I was at the Introduction on that day as one of her moms too and single handedly called to serve his family members but they were ranting and we all started begging including the bride's mom who happens to be a family friend turned aunt . Cynthia Eniola has also been my daughter over the years who is cool headed, reserved, respectful, reliable and responsible. Gbenga showed love when he came for the Introduction. I believe God of Papa Oshoffa is about doing the restoration of everything meant for my dear daughter Eni as we use to call her. Be strong dear, because the storm is over. Thank you aunty B for bringing her out of her shell.
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you and him. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
@@adenikeadeniyi4708 i dont thnk so. She said the visa she was given was just for 4 months and with d harsh treatment she was getting from d husband it is understandable if she longed to see her family back in Nigeria
This story is so touching 😢 really feel your pain sis 😢 God will intervene nd comfort you 🙏 I pray for God's divine protection nd healing on your dear son 🙏 love you so much sis ❤ God is your strength 💪
Go find out the exact country he currently reside, get your marriage cert, wedding pix, one or 2 pix you both had in Belgium & the exact clinic details you both went to in Belgium. Get your baby's pixs from 0-current age, medical condition docs and look for the immigration address in his country of abode & post your truth with lenghty typed letter & see what God will do. Your child deserves better no matter what. God help you!
She needs tools like walker etc for that child. If Gbenga and family aren't coming forth, let her go to Hamzat Oriyomi (Ibadan) or Brekete in Abuja. She needs all the support (financial) etc she can get. I wish her well, she's a strong lady, keep pushing. It shall be well!
As am hearing ur words,am so feel for you here,hmmmm u ar a strong n real good mother,I pray fr you in the capacity of the lord ability the Almighty God will heal n perfect everything concerning ur son in thy name of Jesus As am listening to all her story,am crying here n also pity her , she's a strong woman indeed
I so feel your pain. The truth is, whenever a man come forth to warn about his family, it’s a red flag. He is same as they are and he is trying to disarm you. He has decorated the trap like a lovely coach.
You are a good mother my sister. May Almighty God will continue to perfect your son's health in Jesus name. God is able. By His strippe we are healed. I am impressed that you invested on your son. God will bless you abundantly in Jesus name. Tell your mummy great job too.
To me (yoruba proverb says) oju to bama beni kale koni taro se ipin, i can never go into a relationship where the family don't accept me kole easy rara Thank goodness am happily married those mother in-law problem is not easy at all my health cannot face it The Lord will see you and child through sis
Yes oo I can relate cos I went through such family, because I tell my ex husband that his omo mommy he carry cutlass cut and destroy our washing machine and freezer he said he wanted to cut me but a spirit change his mind until I beged him again with his mother name that is when he stop to destroy things that day
Many innocent life and destiny are destroyed because of mother in law wahala. May God repositioning Ralph health. Really feel your pain sis 😭😭😭. It's tiring 😔. Well done Aunt B.
The funny thing is, if only she had this special child in Belgium, their government would have compensated and supported her continually. I pity her sha, in Nigeria with such child. It is well!
Oloriburuku ni awon husband family wey dy now, just like the useless family I found myself but I give thank you God for saving me from them before it would be late
Some parents already donated their children's glory in their coven. The children wont have marital settlement, no matter how rich and handsome they are
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
Omo This story is seriously scaring ooooo Her situation from d beginning seems similar to mine and I’m even pregnant presently God please I pray for safe delivery ijn and nothing will happen to my baby
Hmmmmmm this is so emotional 😭 I swear am learning a lot on this program God bless you aunty Biola God will continue to protect you sis and God will fight for you Young lady pls watch and learn from this program TALK TO B To THE WORLD ❤
It was very visible, she ignored it. How will a man tell you not to work, put on your camera, give phone to the person beside you say wetin happen. That's why I don't like this match making. It is well with you and your son
God will surely intervene in this your case and God will fight all your battle for you 🙏 A helper will locate you ijn 🙏 and the boy will talk and walking ijn 🙏
My dear sis,i totally appreciate your strength and efforts over Raphael. It's not easy to face in law wahala and at the same time beloveth revelation needs wisdom you can't say you won't go to them and say they should come and take responsibility my dear there are lots i can say darling but for the sake of that boy instead of begging Davido beg the father . Dearie not because of you but for the boy darling beg whoever they think needs to beg or please reach out to me let's talk . Two wrongs can never make right. You're loved dear.
