David Draiman from Disturbed opens up about his demons | Graspop Metal Meeting 2023

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июн 2023
  • "Ik mis Chester Bennington. Ik mis Chris Cornell. Ik mis Scott Weiland. Ik mis Keith Flint van The Prodigy en zo veel anderen. En als ik even heel eerlijk mag zijn tegen jullie? Zo'n 4,5 maanden geleden was ik bijna bij hen. Demonen als verslaving en depressie zijn heel echt." Disturbed-frontman David Draiman legt zijn hart bloot op de Mainstage van Graspop Metal Meeting: "Kijk even rond je en weet: je bent nooit alleen."
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    "I miss Chester Bennington. I miss Chris Cornell. I miss Scott Weiland. I miss Keith Flint of The Prodigy and so many others. And if I can just be really honest with you guys? About 4 months ago, I was almost with them. Demons like addiction and depression are very real." Disturbed frontman David Draiman lays his heart bare on the Mainstage of Graspop Metal Meeting: "Look around you and know: you're never alone."
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  • @R.Hekman
    @R.Hekman Год назад +61

    He's an absolute HERO doing this in front of so many R&R fans. Not afraid to show emotions, and telling the absolute truth.

  • @thecruachann2514
    @thecruachann2514 10 месяцев назад +11

    Dat iemand van dit statuur dit doet en zichzelf (en ook z'n publiek) zo kwetsbaar durft op te stellen, is niet alleen ongelooflijk moedig, maar het draagt zo immens bij aan het bewustzijn hiervoor. Dit gaat levens redden! Dank je, dankjewel, David Draiman!

  • @sylverstarduster
    @sylverstarduster Год назад +40

    Oh the tears🥺 Let them flow my friends. You are most definitely NOT alone. Fist bump to those who have been there too👊🏼& to the ones still suffering.

  • @WhiteErFox
    @WhiteErFox Год назад +8

    As you can see, they are only people. And the higher up you get, the more lonely and harder it gets.
    Lucky to have fans like these, and the fans each other.
    I wish him and everyone who was present, all the best. Big hug.

  • @brittvdr806
    @brittvdr806 Год назад +19

    Goosebumps AGAIN.
    Look how many ppl raised their hand.
    Including me.
    We are not alone!!!
    One ppl one love.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      Maybe they didn't understand him because he wasn't speaking French and just raised their hands because everyone else did.

    • @tomschannel1375
      @tomschannel1375 Год назад

      ​@@Throckmorton.Scribblemongerthat is not the case. I was that is not the case, I was there at the front. The majority of the crowd speaks Dutch as the festival is in Flanders, the Dutch speaking part of Belgium where basic English is understood well. It was a very real and touching moment.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      @@tomschannel1375 "very real"
      He does it all the time, including the tears.
      ruclips.net/video/eeIy_utxOzg/видео.html

    • @TriggK4T
      @TriggK4T 10 месяцев назад

      I love all of you, please know that you arent alone....

  • @hedernop1985
    @hedernop1985 Год назад +13

    He is so brave to speak about this human side of life to people who are at a festival to have fun and to have a great time. For a lot of people life has a dark side, which is difficult to show to others. David shows it and by that create awareness.

  • @timvijgen5996
    @timvijgen5996 Год назад +14

    I was there, man it was the most emotional moment of my life. i had a nervous breakdown after the show, i to walk away from the festival terrain and cry alone in a corner. Don't get me wrong i never had depression or suicidal thoughts and addictions but i struggle with insecurities in my life, i have
    self-doubt. And i don't want to write more about my problems this was difficult enough to write this down.

    • @Fulbor
      @Fulbor Год назад +2

      thanks for sharing, you are not alone

    • @timvijgen5996
      @timvijgen5996 Год назад +1

      @@Fulbor thank you

    • @JustinProper
      @JustinProper Год назад +2

      You did it man. You got it out there. That's what's important. We are not competing in any oppression olympics. You have struggles, I have struggles. We all do. Everything's going to be okay brother 👊

    • @maarkuhitaaa8995
      @maarkuhitaaa8995 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing ❤ I hope you are still here in this moment, remembering what he said. I had a breakdown in the crowd. I cried so hard. This was a great and very powerful moment ❤

    • @timvijgen5996
      @timvijgen5996 8 месяцев назад

      @@maarkuhitaaa8995 ❤️

  • @miranda231972
    @miranda231972 Год назад +5

    I have utter most respect for David, how he opend up, i was not there to see it, but this video, it made me cry, he is a wonderfull person, people don`t even realize how much it takes to keep the fans happy, often at the cost of drugs and alcohol or even dead 😥a couple year ago i had the honor to beable speak with him person 2 person, and than is when you realize he is just like you and me.

