Why your relationship should be private

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024

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  • @QueenEsthersDiaries
    @QueenEsthersDiaries Год назад +762

    This happened to me some 10years ago and Yes! they got married but in my case it was God who saved my life… the guy turned out to be a terrible human. No regrets, not one ☝🏽

    • @tracieanncornwall4805
      @tracieanncornwall4805 Год назад +92

      What the devil meant for evil, God turned it into something good, God loves you darling 💕

    • @ehdoldelph2182
      @ehdoldelph2182 Год назад +4

      ​@@tracieanncornwall4805

    • @ethanrogers7457
      @ethanrogers7457 Год назад +1

      @@tracieanncornwall4805 8

    • @pearlchikumbi1675
      @pearlchikumbi1675 Год назад +18

      Wow..Praise the Lord 🙏❤️

    • @lydia8322
      @lydia8322 Год назад +10

      Congratulations dear. God saved you through their evil plan

  • @vivianlahai9157
    @vivianlahai9157 Год назад +147

    With friends like this, who needs enemies?? God, please grant us discernment. 😩😩

    • @mamab2937
      @mamab2937 6 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly

    • @KosiVentura
      @KosiVentura 6 месяцев назад

      Amen

    • @Heloo181
      @Heloo181 5 месяцев назад +3

      It is an enemy just disguised as a friend

    • @thelaw7614
      @thelaw7614 Месяц назад

      Amen

  • @chiamakablessing1969
    @chiamakablessing1969 Год назад +282

    "Someone that can lift you up the sky"...? My sister, you be sacrifice?? God please deliver us from every unfriendly friends
    God bless the winlos

  • @rosetabi4515
    @rosetabi4515 Год назад +264

    What makes you happy doesn't have to make sense to others....lesson learned.

    • @LICIOUS0777
      @LICIOUS0777 Год назад +1

      Amen

    • @allib876
      @allib876 Год назад +1

      Hard lessons to learn. Hopefully we grow from this lesson.

    • @opeyemiayoge1227
      @opeyemiayoge1227 Год назад +2

      God of Mercy, this is so heartbreaking. chai what a friend.

  • @Iamopepraiz
    @Iamopepraiz Год назад +393

    I learnt lately that PRIVACY is different from SECRECY

    • @markobazu4348
      @markobazu4348 Год назад +1

      What's the difference?

    • @starluzenja9861
      @starluzenja9861 Год назад +3

      True

    • @misidee
      @misidee Год назад

      @@markobazu4348your privates are “private” no secret because everyone has them.

    • @uniquemercyisaac2072
      @uniquemercyisaac2072 6 месяцев назад +2

      Share your experience pls

    • @KosiVentura
      @KosiVentura 6 месяцев назад +13

      Privacy is something the Holyspirit has been taking me on but I really don't understand it yet. I pray God helps me not to mess this season I'm in up.

  • @pearlchikumbi1675
    @pearlchikumbi1675 Год назад +311

    May God seperate us from the wrong people (those with evil intentions towards us)🙏🏽

  • @damarisabimbola4756
    @damarisabimbola4756 Год назад +620

    I don’t think the issue is with making your relationship public, I think it’s with the kind of people you let into your life affairs.

    • @favor9163
      @favor9163 Год назад +42

      But you won’t know the kind of people less they expose their heart or the Holy Spirit gives you discernment.

    • @tamekaandkids2207
      @tamekaandkids2207 Год назад +2

      So so true

    • @godismyhelp6359
      @godismyhelp6359 Год назад +27

      I think this is really about not allowing people's opinion of your relationship
      Especially stupid opinions such as this , because this girl was her close friend so in this case she wasn't making her relationship public

    • @eagleswings8661
      @eagleswings8661 Год назад +8

      I keep secret relationship until I got married.

    • @gofgan
      @gofgan Год назад +5

      Very true, pray for spirit of discernment

  • @greatifyusoro
    @greatifyusoro Год назад +49

    Every evil friendships in my life may God cut them off for me

  • @gatekeepershub4225
    @gatekeepershub4225 Год назад +120

    Some friends are physical brothers and sisters but spiritual enemies. I call them “frenemies”
    Bad company corrupts good.....