I really feel your pain my sister i have a similar story but thank God my child is healthy now and he is 17years old this year both father and any of the father,s family has never set there eyes to him neither himself know his father or any of the family.
I feel for this lady. Pls, how can I get her contact to give her direction pls. Weldone sis B for being a voice for the voiceless. May the Lord continue to be with you in Jesus Name, Amen.
Kudos to you my sis. Awon ebi oko yen 😏 Oloriburuku ni most of them, even those ladies that are among them, they will acting as if they’re not a woman. We will all reap what we sow bu God’s grace
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
OMG, Our very innocent Eniola, may God bless you. hmm.. "Gbenga doesn't want you to work!!. You were rendered powerless financially. A man telling you not to work is not a display of love or affecton. Some mean men use that to capture and enslave women. Thank God you are free. Thanks Sisi Biola for this show.
Hmmm… this bites deep ! May God come through for you and Raphael 👏. Some family members and MIL are the board of directors to some marriages. They just want to have their child alone without minding to cause chaos, breakup , ruin the life of others all bcos one is married into their family 😢. It’s best they don’t even agree during the courtship than make another person suffer the moment you marry into the family …
I thank God for your life, that you left in peace. Your story is similar to mine. What my mother in law is doing to us spiritually, if I say it you will be crying for me.
She made a mistake of going back to Nigeria since she knew she's pregnant, she should have found her way to police station and the police will called social to come to her aid, thank God she's alive to tell her sorry
The attitude of that man is not an ordinary, his mum doesn't want him to get married, i think his mum is getting money from him,he doesn't want him to settle, if the care is taking,he will not get wife or children, Eni you are a strong woman, God almighty will heal your child, go to brekete family in Abuja to lodges your report,your days of sorrow is over
Some mothers hate their daughters inlaw if they had introduced a lady or ladies to their sons and he didn't marry her. They never love the daughter in law feeling she made their son to defy their instructions. This is the bedrock of this family failure
May healing continue to be on you Rapheal. But i need to also point out a lesson i think we should learn. When you are going into a relationship, you being happy with your husband alone is not enough. Family is also everything. As women we also need to have a cordial relationship with our spouse family. Pls let’s be watchful and careful as well. May we not fall victims of bad families. Amen.
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
This very show is meant for ladies, there are so many lessons to be learnt, don't overlook, ignore what can bring unending sadness in your marital life. This is so disheartening 😂😂😂 I really wept while watching. I pray God will grant Raphael good and sound health in Jesus name. I prophesy to your life Eni, you will have reason to testify in all ramifications
Ooh baby girl you went through hell and I appreciate God's strength in you. Raphael will be alright in Jesus name. But am sorry you saw everything at the beginning now anyway you have a wonderful testimony on Raphael he's going to be OK. And you Biola sweetie I love your beautiful and the way you questioned her that was a good job ❤❤❤❤
Haaaa woman you are very stronger hoooo chaii i was crying here but i can see you dat you are holding it and you had cry tired self chaii God will help you and give you your right man ijmn 🙏🙏🙏stay bless the strongest woman hummm infact is not easy atall
One thing is, the guy may never come and claim that child! I have a very very similar story to this lady. But at birth God sent a man of God my way while my son was in ICU. He prayed for him without seeing him at all or allowed in the ward sef. He came to visit and saw me downstairs at FMC Abeokuta that faithful day and prayed for my son, long story short my son was discharged the next day. I was very scared when they sent me home after rerunning all our test. But to God be the Glory! My son will be 6yrs this month and *he's perfectly fine* and healthy. Am just grateful to God that He healed my son back then! My prayer is God will uphold this lady and strengthen her! People can not fathom the level pains others are going through ! But God is your strength just forget these people and focus on your life and son. May God be with you sis. Aunty B. thanks for airing this.❤❤ From your o nyo wa, o nyo lo subscriber😂😂😂
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
Av been in such shoes before but mine I didn’t live with his family at the end I had to walk away frm being bullied alwaz so I understand her situation
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth: Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed. I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium. Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none! This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life. The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes. However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him. Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7? About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium: I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say. After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit. Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria: Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend? Why he blocked you and your entire family: The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family. He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me. About Pastor Chris: The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris! Your stories: Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered. My advice for you: You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!" To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical. Kind regards, Engr Prosper
Hello B, One thing I noticed is that most of these ladies sharing their experiences, something common with most of them is that the guy is a chronic mum's boy, I feel like as a mother ur son is not married to you, you should encourage ur son to be independent because you cant be alive forever, and also if as a woman u decide to date a guy please and please take time to study the guy notice red lights on time, don't let ur guard down. And if you see that ur guy is always dependent on his mom please take notice, if he's always taken orders from his mum and he cant make a say in the relationship please leave him, you will cry and learn the hard way, all this is breaking my heart. Mothers should not interfere in some issues, and also ur son's are not ur husbands they will have their own life and family someday.