  • @elvolkaracho845
    @elvolkaracho845 Год назад +9

    We all are struggeling with our demons from time to time. What an impressive speech and demonstration. Seeing all these people raising their hands, showing „Yes, I am one of them!“ is a very emotional moment.
    Great to see. Thanks for showing it!

  • @mixedmymedicine
    @mixedmymedicine Год назад +10

    I was crying so hard! Especially when he mentioned Chester, and when I saw all those people raising their hands. ❤

    • @preciousone5496
      @preciousone5496 Месяц назад

      For me it was Keith Flint but, in the end, they're all devastating. 😢

  • @spiritworks.itegem
    @spiritworks.itegem Год назад +3

    David,
    Ik vind het indrukwekkend dapper wat je hier doet: je verhoogt het bewustzijn over de demonen die meer en meer mensen schijnen te teisteren. Het doorbreken van het taboe en het bespreekbaar maken van verslaving en depressie is essentieel in een maatschappij die ons leert van ons beter voor te doen dan hoe we ons voelen.
    Ikzelf heb mijn deel ook gehad, van verslavingen, van depressie, isolement,... Het kon slechts veranderen door het toe te geven, te accepteren dat ik er onder leed en vervolgens hulp te zoeken, toe te laten en te ontvangen. Dat was een traag en soms moeilijk proces.
    Maar het werd ook mijn grootste overwinning: mijn verslavingen overwinnen en leren omgaan met mijn gevoelens, ookal deden ze enorm pijn, ookal stond ik er toen alleen voor.
    Meernog door mijn studies psychotherapie te voltooien en in staat te zijn om niet alleen mezelf te kunnen helpen maar ook anderen heeft me grondig veranderd als mens en als man, als therapeut.
    Je mag je alleen voelen, maar je bent niet alleen. Je hoeft het niet alleen te doen, of je nu jong of oud bent.
    Zoek je stem, spreek.
    Zoek hulp, spreek.
    Laat je niet leiden door schuld.
    Of door schaamte, spreek.
    Vind je stem, spreek.
    Roep, huil.
    Laat je horen.
    Blijf er niet - alleen - mee zitten.
    Kijk rond jou.
    Kijk om je heen.
    Je bent niet alleen.
    Spreken helpt.
    -----
    David,
    I think what you are doing here is impressively brave: you are raising awareness about the demons that seem to plague more and more people. Breaking the taboo and making addiction and depression negotiable is essential in a society that teaches us of pretending to be better than how we feel.
    I myself have had my share too, of addictions, of depression, isolation,.... It could only change by admitting it, accepting that I was suffering from it and then seeking, admitting and receiving help. That was a slow and sometimes difficult process.
    But it also became my greatest victory: overcoming my addictions and learning to deal with my feelings, even though they hurt tremendously, even though I was alone at the time.
    Even more, completing my studies in psychotherapy and being able to help not only myself but also others changed me profoundly as a man and as a man, as a therapist.
    You may feel alone, but you are not alone. You don't have to go it alone, whether you are young or old.
    Find your voice, speak up.
    Seek help, speak up.
    Don't be guided by guilt.
    Or by shame, speak.
    Find your voice, speak.
    Cry out, cry.
    Make yourself heard.
    Don't sit there - alone - with it.
    Look around you.
    Look around you.
    You are not alone.
    Speaking up helps.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger 10 месяцев назад

      Fun Fact: In Vlaanderen is jouw beroep van psychotherapeut niet wettelijk erkend.

