It's confirmed... Derik has to get ANOTHER surgery
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As a PT who worked in pediatrics in the past, I would definitely take advantage of the Early Intervention program in Utah that somebody else mentioned. Trunk strength is definitely weak as she's not able to sustain a sitting position independently, and she may be developing muscle imbalance and tightness in some key muscle groups. There are some great play-based excises that they can show you and that will help a lot. Best of luck! ❤️
Yes but she can support her trunk perfectly as long as she is on her knees or standing up.
Just to the PT. They said they were concerned about it, trunk or knees. Just take care of the baby.
Put her in baby tumble class or gymnastics it’ll strengthen her core. If it’s not a medical issue, make it fun for her. Been there with mine. It’ll be fine.
I’m so sorry for the struggle you’ve all been through lately, and the upcoming surgery again for Derik. Sunny may be having a little struggle as well. She may be ‘W’ sitting because she needs a wider base of support to keep from falling. She may have some muscles that are a little tighter and others that are a little weaker so needs to ‘W-sit’ in order to maintain her balance. She may need a little therapy herself. The Early Intervention Program in Utah offers free therapy evaluations in your home if you are interested. You guys are awesome parents! 😊
Yes, the W-sit is not good. It can create knock knees (genu valgum) and turn into a larger problem. Definitely seek resources to nip it in the bud before it becomes more of a habit
I agree
I also agree. It is very bad for the knees and hips and alignment. Why have they not seemed medical attention for it yet? They know it is an issue. I don't understand.
My now adult Step Daughter and mother of 5 boys ALWAYS sat like that from a young baby girl until the present time. She's NEVER had any hip, leg or any medical Issues because of it. Some children just sit that way. Sunny goes to her Well Child Visits and as a Pediatric Nurse I know the Pediatricians always checks the child's hips. It's not like they have neglected anything as parents!!!
Sarah, my Dr had me buy this stuff last yr called Xlean. It's an all natural nasal spray, w/xylotol(?) in it, and it works wonderfully for stuffy noses, allergies, etc. It helps to disinfect your sinuses by keeping it clear of bacteria & pollutants. I have yr round allergies, live in OR, and prone to sinus infections, & that has helped me sooo much! Praying for complete healing after surgery this time 🙏❤️🩹 Have a great Thanksgiving in Hawaii too! 🎉💜 Hard to believe Jack is 3 & Sunny girl almost a yr old! 🥰
Derek's famous last words: "I maybe pushed it too much."
Will he ever learn? Stay tuned.
My knee story, over 40 years I had 13 surgeries, 2 years ago finally just gave up and had full knee replacement. Best thing ever. I can't tell in my everyday life I had this done. I can kneel down etc. Spent years in pain, limping around, passed on doing fun things because I knew my knee would not hold up. In those 13 surgeries, bone graphs, skins graphs etc. Very very long journey to now, new one works better than the other original that I still have. Yes back when this all started had two small ones, was in a wheelchair for 4 weeks in there too. Good luck to you.
I went in for torn meniscus arthroscopic surgery and the surgical notes said it couldn’t be repaired because it was torn off the root. So I Need a full knee replacement.
Shot in each knee gave me some relief, 50% feel better.
But yeah, I cannot kneel , and use a cane or a crutch. Just waiting on doc to give me the ok
My hubby had a knee surgery and we had 2 little ones. His Mom helped out as much as she could. We made sure that the nights were just him and I. I also made sure I didn't forget to take a shower and do my hair and makeup. Even if I wasn't going anywhere I felt good about myself. You guys are such a great couple!! Play card games, or just talk. I know this is going to be hard but you got this!!!
My husband fell and tore his mcl, acl & meniscus. Doctors used a donor meniscus to replace his. He healed well, just took a long a** time. Sometimes as spouses, just gotta roll with the punches. Praying for you all & I’m sad they want to do surgery again because I know how much that sucks & is no rodeo for Derik either. Hang in there, guys. Praying full & complete protection & healing. 🙏
Oh my Sunny has grown so much! So has jack.
