I was evicted from my home after 25 years. While decluttering to downsize went through my box of personal mementos. One thing I found was an envelope with a lock if hair of a friend of 50 years. He had passed away the year before and was bald. I asked his wife if she wanted and her and the kids loved seeing his lock if hair from when young.
good to see you back & at least you got a big job done with the taxes & started for this year already. I started decluttering to downsize & move since we are retired now its been 2 years still at it lol. But have gotten rid of so much more to go. I went through every closet & drawer once & we hired a dumpster for the 100 pieces of random garage wood & other junk lol But my thinking is changing & more things have homes now & I won't want to do this as I get even older lol Progress for you is happening. I wake up & think thank god I started.
I’m definitely thankful that I started now and didn’t wait until something dire happened or it was more difficult on my body. No time like the present! Great job on your decluttering progress as well!! It isn’t always easy but so worth it.
One thing I do to cut down on visual book clutter is to place books on the top and bottom shelves only then just have more sparse decor items on the middle shelves where the eye is drawn to, it’s a visual trick I find works pretty well.
Congrats on getting a new bed! Your bedroom and hall look great. Love the art in the hall! I'm a reader and have spent many hours in my life rearranging books and yes it's hard work. Very tiring. Currently I have 4 heavy boxes full of books that I need to take to Goodwill. Soon! It was great seeing you. Have a fantastic week!
You got so much done! I did a whole clean and declutter of my kids' room yesterday, but I really want to do another area in the house today. Maybe I will do our bookshelves!
Stephen King books may not look so pretty, but they are amazing reads! I also have a large collection of hardcover Kings! Love to see another collector :)
I hang my husband’s mask the same way. I added a command hook to the flat top of the bed frame so it doesn’t slide off anymore and he can hang it in the dark with ease. 🥰
I was just starting to wonder where you were! Glad everything is ok. And I am so amazed at your progress! Things will still get messy, that is life after all! But having a decluttered home makes cleaning up so much faster!
@@Jamie_Chaotic Doing this stuff now really helps the kids in their future. Growing up seeing this process will instill in them how to do it. Another decluttering channel, Simply Libby, is a now single mom trying to have her 9 year old do little tasks because she didn't grow up with cleaning other than the mad dash before company came. She had to learn as an adult with ADHD, which has been hard for her
I was kinda worried about you since I/we hadn’t seen you in a while. So glad to see you are doing okay. Please consider doing a short just to let us know you are doing okay. The book shelves look great and I look forward to seeing you next time in the Littles room. I’m so proud of all you do trying to reclaim your space. Blessings to you and the rest of the crew.
Thank you for being worried about me! I will definitely try to post more often even if it can’t be a whole video. I appreciate your support and encouragement!
@@Jamie_Chaotic hang in there momma. I remember very well how I felt as a mom of young children and a husband. Tired most of the time and I felt so stressed out. Try to take time for yourself and tell the hubster he’s on duty. So you can go take a shower or destress.
You can absolutely keep the California king flat sheet and pillow cases, and just get a new fitted sheet. You may have already thought of this, but I wanted to mention it. When we went up from a full to a queen we kept the full size flat sheets and pillow cases and just bought deep pocket fitted sheets by themselves. It was far cheaper than buying complete sets, and then we just donated the fitted full sized sheets by themselves. So people feel like sheet sets have to be donated all together, but there might be people like us out there who are just looking for only the fitted sheet for their California king.
This past fall my mom was diagnosed with blood cancer. She is responding super well to infusions, but will be getting a stem cell transplant within the next month. When hours were being cut back at work she started decluttering the house. Part of it was boredom, bothered by seeing dust, and I think partly thinking about mortality and her stuff. She lost both her parents before she was 30 and is thinking about whether my brother and I want her and her parents stuff. Getting my dad to go through stuff is similar to Blake, like pulling teeth. I would love to declutter the house, but it's not my stuff
Wow I really hope everything gets better for your mom. That must be very scary. It sounds like part of her way of taking control of the situation is to be proactive about cleaning away some clutter. Hopefully your dad can get on board too, if at least to give your mom some peace (assuming they are together).
