The SHOCKING Reason Good Christian Sisters Are Still Single in 2024

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
    @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Месяц назад +366

    Ladies... do NOT shack up. If you're living with, cooking 4 course meals, cleaning up after, and laying up with a man, he needs to be your HUSBAND that loves you like Christ loved the church... Period. Stop playing house with boyfriends.

    • @dishonnasowell2582
      @dishonnasowell2582 Месяц назад +7

      What if the man is doing it for the woman?

    • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
      @doll.ov.poetrii4682 Месяц назад +32

      ​@@dishonnasowell2582 Nope. Men are not obligated to financially provide or do any of the above for a girlfriend; it goes both ways. However, I'm addressing the women because I'm a woman myself and I'm speaking from experience.

    • @dishonnasowell2582
      @dishonnasowell2582 Месяц назад +6

      @@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I understand because in the past, I used to do the same thing you was talking about. I deeply knew that they was not the one the Lord had sent.

    • @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade
      @SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade Месяц назад +22

      Amen!! And to answer that other young lady, do not take money from men to pay bills… nice dates, nice dinners at restaurants and gifts are fine BUT no one (male or female) should be treating a boyfriend or girlfriend like a wife or husband.
      Ladies stop cleaning and cooking for your boyfriend. And men stop paying all of your girlfriend bills. It is not Biblical

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 Месяц назад

      Men are only with women for convenience.

  • @camillenugent8199
    @camillenugent8199 Месяц назад +173

    I'm still a virgin and give God thanks every single day. these is men who came in my life that wants me to compromise jus to please them but by the grace of God I stand on what I believe

  • @nicolecorrado1959
    @nicolecorrado1959 Месяц назад +31

    I am 37 and still single. As an autistic person I find this very hard. I feel sad because it is possible I may not meet anyone. But as a Christian I want to wait until marriage.

    • @kshrvpz1587
      @kshrvpz1587 7 дней назад +1

      Same here, sometimes i'm just scared

  • @hiddenbeauty2828
    @hiddenbeauty2828 Месяц назад +223

    Courtship with the intent to marriage is the way to go. Dating is recreational and only leads to disappointment. I loved this episode because it showed me the right way to find a mate that aligns with God's will for our lives. I only want to marry who God has appointed for me.

  • @cathyfreeman8608
    @cathyfreeman8608 Месяц назад +25

    I really enjoyed the video. Definitely wait on the Lord to send your special person. My husband and i dated for 5 years.. we grew together in our christian walk and faith. We prayed together every day. This year we celebrated 38 years of marriage. God is faithful and so good!

  • @GodDidforme-or5kq
    @GodDidforme-or5kq Месяц назад +47

    This was my story I was in an on & off relationship for 3 years with someone that just wanted to waste my time. I shut the door and changed my number and completely gave my life back to the LORD. I reuse to live a lukewarm life. I repent and break every ungodly soul ties from my past. I forgive myself and them. Lord it's not your will that anyone should perish I thank you Lord for setting me free in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen 🙏🔥

  • @casspower
    @casspower Месяц назад +125

    I have been celibate for over a year and I’m happier now than I’ve ever been single. God cleansed my heart and took away all my lust❤

    • @StephRich888
      @StephRich888 Месяц назад +4

      The same here I’ve been celibate for 4 years

    • @cilieginatorta2674
      @cilieginatorta2674 Месяц назад +3

      That's what happened to me too! He changed me

    • @glendaschilder3048
      @glendaschilder3048 Месяц назад +1

      Me to..I was in sin a few years ago with my ex boyfriend who I wanted to marry..I found out ALL the reasons not to marry him..boy that was a huge mistake..not sent from God..I broke up with him..well I've been celibate all these years later and I'm happy just being by myself..no desire to marry anyone..❤

    • @glendaschilder3048
      @glendaschilder3048 Месяц назад

      ​@@StephRich888almost 6 for me, being celibate

  • @jaliyaharshell
    @jaliyaharshell Месяц назад +97

    10 YEARS?? THATS A DECADE. The Word of God is timeless. Lord help us to be obedient and discerning. Make us sensitive to your Spirit.

