@@alanoandkhanya Hello, there. 👋Congrats on your relationship. I had to do lobola, too, and my mother-in-law from time to time reminds me that I haven't finished paying (I heard that some charges will be forgotten, but apparently not mine!) If you have a few moments, I invite you to view my trip to my wife's homeland in Africa. ruclips.net/video/E1XNeg-7aYI/видео.html Thanks! ✌
OMG! I’m so glad I stumbled across your channel ❤️ 1) this story was so interesting, beautiful and funny 2) I’m a South African living in America and just love our culture 3) I’m also in a mixed race marriage so nice to hear other couples experiences 4) Khanya is so gorgeous, natural and stunning 😊❤️
Amazing how your negotiations are almost the same as ours. I am from the kalenjin community of Kenya. Just bumped into your channel and I'm here to stay. Congratulations 😍
I always watch multiracial vlogs and came across your videos. I like what I see as a South African and wish you good luck and hope you get as much subscribers as you can. Love you guys. beautiful couple indeed
I'm very happy for you guys. It's nothing more wonderful than finding that special person that you love like no other....but when your families connect in that special way too it's almost like being divinely favored. Much love and blessings to you both and your families as well. 💕
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I was familiarised with the different South African accents by watching Trevor Noah's stand ups and also watching Generations- that SA soap opera.
oh my gosh...i was smiling throughout while watching this video....u guys are so sweet n look so so happy together...match made in heaven man....may God bless your union.
I am speaking this into existence may God bless your union you guys look beautiful inside and outside mkwenyana he is so down to earth super humble you guys your channel is not that old but I feel like we are your kids and you are our beautiful parents and we are just here cheering mom and dad 😍❤️ you should see the smile on my face every time I see my notification I couldn't wait to sit and enjoy if I could I would be the first view all the damn time ♥️❤️♥️🙏
I love this! I'm from South Sudan and i just participated in my cousins negotiation process it was so much fun lol it was a two day process where on the first day it was the bridesmaids and groomsmen. We had to play a script in which we "needed" money for medical expenses the money will actually be used by the girls to prepare for the wedding (hair,makeup,dresses). The second day is the real negotiation where the uncles participate.
Nyarout Jock , I’m Luba from DR Congo. When my brother married his now wife, the script was that the money was needed to fly her to FL from Kentucky. But I said no, I saw the bride a few days ago for her bridal shower 😂.
Congratulations! Beautiful story and how awesome that you are starting out life together respecting each other’s culture. For that I am proud of you. Blessings and more blessings upon you. May the peace of our Lord always be with you. This is a story worthy to be heavenly blessed. 🎀✝️✝️✝️
I love that I just came cross your channel in my recommended I started with this video and went to binge watch your other videos and when I was done, I was like aaaahhhh That’s it?!! I wanted mooooore You both are so amazing across the screen. Do you have an upload schedule? I can’t wait for more content from you guys Love you!!! You explained the lobola thing so well It’s usually hard to explain it to people from the western culture I am Zimbabwean living in Canada and anyone that wants to understand what it is, I will send them to this video
Thank you so so much Tsitsi ❤ You are so wonderful. We don't have a schedule just yet but for now we're trying to upload every 7-10 days but we'll get a schedule soon 😍 Thank you again we really appreciate you ❤❤❤❤
I’m from the DR Congo. When I saw my brother do this last December it was awesome. We call it predote and dote in Congo. That’s the French word. In Swahili we say mahari or kufunga mulango. I know this tradition is in all African cultures, but to see that you guys do it exactly the same is fascinating! Where is Alano from?
What?? Wow!! I love that ❤ Congrats to your brother. Wishing him a long, happy and succesful marriage. Alano is also South African. He's from Port Elizabeth specifically.
beautiful couple, ndinifisela intlantla kumtshato wenu and may God be the foundation of your union. Side note: I have been living in Sweden 3 years now listening to you guys just made me miss home 💖
I adore you two l’ve watched all your videos on here. Started following you Khanya on Instagram. Sending the kindest regards to you both. 🥂here’s to an amazing future
Lovely video of a beautiful couple in love with each other! I didn't know Xhosa and Zulu fine prospective in-laws for any missteps! Mthwakazi people didn't fine anyone when I was growing up in Zimbabwe in the 1980s. They started fining in the late 1990s and I always assumed it was a Shona thing. All the best Alano and Khanya..👌🏿👌🏿
Zakazaka zakazaka Marriage! Married babies! Married lovers! What what! Whoop whoop!!! Whoopee! How exciting? So exciting!!! How exciting?! SO EXCITING!!!!
