Seeing other people? Communication problems? Don't want bio children? | YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT US
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Emily loves her man so much and she's not afraid to show it. Real love still exist. God bless you both
Josh is now well spoken, and the way he looks at Emilie is true love
Let's all agree that they are such an admirable family. I like how respectful u are for each other..🥰😍 You make such a beautiful family.
Yes Josh is opening up more. Thumbs up to Josh
I am currently away from my Ugandan husband for the next year until he finishes his university degree. I kept getting malaria and had to leave. Long- distance relationships are difficult enough but Ugandan men don't typically verbalize much on issues of love even in person let alone via texting. I think its their culture. I know what you mean. And women need that affirmation of love alot even in writing or we assume they don't care anymore. The struggle is real lol Also, same with my husband, when I came to Uganda 9 years ago he had a job but we started an NGO which took so much time and effort and it made more sense that he work for it instead. I am able to make up the small difference in income as Ugandans earn very little money in a month working long hours and Saturdays. People are quick to judge. Also my husband and I would prefer to stay in Uganda. He is not seeking a visa either. We may spend some time here in US for him to work awhile and get experience but then go back to Uganda and build. Sorry for the lengthy comment 🤭
It's ok darling, your point is clear
I understand you. My husband is American. To be honest, it's still a fuss for people to understand that he married a Ugandan and I don't want to relocate to the US. To be honest, I can only visit, but I find my home Uganda a lot comfortable for me and our family.
I think the narrative has been twisted, and it will be good for people to know that you can have such a relationship and it's not based on personal interests.
Long distance is tough, and like you said, we spend at least 6 months apart, but it definitely takes a lot of work. 5 years down the road, we are growing strong. So hang on Emily & Josh.
I think Josh and Emilie complement each other well.
I think Josh is more calm/ laid back and Emilie stricter and hands on which is necessary to bring up any family!
I love how Josh looks at Emily, like “whatever you say dear”
Secret to happy wife ..happy life 😂😂
So true I think Europeans and western as have this falls idea of romance there was a Vietnamese lady she said she never tell her husband she love him But he turn it said when you rub my back and you lay your head on my shoulder I know you love me my eyes was tears
Did I flip that ⬆️ ⬆️ 🤣🤣😂😂
Yes
@@natly3123non wife. He's not bothered
Josh killed me with laughter" I just wake up to what the day brings "!
Sounds like my husband!!!!
"waking up to what the day brings" may be sustainable in Uganda and elsewhere. Still, it would be hard to maintain such a lifestyle in most Western countries, America especially. You either have a plan or drown in bills, become homeless, and live off the welfare system. Life in America and arguably other Western countries is anxiety-inducing. The key is finding a balance between the fast pace work life and personal life, which requires having some form of a plan. Making decisions on a whim will likely lead to dire outcomes-peace, love, life.
@@jacobe5495this is true
i honestly cant believe what some people have said about you guys, what happened to if you dont have anything nice to say then you dont say anything at all. If you two are happy and your babies are happy then thats all thats matters. I think your a brilliant couple and great parents. Fingers crossed things speed up for you guys and you can be together all the time soon
I agree with you 100%.. Some people can be so cruel .:I’m so happy that they know how to disregard ignorance.!!!🙋🏿♀️..My question would be ..would you want Adam to grow up without any parents ..?If Emily had not adopted him .. there is no guarantee he would’ve had even one parent ..if she had not made that decision. His biological mother died after childbirth..let’s be real here 🤔.. ok? That’s why here in the US there’s so many children that are up for adoption 400,000+..Before you come after me ..I have to tell you this..my husband and I adopted a newborn baby 37 years ago ..so just keep that thought to yourself🥰. I try not to give mean comments.. 🤔..but it really does bother me when I see things that I can’t make sense of 🤔..thank you Emilie and Josh for your open hearts and love you share for each other and this unconditional love you have for these kids.. I am praying that things will work out for you guys to be together soon ..