  • @Anne10-k4u
    @Anne10-k4u Месяц назад +336

    Celibacy needs to be normalized again

    • @erikaanthony2726
      @erikaanthony2726 Месяц назад +18

      Absolutely I have been celibate for 15 yrs and my friends laugh at me and Mock and say Gods not sending him and things like he’s not coming you’ll be waiting for ever and at times it makes me doubt that maybe God doesn’t have anyone for me I’m already 53 my kids are grown I have grandkids but this video just let me know those who walked away didn’t know my worth this video made me smile 😊

    • @Sithembilemthembu-e2w
      @Sithembilemthembu-e2w Месяц назад +16

      ​@@erikaanthony2726very true im celibacy too and waiting on God . there is nothing wrong with it . God hates fornication and cohobating.

    • @erikaanthony2726
      @erikaanthony2726 Месяц назад +4

      @@Sithembilemthembu-e2w Amen 🙏🏽

    • @YardyBritishfamily
      @YardyBritishfamily Месяц назад +14

      I am 4years and counting. No man since covid. I am willing to wait for the right person.

    • @chuchip9633
      @chuchip9633 Месяц назад +5

      True

  • @AndreaDelfish
    @AndreaDelfish Месяц назад +130

    As a Christian God judge me for fornication and adultery. But now I have repented

  • @J-aiJ-ai
    @J-aiJ-ai Месяц назад +142

    If you’re with a man and after seven years he tells you he still doesn’t know what he wants, that’s his subtle way of telling you he knows he doesn’t want you!

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад +7

      No, in between 6 months, if a man is looking for a wife, he will know if you are the one or not that early

    • @J-aiJ-ai
      @J-aiJ-ai Месяц назад

      @@thulani2640 💯%!!

    • @codzy3532
      @codzy3532 Месяц назад +1

      i been with mine for 5 yrs i cook clean give him sex hes unromantic works works works hardly talks but talks to everyone else talks nice to other ppl but behind closed doors he growls at me this will be 5th yr im waiting for him to fix my car im out of there when he does

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад +3

      @codzy3532 you know you are disobedient to God's word?, i hope you are not trying to get his blessing in this mess

    • @raindavisz
      @raindavisz Месяц назад +4

      ​@@codzy3532God bless you, I hope you can make the right decision and break up. God wouldn't want you in this type of situation, and neither do you deserve it. Pick up your cross and follow Jesus, and he'll lead you the way.
      Matthew 10:39 "Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it."
      Thus, let go of this relationship that clearly isn't glorifying God, being alone isn't bad but being trapped in a bad relationship is. God bless you and I pray you make the right decision. ❤🙏

  • @masilisomuyunda
    @masilisomuyunda Месяц назад +63

    When God chooses for you, no time is wasted

  • @yolandawatt1007
    @yolandawatt1007 24 дня назад +4

    Great video! Celibacy is protection for your life, temple/body, mind, soul, and spirit. Celibacy is God's word and HIS will. Wait on God, don't compromise or settle. Purity is priceless. You are worth the wait. Don't allow ungodly pressure and society make you compromise the word of God. God is faithful trust HIM.

  • @Kuhle980
    @Kuhle980 Месяц назад +98

    Please follow God's instruction and not your heart.

  • @Faithandseekerofchrist
    @Faithandseekerofchrist Месяц назад +128

    I think a year is long enough to know if they want to marry you and if they're not talking about marriage in a year then I don't want it.

    • @janelleprince9823
      @janelleprince9823 Месяц назад +7

      You are right. By then they would have all confirmation and making wedding preparations

    • @SanctifiedLady
      @SanctifiedLady Месяц назад +5

      If he chooses to stay pure that long… it’s up to him but you should never sin with him ever

  • @electratrinidad810
    @electratrinidad810 Месяц назад +27

    I am Lillian and my husband is Desmond - To God be the Glory

  • @AllenKukiiliza
    @AllenKukiiliza Месяц назад +83

    And why would you perform wifely duties for a man who even not married you yet😢😢😢

  • @indolilyindomitablelily7306
    @indolilyindomitablelily7306 Месяц назад +7

    May the Lord answer my prayers about marriage beyond my expectations. 🙏🏽, amen

  • @Oshuaregloria
    @Oshuaregloria Месяц назад +43

    I said a prayer last night for the Holy Spirit to help separate me from a loving boyfriend from an Islamic religion.
    This video couldn't have come in at a much better time

  • @MatildaMatie
    @MatildaMatie Месяц назад +22

    Woooow lord connect me with my husband after seeing this i surrender 🙏🙏

  • @LilliandraMcKen
    @LilliandraMcKen Месяц назад +125

    3 yrs is long enough for a man to know if he has found his wife, esp for a Christian couple. I would probably leave after 3yrs

    • @hiddenbeauty2828
      @hiddenbeauty2828 Месяц назад +35

      I would leave after 2 years or even less. Most men know within six months to a year if she is the one. If he isn't discussing marriage and the future with you within a year, he probably has no intentions of marrying the woman. There are exceptions to this rule, but the vast majority of men know who the one is quickly.