Only advice is to remember it is only 6 weeks - sounds a lot but if you put a calendar of the time on the fridge or something and let the kids and Sarah mark off each day/week it will whizz by - maybe give yourselves a joint reward at the end of each week (dinner out without the kids etc..) to maintain your connection (instead of nurse/patient) 😘
My daughter sat the same way. Could not break the habit.
At a well check up the pediatrician I was informed my daughter had shown Hip Dysplasia and Issues with her knees. Had to see Ortho - pediatrician. There was still time to save and reversed. A funny note. I had to put high top tennis shoes on her at bedtime and tie her shoes together. 😂 it was very hard to stop her from sitting like that. She even slept like a frog.
I’m 35 & was just diagnosed with hip dysplasia & my only option now is hip replacement. Definitely good when it’s caught earlier
Sunny is too small for the tossing game...please ask her pediatrician ❤️
Definitely ask the ped about how Sunny is sitting asap. It’s called the W sit and is really bad for their leg/hip development.
Do work on Sunny with the sitting. That kind of sitting often accompanies poorer core strength. It's also harder on joints. Pediatric occupational therapists can help guide you on this. Early intervention is best. Coming from a momma who had a kiddo in OT.
I am so sorry, Derik (and Sarah, too!) I have a history with my knee that includes a couple of meniscus surgeries and it is always hard being in the recovery portion where it just feels so confining and takes enormous patience and resilience and can really take such a toll on everyone's mental health. I am happy to report that there was a light at the end of the tunnel and a LOT of time being able to do a lot of things again -- but it did require much more discernment and caution than I used to proceed with. There also were some things that I just really couldn't do anymore. BUT...there is so much life on the other side and I really believe you can do this and will get through the hard moments! You guys have such a great support system and I encourage you both to rely on it as much as you need and definitely make room to take care of yourselves and do other things that fulfill you (more mind and spirit and less body for just a while!). Wishing you all the best!
Very Nice Comment ❤. New York Here
Jack’s curiosity and his attention to detail at such a YOUNG age is really impressive!!! Jack’s out there “filling the well” and noticing the world around him! Keep it up little man! ❤❤❤
Girl…I can relate to you so much. My husband is on week 4 post op from ankle surgery and it is ROUGH. I have 3 small children at home and sicknesses are constantly just circulating through the house. What seemed to work for ME (it’s kind of harsh, but this is how my brain works and how I cope) is to not let myself feel sorry for me for a second. No one is coming to save me from taking care of everyone (sometimes grandparents help which is appreciated) but it doesn’t do my mental health any good to feel sorry for myself. I hope this comes across helpful🙏😂 The work is nonstop until the kids are in bed and then I give myself a few hours to refill my cup before I go to bed, but during the day it is full on! Praying for your family!❤️
God Bless You and Your Family 🙏💕✨🌹!!! Great Job Keeping It All Together, Woman Rock ❤!!! NY Here
@@beverlyt.5526 thank you so much!❤️
One consolation that has worked for me is to remember this too will pass.
That's what happens when you have kids live with it till they grow up.
Hey guys! I know Sunny only wanting to sit on her knees isn’t something you love talking about, but I’m glad you have because I can give you some advice! My 22 month old little girl did the same thing ever since she could crawls and she is now having to take physical therapy as well as wear “AFOS” because sitting like that caused too much pronation in her feet/ankles and it’s too unstable for her to walk now. Sunny seems to be doing much better than my LO, but I do advise you to do your best to discourage her from doing that so you don’t have a 2 year old walking on their knees like me. Thankfully physical therapy is doing wonders and we’ve got a goal of her walking by her birthday!
I just commented about this too! I don’t have kids but I grew up sitting like that until I was 15, when I was diagnosed with PFS. I still deal with lots of pain from it. I’m glad you’re able to get your child into physical therapy, it wasn’t very well known when I was younger and none of us thought there was any concern.
They definitely need to be more proactive about it now. Doing nothing this long already is making her body develop and form the wrong way.
Get that girl to an orthopedic doctor sooner than later.
