If she married this man with such a foul mouth, every day he would remind her she was picked from the gutters by him. He would never respect her. When you bless people stop expecting them to reciprocate. God knows how to bless givers
@@wandaanderson8779 so because he's single means he should demand for marriage in return? Nobody forced him to give yunno🥴 And what should a married person demand for then?
I beg to differ on the several comments I read here. The people did absolutely NOTHING wrong. If he was interested in her, he should have said it from the beginning and they would have weighed their options. Should we always demand for reciprocation over the assistance we render? No! Look at the way he was talking to them. If this lady agrees to marry him, he would neither respect her nor the mother. He would rather treat her as a commodity he had purchased with his money. The man is the one that is wicked. And the wickedness of our generation is when men insist on getting something back before they help someone. Today, many men demand for sexual gratification before they support students or help applicants get jobs. This is no different from that. This is wrong. I think we all need to check our worldviews, because they are evidently faulty. My take is people should be open about their desire and be open alsoto have others decide without being offended over the outcome of their request.
No worries...everyone is entitled to their own opinions...The easiest way to avoid those situations is DON'T HELP...LET THEM STARVE...What exactly is he doing for them that they can't do for themselves???? AS far as sexual favours, where? He is asking for her hand in marriage and wants to fulfill the traditional wedding rights...So let me get this straight...they came to him starving, pleading and begging ..HE FULFILLED THEIR WISH and now he is Wicked??? GOD WILL PUNISH THIS WICKED MOTHER AND HER UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER...It is not even their money they are using to pay him back with....people like this will need to borrow again ooooooooo..NEVER BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU...why is the mother going to a single man to help her young marriage age daughter anyway???? Sounds like a set up...Why not go to the brother first or a married couple or the church...or have the daughter work and save up school fees...there were other options...THIS WICKED MOTHER KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOING...GOD WILL PUNISH HER FOR HER WICKEDNESS AND THE UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER...
Nawa oh 😂 Someone should tie herself down to marriage, a life long journey just because someone helped her in the past Shey they paid his money back. How can one say they are helping someone, say it's for free and all of a sudden feels entitled, you sef reason it and put yourself in that situation. If I decide to help you when in need, should all of a sudden get everything I want from you. That's blackmailing not help, lol.
@@wandaanderson8779 so because they could barely feed, they have to sell themselves short due to the help he “willingly” gave… “without first communicating” what he expected out of it (he was sneaky about it // even legal binding contracts FIRSTTT states their requirements and criteria before a person signs, he took advantage of a sore situation). …Keep the same energy when a person “DEMANDS” you as a return for the help they give you. He didn’t show interest at first, then afterwards said “he must get his returns back..and that she MUST marry him”….(sounds like his true intent for helping her was beyond the impression he originally gave.) This is wrong; the basis of his request sounded like entitlement more than genuine love. If someone persuaded you in the manner and language in which he did I’m sure you’ll fall in love with him as a favor…he called her a “poor” church rat (very tasteful// every woman dreams of this day to be called such)..He certainly sounds like a sure and respectful gentleman a woman would be motivated to be with. Your logic is rather offensive AND immoral. Plus, your name is Wanda, assuming you’re a woman, for any reason imagine being treated like this. Or if you have children, imagine them being spoken to like this. Even God Himself doesn’t persuade us to become one with Him in such “rugged and disrespectful” manner, He is Kind, Gentle And Patient…Look at what God says love is, in comparison to this scenario, love was surely absent. Reevaluate the reality of this pressuring and entitling man’s approach! I’m sure no normal woman dreams of being “courted” that way…There was nothing charming and honorable there…He lacks in character, that’s a nightmare for every marriage.
Go back to the beginning and watch - the mother of Brenda asked him - are doing this for free? No strings attached? And the man said No - it's for free; No strings attached. So, mother & daughter have done nothing wrong. I suppose the man actually, decided to help because he saw Brenda as beautiful & intelligent (which he actually said in the skit) and desired her as a wife from the very time he offered to assist. So, the man is the person in the wrong. As the scriptures say - the Lord catches the wise in their craftiness.
Deep! I personally know someone that went through this while in the university. Unfortunately, her parents supported the financier and practically disowned the sister when she turned down the financier's proposal in her 200 level. It was the fellowship that footed the rest of her school fees (from 300 level to final year). That sister is happily married to someone else today!😊
She did well. May God bless her fellowship for the support. When people have shoulders to lean on, it becomes easier to refuse what could bring them harm.
Not every help is from God it's best you pray about it before accepting help from anyone. For the devil comes in the form of an angel Great video I'm blessed 🙏♥️
They did not disappoint him, he assumed too much. School fees is not bride price. I know someone who pays hospital bills, school fees etc for people and wishes to remain anonymous. The man is the wicked soul. They clearly asked him what he wanted from the beginning and he clearly said no strings attached. Now he is demanding the girl as if she is his property. This type will remind her continually all he has done for her. I am happy she and her mother stood firm. He is among those who use wealth to intimidate the poor
Sir collect your money... In pastor Mildred voice " school fees nor be bride price".. We need to be very careful who we accept help from God help us all.
@@wandaanderson8779 your reasoning is very surprising. I've read your several comments. If the mother never asked the man if there were any attached strings we could blame her but she did. So in this case both mother and daughter are good to go. It is if they had an agreement and now decide not to, then they defaulted. Even the way the man was talking to her, if she marries him, I pity her in that marriage
Unless you have a contract or an agreement with someone to repay, when you do something for them, you should expect nothing in return. God is the one who repays.
I’m always waiting for a new skit. When one pops up, I watch it immediately. I pray that you guys will make even more of them, they’re so enlightening and blessed. 🔥❤️🔥
Why didn't he lay out the conditions of his help from the beginning? Serves him right. How dare he call someone's child "ingrate?" Stupid man. All these people who prey on the misery of others.
