroom house :D 48:34

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад +1

    1:39:00
    ICU cuz I couldn’t understand how OP was so sure he couldn’t be cheating. Nothing about what he was doing was trustworthy.

  • @StabbieStab555
    @StabbieStab555 7 месяцев назад +1

    From Colorado but you guys always stream while I’m at work 😅 and it was notifies me after yall are done 😢

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад

    Never choose a person over education - parents, friends or romantic partners.

  • @Volcanic_abyss
    @Volcanic_abyss 7 месяцев назад

    No contact. She don't have to accept gas lighting and manipulation. Just bc they are her parents, doesn't mean they deserve access to her.

  • @alexissmith7245
    @alexissmith7245 7 месяцев назад

    Omg. “No Sex” blanket for when the parents come to town 😍😍🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @chantelsorgenfrei3266
    @chantelsorgenfrei3266 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hey ! I'm from Niagara Falls, Canada ! 🇨🇦 love you all ❤

  • @xmayoburkex
    @xmayoburkex 7 месяцев назад

    30:21 If Op wanted to go nuclear, they should have recorded that conversation and have the mom get a taste of her own medicine.

  • @nicciromero
    @nicciromero 7 месяцев назад

    This is typical small town antics.

  • @rkelizondo
    @rkelizondo 7 месяцев назад

    Those people are evil, trying to rip this woman’s only child away from her that she almost died to bring into this world. They need to go off and make their own family and leave her alone

  • @Mercuria1Miss
    @Mercuria1Miss 7 месяцев назад +2

    You miss 100% of the cuddles you don't ask for. 🤷‍♀️

  • @wendyWERKKZ
    @wendyWERKKZ Месяц назад

    I’m so annoyed that “Carla” couldn’t talk to her friend until she was done with whatever she was doing, but she was okay talking to OPs bf 3 times a day .
    Also op with the parents that wouldn’t let her bf/ fiancé sleep in the house was definitely not even a little of an ass hole and she was hardly petty. She was clever and creative .

    • @wendyWERKKZ
      @wendyWERKKZ Месяц назад

      Also so annoyed ops boyfriend said she’s “too emotional” but is over here sympathizing for they’re friends and all her problems and she doesn’t have anyone else to talk to… hello!!!????

  • @riverrun1616
    @riverrun1616 7 месяцев назад +1

    That mom has issues. The facebook influencer needs to realize her content is boring and no one cares. She is a social media addict and needs serious help.

  • @desmay6901
    @desmay6901 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love this channel but can you just add a tldr line on the screen for the stories like you do for the money meter? 😅

  • @coolteamblt
    @coolteamblt 7 месяцев назад

    3:03:26 when my family was moving cross country, we thought we dropped my beloved great auntie's cremains down the sink of the house we were leaving. 😅

  • @TheWeirdChannel12
    @TheWeirdChannel12 7 месяцев назад +2

    BPD isn't bipolar... It's borderline personality disorder. Two different disorders.

  • @kwiskwis1
    @kwiskwis1 7 месяцев назад +3

    I’m catching back up-I missed this bit-but I’m curious about the $7000 dorm decor girl. I wonder if she goes to Ole Miss… because like that’s absolutely a thing here.

  • @AmandaMitro
    @AmandaMitro 7 месяцев назад

    And this is why American politicians need to be reminded that Margaret Atwood is a fiction author not a flipping oracle. Handmaids tale is one of caution not a freaking how to manual!!

  • @AlexandriaZoe
    @AlexandriaZoe 7 месяцев назад

    😅 I’m from Tucson Arizona, but live in Asheville, North Carolina beer city

  • @Deadlycats667
    @Deadlycats667 6 месяцев назад

    I hope op gets her dad to divorce the mom because I would also be afraid for my life as well with how much info the mom is constantly giving other's during her videos

  • @Ciela531
    @Ciela531 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hello from South Carolina! 👋 🌊

  • @MG2351
    @MG2351 7 месяцев назад

    That kevin story was read by Redditor 2:57:13 on his channel there's like 8 or 9 parts if i remember right. He has it a kevin in a big rig

  • @jomc6734
    @jomc6734 6 месяцев назад

    Re the comment that none of the mom influencer's content sounds interesting: I think the same could be said about the content of almost every social media influencer.
    Re the possibility of inheritance: if there was a will, the executor of the will is required to pay out the bequests as the testator set out.

  • @laceyhubbard3425
    @laceyhubbard3425 4 месяца назад

    Bpd- borderline personality disorder

  • @Franklinandme
    @Franklinandme 7 месяцев назад

    21:13 it's a circle! We're family!