Thank you so much and we love that you enjoyed the video...we were so worried because couples tend to do pranks on here but we just aren't those people 😅
Congratulations! On a sidenote: Could you do a video on some of your cultural differences and how you deal with it and find common ground. My partner and I are both from different cultures and you mentioned a few things that has actually caused a heated debate in our relationship, like meeting the parents for instance. Once again congratulations
Thank you so much ❤ Ok, that's actually a really great idea! I think we can definitely do a video like that in a few months once we've gone through another cultural practise and phase. It can be very tricky to navigate so I understand completely where you're coming from. Thank you for the idea. It's really awesome and I wish you and your partner the best of luck. Be easy with each other...you're both trying your best ❤
I was so excited when I saw this. Congratulations im so happy for you guys may you be blessed with many years of happiness (and don't forget to invite us lol jk) 🎉
Well I watched this earlier and I thought your family has officially grown into a GREAT FAMILY. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU ALL, Stay in love, teach him how to cook something.
Look, my late husband could cook but only hard foods, boiled eggs, fried chicken, collard greens and he could make biscuits from scratch, I don't like breads. I caught the flu, as much as I loved him I was starving. Yes it hurt his feelings, Thank God for a can of soup. The soup in a can now is not real and full of other sh.... Just saying for emergencies.
As a Motswana I can relate. I remember when I was in high school and this white couple wanted to date ,the guy went to meet his girlfriend's parents to ask for permission to date her. I then asked my mom what would she say if a guy asked her for permission to date me, her response was "What is dating?! The only time a boy will come to my house is when he wants to marry you!!" Batswana don't play like that either. It's also the same with guys. It's a taboo to parade girls in and out of your parent's lives/house. I love our cultures.
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What a gorgeous woman! Skin is perfect and her facial bone structure is perfect!
Thank you so much Mary wow ❤❤❤
@@alanoandkhanya Hello, there. 👋Congrats on your relationship. I had to do lobola, too, and my mother-in-law from time to time reminds me that I haven't finished paying (I heard that some charges will be forgotten, but apparently not mine!)
If you have a few moments, I invite you to view my trip to my wife's homeland in Africa. ruclips.net/video/E1XNeg-7aYI/видео.html Thanks! ✌
If once you complete the lobola negotiations, you're legally married, in the eyes of the court of South Africa.
Yes. Under Cultural Law.
Khanya is really beautiful especially when she laughs....
Oh Patience that is such a lovely thing to say 😭❤❤❤
OMG! I’m so glad I stumbled across your channel ❤️ 1) this story was so interesting, beautiful and funny 2) I’m a South African living in America and just love our culture 3) I’m also in a mixed race marriage so nice to hear other couples experiences 4) Khanya is so gorgeous, natural and stunning 😊❤️
Oh my gosh Thandi thank you so so much. What a beautiful comment to leave. You're the absolute best and I wish you both a beautiful marriage 💕❤❤❤
Amazing how your negotiations are almost the same as ours. I am from the kalenjin community of Kenya. Just bumped into your channel and I'm here to stay. Congratulations 😍
I love that! Thank you so much for watching 😍❤🙏🏾
woooow, so beautiful. i love the fact that the guy has taken time to learn her first ladies culture.
Its honestly been the most beautiful experience ❤
I always watch multiracial vlogs and came across your videos. I like what I see as a South African and wish you good luck and hope you get as much subscribers as you can. Love you guys. beautiful couple indeed
You are so kind thank you so very for your support and well wishes 😍❤❤❤❤
I smiled through out the whole video😍😍. U guys'laughters and smiles are contagious. I discovered u 2day and i just subscribed
Thank you so much Melo! You're everything 💕
The negotiations are very similar to Kikuyu tradition! (Kenya). Bantu ✊🏾
LOVE IT! YES! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
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Yeah even in Cameroon. In my culture its the same thing. Its the same thing across Africa. We just call it differently ✌🏿
@@welisanerich5376 ✌🏿
That's because we are one, the Nguni (Zulu, Xhosa, Swati, Ndebele) are Bantu people.