  • @laurascreamermagazine
    @laurascreamermagazine 10 месяцев назад +1

    Such a beautiful and strong man. Not to mention talented. I attended the show in Irvine and when he did this speech, I cried along with everyone else in the venue. Thank you David Draiman.

  • @MxRen
    @MxRen Год назад +6

    Tis must be shared world wide !!! Pure from the heart !

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      Dude does it all the time, including the tears.
      ruclips.net/video/eeIy_utxOzg/видео.html

  • @yotambraunshtein9786
    @yotambraunshtein9786 Год назад +7

    Real bro moment has huge courage to say this

  • @wilberweezorak5435
    @wilberweezorak5435 Год назад +6

    Thank you I am a alcoholic I have been there I still fight the demons I feel so bad about being a alcoholic I wish I wasnt

    • @m.forrestal5893
      @m.forrestal5893 Месяц назад

      I hope you're still fighting. You are honest. You are fighting. Your honesty and your courage means you have valuable insights and a valuable story to tell. Be proud. One day your addiction will be your friend, the source of rich wisdom and strength for others. Keep fighting! God bless you!

  • @karinnijst2358
    @karinnijst2358 Год назад +5

    This really touched my heart, he's a hero 💜

  • @bartmatton3612
    @bartmatton3612 Год назад +3

    Rip Papa Marnick Matton Miss Him Badly Thank You For Your Disturbed sound of silence

  • @jeanwonnacott2718
    @jeanwonnacott2718 Год назад +2

    Me. Addiction to opiates. Since 1995. I survived. 60 now, clean 4 years, on Suboxone. Probably forever, I was addicted sssoooo long....

  • @maarkuhitaaa8995
    @maarkuhitaaa8995 Год назад +7

    I was there almost front row and damn seeing all those fists around me was just astonishing. It was so empowering ❤

    • @Jacobyjasta
      @Jacobyjasta Год назад +1

      'Ten thousand fists in the aaaair!!'

    • @timvijgen5996
      @timvijgen5996 Год назад +1

      I was there too 4 rows away

  • @letsroamaround2189
    @letsroamaround2189 Год назад +4

    You are not alone

  • @lanastedman7933
    @lanastedman7933 2 месяца назад

    It really takes a strong man to show his passion about something like that. 🙏

  • @olemadsen1542
    @olemadsen1542 Год назад +2

    ❤ lovely.

  • @user-tt6fb2ot1f
    @user-tt6fb2ot1f 5 дней назад +1

    Forgive me
    I love you
    Please come back don't leave me alone in this world

  • @papatestnaamtestnaam5758
    @papatestnaamtestnaam5758 Год назад +4

    So heartwarming and true. We are not alone. Remember that. Spread the word! Thanks David.

  • @emmelieherwegh
    @emmelieherwegh Год назад

    🖤🖤🖤

  • @IzzyGames874
    @IzzyGames874 8 месяцев назад

    Whatever demons you also are struggling with David. Be Strong, there are not alot of People that have your enthusiams for the people among Rock Anymore. Be Strong. We love you Brother.

  • @yosefzee7605
    @yosefzee7605 11 месяцев назад +1

    An established rockstar being vulnerable!!

  • @CountryboyRew
    @CountryboyRew Год назад +4

    Addiction and depression go hand in hand. It's because of depression that people become addicts, I know this from personal experiences and from several friends and family members and people I've known through out my life.

    • @gaudelio25
      @gaudelio25 Год назад +1

      I feel you, went through the same. Depression leads straight to addiction, whether alcohol, drugs or both. Few people can get over it.

  • @tforal2
    @tforal2 10 месяцев назад

    You! Yes you! You are not alone...

  • @statom985
    @statom985 8 месяцев назад

    speechless

  • @brendajensen3989
    @brendajensen3989 6 месяцев назад

    Love him so much

  • @user-tt6fb2ot1f
    @user-tt6fb2ot1f 5 дней назад

    Im so so sorry
    I wish to live the rest of my life with you

  • @sylviapals1172
    @sylviapals1172 Год назад

    ❤❤❤deel respect

  • @bryanboonholland4402
    @bryanboonholland4402 Год назад

    Respect

  • @Linda-cb3xi
    @Linda-cb3xi Год назад

    ❤❤

  •  Год назад +1

    Addiction is not a disease David

  • @thibaultmorel8172
    @thibaultmorel8172 Год назад +11

    1:13 , heel Vlaanderen getriggerd 🙂

    • @DobuDobuDobuDot
      @DobuDobuDobuDot Год назад +2

      Qu' est-ce que tu dis? On parle que Français ici en Flandre.