It’s not Jack,that’s why.
Sarah, check the humidity in your house. A lot of times stuffiness is because the air is too dry. Somewhere between 30-60 is comfortable. ❤
I second this. I had bought a new condo, and had so many congestion and dryness issues until we realized the floor planks were separating in some places and called the construction manager back to have a look. He said the humidity level was very low at 20% and to humidify the air. That made such a huge difference for us! Apparently new construction sucks up all the humidity for a while.
Definitely needed our humidifier when my family went through the cough/cold virus we all got. Still coughing at random.
Chronic stuffiness makes me think of mold
As I listened to your sharing I kept thinking that heading back to Hawaii would be so healing and comforting for all of you. My heart felt so much joy when you shared that your going. I hope and pray you are all super charged by the experience. Sara, being a caregiver is big work, there's not much written about it. And not alot of group support, so I hear you and empathize with you too. Derik, I am feeling for you. I'm doing all I am able to avoid getting a new knee surgery, so I have empathy for you too. Blessings of super healing to you. At challenging times in my 67 years, I say to myself. This too shall pass, and eventually it does. Keep loving each other, and laugh as often as you can. Love to you all. 💛
Hopefully your surgery goes well, Derrick. We love you guys ❤️❤️ please take care after the surgery this time
Ohh please please correct the sitting on the knees. Thats considered W sitting and is SO SO bad for them. Its one of the top things we look for as pediatric physical therapists.
I can't believe Sunny will be a year next month. Wow! I pray this surgery goes smoothly for you. Safe travels during the holidays. Enjoy 😊
We call the way Sunny sits "the wicked w" in dance classes, as it can stretch the inside of your knees and cause pain as you get older. Not much you can do right now but encourage new ways of sitting, amd try to reposition when you notice shes been there for longer than a couple seconds ❤
I sit like that too voluntarily. It's very comfortable for me. Is it bad?
I sit like that too voluntarily. It's very comfortable for me. Is it bad?
I wish you and your family the best, and all the love! ❤❤❤
Hopefully you'll take care of yourself, Derik. STAY OFF IT!! NO GYM!
Or trips to the lake
He won't. He never does. Life is about doing what he wants as much as possible despite the consequences to him or his family.
Wishing Sara & Derik’s knees a speedy recovery! 💜 & 🙏🏽’s!
Derik. Not Sarah.
@@leannekenneally9488 I meant Derek’s need & Sara as she mentioned she’s been feeling unwell for sometime. Perhaps I should’ve worded that better.
@@Baba_Wawa - I understood what you were saying, but I do feel Sarah needs a little extra ❤️ tlc because she does it all during his 6 week recovery, taking care 💯 of their 2 little cuties and then Derek needing her for almost everything 🥺 and it seems like a lot more is going to be done this time around. Sending love and prayers for them both and hopeful that this is the last knee surgery and he will never need it redone again 🤞🏼🤞🏼
Feel for you Derick. I had to have three surgeries on my meniscus on the same leg. It hurts but after the third surgery it finally worked. Will be praying for you and your family! God bless you all!
I'm glad it all worked out.
I've had both the surgeries. The full knee surgery on my left knee. It actually went well. Long recovery, but I've had no problems afterwards, it's been 33 years. Then after a dislocation on my right knee, just had the laparoscopic surgery. Sadly I've had a lot of problems with it. I'm actually in a knee brace now for extra support because of the knee being very weak. I wish you the best.
Jack and Sunny are growing up so fast.💜
Good luck. Sending good vibes.
I love seeing your family and how you live your life. Please mention the way Sunny sits to your pediatrician. It’s called ‘W’ sitting and can have issues with her core.
Agreed.
I am 58. I always sat and still sit the way sunny sits. I am very flexible because of this
Actually it’s my favorite sitting position
@@alexandracosta2471 that’s great Alexandra. We now know that with “W” sitting the sitter is using their legs to keep them balanced and not their core. It can cause issues with gross and fine motor development Sitting in the W-position too often may create tight muscles in the legs and hips. If the muscles are tight, they may inhibit normal motion, affecting the child’s developing coordination and balance. The muscles that are affected include the hamstrings, hip adductors, and the Achilles tendon. W-sitting may be a sign that your child is avoiding coordination and/or independent movement on the right and left sides of the body. Sitting in the W-position limits motion of the trunk and discourages reaching across the body.
