Thank you for being transparent about ALL of the grounds for a woman divorcing a man. Many women have been trapped in ungodly marriages and afraid to make a move due to inaccurate, biased and judgemental church counsel.
Very powerful and true to the bone Marrow,we live in pretence in marriage in the name of Tittle,mrs and fear of shame and embrasment. Worth listening and analysising❤
Wow! Dr. Jacob!!! You're the voice that many men and women have been waiting for. Thank you so much for obeying God and going against the grain.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This message and other messages that I’ve heard have been so refreshing and enlightening to receive. Thank you for imparting such wisdom and insight to us. So engaging and spoken with sensitivity and a humorous approach. Thank you for sharing.
Am relieved, thank you so much Pastor, your messages are so powerful and transparent. Many of us who are struggling with our marriages, will now be able to make our decisions. To God be the glory.
Thank u sooo much...a man doesn't become a good one at yo wedding night...believe them wen they show u their true self the first time. They only get worse. Runnnnn
Great thinker, great talker. I've never heard any pr talk so much sense like this man of God. Your Mercy is lucky to have such an intelligent man for a husband. I wish you could plan for a conference in Uganda.
Thank you Dr. K.N. Jacob this is an eye opener for many couples. You are such a great blessing to many. God bless you abundantly for the spiritual insight.
Wao, very revealing message. Thank you Dr. Jacob. I personally think most African men have problem with expressing and showing intimacy to their wives because of their ego and the fact that they see women as their subjects not as friends or partners. They think that having sex 3 times a day means loving a woman and they neglect the little things that matter. Most women survive in their marriages by the grace of God.
Toxic man: Conflicting on everything, hostile , abusive name calling , unappreciative, bitter everywhere, complains about her quality of everything about you, about others, never complements you but insults you . His heart is heavy . No compliments. Will flatter others but not you. Spirit if entirelment to your body dinner finances . No gratitude. Contradicts himself. Rules only work for him not you. Cheats on his wife. Doesn’t work on his marriage . Every women won’t be valued. Calls prostitutes . Pathological liar. Can’t recall his lies . Denies all . Annoying lies. Insults my intelligence. No intimacy , can’t reach out for sex. Separate bedrooms.
Doctor l have been married for 4 years now but l see no change at all in my marriage.My husband stays overseas and l have been raising my 2 kids alone.He is so insultive and l have no peace even over the phone.He shouts or even calls me bad name.Always fighting no peace.l am not free to even say what l feel.What ever l do that is good is not apperciated.What u said about a toxic man is what defines him.
Very typical of some men. I feel your pain my sister. Been there before though it wasn't long distance marriage. I was slipping into depression and I told him to stop but he won't. One day I decided to stand up for myself and damn the consequences. I fired back at him all the names that he called me and then fired up a letter to his family members for them to know what goes on in the background. He gossiped about me to all his friends and I did same with mine. It was tit for tat, and then he started talking divorce and I said bring it on. Then he calmed down because some of his friends told him it was a bad idea. Today, at least he treats me with respect. I care less about his love. The biggest thing is not to depend on a man for your daily needs so he will not use you for a football. Please pray to God and follow your instinct and involve people that he loves and will listen to. I pray God gives you inner peace.
Thanks Doc. I believe you this is what l have been searching to hear. God bless you for this raw truth. Sir. Please is there how l will chat you privately. There are things l can't say in public l am from Nigeria.
I agree with going to a christian counsellor but never go to a pastor, never ever, even counsellors will tell you to never go to a pastor. Maybe for yourself Dr. KN you are schooled in psychology, but pastors are not. Pastors are untrained, biased, apply guesswork and are in issues with their own relationship themselves that they do not know how to solves because they are not counselors and they need to be counselled themselves.
This people described as nagging n toxic have different core values and nothing can fix it unless they both get the same core values. More importantly Gods original core values.
Everything, you said about the nagging woman, described, my ex boyfriend to a T! Men are capable of nagging . Just for that, I was ready to break up. And I did!
Very true my sister, the action of one person triggers a reaction from another. Life is too short to let anyone turn you to something that you are not. I have been there before. I know it's hard but take control of your reactions by praying to God. Let him know how his actions affect you and tell him the changes that you would like to see. If this doesn't work, get people that he loves and listens to and let them talk to him. If it doesn't work find some inner strength and peace by praying to God to help you ignore his actions (that is, if it does not endanger your life) . God bless and keep you dear
Thank you very much Man of God for this special sermon. This will really help me take a bold and clear decision. I am very grateful. God richly bless you 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for being transparent about ALL of the grounds for a woman divorcing a man. Many women have been trapped in ungodly marriages and afraid to make a move due to inaccurate, biased and judgemental church counsel.
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I agree. I was nearly killed by my ex. Thank God he divorced me.
