I think part of the problem women have with obedience is that too many men do not know how to be the leader of the family. Leading does no mean angry tirades and "micro-managing" until the wife is a nervous wreck, or assuming she is a mind reader who can anticipate his every unspoken preference or need.. If men have a clear vision of everyone's role in the family and where each person's duties and responsibilities lie, as laid out in the Qur'an and Sunnah, ,and he is able to both articulate this to his family and model what it looks like, things will go much smoother and more in an atmosphere of mutual love and respect in the home.
Yes, a woman deserves a normal life too. I've seen some who just say if they leave the house or don't want to sleep with me without asking their reason, they'll hit them ... Nobody is perfect, everyone will make mistakes, not allow everything ...
Obedience to the husband is not a choice. A husband being a bad leader doesn't make it permissible to disobey. Women make it worse by trying to lead, as that's being in a position she's not suited for. The most a woman can do is help her husband become a better leader, by being the best wife.
but you don't actually have eyelashes like the one you seem to have when you wear mascara? You do have dark circles. Why the false advertising? This is coming from a woman btw
@@blumacaw9399false advertisement? So keeping yourself kempt is a bad thing? I also use castor oil for my eyelashes, makes them naturally thick and longer, and I take care of my skin with turmeric, I look glowing and healthy because of my self care routine and I also workout (swim, kickboxing etc), spiritually I make sure I keep up with my daily dhikr and prayers. so alhamdulilah, I am not falsely advertising myself, I have a lifestyle and routine. Just because I use a little concealer and kohl or mascara, does not mean I am falsely advertising myself, the prophet (saw) used olive oil for his hair and kept himself kempt and tidy, used kohl as well, Allah knows best
I am a Muslim woman and loved this video so much. These are beautiful traits you’ve described... one which women should strive to attain. I just started wearing the hijab. Hoping to become a better and better muslimah. Ameen. ❤️✨
MASHALLAH May Allah bless you and your fanily brother Gabriel ameen And may Allah increases us all in knowledge and make us apply that knowledge into our life ameen!!
Some of the effects of sin, as described by Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him): 1 - Being deprived of knowledge for knowledge is light that Allaah causes to reach the heart, and sin extinguishes that light. When al-Shaafa’i sat before Maalik and read to him, he admired him because of the intelligence, alertness and understanding that he saw in him. He said, “I think that Allaah has caused light to enter your heart, so do not extinguish it with the darkness of sin.” 2 - Being deprived of provision. In Musnad Ahmad it is narrated that Thawbaan said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘A man is deprived of provision because of the sins that he commits.’” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 4022, classed as hasan/sound by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah). 3 - Sense of alienation that comes between a person and his Lord, and between him and other people. One of the salaf (righteous predecessors) said: “If I disobey Allaah, I see that in the attitude of my riding beast and my wife.” 4 - Things become difficult for him, so that he does not turn his attention towards any matter but he finds the way blocked or he finds it difficult. By the same token, for the one who fears Allaah, things are made easy for him. 5 - The sinner will find darkness in his heart, which he will feel just as he feels the darkness of night. So this darkness affects his heart as the physical darkness affects his vision. For obedience is light and disobedience is darkness. The stronger the darkness grows, the greater becomes his confusion, until he falls into innovation, misguidance and other things that lead to doom, without even realizing, like a blind man who goes out in the darkness of the night, walking alone This darkness grows stronger until it covers the eyes, then it grows stronger until it covers the face, which appears dark and is seen by everyone. ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abbaas said: “Good deeds make the face light, give light to the heart, and bring about ample provision, physical strength and love in people’s hearts. Bad deeds make the face dark, give darkness to the heart, and bring about physical weakness, a lack of provision and hatred in people’s hearts.” 