This girl knows damn well what she's doing, she's making sure her boyfriend knows she has options and making him purposefully jealous and insecure cus it feeds her ego. That chick is eventually gonna stray.
I think this girl wanted a bit of drama and jealousy. There is no reason for this woman to even mention the guy if it was not important. I am a woman and I have to say we talk too fucking much sometimes. We feel that empowerment means having to say everything at every time.
poliscileah guzman typical this kind of woman. Wants jealously and a bit of drama. Gets confused and hurt when things doesn’t go exactly the way she wanted. Why even artificially inflate these problems to begin with.
As a LAAAAADYY Bill is 100% right, hit the nail on the head when he said "you told him because you wanted to feel attractive and make your man a little jealous and then the situation got out of hand". I hate when chicks try to act innocent in situations like this. There is no reason to tell your dude about every time someone hits on you or cat calls unless it was like a dangerous situation. What is he supposed to say to that "oh yeah thats cool some other guy wanted to smash"?
I don't get why women don't put there self into their boyfriend's shoes to realize that they wouldn't like them fooling around with someone else either.
Hahah imagine if more women actually did that, empathized with guys. I truly believe in the statement “treat others as you want to be treated in return”, which is very easy to agree on and more difficult in practice. So many people (and in particular girls I’ve met) agree on this, yet they constantly act in ways they would never tolerate themselves if the roles were switched. The whole feminist movement is just absolute proof of this. Their behavior is disgusting and prejudice, discriminating against men - supposed to be the complete opposite as the moment is meant to fight against then. But alas, no empathy for me. Just “me me me” egoism.
I don't see a problem with her being open with her bf. I think the bigger issue was that she was even engaging with the "2nd guy" in "chit-chat" while in a relationship. She's probably not cheating but she's definitely playing games and is probably "testing" her bf seeing how he reacts.
I suspect she knew exactly what she was doing. Many women will deliberately introduce a rival into the situation in order to "keep you on your toes". She may even make someone up. This serves to make you feel threatened and "take more care of her". It backfires though if your jealousy is overbearing and becomes uncomfortable. Immediately dump any woman you suspect of pulling this shit. Remember your jealousy is HER weapon against YOU. It serves to put her in control.
women do whatever they can do retain power over the men in their lives, especially men at work. they also keep as many options open at any given time as they possibly can.
We all notice the double standards here, but something else is popping up that Bill mentioned: Funny that they can take asinine stories and string them together to make themselves sound innocent. Men can take the same asinine story and tell it, and he sounds like a damn psychopath. Mr. Burr, you have become a master at seeing through the BS.
I disagree with that opinion Bill, just imagine if she didn't tell him, and then dude text her or some shit. And suppouse her boyfriend would do something stupid like pick up her phone and see sms from some guy. she would have to say " i didn't wanted to tell you coz you would be mad" and we all know how that would sound. She did good.
I agree! I think you’re the only other person that doesn’t think she did anything wrong.. IF it was anything to hide, I’m sure she wouldn’t have said anything.
She told him with the attempt to check him... To let him know there are other options for her. She said it to show she's in demand. He should have showed no interest or concern.
I almost ALWAYS agree with Bill’s advice, but I really don’t think she did anything wrong here by telling him if they are that kinda open with each other.
She didn’t do anything wrong if she’s telling 100% of the truth and nothing actually did happen. The way she said they “kind of still have contact”, plus the fact that she admitted they already went out and made out AND that they work together and see each other frequently, it definitely seems strange from an outsiders perspective. Again not saying she did anything, but it seems like they’re young and they recently started dating so it’s normal to be cautious around someone you don’t 100% fully know. It’s fair to be at least a bit suspicious, seeing as it looks a lot like the “don’t worry about him we’re just friends” but then he becomes the instant new boyfriend the second they breakup.
@@philorgneopolotin8762 I don't disagree with you. She could have been trying to make him jealous or she could have been trying to he honest and he got insecure about it. Unfortunately we are never going to know.. It depends on the people and the relationship they have.
it may also depend on how and when she brings it up. Where they just hanging out, and she felt guilty, so she fessed up? Or is it something she wants her boyfriend to tell her if it happens to him? Who knows
Yeah he has low self-esteem and is totally mystified by female attention. He can’t fathom how a man could reject a woman. I’ve been on plenty of one-off dates with women.