U are a strong woman Eniola. God will heal ur son divinely in Jesus name. Red flags should not be ignored in relationships. The mother in law is a No No from the onset. She should not have proceeded with the marriage initially. God will sort u out and u will find a better man to marry in future by Gods grace.
I was at the Introduction on that day as one of her moms too and single handedly called to serve his family members but they were ranting and we all started begging including the bride's mom who happens to be a family friend turned aunt . Cynthia Eniola has also been my daughter over the years who is cool headed, reserved, respectful, reliable and responsible.
Gbenga showed love when he came for the Introduction. I believe God of Papa Oshoffa is about doing the restoration of everything meant for my dear daughter Eni as we use to call her. Be strong dear, because the storm is over.
Thank you aunty B for bringing her out of her shell.
Don't you think her own families is also involved in her problem? Bcos been urge to see her family
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you and him. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
@@adenikeadeniyi4708 i dont thnk so. She said the visa she was given was just for 4 months and with d harsh treatment she was getting from d husband it is understandable if she longed to see her family back in Nigeria
@@adenikeadeniyi4708Do you think is ordinary
hmmmm
This woman is strong, kudos 👏 to you. U will not suffer in vain by God's grace.
Exactly! A man that have no one that can admonish him, someone he listens to and respect. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! Ladies a word is enough for the wise.
I hope her son talks and eventually lead a normal life and I’m sending her strength ❤️
This story is so touching 😢 really feel your pain sis 😢 God will intervene nd comfort you 🙏 I pray for God's divine protection nd healing on your dear son 🙏 love you so much sis ❤ God is your strength 💪
Go find out the exact country he currently reside, get your marriage cert, wedding pix, one or 2 pix you both had in Belgium & the exact clinic details you both went to in Belgium. Get your baby's pixs from 0-current age, medical condition docs and look for the immigration address in his country of abode & post your truth with lenghty typed letter & see what God will do. Your child deserves better no matter what. God help you!
She needs tools like walker etc for that child. If Gbenga and family aren't coming forth, let her go to Hamzat Oriyomi (Ibadan) or Brekete in Abuja. She needs all the support (financial) etc she can get. I wish her well, she's a strong lady, keep pushing. It shall be well!
i love this respond,
As am hearing ur words,am so feel for you here,hmmmm u ar a strong n real good mother,I pray fr you in the capacity of the lord ability the Almighty God will heal n perfect everything concerning ur son in thy name of Jesus
As am listening to all her story,am crying here n also pity her , she's a strong woman indeed
Exactly,love is not enough marriage is not about love alone pay attention to red flags while courting don't be blindfolded with love
I so feel your pain. The truth is, whenever a man come forth to warn about his family, it’s a red flag. He is same as they are and he is trying to disarm you. He has decorated the trap like a lovely coach.
You are a good mother my sister. May Almighty God will continue to perfect your son's health in Jesus name. God is able. By His strippe we are healed. I am impressed that you invested on your son. God will bless you abundantly in Jesus name. Tell your mummy great job too.
To me (yoruba proverb says) oju to bama beni kale koni taro se ipin, i can never go into a relationship where the family don't accept me kole easy rara
Thank goodness am happily married those mother in-law problem is not easy at all my health cannot face it
The Lord will see you and child through sis
❤
I stumbled on this video by chance but I have been a fan of this great nollywood star Abiola. God bless you.
