35 Things You Should NOT Say in a Job Interview - Big Job Interview Mistakes to Avoid

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @Iamhungryforribeye
    @Iamhungryforribeye 9 месяцев назад +7

    It is super easy to work those filler words out of your vocabulary that I learned in a communications class I took years ago. The solution is simple if you feel like you are about to say a filler word decide to pause your speech in that moment instead and speak once you have your thoughts in order again start talking at that point without that filler word. We use filler words because we are afraid of a moment of silence and just be ok with that silence and all is well.

  • @JJ_TheGreat
    @JJ_TheGreat 8 месяцев назад +4

    7:28 Question: So if they ask if you have any questions at the beginning of the interview, should I say, “I have some questions, but I would like to defer them to later on”? That way, you can ensure you have time to answer their questions for you sufficiently.
    I had a recent interview where I made the strategic error of asking all of my questions up front. Then, when I was going through answering their questions - one of the panel members called me out, saying that we are halfway through the interview and I had only answered 3 questions and there are 5 more to go - plus some extra non-scored questions…
    At that moment, I knew the interview was over 😕

  • @Proposal12
    @Proposal12 Год назад +7

    I was actually asked that question if the position was a stepping stone into the company and I said yes, few days later I had an offer, despite being "overqualified"...

  • @DeirdreSM
    @DeirdreSM 2 года назад +23

    Last year, I had an interview I was *really* looking forward to, and my dad (who was elderly and sick) called THREE TIMES (I had given my phone to my husband to look after). But dad needed to be transferred to the hospital, so it really was *that* urgent and he was blind and having trouble finding his doctor's number. Still so mortifying.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +10

      That is really scary. That might be the type of exception that changes that situation. I would personally understand that.

    • @DeirdreSM
      @DeirdreSM 2 года назад +10

      @@BenTalksTalent He died about 2 months later of that same bacterial infection. Never was able to shake it. They understood the very short (2 minute) interruption it took, thankfully, but I was missing something they were really looking for, so they went with a different candidate.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +3

      @@DeirdreSM I am sorry to hear that.

    • @Sayyidksa
      @Sayyidksa 2 года назад +1

      @@DeirdreSM 😢

    • @neetrab
      @neetrab Год назад +1

      @@Sayyidksa oh I'm so sorry!!

  • @carloscaycho8641
    @carloscaycho8641 2 года назад +17

    I'll have to disagree with the not lying part. Like when they ask why you want that job, everyone there knows it's because of the money but if you say because of the money, you're automatically disqualified.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +10

      Oh I agree there. You need to give them a compelling, non-monetary reason.

  • @FreedomandBaconHomestead
    @FreedomandBaconHomestead 2 года назад +11

    What a painful list but ignore it at your own peril!!!

  • @davidcyr7094
    @davidcyr7094 Год назад +8

    Ben, I saw you at a virtual event with the Wounded Warrior Project, and I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have a phone interview tomorrow with a job I am really excited about, and I have watched your videos repeatedly in addition to other research and preparation.

  • @Ugk871
    @Ugk871 8 месяцев назад +2

    The no.1 is spot on😂 i had candidate ask me that upfront. I was so shocked that although he has all the qualification, it’s really a putting off

  • @raheelsiddiquei1230
    @raheelsiddiquei1230 Год назад +6

    Solid content, actually matching the title. Thank you!

  • @sharonler-2782
    @sharonler-2782 2 года назад +12

    hahah the 'ums and like' , I do that when I get nervous 😩

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +7

      You aren’t alone. Those are really hard to get rid of and it takes practice for sure.

    • @Proposal12
      @Proposal12 Год назад +3

      @@BenTalksTalent Nope, heard plenty of recruiters/ hiring managers do it.

  • @neetrab
    @neetrab Год назад +7

    Bro, I love the way you deliver these videos. Your personality is great! Hahaha
    BTW, I finally got a job but don't be shocked if I keep looking at ur vids.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад +3

      Well congrats! I am very happy for you and I appreciate the kind words. I am going to try to incorporate more career content for people who aren’t in a job search in 2023!

  • @amaia424
    @amaia424 Год назад +5

    If an interviewer asks if I’m considering any other offers at the moment so they know when they should get back to me, can I say “I am interviewing for other positions right now so I may have other offers to consider soon, but you can take your time getting back to me and I will evaluate each offer equally when making my decision”?

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад +3

      I wouldn’t encourage them to take their time but I would affirm my interest in their role, Afsara!

    • @dhenderson1810
      @dhenderson1810 4 месяца назад

      ​@@BenTalksTalent Tell them that another company was getting back to them in a couple of days, but you want to give this company first priority so you hope to hear back quickly or you may have to take the other job.
      If they really want you, they will prioritise and fast track you.

  • @Lisa_688
    @Lisa_688 6 месяцев назад

    Great video! The more of your videos I watch, the more impressed I am by your seemingly unbounded energy and passion for what you do and the quality of your content. Always very thoughtful and beyond the cliches you hear from other RUclipsrs giving this kind of advice. You’re doing a great service here! Thanks for the information!

  • @kennethbrown1919
    @kennethbrown1919 10 месяцев назад +1

    You mentioned not asking things like, "how much longer" during the interview. Is it ok to a) ask how long to plan when scheduling the interview; and/or b) inform the interviewer that you have another commitment at a certain time (i.e. a "hard stop" time for the interview)?