My ex always told me about guys that hit on her and asked her out because she wanted to make me jelous. And i know yhis because she literally said to my face in little baby voice "but i like making uou jealous ". Yeah. Literally said that to my face. Needlessto say idumped her and now shes got a new noy toy to chew on.
Yep. I had a gf who admitted she likes when I get jealous and possessive and would talk about men who would give attention and pretend she had no idea that she was being manipulative. I dumped her too but it took me way longer than it should have. Lesson learned.
You're right but from my cultural POV, this is a statement a woman would be making about men. SMH... what has happened to men in America??? The gender roles have flipped to where your women are running game on you the way guys of other cultures run game on women. It's just so discombobulating...
Dude is hysterical! And always on that real! I love it. I am gonna go see him again in August when he comes to Nashville! So glad he's coming back to the Music City. I'll make sure I cut back on my moonshine in order to be straight enough to pay attention to his show. lol
I never got this let's date everyone weighing my options shit anyways. What does that actually mean? Dating has become such a relative term now. Especially in the texting/social networking era. Guranteed this chick is still friends with dude on facebook or at least has his # in her cell. Even in the very very beginning non-exclusivity is recipe jealousy and insecurity. I either fuck or date, but exclusively for either or NOT AT ALL. I'm starting to feel like I'm in a very small minority.
For sure, she probably didn't make it super clear that she's in a relationship. Some chicks love to have an "office husband" they can keep in their back pocket in case the current relationship doesn't work out.
i think her honesty is fine if it was just some random guy she wasn't keeping in touch with. Sometimes women are just naive and being too honest with their boyfriends to build some sort of trust and really its harmless what they're saying. But Bill's right, it can make the bf feel bad unintentionally so i think that's something I need to remember personally.. Other times, yeah women do this to make guys feel jealous like if they're fighting a lot in the relationship, she could be telling him that she has other options. it's really the first reason or the other, there's no in between.
Is this really something that would eat at the guy for weeks? If she is being truthful it doesn't seem like cause for an alarm beyond the initial suspicion.
My ex did that shit all the time to me. Saying guys hit in her, would post pictures and I like the comments of random guys saying how beautiful she was. It fucked with me big time and made me really insecure.
The reason she told her boyfriend was to try and convery to him that she felt she is too good for him, that she has options. oh wait, bweazel beat me to it.
My girlfriend does this constantly! Tells me about a guy followed her around in Walmart and asked for her number. Tells me that her exboyfriend sends her dick pictures and tries to get her to visit him. Customers and coworkers at her job hitting on her etc. I get it . She's a hotty. I get jealous sometimes but for the most part I'm easygoing because I realize it makes her feel good to get attention. The real issue I have is that it's soooo boring. Why would I want to hear stories like that?!? How could that possibly interest me?
Dude, I promise you when she describes you to her coworkers she constantly refers to you as "bitch". Water cooler talk w/ some women sounds like a boy's locker room and water cooler talk amongst men sounds like a cookie klatch or sewing circle. SMH... #robkardashiansyndrome
Normally i would say she was wrong...but someone i knew told me he got turned on when he found out about his gfs cheating on him...and called me boring when i said i'd never do that...he'd actually push them to a point where they'd do it...so idk anymore...maybe it's the guy
maybe he doesn't look at her the same way or she doesn't feel desirable to him so she's trying to prove she is by telling him about other guys and making him jealous in retaliation.
6:30 honestly, this is just what reality is like, and even though I agree that girl is probably bsing, the staggering degree of toxic jealousy in stories like these and all the justification it gets in the comments leaves me puzzled...
She isn't telling everything there is to that affair, to Bill Burr or her boyfriend. Of course he'll feel jelouse when he has strong feeling that she is holding back stuff from him.
A lot of cynical stuff towards women on here, guys. I get the guy being jealous cause he's allowed to feel the way he feels, but I don't think the girl did that with the intent to cause insecurity with her guy. My wife tells me when her co-worker hits on her cause we just fucking tell each other everything. Doesn't mean she wanted me to feel insecure or jealous. I don't know, maybe it's different with straight couples?