6 - Deprivation of worship and obedience. If sin brought no punishment other than that it prevents a person from doing an act of worship which is the opposite of sin, and cuts off access to other acts of worship, that would be bad enough. So the sin cuts off a third way and a fourth way and so on, and because of the sin he is cut off from many acts of worship, each of which would have been better for him than this world and everything in it. So he is like a man who eats food that is bound to cause a lengthy sickness, and thus he is deprived of many other foods that are better than that. And Allaah is the One Whose help we seek. 7 - Sin breeds sin until it dominates a person and he cannot escape from it. 8 - Sin weakens a person’s willpower. It gradually strengthens his will to commit sin and weakens his will to repent until there is no will in his heart to repent at all… so he seeks forgiveness and expresses repentance, but it is merely words on the lips, like the repentance of the liars, whose hearts are still determined to commit sin and persist in it. This is one of the most serious diseases that are most likely to lead to doom. 9 - He will become desensitized and will no longer find sin abhorrent, so it will become his habit, and he will not be bothered if people see him committing the sin or talk about him. For the leaders of immorality, this is the ultimate shamelessness in which they find great pleasure, such that they feel proud of their sin and will speak of it to people who do not know that they have done it, saying, “O so and so, I did such and such.” Such people cannot be helped and the path to repentance is blocked for them in most cases. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “All of my ummah (followers) will be fine except for those who commit sin openly, and that includes cases where Allaah conceals a person’s sin, but the following morning he exposes himself and says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night, so he shamelessly exposes himself when all night his Lord had concealed his sin.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5949; Muslim, 2744). 10 - When there are many sins they leave a mark on the heart of the person who commits them, so he becomes one of the negligent. As one of the salaf said, concerning the aayah (verse)- “Nay! But on their hearts is the Raan (covering of sins and evil deeds) which they used to earn” [al-Mutaffifeen 83:14 - interpretation of the meaning] - this means sin after sin. How this starts is that the heart gets stained by sin, and if the sin increases then the stain grows bigger until it becomes the raan (covering of sin and evil deeds), then it increases until it becomes a seal, and the heart becomes covered and sealed. If that happens after a person had been guided and had understood, then his heart is turned upside down, and at that point the Shaytaan gains control over him and directs him as he wants. (source : Islamqa)
Mashallah Shaikh everything you said make lot of sense, Only true believer women will know the intention behind your talk. Only feminist will not like this 😁
The issue we have now, once we accept Allah and submit to Allah being obedient to Allah and Muhammad s.a.w's message... we still have all this mess of feminist ideology that we were brought up with and gave to work through trying to learn what respect is and that obedience in a sense should not effect the love we have fir the other person and their love for us is not effected by the fact that evry time a problem occurs our feelings are not as important as theirs.
Manifest in yourself what you want in your partner. Like anything you want in life make dua for it. When you make dua for a partner, make dua that you are both pious. And most of all make dua that you love each other for Allah's sake.
This is why men need to go to work and be providers and protectors. This makes is so women can be women again. WE are FORCED into the male role because men have gotten lazy. I pray that Allah put me in a position to be feminine again but someone has to pay all these bills for now.
That’s not true and you know that Its not that men don’t work and are „lazy“ I don’t know a single man that can’t provide for his family If you mean there are many men not acting like men then i completely agree with you BUT as for the men that do their job they actually do it correctly Its just that women try to be way too competitive And if you want to be then more power to you But stay competitive with other women not with other men
@@alpha6549 Actually there are lazy men who act like children and can not keep a job. I didn't go to college before marriage(something I really wanted to do before I had kids) because my father said to get married first. The person I married was the opposite of everything his parents claimed he was. Anyways he lost multiple jobs and I ended up finding out he had schizophrenia and he is very attached to his parents like a baby(they use/control him and take all his money). I left with my two kids and now suffer from anxiety/trust issues. I would of left earlier, but my father is oppressive/abusive so I had no where safe to go with my kids.
@@peaceloveunity3794 i wish you best of luck in this world and in the hereafter. May allah make easy the path he chose for you. But u gotta understand that your story is a really ocassion that doesnt imply to most of the women out there
Now thats the goal to be a value Man like the Prophet s.a.w THEN look for a woman that will not have to raide uppity up to her level, if this is the level of woman you want to marry.