He said that he would help them out of the goodness of his heart; with no strings attached. What a wicked liar. For him go go after a girl young enough to be his daughter….disgusting! The only rat 🐀 I see is him!!!
Actually the mother and daughter felt they were " entitled "" to his money for school fees..without so much as honoring him in any way as a thank you...That's why people don't like the poor...Their mentality is on a whole different level of UNGRATEFULNESS and they see ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH IT...This man listened to their crying and desperate pleas for help with feeding and their educational needs...He valued them as people and willingly chose to help the mother with feeding and the daughter with all her educational school fees...Money doesn't grow on trees, he had to physically work for that money...Now that she graduated and is educated she thinks she is too good to marry him...but she had no problem accepting ALL HIS FINANCIAL HELP AND ASSISTANCE...what does this man lack?? He loves her , he is wealthy, he's healthy, he's handsome, he has a house...he's shown her he is faithful and cares so much about her...THIS YOUNG GIRL AND HER MOTHER ARE IDIOT'S...GOD WILL PUNISH BOTH OF THEM..NEXT TIME LET THE POOR CHURCH RAT STARVE AND DROP OUT OF SCHOOL..BEGGERS CAN'T BE CHOOSERS
@@wandaanderson8779 hmmm, be careful with the insults o. These are real people just acting the characters they're given to them to act in the skit. Let's just pick the necessary lesson it teaches us and move on. God bless you 😊🙏
@@debd.9220 of course I'm talking about the CHARACTER ROLE THEY PLAYED....I don't even know these people..I'm not even on your continent..and I'm sure they' re not mother and daughter in real life and this story is just a skit...people are too sensitive and touchy...So you have never commented on a character or scene you've watched at a movie theater or on t.v.??
@@wandaanderson8779 your view is wrong on all fonts. Even the law won't support him. And God won't defend him. He offered to help and who said they didn't thank him? He feels entitled to her. I am happy they paid him back his money. He is a wicked soul. She is not his property and paying her school fees is not bride price. He would have said it in the beginning when they asked him. I know people who build houses, pay hospital bills and school fees for even those they have not seen and don't even wish to be thanked. His type will remind her always that he picked her from the gutter
The manner in which the man speaks reveals he will treat Brenda like a mere possession in marriage. It could have helped matters if he had made his intention known from the onset. Sadly he ruined everything himself.
True!! EITHER have them sign a repayment contract or go beg SOMEONE ELSE...THEY WANT YOU TO SPEND ALL YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY HELPING THEM, BUT THEY WON'T HELP YOU...NON NON NON NONSENSE AND RUBBISH
The man feels so entitled even after saying he was helping out of d largeness of his heart.. This is d problem we have in diz society.. Entitlement mentality.. May God help us to discern d kind of help to accept
Wonderful statement 👏. May God deliver us from people with the logic of that man. The girl's mother asked him severally if there was any strings attached and he said no
Always spell out your intentions from the beginning. It'll always be helpful a lot. The man should have declared his intentions and the family would have weighed their options too either to say a yes or a no.
Without spelling it out, this is always what is witnessed at the end; accepting the man's hand in marriage, as a way of returning his financial favours. Even if the lady decides to marry the man, it should be her sincere desire, not sentimental or compelled. Father, please; send genuine and godly helpers our way, not a "trade by barter, helper, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen. Glory to God. Well done, The Great WINLOS. I love your team and I desire to be part of it. Thank you.
Oga it was not by force to help, there was not agreement when you gave them the money. This is the reason I don't like taking money from guys o, because must times they won't tell you their intentions.
I'm shocked about some comments here... Even in the household of God, these are footholds in which the devil can come in through... How can you ask a lady to marry a man she has no interest in because he paid her fees? So are you telling her to marry him as payback? That man is a snake pls, he just behaved like the devil, that will give you with one hand and collect with 20 hands.
you dont want the money? what do you want as the repayment? i was thinking this morning that, God will not allow you to have anything you had been given by the devil, once you surrender your life to Christ, the devil's dreams and visions disappear, and you are left with God and open to His best!
Uncle, you're truly like a Father, it's father's that pay school fees in this part of the world 🤣. Moreover, God honour agreement. It's better we make intentions know early than assumptions
My mother taught me to NEVER TAKE ANYTHING FROM A MAN WHO IS NOT MY FATHER, BROTHER OR HUSBAND because they will always expect something in return. When will ladies learn that valuable lesson?
This video was wonderful, I was wondering sir and ma, when will you release prophet sudden, I watched the trailer live in IEC 2022 . I am anticipating the film and would like to know when it would be released, any updates would be much appreciated. Thank you winlos for the labors in the Body of Christ. Stay blessed.
In the year 2013/14 a man walked into our office to type his papers then said I resemble his mother, he brought phone and started giving me pocket money not knowing he likes me but I rejected it because he was too old, hmmm this things must be taken serious. Especially when it is coming from the opposite side. Becky
He didn't force her...He asked for her hand in marriage...She said No, end of story...But he did call her a few choice words out of anger...That friendship or relationship or whatever it was is FOREVER RUINED...Why do we do this to each other..it would have been better if she had a reasonable explanation for not wanting to marry him besides his age...She should of just said she had a boyfriend or fiance..
This was how I begged one of the lecturers while they were deceitfullly allocating hostel to help me that I didn't know anyone or have money to pay, ụmụ nne m he took offense oo, "why should you call me daddy? Am I older than your boyfriend?, can't I be your boyfriend, you don't understand what I mean?" and all sort of ugly words Chai! I quickly remembered that he is not actually my daddy, God is. But Men and brethren, Biko nụ, what is happening to people's heart these days?