Holy wow!! My daughter n husband always sat like that too n they are both fine!!!❤
@@kimcook844 that’s great! It just means you use your legs for balance as opposed to your core. As long as you don’t have balance, gross motor, crossing midline, issues then it’s not an issue! It’s always good to get the little kiddoes checked out just to make sure there are no underlying issues. The “w” sit is also associated with Autism so it’s always good to get it checked out. Glad you guys don’t have issues! 🎊
As a single mom who injured herself on the last day of vacation. It is a struggle having an injured leg/knee while trying to take care of two kids and a household and work full time! I totally understand how you feel sarah! I myself injured both legs as well its rough on both ends! Sending healing prayers!
Sorry to hear the bad news 😢 about surgery. Hopefully this goes well this time. Happy thanksgiving from your Canadian neighbour! Safe travels have a great time it’s beautiful there.
You guys are doing great! I LOVE YOU guys so much! Y'all are In my thoughts and prayers always and I can't wait to see Dericks progression!
God bless y'all ❤️
Ortho surgeries are always so difficult -- for this time around, no matter what you choose, since you are near your parents I wouldn't hesitate to rely on them more in this season of your life. Grandparents can be lifesavers! Wishing you both the best xx
A) Give your knee time to heal COMPLETELY! B) Get some respite time for Sarah by hiring help if needed, and schedule your hobby/alone time & stick to it! C) The kids are FINE, they will go with the flow - thankfully you tend to lift one another up!! LAST, darn (pun?), I plan on using that ThredUp discount😂❤ Hugs to all.
My advice is 1) Derik absolutely rest your knee like in bed rest for those first 6-8 weeks and 2) Sara you need to get a nanny for this period of time to save your sanity. Enjoy your Hawaii trip!
What if she were a single Mom & couldn’t even imagine affording a nanny? She’s pretty fortunate. They work from home & make videos. At least he can still technically work!😬 It definitely could be worse!
If she was a single mom she wouldn’t have to be nursing an injured husband!
@@vanessabastian5760 From personal experience as both a single mom & undergoing multiple knee surgeries (3 of which were knee replacements) & knowing the amount of bed rest Derik will be advise to take, a nanny would be an option in keeping Sara’s sanity. I know how hard it is to take care of small children (and even teenagers) by myself. Couple that with caring for my husband who just had a second knee surgery, yes a nanny would help. I’m sure family steps in and helps too. I wish them well through this difficult time, and like so many of us, want to see a successful outcome for Derik’s knee & happiness for this wonderful family.
Agree! Get a nanny to come daily and have a cleaning lady come once a week.
@vanessabastian5760 I am sure that being the lovely people that they are, they do appreciate their circumstances. No need to lecture them on perspective, dear!!
7:20 as someone who sat like this my whole life, I would recommend mentioning this to her doctor, I sat like that my whole entire life and now I suffer with hip dysplasia (not life threatening, just very uncomfortable) and my knees are not the best either.
Read up about the W position sitting. I didn’t find out till I was 18. It can be fixed before it gets to my position.
Good luck Derek, you'll get through it. Sarah you are so right, set your intention, set aside the time you need for yourself as a number 1 priority. I know as a mum of 2 small children it is so hard but it actually makes me a better mum when I've put myself first sometimes. Definitely enlist any of the help you need to support with the kids. Sometimes I haven't done this with my kids and I've tried to do it all.... Work, move house, me time, look after my girls abd it's created a lot of resentment from me towards my partner which has been a struggles to overcome. I'm trying to get more help with the girls now to allow me to have my time too. Your family is amazing, set your intention totallyxxxx
I’m in awe. Sarah you are blessed with loving family and many many friends. Utilize them in this time and be grateful for the people in your life and not such like I can’t it’s too hard. You are very privileged and it makes me feel some type of way that your like what do I do? You just do it and stop with resentment.Hobbies? Get over it
You sound resentful. How bout you just let her feel how she feels and stop acting like you know her well enough to critique her
@@sunburnz how about they asked for suggestions sooo I have mine.