I was just crying watching this.... I pray God heal Ralph permanently Amen
My husband will bring women on my matrimonial bed. It a bad one. But today I relocate abroad
That guy is spiritually married to his mum,such guys can't do anything without telling his mum.Wrong guy,wrong family
likely a good guy whose mom has spiritually held to. If he had been with a woman he wud have been liberated
Haaaaaa! You just nailed it.
Well spoken❤
Yes oo I can relate cos I went through such family, because I tell my ex husband that his omo mommy he carry cutlass cut and destroy our washing machine and freezer he said he wanted to cut me but a spirit change his mind until I beged him again with his mother name that is when he stop to destroy things that day
God is your strength and I salute your courage. I pray to God that your boy will walk and talk by the special grace of God.
Many innocent life and destiny are destroyed because of mother in law wahala. May God repositioning Ralph health. Really feel your pain sis 😭😭😭. It's tiring 😔. Well done Aunt B.
Isn't dis Eniola Ajao ?
Dis is very emotional & educating !
No one knows it all when it comes to d marital issues o !
The funny thing is, if only she had this special child in Belgium, their government would have compensated and supported her continually. I pity her sha, in Nigeria with such child. It is well!
Oloriburuku ni awon husband family wey dy now, just like the useless family I found myself but I give thank you God for saving me from them before it would be late
Aswear
God will absolutely take control Because He's God😊
@@rachelgreenwood1757lo😊
It is well
Aunty Biola said E light up a bit 😂😂😂😂
Some parents already donated their children's glory in their coven. The children wont have marital settlement, no matter how rich and handsome they are
You know why? Their secret gets exposed when they marry a strong and loving woman, and liberates her husband
@@preciousodubogun5214 but they will attack that strong or prayerful spouse a lot. Until God prevails
The great physician GOD will keep and change Raphael's health
God wil strengthen u ooo
N give ur son permanent healing 🙏🙏
Olorun ma je ki awon omo wa o si le ya, may the Lord come thru for her and the young man.
Amin o Jesu.
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
Omo
This story is seriously scaring ooooo
Her situation from d beginning seems similar to mine and I’m even pregnant presently
God please I pray for safe delivery ijn and nothing will happen to my baby
Amen 🙏 ooooo
Save delivery in'shaa Allah 🙏
Amen 🙏 you will deliver like Hebrew woman ijn 🙏♥️💯
Amen in Jesus Mighty Name
God Almighty in his infinite Mercy will restore Raphael’s health in the name of Jesus Christ .Amen.Stay strong Sis
Hmmmmmm this is so emotional 😭
I swear am learning a lot on this program
God bless you aunty Biola
God will continue to protect you sis and God will fight for you
Young lady pls watch and learn from this program TALK TO B To THE WORLD ❤
The red flags were visible from the beginning, the feeling of love between them was not mutual and family was not helpful too. May God heal Raphael.
It was very visible, she ignored it. How will a man tell you not to work, put on your camera, give phone to the person beside you say wetin happen. That's why I don't like this match making.
It is well with you and your son
in relationships, once your prospective in-laws do not welcome you well, that's a red flag. run with your two legs.
Yes ooo , run away from a man that doesn't have someone that he listens to
Rightttttttt
You are a very strong woman. God will continue to strengthen you sis ♥️
God will surely intervene in this your case and God will fight all your battle for you 🙏 A helper will locate you ijn 🙏 and the boy will talk and walking ijn 🙏
Omo ! How did I not cry ,this lady went through alot😢😢May the lord come through for you🙏🏽
Self medication before pregnancy can be very bad, also some prophecy can be misleading. I pray for perfect healing for Ralph.
You will eat the fruit of your labor in Jesus name. ❤❤❤
I prayed healing from the above for her son.
Allah will vindicate you Eniola
My dear sis,i totally appreciate your strength and efforts over Raphael. It's not easy to face in law wahala and at the same time beloveth revelation needs wisdom you can't say you won't go to them and say they should come and take responsibility my dear there are lots i can say darling but for the sake of that boy instead of begging Davido beg the father . Dearie not because of you but for the boy darling beg whoever they think needs to beg or please reach out to me let's talk . Two wrongs can never make right. You're loved dear.
You're very strong woman ,God will take good care of your son Amin
I really feel your pain my sister i have a similar story but thank God my child is healthy now and he is 17years old this year both father and any of the father,s family has never set there eyes to him neither himself know his father or any of the family.