  • @thewhizzz
    @thewhizzz Год назад +130

    The same way my friend almost talked me out of marrying my husband saying he is igbotic he is not your type, are you bored ? she asked. Thank God i didn’t listen to her but the Holy Spirit and now i’m enjoyyyyying my marriage. Glory!

    • @FredaTanyo
      @FredaTanyo Год назад +1

      Hmmm, thank you Sis

    • @gyangtessy3393
      @gyangtessy3393 5 месяцев назад +5

      You too kept complaining, that was why others bring in suggestions, if at all you didn't complained they will not have room to intrude 😂

    • @josiahmukisa8809
      @josiahmukisa8809 5 месяцев назад +2

      I bet she never stayed after you announced the wedding...they are the first that desert you

  • @belwetmindclinic
    @belwetmindclinic Год назад +81

    I had to screenshot: "what makes you happy does not need to make sense to others." Deep...
    Thanks for this👏

    • @tumiloate7292
      @tumiloate7292 6 месяцев назад +1

      True true true 😭

    • @oluwayemisiogunkeye7713
      @oluwayemisiogunkeye7713 6 месяцев назад +2

      me too o, i screenshot

    • @Just.Zee1
      @Just.Zee1 5 месяцев назад

      I did too
      That word came at the right time.

    • @sibesoimutulo-sm6sf
      @sibesoimutulo-sm6sf 5 месяцев назад +3

      I did the same and posted on my WhatsApp status 😂

    • @hannahamara6280
      @hannahamara6280 5 месяцев назад

      This was not just the case, she was jealous and that is why she criticized him.

  • @Jesus-saves_992
    @Jesus-saves_992 Год назад +159

    I think the actual moral here is to put your relationship in Gods hands rather than anyone else’s. Don’t even put it in your mothers hands. GODS hands!

  • @letsdothisgodthing137
    @letsdothisgodthing137 5 месяцев назад +44

    It's the "Sharon, are you a witch?!" For me 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Whizyrel
      @Whizyrel 2 месяца назад

      Rose of Sharon 😂

  • @teensonfire6712
    @teensonfire6712 Год назад +123

    ' What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to others' woww am at that place in my life right now. The guy I want to marry doesn't really have all the money people expect him to have nor a befitting job according to them and even my siblings are kinda not cool with it but I heard God right and am not backing off..I trust that God who has commanded us to go ahead will see us through. Thank you Winlos I love you

    • @treshbee
      @treshbee Год назад +1

      Amen 📌

    • @josephkpalokunde2013
      @josephkpalokunde2013 Год назад +1

      may Christ strengthens you my dear. you will emerge victoriously one's you are following God's will

    • @sadraolaedo4733
      @sadraolaedo4733 6 месяцев назад

      Yes God spoke to you. Tell God to bless him financially before marriage. My darling these times are getting hard financially,God needs to bless him before you say "i do"

    • @josiahmukisa8809
      @josiahmukisa8809 5 месяцев назад

      my dear sometimes God keeps people at a humble level for but a time in order for your status at the time to just match abit with the guy because if he was loaded he might not have seen you...now that he has seen favour from the lord has come now he will rise and guys who he will be thanking to have come in his life😊

  • @janice7378
    @janice7378 Год назад +207

    It's easy to see this skit and say how you can be so foolish to listen to criticism passed from your friends BUT none the less I've fallen prey to similar situation in my life oo and when I look back I understand how wrongly I acted.
    Thank you Winlos for this evergreen and much needed life advice 💎 This generation need such videos 😍

  • @mireillemessan
    @mireillemessan Год назад +34

    She even had the audacity to asked her to be the maid of honor 🥺

  • @adanmaezenekwe2245
    @adanmaezenekwe2245 Год назад +27

    This type of friend is a red flag...disassociate quickly.