She was double dipping from the beginning. “ some contact “. In woman’s language that means anything but intercourse. The guy senses this but was willing to put it to one side since that she had made her choice, supposedly. Women have a “Tell”. , A sign that tells you that she’s about to cheat. If he was not jealous she would crank it up and go on the date with that guy eventually cheat. Since he cranked it up, she, is going to feel threatened that he’s too overbearing and she’ll have to reach out of the relationship for comfort and then, cheat. It’s coming bud, this one’s over.
Bill Burr is a fantastic comedian and his podcast is regularly fun, but boy does his advice suck. If the question was "This girl is hiding that a guy is hitting on me from me. . ." the advice would be "Now what else is she hiding from you!" . . .telling the guy has been a benefit for this young lady because now she knows what an insecure nut her boyfriend is.
"Oh, curse of marriage That we can call these delicate creatures ours And not their appetites! I had rather be a toad And live upon the vapor of a dungeon Than keep a corner in the thing I love For others' uses" -Shakespeare's Othello In other words, don't get married.
atleast she declined, lol. some girls probably would have dated bot, they always want to see what they are missing out on. she said it to him though, like she wanted to start shit probably because she wanted to date the other guy or just make the other guy insecure.
Right on Bill-- your last minute of this was awesome! She did sound sincere, and many women feel like they need to tell men all these details, cuz otherwise we will accuse them of hiding shit. Men are big douches.. Most women tend to be loving, sincere, open minded creatures who go way out of their way to make men happy.
Ok, I love Bill but I have to disagree with him here. This girl did NOTHING wrong. You should be able to talk to your partner about other people hitting on you without having to worry about them flipping out on you. The girl hasn't done anything but be open and honest, and her boyfriend is being an asshole by not trusting her. He's the one with the issues here.
Such bullshit, we're all insecure to a degree. The guy obviously cares about his girlfriend, and you feel threathened when someone try's to cut in, especially someone who's had a history with them. The fact that she keeps contact with this guy invites it on her(she should keep it at cordial wave from time to time). All you have to do is reverse the situation. Imagine the guy had that same friendship going with someone he went on a date with. You be sure as hell that his girl would go crazy. In fact the girl should feel good about herself that her boyfriend cares in this way.
Hell, they're every where - throw 1 rock and hit 10 of them. A White Knight is a dude willing to do anything to get the snatch that everyone else has already had but he will never get or if he gets it, he will have to share it with ALL cummers. LOL!
This girl knows damn well what she's doing, she's making sure her boyfriend knows she has options and making him purposefully jealous and insecure cus it feeds her ego. That chick is eventually gonna stray.
100%
yep
I think its subconcious with women.
robert pirsig Self awareness is something that most women avoid
Pretty much yeah
Bill had that BS detector on harder than any TV judge ever could.
indeed even though he says he doesn't read but his experience can make like ten books or something XD
I think this girl wanted a bit of drama and jealousy. There is no reason for this woman to even mention the guy if it was not important. I am a woman and I have to say we talk too fucking much sometimes. We feel that empowerment means having to say everything at every time.
poliscileah guzman typical this kind of woman. Wants jealously and a bit of drama. Gets confused and hurt when things doesn’t go exactly the way she wanted. Why even artificially inflate these problems to begin with.
"NO. No, you fucked up."
As a LAAAAADYY Bill is 100% right, hit the nail on the head when he said "you told him because you wanted to feel attractive and make your man a little jealous and then the situation got out of hand". I hate when chicks try to act innocent in situations like this. There is no reason to tell your dude about every time someone hits on you or cat calls unless it was like a dangerous situation. What is he supposed to say to that "oh yeah thats cool some other guy wanted to smash"?
Youre really rational
I love you honesty.. thank you x
I don't get why women don't put there self into their boyfriend's shoes to realize that they wouldn't like them fooling around with someone else either.