This is what i pray for in my situation, what i only borrowed from people is money, because i was and still suffering, and my heart desire is to able to repay everyone i had borrowed from, money is repayable,
its not the matter of interests or loans, my prayer is to be able to repay everything i had borrowed, money is not my life, wow, when i still have my breath and God can make a way, this has just inspired me, and realised God's faithfulness, money is not worth my soul, money is what i had borrowed, and it is what anyone i owe will get, and if there is anything that my creditors will do to retain it, so let it be, Lord Jesus is my help!
Great skit!! I’m thoroughly disgusted by this man’s behavior. I would never take anything from anyone because I know the heart is deceitful and evil without God!
By the way where was the brother when the daughter needed that help? It's everywhere, my brother passed through the same thing, and the girl in question was his girlfriend known by all the family and he got broken heart and died last year 😭😭😭💔💔💔 I swear I'll never allow any of my brothers left get involve with any needy girl. 💔💔😭😭💔💔😭😭😱😱😱😱
He most likely didn't have the money at the time. As at when he did, it was 4years past and his situation had obviously changed by then. The man should have stated what he wanted from the beginning. Marriage is not something you can impose on a person because of money. Ps. This man obviously knows nothing about love. Love does not seek his own, is not selfish, malicious, overbearing, is kind and patient.
It’s NOT the same thing, because they were already in a relationship, your brother invested in someone who “initially” agreed to be with him, so I see where the disappointment can come from, that’s a a hurtful situation (Sorry about his passing). But this guy here said he didn’t want anything in return, then proceeded to pursue her and reprimanded her based on the favor he willingly gave with no strings attached which shows he knew what he was doing, he was indirectly grooming her through his help with the assumption it would work for his favor, he was shocked when his proposal was refused…In normal situations, when someone refuses a proposal, you let them be because you cannot force a person’s heart to love you; his disappointment was his fault, not to mention he was disrespectful and disgusting. He didn’t politely allow her to breathe on her decision, he pushed it and insulted her. Some people even end up marrying people they had no initial interest in, but that’s done through patience, sincere kindness and space to conclude a clear decision; if you still get a no, move on…This guy got bitter because he felt he was entitled to her life for the “help” he gave her. He said “you MUST marry me,” no asking, but suggesting, marriage is not a suggestion, it’s a question that must be met with a yes OR no.
@The Winlos , I like the skit and the thematic , but my question is : do you think we should pay back (money ) every person that help us ,when they have different expectation on us?? Thank you in advance
It's funny, people will pay back the BANK with INTEREST for a loan taken out...or people will pay back credit cards with interest but when it comes to an actual HUMAN BEING OR RELATIVE that they have BEGGED...then questions arise...should we pay them back???
@@wandaanderson8779 so please madam, do tell us which bank ask for “marriage” when loaning money. PLUS, if you know anything about banks, THE LEGAL BINDING contract to a loan FIRST CLEARLY states their requirements and criteria “for” loaning money. ANNND when an interest is sneaked in without FIRST being communicated to the borrower, it’s invalid because there was no initial agreement for it where the “TWO” parties involved AGREEEEED TOGETHER to it. That’s why there are lawsuits against banks and so on, it’s for a lack of intent and integrity to be CLEAR AT FIRST HAND. I’m watching from the U.S, this behavior from him is borderline harassment where a restraining order could be file against him. And obviously they returned the money, which they didn’t have “at the time” he helped them. Many people would just say no, and move on from him without any return because he made a VERBAL AGREEMENT when he said there’s no requirement of repayment (when the mother asked, that’s what he CLEARLY stated at FIRST// he didn’t give them the option of his true intent // I studied law by the way so I know what I’m saying) . If you “HEAR” well, this whole case from his end is unjustified…if this matter is taken into court, he would lose and probably get sued even more where I’m from…I’m not saying America is perfect, but this would not work in his favor. And they’d probably asked for the money to be returned back to him which they’re willing to…His frustration stretched further than just repayment, he expected a life to be bound to his which is priceless, and cannot prevail with pressure and insults. Through scriptures, even the intent of salvation is made CLEAR TO US, for us to “die” to our flesh…which gives us the opportunity to agree or disagree to the price of following Christ; how can two walk together unless they agree?…Before agreements there must be CLEAR COMMUNICATION to evaluate if the expectations are fit for “BOTH” parties.
THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS MAN....HE IS HEALTHY, HE IS WEALTHY, HE BRINGS HIS MONEY HOME, HE SPENT HIS MONEY ON ONE LADY, HE SEEMS FAITHFUL, HE OFFERS HIMSELF, STABILITY, A HOME, HE IS HANDSOME. HE PAID FOR HER EDUCATION..HE WILL PROBABLY SET UP A BUSINESS FOR HER...
@@wandaanderson8779 first you have everything in caps as if you are yelling at me or trying to prove a valid point, either way it doesn’t bother me. Why is he preying on a YOUNG girl he can get someone older or his age. He paid for her education but the mother was giving him his money back. He had an Ulterior Motive from the beginning. If this wasn’t a skit I would tell you go marry him since you think he is such a good man 🤣🤣. Not sure where you are from or your upbringing but men like him that has ulterior motives will end up being narcissistic and or abusive. Thank God I have never encountered neither. I don’t know how old you are but I made it to 53 in May and I want you to remember this. Everything that looks good, acts good, smile good, smell good ain’t good. Period!
Even God must be very angry seeing the lady say… WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME???Hence, her only offense in this skit, However, her family did nothing else wrong because where there is no appointment, there is never a disappointment.