  • @stefanitepu7751
    @stefanitepu7751 Год назад +32

    It was Apostle Paul that solicited for the prayer of the church in 2 Thessalonians 3:2 And that we may be delivered from unreasonable and wicked men: for all men have not faith.
    Not all men share the same conviction that is furnished by the Spirit of God therefore the need for God to grant us light and understanding to discern them and avoid their counsel.
    God bless you the winlos for this

  • @namubiruhamida1671
    @namubiruhamida1671 Год назад +126

    What a teaching lesson 🤔🤔🤔,may God reveals to us all the friends with the dark hearts, pretending to be our advisors and we win them,in Jesus name, Amen

    • @nabulyasylivia6687
      @nabulyasylivia6687 Год назад +6

      Most people have dark hearts but you can't know ,but we thank the holy spirit that he can reveal to you anybody and his heart,it's upon to you to let the person go or not,holy spirit is the only true friend

    • @pleasantchioma3196
      @pleasantchioma3196 Год назад

      Amen

    • @ehdoldelph2182
      @ehdoldelph2182 Год назад

      ​@@nabulyasylivia6687

    • @aliciaharris746
      @aliciaharris746 Год назад

      AMENNNNN

    • @rejoiceoguchi5039
      @rejoiceoguchi5039 Год назад

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN

  • @godislove9330
    @godislove9330 Год назад +23

    Lord, please separate me from unfriendly friends.

    • @uniquegrace7354
      @uniquegrace7354 Год назад +1

      Even me too and sharpen my Spiritual eyes to discern

  • @oluwatosinfolorunsho9582
    @oluwatosinfolorunsho9582 Год назад +33

    Sharon never had good intentions and was jealous about Susan relationship with Franklin. There are some people who have such negative attitude and spirit towards people by discouraging and feeding their minds negatively. They are very manipulative. If you aren’t discerning enough you will fall for their trap. I have been in a similar situation like this, whenever I remember I feel so bad and with regrets. This life ehn, one has to be spiritually smart....

  • @ehinomenakhidue
    @ehinomenakhidue Год назад +122

    First of all, the friend played her part so well 😅. She's really convincing.
    Thank you so much for this skit. It's good to evaluate our circle to make sure we have the right people around us. When we notice signs of envy and jealousy, they should not be ignored.
    Also, everything should be taken with a pinch of salt. And we should seek counsel from the right people before taking major decisions.

  • @allib876
    @allib876 Год назад +17

    That's why our only counsel should come from God.
    The devil doesn't fight us where we are but fights us for where we're going. Get counsel for God and God only.

  • @unbreakablead
    @unbreakablead Год назад +20

    We must not entertain such conversations, words are like seeds, with time they grow... you wouldn’t act on their negative advice on day 1, but gradually it will be eating into your mind. Hmm great lesson

  • @BlessedLPT.
    @BlessedLPT. Год назад +59

    See life, the same person who used their mouth to destroy someone’s relationship, kept her same mouth shut until her own was due for marriage. Woww. It is well - it is so important to have godly counsel around you who you can discuss any doubts with; they would have helped her to see that she was making am the wrong move

    • @uniquegrace7354
      @uniquegrace7354 Год назад +3

      Wow! Another lesson learnt!
      Again, the first lady should have been patient enough to see that the brother was remorseful and ready to adjust when he was begging her before calling it a quit

  • @anyanwucynthia1275
    @anyanwucynthia1275 Год назад +23

    Don't be easily decieved,
    Mind who you call your friends, most especially in marriage mind who you relate to

  • @servantofthelord25
    @servantofthelord25 Год назад +37

    This is why it's important to have maturity in a relationship also be Guided by the lord a Man and woman are supposed to cover each other not embarrasse each other publicly...

  • @EvieJewel
    @EvieJewel Год назад +25

    "What makes you happy DOESN'T NEED to make sense to others." WOW love it ❤️ thanks for sharing. It's very important to discern & be careful of jealous people in our lives. Otherwise, they only come to steal, kill and destroy.

  • @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995
    @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995 Год назад +18

    🤔ᴴᴹᴹᴹ waw waw waw what a lesson. I love how this young lady is so natural in acting. She wanted Franklin all along. jealousy meets opportunity.