You are still very excited about each other after all the years congrats
Thank you so much for wishing us well. We'll keep posting about our journey 🥂
Awe this is sooo beautiful the way your families come together for a marriage. I can’t wait to see more of the process and congratulations 👰🏾🤵🏽💍
I'm very happy for you guys. It's nothing more wonderful than finding that special person that you love like no other....but when your families connect in that special way too it's almost like being divinely favored. Much love and blessings to you both and your families as well. 💕
Thank you so much and you're so right. Our families getting along means so much to us. Feeling truly blessed 🙏🏾❤
All I can see is love here....God bless your union....sooo beautiful souls
Thank you so so much 😭❤
A beautiful story, and a beautiful couple. I hope love is accepted and welcomed everywhere in the world! My very best wishes to your future together
Thank you so much J. We hope the same ❤
So HAPPY for you two! May all go well and be fruitful and multiply 😅🤗💕Love from the UK🇬🇧
Thank you so so much favs ❤ Hope you're enjoying the UK.
@@alanoandkhanya Thanks guys! We will be coming back down to do lobola as well later this year 😅 Loved your video and matching outfits
OMG that's so exciting! Let us know when you're down and we'll grab a coffee or do a fun collab 😍
CONGRATS YOU GUYS 🥳🍾🥂
Khanyo you are so well spoken babe, so clear. Lots of love❤❤❤
Sending you so much love as well ❤❤❤❤❤
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I was familiarised with the different South African accents by watching Trevor Noah's stand ups and also watching Generations- that SA soap opera.
Thank you so much 🥳🍾🥂
This is Beautiful ☺🤗 I've been smiling throughout.
Thank you so so much.
So extremely HAPPY to hear this!!!!
Only God knows how i love interracial couple😙....Guyz you have m full suscription😍 ....Best of luck with your future
Thank you Phumza ❤❤❤
Just found your channel and subscribed immediately because your story was so interesting. Best wishes to you both.
We appreciate you. Thank you so much ❤
Love is such a beautiful thing 😊
Awww 😍 Totally agree!
oh my gosh...i was smiling throughout while watching this video....u guys are so sweet n look so so happy together...match made in heaven man....may God bless your union.
Thank you so much Namhla. We appreciate your support 🙏🏾❤
I love the lady she is very natural and ur all simple,no struggle.
Thank you so so much for watching and leaving us some love. We genuinely appreciate you ❤
Beautiful couple 👌🏾Khanya looks and speaks like a friend of mind back in EC-you speak Eng so well🙌🏾🌷
I am speaking this into existence may God bless your union you guys look beautiful inside and outside mkwenyana he is so down to earth super humble you guys your channel is not that old but I feel like we are your kids and you are our beautiful parents and we are just here cheering mom and dad 😍❤️ you should see the smile on my face every time I see my notification I couldn't wait to sit and enjoy if I could I would be the first view all the damn time ♥️❤️♥️🙏
Thank you Thank you Thank you. Your message is so beautiful. We really appreciate you, and will keep you updated on the whole process. ❤️
Aww 💕
New subbie. I am glued to your channel now. I see the love.
Thank you so so much ❤❤❤❤❤
I love this! I'm from South Sudan and i just participated in my cousins negotiation process it was so much fun lol it was a two day process where on the first day it was the bridesmaids and groomsmen. We had to play a script in which we "needed" money for medical expenses the money will actually be used by the girls to prepare for the wedding (hair,makeup,dresses). The second day is the real negotiation where the uncles participate.
Its crazy how similar all of it is. Like the whole story telling part of the negotiation. Thank you for sharing it with us ❤️
-a
Nyarout Jock , I’m Luba from DR Congo. When my brother married his now wife, the script was that the money was needed to fly her to FL from Kentucky. But I said no, I saw the bride a few days ago for her bridal shower 😂.