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад

    2:29:32 tbh same, listening keeps me focused at work too lol

  • @Gardenbee8
    @Gardenbee8 7 месяцев назад +1

    If they are under 16 and she's recording them sleep or in underwear or swim gear can they report her to police for child exploration or soft porn something that Will force her to be shut down and stop using them

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 7 месяцев назад +2

    Sophia, you have one of the most beautiful name in the world! lol. I know lots of sofia and, they’re great, but Sophia is from latiiinnnn babyyyy. If you need a Sophia friend I’m there😤

  • @dpfeiffer90
    @dpfeiffer90 7 месяцев назад +1

    3:56:53 AHHHHHH SPILL THAT TEA!!! ☕️☕️☕️

  • @brandytomlin5496
    @brandytomlin5496 7 месяцев назад

    I would love to be one of yalls "Little Sillies" but I'm a stay at home mom and so broke I can barely pay attention 😅

  • @candcemosley1531
    @candcemosley1531 7 месяцев назад +4

    Who is "they." Are we talking about the stereotypical anonymous "they" or RUclips but without directly insulting the hand that feeds?

  • @taniaflores7742
    @taniaflores7742 7 месяцев назад +1

    I watch you guys everyday, I want to be a member!

  • @charlesmarcomitchell5096
    @charlesmarcomitchell5096 7 месяцев назад

    Missed most of the stream as work got busy and went out to buy breakfast. Catching up now.

  • @niapri
    @niapri 5 месяцев назад

    Maybe I wasn't paying close enough attention, but did they ever actually take a shot? The number of likes kept going up but I didn't see them take a shot

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад +1

    Isn’t BPD Borderline Personality Disorder?

  • @saratafoya3295
    @saratafoya3295 7 месяцев назад +4

    12 RUclips channels where can I find them all? Also how to I become a member I have subscribed but can’t find where to become a member

    • @yentledyas
      @yentledyas 7 месяцев назад

      The subscribe button should be replaced with a "join" button. That will let you pay to become a member and get the benefits.

  • @EllyseaAndDolls
    @EllyseaAndDolls 7 месяцев назад

    Was the stream delayed ? At first the notification was for 9pm local (EU) but it never came up. And now I see that it was streamed at 4am local T_T

  • @Franklinandme
    @Franklinandme 7 месяцев назад

    16:13 exactly what I was thinking

  • @meredithgenerationx9629
    @meredithgenerationx9629 6 месяцев назад

    BPD is borderline personality disorder not bipolar disorder.

  • @ValleyLili
    @ValleyLili 7 месяцев назад

    2:35 This OP has made a hole serie and you realy need to read about the 2. Kevin, he realy is the worst Kevin ever!

  • @captainleslie
    @captainleslie 7 месяцев назад

    Haven’t been watching for a while. Who is the new girl? When did the channel change? 👀

  • @winterbunnyx
    @winterbunnyx 7 месяцев назад

    😅 I think I was an influencer before being an influencer was a thing back on the days of Myspace I was fairly popular on the app I have this tradition that I would throw a birthday party every year and every year it will have a different color motive for my 25th birthday I just posted on my MySpace wall my birthday is this date on this place if you are coming where neon green 💚 take your mind that this was an invitation for my friends how about 260 people show up wearing neon green to the Old San Juan hard Rock Cafe I was expecting at least 80 people we have DJ some rock bands for that night but I was not expecting this to turn into an event

  • @jennabrazel7860
    @jennabrazel7860 7 месяцев назад

    set times for doing social medi and limits are needed

  • @ElvesDoom
    @ElvesDoom 7 месяцев назад

    Love you guys love your show 🥰🥰

  • @samanthamccoy15
    @samanthamccoy15 7 месяцев назад +1

    The banter between Sam and Sophia is literally my brother and i. He is 4.5 years older and thinks he had it sooo hard but he got by so easy if he did anything wrong and my mom would try to protect his image meanwhile i got good grades, at one point was in honors math and reading but dropped math because the teacher was a psycho, played hooky to READ breaking dawn ( maybe 2-3 days at most 3 days i believe and its like a 700-something page book) but on occasion when i did something wrong it seemed like it got blasted to everyone and i was painted as the more so "problem child" which i was NOT. And my brother taught me how to sneak out, one of the like 3 times i remember being caught i was WITH him. You guys might work hard but you dont realize how hard we also work to accomplish things that you think get handed to us 😂😂😂

  • @debbieandscooter8804
    @debbieandscooter8804 7 месяцев назад

    Love your videos 😊

  • @beverlyrobertson1825
    @beverlyrobertson1825 7 месяцев назад

    Hello from Arkansas

  • @JayusSays
    @JayusSays 7 месяцев назад

    That’s crazy

  • @HayleyPage-dt3pw
    @HayleyPage-dt3pw 7 месяцев назад

    Hi listen to you alll the tine. From london x

  • @illydem713
    @illydem713 7 месяцев назад

    Hey guys, long time listener, love your videos and I look for them everyday. This is not a hate comment by any means, just a bit of a critique. I'm ask for your live streams, I want you guys to make money for all your work, but this stream in particular for some reason has so many interruptions of asking for tips/thanking for tips/talking to chat. It got to the point that a really intense point of the story got kind of swept aside because of a donation. Again, no hate, I just hope you guys don't stop doing the regular videos because it was kind of hard to follow this story with interruptions every 30 sec or less. You guys are awesome and I hope you make tons of money!

  • @debbieandscooter8804
    @debbieandscooter8804 7 месяцев назад

    I’m from Indiana and I see 999 likes on my RUclips

  • @TLC1903
    @TLC1903 7 месяцев назад

    Indiana here

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 7 месяцев назад +3

    Oh I’m early?