  • @praiseonahi4234
    @praiseonahi4234 Год назад +13

    I can perfectly relate.... people discourage you at your back they do otherwise....a big lesson learnt here

  • @rebecca-uf3pd
    @rebecca-uf3pd 5 месяцев назад +8

    'someone that can lift me towards the sky' exaggerated wedding ooo😂😂

  • @shaymay2892
    @shaymay2892 Год назад +13

    She wanted that relationship to end bad!
    Poor guy.

  • @TTHannah
    @TTHannah Год назад +44

    For starters, be wary of friends who dont seem to encourage you but find negativities in everything that you do. Secondly losing someone like that is not a loss but a tremendous blessing even though it might not feel like that at first but it will get better. Bear in mind; everyone will reap what they sow.

    • @beyondewhatsseen2790
      @beyondewhatsseen2790 Год назад +1

      The way u guys are saying it's the man's fault. I think u guys really should rethink the way u treat ur relationships that's the main lesson to be learnt here simple as that.

    • @TTHannah
      @TTHannah Год назад +3

      @@beyondewhatsseen2790 Do you comprehend what I wrote for starters. And secondly even if what i am saying, am I not entitled to my opinion?
      She lost two people her friends and fiancé. She is at fault but not as much as the friend who is slippery and the man who didnt go for anyone else but his ex-fiancee's best friend.

  • @2mammaR
    @2mammaR 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love this! This is so true. People will advise you sometimes because they are jealous of you. You have to be aware and keep certain things to yourself.

  • @KingDavo
    @KingDavo Год назад +9

    "What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to others". Very profound!

  • @benithabongwala9447
    @benithabongwala9447 Год назад +9

    The friend is so courageous 😂😂😂😂

  • @graceemma9417
    @graceemma9417 Год назад +8

    I think the Franklin himself is in trouble with the wife he's about to have

  • @ayokunlekajero9452
    @ayokunlekajero9452 Год назад +17

    What makes you happy doesn't need to make sense to everyone. Very true, Also, We should also pray for a spirit of discernment to be able to handle critics with wisdom.

  • @noroshut1082
    @noroshut1082 6 месяцев назад +4

    We all need the Holy Spirit's guidance in every decision; never rely on your wisdom or knowledge but on God's spirit and talking too much with others is wrong it can make you slip alot. Alot of issues should not be discussed with everybody but a selected few even in the church.

  • @yudellezion9615
    @yudellezion9615 6 месяцев назад +7

    This girl 😂😂😂😂 and she had the audacity to say it was the holy Spirit

  • @neemarobinson
    @neemarobinson Год назад +10

    This is a good message, God removed me from bad people that made me loose relationship that were into marriage, but i thank God now no regrets, i have a better man & more matured and hoping for the best.👏🏻

  • @_adenike
    @_adenike Год назад +3

    The message at the end says it all; "what makes you happy doesnt have to make sense to someone else"

  • @_missteelda
    @_missteelda Год назад +8

    May God save us from deceptive so-called friends

  • @fabalangtv1154
    @fabalangtv1154 Год назад +12

    This is a big message. As you serve God, serve Him diligently without minding what people say no matter the circumstances.

  • @gregustan
    @gregustan Год назад +15

    I think it's not about the public knowing about your relationship but you knowing What you truly want. Sometimes people's opinion could be valid and sometimes too could be invalid but you need to make the right decision for yourself and try not to blame anyone when it turns out negative.

    • @princessizedike4865
      @princessizedike4865 Год назад +1

      You're so right, this happened to me and it turned out that I made the best decision.

    • @uniquegrace7354
      @uniquegrace7354 Год назад

      Wow! You just nailed it 💯

  • @ruthekop5813
    @ruthekop5813 Год назад +13

    .. There's just something that happens when you keep listening to certain things.
    Before you know it, you begin to bye into their own ideology.

    • @teensonfire6712
      @teensonfire6712 Год назад

      Yes the power of repetition...it's like a seed planted and is being watered everyday it must bear fruits

  • @clavisaguti112
    @clavisaguti112 2 месяца назад +1

    😂😂that the holyspirit kept ministering to her 😂😂
    Help us lord on our friendship

  • @00.notonight.00
    @00.notonight.00 13 дней назад

    "wedding or birthday party" got me rolling on the floor 🤣🤣

  • @gracetaiwo6824
    @gracetaiwo6824 Год назад +8

    God deliver us from this kind of friends. Amen!

