What Men want - 8 S’s for Married Women 1. Speak-say it 2.Support- mutual responsibility 3.Safety- when he fails 4.Space-time accountability 5.Sex-when he wants 6.Security-be faithful 7.Service-invest in your marriage 8. Savior-pray together
Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teachings. I believe wives don't have a problem supporting their husbands the challenge is where the man just becomes comfortable and lazy enjoying being taken care of. A man should show he is trying he is making effort.
Respect for a husband must be earned and not demanded. If man complains that his wife does not respect him it means he has not done much to earn her respect. Actions speak louder than words.
@M S. The same applies to a woman. Respect, care, love and everything for a woman MUST be earned. Not given nor a favour nor a right. No one between a man and woman have given rights that are superior or a priority over the other. We must acknowledge the divine purpose of God creating a man and woman. A woman is a man's helper not a boss. None is special than the other. We are equal and deserve equal respect, attention, love and care
Wives, respect your husbands... That wasn't a suggestion. My friend you are deceived by feminism. Let me tell you... The reason you say a husband must earn respect is because you don't want to take responsibility for the man you married. You are playing the victim Marriage is a choice... Once a man is your husband, you must respect him
And by the way @M S what were you doing during courtship... That was the place to check whether he is worthy of respect and thus marriage. You don't marry the person then start thinking afterwards. Take responsibility
I am greatly inspired by your messages. Not only do they edify, but are also well articulated which makes it easy to understand. I find myself taking notes every time I listen to your messages, yet this was not my habit before. I pray that God may continually bless you and grant you the wisdom to continue impacting the lives of men.
I made mistakes in life not intentionally but both FAILED. I am so scared to make another mistake again. Help me Lord let me meet the one you have made for me and If my messing up I lost her it's better than another failed marriage. Have it thy way Lord .have it. Your way. THY WILL BE DONE.
Well said Dr...These are priceless things that constitute positive humanism.A man is the weaker gender in a marriage in terms of love compared to a woman. What destroys most relationships is simply EXPECTATIONS....It comes a times , they take a downward curve.For instance, a wife -husband attention sharply falls immediately when a couple becomes parents.Whereas, the wife expects the husband to understand the mother-child bond to be a priority, the husband feels neglected, giving birth to new associations that eventually harm marriages....Maintaining expectations form and kind notwithstanding, is huge task in marriages. Without Prejudice.
I have a calling from God for the restoration of marriages and the healing of families. If you would want me to speak in your conference on marriage, feel free to email me… drkncoaching@gmail.com
Men must respect,love theirs wives un conditionally, so that they should be loved and respected, without that what you said becomes useless. Men should not be narcissistic to prevent toxic relationships in marriage
Thank you Dr. Jacob I'm not married as yet, engaged though but this sermon was an important one...i want to learn to be consistent in praying and even learn how to pray 🙏
Its so unfortunate that after women do all these things, they don't get love in reciprocate. Even with such noble women, men stray and go for worse women than their wives.
Seriously, I prefer to listen to a teaching that balances the reality we face and what should be. Men like respect but do things less worthy of respect. Even after the woman has done all she can then he goes with a lesser version how can I ever respect you again
but the problem is girls nowadays only focus on money that a man has...she'll never look into his other qualities carefully as long as he's flashing a fat wallet, so when she gets her heart broken by a bad tycoon who is also a serial cheater, the man is entirely blamed, while all along her eyes were just on the yummy money.
@@blackdoug6959 I have a woman who is the bread earner, takes care of her husband and family and respect him but still the man is jobless and doesn't love her back
I have a friend who has mastered those 8s'. And what she has gotten in return, no words can describe. It is hell on earth. I have real fear that he can kill her.... My point is that there is no guarantee that after you deliver on all these you will have a happy marriage.
I am just tired of speakers who just focus on what men want, women are just tired of the burden that marriages are becoming. Please focus on what makes a woman fulfilled and happy in a marriage. Please use your platform to let men know they have a responsibility physically, emotionally and presence . I think a lot of young women are not aspiring marriage because it looks like just demand on women with no reward. A tired woman
You really wrote my mind .men always use these teachings to torture women simply because teachers concentrate on women leaving out men .this makes marriege too bad
100% correct, I have tried to carry myself very well to man I dated for 5 years. I found many manuals, I followed everything to the tee. But he abused me, he was never satisfied, I deserve a crown for giving him all . All that whatever remained for me.to give him was my life. Yes life, he watched me.wasting way from the stress of his abuse, and I think he enjoyed that I was wasting away, loosing weight,being sick , crying etc. I walked out of that relationship living dead. God knows I was the best woman for him. My boundaries were not respected, I was trauma bonded, I didn't loose hope so fast, I held on hoping he will change but nothing. 1 year out of the relationship ,collecting the crashed pieces of me. It hurts.