    • @LilliandraMcKen
      @LilliandraMcKen Месяц назад +1

      @@hiddenbeauty2828 True

    • @chosenbyyah88
      @chosenbyyah88 Месяц назад +22

      way too long
      a year is enough

    • @EstherAivinhenyi
      @EstherAivinhenyi Месяц назад +7

      A year is the Litmus Test for me with God Almighty of Israel direction in Jesus Christ Mighty Holy name Amen 🙏

    • @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok
      @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok Месяц назад +2

      ​@@hiddenbeauty2828U guys are lying,U wil never leave in 3yrs,quit lying dis is de real world not fantasy

  • @DeChronicles
    @DeChronicles Месяц назад +21

    I lived this. This is true. God tells us if we listen,but most of us ignore Him and try to bend Him to our will instead of submitting to His. This video needs to go viral because is the story of toooo many women's lives.

  • @MercyAluMusic
    @MercyAluMusic Месяц назад +29

    These Nigerian stories reflect how life is here but i am seeing these matters are global. See how this lady prepares all his favorite foods, his favorite vegetable soup so he can eat a fufu swallow of choice with it. Ladies keep trying to prove they can cook, clean, wash and keep a home for a boyfriend who has done nothing to deserve it. Many are living together and receiving bad treatment because children are now involved, no bride price or traditional things done. Being in a relationship does not guarantee marriage even after decades. The lady in this story already had a revelation dream but chose to ignore it. Being single is not a handicap.

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 Месяц назад +42

    Pornography and masturbation has created so many spirit spouses that are keeping people apart. This was very good and very educational.

    • @seanodwyer4322
      @seanodwyer4322 Месяц назад

      when ahh read those U.S.A. playboy mags ahhh got off on the funny cartoons.- Sex toys and Photos put me off as humans hide these on their beds

  • @Oshuaregloria
    @Oshuaregloria Месяц назад +30

    The gas illustration was brilliant!

  • @jusnae791
    @jusnae791 Месяц назад +5

    Divorced from a 10-year marriage in 2021. Dated someone for almost 4 years that went nowhere. This video came up just in time. I've been single, healing, and celibate for a good 3 months now. Lord, keep me aligned, heal me, and send me the husband you have planned for me.

  • @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense
    @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense Месяц назад +41

    Three years was more than long enough. She waited seven more years, what a waste of time!

  • @BelindaLilyEdudjanHammond
    @BelindaLilyEdudjanHammond Месяц назад +4

    6:57 watching from Ghana. I am very relieved now.

  • @chinasannoka4462
    @chinasannoka4462 Месяц назад +23

    Nice. Even if you court and remain celibate there is emotional pain of the relationship ends,it's a mistake to think that you will not be hurt. It is just easier to recover and far less damage is done than if you had engaged in a pre-marital sexual relationship

  • @Idkjustyet
    @Idkjustyet Месяц назад +12

    I shacked up & learned by lesson as a babe in Christ. God saved me & gave allot of grace in that situation. That’s not a lesson I will be repeating OVER & OVER. No way!! 💯🙅🏽‍♀️

