Ever get called names when you get into conversations about Christianity? Here’s one way you can respond: When I’m called a name, I simply ask them to define it: “What do you mean by [fill in the name]?” and then I listen carefully to their definition. This easy question is meant to move past the irrelevant name-calling and get to the argument. It also neutralizes their attack by demonstrating at least one of three things: 1. The definition doesn’t apply to me. 2. The definition also applies to the other person. 3 It doesn’t matter that the definition applies to me. Read more in the following articles from Alan Shlemon: Sticks and Stones rsn.pub/3OfiNX0 Three reasons why you shouldn't let the label “phobic” bother you rsn.pub/3u7d4vC
I have this friend that calls me stupid loser and fat as a "joke" and She really does not realize how this is effecting emotionally like it's not once or twice or I have done anything to be called that and I don't want to stop being friends with her but I want to tell her to but I don't know how because I don't want it to get bigger or anything . I'm actually writing this while crying because I just hang up the phone while talking to her and of course she called me names of that is why I'm here in this video
I’ve been getting bullied like crazy at school. I overheard someone calling me a “stupid ass” today, but I pretended I didn’t hear it. I didn’t even do anything for him to say that about me. I was just doing my math work.
In high school, I was called names such as stupid. After awhile I accepted that. But names like crazy or evil which I was neither, I took offense to that. I realized later on that people who called me that were like that themselves.
So basically everytime I go outside kids call me names even in my front yard of my house other kids have the guts to call me names. I just can't go anywhere without getting made fun of and the worst part is I go to school I also have no escape there. I just wanna stop getting bullied
@@nafisahossaini.7456 depends, if the bullying is in the starter stages then fighting back would be a risky/good option, but it’s risky because it can entertain the bully even more. The safer option is to laugh it off. If it’s in the middle-late stages then defending yourself is a must. anything past that stage is on you for letting it go this far.
Tell the person= "ppL who call ppL names in school probably have a bad family life at home"....& walk away....shakin your head in = "I feel so sorry 4 U" ......mode/stylish walk
My boyfriend calls me names and gets a whole aggression session ready for us, and I don't know how not to take it personally, so asking questions the way you just mentioned is fairly helpful
The thing is the severe verbal bully i run into tend to call names because they don't want to know you are. Asking these questions only leads to more put-downs and illogical shaming. Not to mention the possibility of suspending silence with no eye contact after you ask for specification. And these "morons" refuse to get out of their little world to take back what they say. So I find Gunn's comment more useful.
And this person is my mom. I try to comfort myself by observing her doing that to others and not just me. The interaction/incidents still hurts though.
Name calling just means you value that person's opinion about you, if they aren't a family member or someone close to you like a dear friend, why the hell should it matter?? After all they don't have your best interest at heart💔.
there were kids on Xbox taking badly about me saying they were calling Microsoft and I said I was getting off they said get of you VERY BAD WORD when I got off I started crying and now I'm really depressed and hate my life
My old college friend called me a Nazi for saying I was happy about Roe being overturned at last. I have known that a child is a living feeling human before birth since I debated it in high school debate.
Name calling is childish,rude, shows how thick the perpetrator is, juvenile, and just so pathetic it's not worth worrying about. Just say hey can we have an adult conversation please or don't speak to me thank you. People who do this have a problem but it's not with you, it's with them. They may be jealous of you, envy you, if you're a bubbly fun zesty person. Want to be like you, even have your life style. The easiest way to hurt someone is name calling, it's low not adult behaviour at all. Bullys deflect there anger onto happy carefree people. They try to bring you down, well don't let them. They're feeling low and ignored angry with there life. Rise above shine bright, carry yourself with dignity and out shine them. Be the fabulous confident funny well liked person you are. They hate it if doesn't affect you 😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆 best punishment. Xx
Ever get called names when you get into conversations about Christianity? Here’s one way you can respond:
When I’m called a name, I simply ask them to define it: “What do you mean by [fill in the name]?” and then I listen carefully to their definition. This easy question is meant to move past the irrelevant name-calling and get to the argument. It also neutralizes their attack by demonstrating at least one of three things:
1. The definition doesn’t apply to me.
2. The definition also applies to the other person.
3 It doesn’t matter that the definition applies to me.
Read more in the following articles from Alan Shlemon:
Sticks and Stones
rsn.pub/3OfiNX0
Three reasons why you shouldn't let the label “phobic” bother you
rsn.pub/3u7d4vC
I have this friend that calls me stupid loser and fat as a "joke" and She really does not realize how this is effecting emotionally like it's not once or twice or I have done anything to be called that and I don't want to stop being friends with her but I want to tell her to but I don't know how because I don't want it to get bigger or anything .