The speaker clearly said this is a ladies message. Why don't you look out for his message to men in marriage instead of throwing away a well meaning message?
I agree with you Janet. This is why Dr. Munroe remains one of the greatest family and relationship teacher of the 21st Century. Dr. Myles addressed the Male Man, because he knew that The Male, is God's blue print for the human family. Women are Incubators, Responders and Multipliers by nature. Men are Givers, Cultivators, Protectors and Defenders. African Pastors are afraid to confront Men and Boys because of their Male Ego. Until the time when Men will take down their pride and talk to other Men and Boys, Family will not change. Addressing the Male is the Key to a stable Family. Women will just follow, it is their nature by Creation.
I am not married yet but I truly thank you for your good advice Sir. I learn a lot. May the almighty God bless me with a Man who fear God like me in juses Name
Thank you Pastor. What a great message. I consider the same 8S for my wife. Above all it is all about burying selfishness and being mindful about one another. Once a man sacrifices and forsake what he needs and considers what his wife needs, and the wife does the same, there will be sense in the relationship. Blame game, selfishness and feeling special than the other partner are the key spoilers and destroyers of relationship. Both men and women need equal attention and treatment in a relationship (marriage). To me, the needs of my wife comes first. The same way to my wife, my needs come first to her.
Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teaching, I have to agree with some of the comments here, I'm sure we all have our own stories to tell for days lol, if it's any other woman in my shoes I'm sure divorce papers would've been filled already, Im in a marriage of drug abuse, both of us unemployed, 2 boys on school, unemployed daughter with a baby, husband refuses to work, or to support me as a husband should, I'm at home since covid started nd I just can't get back up on my feet anymore like I used to... Many women out there wants to support, love, nd be loved by their husbands, but we just get so tired to carry all the responsibilities, nd the marriage alone we just get so tired... Have u ever heard that a husband says No to his wife? I'm talking about in the bedroom, finances, security, stability,etc. u start to feel like brother and sister lol... There's no more a "we"... I'm a single mom nd woman in a marriage. only thing that keeps me going is prayers, my kids, family I'm sure God has a season and expiring date for everything. May God bless you for all ur hard work
Sounds like my last marriage which ended in 1999. After 12 years of carrying the responsibilities (work, yard and child care), I concluded it was easier to do it alone, by myself.
God bless you sir for this exposure....I pray God will continually to increase your knowledge and fellowship with Him.. Your faults won't be find the sight of God and God will uphold your marriage too . AMEN
I totally agree that it's bad for a wife to abandon her husband when he is facing challenges. But sometimes this happens because, when this man is doing well financially, he abandons the family and spends that money with other women, then comes back to his wife when all the money is gone, and he's lost his job. That other woman doesn't want him anymore because the money that she was milking from him is no longer there.
god's punishment for his adultery like in today's franky's church of satan at rome and he encourages adulterers to receive hol communion. wow francis of rome is worst than martin luther or henry viii.heehe.
If you listened to what he said, he told them that because it's a women's conference. It's useless to tell women what they want when the people who are to hear it are not there to listen.
8'S men want from their wives First you've to give him the respect he deserves... 1.Speak it.. Say it 2.Support him 3.Safety_ when he fails 4.Space_ time for accountability 5.Sex when he wants 6.Security 7.Service_Invest in your marriage
That is your own standard and not of God, the bible in ephesians5 says wives submit to your husband and husbands love your wives just as Christ loves church and gave himself for her
Really my mentor am not yet married but yo words are so fruitful , courageous, I pray one day I be a public speaker because it's my dream and I pray one day my marriage to be exemplary to other people 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you ,Dr Jacob, im not even religious, but a good moral conduct is very similar to the same bases. I really enjoy listening to your messages and they help me, be a better man
Dr KN Jacob, may you continue to be blessed by God. May His Countenance greatly shine upon you. Thank you so so much for this teaching. I was wonderfully blessed. Much love sir.
having a healthy .marriage, being compatible, giving , respect, love. and communication. its just like a two way traffic , you give, and get at the same time together equally. bless you.
