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  • @nitahiltner3348
    @nitahiltner3348 22 дня назад +74

    Kristin, you are toooooo hard on yourself! I am 75 and one reason I love you is that I can live with young children and be able to do all that hard cleaning and decorating and shopping through you that I can no longer do or have. I miss those days so much since my kids were your kids' ages and that was about 45 years ago. I want to be 30 again so I can have them back because it is so much harder now that they are grown. One has disowned us all because she doesn't like the way we voted. It has been 4 years since she's spoken to us, including her sister, niece and nephew, so little kids too. So, thank you for sharing your life and home with us. These years are the best years of your life. Don't waste them thinking you are not enough or that you could have done better. You are where you are supposed to be. I love your home, it makes me feel cozy.

    • @katen1228
      @katen1228 22 дня назад +6

      I’m 71 and I miss those years with my kids too. I also have one grown daughter who has disowned me for whatever reason. Luckily I have other grown children (sons) who I’m close too. I give my daughter to God because I can do nothing about that, and yes I’ve tried for 7 years now. I love being able to watch Kristen too and her family as they grow. Thank God, plus she’s so REAL,

    • @tina_W7
      @tina_W7 22 дня назад +3

      I am so grateful for your post to Kristin because I too am in a similar situation as you. I LOVE your videos Kristen, because you are so real and you lift my spirit every time I watch them. I am 67 and live in Georgia. My oldest son & his family hasn't really talked to us nor do we get to see those precious grandchildren much because of how we voted in 2016. It's breaking my heart and although I'm going thru a lot of health issues, he still keeps their distance. When we do see them (maybe an hour or two a year) and our grandkids look at us as if we're monsters that are there to hurt them, or worse. Seeing your videos warms my heart in so many ways! You & your sweet family are such a blessing to so many of us, so please don't be so hard on yourself. And please know your doing exactly as the Lord has led you to do. You make a wonderful difference and truly are a blessing. God bless you & that beautiful family. Y'all are in my heart & in my prayers! ❤🙏

    • @lindajent3140
      @lindajent3140 22 дня назад +2

      Love this !! And so very true..the years go by quickly. Soak up each moment ❤

    • @susandenniscook9271
      @susandenniscook9271 22 дня назад +1

      I just turned 65 and have no children, so definitely can’t blame my lack of public speaking skills or being tongue-tied on “mom brain”, yet I am the worst when it comes to finding the right words to say any time I open my mouth to speak. It has always been something I struggle with. Praying before speaking in a stressful situation is always a help, yet I still feel awkward. I can SO relate to you Kristen. You definitely are “wonderfully made”! Thanks for sharing!

    • @daisyjo5358
      @daisyjo5358 21 день назад +2

      Postpartum blues mask itself in many ways. HANG IN THERE SWEETHEART❤

  • @maryoleary2037
    @maryoleary2037 22 дня назад +46

    You are bordering on overload and exhaustion. You start by saying you are the mother of three girls, when it is four. I've given workshops on public speaking. It really is fine to have notes, but speak in public, as you would friend to friend. Don't read a speech and you don't. Leaving out ums is important...better to pause, than to say um. Anyone, with ADHD has an extra challenge. Also remember, "Mom brain" is mostly caused by extreme tiredness, as your body recovers from the trauma of birth, hormonal transitions and your sleepless nights tending to a baby. Be gentle on yourself, Kristen, please. You are a lovely wife and mother and your RUclips audience appreciates you. You are more than enough. The proof is that you were able to help another mother who was struggling.

  • @vickiebelk635
    @vickiebelk635 22 дня назад +41

    Your words speak so much truth. God has placed the scriptures in your heart to share and someone somewhere needs to hear them. Don’t feel bad that you didn’t have words to say to your friend at church. God touched her through your touch. You were being obedient to His prompting. That’s why I watch you. You’re such a real person!!! God bless you!!!

  • @caridadrodriguez8623
    @caridadrodriguez8623 22 дня назад +26

    You worry too much about what others think. You are beautiful and have a wonderful family. Don’t worry about others, just be happy.

  • @kimpike4362
    @kimpike4362 22 дня назад +27

    Such a blessing. You speak to us as friends, sharing what the Lord has put on your heart, speaking the words that He has given you, both literally & from scripture. His Word does not return void. Myself & many are encouraged because of your obedience.

  • @kimcunningham2107
    @kimcunningham2107 22 дня назад +28

    Let me just bolster your confidence here... You do a great job. Just relax and try not to be so hard on yourself. Sometime we all hyper-focus on what we think of as our weaknesses. Many times they turn out to be our strengths. Your honesty about this may help someone who feels the same as you. Bless you. 🥰❤️🙏💜 I feel it was quite evident that God was present with you and your friend in church. No question about it. ✝️

  • @debbiewoodruff2791
    @debbiewoodruff2791 22 дня назад +22

    Thank you for the reminder that God uses us right where we are! Because of your obedience to the prompting of the Holy Spirit your friend recieved what she needed in the moment! God is so good! 🙏

  • @michelebaldwin1942
    @michelebaldwin1942 22 дня назад +10

    Someone once said to me “God doesn’t call the qualified, he qualifies the called”. I hang on to that every time I find myself asking “what am I doing here? Surely someone else can do this better!! “. God gave us editing for a reason, Kristen. Please give yourself some grace. We all love you.