For salvation, we just need to follow the way they did it in Acts? They repented and were baptized in water in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and received the gift of the Holy Ghost, Acts 2:38! Here's why! The gospel is the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4. If we are to follow him, we must do the same thing. Death= repentance, Burial = baptism, and resurrection = being filled and rising again from the dead and walking in the newness of life. That's what Acts 2:38 is. It harmonizes with Matthew 28:19, and all the other salvation scriptures. We can't pick and choose which scriptures we like or dislike. We must obey the gospel, 2 Thessalonians 1:8-9, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that OBEY NOT THE GOSPEL of our Lord Jesus Christ... Matthew 7:21-23, Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that DOTH THE WILL OF MY FATHER which is in Heaven. St John 3:3-5, EXCEPT for a man be born of WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, he cannot enter the kingdom of GOD. We can't come up with our own gospel. Galatians 1:8-9, But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. Don't be cursed. One way for all people. Jews, Gentiles, and Samaritans. Our salvation has to match up with the scriptures, and no scriptures on the subject can be taken away. Eternity is TOO long to be WRONG! St, John 5:39, search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me. The gospels show what Christ has done on the cross for us. The book of Acts shows us the beginning of Christ's Church and how to enter the Church, obeying Acts 2:38. The letters were written to the Church to show us how to behave now that we are born again into the Church. It's better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction. Are we supposed to follow the teachings of the apostles? Acts 2:42, And they continued steadfastly in the apostle's doctrines. Ephesians 2:20, We are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone. Don't get Titus 3:5 mixed up with James 2:14-26, about WORKS. One is a WORK of your OWN RIGHTEOUSNESS OR GOOD DEEDS, and the other is a WORK OF FAITH or OBEDIENCE TO GOD. If I buy you a cake and tell you to come get it, and you refuse to, then you won't have the cake even though it's been fully paid for. Christ set up the way, and we must come the way he set up to be saved or to receive it. Noah believed or had FAITH, BUT THEN WORKED TO BUILD THE ARK TO BE SAVED. LOT believe or had FAITH, BUT THEN OBEYED AND LEFT SODOM. This is why Jesus said, he that believes and is baptized shall be saved. They all harmonize together.
Go back to the beginning and watch - the mother of Brenda asked him - are doing this for free? No strings attached? And the man said No - it's for free; No strings attached. So, mother & daughter have done nothing wrong. I suppose the man actually, decided to help because he saw Brenda as beautiful & intelligent (which he actually said in the skit) and desired her as a wife from the very time he offered to assist. So, the man is the person in the wrong. As the scriptures say - the Lord catches the wise in their craftiness.
How about give without expecting anything in return. Especially when it comes to marriage. Lol you asking me for my life in return for helping a sister out.
If she married this man with such a foul mouth, every day he would remind her she was picked from the gutters by him. He would never respect her. When you bless people stop expecting them to reciprocate. God knows how to bless givers
AND GOD KNOWS HOW TO FEED AND TAKE CARE OF THE POOR ...So why is she begging single men for her marriage age daughter ????
True
@@wandaanderson8779 so because he's single means he should demand for marriage in return? Nobody forced him to give yunno🥴
And what should a married person demand for then?
@wandaanderson. She wasn't of marriageable age at that time when he started paying her fees.
Lord,give me the capacity to pay the school fees of others. May no one drop out of school or be ashamed when i can pay for them.
A powerful Amen to this ohh, I really want to helper for those suffering must.
By the grâce of God 🇬🇦💞
My niece is not going to school and she is doing grade 12... Please assist
Amen. I want that Grace and favor from God too. Amen.
I beg to differ on the several comments I read here. The people did absolutely NOTHING wrong. If he was interested in her, he should have said it from the beginning and they would have weighed their options. Should we always demand for reciprocation over the assistance we render? No!
Look at the way he was talking to them. If this lady agrees to marry him, he would neither respect her nor the mother. He would rather treat her as a commodity he had purchased with his money. The man is the one that is wicked. And the wickedness of our generation is when men insist on getting something back before they help someone.
Today, many men demand for sexual gratification before they support students or help applicants get jobs. This is no different from that. This is wrong. I think we all need to check our worldviews, because they are evidently faulty. My take is people should be open about their desire and be open alsoto have others decide without being offended over the outcome of their request.
No worries...everyone is entitled to their own opinions...The easiest way to avoid those situations is DON'T HELP...LET THEM STARVE...What exactly is he doing for them that they can't do for themselves???? AS far as sexual favours, where? He is asking for her hand in marriage and wants to fulfill the traditional wedding rights...So let me get this straight...they came to him starving, pleading and begging ..HE FULFILLED THEIR WISH and now he is Wicked??? GOD WILL PUNISH THIS WICKED MOTHER AND HER UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER...It is not even their money they are using to pay him back with....people like this will need to borrow again ooooooooo..NEVER BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU...why is the mother going to a single man to help her young marriage age daughter anyway???? Sounds like a set up...Why not go to the brother first or a married couple or the church...or have the daughter work and save up school fees...there were other options...THIS WICKED MOTHER KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOING...GOD WILL PUNISH HER FOR HER WICKEDNESS AND THE UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER...
Nawa oh 😂
Someone should tie herself down to marriage, a life long journey just because someone helped her in the past
Shey they paid his money back. How can one say they are helping someone, say it's for free and all of a sudden feels entitled, you sef reason it and put yourself in that situation. If I decide to help you when in need, should all of a sudden get everything I want from you. That's blackmailing not help, lol.
@@wandaanderson8779 so because they could barely feed, they have to sell themselves short due to the help he “willingly” gave… “without first communicating” what he expected out of it (he was sneaky about it // even legal binding contracts FIRSTTT states their requirements and criteria before a person signs, he took advantage of a sore situation). …Keep the same energy when a person “DEMANDS” you as a return for the help they give you.