Thank you for that wisdom. My husband never had my back never my hand and never asked me to marry him. I had to say after 4 years what are your intentions? He cheated on me once on a trip overseas. He had no reason to do that. He was well looked after. I loved him for 22 years then my life fell apart. He had many trips overseas with work. We had a handicapped child I looked after for years. I nursed hubby with cancer twice. He never told me he loved me ever. His mother was j witness. I grew up in a religious school so this really broke my heart. F
I may not have been completely perfect but I think I did almost everything Dr is talking about but my ex husband was still cheating.fot me cheating or infidelity is a choose.period!
Now who is going to devote time and teach on what women want in marriage,we have had these teachings for a long time but love has to be reciprocal.there has to be a balance because women also need to be treated well. There's need for a shift where men are taught on what women also want
A man is not the best person to teach you what a woman wants. That should come from a woman so look for women preachers who speak about these.. there are so many of them!
Look very well, most men who feel they are not being respected by their wives are men who don't show love to their wives. Women want to feel loved. Love and respect is reciprocal.
Now my question is what are de men doing for de ladies to gain dat RESPECT? How can a arrogant man except RESPECT? Men should always remember that whatever dey give to a woman she will double it for him. Thank u
Thank you for your inspirational and divine words. I am a hard working wife, has respected and served my husband but he cheats, lies and creates artificial scarcity for I and his children. Right now we are staying apart and he doesn't take care of our children let alone care about me because now he has seen money. He claims he wants to enjoy himself. That he's in bondage in the marriage .He said I should take care of the children because am their mum and children needs the care and love of their mum more than their dad. Please advice.11years of marriage, l can't boost of 4years together. Now that he has seen money, he has gone out of hands. The Parents( the father is a Bishop and mother a Reverend) are in support of his attitude along side his siblings. When he never had, l was there but now, l am not needed .l have handed the situation over to God.
Thank you so much Dr. K. N Jacobs for the powerful lessons. May the good Lord continue giving you knowledge, wisdom and understanding. My question is, if a husband who has been caught red handed but does not want to say he is sorry and becomes arrogant, how can you forgive such a person who still does not want to accept his mistake? May God be praised. Shalom!
Our men in Uganda will never say sorry ,you the wife will decide between leaving him or bearing the hardship of accepting to continue staying because of children
Most African men become more arrogant on the issue of infidelity, it is not Ugandans only. So many are the times the woman will be left to deal with this humiliation and backstabbing alone. In this case its only God that can help us.
You start by packing your bags and leave and yhen go yo deep therapy .Then accept he eont say sorry.WHEN HE COMES BACK REFUSE.COZ YOU WILL GO THROUGH IT AGAIN
Thank you Dr. J.N. Jacob. You are the blessed of the Lord. Your teachings are inspired by the holy spirit. God bless you abundantly for making us see life in a different perspective. 🙏🇰🇪
From what men want to what women want 🕺🕺 and a woman I'm here to understand man!! People perish due to lack of knowledge... Thank you pastor for the powerful knowledge and wisdom. God bless your marriage too forever 🙌 💞💞
Don't waste our time ,marriage is out dated institution,beyond redemption ladies liberate this need to free yourself,it takes the life out of you,and make you an empty soul.Pray, love yourself ,you are complete,don't need Aman to fulfill your life,find your own fulfillment minus all the crap,I detest the way women have conditioned themselves
You will give that son of Pharaoh everything en I mean everything even your life buh still he'll go for other ladies out there so learn to live as an option cz that's wot they see us ladies
Great lesson. But look at the men who demand for all those 8s's But he has not married you officially,. Ie no dowry, no wedding but with four children. Sometimes ladies also ran short of patience. That no money. No money. 12 yrs in marriage
There are many stories similar to yours. Pastors need to address Boys and Men instead of talking at women. God gave all instructions to Adam, before the arrival of Eve.
Women are always willing to stay but some men are very protective and jealous so much that he feels u must go too low to show submission,nooooooo way,respect is earned by ones action not commanded
Dr Jacob you are a true example of what a husband should be like, I love the way how you speak very highly of your wife. God bless your union. Your prayer was so touching, it made me cry. I have been down that road I tried my best but only God knows. It was very stressful so I had to let go.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Doc are we allowed to laugh kidogo....am just happy about how you explain directly (come at the middle of the bed). Keep educating us,may God continue instilling wisdom on you🙏
Teach them what we too want from them. And stop encouraging men to be so high on us. We no longer need breakups in marriage,just to raise our children together,lets balance the equation dear.