    • @JackdawWatcher
      @JackdawWatcher 20 дней назад +1

      I love this, thank you for sharing!

    • @WBCRO
      @WBCRO 18 дней назад

      Amen!!! You’ve encapsulated the comment I was going to make.

  • @sharonbrown2352
    @sharonbrown2352 22 дня назад +19

    You are enough and you do a great job. God is good-all of the time.

  • @carolschultz3588
    @carolschultz3588 22 дня назад +14

    Kristen, I love to hear you speak. You are very sincere and gracious. Don’t worry the people that follow you think you have plenty to offer. You are very qualified.

  • @kaytidmore1948
    @kaytidmore1948 22 дня назад +17

    Yes! God is using your voice “big time”. I love it when you share scripture and apply it to exactly what you are going through. I had a similar experience just lately after my husband passed where God showed me that I still have breath in my lungs. At 68 years old, He is still using my voice. He is so good!! ❤

  • @elisabethsingletary2998
    @elisabethsingletary2998 22 дня назад +11

    Chris Stapleton was truly blessed with an incredible voice.
    How amazing that Josh has the gift of worship.
    You & your family are being used to glorify God. What you’re doing is important.

  • @kcotjo
    @kcotjo 22 дня назад +10

    Not to discourage you, but I believe I may have "grandma brain"!! I recently spent 2 different times in Omaha helping with our newborn grandson and his 2 siblings along with our other son who has 4 children. After returning home, I felt like I couldn't speak in full sentences!! It happens to us busy mama's and grandmothers!! I love hearing you speak and inspire so many of us with your words and scriptures. Give yourself Grace as you are very busy with a newborn and 3 other girls. Never compare yourself to anyone. Your videos are always so enjoyable as you are one of the most genuine and authentic person I know!! God bless you and your family!!!

  • @robinalexander8429
    @robinalexander8429 22 дня назад +11

    You are not old! I am a 63 yr old woman who raised 2 boys and has been married 44 years, and we have been in Christian ministry in one way or another for 43 years.... I am like you, I stumble and bumble through things.... You have the sweetest spirit and you do NOT know how many lives you are touching through your Christian walk, and through this channel...We were involved in youth ministry for a lot of our Christian walk and through moves with my husbands "other" secular job, the Lord has moved us around and sent us to many churches, even if for a year to minister and I am on FB with a lot of my "youth group" and "Christian camp" kids, and the messages I still get from these now adult people is such a blessing from" You were our favorite youth group leaders EVER" or even "we really miss you guys", they don;t realize how much those little messages lifted my spirits... You said the verse about plans to prosper, we always THINK that prosper means to have more money or financial blessings, but I often think it means plans to PROSPER US through deeper understanding of HIS word and our walk with HIM!!!! I love this video

  • @maggiepadilla6915
    @maggiepadilla6915 22 дня назад +10

    We are our worst critics. You are worthy, you are loved , you are beautiful in and out. Hormones are crazy especially after a hard pregnancy and delivery. Soar my love. You’re facing your fears and doing it anyways. ❤❤❤

  • @lisamcdaniel809
    @lisamcdaniel809 22 дня назад +18

    Thank you sweet Kristen for your openness to share your raw self. Your willingness to share your vulnerability and your walk with Christ is so relatable to me then someone who seemingly has it all together. Continue to be open and genuine in who you are on this platform you've created. Blessings to you from one pastor's wife to another. ❤

  • @patriotmama
    @patriotmama 22 дня назад +5

    Oh Kristen. My heart goes out to you b/c I have so much trouble speaking in front of a group let alone a crowd. Our youngest son, now 43 years old, was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 9. We went the Ritalin route and the phycologist the school put us in touch with just kept up-dosing him ever visit. One night I heard him pacing the hallway and went to see what was going on. His heart was racing and he was in full blown panic attack. I sat up all night with him holding him and talking him down to a place where he could breathe slowly. From that night on, we ditched the "drug therapy" and we prayed and sought God through all of it. He learned to deal with his symptoms now he is a Daddy of four great kids. He served in our military and is now a mechanic for EMS helicopters. I tell you all this to tell you that he was able to let go and let God. We all deal with insecurities and I want you to know that I simply love your channel. You are such a giving person. You are using your life to impact others in a very special way. We (YOU) touch others through our shared experiences. You did just that. It WAS the Holy Spirit that lead you to pray with your friend and sometimes God uses us in ways we never ever dreamed. When we let God lead us and trust and obey HIM every day, lives are touched. Thank you for being a true blessing to all of us that follow you and your beautiful family. Wonderful video and a reminder to to all of us to follow God's nudgings when he leads us to something for others. We never know who we will touch and the impact we have until we just choose to have a personal relationship and follow God. "Be still, and know that I am God". That being still is when he speaks. Our son learned that when he was young and has not regretted it a bit! Be blessed as you are a blessing to others. :)