Just remember how lucky you are, yes you've got to have another operation, but it's not life threatening. You have so much more than many people, no worries of losing your home, or being unable to pay bills, when you're recuperating, think of the positives.
Dear Sara and Derek I dont know if this will help but I hope it will. Anyway I had something less major than you it was just a Bakers Cyst that was removed by surgery but let me tell you this just for 1 month I could bearly walk from my bed to toilet. The place felt numbed for 3 years at touching and bending the knee. It took me 5 years to finally bend my knee all the way and fill it back as it was before. Healing takes a lot of time and patience and you need both to have it so you can enjoy the rest of your like pain free so you can do more activities with your children and wife. Sending all my love to you all❤❤❤❤
Beautiful fam you guys have made 💜 thankful that we get to watch you guys navigate life!
Ive noticed how alike that Jack and Ozzy are. Both full of energy...and Sunny and Stella are more quiet and always so happy. I know we only see a small part of your lives, but I think Jack and Ozzy take after their Moms and Sunny and Stella take after Derik and Tanner.😊❤
It’s great to see you all back. So sorry to hear you’re going to have to go through another operation Derik. Xx
I had a full open knee surgery when my ACL detached from the femur bone. I had a 9 month old at the time and 8 weeks after the surgery I found out I was pregnant with baby #2. Six months into the pregnancy my ACL came off again and I have never had anything else done to it, I was 19 and was told I needed a new knee but if I did get it done I would be looking at many surgeries over my lifetime. I just let the other ligaments compensate for the lost ACL but I have always felt a severe lack of stability and it honestly kept me from doing many many things during the last 27 years because I was always terrified my knee would completely fall apart. Now my "Good" knee has popped a ligament so I walk around like I'm going to fall at any second. Don't live with any instability in your knees because it will seriously impact how you live your life in ways you would never think.
Wishing you all the best!
Can you invest in a steady cam app or even a holder thingy? Derrick really shakes things up and my eyes and brain get woozy.
Not for anything else, saw in your vlogs you have not really completely healed yet but you assumed many usual things like socials like wedding, on an active adventure trip in Lake Pal, maybe others which we didn't see, so if you did follow STRICTLY the caition to observe and the time to wait you would be healed, then it would have been complete healing. Patience is a virtue, aside from you're not that spring chicken anymore, you are prone to accidents but fond of procrastination too instead of taking prompt medical attention, you first prioritized adventure and trips. If you would be operated again to fix the miniscule problem again now, it's fine but practice patience and restraint now to be completely healed. As for the total OPEM KNEE surgery, THAT WILL TAKE LONGER time to heal and if you didn't patiently wait again to completely heal, then more contraints later on. You might be totally crippled. You should note that going under the knife has risks too and the major operations have more. And throwing kids like that is not good for kid's health. Sunny's spine can be injured like Jack's. God gave you normal kids and hard if they develop illnesses later like deformities in spine or mobility issues.
🥺 the first sunny toss my heart dropped
my husband had reconstructive knee surgery in 1986 and is still on his feet ... has a couple bolts and what not but he followed his dr and swam everyday at our local YMCA for close to 18 months .... we had been married one year when he got hurt at work .... no kids but we heat with wood & you pick up the chores as needed ... i remember the first bath after his surgery ( that was to be routine fix othroscopic but took about 3hours) i about puked and that was just about all the movement for that day ... could not imagine having two kids in the mix ‼️ enjoy that Thanksgiving trip 🍂🍁🌾
❤ you two are amazing ❤ you are both strong whether or not you believe it. You've got great support all around you, and always reach out for help or take it when i'ts offered. You will get thru this and prayers everything turns out and you have a speedy recovery 🙏 ❤️
Hang in there Derek and do what you have to do to make your life healthy. Sarah, this is the "through sickness and health" part. You are right in needing to pursue your hobbies to keep the "you" part alive and balanced. Lean on your families at this stage. Love to you all during this holiday season! ❤❤❤❤
There's actually not that many. It's mostly positive. Stop trying to stir the pot.