  • @unappealingundesirable2826
    @unappealingundesirable2826 Год назад +3

    "Do you have any concerns about my ability to perform in this role?" So, that should be a question towards the END of the "question session," right? In fact, how damaging would it be, if one had about 10 decent questions, but this "concerns about my abilities" was their FIRST question?

  • @cflemish970
    @cflemish970 Год назад +5

    Love love love your videos. Been watching many and subscribed.
    In general I do interview well. Been told so by various employers and have often landed the jobs I went for.
    All your tips 100% spot on.
    Watching to refresh my skills and potentially new tips.
    Its important to stay up to date and fresh.
    What is your opinion of bringing a hand out.
    I have brought a little folder with a copy of my resume (most of the time they have a cooy), a list of reference and some examples of my work.
    What do you think about that?
    I don't always do it, but it has always started good conversations.
    Thanks for what you do. This is so helpful for so many people.
    All the best.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад +1

      I wouldn’t include references until asked but a big yes to the rest! And thank you for the kind words and subscribing!

    • @cflemish970
      @cflemish970 Год назад +1

      @Ben Talks Talent - Interview Advice Thank you. Yes great delivery and tips. I will share this with my staff and friends. Doing great work. Thank you.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад +1

      @@cflemish970 thank you!

  • @GiaAndJai08
    @GiaAndJai08 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have watched several of your videos and it helped me a lot to prepare while waiting for an update regarding my job application in IBM. As part of my research, I watch some reviews and pieces of advice coming from the people who already experienced the same thing as mine. It is a good thing that I found your videos (subscribed and liked it), coming from a recruiter, and it is a great help for me on what answers I need to prepare for the sample questions you had. Still looking forward to have an interview invitation coming from them. Thank you!

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 месяцев назад +1

      You are very welcome! I wish you the best luck!!!

    • @GiaAndJai08
      @GiaAndJai08 5 месяцев назад

      @@BenTalksTalent Thank you very much! I will watch your other videos!

  • @ysshaikali1643
    @ysshaikali1643 Год назад +1

    Excellent ❤

  • @Elizabethania
    @Elizabethania 2 года назад +3

    Excellent video as always 🤩
    Thank you, Ben!

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +1

      Thank you, Elizabeth! I really appreciate it!

  • @Chau1990
    @Chau1990 2 месяца назад

    English is my second language, so I often use "umm, umm" as I try to recall vocabulary. Thank you for your video; I will practice speaking more fluently.

  • @priyaalikanti8415
    @priyaalikanti8415 5 месяцев назад +2

    I don't understand if they don't wanna hear these things why do they ask questions like "Tell me about a time you did not get along with a coworker" Or "Tell me about a time you disagreed with your manager"....

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  5 месяцев назад +2

      I’m gonna make a video addressing this topic

  • @5.7hemi79
    @5.7hemi79 Месяц назад +1

    Would the "Stepping Stone" rule still apply if the position being applied for is an internship? When the position is quite literally a stepping stone...

  • @Farhiya-b8f
    @Farhiya-b8f Год назад +1

    I watched youtube for questions and answers on interviews and the same questions were asked, i imagine they may have seen it too and i answered the same as in the youtube. Makes me anxious maybe they'll think i have no originality 💀

  • @meenaravee3379
    @meenaravee3379 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why does interviewing for a job have to be mind games? It wasnt like this years ago.

  • @nekto34
    @nekto34 6 месяцев назад +1

    I once had an interviewer texting while interviewing me. Claimed that was her boss and she wanted to find out whether her boss will wanted to interview me. Awkward experience overall and I didn't get that job.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  6 месяцев назад +1

      Pretty rude and inexcusable in my opinion

  • @morbau11
    @morbau11 7 месяцев назад

    Rockwell Automation? Don't you guys make turbo encabulators?

  • @raysun9188
    @raysun9188 2 года назад +1

    Hey Ben,
    What do you think of Rockwell? I am getting a 2nd interview and just want to know a little better from your perspective.

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  2 года назад +2

      Nothing bad to say! I really enjoyed working there!

  • @rocky_wang
    @rocky_wang Год назад +3

    Interestingly, I am not a vegetarian or vegan, but I will make sure to order something matching senior colleagues’ diet. If the other side is vegan, I will order vegan, but if the other side orders meat, I order meat too.😂😂😂

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад

      I’m a vegetarian and I’m not ordering meat, but I’m not making a big deal of it.

    • @rocky_wang
      @rocky_wang Год назад +3

      @@BenTalksTalent I bet you eat lots of eggs then; hard to gain muscle with only soy protein…

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  Год назад

      @@rocky_wang nope. I barely eat eggs.

  • @victerrios6509
    @victerrios6509 6 месяцев назад +1

    18:01
    Refrences on the resume is weird???

    • @BenTalksTalent
      @BenTalksTalent  6 месяцев назад

      Yup, old video but I still feel this way. Leave them off 👍

  • @melissacoburn4440
    @melissacoburn4440 Год назад +1

    im going to school for human resorce managment

  • @JJ_TheGreat
    @JJ_TheGreat 8 месяцев назад +1

    15:55 But when you are selling yourself, doesn’t it involve lying to begin with? Let’s face it - the entire interview process is B.S. - it is a game… I’m just saying.

  • @go_better
    @go_better 2 года назад +3

    ❤️‍🔥

  • @melissacoburn4440
    @melissacoburn4440 Год назад +2

    wow i cant beleive some peope; say these things

  • @Rouxibeau
    @Rouxibeau 7 месяцев назад

    You do things on purpose and by accident. Saying 'on accident' is a mistake.