Wow! It’s well with you
God is your strength Enni.You shall testify and it shall end in praise.
We all begging him to come and take his responsibility. Mr Gbenga! Raphael is ur responsibility plsssssss 🙏🙏🙏
I feel for this lady. Pls, how can I get her contact to give her direction pls. Weldone sis B for being a voice for the voiceless. May the Lord continue to be with you in Jesus Name, Amen.
I feel your pain. May the Lord help you and Raphael.You really need a lots of support and encouragement most especially from his biological father.
The family ( mother) is the principal Culprit here, pray God ease your affairs IJN!
The lord will be with you,with the condition of Nigeria it’s not easy o.it’s so sad.
Eniola, l need just to give you this advice please kindly be humble at any place you are next find yourself in life,
Omo this one nah big mistake oo 😢 make we no marry the wrong person 😢 God will heal ur son ijn u will get over it 🤲😪🙏
U re really strong
God bless you
God is strength
Dis story really change a lot of youth life particularly me
You should have gone to MFM for deliverance may be that might have settled the trouble in your marriage
I need to open my eyes very well before settling down with any man
@@gabrieljulian1623aswr ooo ,open eyes and shine your face ni😢😢😢
I salute your Strength & faith sis…. I wish you the best
Kudos to you my sis. Awon ebi oko yen 😏 Oloriburuku ni most of them, even those ladies that are among them, they will acting as if they’re not a woman. We will all reap what we sow bu God’s grace
I think i know dis lady, she’s a Celestial member
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
OMG, Our very innocent Eniola, may God bless you. hmm.. "Gbenga doesn't want you to work!!. You were rendered powerless financially. A man telling you not to work is not a display of love or affecton. Some mean men use that to capture and enslave women. Thank God you are free. Thanks Sisi Biola for this show.
Hmmm… this bites deep ! May God come through for you and Raphael 👏. Some family members and MIL are the board of directors to some marriages.
They just want to have their child alone without minding to cause chaos, breakup , ruin the life of others all bcos one is married into their family 😢.
It’s best they don’t even agree during the courtship than make another person suffer the moment you marry into the family …
God Almighty will heal Ralph completely in Jesus name
I thank God for your life, that you left in peace. Your story is similar to mine. What my mother in law is doing to us spiritually, if I say it you will be crying for me.
Sorry dear
Just keep praying those families ehn
😢😢😢 so emotional
May the Lord strengthen you sis
She made a mistake of going back to Nigeria since she knew she's pregnant, she should have found her way to police station and the police will called social to come to her aid, thank God she's alive to tell her sorry
Oju lasan ko,it's not ordinary, for someone wants to go back to Nigeria with all the efforts.
Na Oriyomi Hamzat fit settle this matter I swear
So sorry for your child condition. I pray God will find you help where possible IJN Amen
There’s nothing anybody can tell me! I can never live with my in-laws… no matter how nice they are
Me too, I don’t pray of any condition that will make me live with them. Either good or bad they are
I have a terrible experience in marriage. But I calm down to achieve my goals
I am enjoying your stories please go on
God will continue to strengthen you darling sister ❤❤.God will heal your son ijn amen 🙏
This story is so emotional God is urs strength ma
The attitude of that man is not an ordinary, his mum doesn't want him to get married, i think his mum is getting money from him,he doesn't want him to settle, if the care is taking,he will not get wife or children, Eni you are a strong woman, God almighty will heal your child, go to brekete family in Abuja to lodges your report,your days of sorrow is over
You are a strong woman, may the Lord heal your son. And you even look like eniola Ajao, the artist
True
Exactly
Some mothers hate their daughters inlaw if they had introduced a lady or ladies to their sons and he didn't marry her. They never love the daughter in law feeling she made their son to defy their instructions. This is the bedrock of this family failure
It is possible to divorce in absentia. U are a strong woman. God will continue to strengthen you.
I agree please Aunty B ask her to follow Jerry Eze NSPPD online prayer Monday-Friday 7-9 am
May healing continue to be on you Rapheal. But i need to also point out a lesson i think we should learn. When you are going into a relationship, you being happy with your husband alone is not enough. Family is also everything. As women we also need to have a cordial relationship with our spouse family. Pls let’s be watchful and careful as well. May we not fall victims of bad families. Amen.