    • @melindagordon5278
      @melindagordon5278 22 дня назад +1

      Patriotmama, thank your for sharing your son's story, it is a beautiful one.❤

  • @user-uw3vk5hc3p
    @user-uw3vk5hc3p 20 дней назад +1

    I am constantly experiencing "mom brain". It can make me feel so insecure. I'm glad you shared your experiences... it's nice to not feel alone!

  • @debranicholson9223
    @debranicholson9223 22 дня назад +5

    Rest in the Lord! You are a blessing to us all!! I love how the Holy Spirit broods over us..we don't need words❤

  • @cindyhancock5261
    @cindyhancock5261 21 день назад +3

    I’ve always thought you were a natural at this! Don’t believe what your mind may tell you some days! Because you are enough! You are qualified! You are a beautiful Mom of four precious little girls and you make a difference in everyone’s life that watches your channel!I am 67 years old and I really benefit from watching your channel. Please know we are all praying for you as you navigate this wonderful journey of Mom hood.❤

  • @thecross2429
    @thecross2429 22 дня назад +9

    Take a deep breath and hust be yourself. You are beautiful in what you do and who u are. I have been praying for not even knowing you were going such stress 😢❤Love to you

  • @emilyrae6863
    @emilyrae6863 21 день назад +2

    Kristin this is a beautiful video!! You are such an inspiration. You are one of the few voices within your genre here on RUclips that is a believer and talks openly about the Lord and I love it soooo much!! We need more women like you on this platform!

  • @carmendetweiler2814
    @carmendetweiler2814 21 день назад +3

    Kristin, I am a chronically ill lady who used to be “normal.” I have had Lyme disease, which tripped my body into Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and POTS. These diseases cause really bad brain fog! I can relate. I am a pastor’s wife and I often feel like I fail in this. I often feel broken and unable, but let me say I believe God is still using even me! You are being used beautifully by God! I enjoy you sooo much! I appreciate you and all that you bring to the table! Keep on keeping on! Give yourself some grace. Tired is hard and I am sure as a new momma you are not getting all the sleep you need. It will get better! Love your Holy Spirit story! ♥️🥰- Joanna

    • @nancydroge7682
      @nancydroge7682 19 дней назад

      Hello! I am a 61 yrs old lady who ‘happened to’ see your response to Kristen! My jaw dropped when I saw “POTS” because I too have POTS & very rarely do I see/hear others share this about themselves. So,… I don’t really at all believe that I just ‘happened to’ see your response. I believe God was in it! God is definitely using you & in a powerful way! Your response to Kristen encouraged me in my journey as well & I could not be more grateful! My prayers are with you! ❤️🙏🏽

    • @Ivy285
      @Ivy285 4 дня назад

      I am the same. I have POTS. I would highly encourage you to seek out a functional neurologist (chiropractor). I am getting treatments. There is hope.

  • @pennybill4877
    @pennybill4877 21 день назад +1

    Kristen you are loved by your subscribers. You are real, kind, funny. I love the way you share your faith. You are perfectly imperfect. I really believe you are being used greatly by God in ways you don't even know. You are loved.

  • @EliseWood
    @EliseWood 21 день назад +1

    Oh Kristen, thank you for obeying and being there for your friend❤ that brought me to tears I know how hard it is postpartum I have two girls and really really struggled with the last one, didn’t open up until she was over a year old about how much I struggled. Thank you for being there for her and I just said a prayer over you, your friend and a few of my family members that are either pregnant or newly postpartum ❤❤❤❤

  • @karmanjones8346
    @karmanjones8346 20 дней назад

    This should hit a lot of hearts! We are getting older and feeling this way! Thank you!

  • @user-si8ou1dj2c
    @user-si8ou1dj2c 21 день назад +1

    *A different video- yet an anointed.
    * Interestingly, you have the same ocean painting I had while growing up and later in my own home- I sold it (in Canada)
    * At the end you shared a God moment with a recent mom that you know.
    *Later you spoke truth and promise for us all. Thank you
    * Finally, you quoted my go to verse 11:29
    * I needed to hear your message. You are right on track. Thank you for your obedience to God.
    * Be blessed

  • @KatByteK
    @KatByteK 21 день назад +1

    This was a beautiful message of hope for all of us. We all have our own insecurities from time to time. God's plan for you and your family is not always the plan we have for ourselves. He beautifully used your love and compassion at church Sunday. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bonniebosso8731
    @bonniebosso8731 22 дня назад +6

    I have found that when I don't remember a thing of what I said, or what I prayed, it is most often the holy spirit!