@@Jamie_Chaotic Thank you for the good wishes. Decluttering and organizing are my way of getting control over my life. I have to live vicariously through videos to get the satisfaction.
I've been binge watching your videos and enjoying them! May I make a suggestion? As someone who is prune to motion sickness, is there another way to do your walk around shots without so much camera movement? Otherwise, great job on all the work you're doing! I'm thinking of doing a declutter by half on various parts of our house after seeing your closet declutter videos!
@@Jamie_Chaotic Girl, I hear ya!!! They always mention death and taxes as things that never change, but ain't nobody talk about the possibility of death *BY* taxes 🤣🤣🤣 which feels like a very real and possible thing when you are in the thick of it!
I’ve changed my mindset and inner thoughts a lot now that I’ve recognized how perfectionism has made things worse for me. “Progress not perfection” is my new mantra.
I feel like a weirdo because I have trash cans and tissue boxes everywhere there’s a place to sit or lay down. Maybe put a can next to his night stand for the trashes.
I have a trash can beside my bed and i wouldnt have it any other way. My guilty habit is snacking in bed and without the trash can my bedside table would be a mess because im also lazy.
There you were, doing taxes in bed! Good to have you back, I love your videos and your personality 💜 Have you thought about sorting the Steven’s by colour and/or stacking them horizontally to loosen it optically up? I always hate these black blocks in my bookshelf! And the prettiest ones, meaning the antique ones, should be on eye hight. But looks miles better already!
Thank you so much! The Stephen King books need to be in chronological order 🤣🤣 I think that’s my hubby’s requirement or it’s mine or both. Lol I don’t remember why we agreed upon that system but I do remember it was way longer of a discussion than it should have been ahaha 🤣 I was thinking the prettier books should be at the top because you can see the top shelves of the bookcase from the downstairs area. You only see the whole thing when you’re standing upstairs. So that way when we have people over they would see the prettiest ones and it’s mostly only us going upstairs.
@@Jamie_Chaotic I know these discussions that should not take place between grownups too well 😂 But sure, if it's only visible that way you should absolutely put the beauties to the top where they belong!
Your son saying "it looks pretty in here" was the sweetest and biggest motivation for you!
He’s such a sweetheart
I've been hoping and hoping you would update! I found your channel and binge watched it all. So happy to see you posted ❤
I was getting worried that something bad had happened. So glad you’re back and totally understand the reason for the hiatus 🌷
I was evicted from my home after 25 years. While decluttering to downsize went through my box of personal mementos. One thing I found was an envelope with a lock if hair of a friend of 50 years. He had passed away the year before and was bald. I asked his wife if she wanted and her and the kids loved seeing his lock if hair from when young.
Wow I’m so sorry. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot. I hope things have stabilized for you now.
Congratulations on making a a priority a home that serves you and your family by declutterring.
Wow have done fantastic with maintaining all of your progress 👏
I’m glad you’re back. I’ve enjoyed your decluttering journey. I hope you feel motivated to keep going!
Glad to see a new video! Life really can get CRAZY busy sometimes! I swear, my to-do list is ever-growing and never-ending sometimes!!
Nice to have you back 😃
Love it! So glad all is well and the decluttering journey is back on. Looks like your systems so far are working out well. 💖 Love that for you!
good to see you back & at least you got a big job done with the taxes & started for this year already. I started decluttering to downsize & move since we are retired now its been 2 years still at it lol. But have gotten rid of so much more to go. I went through every closet & drawer once & we hired a dumpster for the 100 pieces of random garage wood & other junk lol But my thinking is changing & more things have homes now & I won't want to do this as I get even older lol Progress for you is happening. I wake up & think thank god I started.
I’m definitely thankful that I started now and didn’t wait until something dire happened or it was more difficult on my body. No time like the present! Great job on your decluttering progress as well!! It isn’t always easy but so worth it.
Every little thing helps. The next passes will get easier and easier
I love your decluttering videos! I'm so happy you posted again.
Glad to see you back, knowing you're ok. Yes, books are a pain. I'm about to go through a wall of books...never easy...