  • @jacquelinevassell6615
    @jacquelinevassell6615 Месяц назад +24

    God is good from Jamaica

  • @maryrosehallowed6662
    @maryrosehallowed6662 Месяц назад +22

    Regardless of the term, dating, courtship, whatever, here is the deal:
    1. Make a list of what you are looking for in a man.
    2. Have enough self respect and dignity to not put up with abuse of any kind. If it feels wrong, it most likely is wrong.
    3. Do NOT live together before marriage.
    4. Court/date for a year... no more and no less. It takes months to really see who a person is in different situations of life. After a year, if it is so-so and they have not committed, don't waste your time. They just want to string you along. If it seems to be going good, ask them about timelines and where they see the relationship a year from now. If that is not enough of a hint for a proposal, move on.
    5. If you fall in love and are on that pink cloud 9, often we fall in love with an image rather than who they really are so wait and don't make any rash decisions.
    6. As a Christian we are not supposed to have sex before marriage, it is called the sin of fornication. I know there are many complications with sex, in my case it was 'things I wanted to know.' There are other ways of going about that. I just don't want you to make the mistake and be left holding the bag. You can get a disease, you can get pregnant, you can end up a single mom, or die in labor, or commit another sin worse than the first one. Most men are long gone once you tell them you are pregnant. They escape scott free and disappear, you are left with the baggage. Then it is even harder to find a husband once you have kids. They are not legally obligated unless married to help with the kids.
    7. I have seen women living with a guy and they already had several kids and he still has not married her.
    8. I know a case where a Christian couple was living together for 8 years. He never proposed. She ended up marrying his best friend. Not sure how that ended up happening but obviously she was tired of waiting around for him to pop the question. So he comes to work whining and playing the victim card and blaming her and how hurt he was and so on. I didn't say it but was thinking... well, if you didn't love her enough after 8 years to marry her, good for her! The clock is ticking!
    Don't make those mistakes ladies!

  • @faithazeez9316
    @faithazeez9316 Месяц назад +17

    Oh, this is powerful. I learnt some great lessons here.
    No dating rules for christians, but courtship.
    Take time to pray about everything and everyone lining them up to God's plan.
    Have a standard and stick to it no matter what.

  • @estherteye1499
    @estherteye1499 25 дней назад +2

    God bless you for these stories. The fingers behind the animations deserve some accolades. God you all for the amazing job.

  • @mbalipambo7364
    @mbalipambo7364 Месяц назад +19

    Watching from 🇿🇦 thank you for these inspirational videos. Eye opening and good way to grow spiritually.

  • @afenilukhelee
    @afenilukhelee Месяц назад +38

    That youth conference sermon was 🔥🔥

    • @chosen1316
      @chosen1316 Месяц назад

      I need to repent. If Fod if favour than He will truly give favour with my husband, in Jesus name.

  • @StephaniesWorld7
    @StephaniesWorld7 Месяц назад +10

    Love these biblical lessons. where is part 2 for victoria please ?

  • @KenyattaScott-c4q
    @KenyattaScott-c4q Месяц назад +1

    Baaaby! That undefilement of the body speech was top notch! Okaay! I am saving it to learn it so I can teach it to my young one's too!🌼💖
    I swear, I am not playing! I am going to etch this speech into my babies heart's 💕🥰

  • @princessgigiking
    @princessgigiking 9 дней назад +2

    A lot of men are not serious about settling down. They don't know what they want It's best to be single & patient until God sends the kind of man that's mature, hardworking, who's willing to commit & loyal, with serious intentions.

  • @RitahNajjemba-m1z
    @RitahNajjemba-m1z Месяц назад +7

    Amen 🙏, thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @robintriumphs
    @robintriumphs 26 дней назад +1

    Those demons from ungodly relationships definitely don’t want to let you go! God is able 🙏🏾

  • @Abimbola.Abioye
    @Abimbola.Abioye Месяц назад +4

    This was such an insightful piece. Weldone to everyone who put this together. Keep being a light in this world 👏 👏 👏

  • @truthspeaker1508
    @truthspeaker1508 Месяц назад +11

    Aside from that, there aren’t many men in the church and alot of Christian’s women pick apart every man they meet, wanting perfection.

  • @tamararamsey5455
    @tamararamsey5455 Месяц назад +3

    Beautiful story...we woman should learn the lessons from this.🎉

  • @lifewithemilykam2301
    @lifewithemilykam2301 Месяц назад +11

    Really nice video for encouraging Christian ladies ❤

  • @Spiritual.Warrior.777
    @Spiritual.Warrior.777 Месяц назад +6

    I’ve been celibate for over 30 years. No relationships. I’m still…abandoned. It just gets worse as you age as men only value youth.

  • @rosagoglia4649
    @rosagoglia4649 Месяц назад +10

    Thank you.. good lessons , morals and ideas🌷🌻

  • @peacheslove3499
    @peacheslove3499 Месяц назад +18

    10 years 😢😳 smh
    Sometimes as women, we need to speak to our men about what we need too. Speak about marriage from the get go of the relationship. Give the man some hints, after 1 or 2 years and you see no steps of a commitment (a promise ring, engagement ring, or marriage). Leave

  • @WyndellSSmith
    @WyndellSSmith Месяц назад +26

    I have realized that God will not answer our prayers if we don't alien our lives with his Instructions. Build a relationship with God and all will fall in place.
    Don't play a wife without being married.