The man Gbenga as a spiritual challenge, is God that protect you over there with him.
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
You are a strong woman may God will heal him ijn🙏🙏🙏🙏
This very show is meant for ladies, there are so many lessons to be learnt, don't overlook, ignore what can bring unending sadness in your marital life.
This is so disheartening 😂😂😂 I really wept while watching.
I pray God will grant Raphael good and sound health in Jesus name.
I prophesy to your life Eni, you will have reason to testify in all ramifications
It's well.... God will perfect your son health ijn 🙏
Ooh baby girl you went through hell and I appreciate God's strength in you. Raphael will be alright in Jesus name. But am sorry you saw everything at the beginning now anyway you have a wonderful testimony on Raphael he's going to be OK. And you Biola sweetie I love your beautiful and the way you questioned her that was a good job ❤❤❤❤
Hummm it is well. Weldone aunty B . Aunty eniola it is well. God will show you the way forward.
They make him hate her, they want him to be irritated at the sight of her, husband family may God help us in marriage
I so much feel your pain, God with Heal Raphael in Jesus name 🎉🎉
You are very strong woman 😢❤God be you and your child 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I really hope she gets the help she needs for her kid. But before getting married, his family calls him “microwave “ yet she went ahead 😭.
😭😭😭😭
I cried o 😢
The lord is her strength 🙏
Please can I have this lady contact I'm really sympathetic about her situation.
Is there an update on this? And what steps are being taken to care for Raphael?
Please Eniola Ajao,take this case to Brekete family to intervene in Abuja.
This is not Eniola Ajao,though they actually look alike.
Chai😢 this woman has suffered, Gbenga Abeg come Takia of ur son please.
Haaaa woman you are very stronger hoooo chaii i was crying here but i can see you dat you are holding it and you had cry tired self chaii God will help you and give you your right man ijmn 🙏🙏🙏stay bless the strongest woman hummm infact is not easy atall
One thing is, the guy may never come and claim that child!
I have a very very similar story to this lady. But at birth God sent a man of God my way while my son was in ICU. He prayed for him without seeing him at all or allowed in the ward sef. He came to visit and saw me downstairs at FMC Abeokuta that faithful day and prayed for my son, long story short my son was discharged the next day.
I was very scared when they sent me home after rerunning all our test.
But to God be the Glory!
My son will be 6yrs this month and *he's perfectly fine* and healthy. Am just grateful to God that He healed my son back then!
My prayer is God will uphold this lady and strengthen her!
People can not fathom the level pains others are going through !
But God is your strength just forget these people and focus on your life and son.
May God be with you sis.
Aunty B. thanks for airing this.❤❤
From your o nyo wa, o nyo lo subscriber😂😂😂
Thank u so much oooo...I appreciate. And am using ur son as a contact to mine too...God dt heal ur son will heal mine too completely Amen!!!
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
Aunty B please how can we support her
Please send me a dm on our official page on Instagram @talktob5000 I'll send you her account details
Please send me a dm on @talktob5000 I'll send you her account details ma
Av been in such shoes before but mine I didn’t live with his family at the end I had to walk away frm being bullied alwaz so I understand her situation
I cried 😅. This lady is strong and the story is sad.
God bless Talk to B! God bless Aunty Biola.
I hope the Gbenga and his family are watching this programe cos u are a strong woman i must commend
I even caught my own husband in the act,starkers.
For everyone watching and reading the comments, my mission here is to tell everyone the real truth:
Thanks to the host of this show for her unbiased questions; you are truly blessed.
I am Engineer Prosper. I attend the same church and went to the same college with Gbenga in Belgium. I even visited him at home with my Oyinbo wife and two children when Eniola was in Belgium.
Which married woman would go and sell clothes to her ex-boyfriend in his house? I bet none!
This is why Gbenga decided to end things with Eniola back in 2016 and move on with his life.
The Gbenga that I know is very calm, sensible, reasonable, upright, and well-mannered. However, he does not tolerate nonsense.
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga saw your WhatsApp chat with your ex-boyfriend in Nigeria after 3 or 5 days of your arrival in Belgium? You told him that you went to pick up money from your ex-boyfriend because you sold him some clothes.