He didn’t show interest at first, then afterwards said “he must get his returns back..and that she MUST marry him”….(sounds like his true intent for helping her was beyond the impression he originally gave.) This is wrong; the basis of his request sounded like entitlement more than genuine love. If someone persuaded you in the manner and language in which he did I’m sure you’ll fall in love with him as a favor…he called her a “poor” church rat (very tasteful// every woman dreams of this day to be called such)..He certainly sounds like a sure and respectful gentleman a woman would be motivated to be with.
Your logic is rather offensive AND immoral.
Plus, your name is Wanda, assuming you’re a woman, for any reason imagine being treated like this. Or if you have children, imagine them being spoken to like this. Even God Himself doesn’t persuade us to become one with Him in such “rugged and disrespectful” manner, He is Kind, Gentle And Patient…Look at what God says love is, in comparison to this scenario, love was surely absent.
Reevaluate the reality of this pressuring and entitling man’s approach! I’m sure no normal woman dreams of being “courted” that way…There was nothing charming and honorable there…He lacks in character, that’s a nightmare for every marriage.
Go back to the beginning and watch - the mother of Brenda asked him - are doing this for free? No strings attached? And the man said No - it's for free; No strings attached.
So, mother & daughter have done nothing wrong.
I suppose the man actually, decided to help because he saw Brenda as beautiful & intelligent (which he actually said in the skit) and desired her as a wife from the very time he offered to assist.
So, the man is the person in the wrong. As the scriptures say - the Lord catches the wise in their craftiness.
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Deep!
I personally know someone that went through this while in the university. Unfortunately, her parents supported the financier and practically disowned the sister when she turned down the financier's proposal in her 200 level. It was the fellowship that footed the rest of her school fees (from 300 level to final year).
That sister is happily married to someone else today!😊
She did well. May God bless her fellowship for the support. When people have shoulders to lean on, it becomes easier to refuse what could bring them harm.
Praise the Lord!
God bless her fellowship
Wow
Praise God!🙌
When the purpose of a help is not known, disappointment is inevitable
Very true
Exactly, but I thought he said there was no attachment. But if he had made his intentions know then agreement is agreement 🤝
@@peterasigri362 he said no attachment. He said he was doing this from the heart. Then he came with stipulation years later
This is why we need to be able to discern motives!
Not every help is from God it's best you pray about it before accepting help from anyone.
For the devil comes in the form of an angel
Great video I'm blessed 🙏♥️
This was a good word here and the first I ever heard
Exactly 👍
You’re right
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They did not disappoint him, he assumed too much. School fees is not bride price. I know someone who pays hospital bills, school fees etc for people and wishes to remain anonymous. The man is the wicked soul. They clearly asked him what he wanted from the beginning and he clearly said no strings attached. Now he is demanding the girl as if she is his property. This type will remind her continually all he has done for her. I am happy she and her mother stood firm. He is among those who use wealth to intimidate the poor
I MUST SAY THAT THE WINLOS ARE IN A CLASS BY THEMSELVES. YOUR SHORT VIDEOS MESSAGES ARE PROFOUND. GOD BLESS YOUR MINISTRY
God bless you 😊
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Sir collect your money...
In pastor Mildred voice " school fees nor be bride price"..
We need to be very careful who we accept help from
God help us all.
TRUE, but if she had to drop out of school, the Mother would be pressuring her everyday to get MARRIED...remember, they could barely feed...
@@wandaanderson8779 your reasoning is very surprising. I've read your several comments. If the mother never asked the man if there were any attached strings we could blame her but she did. So in this case both mother and daughter are good to go. It is if they had an agreement and now decide not to, then they defaulted. Even the way the man was talking to her, if she marries him, I pity her in that marriage
Unless you have a contract or an agreement with someone to repay, when you do something for them, you should expect nothing in return. God is the one who repays.
I’m always waiting for a new skit. When one pops up, I watch it immediately. I pray that you guys will make even more of them, they’re so enlightening and blessed. 🔥❤️🔥
Why didn't he lay out the conditions of his help from the beginning? Serves him right. How dare he call someone's child "ingrate?" Stupid man. All these people who prey on the misery of others.
He said that he would help them out of the goodness of his heart; with no strings attached. What a wicked liar. For him go go after a girl young enough to be his daughter….disgusting! The only rat 🐀 I see is him!!!
Spirit of entitlement. Mr Colins collect your money and let us rest
Actually the mother and daughter felt they were " entitled "" to his money for school fees..without so much as honoring him in any way as a thank you...That's why people don't like the poor...Their mentality is on a whole different level of UNGRATEFULNESS and they see ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH IT...This man listened to their crying and desperate pleas for help with feeding and their educational needs...He valued them as people and willingly chose to help the mother with feeding and the daughter with all her educational school fees...Money doesn't grow on trees, he had to physically work for that money...Now that she graduated and is educated she thinks she is too good to marry him...but she had no problem accepting ALL HIS FINANCIAL HELP AND ASSISTANCE...what does this man lack?? He loves her , he is wealthy, he's healthy, he's handsome, he has a house...he's shown her he is faithful and cares so much about her...THIS YOUNG GIRL AND HER MOTHER ARE IDIOT'S...GOD WILL PUNISH BOTH OF THEM..NEXT TIME LET THE POOR CHURCH RAT STARVE AND DROP OUT OF SCHOOL..BEGGERS CAN'T BE CHOOSERS
@@wandaanderson8779 hmmm, be careful with the insults o. These are real people just acting the characters they're given to them to act in the skit.