  • @lizziegap
    @lizziegap Месяц назад +3

    Love this story very beautiful and practical😊

  • @ericasampa242
    @ericasampa242 Месяц назад +11

    Beautiful story,is there a part 2? Who did June get married to? I personally thought Sam was the perfect one for her.

  • @IniWrites
    @IniWrites Месяц назад +4

    This is instructive and edifying. Well done 👏

  • @mkpoutoakan6134
    @mkpoutoakan6134 Месяц назад +2

    Many lessons fused into one show. This was good, thank you!

  • @fionamcintosh4814
    @fionamcintosh4814 Месяц назад +6

    I look forward to these 👌🏿👏🏿🙏🏿❤️

  • @stevenleabon8032
    @stevenleabon8032 Месяц назад +14

    I want to not need man. Jesus needs to be everything to me. I have standards I won't have sex before marriage, but I wish I didn't look to marriage as an idol, or get obsessed with wanting this. 36 years old I guess I get fed up waiting. But I'd rather the rugt person then a divorce on my hands. ❤Jess

  • @janemathenge2820
    @janemathenge2820 Месяц назад +5

    To the faithful he shows himself faithful

  • @IGb4mwcbam46
    @IGb4mwcbam46 Месяц назад +17

    If a persons spouse dies the Lord will allow that other spouse to marry again.

  • @Key-Key444
    @Key-Key444 Месяц назад +7

    I love how these are real life scenarios.😅

  • @musiimeruthsheba1251
    @musiimeruthsheba1251 Месяц назад +42

    How r u going to get him to marry you if u have given him the only thing he is after?!

    • @SantiagoVeraLoor
      @SantiagoVeraLoor Месяц назад +4

      This is the mistake almost every woman makes which makes finding a pure wife next to impossible in this generation.

    • @misssterling3094
      @misssterling3094 Месяц назад +1

      @@SantiagoVeraLoor The whole predator and prey dynamic needs to called out. The onus should not be placed on women...men are not animals.

    • @krii998
      @krii998 Месяц назад +4

      @@SantiagoVeraLoorDefine pure! If you are a v1rgin yourself then you can look for a similar woman but if not then you’re a hypocrite.

    • @lovelyicy6395
      @lovelyicy6395 Месяц назад +5

      How is that a man of God is sex is the only thing he’s after? That is a carnal worldly man. Men like the world only think of sex. Men of God know that a marriage is more than sex and is about finding a woman to lead in love and guide her to Christ. Stop it.

    • @marcierfcc
      @marcierfcc Месяц назад +2

      Even TIME is a precious resource. Some of us are simply spending time with the wrong things in the wrong place.

  • @zipporahdebrah8800
    @zipporahdebrah8800 Месяц назад +3

    😢😢😢😢😢😢this vedio am sure many will not like it because the power it caries thank you so much

  • @shawkiwilliams2085
    @shawkiwilliams2085 27 дней назад +2

    I was in relationship 25 years. No, marriage staying together two kids and now they are adults. I have messed up my kids. I repent and it’s been 4 years celibacy 😊

  • @theresabeard5733
    @theresabeard5733 23 дня назад

    Thank God he put a Ring in it🥰🥰🥰

  • @NarnianLady
    @NarnianLady Месяц назад +4

    Good grief, ten years with no commitment?! How can you be with someone for that long with no shared walk with the Lord, no shared values, no common vision? Sadly, plenty of 'good Christian men' like to string women along too...The biggest reason of the singleness epidemics is that so few men are ready to commit. Many women I know are celibate, godly, devoted, and in ministry... and that does scare men off.. they want to have an ego boost and attention from women, but not ready to build a genuine relationship. Lord Jesus, please wake up the men and turn them to desire godliness!!

  • @nicoleblake2700
    @nicoleblake2700 Месяц назад +7

    This was awesome. I really enjoyed it.