Congratulations baby well deserved I’m so happy for you
Thank you so so much V 🙏🏾😭❤❤❤❤
Ahhh sooooo happy for you guys. Congratulations and wishing a lifetime of happiness!
Thank you so much for your kind words and support. It means a lot to us 🥂
You guys look so good together! Congratulations ❤️
Thank you so much for watching. More videos to come 💃🏽
New subbie here, congratulations guys😍this reminds me of my own lobola negotiations😊I'm also Xhosa hubby from Gabon
Oh really? I'm so happy for you both 😍 Thank you for the love ❤❤❤
I needed this! Thank you 🤗
Got me all nostalgic, missing home!
All the way from 🇯🇵
Yup. I know that feeling well. Glad it helped. Thank you so much for watching.
Thank you so so much 🙏🏾❤❤❤
I felt nostalgic too. All the way from Canada
Just discovered you guys! I think you two are fabulous!!
You're the best Linda ❤
Congratulations. 🍾
Your story very similar to mine. It’s always so great to see differences in culture being embraced. All the best xx
Thank you so so much Iviwe ❤
Humble husband, God bless both you.
Thank you so much. Everything has been put on hold because of COVID-19 but we remain totally blessed and grateful nonetheless ❤
Aaahhh you guys are a breath of fresh air,all the Devine's super power may it be with you both forever... peace and light ✨✨❣️❣️ new subscriber!!
Thank you so much ❤
Congratulations guys 👏 👏, I'm so happy I find your channel and I already love you ❤... May God continue to bless your union 🙏
Thank you so much Thuli 🙏🏾❤
Congratulations! Beautiful story and how awesome that you are starting out life together respecting each other’s culture. For that I am proud of you. Blessings and more blessings upon you. May the peace of our Lord always be with you. This is a story worthy to be heavenly blessed. 🎀✝️✝️✝️
Wow Grace that was such a wondeful comment to read. Thank you so much for your prayers and will wishes. We appreciate you so much ❤
But guys why am I crying? ❤️❤️❤️ Love is beautiful 💕💕💕 congratulations to you lovebirds 🌺🌺🌺
Thank you so much Boniswa 🙏🏾 We feel so blessed ❤❤❤
You both are so deserving of all the blessings in this world. Congratulations! 🎈
You are so lovely thank you Cass ❤
And this is how I discovered you guys. Alano is very funny hey, hahah. Such a beautiful video 🖤🤍
He's super funny AND silly 🙆🏾♀️😍
But who disliked this video? Someone please make me understand 😕
Show yourselves haters 😂😂😂
Haters? Because we see somebody that has a mouth dripping of colonialism and apartheid blood money? You are so delusional
@@mbindasthulutya4813 what are you talking about 🤣🤣🤣
Alano is giving Bruno Mars vibes!
Lovely couple! Wish you many blessings and great success in your life together.
You are so lovely Veronica. Thank you.
You guys are so beautiful together 💕🥰
Thank you ❤❤❤❤
I love that I just came cross your channel in my recommended I started with this video and went to binge watch your other videos and when I was done, I was like aaaahhhh That’s it?!! I wanted mooooore You both are so amazing across the screen. Do you have an upload schedule? I can’t wait for more content from you guys Love you!!! You explained the lobola thing so well It’s usually hard to explain it to people from the western culture I am Zimbabwean living in Canada and anyone that wants to understand what it is, I will send them to this video
Thank you so so much Tsitsi ❤ You are so wonderful.
We don't have a schedule just yet but for now we're trying to upload every 7-10 days but we'll get a schedule soon 😍
Thank you again we really appreciate you ❤❤❤❤
Me smiling 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 asking God can I experience this❤❤❤❤🙏 may God bless you more and more🙏
Thank you so so much 🙏🏾❤
Me too Dima it beautiful
Congrats online Mom and Dad. Aghh maan all the best. Happy for you guys!!
THANK YOU 🥳 We're super happy ❤🙏🏾
I’m from the DR Congo. When I saw my brother do this last December it was awesome. We call it predote and dote in Congo. That’s the French word. In Swahili we say mahari or kufunga mulango. I know this tradition is in all African cultures, but to see that you guys do it exactly the same is fascinating!