Let’s use our time wisely💐💐💐 Al-Qur’an is the Greatest dhikr🌹🥰❤️ Subhan’Allah🌹 Alhamdu lillah🌹 Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌹 Allahu Akbar🌹 Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌹 Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌹 Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌹 May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🌹
No matter which video of brother Ar-romaani, I always read in the comments sections "where are such women?", or "there are only very few of those" and SubhanAllah the women say the same thing about men. Yes, it's true the majority of muslims are not where they should be. But, don't you have trust in Allah's promise that in each generation there is a group of righteous people? They exists, yes. So let's try to be from among them. Be'idhnillah. And to give you some motivation, I know a few sisters, MashAllah tabarakahAllah they have all of these qualities that brother Ar-romaani mentioned in this video. They are pious, productive, feminine, beautiful, take care of their health and are family-oriented. All of them want to get married, however it was not in their Qadr yet. I'll tell you where to find them: 1. Where I live higher education is basically for free, so the top place where you find such high-quality women is at university, especially for becoming gradeschool teachers or in general teaching, language, biology subjects. 2. In nature - > whether at the park or in the woods with their families. 3. Doing the groceries. 4. at the masjid if there is a space provided for women. Sounds basic, but I am giving you insight into the lives of the sisters I know, apart from these places they will most likely be at home. One last thing, try to believe more in Qadr, even if your future wife is primarily at home, if she is destined to be your wife, you will marry her with the permission of Allah. BarakahAllahufeekum
Ps.: pls don't go up to these sisters and ask them whether they are married and if you can have their walis number. If you think it through, you are putting the sister in a difficult position and then it's not helpful to you either. Should she go to her father and tell him "Abati today on the street a brother asked me if I was interested in discussing marriage with him" you can imagine what the dad is going to think and do in 99% of cases. Yes, in a tight-knit community there is might be nothing wrong with this approach, but in the city where nobody knows each other it's just not feasible, unfortunately. There are better ways.
You’re right man, men don’t like makeup, women like makeup and they think men like makeup. We like natural beauty. Not to mention harmful chemicals and pore-clogging nature of most makeup products
6:03 no its not feminism its male incompetence which forces the woman to take up now also the male roles nd work!!! So you said it if she doesn't respect him he hasn't done what Allah ask from him making her do it all nd also expecting her to respect him nd be obedient. That's just insanity nd clownfoolery
Can you shed some light through Quran and Sunnah about how women are supposed to respect and treat men in their lives? These days the women folk take advantage of men and behave in rude ways due to a sense of entitlement through Islam. Men also have challenges and problems in day to day life. Are we servants to our wives?
Jazakallahu Khair brother for putting out the real information. Where are the "sisters"? I can hardly see any of them supporting here in this video but they mass $hit in the comment section under the cover of Quran and Sunnah during Mahdi debate.
3:30 that's not the women fault that's how far women need to go to be just a bit safer then a women that's to feminine nd fragile, even the toughest strongest muscling women are victimised by men! Put that blame on men!!! Not women the victims that trying to protect themselves. As a women everything is put on us, not on men. Masculine women are still women nd attractive nd good women. So are muscling women! Also that's a weak man's perspective because a strong man nd confident man wouldn't be intimated not put off by a strong woman, or a Masculine woman or a Muscling woman
and what if she is a divorcee or widow? a woman may be upright & pious but i dont think that virgin is on the same scale as these traits as long as she has not lost her virginity to zina
@@copainspammeur404 stop lying they are only a small percentage of good women ( in terms of religion) aka religious. We are approaching the end of time ( Allah knows best the day) , which they will a few religious women/girls.
Hahahhahaha 🤣🤣 then why you comment???It seems you care what he is thinking lol 😂 Why so arrogant?! He didn't say something wrong or like that. He just say what MEN likes about Woman. That's what we don't like about any human being to be arrogant and everytime triggered if someone don't consider your worldview.
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1. Iman/taqwa
2. Modesty
3. Femininity
4. Nurturing/motherly
5. Obedient
6. Passionate
Shukran.
👍🏻👍🏻
Virginity should be there, but ofcourse, Gabriel.
@@JamaluddinAlMuqdishaawi what if they’re a widow or divorced?
@@yusufdaoud5491
Virgin>Widow/Divorced by default.
Given they are equal in all other aspects.
I'm striving to become a high value woman, I believe I'm already halfway there, JazakAllahu Khairan for this beautiful advice ❤️❤️❤️
Sister remeber to always aim higher and to go higher
because there's always a higher level and point to reach
Oh InshaAllah you'll be there sooner than you think. 😘
Insha’Allah sister you will there🤲🏾
May Allah grant you goodness
"Beauty is not in the face, but a light in the heart". ~ Khalil Gibran
No, it's both
@Aziz Rahman its both.