    • @torivastoriesanimated
      @torivastoriesanimated  Месяц назад +2

      Glad you did ☺️

    • @nicoleblake2700
      @nicoleblake2700 Месяц назад +1

      @torivastoriesanimated keep doing what you're doing. You make Christian content very well. God bless you and he is using u to teach us valuable lessons. May God continue to protect your ministries

    • @torivastoriesanimated
      @torivastoriesanimated  Месяц назад +2

      @nicoleblake2700 Amen 🙏. Thank you so much, your prayer and comment really mean a lot🥰

    • @nicoleblake2700
      @nicoleblake2700 Месяц назад +1

      @@torivastoriesanimated you're so very welcome. I'm glad I said it. God bless you

    • @torivastoriesanimated
      @torivastoriesanimated  Месяц назад +2

      Amen 🙏 and may He bless you too ☺️

  • @Aphile-um2gq
    @Aphile-um2gq 15 дней назад

    THIS IS TOO GOOD

  • @mrstaylor8947
    @mrstaylor8947 Месяц назад +6

    Don't allow more than 15 months to go by in a relationship... Don't enter a relationship without a prospect of Marriage...
    Don't take a ring from someone who's immature...

  • @sylviathomas3218
    @sylviathomas3218 Месяц назад +1

    Thank thank THank you 👍🙏 God my Yahweh trillion Times 😢 for showing me up this strory for encouragement Amen

  • @stevenleabon8032
    @stevenleabon8032 Месяц назад +5

    I'd wait a year for engagement, then I know marriage is on the horizon. ❤There does need to be a commitment, 7 years is ridiculous, unless you are both at school, university then, it's possible to wait on marriage, if your friends few years, 1 year you want more get engaged 😊Jess

  • @LGGodaboveitALL
    @LGGodaboveitALL Месяц назад +9

    This is the truth! When I started dating my ex 20 years ago God sent me dreams that he was cheating on me and doing other bad things. I remember when I started dating him, not one dream I had with him in it was anything positive. I ignored it and figured I was just nervous. He was my first real boyfriend. Plus he was so nice and seemed like he had a good heart. But they can fake all kinds of things in the beginning. Let's just say that man put me through so much hell! I broke up with him many years ago but not before I gave him a son who he also dragged through suffering and of course, no marriage. Although I am happy I didn't end up marrying him (officially, spiritually God may have considered us married because he was the only man I slept with and when he died, God sent me dreams indicating I was a widow) still when I think of all the wasted time.
    It's hard, especially when you are young and come from a background where you didn't get a lot of love. But that's why God sends you warnings because you're not going to be able to see it for yourself sometimes.

    • @sailormoon5965
      @sailormoon5965 Месяц назад +1

      I have a similar situation as well except I marry my ex husband. And we have one son together. I had the same dream for years it was of him cheating on me with my sister. I pray everyday that he be removed from my family life.

  • @Stopherx
    @Stopherx Месяц назад

    🔥🔥🔥 Love this .. profound teaching.

  • @Evelyn-ex8yk
    @Evelyn-ex8yk Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for lighting my spirit 😊😊, was getting worried

  • @BUHLEBUZILE
    @BUHLEBUZILE Месяц назад +10

    I am starting to think there is no right formula for everlasting relationship. Some practice celibacy till marriage and divorce after a year. Some do n't stay long in the marriage. I am confused on what leads to happy long lasting marriage because I have heard many horrifying stories both pure till marriage and opposite groups😢 It's so confusing

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 Месяц назад +2

      @BUHLEBUZILE putting Jesus and his word first is the key to happiness, people don't put God first in choosing a spouse, and don't put his word before their emotions.

    • @opalwhitney3901
      @opalwhitney3901 Месяц назад +1

      Don't be lost and confused, be gentle, kind, forgiving, be love, endure pain, endure others bullshit, forgiving their trespasses as you forgive your own, love and pain are not the same but come in the same. Love sometimes is a work. Sometimes loving someone is painting a beautiful vision to them,... The more you give the more you discover your worth. Even if you've had a bad relationship or two.....whether virgin happily married or taken happily in a relationship....
      Happiness is important because love feeds the soul..... If you love even in your sin, love covers a multitude of sin.
      God loved the sinner even while he/she was yet a sinner. It is not who or what you are that your partner wants....it is the unconditional love you both work at that makes everything last longer then the sin or the the ring or anything.

    • @worldcomingtoanend
      @worldcomingtoanend Месяц назад +1

      Being a virgin has never been the only recipe for a successful marriage. Attitude, disrespect and condescending behaviour is the main culprit in destroying relationships.