Other men have bn over respected but gotten worse than you expect. In fact others take advantage of that. Others you speak n they become violent n abusive
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What Men want - 8 S’s for Married Women
1. Speak-say it
2.Support- mutual responsibility
3.Safety- when he fails
4.Space-time accountability
5.Sex-when he wants
6.Security-be faithful
7.Service-invest in your marriage
8. Savior-pray together
Thank you Madam
Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teachings. I believe wives don't have a problem supporting their husbands the challenge is where the man just becomes comfortable and lazy enjoying being taken care of. A man should show he is trying he is making effort.
Agree
True
N besides they start going to bed with house help as you hutsle out there
Totally agree 💯
Not all men deserve this.only few who reciprocate this.a cheating man will always cheat even if he repents.
Respect for a husband must be earned and not demanded. If man complains that his wife does not respect him it means he has not done much to earn her respect. Actions speak louder than words.
@M S. The same applies to a woman. Respect, care, love and everything for a woman MUST be earned. Not given nor a favour nor a right. No one between a man and woman have given rights that are superior or a priority over the other. We must acknowledge the divine purpose of God creating a man and woman. A woman is a man's helper not a boss. None is special than the other. We are equal and deserve equal respect, attention, love and care
Dr kN Jacob , may God continue to satisfy you with loving kindness in Jesus name 🙏.l love this message
No The Bible says we must respect our husbands. Help him become that respectable man by your chaste and good attitude, honor, respect, encouragement
Wives, respect your husbands... That wasn't a suggestion. My friend you are deceived by feminism. Let me tell you... The reason you say a husband must earn respect is because you don't want to take responsibility for the man you married. You are playing the victim
Marriage is a choice... Once a man is your husband, you must respect him
And by the way @M S what were you doing during courtship... That was the place to check whether he is worthy of respect and thus marriage. You don't marry the person then start thinking afterwards. Take responsibility
No matter how noble you are. A man will always want a new thing.
True thank you❤
I am greatly inspired by your messages. Not only do they edify, but are also well articulated which makes it easy to understand. I find myself taking notes every time I listen to your messages, yet this was not my habit before. I pray that God may continually bless you and grant you the wisdom to continue impacting the lives of men.
Do you know how stubborn these women's are in marriage? Let them be educated
@@dunmtalii2115😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great Lessons. How I wish this could be taught to everyone preparing to get married. Asante sana. This will save very many marriages. God bless you.
We're learning and blessed @Joyce
Am blessed too my sister but still single great lessons
I started listening to your teachings yesterday and it has inspired me alot, I'll never be the same.
You
This
Is
Wonderful
Jacob
I made mistakes in life not intentionally but both FAILED. I am so scared to make another mistake again. Help me Lord let me meet the one you have made for me and If my messing up I lost her it's better than another failed marriage. Have it thy way Lord .have it. Your way. THY WILL BE DONE.
Well said Dr...These are priceless things that constitute positive humanism.A man is the weaker gender in a marriage in terms of love compared to a woman. What destroys most relationships is simply EXPECTATIONS....It comes a times , they take a downward curve.For instance, a wife -husband attention sharply falls immediately when a couple becomes parents.Whereas, the wife expects the husband to understand the mother-child bond to be a priority, the husband feels neglected, giving birth to new associations that eventually harm marriages....Maintaining expectations form and kind notwithstanding, is huge task in marriages. Without Prejudice.
I have a calling from God for the restoration of marriages and the healing of families.
If you would want me to speak in your conference on marriage, feel free to email me…
drkncoaching@gmail.com
Hello sir, thanks for the teaching
Am trying to email you but it's say invalid email
Men must respect,love theirs wives un conditionally, so that they should be loved and respected, without that what you said becomes useless. Men should not be narcissistic to prevent toxic relationships in marriage
Volume that yessss!
Thank you Dr. Jacob I'm not married as yet, engaged though but this sermon was an important one...i want to learn to be consistent in praying and even learn how to pray 🙏
Its so unfortunate that after women do all these things, they don't get love in reciprocate. Even with such noble women, men stray and go for worse women than their wives.
