I've been married 11 times and engaged 28 | SBS Insight

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

Комментарии • 40

  • @MadeInSeventyFour
    @MadeInSeventyFour 3 месяца назад +101

    I love this program. It's the one time where you can sit a group of adults in the room to discuss shared experiences and disclose portions of their life journey, without throwing judgement at one another. Some of these episodes have required deep amounts of courage and strength to divulge. I am always in awe of your guests.

    • @kknight3071
      @kknight3071 3 месяца назад +5

      I have had to wait for uploads here because I outside the country. Love this program! Would be thrilled if there was something like it in the US!❤🎉

  • @mindflowmotivations6575
    @mindflowmotivations6575 3 месяца назад +109

    And then there’s me who can’t find someone I want to marry

    • @karenmbbaxter
      @karenmbbaxter 3 месяца назад +21

      So sorry......Life is always messy. U can be married 11 times like this woman or like yourself, never married. You can have a long marriage but miss out on a career. You can have a career but feel you have missed out on marriage. You will never have everything you want and it is sometimes important to sit back an appreciate what you have. It is also good not to be hard on yourself. I tell my teenage kids if they are good people and earn an honest living one day and don't get on drugs or end up in jail then that is all I expect of them. Anything else they do with their life is an added bonus.......Just don't be so harsh on yourself and celebrate your achievements instead.

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 3 месяца назад +7

      Don't worry that's more a flex nowadays compared to the opposite

    • @VioletaWilliams-rq4gx
      @VioletaWilliams-rq4gx 3 месяца назад

      😢

    • @dip9073
      @dip9073 3 месяца назад +3

      Lol...same!

    • @smuggreycat8137
      @smuggreycat8137 3 месяца назад +3

      😂Haha same

  • @sharonrose3871
    @sharonrose3871 3 месяца назад +52

    And now I am now longer ashamed of divorcing twice. What a joy your guests are. Thank you for presenting the episode.

  • @justinegratton6509
    @justinegratton6509 3 месяца назад +93

    Married 11 times… where you meet all these men? I can’t even find 1 🤣

    • @abigailknight2045
      @abigailknight2045 3 месяца назад +11

      Congregational dating....you just hop churches😅

  • @davidsotir4318
    @davidsotir4318 3 месяца назад +48

    The presenter, Kumi Taguchi, asks such insightful questions in a sensitive manner. This programme is so informative!

  • @bancymunene2960
    @bancymunene2960 3 месяца назад +54

    Married 11 times, engaged 28 . Iam shocked

  • @ajp806
    @ajp806 3 месяца назад +39

    I was shortly married once,and after that I said forget it,life is better single

  • @StopTheWorld65
    @StopTheWorld65 3 месяца назад +35

    Stopped in my tracks at 38:00 by the man who said his wife “fell pregnant, again,” said like she caught a disease. TWICE. As if it were unpreventable. What? We know what causes that now. 🙄

  • @jessicahijarunguru4117
    @jessicahijarunguru4117 3 месяца назад +23

    I love Australians, so chilled. I'm enjoying this show and learning a lot from these deep personal conversations. Please add subtitles 🙏

  • @valerierobertson6334
    @valerierobertson6334 3 месяца назад +43

    Oh my gosh, I’m 53 and have only had 1 boyfriend and one ex husband and have been single for 10 years, I don’t want to meet someone but I’ve never found ‘ the one’, I’m fine with it😊

    • @abigailknight2045
      @abigailknight2045 3 месяца назад +4

      Got together at 16yrs old, still here 21yrs later. We are both lazy procrastinators, Tadaaaa! Relationship success!😂

  • @andrewpetersen6116
    @andrewpetersen6116 3 месяца назад +27

    Why ruin a perfectly good relationship with marriage

  • @carolynrogers1510
    @carolynrogers1510 3 месяца назад +14

    Laughed and cried with this one, what a joyful optimistic group of people, long live love

  • @tinkerbell8507
    @tinkerbell8507 3 месяца назад +24

    And to think that some people never experienced marriage not even once 😮

  • @missnlahi
    @missnlahi 3 месяца назад +19

    I love watching the older singles find love in each other

  • @NineNineOne
    @NineNineOne 3 месяца назад +21

    Imagine discovering on your wedding day that your husband is a terrible kisser/bad lover!!! What a disaster. You can’t make a good kisser/good lover out of a bad one :-(

  • @SY-cz4kb
    @SY-cz4kb 3 месяца назад +32

    Find a hobby to keep you out of getting married for fun!

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 3 месяца назад +13

    What a fantastic & interesting episode!! Everyone deserves happiness.
    The important thing is finding true happiness within ourselves. No one can do it for us. Trying to find happiness outside ourselves is when the issues begin to appear.
    A successful loving romantic relationship will be the result of us being good to ourselves, understanding self-respect, and accepting the truth that we need to be our own top priority. Once we are in tune with these important factors, Finding "the" right one" will be easier than most think! 🙏🙏

  • @Amaryllis-4U
    @Amaryllis-4U 3 месяца назад +14

    Are 11 of the 28 engagements tied to the 11 marriages?

  • @jacquelinemartin9124
    @jacquelinemartin9124 3 месяца назад +20

    Once was enough for me.

  • @HumanimalChannel
    @HumanimalChannel 3 месяца назад +15

    34:39 if they were the priority younwould not have had all those marriages. You did not give them stability and you put them AT RISK many times

  • @saulroberts161
    @saulroberts161 2 месяца назад +5

    3:00 the look on my face listening to most of these stories.

  • @yetilube5601
    @yetilube5601 3 месяца назад +28

    This video should be renamed "I dont understand what until death do we part means"

  • @abigailknight2045
    @abigailknight2045 3 месяца назад +17

    Be interesting to hear the ex's sides of the multiple divorces. See if the ex's all have similar issues or different ones. Imagine if you had a panel of your ex's to help with your therapy, not for me though! Ignorant till death kind of person myself.

  • @blessedtobealive
    @blessedtobealive 3 месяца назад +14

    And here I am 23 year old female never been in a relationship. What am I doing with my life?

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 3 месяца назад +18

      Don't worry you're in the best situation believe me

  • @zazhou
    @zazhou 3 месяца назад +5

    Intense!

  • @hellz1996
    @hellz1996 2 месяца назад +17

    Obviously likes Wedding Cake

  • @prancer4743
    @prancer4743 2 месяца назад +8

    Why did they leave you so many times 🤔 at least you keep trying maybe life alone may be better for you 😳😀👍

  • @DavJKing23
    @DavJKing23 3 месяца назад +3

    😮