  • @AnnGreen-o9e
    @AnnGreen-o9e Месяц назад +3

    I have been a widow for 7 years. Women at church think that I haven't remarried because I loved the husband so much.
    The only proposals I have had have been from a Hindu and a Buddhist
    I just look after my special needs and live my life as best I can.
    Anyway men expect me to pay for everything.

  • @adetoladorcas4212
    @adetoladorcas4212 Месяц назад +1

    This is interesting. More grace

  • @LilliandraMcKen
    @LilliandraMcKen Месяц назад +7

    I love this

  • @theresabeard5733
    @theresabeard5733 23 дня назад +1

    She turned the stove on and he asked if she was planning the House down.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ritaduffieldfollo
    @ritaduffieldfollo Месяц назад +2

    Love it!

  • @faithbwire9164
    @faithbwire9164 25 дней назад

    Thank you

  • @jenniferkenneth692
    @jenniferkenneth692 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much. Your stories are loaded with Soo much wisdom. God bless you sis💝

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady Месяц назад +7

    After 6 months and he doesn’t know move on.

  • @humbledman87humble36
    @humbledman87humble36 Месяц назад +6

    I think if we married according to what the Bible says it would be a lot of healthy unions but unfortunately vanity and inclusion of the state destroys everything

  • @lombivictoire7846
    @lombivictoire7846 Месяц назад

    Very interesting.

  • @clarawinny6613
    @clarawinny6613 Месяц назад

    Thank you for this series🙏🏿

  • @pdxpocoutdoors
    @pdxpocoutdoors Месяц назад +2

    Getting a “shut up about marriage “ ring isn’t good, either.

  • @Alexfitness794
    @Alexfitness794 Месяц назад

    Excellent

  • @lillyrose1422
    @lillyrose1422 Месяц назад +3

    These men are time wasters. don't waste your time with them..99% of the time they go and marry a woman that they have met for 6 months only...never give wife services for girlfriend prices....he needed a maid, not a girlfriend.....❤

  • @efe3097
    @efe3097 Месяц назад +8

    3 years is too long to date a man.

  • @blessings2414
    @blessings2414 Месяц назад +12

    Excuse me you can remarried after one spouse die and 2 God does not go back on his word

  • @starmadziva
    @starmadziva Месяц назад

    This is very helpful

  • @paulimoh6374
    @paulimoh6374 Месяц назад +9

    Full wife bundle without subscription 😂😂

  • @scarlettemae6576
    @scarlettemae6576 Месяц назад +5

    Part 2

  • @gretaw5967
    @gretaw5967 9 дней назад

    I love how in every cartoon the spaces are the exact same and there is always fume coming out of the toaster and flies over the pot on the stove

  • @EstherJohn-y1y
    @EstherJohn-y1y День назад +1

    My husband has dementia and bi polar! We have been married for nearly 22 years! Sadly the meds David takes has taken away the desire for sex plus because of dementia he has forgotten what to do! So in January I have been celibate for 9 years and onlyhad sex 3 times during that time!😮 love is more important than sex and marriage does not always mean you will have sex! We still love each other though!👍

  • @sharl365ayear
    @sharl365ayear Месяц назад

    12:44 a reminder to myself

  • @ussfreedom4422
    @ussfreedom4422 Месяц назад +1

    Ladies - I’m in my 30’s. I have lived this before. This is why my parents told me not to shack up because the Bible says that it is a SACRED COVENANT. Sex and marriage are a GIFT from God.

  • @nicoboiardo3612
    @nicoboiardo3612 Месяц назад

    Amen God is good God is love nice story when you Embrace God's love and his peace and Grace is the best feeling in the world when you experience is God love you know how to be loved and to love someone else and I always tell people how can you be in a relationship with someone if you don't know where their faith lies with God❤ Jesus Is God manifests in the flesh John 4

  • @Adjoa-n6i
    @Adjoa-n6i Месяц назад +1

    Amen

  • @petuniatsweleng474
    @petuniatsweleng474 13 дней назад

    Amen. 📌🙏😊

  • @stevenleabon8032
    @stevenleabon8032 Месяц назад +1

    Much more sensible June ❤

  • @oluwatomisinhephzibah743
    @oluwatomisinhephzibah743 Месяц назад

    29:34
    Please who's that guy yawning at the back? 😅