Let's just pick the necessary lesson it teaches us and move on. God bless you 😊🙏
@@debd.9220 of course I'm talking about the CHARACTER ROLE THEY PLAYED....I don't even know these people..I'm not even on your continent..and I'm sure they' re not mother and daughter in real life and this story is just a skit...people are too sensitive and touchy...So you have never commented on a character or scene you've watched at a movie theater or on t.v.??
@@wandaanderson8779 your view is wrong on all fonts. Even the law won't support him. And God won't defend him. He offered to help and who said they didn't thank him? He feels entitled to her. I am happy they paid him back his money. He is a wicked soul. She is not his property and paying her school fees is not bride price. He would have said it in the beginning when they asked him. I know people who build houses, pay hospital bills and school fees for even those they have not seen and don't even wish to be thanked. His type will remind her always that he picked her from the gutter
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The manner in which the man speaks reveals he will treat Brenda like a mere possession in marriage. It could have helped matters if he had made his intention known from the onset. Sadly he ruined everything himself.
I will not say much but just that I am tremendously blessed by this timely ministration. God bless the WINLOS!!❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
Amen and Amen
Great message, there's no free lunch anywhere.
This lady is truly talented...I appreciate the work.😍🥰😘
Hmmm. This is deep! Don't blame people for disappointing you blame yourselves for expecting too much from them.
True!! EITHER have them sign a repayment contract or go beg SOMEONE ELSE...THEY WANT YOU TO SPEND ALL YOUR HARD EARNED MONEY HELPING THEM, BUT THEY WON'T HELP YOU...NON NON NON NONSENSE AND RUBBISH
The man feels so entitled even after saying he was helping out of d largeness of his heart.. This is d problem we have in diz society.. Entitlement mentality..
May God help us to discern d kind of help to accept
That's so true.I needed to hear that today because I feel betrayed but I shouldn't really.God really speaks at the right time. Glory to Jesus.
You Guys are preaching good. God Bless You and Your team.
Where there's no clarity, there should be no expectation.
Faulty logic....
@@wandaanderson8779 🤷♀️
Powerful statement.
Wonderful statement 👏.
May God deliver us from people with the logic of that man. The girl's mother asked him severally if there was any strings attached and he said no
@@fj_channel4525 Amen oo🤲🤲🤲
Always spell out your intentions from the beginning. It'll always be helpful a lot. The man should have declared his intentions and the family would have weighed their options too either to say a yes or a no.
And so yesterday...I told my brother ...favor is good but try to discern by the help of the Holy spirit...May God continue to help us all❤️🙏🏽
I had a experience something like this but all thanks be to God through Jesus Christ that he's a God who doesn't sleep
Without spelling it out, this is always what is witnessed at the end; accepting the man's hand in marriage, as a way of returning his financial favours.
Even if the lady decides to marry the man, it should be her sincere desire, not sentimental or compelled.
Father, please; send genuine and godly helpers our way, not a "trade by barter, helper, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Glory to God.
Well done, The Great WINLOS.
I love your team and I desire to be part of it.
Thank you.
This is just not right, the fact that you render help to someone doesn’t mean they owe you if you didn’t make it clear to them for payback.
Poor Church rat? Yet he say's he loves her? Rubbish!!!!!
Did he lie?? She was a poor church rat...they couldn't even feed...
Oga it was not by force to help, there was not agreement when you gave them the money. This is the reason I don't like taking money from guys o, because must times they won't tell you their intentions.
No worries...YOU CAN BEST BELIEVE NEXT TIME HE WILL SAY NO....AND SO WILL MANY MORE PEOPLE
Well done Winlos... Hope to meet you one day
My mom use to always tell me that nothing in life is free.
except the air we breathe and the sunlight that hits our skin
Love this story from the USA!
Oga, gooooooooooo! You can't force her to marry you
Great Job. Be blessed.
For those who know what the Winlos Ministry and mandate is, continue learning and forget the arguments.
I'm shocked about some comments here... Even in the household of God, these are footholds in which the devil can come in through... How can you ask a lady to marry a man she has no interest in because he paid her fees? So are you telling her to marry him as payback? That man is a snake pls, he just behaved like the devil, that will give you with one hand and collect with 20 hands.
you dont want the money? what do you want as the repayment? i was thinking this morning that, God will not allow you to have anything you had been given by the devil, once you surrender your life to Christ, the devil's dreams and visions disappear, and you are left with God and open to His best!
LORD GOD use me to pay people's school fees. 🙏AMEN.
Amen.
Thank you so much for addressing this issue. God bless.
Lord Jesus shield me from people who give with untoward motives!
Thank you so much the Winlos. Your short movies are preaching great messages.
Uncle, you're truly like a Father, it's father's that pay school fees in this part of the world 🤣. Moreover, God honour agreement. It's better we make intentions know early than assumptions
My mother taught me to NEVER TAKE ANYTHING FROM A MAN WHO IS NOT MY FATHER, BROTHER OR HUSBAND because they will always expect something in return. When will ladies learn that valuable lesson?
What Brenda and the mother did was the best. I would have done exactly the same thing.
This video was wonderful, I was wondering sir and ma, when will you release prophet sudden, I watched the trailer live in IEC 2022 . I am anticipating the film and would like to know when it would be released, any updates would be much appreciated. Thank you winlos for the labors in the Body of Christ. Stay blessed.
This Brenda resembles Dele in Abattoir, mount Zion movies
Abi na my eyes ni 🤔🤔
Very good production and message 💐💐
Human being
More Grace to your ministry
Downloaded it just now can't wait to watch always inspiring
In the year 2013/14 a man walked into our office to type his papers then said I resemble his mother, he brought phone and started giving me pocket money not knowing he likes me but I rejected it because he was too old, hmmm this things must be taken serious. Especially when it is coming from the opposite side. Becky
Blessed watching this
The "Mum" is so talented, really love her acting skills 🤎.