  • @GeorgeGraceOfGod
    @GeorgeGraceOfGod Год назад +8

    Will Ladies ever learn a Lesson?
    They don't know when their friends are envious and manipulative! 🤦🏽

  • @lovesworth100
    @lovesworth100 6 месяцев назад +3

    The issue is not with keeping your relationship private ..but u being content with who you have as a companion..not allowing the opinions of others shape your relationship.

  • @promiseomos
    @promiseomos Год назад +9

    I've come to learn that DISCRETION is different from SECRECY. And Prov 2:11 puts a seal to this Short video. God bless the winlos

  • @bellaanaba9126
    @bellaanaba9126 Год назад +8

    This lady is very talented,I love to see her acting. Thank's for this teaching,I love 💕 it. Remain bless

  • @elishashappinesscampaign1597
    @elishashappinesscampaign1597 Год назад +6

    Watching this firstly on Facebook get me angry at some extent because you may think such things are not happening around us, but it does happening and thanks to the WILOS for such skit. It a blessing and eye opener to young singles especially the sister reading this now. For the bro, all I'll say is... God helps us Amen

  • @akewiogoolodumare
    @akewiogoolodumare Год назад +4

    Well done sir/ma 🙏. Whenever I make my relationship public that is the end. No fight, the relationship will just end like that. Although we are different. Making it public works for some people but doesn't work for me. Also, we should let God be our first adviser before getting opinion of people.

  • @odezishemiandrew3136
    @odezishemiandrew3136 Месяц назад

    Don't live your life by the opinions of others, that's what stood out for me. God bless the winlos and the entire casts of this short clip

  • @josephchukwudi93
    @josephchukwudi93 Год назад +5

    Lass lass. Our environment should be watched. Mind your kind of friends. Mind who you listen to. People will put you under pressure for their own selfish interest. Their expectations shouldn't become yours always vet their opinion.

  • @natrinemweha8625
    @natrinemweha8625 Год назад +3

    Wisdom wisdom...We should be very prayerful for God to show us the right friends.

  • @ekeamadijacob619
    @ekeamadijacob619 Месяц назад

    Some friends are worse than cancer. May God help us to discern rightly..

  • @shaymay2892
    @shaymay2892 Год назад +5

    I know who the guy is!
    He played the witchdoctor for the actress playing the girlfriend!
    So cool to see in different character.
    Good acting.

  • @joshuangaaso3638
    @joshuangaaso3638 7 месяцев назад +3

    The most important thing is, ladies are easily moved by what they hear. And the best installers of negative information into ladies is their friends. A lady that is clinged to her female friends especially if they are many is vulnerable. 😊

  • @daisyzulu4119
    @daisyzulu4119 11 месяцев назад +1

    These ladies really know how to act. wishing their profession goes far💥

  • @PraiseAlways-vf2dv
    @PraiseAlways-vf2dv Год назад +3

    This is my own blood sister. All my meaningful suites ever. God forgive me and restore alll that I lost to frenemies and foolishness

  • @simplystacia7853
    @simplystacia7853 Год назад +14

    This incidence happens everytime hmm we just can’t seem to keep quiet about our relationships.

  • @cuteshaddyidiola3859
    @cuteshaddyidiola3859 Год назад +6

    This happened to me,God warned me about telling people about my relationship but I did not listen until it got worse

  • @ada8189
    @ada8189 Год назад +3

    There's this pressure and influence friends have. It may be necessary to change your influence...

  • @Sportstalkative773
    @Sportstalkative773 5 месяцев назад +1

    Listening to God is key......