  • @norajones8725
    @norajones8725 20 дней назад +1

    God is beside you. Please rest and don’t worry you have just had a baby. That has an effect on our body and brain that takes a few months to recover. You will be back to your old self soon. I am praying for you!

  • @debbyyoung9454
    @debbyyoung9454 22 дня назад +5

    Sweet Kristin, God doesn't call the equipped, He equips the called. You have chosen as such a time as this. You may think you do not have the "correct" words to say, but you're a willing vessel for Him. The Holy Spirit will speak the words that your friend or even us need to hear...."just open our mouths Lord to speak, ears to listen and our hearts to be willing". I'm so thankful for you and your willingness to God's prompting. You are a blessing to many....even this widowed pastor's wife. God Bless You, richly.

  • @karenmartin1894
    @karenmartin1894 22 дня назад +2

    Honey, you are delightful! If I could only watch one channel on RUclips, it would be yours! Your authenticity is so refreshing in this super fake world. You are a blessing just as you are!

  • @sandymatley85
    @sandymatley85 21 день назад +2

    Thank you for your beautiful words that give hope to those of us who are quiet people who God uses in our own quiet ways to bless and encourage those around us. Love that your video was unedited. It felt even more personal. Blessings on your day. Sandy

  • @katemoore6249
    @katemoore6249 22 дня назад +3

    You are absolutely perfect!! Never sell yourself short!!
    You know how I know you are perfect? I know because God made you!! Don't change a thing about yourself!!
    I think you need to slow down and take care of yourself. You try too hard to be someone else's version of perfect. Just continue to be the perfect God made you. That's the one we all love!!!!

  • @angelarose9636
    @angelarose9636 20 дней назад +1

    Thank-you for sharing such a vulnerable and tender message in this video. As a fellow mom whose lifestyle is the complete opposite of yours, the value you bring in sharing messages of encouragement and grace is such a gift. Your words have brought me some much needed peace today, thank you for being a light to us all! ❤❤❤

  • @pamelaoetken5690
    @pamelaoetken5690 21 день назад +1

    You are amazing!!! Being able to share your life and your faith is a gift from God! Don't put yourself down, because you are continuing to reach more and more people, There are so many foll9wing you who need to hear what you have to say about your family and faith life and definitely you're making a huge impact!! ❤

  • @adairtormanen8594
    @adairtormanen8594 20 дней назад

    I’ve never made a RUclips comment but Kristen I needed this video. I’ve struggled with ADHD for years. My stuttering and forgetfulness is a huge insecurity (especially has been today). Thank you so much for being open and honest. Thank you for positioning yourself to be a vessel for the Lord to speak into my life!

  • @debbiefletcher4781
    @debbiefletcher4781 21 день назад +2

    Thank you for sharing Kristen. The Lord used you to remind me of so many things. You definitely had me tracking with you. My husband, a retired pastor, and I feel the Lord has called us to be available to pray with people at the altar after church service regularly. I tell you this because, I am a 68 year old woman, wife, mother of 3, grandmother of 4 and more often than not, I feel inadequate to do the very thing that I know the Lord has called me to do. I’m always questioning my abilities to give the right counsel that I think that they need to hear. Like Moses, I too have questioned God and said, Lord, I’m not a great speaker. I get tongue tied, my voice is weak, and I’m far too emotional and begin to cry when praying with and for someone. Then He nudges my spirit and says…. “ GO! Trust me…I want to use you now in this situation”. I’m always thankful when I’m obedient to his tugging of my heart and move. He promised that HE would use me, give me the words I would need; or simply to be silent and wait on the Lord with them. He has taken me to so many of the same scriptures that you’ve shared time and time again. And reminds me that even though I don’t feel as if I feel qualified, HE IS! SoI shake in my shoes and go forward in obedience and thank him later for choosing to help me realize, HE is the one who gives me the confidence, the words or the quiet stance of silence and even the tears of compassion to willingly serve him in this capacity. I’m struggling right now to send this comment to you for all of the reasons I’ve stated. 😊. You don’t have to respond or may not even read this lengthy comment I’ve made but honestly, I wanted you to know that I appreciate you taking the time to not worry about how this video may affect your channel but were obedient to take the time to listen to The Holy Spirit’s prompting to encourage my heart today. One is never to old to need prayer as well as never too young to share what the Lord has truly asked them to do and let the results of those actions be totally up to him! THANK YOU my sweet sister in Christ. Debbie.

  • @judylynne22
    @judylynne22 19 дней назад

    What a blessing this message is!!! Thank you for pouring out your heart. You are a beautiful child of God! Make a joyful noise unto the Lord!!