@@catherinemartinez5542 I don't usually comment on their posts. I did not mean to "stir the pot"; so, thank you for bringing that to my attention. I have removed the offensive statement. Have a lively and lovely holiday season !
Yes, negative comments are really not necessary. People are being judgmental based on their experience in life, not what is best for Sara and Derek’s life.
@@sharonrimsza7960 is my comment still negative? Please tell me so I can correct it and myself. TIA
Dont get upset by the comment police. Anyone that makes money by puting their lives on social media can expect others opinions. Yours is totally appropriate.
Ooh Sunny and Jack are so cute 🥰🥰good recovery to you Derick . Take care of yourselves ❤❤❤❤
Wishing you and your family a happy holidays. Praying that all go’s well with your surgery .
Bless it. Sarah, I can tell you are just trying to keep it altogether and be strong for the family. I can totally understand your patience but frustrations. I hope the surgery works as it should and y’all can get back to being yourselves and going on fun adventures. Have a great Thanksgiving and safe travels to HI!!
I had a complete knee replacement. Had no problem. I had therapy for 3weeks and it was great. No problems.
For her sitting.. have her checked for hip dysplaysia .. the w position is an early sign for it
Dude, I did research and found that when you have bad knee problems it's best to do a full knee replacement. I just had mine done in April 2023 and I'm 41 and not even close to good health like you all and it was the best choice I could have made. I had a meniscus tear and they did a surgery and removed it and it did the same thing as yours so I said do the full replacement. No regrets at all.
Guys I’ve been there- probably the most important thing is hiring someone to help with the kids. They are super active and Sarah can’t do it all. I like to make some meals in advance and freeze them. Put an ice cooler next to the bed to get your own drinks. Get everything as set up as you can for immobility. Don’t guilt trip yourself out or worry. Do lots of gentle stretching before and after. Oh and stay barefoot on the beach the entire time you’re in Hawaii 🥰🌺🌴🌊🌅
Is there anyway you could move the hair away from Sunny's eyes 🤷♀️
Take ALL the help you are offered sarah you will be glad you did. Good luck ❤
I'm hoping your surgery goes well. I had a very similar surgery many years ago . I'm 70.. blew out my knee snow skiing 30 yrs ago. I had one mean surgeon. Army guy(retired) bedside manner of a Cobrar.... But.. he did a good job Even today this could not be done orthoscopically..So I have one large scar..It took a year of therapy..But.I was back on the slopes the NX season and did great.(just a good intermediate skier.) I really miss it.....I still have staples...and my arthritis is terrible..But I've got a working Knee..🎉❤🎉❤ Good luck. Love your beautiful family 💜💜💜💜
Good Luck with your surgery! Wishing all of you the best!
Sarah your hair looks real pretty like this.❤
Sunny is really getting up there. She is sooo cute!!
Praying for both you r health. And for making the right decision on the right operation. Take care! You have a beautiful family!
It's good news that your surgeon recommended the open knee procedure for your revision! I just had MY 2nd TKR 5 wks ago (and 4 scopes over 20 years before replacement!) You can do it, be diligent with weight bearing, I know it's hard and frustrating.. but important. You need to heal but Sara, you need a helper/assistant. Even if just a few days a week. To help w the kids, laundry, etc. would relieve some of the demand. You're both worth every penny for what it would potentially cost. Being a caregiver is draining and emotional cuz seeing your spouse in pain is hard to deal with sometimes! Safe travels & happy Thanksgiving!
Please please take your recovery seriously, give it more time than you even think you should, let it heal completely. For months. I’m sure you don’t need to hear this from me, who am I? It just takes a lot longer than you think for cartilage to heal. Way longer than broken bones. And bad joints can ruin your life.