It is true, I believe Allah created All human beings beautiful, you have to see that with your heart.
I think part of the problem women have with obedience is that too many men do not know how to be the leader of the family. Leading does no mean angry tirades and "micro-managing" until the wife is a nervous wreck, or assuming she is a mind reader who can anticipate his every unspoken preference or need.. If men have a clear vision of everyone's role in the family and where each person's duties and responsibilities lie, as laid out in the Qur'an and Sunnah, ,and he is able to both articulate this to his family and model what it looks like, things will go much smoother and more in an atmosphere of mutual love and respect in the home.
Yes, a woman deserves a normal life too. I've seen some who just say if they leave the house or don't want to sleep with me without asking their reason, they'll hit them ... Nobody is perfect, everyone will make mistakes, not allow everything ...
Obedience to the husband is not a choice. A husband being a bad leader doesn't make it permissible to disobey.
Women make it worse by trying to lead, as that's being in a position she's not suited for.
The most a woman can do is help her husband become a better leader, by being the best wife.
As usual blaming men for your sisters bad behaviour
Yesss!!
@@Theshowoffcollector or just acknowledge your mistakes, not all men are good just like how not all women are good
Finally. A brother who speaks the Haqq. No sugar coating. May Allaah Increase you. We look forward to your visit to the UK
Yes, when can you come Uk InshaAllah
This was priceless 💕 men should be leaders, women should be supporters
As a woman, I love natural makeup, just covering my dark circles, kohllll/mascara, it makes me keep in touch with my feminine side, I love it
but you don't actually have eyelashes like the one you seem to have when you wear mascara? You do have dark circles. Why the false advertising? This is coming from a woman btw
Dark circles are my biggest probablem if I could get rid of them I don't care about anything else
@@emanomer2288 sleeping doesn't help?
@@blumacaw9399false advertisement? So keeping yourself kempt is a bad thing? I also use castor oil for my eyelashes, makes them naturally thick and longer, and I take care of my skin with turmeric, I look glowing and healthy because of my self care routine and I also workout (swim, kickboxing etc), spiritually I make sure I keep up with my daily dhikr and prayers. so alhamdulilah, I am not falsely advertising myself, I have a lifestyle and routine. Just because I use a little concealer and kohl or mascara, does not mean I am falsely advertising myself, the prophet (saw) used olive oil for his hair and kept himself kempt and tidy, used kohl as well, Allah knows best
@@emanomer2288 I feel you girl!
Maasha Allah very beneficial point Jasakalaahu Khayr🙌🏾👏🏾
I am a Muslim woman and loved this video so much. These are beautiful traits you’ve described... one which women should strive to attain. I just started wearing the hijab. Hoping to become a better and better muslimah. Ameen. ❤️✨
may allah help you protect and guide you to the best possible woman amin
@@a.m.3744 JazakAllah! Ameen 🤲
MASHALLAH
May Allah bless you and your fanily brother Gabriel ameen
And may Allah increases us all in knowledge and make us apply that knowledge into our life ameen!!
well said bref and strait to the point i looking up for the next video where you talk about the high traits of a high value men
Some of the effects of sin, as described by Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him):
1 - Being deprived of knowledge for knowledge is light that Allaah causes to reach the heart, and sin extinguishes that light. When al-Shaafa’i sat before Maalik and read to him, he admired him because of the intelligence, alertness and understanding that he saw in him. He said, “I think that Allaah has caused light to enter your heart, so do not extinguish it with the darkness of sin.”
2 - Being deprived of provision. In Musnad Ahmad it is narrated that Thawbaan said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘A man is deprived of provision because of the sins that he commits.’” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 4022, classed as hasan/sound by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah).
3 - Sense of alienation that comes between a person and his Lord, and between him and other people. One of the salaf (righteous predecessors) said: “If I disobey Allaah, I see that in the attitude of my riding beast and my wife.”
4 - Things become difficult for him, so that he does not turn his attention towards any matter but he finds the way blocked or he finds it difficult. By the same token, for the one who fears Allaah, things are made easy for him.