  • @WBCRO
    @WBCRO 18 дней назад +1

    We treasure you, Kristen! You do a tremendous job and always give us nuggets of helpful truth. In terms of you and Josh missing what you did earlier: it’s understandable but I fully believe that the Lord guides our steps to places we never dreamed of. My life looks nothing like what it would be when I finished university but I know He’s led the way for me. Please be gentle on yourself about ADHD and mom brain! ❤

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 22 дня назад +2

    This video could not have been more timely for me, Kristen! Recently, I received a tough diagnosis which has left me struggling. Throughout this video, God used you to calm my concerns as you addressed : our ‘voices’ here on earth & how He uses our voices to further the kingdom in His way, our being fearfully & wonderfully made, our having God-given purpose, acknowledgement that the Holy Spirit works in & through us, our plans versus God’s better plans for us, etc. Kristen, your’s continues to be a bright✨transformative light✨changing lives for the better & I could not be more grateful! Bless you & your precious crew! 💕💕💕🙏🏽

  • @ourthriftylife
    @ourthriftylife 20 дней назад +1

    when you said that you put her hand on her back I truly felt the love of Holy Spirit. wow praise the Lord. Just using you as a vessel for His glory. Amen! Thank you for this encourging video sis. I honestly think it was sooo well said. I also have ADD so I feel you.

  • @user-dy4xl5hy6n
    @user-dy4xl5hy6n 22 дня назад +4

    Dearest Kristen, you are such a beautiful person and Gods' light truly shines through you...full of the HolySpirit. Your open feeling are so real in a world full of deceit. Praise God and Bless you! You inspire when it is most needed. ❤❤

  • @donnad.7986
    @donnad.7986 17 дней назад +1

    You are such a genuine beautiful person! Thank you so much for sharing God’s word with us. I needed to hear this. 🙏🏻✝️ 🤗

  • @kimmanning3745
    @kimmanning3745 22 дня назад +4

    Kristin, you are an adorable young woman, mom, and wife. Be gentle with yourself. I’m 58, and I love to watch you. God is using you to inspire others and provide content that is sweet, wholesome, and Christian. I encouraged my daughters to watch you, too. Be at peace, dear. We’re all vessels in the hands of God.

  • @christinewilliams7005
    @christinewilliams7005 22 дня назад +2

    I think that’s when the Holy Spirit shows up- when we have no idea what we’re doing. The Holy Spirit does it all - we’re just called to be obedient! He uses our willing spirit but it’s HIim who does the work. I’m so glad you were able to minister to your friend.it’s so wonderful when someone lets us know how we have ministered to them. We get to see how awesome God is and how He let us be a part of it!

  • @LinenandWildflowers
    @LinenandWildflowers 6 дней назад

    I am the same way when it comes to praying out loud. I just don't have the words even though I know what I am saying. I can't say it. When you said your friend just bawled, I started rearing up. I can totally relate. 🙏

  • @liber8tedsoul159
    @liber8tedsoul159 21 день назад +1

    Your genuine spirit and approach to life a blessing to me. Love you - imperfections and all, lol! Be easy on yourself in this chapter of your journey.
    Postpartum can be a challenge as well as a blessing. Rest, relax and let it unfold. Go with the rhythm of life. We’re here for it! ❤

  • @JudyCoggins
    @JudyCoggins 22 дня назад +3

    To everything there is a season…. Life changes and what is behind you becomes memories. You’re doing great! ❤Sending love….

  • @kristinclemenson9422
    @kristinclemenson9422 22 дня назад +2

    Sweet Kristen with an "e". Please don't change anything about your style❤. You do inspire and you do have a ministry at home, at church and on RUclips. I've been watching since you had only 9000 subscribers! You're probably the most gorgeous RUclipsr not only on the outside but inside too. You are inspiring and refreshingly relatable for all of us who look forward to your Sunday uploads. It's hard to pick a favorite but your sour dough video is right up there for me personally 😂. Thanks for taking what the enemy meant for evil (your insecurities) and turning it into something good for those who needed to hear what you shared today . (Lastly, I work with post partum mommas and I do hope youre sharing how you feel with your obgyn just to make sure your mental and physical healing are on track.) Sorry for such a long comment! ~from Kristin with an "i"

  • @user-wm8wm8gc8q
    @user-wm8wm8gc8q 21 день назад

    You are affecting more than you know. You are brave enough to share about God and bring a smile and relaxing moment to so many. God IS using you!! I’m 53 and as of next week, an empty nester. It’s hard when a big part of my identity is being a mom. Then I read the story of Job. He lost everything and at an older age, Job 42:12 says“ So the Lord blessed Job in the second half of his life even more than the beginning” 😊😊 You’re doing and amazing job.

  • @memedebfox
    @memedebfox 22 дня назад +3

    Sweet girl, your heart is so bent toward God and I so enjoy your videos! It is truly a ministry and you don’t need to try to be perfect, just available! Be kind and show yourself some grace! I will pray for you! There’s a song by Josh Wilson called Dream Small. It speaks to just this! 12:39

  • @kb19907
    @kb19907 22 дня назад +3

    Every one of your videos brings Glory to God!!! You exalt Hiim in all of your videos and you are exactly where God wants you to be!! I cant really relate to what your saying because I enjoy each and every one of your videos so much and see or hear none of what you are talking about!! You have been given an amazing platform for the Love of God to shine through you, and in my opinion, you are a good and faithful servant of the Most High!! Be Blessed and rest in His favor!!!