Suggestion:: There should be a part 2.
Are there still men who reason this way?
He didn't force her...He asked for her hand in marriage...She said No, end of story...But he did call her a few choice words out of anger...That friendship or relationship or whatever it was is FOREVER RUINED...Why do we do this to each other..it would have been better if she had a reasonable explanation for not wanting to marry him besides his age...She should of just said she had a boyfriend or fiance..
This was how I begged one of the lecturers while they were deceitfullly allocating hostel to help me that I didn't know anyone or have money to pay, ụmụ nne m he took offense oo, "why should you call me daddy? Am I older than your boyfriend?, can't I be your boyfriend, you don't understand what I mean?" and all sort of ugly words
Chai! I quickly remembered that he is not actually my daddy, God is.
But Men and brethren, Biko nụ, what is happening to people's heart these days?
More Grace !!
Amen to the lesson 🙏
Must help be exchanged with marriage.
Gosh!!!
what i gosh? u copy every nonsense form the western world
@@austinjohn8713 okay.Goodnight
Short but very educative God enlarge you winlos
This Woman is talented ❤
This is what i pray for in my situation, what i only borrowed from people is money, because i was and still suffering, and my heart desire is to able to repay everyone i had borrowed from, money is repayable,
its not the matter of interests or loans, my prayer is to be able to repay everything i had borrowed, money is not my life, wow, when i still have my breath and God can make a way, this has just inspired me, and realised God's faithfulness, money is not worth my soul, money is what i had borrowed, and it is what anyone i owe will get, and if there is anything that my creditors will do to retain it, so let it be, Lord Jesus is my help!
Happy to here.
Eye opener thank you for using my name 😍
Deep…thank you
Great skit!! I’m thoroughly disgusted by this man’s behavior. I would never take anything from anyone because I know the heart is deceitful and evil without God!
praise the Lord
I love this! ❤️❤️
Me To ❤❤
He mever stated his intentions in the first place,so they cant be held accountable
No attachment.. the attachment is behind on ur head
By the way where was the brother when the daughter needed that help? It's everywhere, my brother passed through the same thing, and the girl in question was his girlfriend known by all the family and he got broken heart and died last year 😭😭😭💔💔💔 I swear I'll never allow any of my brothers left get involve with any needy girl. 💔💔😭😭💔💔😭😭😱😱😱😱
He most likely didn't have the money at the time. As at when he did, it was 4years past and his situation had obviously changed by then. The man should have stated what he wanted from the beginning. Marriage is not something you can impose on a person because of money. Ps. This man obviously knows nothing about love.
Love does not seek his own, is not selfish, malicious, overbearing, is kind and patient.
It’s NOT the same thing, because they were already in a relationship, your brother invested in someone who “initially” agreed to be with him, so I see where the disappointment can come from, that’s a a hurtful situation (Sorry about his passing).
But this guy here said he didn’t want anything in return, then proceeded to pursue her and reprimanded her based on the favor he willingly gave with no strings attached which shows he knew what he was doing, he was indirectly grooming her through his help with the assumption it would work for his favor, he was shocked when his proposal was refused…In normal situations, when someone refuses a proposal, you let them be because you cannot force a person’s heart to love you; his disappointment was his fault, not to mention he was disrespectful and disgusting.
He didn’t politely allow her to breathe on her decision, he pushed it and insulted her. Some people even end up marrying people they had no initial interest in, but that’s done through patience, sincere kindness and space to conclude a clear decision; if you still get a no, move on…This guy got bitter because he felt he was entitled to her life for the “help” he gave her. He said “you MUST marry me,” no asking, but suggesting, marriage is not a suggestion, it’s a question that must be met with a yes OR no.
This was so good
Love your videos ❤
There are people known as disasterpreneurs. They take advantage of your vulnerability to exploit you. May God save us from such.
God bless you guys the Winlos
First one to watch this good lesson.
@The Winlos , I like the skit and the thematic , but my question is : do you think we should pay back (money ) every person that help us ,when they have different expectation on us?? Thank you in advance
It's funny, people will pay back the BANK with INTEREST for a loan taken out...or people will pay back credit cards with interest but when it comes to an actual HUMAN BEING OR RELATIVE that they have BEGGED...then questions arise...should we pay them back???
@@wandaanderson8779 so please madam, do tell us which bank ask for “marriage” when loaning money. PLUS, if you know anything about banks, THE LEGAL BINDING contract to a loan FIRST CLEARLY states their requirements and criteria “for” loaning money. ANNND when an interest is sneaked in without FIRST being communicated to the borrower, it’s invalid because there was no initial agreement for it where the “TWO” parties involved AGREEEEED TOGETHER to it. That’s why there are lawsuits against banks and so on, it’s for a lack of intent and integrity to be CLEAR AT FIRST HAND.
I’m watching from the U.S, this behavior from him is borderline harassment where a restraining order could be file against him. And obviously they returned the money, which they didn’t have “at the time” he helped them. Many people would just say no, and move on from him without any return because he made a VERBAL AGREEMENT when he said there’s no requirement of repayment (when the mother asked, that’s what he CLEARLY stated at FIRST// he didn’t give them the option of his true intent // I studied law by the way so I know what I’m saying) . If you “HEAR” well, this whole case from his end is unjustified…if this matter is taken into court, he would lose and probably get sued even more where I’m from…I’m not saying America is perfect, but this would not work in his favor. And they’d probably asked for the money to be returned back to him which they’re willing to…His frustration stretched further than just repayment, he expected a life to be bound to his which is priceless, and cannot prevail with pressure and insults.