Because were not supposed to have feelings
Ben Dover exactly no empathy on their part
Hahah imagine if more women actually did that, empathized with guys. I truly believe in the statement “treat others as you want to be treated in return”, which is very easy to agree on and more difficult in practice. So many people (and in particular girls I’ve met) agree on this, yet they constantly act in ways they would never tolerate themselves if the roles were switched. The whole feminist movement is just absolute proof of this. Their behavior is disgusting and prejudice, discriminating against men - supposed to be the complete opposite as the moment is meant to fight against then. But alas, no empathy for me. Just “me me me” egoism.
Who cares what they want
Because they really don't care about anyone but themselves
Bill knows, man.
Richie Siegel bill dont know shit! dont follow that loser or ul be a miserable loser just like him
@@JMH912 LMAO you're a joke.
@@JMH912 Shut your white knight ass up chad.
I don't see a problem with her being open with her bf. I think the bigger issue was that she was even engaging with the "2nd guy" in "chit-chat" while in a relationship. She's probably not cheating but she's definitely playing games and is probably "testing" her bf seeing how he reacts.
I suspect she knew exactly what she was doing. Many women will deliberately introduce a rival into the situation in order to "keep you on your toes". She may even make someone up. This serves to make you feel threatened and "take more care of her". It backfires though if your jealousy is overbearing and becomes uncomfortable.
Immediately dump any woman you suspect of pulling this shit. Remember your jealousy is HER weapon against YOU. It serves to put her in control.
that relationship is done. completely done.
Yes . I'd dump the bitch
women do whatever they can do retain power over the men in their lives, especially men at work. they also keep as many options open at any given time as they possibly can.
date a fatty
Only the chicks that are plotting
We all notice the double standards here, but something else is popping up that Bill mentioned:
Funny that they can take asinine stories and string them together to make themselves sound innocent. Men can take the same asinine story and tell it, and he sounds like a damn psychopath. Mr. Burr, you have become a master at seeing through the BS.
he played in los angeles this tuesday.my ribs still hurt from laughing so much.standing ovation. this guy is a master.
I disagree with that opinion Bill, just imagine if she didn't tell him, and then dude text her or some shit. And suppouse her boyfriend would do something stupid like pick up her phone and see sms from some guy. she would have to say " i didn't wanted to tell you coz you would be mad" and we all know how that would sound. She did good.
I agree! I think you’re the only other person that doesn’t think she did anything wrong.. IF it was anything to hide, I’m sure she wouldn’t have said anything.
She told him with the attempt to check him... To let him know there are other options for her. She said it to show she's in demand. He should have showed no interest or concern.
I almost ALWAYS agree with Bill’s advice, but I really don’t think she did anything wrong here by telling him if they are that kinda open with each other.
She didn’t do anything wrong if she’s telling 100% of the truth and nothing actually did happen. The way she said they “kind of still have contact”, plus the fact that she admitted they already went out and made out AND that they work together and see each other frequently, it definitely seems strange from an outsiders perspective. Again not saying she did anything, but it seems like they’re young and they recently started dating so it’s normal to be cautious around someone you don’t 100% fully know. It’s fair to be at least a bit suspicious, seeing as it looks a lot like the “don’t worry about him we’re just friends” but then he becomes the instant new boyfriend the second they breakup.
@@philorgneopolotin8762 I don't disagree with you. She could have been trying to make him jealous or she could have been trying to he honest and he got insecure about it. Unfortunately we are never going to know.. It depends on the people and the relationship they have.
it may also depend on how and when she brings it up. Where they just hanging out, and she felt guilty, so she fessed up? Or is it something she wants her boyfriend to tell her if it happens to him? Who knows
Yeah he has low self-esteem and is totally mystified by female attention. He can’t fathom how a man could reject a woman. I’ve been on plenty of one-off dates with women.
I love the comments of people taking your feedback to heart, it's hilarious, great stuff Bill.
bill was right on right before he said he believed her. women love doing that shit. it happened to me.
I couldn't agree more this response video made me love Bill Burr even more
My ex always told me about guys that hit on her and asked her out because she wanted to make me jelous. And i know yhis because she literally said to my face in little baby voice "but i like making uou jealous ". Yeah. Literally said that to my face. Needlessto say idumped her and now shes got a new noy toy to chew on.