  • @rhondagreen135
    @rhondagreen135 22 дня назад +4

    Beautifully said at so many levels! I pray many people hear your/His words! Thank you, Kristen!

  • @maryannkilduff8659
    @maryannkilduff8659 19 дней назад

    Give yourself grace, sweet girl. You are a beautiful and amazing wife, mom and child of God. You are in the most beautiful season of life and so very blessed. We all love and admire you so very much! God bless you and your beautiful family! 🙏❤🙏

  • @marilynpowell6881
    @marilynpowell6881 22 дня назад +3

    Thank you kirsten for your honesty. Im 74 years old and my husband went to heaven in February this year. Ive got whats called grief brain, my memory is bad and i cant think of words or lose track of what im saying. I want to be a good witness for God but i havent the right words. So many times ive tried but i get nowhere. I also remember about Moses but look what happened to him. I must trust God more. God bless xxx

  • @francisguereca5241
    @francisguereca5241 22 дня назад +2

    So good, and you said it so beautifully. Thank you for being obedient and allowing the Holy Spirit to use you in this mighty way. I desperately needed to hear this for my husband and I’s current season. ❤

  • @user-ik8re8kp9e
    @user-ik8re8kp9e 22 дня назад +2

    Kristen, I marvel at how you remember scriptures...God has a plan for us all...I try an read the Bible every morning but can't remember like you do,,,I would love to visit your church but I live in Massachusetts,,,,You are special Kristen don't have doubts about yourself...God Bless

  • @chelematsumoto4785
    @chelematsumoto4785 22 дня назад +3

    Thank you for being real! I appreciate you!

  • @dianepitts1861
    @dianepitts1861 22 дня назад +2

    Kristen I live through you also! You make me feel all those wonderful feelings of time gone by with my children. Dear heart, you have a wonderful ministry. You're a good and humble teacher. We all love you. You're exactly where you need to be.

  • @pisicacutecat4869
    @pisicacutecat4869 22 дня назад +3

    Thank you so much Kristen for sharing your heart with us. I got so emotional when you shared about your friend. Thank you for being obedient to the nudging of the Holy Spirit. 🙏 We love you and appreciate you so much. 💕

  • @otowngirl12
    @otowngirl12 22 дня назад +2

    I just recently found your channel and want you to know that you have been a light to me. Motherhood is hard in ways that we don't usually anticipate. The toll childbearing takes on our bodies is so far reaching. Thank you for sharing your struggles and your faith.

  • @UpstateGrammy
    @UpstateGrammy 16 дней назад

    I am not a singer, but I always remember this: "Make a joyful noise unto the Lord."🦋🦋🦋

  • @marypeach8
    @marypeach8 22 дня назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your heart of love & light❣️You have magnified the Lord with your sweet spirit & have brought him great honor & esteem by your declaration of His truth. Richest blessing for you & your family as you continue your journey of sharing the heart of our Heavenly Father together with others…🌺💜🌺…continue to scatter Joy…🌺🤗🌺

  • @karolhenderson8888
    @karolhenderson8888 22 дня назад +2

    Kristennnnn Nobody can tell you how to feel .... but I do wish I could hug you!
    You are doing a fabulous job I love your channel and your kiddos. You and Josh giving it all to God That's good stuff and enough for me to watch you grow as a couple and family You really do have so much to offer !

  • @1cookiefan
    @1cookiefan 22 дня назад +2

    It's so interesting that what sounds like gibberish to oneself is exactly what the hearer needed to hear! God is using you, sweet girl! Luke 12:12

  • @karenmathis5817
    @karenmathis5817 22 дня назад +1

    I saw the title of this video and almost slammed on the play button. I needed this so bad. Thank you so much. So grateful for your love of the Word and sharing with us.

  • @melindaferreira9879
    @melindaferreira9879 22 дня назад

    Amen. Beautiful. I feel the same... and i'm 53 .... I struggle w words.

  • @rhondareece2629
    @rhondareece2629 22 дня назад

    Wow thanks for speaking the truth in your heart. I am now 68 & the Lord certainly had surprises & changes in our 49 years of marriage we never expected. Just wait to see where he has you going in your 40’s! It’s all good & some difficult times but as long as you keep an open heart he will lead you well. I really enjoy your joyous spirit & I look forward to each of your videos.

  • @imeldaestrada8896
    @imeldaestrada8896 22 дня назад +2

    AMEN, AMEN, AND AMEN!!! Josh and you are doing exactly what Gog has you doing, and that is awesome. Continue to bring people to know our Lord.