  • @nataliecorbin1111
    @nataliecorbin1111 Год назад +6

    THANK YOU SO MUCH !!
    THIS IS CLEAR REVELATION FOR ME
    GOD BLESS YOU MORE AND MORE FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE

  • @vasteraggie1853
    @vasteraggie1853 Год назад +4

    Ehhh bambi love many but trust few this this agreat lesson to us singles never make decisions from others just trust God as our final decision be blessed the winlos family 🙌🙌🙌

  • @carlosvaz6338
    @carlosvaz6338 Год назад +8

    We have to learn discernment! Be careful… and learn to ask God for every decision

  • @lizz9478
    @lizz9478 Год назад +5

    I had a friend like this who thank God we stopped being friends and met a guy 6 years ago and now married. Had she been in my life would know where I’d be.

  • @chiny315
    @chiny315 Год назад +7

    Wow, this is good. Great lesson learned. Thanks to the Winlos as always

  • @pipaluv94
    @pipaluv94 Год назад +6

    Thank you for this educative video! More and more grace to function.

  • @getrudekabo7030
    @getrudekabo7030 Год назад +3

    Indeed it's a lesson, we need to careful for the friends we have

  • @kingsleyjoseph9903
    @kingsleyjoseph9903 Год назад +10

    I love the way her friend was calm...explaining and apologizing no matter her reaction
    😂😂😂she asked her to buy ashoebi😂😂😂😂

  • @olawaleolanipekun4620
    @olawaleolanipekun4620 Год назад +3

    It's also important to know what you want.....Strong persuasion of what you want will always win in the face of anything contrary..

  • @mildredkijzer7364
    @mildredkijzer7364 5 месяцев назад

    Hallelujah amen, do not trust not even your best friend, Lord have mercy🤦‍♀️🙏🙏🙏

  • @phyllislowe3942
    @phyllislowe3942 Год назад +1

    This is a good one. I hope there aren't many women would be so naive to break up with a man because a friend said so. ! Really, she didn't need the Spirit of Discernment in this case, just a little common sense.

  • @chungumusonda4976
    @chungumusonda4976 Год назад +1

    Oh wow😂, the way she was convincing her friend.

  • @adonaisservant1592
    @adonaisservant1592 Год назад +2

    Thanks for the lesson. I won't forget it

  • @maureenmwansa586
    @maureenmwansa586 Год назад +1

    That's why I don't get advise from friends especially sensitive ones this happened to me so it taught me alot don't trust a friend

  • @bettytheladygod7899
    @bettytheladygod7899 Год назад +2

    I think God needed me to see this for a reason

  • @christ_inspire_daily
    @christ_inspire_daily Год назад +2

    Alternative Title: "Why you should keep friends that have sense"

  • @mercyeiyo2877
    @mercyeiyo2877 Год назад +1

    This almost happened to me but i thank God 🙏He has been on my side, and her (friend) plans failed...am now with my darling hubby...thank you God
    We should be careful with friends some have hidden agendas😢

  • @NewNChrist2
    @NewNChrist2 Год назад +2

    Oh my. This hasn't happened to me but what a lessoned learned.

  • @porshiaamankwa36
    @porshiaamankwa36 Год назад +3

    “So you’re not coming?!” 7:59 😂😂😂that part really made me laugh omo

  • @ArorenPeaceOsaghae
    @ArorenPeaceOsaghae Месяц назад

    This is why we shouldn't do things just because someone says so or is not comfortable with what we do as long as we're not offending God ❤❤❤

  • @Jamie_4real
    @Jamie_4real Год назад +1

    Lol! Franklin is still in trouble with his new fiancée. Loooooooool.

  • @masegomoruakgomo9033
    @masegomoruakgomo9033 Месяц назад

    I heard a Pastor say keep it private until you know it is permanent (ie engagement etc). And he explained not to keep it secret but private meaning informing those that need to know like your prayer partners and mentors and others with experience on Godly relationships for advise and prayers but not the whole world. I think that is wisdom

  • @pearlchikumbi1675
    @pearlchikumbi1675 Год назад +2

    Eish...What an important lesson...
    Thank you Winlos for this wonderful video

  • @pafesuzi-praizes3522
    @pafesuzi-praizes3522 Год назад +1

    The most supportive wife ever.
    i love the yeah she answers at the back

  • @phoenixamanam9739
    @phoenixamanam9739 4 месяца назад

    All is excellent and to the Glory of God❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632
    @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632 Год назад +3

    Lessons. Thank you Winlos.