Aww man, that sucks Derik 😓. No big suggestions for you guys on how to navigate this big bump in the road. Just take it one day at a time 🙏🏻. Don’t worry about what you think needs to be done. Just take deep breaths and prioritize what is needed to survive for that particular day. Sending so much love and healing your way Beestom Fam 🫶🏻❤️🤗
Super happy about you guys going back to Hawaii!!! I can’t wait to see the videos (if you do decide to share😅). Enjoy your time in paradise ☀️🌴🌊
remember how lucky you are. Some people in the world are not as lucky as you, and cant go the hospital. You signend up for a family, so you take care of your famile. It realy is nok that hard. Just be thankefull for what you got You'll get through it
Knee pain can be a cryptic thing....I am 63 years old and have extreme knee pain and am unable to rest on my knees yet after x rays, there is no evidence of arthritis, only a little calcification around the bones.....Very frustrating!!
Jack looks just like his beautiful mother and so smart too ❤
Please pull back or trim the front of the children's hair as it is impacting their vision and their little eyes are still developing Focus muscles.
Oh goodness!! I hate that for y’all!! I know it’s been hard but you both are so strong. Thank you for sharing your beautiful kiddos. They are so adorable. Have a blast in Hawaii!!❤❤
I had a double hand amputation in July and its been hard on me but hard on my significant other also he has to help w everything and its been a huge adjustment. Sarah make sure u take time for yourself, if u can hire help w cleaning, kids, cooking just whatever u can to get yourself some free time for self care (guilt free) also make sure u take some time for u and Derek to reconnect
I wish you well Derick on your surgery.
Have fun in Hawaii happy holidays to you and your family 🎉🎉
Yeah! Derik is back to complementing Sarah! 💕💕💕💕 Sorry you have to go through the surgery again. Praying everything goes well with you Derik, and prayers for Sarah, for extra strength and extra help while Derik is recovering! Have fun in Hawaii!
Glad to see you all again!! Missed ya lots. Praying for you Derrick. Can't imagine how much you hate another surgery. You are su h a hands on dad but, im sure Sarah can hold down the fort. Youbguys are a team and thats what ya do for each other. My hubby never helped me with our children or housework or anything. He saidnhenworked n bought home the bacon n that was his job!! 70's man!! Lol!! But we just celebrated 48 uears together. Love u guys! Please try to put out more videos. Good luck and may GOD bless you all!! Keep looking up!!❤
Praying this surgery works and yall have safe travels and Happy Thanksgiving ❤❤❤❤
This is just a small bump in the road of life. You will get through this so keep your faith and trust in God
Awww the kids are growing sooo fast, Jack looks just like his mommy, Sunny looks just like her daddy!!! Such a beautiful family
😂 I think it’s the opposite way around. Jack is the image of daddy while Sunny definitely favours mommy.
I agree that Jack is the spitting image of his mom and Sunny looks just like dad!
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I'm 67 now but 20 years ago I finally had both knees replaced. The best decision ever. I had all of the other surgeries. They were so much worse. My physical therapy was salmon fishing. You had to go over logs under branches and through raspberry bushes....my surgeon was so happy with my healing. The recovery was soooooo much faster than the others. I had needed replacements since I was 15 and had a speed skiing accident. Don't fear replacements.
I am so full of sunny and I am so happy , my little fresh of joy. Babies developmental growth is different some may have delays but if sunny is well I think there is no problem with that just consult with your peads to get the best advice❤️ thank u for sharing sunny to us❤️ our cute little sunshine
We love y’all and are praying for a speedy back to better than normal for Derik and Sarah. It will get better, believe that!❤️❤️❤️❤️
My heart goes out to you guys. I pray that Derrik’s knee heals SO quickly this time around! And that you will still be able to thrive through it all! 💕
Who cares? He's a jackwagon
Circumstances like that are very stressful. My oldest son was just 13 months old when my second son was born. We came home from the hospital on Thanksgiving Day. My husband returned to work the following Monday. He severely burned both hands that day. So…I basically had total care for him, our newborn and 13 month old. And I myself was still recuperating from childbirth. It was a very rough time, with a lot of tears. But…you just do what you must and take it a day at a time. 🤷♀️
Good luck with the surgery, D!