  • @AshleyOHara-d4j
    @AshleyOHara-d4j 22 дня назад +2

    Kristin I just became a mom about a year ago and am forever grateful I came across your channel! You have helped me more in motherhood than most women who are in my life. You are such an inspiration to me. I NEEDED this video today. I love your example of Moses. It truly touched me. Thank you for being authentic. Keep sharing your light! It has changed my life for the better! Thank you sister in Christ! 🙏🏻

  • @csclose
    @csclose 22 дня назад +6

    Wait…3 girls? (It’s ok…we get it!). Kristen, you are a child of the King. You are not perfect, and will not be this side of Heaven. You speak from your heart. You are too hard on yourself. What you are going through, I think, is perfectly normal after just having a baby…or even on ordinary days! Did you ever hear the saying…”When we make plans, God just laughs.” It’s something we’ve all been through. I know, as a Christian, you know all of what I just said. I plan to sing like Lauren Daigle and play guitar and piano (and maybe drums, too) when I arrive in Heaven, and I soooo look forward to that! The Lord knows your heart…the Holy Spirit jumps in when we need the words…those are the best prayers, when you feel like you are speaking jibberish and don’t even remember what you said. I used to sing in our former church’s praise band, and often, I prayed at the end of our worship. My husband would tell me sometimes that my prayer was great or whatever…I often replied with, “I don’t even remember what I said.” He would tell me that those are the best prayers! God bless you, Kristen…the Scriptures you selected were perfect! Hugs and prayers…Cindi (from WV). 😊

  • @phylliswatts7201
    @phylliswatts7201 21 день назад

    Honey you bless my heart every time I watch you. I’m so glad you and your husband are working for the Lord. Please never leave your church or the Lord. Thank you Lord for this precious Christian young lady you’ve put in my life.

  • @sherrypitt9889
    @sherrypitt9889 22 дня назад

    ❤Hi Kristen, We all think time has changed and what we wanted to happen, did not! I stumble and make my way through things everyday! Chris Stapleton is one of favs! I listened to him the past two days, cleaning our garage! I know, not fun! So happy you had a great weekend and danced away! I think everyday, dang I didn’t accomplish this in my life or this, but you know what, I’ve accomplished a lot of other things! So, you are a beautiful wife and Mom. That’s a couple of great and most difficult sometimes! So Kudos on being GREAT! Thinking of you and you’re special family!

  • @sheilavanduynfote5539
    @sheilavanduynfote5539 22 дня назад

    Kristen I just got home it is 10:00 pm here in Florida!!!!!!! Please don’t be so hard on yourself, I can’t speak publicly as well. I love your channel for your honesty and you always incorporate God on your channel. This maybe the only time a person hears about our Lord and Savior ❤❤. God has a plan for you and Josh ❤❤🙏🏻

  • @heathermacleod7068
    @heathermacleod7068 21 день назад

    Thank you!!!
    I think we, as women do this to ourselves to often.
    I needed this video today!!
    🙏🏻😊

  • @Homestead-nb7dk
    @Homestead-nb7dk 22 дня назад

    Kristen, you are an inspiration to so many, you keep it real and I love that you talk about real life struggles. Thank you for sharing your love for our Lord and Saviour

  • @debbyace7613
    @debbyace7613 22 дня назад

    Kristen, you are such a blessing. God is surely using you to bless a lot of people on you tube. It doesn’t matter how or what you say the Holy Spirit is speaking encouragement to people. We love you whether you say um or not! 😀. Honestly I never noticed ❤

  • @pampayne9033
    @pampayne9033 22 дня назад

    Kristen, You’re such a blessing. You’re doing such a great job. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you and your beautiful family.

  • @patriciavogelsperger9645
    @patriciavogelsperger9645 22 дня назад +2

    You do a great job with your utube channel. We do not go to channels that are only showing the best of their day. You are real and genuine…..that’s what we want to see. When I see that you have a video up…..I watch it as soon as I can. You are young and beautiful and special. Do not complain and wish for something different. You have so much. You are beautiful inside and out….you have a loving husband and three beautiful and healthy girls…..what more is there?

  • @melissasimpson2303
    @melissasimpson2303 21 день назад +1

    Praise God for allowing us to know Him even in difficult times! Love you, sister in Jesus Christ!

  • @gleasonelectric4460
    @gleasonelectric4460 21 день назад

    Thank you Kristin, for being real and sharing how God is working in your life, its very encouraging.

  • @user-xx1ci9bn4x
    @user-xx1ci9bn4x 22 дня назад

    Such a beautiful message. You are an absolutely perfect soul.........

  • @user-de6em7rg5f
    @user-de6em7rg5f 22 дня назад

    Kristin love how you are sharing the word of God and your true feelings I love your channel so much your a amazing young Lady. God Bless you in everyway!!