5 - The sinner will find darkness in his heart, which he will feel just as he feels the darkness of night. So this darkness affects his heart as the physical darkness affects his vision. For obedience is light and disobedience is darkness. The stronger the darkness grows, the greater becomes his confusion, until he falls into innovation, misguidance and other things that lead to doom, without even realizing, like a blind man who goes out in the darkness of the night, walking alone This darkness grows stronger until it covers the eyes, then it grows stronger until it covers the face, which appears dark and is seen by everyone. ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abbaas said: “Good deeds make the face light, give light to the heart, and bring about ample provision, physical strength and love in people’s hearts. Bad deeds make the face dark, give darkness to the heart, and bring about physical weakness, a lack of provision and hatred in people’s hearts.”
6 - Deprivation of worship and obedience. If sin brought no punishment other than that it prevents a person from doing an act of worship which is the opposite of sin, and cuts off access to other acts of worship, that would be bad enough. So the sin cuts off a third way and a fourth way and so on, and because of the sin he is cut off from many acts of worship, each of which would have been better for him than this world and everything in it. So he is like a man who eats food that is bound to cause a lengthy sickness, and thus he is deprived of many other foods that are better than that. And Allaah is the One Whose help we seek.
7 - Sin breeds sin until it dominates a person and he cannot escape from it.
8 - Sin weakens a person’s willpower. It gradually strengthens his will to commit sin and weakens his will to repent until there is no will in his heart to repent at all… so he seeks forgiveness and expresses repentance, but it is merely words on the lips, like the repentance of the liars, whose hearts are still determined to commit sin and persist in it. This is one of the most serious diseases that are most likely to lead to doom.
9 - He will become desensitized and will no longer find sin abhorrent, so it will become his habit, and he will not be bothered if people see him committing the sin or talk about him.
For the leaders of immorality, this is the ultimate shamelessness in which they find great pleasure, such that they feel proud of their sin and will speak of it to people who do not know that they have done it, saying, “O so and so, I did such and such.” Such people cannot be helped and the path to repentance is blocked for them in most cases. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “All of my ummah (followers) will be fine except for those who commit sin openly, and that includes cases where Allaah conceals a person’s sin, but the following morning he exposes himself and says, ‘O So and so, I did such and such last night, so he shamelessly exposes himself when all night his Lord had concealed his sin.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5949; Muslim, 2744).
10 - When there are many sins they leave a mark on the heart of the person who commits them, so he becomes one of the negligent. As one of the salaf said, concerning the aayah (verse)-
“Nay! But on their hearts is the Raan (covering of sins and evil deeds) which they used to earn”
[al-Mutaffifeen 83:14 - interpretation of the meaning] -
this means sin after sin.
How this starts is that the heart gets stained by sin, and if the sin increases then the stain grows bigger until it becomes the raan (covering of sin and evil deeds), then it increases until it becomes a seal, and the heart becomes covered and sealed. If that happens after a person had been guided and had understood, then his heart is turned upside down, and at that point the Shaytaan gains control over him and directs him as he wants. (source : Islamqa)
I’m 19 years old insha allah I will have kids who will become Alim
SubhanAllah very important and beneficial video.
JazakAllahu khairan
May the men change to the better and become high value men to find women who are as high of a value
I pray for you all and hope you do so for me too
Mashallah Shaikh everything you said make lot of sense, Only true believer women will know the intention behind your talk. Only feminist will not like this 😁
Honestly, we don't care about feminist. As Muslim, we care about What Allah said and His Messenger ( Peace and Blessing of Allah be upon him) said .
@@ahmadfared1204 exactly 👌💯
The issue we have now, once we accept Allah and submit to Allah being obedient to Allah and Muhammad s.a.w's message... we still have all this mess of feminist ideology that we were brought up with and gave to work through trying to learn what respect is and that obedience in a sense should not effect the love we have fir the other person and their love for us is not effected by the fact that evry time a problem occurs our feelings are not as important as theirs.
Manifest in yourself what you want in your partner.
Like anything you want in life make dua for it.
When you make dua for a partner, make dua that you are both pious. And most of all make dua that you love each other for Allah's sake.
@Nancy Ajram Fan Perhaps she means be the best version yourself before you seek out those 'high value' characteristic in others.