    • @Xipzor
      @Xipzor Год назад

      Op vakantie in Frankrijk: niemand spreekt een woord Engels. Concert bij Disturbed, iedereen: Yeah!!!

  • @lindanorris2455
    @lindanorris2455 6 месяцев назад

    he's so fabulous!

  • @attilakurucz3356
    @attilakurucz3356 Год назад +1

    thanks for the upload. thanks David for your full honesty, I think the message is super clear. I believe the "therapeutic" and sincere words coming from these bands are the most important ones and are better and more effective than any of those of doctors.

  • @gilougilou6713
    @gilougilou6713 5 месяцев назад

    you are NOT ALONE

  • @sandrabright2461
    @sandrabright2461 10 месяцев назад

    Yes true

  • @ycaripsnocrednas830
    @ycaripsnocrednas830 Год назад

    Hope he stays strong

  • @gntrihg
    @gntrihg Год назад

    Appreciate the lovely shoutout to Scott Weiland. Not many mention him anymore

  • @tforal2
    @tforal2 10 месяцев назад

    This is such a honest prsy

  • @Renaisance01990
    @Renaisance01990 Год назад

    Every one's life is hard we're facing the same David

  • @augart89
    @augart89 Год назад +2

    I hope he is getting the help he needs. Layne, Scott, Chester and Chris didn't, in spite of the fact that they wrote and sang about it years before their untimely passing.

  • @user-hn2ep7uh5d
    @user-hn2ep7uh5d Год назад +1

    OMG look at all those hands. 😢

  • @silviabueno8729
    @silviabueno8729 11 дней назад

    ❤🇧🇷😘

  • @nikospapageorgiou57
    @nikospapageorgiou57 11 месяцев назад

    Dear David, as one of the many, allow me to quote the first lyrics of the song that revealed the full range of your talent to the world.
    "Hello darkness, my old friend
    I've come to talk with you again
    Because a vision softly creeping
    Left its seeds while I was sleeping
    And the vision that was planted in my brain
    Still remains
    Within the sound of silence"

  • @stevenbender4896
    @stevenbender4896 Год назад +1

    What song did they play before this? I know their music but didn't catch the song?

  • @nichtschwimmer4772
    @nichtschwimmer4772 Год назад

    😮😮😮

  • @SievertSchreiber
    @SievertSchreiber Год назад +2

    Let’s praise this man for doing this!

  • @donaldcornwell1151
    @donaldcornwell1151 8 месяцев назад

    That's what a good human looks like

  • @aquilamxp6267
    @aquilamxp6267 Год назад +4

    Struggling with long time depression, I cried with him there and then. Luckily, there is the metal scene where people become brothers once more.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      Were your tears real?
      Because he does this at every gig.

    • @R-jt4ud
      @R-jt4ud Год назад

      @@Throckmorton.ScribblemongerAre you real? What kind of question is that?

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      @@R-jt4ud Of course I'm real.
      What kind of question is that?

    • @R-jt4ud
      @R-jt4ud Год назад

      @@Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Then you're just very rude and lacking any empathy.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      @@R-jt4ud Spoiler Alert: He's a performer.

  • @JK-cs1be
    @JK-cs1be Год назад

    What song was he referring too?

  • @morinho7577
    @morinho7577 Год назад +4

    What was the song that made him so emotional?

  • @GreyWolves4Life
    @GreyWolves4Life 4 месяца назад

    Disturbed saved me from you know bad shit

  • @nederlanditisnederlanditis5529
    @nederlanditisnederlanditis5529 Год назад +2

    The total impossibility to be negative about this tells all about the undueness of this. Artists may evoke emotions not go peddle with them.

  • @mentosadoratie
    @mentosadoratie Год назад

    What song did he played after his emotional speech?

  • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
    @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад +7

    Can someone translate this to French for all the Flemish viewers?