However, he didn't buy into your story and simply told you that everything was over between you. He couldn't trust a single word from you anymore and started sleeping in the living room downstairs while he told you to sleep in the main bedroom upstairs and he stopped talking to you for the remainder of your stay with him.
Why did you lie that you didn't have a phone when your phone was connected to the home Wi-Fi and you could use WhatsApp 24/7?
About your pregnancy and stay in Belgium:
I am well aware that you spent a maximum of 5 weeks in Belgium based on the condition of your visa, you were supposed to return to Nigeria and return to Belgium after 3 months but the guy told you not to return to him because of what he discovered on your phone. There was a mutual agreement between you and Gbenga that he would take you to places you wanted to visit during the weekends because if you went out on your own and couldn't relocate the house, no one would give you directions in English since it's not an official language in Belgium. Why did you decided to lie to the host of this show? You are where you are today because of your lies, I am sorry to say.
After you both discovered that you were pregnant, Gbenga simply told you that your ex-boyfriend is the father of the child you were carrying, isn't it? Why didn't you tell the host of the show all of these facts? You simply came to this program to lie and slander someone who has done nothing but try to give you a better life. By doing so, you've just earned yourself a defamation of character lawsuit.
Paternity test and your arrival in Nigeria:
Why didn't you tell the host of this show that Gbenga told you and your mum that he'd be coming to Nigeria for a paternity test after the delivery of the child because he's not sure if he's the father of the child you were carrying due to the WhatsApp chat he saw on your phone between you and your ex-boyfriend?
Why he blocked you and your entire family:
The guy simply asked you to tell him one good thing you brought into his life. "Curses? Losses? Gaslighting? Lies upon lies? Misfortune? Problems upon problems? Quarrels? Bad energy?" He even showed me the messages of all the curses you sent him on WhatsApp back in 2017. He made it clear to me that he has so much respect for Mummy Junior & her husband but even that could not stop him from severing ties with you and your family.
He told me how you almost ruined the relationship between him and his best friend and how you've always laid curses on him during your phone conversations. After watching this video, I questioned myself how he even got involved with you. Why didn't you tell the host of this show that you sent him a link to some Christian sermon on Facebook in January this year, but he ignores everything from you. You seem like a pathological liar to me.
About Pastor Chris:
The tipping point for me was when you mentioned to the host that he listens to Pastor Chris and you laughed. I bet you are wiser and more successful than Pastor Chris!
Your stories:
Your stories do not add up. You told the host that you did a scan during the 4th month of your pregnancy, and there were no issues. However, the second scan shows there were issues with the child, but you decided to continue with the pregnancy. In the western world and Nigeria, they flush out such pregnancies immediately when they are discovered.
My advice for you:
You should change your attitude, read a book titled "Brokenness" by Dr. D.K. Olukoya, move on with your life, and move closer to God. Everyone will reap whatever they sow!"
To all Nigerians: Life is practical, not mystical.
Kind regards,
Engr Prosper
Kudos to you Aunt Biola 👏 God will perfect all that concerns you and your family
Hello B, One thing I noticed is that most of these ladies sharing their experiences, something common with most of them is that the guy is a chronic mum's boy, I feel like as a mother ur son is not married to you, you should encourage ur son to be independent because you cant be alive forever, and also if as a woman u decide to date a guy please and please take time to study the guy notice red lights on time, don't let ur guard down. And if you see that ur guy is always dependent on his mom please take notice, if he's always taken orders from his mum and he cant make a say in the relationship please leave him, you will cry and learn the hard way, all this is breaking my heart. Mothers should not interfere in some issues, and also ur son's are not ur husbands they will have their own life and family someday.
A lot of times we see red flag but we choose to ignore also in the name of what people say
I love ur courage 😢this is deeeeep
Yes I always see her on TikTok 😭😭😭😭
If you're not strong spiritually and physically you can't deal with this husband family of a thing, MARRIAGE !! Not for the weak oo
U are a strong woman Eniola. God will heal ur son divinely in Jesus name. Red flags should not be ignored in relationships. The mother in law is a No No from the onset. She should not have proceeded with the marriage initially. God will sort u out and u will find a better man to marry in future by Gods grace.
Hi sis,good work you're doing.
Wish to talk to you privately