Through scriptures, even the intent of salvation is made CLEAR TO US, for us to “die” to our flesh…which gives us the opportunity to agree or disagree to the price of following Christ; how can two walk together unless they agree?…Before agreements there must be CLEAR COMMUNICATION to evaluate if the expectations are fit for “BOTH” parties.
@@sunnyhunn9315 This is a very brilliant submission. Thanks for the input to the conversation.
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If you love The winlows like I do, don't watch without liking and subscring.
I'm a big fan❤ i just want To see you in real life 😀😀
He mad 🤣🤣🤣 nobody wants his old behind 🤣🤣🤣
THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS MAN....HE IS HEALTHY, HE IS WEALTHY, HE BRINGS HIS MONEY HOME, HE SPENT HIS MONEY ON ONE LADY, HE SEEMS FAITHFUL, HE OFFERS HIMSELF, STABILITY, A HOME, HE IS HANDSOME. HE PAID FOR HER EDUCATION..HE WILL PROBABLY SET UP A BUSINESS FOR HER...
@@wandaanderson8779 first you have everything in caps as if you are yelling at me or trying to prove a valid point, either way it doesn’t bother me. Why is he preying on a YOUNG girl he can get someone older or his age. He paid for her education but the mother was giving him his money back. He had an Ulterior Motive from the beginning. If this wasn’t a skit I would tell you go marry him since you think he is such a good man 🤣🤣. Not sure where you are from or your upbringing but men like him that has ulterior motives will end up being narcissistic and or abusive. Thank God I have never encountered neither. I don’t know how old you are but I made it to 53 in May and I want you to remember this. Everything that looks good, acts good, smile good, smell good ain’t good. Period!
....'excus' sir, Mr Collins sir. 'Excus' me please sir.
He lied because in the beginning of the video he blatantly said "NO ATTACHMENT". Now asking for marriage is an attachment/arrangement
This is what happens when you expect too much from people.
Never help anyone because u want to be paid in return
Even God must be very angry seeing the lady say… WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME???Hence, her only offense in this skit, However, her family did nothing else wrong because where there is no appointment, there is never a disappointment.
He demanded marriage from her because of this. VERY BARBARIC
Owe no man nothing except the love of God
For salvation, we just need to follow the way they did it in Acts?
They repented and were baptized in water in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and received the gift of the Holy Ghost, Acts 2:38!
Here's why! The gospel is the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4. If we are to follow him, we must do the same thing. Death= repentance, Burial = baptism, and resurrection = being filled and rising again from the dead and walking in the newness of life. That's what Acts 2:38 is. It harmonizes with Matthew 28:19, and all the other salvation scriptures.
We can't pick and choose which scriptures we like or dislike.
We must obey the gospel, 2 Thessalonians 1:8-9, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that OBEY NOT THE GOSPEL of our Lord Jesus Christ... Matthew 7:21-23, Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that DOTH THE WILL OF MY FATHER which is in Heaven. St John 3:3-5, EXCEPT for a man be born of WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, he cannot enter the kingdom of GOD.
We can't come up with our own gospel. Galatians 1:8-9, But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. Don't be cursed.
One way for all people. Jews, Gentiles, and Samaritans.
Our salvation has to match up with the scriptures, and no scriptures on the subject can be taken away.
Eternity is TOO long to be WRONG! St, John 5:39, search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me.
The gospels show what Christ has done on the cross for us. The book of Acts shows us the beginning of Christ's Church and how to enter the Church, obeying Acts 2:38. The letters were written to the Church to show us how to behave now that we are born again into the Church.
It's better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction.
Are we supposed to follow the teachings of the apostles? Acts 2:42, And they continued steadfastly in the apostle's doctrines. Ephesians 2:20, We are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone.
Don't get Titus 3:5 mixed up with James 2:14-26, about WORKS. One is a WORK of your OWN RIGHTEOUSNESS OR GOOD DEEDS, and the other is a WORK OF FAITH or OBEDIENCE TO GOD.
If I buy you a cake and tell you to come get it, and you refuse to, then you won't have the cake even though it's been fully paid for. Christ set up the way, and we must come the way he set up to be saved or to receive it.
Noah believed or had FAITH, BUT THEN WORKED TO BUILD THE ARK TO BE SAVED. LOT believe or had FAITH, BUT THEN OBEYED AND LEFT SODOM. This is why Jesus said, he that believes and is baptized shall be saved. They all harmonize together.
Go back to the beginning and watch - the mother of Brenda asked him - are doing this for free? No strings attached? And the man said No - it's for free; No strings attached.
So, mother & daughter have done nothing wrong.
I suppose the man actually, decided to help because he saw Brenda as beautiful & intelligent (which he actually said in the skit) and desired her as a wife from the very time he offered to assist.
So, the man is the person in the wrong. As the scriptures say - the Lord catches the wise in their craftiness.
So falling in love and proposing to a young lady, asking for her hand in marriage is now a crime ??
So true joy
@@wandaanderson8779 calling her wicked for saying no is what is not godly.
@@wandaanderson8779using school fees or help offered as a tool to blackmail her is the crime we are talking about
How about give without expecting anything in return.
Especially when it comes to marriage. Lol you asking me for my life in return for helping a sister out.
He is a narcissist.
Doing things with ulterior motive. Hmm
I'm first ❤️❤️❤️🙏
The guy is a greedy mofo. Wants to buy the young gal for ₦140,000
Ok! That man need help.
I love this but brendas wig is stressing me 😭
Just take the message not wig
@@maggielutaaya2691 anyways
Imagine trading a lifetime experience for 140k.. God abeg ooo
Did not like how this video end is there a second part
Hmmm
She did the right thing
Not everybody's help are to be accepted
Hmm