I love you boat so much
Emily I adopted three black children from different family's in the uk we are white and you are right Emily you dont see colour you just teach the of their culture that is why we did not adopt white children after the first so they were not alone. The are all grown up now and happily married so Emily and Josh you will get there and all of you will be together soon keep pushing josh we can see how much Emily and you love each other and love the kids I pray for you all.😘😘😘😘😘😘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏xxxxxx
I disagree with you on that …. *don’t see color* . You have to see color because that’s what makes us different.. we are equal but not the same..
that make us unique. You have skincare/ hair care/ and if culture is different you have to take into consideration THAT difference. You will never be able to experience or feel what a black person feels ..when they’re shunned or treated differently, only because of their skin color.. which I’m sure you’ve seen,
..but when you love someone you hurt when they hurt and feel joy when they do.. Of course, you love them unconditionally as a family ‘, but you must see color in order to have a healthy and realistic view of multicultural family living in a cruel world where everyone is not on the same page. ❤
@@natly3123 I did not mean any malice I love my children I was well aware of the differences that’s why I went to research all these things and had friends who went through how to treat there Hair skin culture and treated them correctly I found your message offence we are all the same so why have you come at me or would you have preferred these children to be passed around in care home or in a loving home a good education and able to make a difference in the world. I had all this in the 1970/1980s and fort for them then and will continue to fight.
I think what @natly meant is you have to acknowledge the skin colour differences. Very often white people say "we don't see colour " because you fear being branded as racists. Acknowledging someone else's race is not racist, infact it highlights our differences, and black kids with white parents often struggle with identy because they live in spaces that don't acknowledge there blackness. When white people play colour blindness with people of colour, they also unconsciously invalidate their struggles,
@@175muffin I know for sure you were not malicious 🙏🏽.. it’s just that point of view I wanted to highlight
Well done Eileen's and all other families out there giving their homes and lives to the children in need .One needs to work in social care in order to understand what's going on.
I love how you sacrifice your lives to help those kids👏👏❤️❤️Emily you will teach Josh to plan so lots of things can be achieved🙏🙏Josh you will help Emily to slow down and chill more than being anxious for everything!!! Blessings upon blessings to you all❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Some of those questions were painful to read, but you answered with candor and kindness. I think I would take offense had people asked me those same questions and maybe even those who asked them would take offense. More love to you and Josh for answering in love.
Please hang in there and don’t give up on each other-if distance is the only problem (you are an absolutely lovely family). I am waiting for the day JOSH starts talking more😅💖💙
Since the day I went through your videos n now I got addicted on you guys.... Lot of Love from India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
My favorite online family. Watching from Botswana 🇧🇼🇧🇼
All I see is two wonderful good people loving..caring...and who want to be have a loving family and be together...I hope and pray all your dreams come true and those little ones are blessed to have you...lots of love from South Africa ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Josh has really improved with his English, you guys are great parents ❤️
I do love the look of love that Josh gives you, sometimes it looks as if he’s about to kiss you. Is he probably shy about showing public emotions. Some people are like and everyone has different love languages. Be patient with each other, and ask for what you want from each other when it comes to love. Josh loves you Emily!!!!!!!!! Blessings
This video was authentic, and I enjoyed it. If I may make a suggestion though. To ensure Josh is employable when he gets to the UK. Why not have him learn a marketable skill in the meantime.
Iam your fan thank you for answering the questions , I feel like I gained more understanding of your relationship and situation, you guys keep it real and I like that. Josh is not there for the money , I think he is a great person and Emily as well. All the love from Uganda
That’s all we wanted to do - not pretend everything is perfect, but be real and honest with you all!
Don't lose faith and prayers for your family to soon be United as one
Loved how honest you both answered and some of the questions were really direct and pets, so well done to you both... Hugs from Donna and family xx here in Liverpool UK 🇬🇧 💕
The children going to be all right, just keep calling them every day, keep telling them how much you love them, that will make them happy beautiful family love you all
I love you two and your beutiful family. Keep being yourselves 💖 I can see Josh loves and appreciate Emily a lot.
Thanks so much for making this video Emilie and Josh. Many people, especially new people, needed to hear more about you guys. I do understand why Josh doesn’t talk a lot ..I would be like that if I lived in his country..It’s only natural ..that it takes him longer to speak ..because he does have to think about what he’s going to say..English is not his native language. Josh you are doing great with speaking English and expressing yourself.. and we enjoy seeing you in these videos and also you sending Emilie updates from Uganda. My heart skips a few beats when I see how much those kids love you guys and vice versa; when interacting with them .. both of you.. it is self-explanatory.. the love is there🥰. Stay encouraged.. things will work out..🥰🥰❤️❤️
Brave answers.
Very sad to leave the children behind as they don’t understand time….