  • @MicheleHummel
    @MicheleHummel 21 день назад

    There is no doubt in my mind that God is working through you! You have touched me a couple times with your faith based content. I thank you for that! 🙌🙏

  • @sondrasix1668
    @sondrasix1668 21 день назад

    Kristen, thank you for sharing. You are such a blessing to us. I love that your testimony is from Heavenly Father. You are too hard on your self. Please know you are so loved. 💛💛💛💛💛💛

  • @stephaniecripe9745
    @stephaniecripe9745 22 дня назад

    Kristen, you have such a kind heart and sweet spirit. You shine with love for your family and God. I love that you share scripture. Just be you, so what if you say, "um" no one is perfect except God and he loves us u conditionally. We all have moments of brain fog. As I've gotten older, I've just learned to accept people as they are. Thank you for sharing your real life with us. God bless you❤️

  • @Tazerface123
    @Tazerface123 21 день назад

    Thank you, Kristen! Praising God for you! ❤

  • @PamArganbright-rv1yf
    @PamArganbright-rv1yf 22 дня назад +2

    BEAUTIFUL WORDS!!!! YOUR LIGHT IS SHINING and The LORD IS BLESSING YOU!!!! I am a 77 yr old Christian ...having married at 16, raised 4 outstanding children & loved every minute of being a mom. God's plan for your family is pretty incredible! Thank you in opening your heart & sharing Godly ways!!!! " YOU ARE A BELOVED CHILD OF GOD, AS YOUR FAMILY IS TOO, KRISTEN!!!!!!! Pam A. from Ohio

  • @TalithaBoyd-zc9xi
    @TalithaBoyd-zc9xi 22 дня назад +1

    It is obvious that you are a wonderful wife and mother! You are the exact right person to raise those little ones and walk alongside your hubby. May the Lord bless you with His peace, strength, and endurance!

  • @CarrieHerschbach
    @CarrieHerschbach 20 дней назад

    You are a beautiful woman. Thank you for this unedited you. God has blessed me for stumbling across your channel. You keep being the amazing woman you are 😊

  • @lailayen765
    @lailayen765 22 дня назад +1

    Thank you! You have NO idea how I needed to hear that message from the Lord. I am 56, and a worship leader in our church, and I have struggled with that feeling of beeing disqualifided because of my age for quite a while. God bless you.❤

  • @mountainhiker4890
    @mountainhiker4890 22 дня назад +1

    That Jeremiah quote is one of my favorites...so heartening when we feel lost or discouraged or are just unsure of ourselves and what we could or should be doing. Mom brain is such a real thing! Give yourself grace. And sometimes just sitting with someone and listening is all that they need to feel heard and release inner turmoil, but I'm happy your words were helpful to your friend. Love and hugs to you!

  • @jwells3476
    @jwells3476 22 дня назад +1

    I had a neighbor who had her fourth baby not too long before I had my first. She and I were friendly, but not particularly close. I swear I had emotional whiplash with how hard new motherhood is. I showed up on her doorstep about 8 weeks after my daughter was born because I just needed someone to talk to. Her validation and example gave me so much comfort and peace that I was going to be ok. It was life changing, and I’m so happy you were that for someone else. My hormones can impact my ability to do a lot of things too, including organizing thoughts and processing language. I have to tell myself, “ok these skills aren’t going to be easy today so we’ll just have to do things the best we can and that will work.” It’s sometimes a lot easier said than felt, but it does help. Thank you the extra and encouraging video 😊

  • @staciefreeman4396
    @staciefreeman4396 20 дней назад

    Thank you Kristen for sharing such encouragement today, I needed to be reminded again of what He has called me to do!

  • @user-sd9lq4ty5x
    @user-sd9lq4ty5x 22 дня назад +1

    I stumble over my words too. Not only during important conversations but just the day to day

  • @user-oo9mv6lj7j
    @user-oo9mv6lj7j 22 дня назад +1

    As a mom and Nana , you are a beautiful woman ! Such an inspiration to all of us who follow and love you ! Never doubt yourself!

  • @elainebarnwell2807
    @elainebarnwell2807 22 дня назад +3

    Kristen, just remember that you are the daughter of God and your Father has equipped you for what He has called you to. Our plans are not always His plans, and His plans for our lives are always better than anything we could have ever thought we would do. As you obeyed the urging of the Holy Spirit, He used you to minister to someone in need. I am 76 and I'm so thankful that I followed His plan for my life instead of mine. Keep walking in your calling, and know that God will lead the way for you to do whatever He puts in front of you. Blessings.

  • @user-dl8lk3wz5q
    @user-dl8lk3wz5q 21 день назад +1

    Kristen you are where the Lord wants you to be right now. You are a great communicator. I would rather listen to you being real than someone who thinks they have it all together. I don’t mind the um’s. I just like real people. You did a great job on this video so please don’t change. You are who you are and that is a beautiful thing.

  • @crisspinelli7753
    @crisspinelli7753 22 дня назад

    You are so precious. Thank you for your wisdom and authenticity. Big hugs to you 🙏🏻