Very powerful and true to the bone Marrow,we live in pretence in marriage in the name of Tittle,mrs and fear of shame and embrasment.
Worth listening and analysising❤
Wow! Dr. Jacob!!! You're the voice that many men and women have been waiting for. Thank you so much for obeying God and going against the grain.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow! Dr. Jocob seriously and honestly yr genuineness man cz is not easily a man who can tolk thid word
Seriously we so happy cz pf yr words .i have been following yor now .i have changed so many things
Cz many guys they like that also women its very once
So true... God really saved me from true--fake friend..... 😄 marriageis not a rehabilitation center..... Father Lord please lead me well...
Thank you very much pastor. You are such a truthful man of God stands for the truth. God bless you more.
Wowww this is so touching. Thanks so much. This sermon is sinking deep in my spirit. God bless you sir.
This doesn't have enough views, this man is an ANGEL!
Amen
🎉Amen
Praise God thank you for your present fire preaching bless be the name of Jesus
Praise God thank you for your present fire preaching
❤🎉Praise God thank you
Dr. Jacob you are teaching what you must teach. May the good Lord continue to increase you in knowledge and wisdom. 🙏
Dr. You have really touched my wounded heart to receive healing through your authentic teaching more grace sir God bless you
You are Avery important person in my life it seems our almighty sent you to preach for me ihad given up with life but now iwll follow you to sucess
Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you.
This message and other messages that I’ve heard have been so refreshing and enlightening to receive. Thank you for imparting such wisdom and insight to us. So engaging and spoken with sensitivity and a humorous approach. Thank you for sharing.
Truly a gem of a pastor, one of a kind.
Thank you so much for your genuine guidance.🙏🏽
Since I started following things have started changing I value myself not to be too available for a 🙏 man thanks sir
Thank you for your teachings, God bless this me, I appreciate your teachings
Am relieved, thank you so much Pastor, your messages are so powerful and transparent. Many of us who are struggling with our marriages, will now be able to make our decisions. To God be the glory.
I'm so very happy listening to this today......
I feel a bit relieved from my problem.
Now I will put it in practice
Wao l can't get enough of this , God bless you Dr Jacob
Thank u sooo much...a man doesn't become a good one at yo wedding night...believe them wen they show u their true self the first time. They only get worse. Runnnnn
Thank you.....Dr Jacob....am from Uganda....ur words are so inspiring
Great thinker, great talker. I've never heard any pr talk so much sense like this man of God. Your Mercy is lucky to have such an intelligent man for a husband. I wish you could plan for a conference in Uganda.
Charity
If all women could listen to this message, the world could be a wonderful place.
Thanks so much may God grant you more wisdom.
Thank you Dr. K.N. Jacob this is an eye opener for many couples. You are such a great blessing to many. God bless you abundantly for the spiritual insight.
I have started following you the other day,may God bless you for the good work you are doing.
Thank you very much. Even angels clap for you sir!!!!
Wow! Great information! Thank you very much for sharing! God bless your ministry!
I needed this thanks Jacob,You saved me
I would rather have that problem than the problem of arguements...... 🔥🔥👌
Thank you God for loving us.
How I wish I heard this message before my wife of 13yrs divorced me this message cuts deeper.😢
Wise motivational Christian evidence based explanation 💥💯🙏👌🏿
Appreciate this very much, so much truth in thus message🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Very good message. Thank you for speaking truth!
Abwongo Gagrine,
Your message is inspiring please continue with the spirit -1Cor15:58
Wah what a teaching. I can relate. But by God grace I pourpose to change.
God bless you sir for this wonderful teachings
You talking mistrys .That's power men of God . That's powerful
Very great Thnks may God bless u
Very educative sermon God shower you more wisdom.
Amen thank you so much Dr.Jacob 🙏
after listening to this am now relieved
Thanks for the insight I feel blessed and inspired. The expression is teachable and well backed up by scriptures.
Eye opener,God bless you us
I have seen this message at the right time, thank you
Wao, very revealing message. Thank you Dr. Jacob. I personally think most African men have problem with expressing and showing intimacy to their wives because of their ego and the fact that they see women as their subjects not as friends or partners. They think that having sex 3 times a day means loving a woman and they neglect the little things that matter. Most women survive in their marriages by the grace of God.
Very true
Thank you Dr. You have always been a blessing to me.
I like your teaching
Toxic man:
Conflicting on everything, hostile , abusive name calling , unappreciative, bitter everywhere, complains about her quality of everything about you, about others, never complements you but insults you . His heart is heavy . No compliments. Will flatter others but not you. Spirit if entirelment to your body dinner finances . No gratitude. Contradicts himself. Rules only work for him not you. Cheats on his wife. Doesn’t work on his marriage . Every women won’t be valued. Calls prostitutes . Pathological liar. Can’t recall his lies . Denies all . Annoying lies. Insults my intelligence. No intimacy , can’t reach out for sex. Separate bedrooms.