I was hoping to read this conclusion, never get played, playa.
Yep. I had a gf who admitted she likes when I get jealous and possessive and would talk about men who would give attention and pretend she had no idea that she was being manipulative. I dumped her too but it took me way longer than it should have. Lesson learned.
@@mansourovicchan the conclusion is he found a real woman and the woman he dumped probably has multiple kids by multiple daddies by now
Women would hit the roof if it were the other way around
You're right but from my cultural POV, this is a statement a woman would be making about men. SMH... what has happened to men in America??? The gender roles have flipped to where your women are running game on you the way guys of other cultures run game on women. It's just so discombobulating...
@@mjpeter3964 this is what happens when you give too much freedom and power to citizens in a country.
Dude is hysterical! And always on that real! I love it. I am gonna go see him again in August when he comes to Nashville! So glad he's coming back to the Music City. I'll make sure I cut back on my moonshine in order to be straight enough to pay attention to his show. lol
I never got this let's date everyone weighing my options shit anyways. What does that actually mean? Dating has become such a relative term now. Especially in the texting/social networking era. Guranteed this chick is still friends with dude on facebook or at least has his # in her cell. Even in the very very beginning non-exclusivity is recipe jealousy and insecurity. I either fuck or date, but exclusively for either or NOT AT ALL. I'm starting to feel like I'm in a very small minority.
I doubt he backed off right away when she said she was seeing someone. He probably still tries
For sure, she probably didn't make it super clear that she's in a relationship. Some chicks love to have an "office husband" they can keep in their back pocket in case the current relationship doesn't work out.
This was blown out of proportion way too much. So much conjecture. You people need to get out and take a walk. All of you
Some guys get pissed if you keep it from them and tell them anything.
Lol... Nah. Nothing was wrong until she tries to tell him she got options. Don't u blame this on the guy.. Jesus 😂
How would they ever know about a one off situation with a guy she isn't even friends with?
I hear foreign Women are way more chill.
Nahh they just want you for your money.
i think her honesty is fine if it was just some random guy she wasn't keeping in touch with. Sometimes women are just naive and being too honest with their boyfriends to build some sort of trust and really its harmless what they're saying. But Bill's right, it can make the bf feel bad unintentionally so i think that's something I need to remember personally.. Other times, yeah women do this to make guys feel jealous like if they're fighting a lot in the relationship, she could be telling him that she has other options. it's really the first reason or the other, there's no in between.
“Ay slow down there’s kids out here” lmaooo
Is this really something that would eat at the guy for weeks? If she is being truthful it doesn't seem like cause for an alarm beyond the initial suspicion.
"No..... no ya fucked up." XD
My ex did that shit all the time to me. Saying guys hit in her, would post pictures and I like the comments of random guys saying how beautiful she was. It fucked with me big time and made me really insecure.
The reason she told her boyfriend was to try and convery to him that she felt she is too good for him, that she has options. oh wait, bweazel beat me to it.
Not much contact is code for-- he just put the tip in
Yes bill tell it how it is, let it be known
My girlfriend does this constantly! Tells me about a guy followed her around in Walmart and asked for her number. Tells me that her exboyfriend sends her dick pictures and tries to get her to visit him. Customers and coworkers at her job hitting on her etc. I get it . She's a hotty. I get jealous sometimes but for the most part I'm easygoing because I realize it makes her feel good to get attention. The real issue I have is that it's soooo boring. Why would I want to hear stories like that?!? How could that possibly interest me?
Tell her you would rather she fucked them than have to suffer through hearing about it.
+Metal Mayhem SAVAGE
Dude, I promise you when she describes you to her coworkers she constantly refers to you as "bitch". Water cooler talk w/ some women sounds like a boy's locker room and water cooler talk amongst men sounds like a cookie klatch or sewing circle. SMH... #robkardashiansyndrome
My ex would be all "what do you mean? You're being over dramatic.."
I love you....
Normally i would say she was wrong...but someone i knew told me he got turned on when he found out about his gfs cheating on him...and called me boring when i said i'd never do that...he'd actually push them to a point where they'd do it...so idk anymore...maybe it's the guy
maybe he doesn't look at her the same way or she doesn't feel desirable to him so she's trying to prove she is by telling him about other guys and making him jealous in retaliation.