Seriously, I prefer to listen to a teaching that balances the reality we face and what should be. Men like respect but do things less worthy of respect. Even after the woman has done all she can then he goes with a lesser version how can I ever respect you again
but the problem is girls nowadays only focus on money that a man has...she'll never look into his other qualities carefully as long as he's flashing a fat wallet, so when she gets her heart broken by a bad tycoon who is also a serial cheater, the man is entirely blamed, while all along her eyes were just on the yummy money.
@@blackdoug6959 I have a woman who is the bread earner, takes care of her husband and family and respect him but still the man is jobless and doesn't love her back
@@ilovejesus9303 how did they end up together? Was the man jobless and didn't love her before they became married?
Doctor has spoken only of "S". explore the other 25 alphabets
I have a friend who has mastered those 8s'. And what she has gotten in return, no words can describe. It is hell on earth. I have real fear that he can kill her.... My point is that there is no guarantee that after you deliver on all these you will have a happy marriage.
Man is evil there is nothing you can do right.nothing pleases them especially if they are not a child of God.
Some men are just full of shit, and i sometimes wonder how do dey understand love
@@trudyanngrant3437 those once only understand the language of hell hahaha,dey do de opposite of love
a good man Must be in the presence of God 24/7.. if not in the presence of God you can't understand each other.
They just want ONE S...SEX😂
Dr. Jacob, Thank you for the sermon on marriage. Truly a blessing . Greetings from Arizona.
I am just tired of speakers who just focus on what men want, women are just tired of the burden that marriages are becoming. Please focus on what makes a woman fulfilled and happy in a marriage. Please use your platform to let men know they have a responsibility physically, emotionally and presence . I think a lot of young women are not aspiring marriage because it looks like just demand on women with no reward. A tired woman
You really wrote my mind .men always use these teachings to torture women simply because teachers concentrate on women leaving out men .this makes marriege too bad
100% correct, I have tried to carry myself very well to man I dated for 5 years. I found many manuals, I followed everything to the tee.
But he abused me, he was never satisfied, I deserve a crown for giving him all . All that whatever remained for me.to give him was my life.
Yes life, he watched me.wasting way from the stress of his abuse, and I think he enjoyed that I was wasting away, loosing weight,being sick , crying etc.
I walked out of that relationship living dead.
God knows I was the best woman for him.
My boundaries were not respected, I was trauma bonded, I didn't loose hope so fast, I held on hoping he will change but nothing.
1 year out of the relationship ,collecting the crashed pieces of me. It hurts.
@@imconcerned5947 sorry sister iam proud of you.It takes courageous woman to walk out of an abusive relationship.
The speaker clearly said this is a ladies message. Why don't you look out for his message to men in marriage instead of throwing away a well meaning message?
I agree with you Janet. This is why Dr. Munroe remains one of the greatest family and relationship teacher of the 21st Century. Dr. Myles addressed the Male Man, because he knew that The Male, is God's blue print for the human family. Women are Incubators, Responders and Multipliers by nature. Men are Givers, Cultivators, Protectors and Defenders. African Pastors are afraid to confront Men and Boys because of their Male Ego. Until the time when Men will take down their pride and talk to other Men and Boys, Family will not change. Addressing the Male is the Key to a stable Family. Women will just follow, it is their nature by Creation.
You are truly helping a generation Sir...
Thank you so much pastor, please never stop in doing good
I am not married yet but I truly thank you for your good advice Sir. I learn a lot. May the almighty God bless me with a Man who fear God like me in juses Name
Amen
Yeees man of God......power travels through a relationship but not just words....this is tremendous!!
Thank you Pastor. What a great message. I consider the same 8S for my wife. Above all it is all about burying selfishness and being mindful about one another. Once a man sacrifices and forsake what he needs and considers what his wife needs, and the wife does the same, there will be sense in the relationship. Blame game, selfishness and feeling special than the other partner are the key spoilers and destroyers of relationship. Both men and women need equal attention and treatment in a relationship (marriage). To me, the needs of my wife comes first. The same way to my wife, my needs come first to her.
Wooow
good advice. but what if the man doesn't want you to take care of your parents and others who need you? and you are on a good salary.