I'm actually writing this while crying because I just hang up the phone while talking to her and of course she called me names of that is why I'm here in this video
I don't react. Defuse situation. Then leave. Unless someone puts their hands on me. It's another.
I’ve been getting bullied like crazy at school. I overheard someone calling me a “stupid ass” today, but I pretended I didn’t hear it. I didn’t even do anything for him to say that about me. I was just doing my math work.
In high school, I was called names such as stupid. After awhile I accepted that. But names like crazy or evil which I was neither, I took offense to that. I realized later on that people who called me that were like that themselves.
My Disrespectful Nephew called me Stupid yesterday cuz he didn't have his way yesterday 😤
So basically everytime I go outside kids call me names even in my front yard of my house other kids have the guts to call me names. I just can't go anywhere without getting made fun of and the worst part is I go to school I also have no escape there. I just wanna stop getting bullied
People will always call you names if those people don't mean nothing to you just ignore it. If they're doing at your home just show them who's boss
@@mothuup no don’t ignore it. The longer it lasts the more it will become a normal thing. Horrible advice
@@voltairezollo1202 I agree , you shouldn't ignore it but what else can you do about it?
@@nafisahossaini.7456 depends, if the bullying is in the starter stages then fighting back would be a risky/good option, but it’s risky because it can entertain the bully even more. The safer option is to laugh it off. If it’s in the middle-late stages then defending yourself is a must. anything past that stage is on you for letting it go this far.
@@voltairezollo1202 thank youu!! 😭👍🏻👍🏻 but how do you defend yourself? Even after defending, they would continue... I would appreciate your reply.
The worst part is people laughing at them saying it and getting embarrassed 😭😓😓
Great video. As Ravi says "intent is prior to content"..
People call me names at my elementary school and this video really helped :)
Tell the person= "ppL who call ppL names in school probably have a bad family life at home"....& walk away....shakin your head in = "I feel so sorry 4 U" ......mode/stylish walk
@@mela6046 awseome. That is literally the way too go. Or just bully the bully like I do
I can do whatever I want the system is breaking apart with or without me. So I’m not a parasite IM ENJOYING My life lizard
You're an lizard too?
My boyfriend calls me names and gets a whole aggression session ready for us, and I don't know how not to take it personally, so asking questions the way you just mentioned is fairly helpful
If he calls you name call him names. And if he argues too you cause of that just break up with him. Hes worth nothing if he toom it personally.
The thing is the severe verbal bully i run into tend to call names because they don't want to know you are. Asking these questions only leads to more put-downs and illogical shaming. Not to mention the possibility of suspending silence with no eye contact after you ask for specification. And these "morons" refuse to get out of their little world to take back what they say. So I find Gunn's comment more useful.
And this person is my mom. I try to comfort myself by observing her doing that to others and not just me. The interaction/incidents still hurts though.
Name calling just means you value that person's opinion about you, if they aren't a family member or someone close to you like a dear friend, why the hell should it matter?? After all they don't have your best interest at heart💔.
When I go to my office by bus someone or ones call me by my father's name at the bus stop.its happening for at least a year. It hurts but I ignore it.
there were kids on Xbox taking badly about me saying they were calling Microsoft and I said I was getting off they said get of you VERY BAD WORD when I got off I started crying and now I'm really depressed and hate my life
Can we create a new term called Ad Hominemophobic?
i always go to a teacher!! my mum says to stop as i will get punched etc!
please help me!
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Names like stupid crazy and lazy hurt me the most.
For some reason this group of boys calls me lemon challenge and I don't understand they'll just be like shut up lemon challenge I'm like what!?
the lady I stay with she call me lier
My old college friend called me a Nazi for saying I was happy about Roe being overturned at last. I have known that a child is a living feeling human before birth since I debated it in high school debate.
Morning & no I was not calling u a tool!!! I asked if Ya knew wot was happening today with J & if I might be graced with your presence later😘
Name calling is childish,rude, shows how thick the perpetrator is, juvenile, and just so pathetic it's not worth worrying about. Just say hey can we have an adult conversation please or don't speak to me thank you. People who do this have a problem but it's not with you, it's with them. They may be jealous of you, envy you, if you're a bubbly fun zesty person. Want to be like you, even have your life style. The easiest way to hurt someone is name calling, it's low not adult behaviour at all. Bullys deflect there anger onto happy carefree people. They try to bring you down, well don't let them. They're feeling low and ignored angry with there life. Rise above shine bright, carry yourself with dignity and out shine them. Be the fabulous confident funny well liked person you are. They hate it if doesn't affect you 😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆 best punishment. Xx
The b word is not so cool
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