  • @allib876
    @allib876 Год назад +1

    This happen to me recently, they not married but I do know she ask him to do things for her. She doesn't talk to me at all. But God. He's an awesome God. I trust him .

  • @diyallthings
    @diyallthings Год назад +1

    Red flag 101 on this kind of friendship. 🚩

  • @lashananorwood1732
    @lashananorwood1732 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this skit this was an eye opener

  • @nylnyl.
    @nylnyl. Год назад +4

    Very good actors 👍

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад +14

    First off Franklin is wrong for even marrying her friend that was this closed to his girlfriend (although she’s fake), and this lady is easily brainwashed to break up over what others are saying, that fake friend is just what it is “fake”…All 3 of them are wrong on different levels. This fake friend who was saying how God said yes to marrying Franklin but she’s flaky, so I’m convinced she did NOT hear from God, it was messy and deceitful from the start…when she speaks, it lacked wisdom and authenticity.
    Neither of them did the right thing.
    How you convince someone out of a relationship, never told them that you’re dating the same guy, show up with wedding invitation, and with the audacity in asking to be bridesmaid and buy dress at least? (People like this really do exist, only wisdom of The Lord will help you to avoid them, if you lack discernment you’ll fall for their foolishness.)
    Now imagine, Franklin marrying her, when her real spec does show up, her real self will show again…This can go so many ways, she might enjoy the emotional security with Franklin but she’s not a good person, they somehow deserve each other. If Franklin had wisdom, he’d know to stay away from her. Lack of wisdom in all three people!
    Good job on the acting, everyone!

    • @damarisabimbola4756
      @damarisabimbola4756 Год назад +1

      Thank you

    • @shaymay2892
      @shaymay2892 Год назад

      I disagree. The girl broke up with Franklin for no reason! He even said she's "overreacting". So he went with the friend.
      Yes, lacking discernment, but he not wrong...

    • @sunnyhunn9315
      @sunnyhunn9315 Год назад +1

      @@shaymay2892 it’ll take “character judgment” to see how wrong Franklin is…! The friend is messy and lack integrity from the start, she went behind her friend’s back to date him THEN show up with wedding news after “ONLY” 6 months of them breaking up.
      She had a loud mouth to criticize and influence before, but cannot communicate with her friend (who clearly trusted her) about what’s been going on with dating Franklin after they’ve broken up, wisdom was not her compass so we know The Holy Spirit didn’t sponsor that relationship; which also puts Franklin in the wrong place as well, both are out of alignment.
      This is common sense, and also wisdom.
      Envy and dishonesty is written all over this, and God is NOT where there’s lack of integrity. I would NOT dare go behind my close friend’s back to date their ex’s that I told them to break up with…normal people don’t that, healthy people don’t behave like this; it’s about integrity and respect, only snakes moves like this: sneaky and clever in their ways, untrustworthy and selfish (even when she showed up to her friend’s house with wedding news, she didn’t even allow her the space to process what’s going on, she just wanted to convince her friend to accept her choice and disregarded how she felt, this is jezebel in action.)

  • @thenameisnanab2859
    @thenameisnanab2859 Год назад +2

    Sometimes too the advise might be from someone who genuinely cares about you but unfortunately the advice will not help you, so in all things you have to discern and make the right choice

  • @winimatics
    @winimatics Год назад

    Hmmm this is highly educating. God will continue to bless the Winlos abundantly with grace, strength, wisdom and resources they need to fulfill God's mandate in their ministry.
    I remembered when i was courting my hubby, his colleague's girlfriend was telling me how her boyfriend was giving her weekly allowance and making sure she doesn't lack anything. The thing almost instigated me into becoming angry with my hubby then for not giving me weekly allowance and it would've scattered the courtship but i decided to hide it from her and pretended that i was equally collecting allowance so as to obstruct more of her advice cos her advice was already influencing me negatively.
    Today am enjoying even more than the allowance and chaiiii HEAR AND FOLLOW GOD OOOOO