Thank you Dr. Jacob for the teaching, I have to agree with some of the comments here, I'm sure we all have our own stories to tell for days lol, if it's any other woman in my shoes I'm sure divorce papers would've been filled already, Im in a marriage of drug abuse, both of us unemployed, 2 boys on school, unemployed daughter with a baby, husband refuses to work, or to support me as a husband should, I'm at home since covid started nd I just can't get back up on my feet anymore like I used to... Many women out there wants to support, love, nd be loved by their husbands, but we just get so tired to carry all the responsibilities, nd the marriage alone we just get so tired... Have u ever heard that a husband says No to his wife? I'm talking about in the bedroom, finances, security, stability,etc. u start to feel like brother and sister lol... There's no more a "we"... I'm a single mom nd woman in a marriage. only thing that keeps me going is prayers, my kids, family I'm sure God has a season and expiring date for everything.
May God bless you for all ur hard work
Sounds like my last marriage which ended in 1999. After 12 years of carrying the responsibilities (work, yard and child care), I concluded it was easier to do it alone, by myself.
If the wife's needs are met by her husband then respect comes naturally.
That is so true!
Br Gagrine
Nailed it.
Bless you!
Some men walk away when the wife needs him to most
God bless you sir for this exposure....I pray God will continually to increase your knowledge and fellowship with Him.. Your faults won't be find the sight of God and God will uphold your marriage too . AMEN
I totally agree that it's bad for a wife to abandon her husband when he is facing challenges. But sometimes this happens because, when this man is doing well financially, he abandons the family and spends that money with other women, then comes back to his wife when all the money is gone, and he's lost his job. That other woman doesn't want him anymore because the money that she was milking from him is no longer there.
Apparently the point dealt with overlooked this aspect.
god's punishment for his adultery like in today's franky's church of satan at rome and he encourages adulterers to receive hol communion. wow francis of rome is worst than martin luther or henry viii.heehe.
U hv it right sister!
Get outta here Dr Jacob!!
Am so tired of hearing about what men want. What about what women want. How come nobody talk to men about loving their wives unconditionally.
There are so many female preachers who are specialists in marriage and have tips for what women want. A man cannot tell you what a woman wants.
If you listened to what he said, he told them that because it's a women's conference. It's useless to tell women what they want when the people who are to hear it are not there to listen.
I am going to renew my marriage. I am blessed with the verses.
Thnx for your good words
Did someone break the vows. A man who never break any vows should never renew what he never broke
Renew is that doing everything or the duties that i was not doing.
❤️
Me too 😘
Please women don't live your life to please someone it should be muture. This means in love, respect and royalty
Buy why should I not want to please my husband surely
Worst advise ever. You should want to please your spouse
What about a woman the 8 s
@@mirriammajaha2839 so incredibly interesting! Important
This is life living message @
Servant of God this is a very powerful message for married women. God bless you and continue extending your territories.
8'S men want from their wives
First you've to give him the respect he deserves...
1.Speak it.. Say it
2.Support him
3.Safety_ when he fails
4.Space_ time for accountability
5.Sex when he wants
6.Security
7.Service_Invest in your marriage
Thank you
That is your own standard and not of God, the bible in ephesians5 says wives submit to your husband and husbands love your wives just as Christ loves church and gave himself for her
It is a blesses God bless you
Really my mentor am not yet married but yo words are so fruitful , courageous, I pray one day I be a public speaker because it's my dream and I pray one day my marriage to be exemplary to other people 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Men always want respect but some of them men don't give respect and that cause problem in marriage
Thank you ,Dr Jacob, im not even religious, but a good moral conduct is very similar to the same bases. I really enjoy listening to your messages and they help me, be a better man
Thank God for your video really helps my marriage life which is nearly torn apart .Thank you lord for a men of God
Great lesson. I wish every woman watch this. Be blessed dear.
Dr KN Jacob, may you continue to be blessed by God. May His Countenance greatly shine upon you. Thank you so so much for this teaching. I was wonderfully blessed. Much love sir.
God bless u sir,well spoken!
How I wish men would have same sermon on 8 S's too.
God bless you man of God. But men too should learn what women want....
Pp
Great and inspirational lecture indeed! It would also be nice to do a video on what women want from men in marriage, less attention is paid to it!
I agree
I hope our teacher Dr Jacob will make it thanks Esther Loma
ruclips.net/video/8SocJibzIqs/видео.html There it is, 12ps of what women want
Powerful, some how it's what us women want as well!
@@katusiimechristine6625 poa
having a healthy .marriage,
being compatible, giving ,
respect, love. and communication. its just like
a two way traffic , you give, and
get at the same time together
equally. bless you.
I believe he said at the beginning he'll be talking only about what a man wants ?
