She hated men for years until this one man stood right in front of her | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- She hated men her entire life until this man stood right in front of her.
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Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.
Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.
We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.
May the Lord heal you from the traumatic experience. Pole.
Love you girl 😘😘
Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏
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Thank you
I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady
Thank you🙏💛
Am from Zimbabwe too Love this show
I'm from Zimbabwe too, you are doing an amazing God Lynn, God bless you
From Rwanda love this show too
Am from Zimbabwe too, an I've lived on this show for over 2years!Good job Lynn.
Fellow human beings, kindly never ask anyone why he/she isn't getting married. Some are battling childhood traumas.
This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.
@@masigalaura8176 we share the same story. We shall overcome.
Thats true... unfortunately traumas especially sexual abuse combined with emotional abuse leaves a void in the human soul that even marriage or relationships cant fill, many people are unmarried becasue of that
@@nicholasngecu So so sad
Sure haki
The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.
Thanks for your lovely comment I feel it to the core.
it's so true . at times u may think uko sawa ..but when triggered again realized not.
We truly hope you enjoy this episode💛
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Show ni poa but don't live the street interview..mama mboga na ma hastlers interview..
Thank you for helping and supporting us, yes us, making our voices heard and ousting our hidden memories, worries. This was inspiring for sure, God bless you! I would want to share my story too but I'm not in Kenya 😭😭😭
I love this lady
And this is what am trying to fight alone.thought congest in the mind till.you feel.like your brain is bursting
Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!
Sure. She will be our Oprah soon.
For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive
I'm not a parent but this topic is helpful. We need to share on family WhatsApp groups.
True
Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. .
I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas.
I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace.
I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy.
Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you love.
Sorry boo boo....hugs mamii
Oprah is a Queen who went through a lot but she became a queen of TalkShows
And our Oprah from kenya is lynn ngugi❤❤
No envy, no jealousy. Pure respect and celebration. Lynn Ngugi this shows are 🔥🔥 🔥
Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it
Hey Jane, please seek counseling,get delivered cz it might repeat itself and u get married to such a man.. all the best
Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal
Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️
Looks like an Oprah Winfrey show so proud of you Lynn
This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.
I watched this story on shared moment with Justus, I really cried. This lady went through a lot.
What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.
Thank you so much🙏💛
Truly appreciate the love:)
Isaiah43:18-19
This show is becoming something else i swear. Am so much hooked into it. Thanks Lynn,you are amazing 👏 ❤ 😘
i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.
So sorry for that. Hugs
You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗
You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.
Am also a Ugandan sorry
Please report this to the nearest children officer.seek help
Painful story to listen to.. May she and others who have gone through similar traumas receive healing ❤
This is the best place to be to be strong and come out of the pain you passed on thank so much Lynn for the good work 👏 🙌 God bless you 🙏
That's a good job Lynn, healing comes by speaking out and letting go off the past,and being positive .
Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪
As someone who was abused by my uncle, I spoke about it after 12 years. There's no forgetting
Uncles .
Yes. Trusted uncles...
Hun i told my mum for the first time at 28
I was abused several times and this is the first time I'm saying this
Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u
@Lynn you took this show a notch higher. This is life changing experience and you have proved to be the best.
😊
I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.
This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed
Now this is another direction
I'm happy for the show.
Thanks
Thank you so much🙏
Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥
Lynn baby girl see this need also to know how r coping with life
This interview was so dope and very emotional at the same time,God may you protect us always 😭😭😭😭
This is the best interview I have ever watched,,,I pray that God restores her n many others like her,,for u Lynn keep winning Mamie🥰🥰🥰
I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this
"unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through
True
Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling
Lynn this was an excellent show. I hope both persons received the help to continue their journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world
So many parents have no idea what happens to their daughters behind the scenes in Kenya. So many girls go through this.Thanks Lyn for the platform
God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.
I'm happy to see some of your guest supporting your show Lynn♥️may God bless your work girl 🙏
Thanks Lyn.This is go to help many people are suffering in silence.The show will be in another level soon.
Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.
This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs
Waoh.This is a new level.awesome.Biggup Lyn.
You are trully blessed and you have become a blessing.for the lives you touch,God will reward you
Watching this and dealing with health anxiety and PTSD... I feel encouraged...
Hugs to you. May God wrap you in his arms and may you find his never ending peace.
Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.
I never take for granted the impact I am able to make with your support 🙏
Lynn this show has encouraged so many people being one of them. Some might not come out but through this they alreally concoured the fear and become victories. Thank you and congratulations.
Few encounters with people can make you rule out everyone but in God's perfect timing he makes everything beautiful ❤️
Happy new year shiru
Very well said🙏
It breaks my heart as a parent,I feel so emotional.
I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.
This show is a life changing thank you Lynn,,,, I know this gal has receive healing and this is her new beginning of her life ❤️❤️
Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her.
See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy..
I am so proud of her.
She will partner well with Njeri.
God bless her and give her strength.
Amen
Lynn this is amazing. I believe just like anyone in ministry you too are called to reach out our generation. I am a servant of God and I must bless the Lord for such a unique grace on your life. Keep it moving!
The best show ever so that parents out there should learned something heal. Thanks alot Lynn for this courage and support
Wooow, I had to check whether I'm lost😌
This is another big step Miss Lyn, Congrats!❤
Very true 💞 Lynne is a real epitome in this society....we love you mummy 💞
So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids .
Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist
Love from South sudan
Waaaaoooooo I just love the setup, so beautiful, a combination of Dr. Phil, Oprah and Ellen in own very own Kenyan girl. Kazi safi sana Lyn.
I am happy that Lynn Ngugi is back on her feet again
Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.
Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate, and advise that lady how to have a safe retaliationship
Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk?
Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is
That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..
God bless you Lynn for the great work you are doing, you really touch many souls
This is my story😭😭hugs Gals💔after watching this show am ready to come out and tell my untold story...thank you Lynne for always having our backs🙏❤
Jeanifer you are a strong lady, by talking it you heal
Hugs
I pray total healing to all survivors either rape abuse, emotional or domestic abuse may God help you all to overcome it .💜💜
Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.
Thank you beautiful
Yes! I could listen to her all day long. I just love it ❤️
Aki vile nampenda Lynn 😍😍may God keep here give her strength and more wisdom to do more we grow together with Lynn we learn together and we change our lifes together God protect Lynn from every evil Amen and Amen
I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.
Be strong
Hugs dear, all will be well
It is well dear, nobody understands the pain of such an encounter. I pray that God gives you peace and love
@@oderatrizah5087 a
@maureen Odhiambo,
Please get the help you so need. See a trauma specialist for sexual assault. 💜😘
I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls
Sorry for your ordeal. Hugs ❤
Pole, Hugs🤗
Sending you Hugs. May the angels sorround you with peace
Omg sending hugs to you
Sorry for that
OMG Lynn I really love this live audience 😍💕💕 good job Lynn ❤️😍💕
Exellent job Lynn,may God bless you so much,and Jacinta thank you for sharing your story,and its part of healing and God will help you go through it.
I have watched this episode and it's just on another level good Lynn ngugi..Ihave learn alot jecinta thank you for sharing your story❤️
Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼
This has touched my heart, it's so painful to be tomented psychologically due to trauma. Lynn keep up with what you are doing, I personally have learnt that Rape and sexual assault affects the growth and development of a child
The therapist is soo amazing! I watched her story as well ❤️
I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.
You can move from a survivor to the thriver that you are🙏🙏
Jacinta am glad to see you again, you are so honest and brave to speak
This has touched me…I almost went through it through a relative but my cousin saved me.. by telling me what the man intended to do. It was in the evening and I run through a thicket to my place. That was back in 2003.Fact is I was able to say hi to that relative last year since 2003.May God heal this beauty.
I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone.