When I had surgery when my kiddos were young, my hubby was awesome! I had a full hysterectomy at 29. I was able to ship the younger 2 kiddos out to my sister-in-luv for the initial part of my recovery, and my mother-in-luv came over for another couple weeks to help out.
I was fortunate that my oldest was 11 at the time and could help.
The Church we went to all pitched in with meals, so there was one less thing to worry about.
Let friends and family help, even if it's to go pick up a grocery order or prescription, fold clothes. Take D to PT, whatever. Ya'll have a wonderful support system. Use it! One day, you'll be able to return the favor.
Oh Derik, you will be just fine. Praying for you. ❤️💕🥰😍😘👊🏽🙏🏾
Quick edit: I am not trying to be negative or make it seem like you’re not doing the right steps. The fact that you’re noticing it is enough! Physical therapy can help a lot!
I just got to the part where Derik was talking about how Sunny sits, and I agree definitely work on getting her to sit differently. I grew up sitting in the “W” position and I developed PFS ( patella femoral syndrome, or runners knee) by the time I was 15. I deal with a lot of pain to this day, I’ve found ways to cope but there’s not way to fix it at this point. My parents just never knew it would be an issue back in the day, and most kids grow out of sitting that way. But I never did lol. I am not a parent and not at all trying to tell you what to do, just thought I would put in my experience since he had expressed concern.
You guys are fantastic , just love each other , your little family is a dream come true ❤
Good luck with your surgery.
I’m getting a total knee replacement on the 29th. I had major Rotator cuff surgery just 6 months ago. A good support system is essential to good healing. Sarah, you know what is expected of you. Just be there for him. He needs you. My husband is my rock. He takes great care of me.
I don't have any advice but I really hope this surgery works this time! Hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!!! Safe travels!
ahhhh love you guys! i’m so sorry and i’m sure everything will work out! wish you guys the best ❤
Good luck with Baby Sunny! Hope Derrick can finally be healed.
Happy Thanksgiving!
It is so difficult when you are in pain like that and have little ones around. My husband and I are going through it too. I’m glad there is going to be relief for Derek, there is not really any relief they can give my husband for his pain at the moment, they are trying but it’s not really working. Continue sticking together, I’d say that’s the biggest thing I’m trying to do and it’s so difficult sometimes. You guys make it look easy. Tons of good thoughts headed your way ❤️❤️❤️
Derik, I really hope that your surgery is successful this time. 🙏🏽 The physical therapy is definitely beneficial as well. I am sending strength, prayers, and positive vibes to Derik and your incredible family. 💞
God bless you both❤
Aww what a fun video! I adore seeing those kids having so much fun! Fills my cup to see dads interact with their children in a healthy way ❤
Bless Your Heart! I hope the surgery goes well for you!😊
Love the thred up clothes!!!! I am so sorry Derick has to get surgery again!! I understand I went through 2 surgeries one right after another 😢. But I am feeling better now. It just takes time!!! You have your whole lives ahead of you….. don’t rush…..I know it will be hard , but it will all make you stronger!!! Sara , you are amazing!!!! Derick , you are too!!! So are Jack and Sunny !!! I will be praying for you both !!! You’re all going to make it through!!! Sending all my love to you all 💕❤️💕❤️
Feel better soon, you guys
Beautiful family!😊 W sitting is a big concern & should be mentioned to the pediatrician.
I workef for a pediatrician for 16 years and we saw babies that sat on their bottom and on their knees and they had no problems.
Keep in mind life happens.... you do your best to go with the flow and remember the ride is not all lows the highs will be sprinkled in there for you. Sarah, remember to take your self care and self soothe moments when taking care of the kids and Derek while also working full time, Derrick remember the correct amount in the correct way downtime will help to heal you up the next time around and try to take as much enjoyment from watching your 2 little angels grow and learn how to people on their own. Loves to all enjoy your Thanksgiving trip
Prayers for you both.