Thank you for that wisdom. My husband never had my back never my hand and never asked me to marry him. I had to say after 4 years what are your intentions? He cheated on me once on a trip overseas. He had no reason to do that. He was well looked after. I loved him for 22 years then my life fell apart. He had many trips overseas with work. We had a handicapped child I looked after for years. I nursed hubby with cancer twice. He never told me he loved me ever. His mother was j witness. I grew up in a religious school so this really broke my heart.
F
Wise teaching doctor. Exceeding grace
I may not have been completely perfect but I think I did almost everything Dr is talking about but my ex husband was still cheating.fot me cheating or infidelity is a choose.period!
What about what women want? Is it only a one way relationship to provide for men's wants in marriage?
ruclips.net/video/8SocJibzIqs/видео.html There it is, 12ps of what women want
Man way
Typical lol
Like your teachings, I'm single with two kids, I was worried at some point, but your teachings are strengthening me
Thanks for this message. Why do men keep cheating even when all these are done?
Learning as a single so when I meet my Boaz I know what is when
Amen
Now who is going to devote time and teach on what women want in marriage,we have had these teachings for a long time but love has to be reciprocal.there has to be a balance because women also need to be treated well. There's need for a shift where men are taught on what women also want
ruclips.net/video/8SocJibzIqs/видео.html There it is, 12ps of what women want for married men
Women need to take that stand and teach on what principles should be followed by men in marriage
A man is not the best person to teach you what a woman wants. That should come from a woman so look for women preachers who speak about these.. there are so many of them!
Look very well, most men who feel they are not being respected by their wives are men who don't show love to their wives. Women want to feel loved. Love and respect is reciprocal.
Praise the Lord! Thank you Sir.what a wonderful teaching according to the word of God.
Now my question is what are de men doing for de ladies to gain dat RESPECT? How can a arrogant man except RESPECT? Men should always remember that whatever dey give to a woman she will double it for him. Thank u
Perfect integration of holy books message with real life for followers to realize the gaps.
Sir ur messages are very effective The more I listen the more iblessed.Thank you.
Thank you for your inspirational and divine words. I am a hard working wife, has respected and served my husband but he cheats, lies and creates artificial scarcity for I and his children. Right now we are staying apart and he doesn't take care of our children let alone care about me because now he has seen money. He claims he wants to enjoy himself. That he's in bondage in the marriage .He said I should take care of the children because am their mum and children needs the care and love of their mum more than their dad. Please advice.11years of marriage, l can't boost of 4years together. Now that he has seen money, he has gone out of hands. The Parents( the father is a Bishop and mother a Reverend) are in support of his attitude along side his siblings. When he never had, l was there but now, l am not needed .l have handed the situation over to God.
I love the message but also Men should be taught how to be good husband's to their wives
He said this in the beg of the video that this is for woman next one is for men.
Thank you so much Dr. K. N Jacobs for the powerful lessons. May the good Lord continue giving you knowledge, wisdom and understanding. My question is, if a husband who has been caught red handed but does not want to say he is sorry and becomes arrogant, how can you forgive such a person who still does not want to accept his mistake? May God be praised. Shalom!
Our men in Uganda will never say sorry ,you the wife will decide between leaving him or bearing the hardship of accepting to continue staying because of children
It is only God that can comfort us
Well said, some men just purpose to ruin wifes
Most African men become more arrogant on the issue of infidelity, it is not Ugandans only. So many are the times the woman will be left to deal with this humiliation and backstabbing alone. In this case its only God that can help us.
You start by packing your bags and leave and yhen go yo deep therapy .Then accept he eont say sorry.WHEN HE COMES BACK REFUSE.COZ YOU WILL GO THROUGH IT AGAIN
Thank you Dr. J.N. Jacob. You are the blessed of the Lord. Your teachings are inspired by the holy spirit. God bless you abundantly for making us see life in a different perspective. 🙏🇰🇪
Wow! Jst wow ! Cant wait my Almighty to deliver my husband so that i can work on 8's words what man want🙏
Thankyou man of GOD. Be blessed 🙏
From what men want to what women want 🕺🕺 and a woman I'm here to understand man!! People perish due to lack of knowledge... Thank you pastor for the powerful knowledge and wisdom. God bless your marriage too forever 🙌 💞💞
Thank you very much, Dr Jacob .I'm very blessed with your teaching. I'm going to renew my marriage.
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Proverbs 12 (KJV)
4: A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
Thanks alot ,may the Lord's grace be upon you amen.