Masha-Allah beautifully said
Love it love it love it
Subhan Allah
Women like this do exist. You just need to know where to look.
Soooooo deeeeeeep and truuuuuuuue! Allahu Akbar ☝️
Great thanks
Subhan'Allah best video ever.
How many of those women excit ? Nowadays, women want to be like men but without the same responsibilities and accountability.
So true.
Exist*
Men should also become real men.
These women are out there...they are just not on instagram and tiktok
These women exist for sure
This is why men need to go to work and be providers and protectors. This makes is so women can be women again. WE are FORCED into the male role because men have gotten lazy. I pray that Allah put me in a position to be feminine again but someone has to pay all these bills for now.
That’s not true and you know that
Its not that men don’t work and are „lazy“
I don’t know a single man that can’t provide for his family
If you mean there are many men not acting like men then i completely agree with you BUT as for the men that do their job they actually do it correctly
Its just that women try to be way too competitive
And if you want to be then more power to you
But stay competitive with other women not with other men
@@alpha6549 Actually there are lazy men who act like children and can not keep a job. I didn't go to college before marriage(something I really wanted to do before I had kids) because my father said to get married first. The person I married was the opposite of everything his parents claimed he was. Anyways he lost multiple jobs and I ended up finding out he had schizophrenia and he is very attached to his parents like a baby(they use/control him and take all his money). I left with my two kids and now suffer from anxiety/trust issues. I would of left earlier, but my father is oppressive/abusive so I had no where safe to go with my kids.
@@peaceloveunity3794 i wish you best of luck in this world and in the hereafter. May allah make easy the path he chose for you.
But u gotta understand that your story is a really ocassion that doesnt imply to most of the women out there
Not true . Women fled the workforce due to feminism indoctrination and it plunged the living wage and raised the cost of living for everyone
that last parts so true.
Wow you have spoken the truth👌👏
Well Brothers…step-up to the plate, and let’s stop whining.💯
Now it's the Goal to find such woman 🕵️
@@TheBestowersSlave 😁
Only when you also have these qualities
Now thats the goal to be a value Man like the Prophet s.a.w THEN look for a woman that will not have to raide uppity up to her level, if this is the level of woman you want to marry.
I came here to see the reaction of feminist "Muslimahs".
Are you?
They are in the comments section 😂
I swear that's what I see online and I'm like who is the man and who is the woman.Nowadays I see men are more shy than women
*Takes notes 📝✨
Let’s use our time wisely💐💐💐
Al-Qur’an is the Greatest dhikr🌹🥰❤️
Subhan’Allah🌹
Alhamdu lillah🌹
Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌹
Allahu Akbar🌹
Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌹
Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌹
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌹
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🌹
No matter which video of brother Ar-romaani, I always read in the comments sections "where are such women?", or "there are only very few of those" and SubhanAllah the women say the same thing about men. Yes, it's true the majority of muslims are not where they should be. But, don't you have trust in Allah's promise that in each generation there is a group of righteous people?
They exists, yes. So let's try to be from among them. Be'idhnillah. And to give you some motivation, I know a few sisters, MashAllah tabarakahAllah they have all of these qualities that brother Ar-romaani mentioned in this video. They are pious, productive, feminine, beautiful, take care of their health and are family-oriented. All of them want to get married, however it was not in their Qadr yet. I'll tell you where to find them:
1. Where I live higher education is basically for free, so the top place where you find such high-quality women is at university, especially for becoming gradeschool teachers or in general teaching, language, biology subjects.
2. In nature - > whether at the park or in the woods with their families.
3. Doing the groceries.
4. at the masjid if there is a space provided for women.
Sounds basic, but I am giving you insight into the lives of the sisters I know, apart from these places they will most likely be at home.
One last thing, try to believe more in Qadr, even if your future wife is primarily at home, if she is destined to be your wife, you will marry her with the permission of Allah. BarakahAllahufeekum
Ps.: pls don't go up to these sisters and ask them whether they are married and if you can have their walis number. If you think it through, you are putting the sister in a difficult position and then it's not helpful to you either. Should she go to her father and tell him "Abati today on the street a brother asked me if I was interested in discussing marriage with him" you can imagine what the dad is going to think and do in 99% of cases.