    • @blizzride
      @blizzride Год назад

      Lol indeed😂

    • @ProudTarjaholic
      @ProudTarjaholic Год назад +1

      General knowledge of Americans 🤷‍♂️ lol

  • @jandehaan7445
    @jandehaan7445 Год назад +3

    Do not use drugs and drink responsible❤

    • @papatestnaamtestnaam5758
      @papatestnaamtestnaam5758 Год назад +1

      Sorry Jan, so true, but the advise is not helpful. A lot of times sedation is the only way to handle the demon of depression. On the long run it will turn out that your temporary friend is another harsh demon, but a lot of times the pain is too big too handle. And an addiction is better than stepping out of this life I guess. (sorry if I offend someone, it is so complicated)

    • @hammedburgerOG
      @hammedburgerOG Год назад +1

      @@papatestnaamtestnaam5758 How is this not helpful? Sedation is a way to cope, but definitely not a healthy one... I'm not to big on defending alcohol and enabling it to become an addiction. Nor am I saying that whatever demons someone might be fighting are easy to overcome in any way, but numbing yourself is NOT the way to deal with it.

    • @peterzon9303
      @peterzon9303 Год назад +1

      @@hammedburgerOG it is defenitly not the good way to code. Periode.
      But it is a very understandable way to cope when it feels that all hope is lost. It is important not to judge an addict.
      But my point was that 'don't do drugs' is a good advice, but it is not helpfull when you hit rockbottom. When you're, you just don't want to feel the paint and emptyness anymore. No matter wat advice you get.
      Of course drugs are making the problems way bigger end harder

  • @Filippenzen413
    @Filippenzen413 Год назад

    Kippenvel.

  • @ellemaatje
    @ellemaatje Год назад +1

    Come to Jesus
    Jesus said Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest; take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am meek and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls; for my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Mat. 11 vers 28-30
    Give your heart to King Jesus. tell your sin to each other and give glory to Jesus for releasing the demonic bonds you are now experiencing. The precious blood of Jesus sets you free, free from all demonic attacks.
    Say, "Lord Jesus I give my life to You. You have taken my sin upon Yourself and on the cross You have died for me. Thank You for Your precious blood is upon me. Thank You for going to Hell for me and death hath conquered. No dark powers have power over me now for thou art my king. Jesus is the way, the truth and life no one comes to the father but through me. Amen
    Get baptized in a community near you so that you can conceive completely under the wings of the Father the son Jesus and the Holy Spirit🕊🔥🙏🏻👑

  • @danielj.265
    @danielj.265 Год назад

    🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @meticana26
    @meticana26 Год назад +5

    He does this at like every show for many years it’s kinda cringe tbh

  • @mandalorianscum1138
    @mandalorianscum1138 Год назад

    He should have at least tried to perform better on stage! Man they sucked!

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      They canceled their next few performances.

    • @mandalorianscum1138
      @mandalorianscum1138 Год назад

      @@Throckmorton.Scribblemonger then there might be a reason I don't know about why their performance was so bad! Maybe something in one of the members family s, something else, those things happen!

    • @_GuzJ
      @_GuzJ Год назад

      Hearts on the brink of death, but he should have focused on his performance? Not really sure that comment was appropriate for a video as such. Not here to start anything, just want to inform you, hoping some self evaluation is done.

    • @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger
      @Throckmorton.Scribblemonger Год назад

      @@_GuzJ Drama Queen

    • @_GuzJ
      @_GuzJ Год назад

      @@Throckmorton.Scribblemonger When you aren't intellectual enough to have a discussion, resort to bully behavior.. 🤣

  • @paulrademaker4609
    @paulrademaker4609 Год назад

    The devil comes to steal, God Jesus come to give life in fulness. Repent, and come in the kingdom from Jesus Christ without demons but good angels, love, peace, rest and joy

  • @ang3ls_fly
    @ang3ls_fly Год назад +1

    idk him and i'm not a metal fan, but i really hope he'll get better and that he's surrounded by great people. i lost a close friend to suicide, and almost did lose myself too. time helps even tho i know time can be really long. i hope you'll all be patient enough to see that you can heal someday. 🫶