I have been loving these decluttering videos. You’re doing great! Can’t wait for the office decluttering. Well, I will watch, obviously.
Good idea to move the books to the front of the shelves!
Omg that made soooooo much of a big difference. Such a silly little thing like that and they’ve been clean, organized, and perfect ever since.
Bravo 👏👏👏👏❤
One thing I do to cut down on visual book clutter is to place books on the top and bottom shelves only then just have more sparse decor items on the middle shelves where the eye is drawn to, it’s a visual trick I find works pretty well.
Always enjoy and get inspired watching these videos
Awesome, thank you!
I had a black cat named Chance and he loved hair ties too!! Miss that guy! Thanks for another video! Looking forward to the next! ❤
Congrats on getting a new bed! Your bedroom and hall look great. Love the art in the hall! I'm a reader and have spent many hours in my life rearranging books and yes it's hard work. Very tiring. Currently I have 4 heavy boxes full of books that I need to take to Goodwill. Soon! It was great seeing you. Have a fantastic week!
Looks great!👏 My cat loves the flat scratch pads!😻
Great idea to bring the. Looks forward! We are also a "fill every flat surface' household. Lol
You got so much done! I did a whole clean and declutter of my kids' room yesterday, but I really want to do another area in the house today. Maybe I will do our bookshelves!
I’m glad you’re back and better than ever and you have lost weight looking good! Welcome back🩷🌸🩷
Stephen King books may not look so pretty, but they are amazing reads! I also have a large collection of hardcover Kings! Love to see another collector :)
I’m too much of a wuss for them but hubby loves them! 😂
I hang my husband’s mask the same way. I added a command hook to the flat top of the bed frame so it doesn’t slide off anymore and he can hang it in the dark with ease. 🥰
Checking in on ya girl! Everything ok???
Yes, all is well! Busy lately, but I am back!
I was just starting to wonder where you were! Glad everything is ok. And I am so amazed at your progress! Things will still get messy, that is life after all! But having a decluttered home makes cleaning up so much faster!
It’s a breeze to keep things clean now. Especially in the bathroom! I can’t wait until the whole house is done 😂
@@Jamie_Chaotic I can’t wait to watch all the videos that will you get you there!
@@Jamie_Chaotic Doing this stuff now really helps the kids in their future. Growing up seeing this process will instill in them how to do it. Another decluttering channel, Simply Libby, is a now single mom trying to have her 9 year old do little tasks because she didn't grow up with cleaning other than the mad dash before company came. She had to learn as an adult with ADHD, which has been hard for her
I was kinda worried about you since I/we hadn’t seen you in a while. So glad to see you are doing okay. Please consider doing a short just to let us know you are doing okay. The book shelves look great and I look forward to seeing you next time in the Littles room. I’m so proud of all you do trying to reclaim your space. Blessings to you and the rest of the crew.
Thank you for being worried about me! I will definitely try to post more often even if it can’t be a whole video. I appreciate your support and encouragement!
@@Jamie_Chaotic hang in there momma. I remember very well how I felt as a mom of young children and a husband. Tired most of the time and I felt so stressed out. Try to take time for yourself and tell the hubster he’s on duty. So you can go take a shower or destress.
You rocked it girl! ❤
You can absolutely keep the California king flat sheet and pillow cases, and just get a new fitted sheet. You may have already thought of this, but I wanted to mention it. When we went up from a full to a queen we kept the full size flat sheets and pillow cases and just bought deep pocket fitted sheets by themselves. It was far cheaper than buying complete sets, and then we just donated the fitted full sized sheets by themselves. So people feel like sheet sets have to be donated all together, but there might be people like us out there who are just looking for only the fitted sheet for their California king.