Thank u brother God bless u so much i have known thing which i don't know before
Yessss ❤ l 100% agree
Thank you for making this channel and follow God leading that you can change people life's
Very nice message pastor
Thanks we should top burrying our heads in the sand. We should know when to walk away and run away
Wise words from you man of God, its the parting words for me 💯
I'm so bless by your teachings Dr. More grace of everything
Be blessed our counselor, it is more than best research report.
TOXIC MAN, you have said it all, God bless you,
Intelligent person talk sens,i like it
Just love God and keep quite
More wisdom sir, i learn alot from your teachings
Thanks Dr now I knew you explain me well this toxic man and nagging women I was lost .
Thanks Dr. & thanks again. M sorted
Thank you for you message very deep
What of those that changes after several years in marriage?
Man used by God to save families
Doctor l have been married for 4 years now but l see no change at all in my marriage.My husband stays overseas and l have been raising my 2 kids alone.He is so insultive and l have no peace even over the phone.He shouts or even calls me bad name.Always fighting no peace.l am not free to even say what l feel.What ever l do that is good is not apperciated.What u said about a toxic man is what defines him.
Very typical of some men. I feel your pain my sister. Been there before though it wasn't long distance marriage. I was slipping into depression and I told him to stop but he won't. One day I decided to stand up for myself and damn the consequences. I fired back at him all the names that he called me and then fired up a letter to his family members for them to know what goes on in the background. He gossiped about me to all his friends and I did same with mine. It was tit for tat, and then he started talking divorce and I said bring it on. Then he calmed down because some of his friends told him it was a bad idea. Today, at least he treats me with respect. I care less about his love. The biggest thing is not to depend on a man for your daily needs so he will not use you for a football. Please pray to God and follow your instinct and involve people that he loves and will listen to. I pray God gives you inner peace.
Hmmm this is too powerful and very true.
My counsellor thank u so much
God bless you Daddy
Pastor preach it,Good bless you
Thanks doc.... Surely your wisdom is of high understand....
Thanks alot pst for enlightening me for what l never knew preach it brother God bless you
Jesus is in you ♥️
Thanks Doc. I believe you this is what l have been searching to hear. God bless you for this raw truth. Sir. Please is there how l will chat you privately. There are things l can't say in public l am from Nigeria.
Am just following you this day of 21/04/2024.❤️❤️💕
Men who are unmanageable would quote that love over looks alll faults, please sir speak on this.
Support is what i lucked.
N i called it a quit...
I need someone who supports me to grow..
Lucy karibu sana i can groom you pole
Me too😘
You are my role model May my dream come true and God bless you
I agree with going to a christian counsellor but never go to a pastor, never ever, even counsellors will tell you to never go to a pastor. Maybe for yourself Dr. KN you are schooled in psychology, but pastors are not. Pastors are untrained, biased, apply guesswork and are in issues with their own relationship themselves that they do not know how to solves because they are not counselors and they need to be counselled themselves.
Hey,I see u know it,very true
What happens if all these points is present in the man?
What a role model!!!
Thanks indeed,Man of Highly God.so helpful
Quite an insight ,thank you Dr
This people described as nagging n toxic have different core values and nothing can fix it unless they both get the same core values. More importantly Gods original core values.
I like his English.... Amazing
you got married and realized few months later that you are not truly in love with your woman. what should you do? is it good to divorce?
Thank you so much for the wisdom
Marriage will never fix someone.
Thanks Dr
Waooooo thanks I learned alot ...
Stay blessed 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Everything, you said about the nagging woman, described, my ex boyfriend to a T! Men are capable of nagging . Just for that, I was ready to break up. And I did!
Break it in Jesus name!!!🤣🤣🤣 great words.
Am a nagging wife because I met a toxic husband... How can I be helped coz I need help to survive this marriage
Very true my sister, the action of one person triggers a reaction from another. Life is too short to let anyone turn you to something that you are not. I have been there before. I know it's hard but take control of your reactions by praying to God. Let him know how his actions affect you and tell him the changes that you would like to see. If this doesn't work, get people that he loves and listens to and let them talk to him. If it doesn't work find some inner strength and peace by praying to God to help you ignore his actions (that is, if it does not endanger your life) . God bless and keep you dear
I feel worthless in the hands of my husband 😭
Thanks a lot Dr.
Thank you very much Man of God for this special sermon. This will really help me take a bold and clear decision. I am very grateful. God richly bless you 🙏🙏🙏
God bless you sir.
This is a true sermon, thank you pastor am grateful
U nail it pastor!
Dr thanks
What a Word. God Bless you!
Awesome 💯
Still new bt I hve learned a lot Dr
Wonderful and true advice.