I'm so with you Emily about the list!! It's the crossing out that does it for me as I tick them first once I've done what I needed to do, then I cross it out when I've double checked I have 100% have done it (final checks) 😂 💚
Emilie & Adam's return to the UK will be hardest on Tallie but with reassurance she'll be fine
This is the most transperent and honest,assumptions video.
We tried to be! Nothing is ever perfect - so we don't want to pretend we are. Some of these assumptions were brutal though!
Love you both alot and I pray that one day you can all be together without the distance. Beautiful couple 🥰💗
Don't mind what people say just enjoy any moment ur together, take care of each other and always be happy
I found communication is better when we learn the language of the country
I'm Welsh now in W Africa
The two show true love for each other....what a beautiful lady at heart...love from kenya
Awwwww♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ sending you lots of prayers that you get to reunite soonest beautiful people
You both look happy and the kids seem to be very happy. Pray all's goes well for your family.💕🥰 Much love to you all 👍🙏
Every relationship has transition. It's how strong and willing to build your family Love and friendship and strong the willingness To except A person that speaks a different language in a different country That time and willingness will determine how strong your bond is and it will always grow harder against And this is when you know And this is when you know someone loves you for who you are not what you speak or how you speak or what you have in your pocket
Love you Emily and Josh God will make a way💕💓💕💓
Yessss, Josh is way better at speaking on camera! For the record, he speaks very good English
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I love this couple .true love never dies .lv frm Zimbabwe
I'm from Zimbabwe also
I think it’s throw in the towel. And I feel sorry for those with assumptions in regard to your life.
That’s the one!
Throw in the towel, that’s the term. Enjoy your journey together there will be ups and downs, never give up. No one’s life is perfect, that is not reality. Blessings
Emelie isn´t there the possibility to work with somethign from home in Uganda until you can all can move to the UK? or work for an organisation with salary? I hope you soon can be all together forever.
I asked this question and she said,no,not great money for her in Uganda.
Lovely family much love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🥰
Hi laters, am so happy to see u together and it's my prayers u stay together in future in the name of our lord Jesus Christ
You're such a beautiful couple. The kids are incredibly lucky to have such wonderful parents
Thanks Ailsa, that's very kind!
Emilie trust me they kids does that all over the world father just have to seat there and they listen mom's have to speak to them so many time. Lol fun fact when I was younger my mom was the one we stopped on our tracks for ahe was more strict lol
Be the reason, find a reason, give a reason to love and beloved🌸❤️🍀❤️
Love you videos and I hope and pray you will all be together under the same roof soon!
What I know Emily you are very lucky with that humble man
I wish my brother can learn to communicate more. I don't think he feels like a man of the house but as times goes by he will get used to the culture.
Emily most black men have issues with communication. They don't have time to be texting all the time. Maybe voice notes. Josh wama tofayo. Olina omukyala omulungi. Atte yebisa nga munauganda. Togeza kumukyawa please.
Shes a good girl.
Very good point of encouragement
I agree , she is a very good woman . Josh seems like a wonderful man too. Stay together and work hard to develop yourselves.
Can’t believe we are almost at 50k subscribers ❤️❤️🥰🇨🇲🇨🇲. Let’s keep sharing their channel
Love you 💗💗😚😚 all May God bless u and protect your family
I have only 1 question Do you understand Uganda Do you speak the Do you speak the language I would love to hear you communicate with josh In his language
Emilie and Josh, keep the vision of one family in one country in your heart ! Maybe make a vision board to reinforce the knowing that one day sooner than later, you will be together in the UK ! The Love you have for each other runs deep and the children are blessed to have you as parents! Keep the reminder of the happy faces, the happy times where you each can see it every day and trust that everything is working out well for you, even when it appears to be otherwise. Believe and it is so!! Much Love and many blessing! Thanks for sharing your journey!
Josh's English has greatly improved
Some of them Comments/ Questions... have angered me.... people can be so darn rude.. i like How Much Josh has Improved with the Camera !
