ACTING from a place of JEALOUSY is a LIABILITY
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Just know this: any woman that leaves you was never worth fighting for at all to start with.
Once again she will bring it to a Lose-Lose situation 😂😂😂
Get jealous & try to act- she will like the other person & hook up with him.
Don't get jealous & keep calm- she will think "he doesn't care about me" and hook up with the other peraon.
Don't waste your time on them... Its useless anyways
😂😂😂
I agree... there is a reason why jealousy has evolved and remained strong in us... because it serves a useful purpose.
Those that are not jealous have slowly removed themselves from the gene pool.
This is why you need to have a code of conduct for yourself and your girl before it ever even gets near that point. Trashy women will put you in a lose-lose situation. The RIGHT girl, a good girl, a keeper, GF material, wife material, will never even get that close to the boundary to begin with.
You are right, I have always thought and realized that most situations and scenarios no matter how they go benefits the woman
Thats why it is prohibited to have any type of relationship between a woman and a man unless its in the frame of marriage. Period.
@@user-vj8ix9ls2v he is talking about marriage also. Even in marriage after some time she will start "feeling" this
Casual interactions, that a man's woman engages with another man, may not bring about the feelings of jealousy but the feelings of disrespect.
It's not that I get jealous, it's that I don't like being disrespected.
This is so true!
Golden advice
It's important though If your girlfriend sends you a picture of a penis donut with a pink hole donut, and she says that somebody gave them to her that you confront her about this because that's going to step too far.
That was exactly what happened today with me and my girlfriend. Luckily I called her and she clarified that she picked them out and one of her girlfriend paid for them. Now if a guy brought those to her that's going a step too far, And I got to know. That would be well beyond just saying oh you look beautiful today or something like that.
Wow that's deep 😳 nice 👍 brother 👏
Well explained.
So let her keep going out with her male bestie? 😂🤡
😅😅😅 sounds about right.
She's going to do that anyways.
She can do whatever she want. But she should know this: If shes not respecting boundaries, shes off
@@diegoalbertoromerobarron6836 & that's jealousy 101 not indifference.
if your girl demands to being able to hang out with her male friend 1 on 1, your relationship is doomed from the start.
My partner wants to keep single female friends & always seems to find new ones and I’m apparently insecure & jealous for objecting
So
It’s not just women doing this
Men are doing it too
Never compare men and women. The psychology is very different. This guy gives great advice for men but most of what he says is not applicable to women.
What he says about "aligning" the perception is completely impossible for men. It is straight up false. But it is possible to do with women for better or worse.
We know that. Everything happens both ways. It's usually about majority. This situation majorly happens to men and we get called all kinds of names for it, except "aware".
Do you think the single female friends he has are more attractive than you are??
Are you a true partner, open, trusting, supporting loving etc. Are you a team. If he has an issue with something you've done can you sit down with him. Figure out if you're in the wrong & work on fixing it, without immediately getting defensive, going on the atack & refusing to admit fault? If asked would he say the same about you. Can you do this with him, bring up issues & figure them out like adults. Without either situation starting a fight? If so your pretty safe.
If not you've got the typical female inability to believe your wrong, lose an argument & have no accountability. Worse you after hitting him with every thing you can in an argument, including fighting dirty using vulnerabilities or private things he's told you, he then has to apologise to you for upsetting you.
Think back over any arguments lately. Did you win them, how did you win them & did he have to apologise? Have you ever lost an argument & apologised? Maybe ask him this question as well for his perspective.
Women who refuse to be wrong drive Thier men away. Issue's are a mutual thing to figure out. If it's one sided he'll lose any faith in the relationship & any trust in you. Particularly if you betray confidences to use against him. He'll shut off from you emotionally, you'll get bored & the probably cheat. You'll blame him for holding himself back, without realising what you did to drive him away. How honest with yourself are you Darl?
Um....mate guarding is important for civilization.
So how to react when a women is jealous of me and try to control me ?
Then what is the point
Yah until shit ain’t right.. Than you have to lay down the law…
Amazing! Never heard this perspective before. It’s gold!
I think a little jealous in a normal / light way can be kind of adorable and the woman will even be happy about the small demonstration of affection. The real problem I think is crazy / angry/ irrational jealous. That will be a big problem because she will think the guy is crazy and might even become violent. Only really crazy jealousy I think is a problem. A have a friend whose husband is a tall and handsome guy, but insecure because she comes from a rich background and he came from a poor family. When they went to a restaurant, he said she was looking at the waiter, when they went to a building, he said she was looking at the doorman, at my birthday party, he said she was looking at a single guy who was talking to everybody. (At leadt this time, he picked a better one to be jealous of...)
Sounds like she was disrespectful towards him.
@@otrebla8944She really wasn't. He was irrationaly jealous. These guys were extremely ugly / unattractive. Just a doorman they were asking for information or a waiter at a restaurant. It was really crazy. I think there are few men crazy like this, but they do exist.
So, you cannot take action when a man is flirting with your woman and what? Just watch him take her away??
Or take action and watch him take her away??
You told us the problem, but not the solution....
Maybe they'll be more info in the full video. Let's check it out
I think men or women should not accept their girlfriends / boyfriends having friends of the opposite sex. Period.
@@elainer8288 Yeah that's right. And me and my girl have mostly used GPS tracking freely together. Open phones.
Its really positive and healthy if both people genuinely want to feel safe and also allow the other person to feel safe too.
this is a dumb message from a brilliant dude.
Hope you're not saying I shouldn't be jealous at all
I think a little jealous in a normal / light way can be kind of adorable and the woman will even be happy about the small demonstration of affection. The real problem I think is crazy / angry/ irrational jealous. That will be a big problem because she will think the guy is crazy and might even become violent. Only really crazy jealousy I think is a problem. A have a friend whose husband is a tall and handsome guy, but insecure because she comes from a rich background and he came from a poor family. When they went to a restaurant, he said she was looking at the waiter, when they went to a building, he said she was looking at the doorman, at my birthday party, he said she was looking at a single guy who was talking to everybody. (At least this time, he picked a better one to be jealous of...)
know shes gonna cheat , just know she dont care about u
who cares. caring about and trying to navigate through a womans emotions is pointless
But men also have an intuition and in some cases stronger than a womans and in a different way!!!