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Just left my 7th year marriage because of domestic violence, in migori, my dad called me and told me that he wasn't ready to burry any of his child,he asked me to come home to him, Am now at peace and I really thank my parents and siblings
What a cruel man😢😢. Jane, you are a beautiful, strong woman, no wonder that silly man saw you as a threat. Those scars don't define you. You will soar again.
Jane, you still have your critical faculties intact. You still have your self confidence. You have gathered yourself together and the future is bright. Cheers to good health, wealth, happiness and wisdom.
Jane is one of the prettiest black women I have ever seen, Your scar is not the end of life,those who did this to you will still suffer as you prosper Nyar Bishop. All the best in life.
Abusive marriages and relationships do exist especially when two persons are married and belong to different classes. An educated professional and another semi literate partner. Incase of a disagreement, the semi-literate partner feels intimidated. This results to a very serious abusive marriage. Whoever has ever been a victim will understand my opinion.
You are right 💯...kuna msee alioa mwenye hakuenda shule hata..what she did to that guy ....inauma sanaaa..to make it pain..alimwachia mtoto wa one year..am trying to reach Tuko to help him..but they don't answer me..the guy is an engineer....certificate to show his work that lady alienda nazo..Laptop ya kuchora manyumba..that Lady alienda nayo. I mean everything.chenye aliwachiwa ni mtoto only...landlady told him the dateline ni 20th this month..if not atapata kufuli kwa mlango...please anyone with job..ya engineering ..help him please 🙏 and God will reward you🙏
My heart breaks for her. The fact that she still weeps as she tells the part of her coming to the realisation that she had to leave shows that she is still not yet fully healed. I pray for her complete healing. No human being deserves what she went through. God is a miracle worker and I believe that her complete healing will eventually come. God forgets no one.
I have been there, almost with the similar story thou mine are bite marks in my hands, i got married @19yrs and left at 23yrs now am 26yrs and i dont think i will ever get married again in my life
After watching this im convinced i made the right decision leaving a narcissistic man early enough! Wueehhh... She is a strong woman and we thank God she has been able to bounce back
For me it wasn't easy after leaving a narcissistic person,he used to follow me everywhere I go.one day he followed me and took my specs coz he knew I can't walk without it!damn I was so scared!
Not in Kenya but Africa,women ad gals are still sexual,morally, emotionally abused and the abusers thinks it's right and our female in power a silent watchers,thus really hurts whoever understands place ad respect a woman deserves.
I escaped from my narcissistic boyfriend..after 6 mths of staying together..there were too many redflags but i cldnt see...he threatened me so many times but i came to realise through his cousin that he had a wife who he burnt with acid and run to mombasa for yrs and he was planning to kill me also..soo many things happened in that 6mth time..thank God to my bro and dad they acted fast to save my life😢
I think you should be cautious still such people don't let go easily he might hunt you down and harm always be alert wherever you go I say this from my experience way back trust me they never give up till they hurt you, and pray for GOD'S protection
Thanks you Jane for highlighting about Violence. A lot of people (women, men and kids )are going through it in silence . Talking about it to the right ear is always a start to some direction of sense.
I am curious about their whereabouts too, especially that coward of a husband. How can you just drive back a woman back to her parent’s and then drive off. I’m from the same community but madharau zingine my father wouldn’t have accepted. He would have tafutad the parents, gone through the elders of their village and forced them to come rudisha me officially only to be asked to please leave with the cows they’d brought as my dowry once they show up, nkt
I know experiences are different.but when you get to watch such videos i get afraid to even getting married. I jus pray God locates me with someone who is not abusive juu uweh. Anyway my view though. Hugs to the lady 🤗 ❤️ she now knows best 👌
Kuna good marriages,but normal challenges huwa,,, don't fear,may God grant you,,,,Mimi nimeolewa 19 yrs sasa na God is good kuna very caring and God -fearing guys,,I can testify that to the glory of God.
Narcissists have the same traits. My ex fiance treated me horribly. He was very emotionally abusive, very toxic, always started arguments, gave me the silent treatment, got upset over things that don't make sense, got upset if he doesn't get his way, chased me away every after a disagreement, took back the engagement ring, asked for the money he gave me back. I'm trying to heal but it's not easy.
I can relate to u. My dad said the door will always b open. I left after 2 yrs. My mum being a good african mum was like ah marriages r like this. Stay strong.
Very inspiring story. So very sorry Jane that you had to go through that. The experience you went through was harrowing and by God it brought out a side of you God had purposed would be a saving grace to many other women suffering silently... By all standards you won the battle the Devil intended to destroy you with.
You are still beautiful Jane, the devil was intimidated by your future hence he wanted to destroy you but God would never allow that! Wishing you the very best
I'm 42 and I will get married in heaven, have never tried and I'm not intending to marry got two boys and they mean everything to me//I do dating for fun💃💃💃
If you don't want to get married why go sleep around with single or married men . There are very many kids out there waiting for someone to adopt them or go to the hospital ufanye IV. I can't recall the name well.