You are adorable guys...I do not know why as a Black/African person (do not come for me please 🤣) I can relate to what Josh said. When I love a person, looking at them settles is everything. If we do not look at you, if we do not like looking at you, we might not love you much. Hahaahah
Wow ...my lovely fam
The Larters💜💜
I love you guys and may GOD bless you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Love your family and carnt wait for Adam n kids to join u and Adam in uk
Ignore everyone’s else’s opinion you both no what’s right and real!!! And I think you are amazing and giving the kids a much more stable happy life is amazing hope you all get to be a family in the uk all the luck to you,!! Everyone has an opinion but most of them should be kept to themselves! Keep being an amazing family ignore everyone that has anything negative to say!! People should look at there own lives before judging others them questions were ridiculous Adam isn’t around black people why does skin colour matter you are raising 4 kind loving children that’s all that matter why does skin colour have to be brought into it!! Keep shining 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Wow how can some people be so rude.. a great look into your relationship which is just like every normal relationship well mine anyhow All couples argue lol. Very brave well done. ❤️ Children are just borrowed to us for short time hold them tight and treasure every minute ❤️ Love is more than a word it’s actions and I see how josh looks at you Emille.. ❤️ 🇬🇧
Well that’s the con to being on public platform. aka social media. U must have 🏀 🏈 of steel to not be bothered .. it’s not realistic to have everyone like u and give kudos 24/7, just don’t take it personally and if needed 🛑 🛑 ⛔️⛔️❌❌ offensive comments . Good thing they can give positive rebuttal to a comment ….(if they feel like)
But what do you mean by " work"?
Josh does alot of work with the organization and children. That is alot of unpaid work!
Exactly!
Thumbs up Josh.. You're getting better with English. No worries it is not our first language.
Besides Emilie sounds like a sanguine.
Hi Emille. I just saw your channel 2 to 3 days ago and really falling in love with your videos. You're such and amazing loving lady I've seen, so many family video I've been watching thier videos but I am not going back again and watch. But anyway your channel is best for me to spend time with you guys! I am a new subscriber to you channel
The way I'm waiting to see this beautiful farmily together in America ..blessings follows you forever
In the Uk 🇬🇧
I love you guys and pray to God so that nothing ever goes wrong ending in separation. It would be a shame because you people especially Emilie have sacrificed so much and put your lives on hold for all those donkey years.
josh just seems so laid back about stuff
You both are amazing parents, I wish you all the best!
What have I come home to. A new video on a Friday. I think you are spoiling us now Em's
We are going to be uploading quite a few more over the next few weeks so we can try to catch up with real time!
Love your family and your channel xx
Thanks Helen ☺️
Hello Josh and Emily, thanks for this video, am getting to know you better, stay blessed
You guys inspire me a lot I live in the Nederlands
I came across your channel, and ended up watching so many of your videos…
You guys have so much love for each other it’s really admirable 😍 in the end all of this will be worth it for you guys!! ❤ lots of love
That's the hope 🤞🤞🤞
I just pray one day you reunit
Lovely video. I love this family 😍😍
When you watch Adam and Emily the most beautiful love between mother and son and you are loving mother and girlfriend to Josh
In Africa PDA is Very uncommon so don't take it personally. They do show it more in the bedroom lol 🤣🤣
l wish to get one like Emily l would be happy in life indeed.
Love has no color 🤗😍♥️
Beautiful couple and beautiful kids
I enjoy watching your videos
❤️💖
God will see you guys true.let love lead be strong dear Emmy
Beautiful couple and love their vibes
Sending you all the love 💕
Blessings my people
I like the way Josh answers
Josh focuses well, he looks into the camera and gives you Emily attention, trusts and love.
We do we do............. Is the order of the day
Love how you guys keep it real! ♥️
That was some brutal questions. X
They certainly were!
Great content bless you both.
Yes looking at humans he loves you he's every part of you that he wants I think we have become so westernized That we want someone to say it We don't understand loyalty because loyalty is love Someone could say that I love you and still cheat on you Someone could tell you all the mushy things on the phone and still cheat on you When he looks at you his eyes does not move away When you're with the kids You can tell whatever you want he wishes it for you I don't know if you remember what time you call you his wife and you turn around and said no I am your girlfriend Culturally when a man has been with a woman that he loves so much he sees her as his wife he will done call you his wife in the Caribbean we call that that's my wifey No other woman
He call his wife because he do not see no one else to be his wife that's why's
josh is so lovely
Josh you humility is something else.may God bless you more
So true. You can have biological children and love different things about them. Also get along differently with them. At times you clash with the one you are most like. Great video as usual.❤️
Absolutely! Each bond is different and special in it's own way ❤️
How I wish communicating on Josh's behalf😆😆😆He's grt guy btwy. Talkative dudes are stubborn
Thanks for being direct spoken
Opposites attract guys its what it is Emily don't change Josh but enable him thrive when you move to UK he needs to adjust in the moment but not now
Nice video
But why is Josh wearing a ring thou?