Yes, in a tight-knit community there is might be nothing wrong with this approach, but in the city where nobody knows each other it's just not feasible, unfortunately.
There are better ways.
What country are you talking about sis?
Nothing but facts
He is absolutely true
he gets it
You’re right man, men don’t like makeup, women like makeup and they think men like makeup. We like natural beauty. Not to mention harmful chemicals and pore-clogging nature of most makeup products
Great video... Thanks a lot dear brother... May Allah bless you.
afgahnistan mostly has all these women
I like woman who have discipline? Is that a good characteristic ?
what do you mean by that? disciplined in what way?
@@shadowstorm5261 not lazy
@@enesje61 yeah it's good
Discipline is just a necessary requirement for a fulfilling life.
Women need discipline and men need discipline in the ways that please Allah.
Isn't hayaa part of Imaan?
What about high value men?
Brother just described the impossible. Go to sleep and anyone can find "High Value Woman"
@Aziz Rahman Not in the West they don’t lol
6:03 no its not feminism its male incompetence which forces the woman to take up now also the male roles nd work!!! So you said it if she doesn't respect him he hasn't done what Allah ask from him making her do it all nd also expecting her to respect him nd be obedient. That's just insanity nd clownfoolery
Can you shed some light through Quran and Sunnah about how women are supposed to respect and treat men in their lives? These days the women folk take advantage of men and behave in rude ways due to a sense of entitlement through Islam. Men also have challenges and problems in day to day life. Are we servants to our wives?
Your video jumps from step 5..obedience.
"They talk loud, they swear, they spit, they want to be like men" wow
So men talk loud, swear and spit.
Jazakallahu Khair brother for putting out the real information.
Where are the "sisters"? I can hardly see any of them supporting here in this video but they mass $hit in the comment section under the cover of Quran and Sunnah during Mahdi debate.
Isn't this a reupload?
It is an old video
The other one was for men.
Yes it is
the dislikes are from women for sure 😂
this the dream girl
💯💯💯
Also someone with purpose in life. Without a real purpose or goal women become very petty.
3:30 that's not the women fault that's how far women need to go to be just a bit safer then a women that's to feminine nd fragile, even the toughest strongest muscling women are victimised by men! Put that blame on men!!! Not women the victims that trying to protect themselves.
As a women everything is put on us, not on men.
Masculine women are still women nd attractive nd good women. So are muscling women!
Also that's a weak man's perspective because a strong man nd confident man wouldn't be intimated not put off by a strong woman, or a Masculine woman or a Muscling woman
I don't understand why you oppose such terms "such as high value ...." and yet you use them!!!
Beautifully said ! ... BUT ... IT'S SOOOOO Far fetch
no high value women in my society, not even close to it
No you dont like immodest women? Thats not what your brothers believe when they reward immodest behavior.
He forgot to mention virgin.
and what if she is a divorcee or widow? a woman may be upright & pious but i dont think that virgin is on the same scale as these traits as long as she has not lost her virginity to zina
MashaAllah, the muslimse redpill version.....👍🏾
These women exist but the beautiful version of them .. I doubt it..
You mean skin color by beauty?
@@azizulasif2176 No I mean beauty like being a beautiful woman. A woman who is attractive from head to toe.
@@TheBestowersSlave Good women are abundant but good women who look good are rare
@@copainspammeur404 stop lying they are only a small percentage of good women ( in terms of religion) aka religious. We are approaching the end of time ( Allah knows best the day) , which they will a few religious women/girls.
@@ahmadfared1204 lying? May Allah forgive you akhi
You are talking very negatively about men, without realising it.
the best women are those who scrub the feet of their husbands😎
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Lol , Who cares what you think ..
Are you mad because you realised you’re not a high value woman? Because it’s showing 😢
Hahahhahaha 🤣🤣 then why you comment???It seems you care what he is thinking lol 😂 Why so arrogant?! He didn't say something wrong or like that. He just say what MEN likes about Woman.
That's what we don't like about any human being to be arrogant and everytime triggered if someone don't consider your worldview.
I care what he thinks.
Bimbo let me guess single, cumbucket and miserable
@@TheBestowersSlave he isn't a sheikh ! 😅
Subhan Allaah