Yes for sure, I kept all the stuff like pillowcases and comforters that still fit the bed ❤️🩵
You should try putting a little trash can next to the nightstand so trash doesn’t collect
This past fall my mom was diagnosed with blood cancer. She is responding super well to infusions, but will be getting a stem cell transplant within the next month. When hours were being cut back at work she started decluttering the house. Part of it was boredom, bothered by seeing dust, and I think partly thinking about mortality and her stuff. She lost both her parents before she was 30 and is thinking about whether my brother and I want her and her parents stuff. Getting my dad to go through stuff is similar to Blake, like pulling teeth. I would love to declutter the house, but it's not my stuff
Wow I really hope everything gets better for your mom. That must be very scary. It sounds like part of her way of taking control of the situation is to be proactive about cleaning away some clutter. Hopefully your dad can get on board too, if at least to give your mom some peace (assuming they are together).
@@Jamie_Chaotic Thank you for the good wishes. Decluttering and organizing are my way of getting control over my life. I have to live vicariously through videos to get the satisfaction.
I have been checking 😬!! You got this !! 😃
Awesome mouthwash idea, I'll be on the lookout for thrifted one now! Subscribed today, thanks from New Zealand 😊
Thanks so much!
What is the vintage container called??
It’s kind of brilliant
It’s called a tumble-up and I agree about its genius!
I've been binge watching your videos and enjoying them! May I make a suggestion? As someone who is prune to motion sickness, is there another way to do your walk around shots without so much camera movement? Otherwise, great job on all the work you're doing! I'm thinking of doing a declutter by half on various parts of our house after seeing your closet declutter videos!
Ahh! Can't edit! Prone, not prune 😆
Yay!!! So glad you are back!!! And happy that you survived doing your taxes 😉
Barely! Haha 😆
@@Jamie_Chaotic Girl, I hear ya!!! They always mention death and taxes as things that never change, but ain't nobody talk about the possibility of death *BY* taxes 🤣🤣🤣 which feels like a very real and possible thing when you are in the thick of it!
I had to use a journal called Throw It Away by Guru Notebooks to throw stuff out, because I got too attached.
Finallyyy 🥰
I lmao when Maxwell fell and you said he feels embarrassed! So truee 🤣
His little walk of shame as he left the room 🤣
@@Jamie_Chaotic yesss 🤣🥰
Looking forward to the next video! Love what you are doing and howww you are doing it 🫶🏻
Hi go mum ❤
Completely understand perfectionism- I always repeat “Better is good”
maybe a trash can for the bedroom?
I’ve changed my mindset and inner thoughts a lot now that I’ve recognized how perfectionism has made things worse for me. “Progress not perfection” is my new mantra.
I feel like a weirdo because I have trash cans and tissue boxes everywhere there’s a place to sit or lay down. Maybe put a can next to his night stand for the trashes.
It’s worth a try!
Each of my parents has a small trashcan beside their nightstands, even though my dad could go weeks before needing to empty it
I have a trash can beside my bed and i wouldnt have it any other way. My guilty habit is snacking in bed and without the trash can my bedside table would be a mess because im also lazy.
There you were, doing taxes in bed! Good to have you back, I love your videos and your personality 💜
Have you thought about sorting the Steven’s by colour and/or stacking them horizontally to loosen it optically up? I always hate these black blocks in my bookshelf!
And the prettiest ones, meaning the antique ones, should be on eye hight.
But looks miles better already!
Thank you so much! The Stephen King books need to be in chronological order 🤣🤣 I think that’s my hubby’s requirement or it’s mine or both. Lol I don’t remember why we agreed upon that system but I do remember it was way longer of a discussion than it should have been ahaha 🤣 I was thinking the prettier books should be at the top because you can see the top shelves of the bookcase from the downstairs area. You only see the whole thing when you’re standing upstairs. So that way when we have people over they would see the prettiest ones and it’s mostly only us going upstairs.
@@Jamie_Chaotic I know these discussions that should not take place between grownups too well 😂
But sure, if it's only visible that way you should absolutely put the beauties to the top where they belong!
I dont know anything about you, but I just saw a video about your skin cancer and Im happy your ok, thats all. Take care.
Thank you for that message, I appreciate the kindness!
Poor Max...an ungraceful dismount from your perch is quite embarassing in the feline world🤣
🤣 he falls off things more often than most cats. He clearly has deep shame about it.
You need to get a cat tree tall enough so your cats can look out the window.
Cuz life gets busy