  • @juliazimdars1126
    @juliazimdars1126 2 месяца назад

    I l9ve yall

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 7 месяцев назад

    YALL NEED BASIC PSYCHOLOGY CLASSES IM GOING TO CRY

  • @kochiegirl07
    @kochiegirl07 7 месяцев назад

    I spent this entire video turning my volume up and down. Please stop shouting right into the mic and turn Sophia's mic up.

    • @OKOPShow
      @OKOPShow  7 месяцев назад

      Yes will do! Sorry about that

  • @currant7_recommends
    @currant7_recommends 7 месяцев назад

    🖐

  • @Gardenbee8
    @Gardenbee8 7 месяцев назад

    Family channel mums and dad aren't well in the head. Sorry but they aren't they use their kids rather than valve their children.

  • @Mercuria1Miss
    @Mercuria1Miss 7 месяцев назад +83

    Big Protein needs to stop saying "female" if he's really about International Women's Day.

    • @ashleyduckworthyt3224
      @ashleyduckworthyt3224 7 месяцев назад +15

      Preach 🙌 I hate that crap haha. You’ll never catch someone saying “Males” but they use females constantly

    • @Nathan_Bookwurm
      @Nathan_Bookwurm 7 месяцев назад +2

      @ashleyduckworthyt3224 except for the alpha males 😂😂

    • @LLynneM
      @LLynneM 7 месяцев назад +23

      Funny. I don’t think female is that bad. I mean, Riley uses the word “chick” and no one says a word. Lol. I don’t mind that one either.

    • @Angelunnie21
      @Angelunnie21 7 месяцев назад +20

      I don't get why you're bothered tbh

    • @marleymorningstar3671
      @marleymorningstar3671 7 месяцев назад +21

      How does that even bother you? As a female myself, I'm not sure what the problem is.

  • @mojojojo3411
    @mojojojo3411 7 месяцев назад +7

    I sure hope Riley isnt going to b gross in this one. Lets see how long it takes.

    • @mojojojo3411
      @mojojojo3411 7 месяцев назад +2

      36 minutes in and ur doing a pretty good job so far

    • @lexc.7991
      @lexc.7991 7 месяцев назад +1

      He’s trying! 😊

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 7 месяцев назад

    1:40:38 the hubby isn’t using her diagnosis against her, BPD is in the same cluster of personality disorder as what you call “psychopaths”. Look up what are cluster B disorders, BOD is there ASPD (antisocial personality disorder aka psychopaths/sociopaths which are criminology terms for either born or made ASPD), NSPD (narcissistic personality disorder) and histrionic personality disorder (what Amber Heard has). They aren’t fit to be parents because they will cause harm onto their children. I wouldn’t be surprised if this OP lied about a couple of things. BPD is being named as one of the hardest disorder to live with but I disagree. The fact they’re seen as victims is why they’re now being babied and seen as poor souls. Narcissists struggle as much internally as BPD but they are able to process it unlike NSPD and ASPD. Ridiculous IMO.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад

    We didn’t agree that only Sophia can do voices?! No one else was with me on this?

  • @karinka5658
    @karinka5658 7 месяцев назад

    RIley gives me so much nice-guy/alpha-bro energy... Can't stand it. maybe Sofia could sit down with him and tell him how women work and he has to listen. Somehow he still thinks he has it all figured out.

  • @sharyebethancourt3660
    @sharyebethancourt3660 7 месяцев назад

    3:00:42 some kind of brain damage making it so dude can’t remember a damn thing.

  • @marieke1985
    @marieke1985 7 месяцев назад +2

    Why are you guys always talking about they and them when OP is a woman. You talk about international womanday but are not even using SHE or HER. Dont try to wipe women out.

    • @sendanrio
      @sendanrio 7 месяцев назад +3

      Nothing wrong with using neutral words to refer to someone... In some languages there aren't even gendered pronouns.

    • @marieke1985
      @marieke1985 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@sendanrioin english they is multiple people. So it seems now many people have split personality with they. Me, myself and I. Iam so done with this woke crape. Female is she, male is He

    • @sendanrio
      @sendanrio 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@marieke1985 they is also used as a non-gendered way to refer to an individual. The singular 'they' is a staple in scientific literature, essays, and publications in general. If, for example, I want to talk about authors in general, and I want to zero in on the author as an individual, I would use 'they' to refer to that one singular, unnamed author. 'as an author, they must write something meaningful.' that's a correct sentence. Because them being an author is the whole point being raised and not them being a woman or a man. It's similar to how people use 'one' to refer to someone. 'one must be cautious in making deals'. That too is an example of non gendered pronouns.

  • @vinney6938
    @vinney6938 7 месяцев назад

    Omg TLDR every five minutes. 😪

  • @sendu911
    @sendu911 7 месяцев назад

    Sounds like he might be unaccepting of his son

  • @Cinnamonhatesyou
    @Cinnamonhatesyou 7 месяцев назад

    Riley really needs to stop saying "female" and bring gross allot.