Where is Alano from?
What?? Wow!! I love that ❤ Congrats to your brother. Wishing him a long, happy and succesful marriage.
Alano is also South African. He's from Port Elizabeth specifically.
I love your personality.. Love you guys from Kenya
Just discoverd your channel im binge watching from the first video you guys are amazing🥰🥰👌👌👌
Thank you so much! We just uploaded our wedding video 🥳
beautiful couple, ndinifisela intlantla kumtshato wenu and may God be the foundation of your union.
Side note: I have been living in Sweden 3 years now listening to you guys just made me miss home 💖
Enkosi sisi 🙏🏾 We appreciate you ❤
Simply beautiful.💜
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Love your videos!!🤗👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thank you ❤
I adore you two l’ve watched all your videos on here. Started following you Khanya on Instagram. Sending the kindest regards to you both. 🥂here’s to an amazing future
You are so lovely thank you so much 😭❤
Ahhhhhhh! This makes me so excited (for myself 😅)... Our negotiation is on 11 December 😁💃🏽🎉
Thank you for sharing some of your negotiations with us sis...you looked so beautiful ❤
Congratulations and best of luck on the up coming wedding plans.
Thank you so much and thank you for the luck...we're definitely going to need it 😅
Congratulations Guys! ❤️ I'm so so happy for you two, wishing you a lifetime of happiness and success! ✨❤️
Thank you so so much Kyara! We are are over the moon 🥳🍾🥂
This is such a beautiful video😇 you just gained a new subbie🙂
Thank you...thank you. We glad you enjoyed the video. 🥂more to come.
I am crying 😩😩😩😩! I’m in real tears!
Thank you so much friend 😭❤❤❤
Beautiful!!!Congrats you guys. God bless every step of the way.....
Thank you so so much you guys ❤
This was so lovely to watch, thanks for sharing.
Thank you so so much Busi ❤❤❤
Congratulations guys! Blessings to you!
Thank you so much. Oh man 2020 is gonna be lit 😂
Happiness for you guys. Many blessings xx
We truly are so happy and so very blessed. Thank you ❤❤❤❤
Lovely video of a beautiful couple in love with each other! I didn't know Xhosa and Zulu fine prospective in-laws for any missteps! Mthwakazi people didn't fine anyone when I was growing up in Zimbabwe in the 1980s. They started fining in the late 1990s and I always assumed it was a Shona thing. All the best Alano and Khanya..👌🏿👌🏿
Thank you so much ❤
Oh my word!!! I haven't watched yet but CONGRATULATIONS!
Thank You Thank you so much. We are so happy ❤️😍😂
Lovely. Thanks for sharing!
Thank YOU for watching and sharing in our joy ♥
God is here with you both..love is love
"Love is love" 🙏🏾❤
What a beautiful story👌👌👌love alwys wins🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍
You're gonna make me cry 🥺❤ Thank you for the support and kindness.
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you guys. Many blessings
Thank you so much Tori ❤
Congrats!! What a great way to start the new year.
Thank you so much! Yeah it's been a pretty awesome 2020 so far 😍❤🍾🥂
Zakazaka zakazaka Marriage! Married babies! Married lovers! What what! Whoop whoop!!! Whoopee! How exciting? So exciting!!! How exciting?! SO EXCITING!!!!
SO EXCITING 🥳
Really nice vlogs and to learn about other cultures. Just curious what is Alano's cultural background?
Thank you so much and we love that you enjoyed the video...we were so worried because couples tend to do pranks on here but we just aren't those people 😅
So beautiful, I just love hearing about cultures and family traditions, it's a beautiful thing,congrats guys❤❤
Thank you so much Stephanie. It honestly was such a beautiful day 😭❤
Awwww congratulations! 💕 can’t wait for more vlogs
Thank so much Bri. Thank you for watching
Congratulations guys!
Love is beautiful even more shared!👏🥂
Thank you so so much. We're truly so blessed 🙏🏾❤
Just subscribed, I hope you two keep up the great attitude. 👏❤️
Thank you so so much Thanda 🙏🏾❤❤❤❤
Hi just Join your channel I'm loving it, also i believe the culture aspect is a great thing its also about showing respect..