6:30 honestly, this is just what reality is like, and even though I agree that girl is probably bsing, the staggering degree of toxic jealousy in stories like these and all the justification it gets in the comments leaves me puzzled...
She isn't telling everything there is to that affair, to Bill Burr or her boyfriend. Of course he'll feel jelouse when he has strong feeling that she is holding back stuff from him.
Drive up in my best drink.
Why would she say anything at all is there wasn't something more?
That was a hell of an unnecessary shit test by her...
Women love attention and keeping their options open.
true dat
A lot of cynical stuff towards women on here, guys. I get the guy being jealous cause he's allowed to feel the way he feels, but I don't think the girl did that with the intent to cause insecurity with her guy. My wife tells me when her co-worker hits on her cause we just fucking tell each other everything. Doesn't mean she wanted me to feel insecure or jealous. I don't know, maybe it's different with straight couples?
May depend on the women's intentions
@bweazel Straight up man.
She was double dipping from the beginning. “ some contact “. In woman’s language that means anything but intercourse. The guy senses this but was willing to put it to one side since that she had made her choice, supposedly. Women have a “Tell”. , A sign that tells you that she’s about to cheat. If he was not jealous she would crank it up and go on the date with that guy eventually cheat. Since he cranked it up, she, is going to feel threatened that he’s too overbearing and she’ll have to reach out of the relationship for comfort and then, cheat. It’s coming bud, this one’s over.
Bill Burr is a fantastic comedian and his podcast is regularly fun, but boy does his advice suck. If the question was "This girl is hiding that a guy is hitting on me from me. . ." the advice would be "Now what else is she hiding from you!"
. . .telling the guy has been a benefit for this young lady because now she knows what an insecure nut her boyfriend is.
Not only that, but how did the new guy not know she was dating someone else?
Seems like she over shared and he is overly sensitive.
"Oh, curse of marriage
That we can call these delicate creatures ours
And not their appetites! I had rather be a toad
And live upon the vapor of a dungeon
Than keep a corner in the thing I love
For others' uses"
-Shakespeare's Othello
In other words, don't get married.
thanks for having a brain. nobody seems to understand this concept you have proposed
haha she fucked up.
atleast she declined, lol. some girls probably would have dated bot, they always want to see what they are missing out on. she said it to him though, like she wanted to start shit probably because she wanted to date the other guy or just make the other guy insecure.
Right on Bill-- your last minute of this was awesome! She did sound sincere, and many women feel like they need to tell men all these details, cuz otherwise we will accuse them of hiding shit. Men are big douches.. Most women tend to be loving, sincere, open minded creatures who go way out of their way to make men happy.
Heelllll nooo
why is bill so bitter about women
you have obviously mistaken "bitter" with "correct"
+Evil Raccoon haha XD I laughed alittle =D
He's married lol
I wonder why..
thomas saucier married to a feminist even...
Ok, I love Bill but I have to disagree with him here. This girl did NOTHING wrong. You should be able to talk to your partner about other people hitting on you without having to worry about them flipping out on you. The girl hasn't done anything but be open and honest, and her boyfriend is being an asshole by not trusting her. He's the one with the issues here.
I don't think the girl did anything wrong the guy is emotionally immature and insecure about himself
Such bullshit, we're all insecure to a degree. The guy obviously cares about his girlfriend, and you feel threathened when someone try's to cut in, especially someone who's had a history with them. The fact that she keeps contact with this guy invites it on her(she should keep it at cordial wave from time to time). All you have to do is reverse the situation. Imagine the guy had that same friendship going with someone he went on a date with. You be sure as hell that his girl would go crazy. In fact the girl should feel good about herself that her boyfriend cares in this way.
I found the white knight
Hell, they're every where - throw 1 rock and hit 10 of them. A White Knight is a dude willing to do anything to get the snatch that everyone else has already had but he will never get or if he gets it, he will have to share it with ALL cummers. LOL!
ScubaGolz don't you know you can't have a different opinion and not be a white knight according to these mgtow alpha males, bro?