Some men become monsters soon after wedding
We.also want men who.love women
Dr Jacob is this very inspirational message for me because I am having some common conflict with my wife
I love how you present as if a crowd is actually physically present. God Bless you Dr J N
I understand was in seminar n was physically with the crowd
Thank you Dr for teaching filled with grace. Amen
Amen Amen Amen Amen Amen I walk in victory in my marriage in Jesus name Amen Amen
Powerful message i have learned a lot thanks alot .we need our men to know what women want plzzz in the next sermon
FACTS💯
Its already there
God continually bless you for your teachings. I've been clear about some issues in regard to my marriage. Thanks again Dr.
Yes ,thanks for ur powerful teaching Dr Jacob that what 8s what men look for to women ,but what about also what women want becoz they are all couple .
ruclips.net/video/8SocJibzIqs/видео.html There it is, 12ps of what women want for married men
Dr. Jacob...what a blessing..thank you ..you are one of His anointed ones..PRAISING GOD FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE
Don't waste our time ,marriage is out dated institution,beyond redemption ladies liberate this need to free yourself,it takes the life out of you,and make you an empty soul.Pray, love yourself ,you are complete,don't need Aman to fulfill your life,find your own fulfillment minus all the crap,I detest the way women have conditioned themselves
Please let me know when you will educate the men on what women needs. That would be very much appreciated by us women!
Thank you
Some of them promise your parents to take from you and when you live with them is a different thing.
Im watching from Namibia and inspired by your concrete word DR.
Powerful lecture 🙏🏽
Remember God made man the head of the house hold and his wife his helper. They need each other in marriage but the man leads the family.
When y have a, loving sweet husband . you give , him respect .
I agree too
When he is respected, he becomes sweet and loving. I a sure you.
You will give that son of Pharaoh everything en I mean everything even your life buh still he'll go for other ladies out there so learn to live as an option cz that's wot they see us ladies
Words of wisdom. What of those men you support when down and jobless but are selfish to empower you when up there back on their feet?
I've learnt a lot from this your Teaching may Almighty bless you Dr. K. N. Jacob Amen
Great lesson.
But look at the men who demand for all those 8s's
But he has not married you officially,. Ie no dowry, no wedding but with four children.
Sometimes ladies also ran short of patience.
That no money. No money.
12 yrs in marriage
Sure🙄😢
Have five kids, wit nothing.. For now have God my kids, an wrk,, 🙏🙏
There are many stories similar to yours. Pastors need to address Boys and Men instead of talking at women. God gave all instructions to Adam, before the arrival of Eve.
I am telling you
Glory to god amen
Women are always willing to stay but some men are very protective and jealous so much that he feels u must go too low to show submission,nooooooo way,respect is earned by ones action not commanded
Dr Jacob you are a true example of what a husband should be like, I love the way how you speak very highly of your wife.
God bless your union. Your prayer was so touching, it made me cry. I have been down that road I tried my best but only God knows. It was very stressful so I had to let go.
Thank you Dr Jacob. I'm truly blessed 🙌
I thank God to found your videos.it’s so helpful to me.Godbless u more Dr.and more videos for all of us🙏
Thank you Dr Jacob for best education on marriage.
1 Timothy:3.11
In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything.
Men must learn to forgive also since there is no superiority in Godliness
Am blessed indeed by your teachings Dr, I liked the way you unpacked the "Me time"
Watch Dan Mohler talk about marriage. Well balanced and brings healing - not biased and Christ minded.
It's always good to give a balance. Women respect you until you do an act less worthy of her respect that's the growth process for both of them
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Doc are we allowed to laugh kidogo....am just happy about how you explain directly (come at the middle of the bed).
Keep educating us,may God continue instilling wisdom on you🙏
I don’t care about what men want, I should I ask my self what I want .
Woooow thanks so much for the Teachings may God bless you abundantly am healed and have got more Knowledge how to be in Marriage
Teach them what we too want from them. And stop encouraging men to be so high on us. We no longer need breakups in marriage,just to raise our children together,lets balance the equation dear.
Other men have bn over respected but gotten worse than you expect. In fact others take advantage of that. Others you speak n they become violent n abusive
Iam blessed to have watched this. Thank you. But what do men know what women want or women are core in marriage strength.?
This message is good thank you I pray we put them in practice
Never cease to do good,GOD bless you
I'm JULIANA from Nigeria. Thanks so much. It's really helpful, I learnt a lot, and I need more of this