Hiiiiii! Thank you so much because we're dropping a new video this weekend 🥳
Congratulations 🎊💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃 Wooow!!!! M so excited yangathi ndim Lo belotyolwa🤭
Thank you so much 🕺🏼
-A
Wow! Congratulations..
Thanks Elma 🍾🥂😍
Awww guys. Congratulations! May God bless your union 🎉❤️
You're awesome Tari. Thank you ❤❤❤
Just got to this channel ! Staying ❤️💃🏾
YAY! Welcome 😍❤
Congratulations! On a sidenote: Could you do a video on some of your cultural differences and how you deal with it and find common ground. My partner and I are both from different cultures and you mentioned a few things that has actually caused a heated debate in our relationship, like meeting the parents for instance. Once again congratulations
Thank you so much ❤
Ok, that's actually a really great idea! I think we can definitely do a video like that in a few months once we've gone through another cultural practise and phase.
It can be very tricky to navigate so I understand completely where you're coming from. Thank you for the idea. It's really awesome and I wish you and your partner the best of luck. Be easy with each other...you're both trying your best ❤
Sbwl 😍😍😍😍you guys are beautiful.
LOL @ SBWL 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you😊❤❤❤
No friends! Sleeping over!! 😂 I love your culture’ this is what love and joining in unison with each other should be like! ❤️
Lol thank you so much 🤣🤣❤
They're sleeping over
-A
I was so excited when I saw this. Congratulations im so happy for you guys may you be blessed with many years of happiness (and don't forget to invite us lol jk) 🎉
Thank you Marlane ❤ I've put your name down on the guest list 😉😂
Congratulations and all the best with the planning of the wedding.
Thank you so much. We aren't quite there yet but I'm sure we'll need it 😅❤❤❤❤
Many Congratulations !!! :)
THANK YOU 🥳❤❤❤
Omg.....yasssssss....I LOVEEEEEEE YOU TWO....MANY BLESSING❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much Dana 😍❤❤❤
@@alanoandkhanya ur very welcome ❤
Woooow beautiful couple meant for each other love u guys
Thank you so so much Gladys ❤️
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!
Omg!!!!! I am so happy for you! The #NgumbelaGrovesWedding
Thanks babe 🥳🥳🥳
May our Almighty God bless your Union my lil sis 🙏
Thank you so much Ivy ❤
This is super beautiful 😍. Which camera do you guys use to film?
Thank you so much ❤ We used the Fuji X-T20 for this video 😊
She is gorgeous
Thank you ❤❤❤❤
Beautiful story of two Beautiful people🙏🏾🎉🎊💯💍👌🏾❤💙
It's so crazy to see your comment and come back to this video cause between now and then we got married!!!
Well I watched this earlier and I thought your family has officially grown into a GREAT FAMILY. CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU ALL, Stay in love, teach him how to cook something.
LOOOOOL I'm dead @ teach him to cook 😂😂😂 Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏾❤
Look, my late husband could cook but only hard foods, boiled eggs, fried chicken, collard greens and he could make biscuits from scratch, I don't like breads. I caught the flu, as much as I loved him I was starving. Yes it hurt his feelings, Thank God for a can of soup. The soup in a can now is not real and full of other sh.... Just saying for emergencies.
Congrats guys! 🗣🗣🗣Lilililililili!!!💖💕
Thanks sisi ❤❤❤
So happy for you guys🎉
So true Khanya. You don't just bring anyone your dating in the Xhosa culture especially if your a woman.
Yeah our people are just not about that life 😂 Thank you so so much 🙏🏾❤
As a Motswana I can relate. I remember when I was in high school and this white couple wanted to date ,the guy went to meet his girlfriend's parents to ask for permission to date her. I then asked my mom what would she say if a guy asked her for permission to date me, her response was "What is dating?! The only time a boy will come to my house is when he wants to marry you!!" Batswana don't play like that either. It's also the same with guys. It's a taboo to parade girls in and out of your parent's lives/house. I love our cultures.