Xoxo💜
Very informative we learn everyday & congrats Lynn nice set up! May God's favour & mercy shine on you & the crew in 2022 ♥️
So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.
Sorry for what you went through.
So sorry for what you went through, I hope you get help to overcome it💕
I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open.
I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say.
But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.
I don't even want to remember my life living with relatives, am so sorry 💕
@@kiwishbj1 God bl6you bro
I just learned about this platform recently from South Africa 🇿🇦and am really learning a lot.@Lynn your a truly inspiration to the world Kenyans are so lucky to have you 😘
Jacinta u coming out speaking ur past show how courage ad brave u are.....ul shine and let the past not destroy u...ur such a beautiful lady....
These things of child abuse are really hurting. Thanks Lynn for bringing this show it's enlightening and a therapy to many
Woow congratulations Lynn, I love the steps you are making...
Happy New year full of God's blessings everyone. @Lynn Ngugi... I'm your ardent fan and since the day I saw your first show I'm an addict to your shows. From the get go I saw a young lady surrounded by God's grace. May God heal all abused and do a new thing in their lives.
Trauma and for men comes from vast reasons. Mine was betrayal emotional abuse from my ex. To this date I hate men and when one talks to me I feel insulted coz all I see is a wolf I a sheep's skin. Many women are living this but don't talk. You just die slowly deep inside. It's like a spreading cancer.
I have a story that can heal many women. Keep it up Lynn. God will reward you to unmerited..unimaginable levels for the lives you touch and change through your God given grace
Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.
Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.
Dear Alice, we are sending you so much love and light💛💛💛
May the Lord heal you ...
Wow, I see life's being changed through this show... Keep doing what u love most: touching lives💕
Lyn Kudos. this show is help especially for us parent.
When she spoke about memories being suppressed but the body never forgetting, I remembered something that always comes back to me. I have always wondered whether it actually happened or it's a dream. It's at night, pitch black. We are sleeping on a mat in a room just close to my mum's and step father. And I feel someone trying to force themselves on me. I was probably around 6 or 7. How do I explain this? I have never spoken about it because, how do I start? Now that she spoke about it, I am scared that I may have been sexually assaulted and I didn't even know it. And I have cried.
Thank you Lynn
Sending love your way
Wooooooooow Lnny you are a woman without limit happy new and continue building may God continue blessings you
Gods timing is the best! May she heal and stop fearing men..I commend her courage to share her story.
Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.
Jacinta, you are a champion for being vulnerable. I salute you, young lady. You have a very bright future. God bless you.
We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.
Mimi ni Mtanzania🇹🇿 ningekwepo hapo na mimi ningesimulia yangu pia wazazi wanafaa kuangalia watoto😭😭
Thanks Jecinta for sharing your story💔💔.you are so strong and brave
I see where this show is going and I love it.
I SEE you Lynn Ngugi, and I'm here clapping for you..
I wish I could like this video a thousand times. Lynn you are doing an amazing job bringing us these stories.
I go through this in the hand called my relatives whe I was in primary school with my auntie's husband when I told my aunt she told me not to tell anyone but it hearts me I told my mother,my mum cried but since then sijawai wasalimia
Thank you Lynn for this program, through what she has shared I've realised that i also suffer PTSD from my previous abusive marriage. It's 9 years since I left and I can't wrap my head around getting into a relationship.I've tried it twice but just when we are about to get serious the past memories flashes back and I end up ghosting that relationship.
Don't know how to get over it.
Lynn,
Keep up the good work. It is so important to raise awareness about this sensitive issue for which so much help is needed. God bless you, the beautiful work and the platform you have availed to many who are dealing with different situations and circumstances.
Aaaaw wow I love this show it encourages me makes me moving and everything 🙏
Njeri Migwi thanks for your choice of word. Such an inspiration
Wow ,before I even comment about this couple ..... let me just say 👍🏼 good job Lynn 👏😊💕 new year , new content , you've upgraded 🥰