I think never ignore the first red flags n marriage, be careful when you start staying with a person cos the first red flags show more about the future 😢😢😢😢 may God give peace mama 🙏🙏
Jane, everything happens for a reason, you were meant to help those going through coz your body physic puts you in a good way to help them by the way u're beautiful and strong am proud of you.
I just want to tell Jane she an amazing woman with very good parents n just be strong my dear take time with you self do you and you are very beautiful be blessed my sister ❤❤❤❤
Mimi naye kusema ukweli kitu kama hiyo siwezi samehea wallahi......nikipona i go for that devil na acid mtungi mzima ama akatwe makagari.....aiiii somethings cant be forgiven....he did that ndio usiwahi pendwa...mimi pia nakata hiyo dudu asiwahi skia mapenzi na mke yeyote..
Things we here happening in marriage woyee my heart sin nik but l believe if you trust in GOD and allow him to lead you he will never lead you astray.hugs dia ❤you are beuriful
Pole sana Jane, what a pretty girl you are inside and outside. Jisamehe tu for not kukubali akuwa msee mpoa, na watu wale sio wapowa carnive with walee wasee hawakupendi. But this is painful Jane.
Pole sana dear. May God heal you completely. You are beautiful. Now I see some of the reasons why my parents always discourage me from dating a man who is below my education level or not as established as me. This is not to say that men who have more than you cannot be narcissistic, but it helps to have a man who does not feel like he is not as good as you.
Some of this men damage you so bad such by the time you are leaving them it takes years to get back pieces of your forner self but when you do it feels amazing.
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So sorry may God grant you peace Prayers 🙏 and may you keep your faith burning forgiveness is the key to healing
She is strong, resilient, brilliant and wonderful inside out🎉waah
Jane is such a strong gal .I can hear n see a great lady in our society.may God help Jane
Yvonne you are growing fast 👏👏👏👏👏
She's so beautiful and strong ❤
Oh gosh 😢..so sad. Her beauty can still be seen behind the scars. Wishing her well.
I have been watching this alot and i have learned to treat my wife better.
Oh wow I am happy you did learn something from this.
Thank you
Please treat her like queen
God will bless you abundantly
I happy for ur wife
Mungu akutane na Hawa wanaume hutesa wake zao, kama Bado hai na hawajaomba rehema, na kufanya Toba ya kweli mbele za Baba Yetu wa mbinguni.....
Wooow this is good coming to are man wish every man can take this😊
Just left my 7th year marriage because of domestic violence, in migori, my dad called me and told me that he wasn't ready to burry any of his child,he asked me to come home to him,
Am now at peace and I really thank my parents and siblings
Good Idea
You have a great dad.
Listen to him.
Enjoy your peace away from your abuser.
Your dad I love her already just caring dad
An amazing dad❤
God bless your father
What a cruel man😢😢. Jane, you are a beautiful, strong woman, no wonder that silly man saw you as a threat. Those scars don't define you. You will soar again.
My dad told me that if a man raises his hand on you even if it doest touch the body, just walk away and don't look back
Jane, you still have your critical faculties intact. You still have your self confidence. You have gathered yourself together and the future is bright. Cheers to good health, wealth, happiness and wisdom.
You're not only beautiful but strong. Hugs and more grace to you ❤
Kawira you have taken exact shoes of LNN in interviewing go girl all the best
Jane is one of the prettiest black women I have ever seen, Your scar is not the end of life,those who did this to you will still suffer as you prosper Nyar Bishop. All the best in life.
Abusive marriages and relationships do exist especially when two persons are married and belong to different classes. An educated professional and another semi literate partner. Incase of a disagreement, the semi-literate partner feels intimidated. This results to a very serious abusive marriage. Whoever has ever been a victim will understand my opinion.
Exactly, the husband was so intimidated
My life
So true I told myself the same thing
I can relate.
You are right 💯...kuna msee alioa mwenye hakuenda shule hata..what she did to that guy ....inauma sanaaa..to make it pain..alimwachia mtoto wa one year..am trying to reach Tuko to help him..but they don't answer me..the guy is an engineer....certificate to show his work that lady alienda nazo..Laptop ya kuchora manyumba..that Lady alienda nayo. I mean everything.chenye aliwachiwa ni mtoto only...landlady told him the dateline ni 20th this month..if not atapata kufuli kwa mlango...please anyone with job..ya engineering ..help him please 🙏 and God will reward you🙏
Some of these people who do such evil should have their names told to the world...
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I really wonder why people hide their names for sure.
Exactly
They can sue and we all know the law is an ass , nobody want issues of defamation payments ,they can be Soo huge
True true
We need to hear from her dad. He is an example to behold!🎉
Leta babake please
Guys come here we vote for her dad akuje show
Yes but he still took abit of time to pull her out
.but i understand she wasn't telling them the truth as it happened
Trust a mother's instinct, the father is so loving
True never ignore a mother's instincts they carried you in their womb and they know when something is not good.
My heart breaks for her. The fact that she still weeps as she tells the part of her coming to the realisation that she had to leave shows that she is still not yet fully healed. I pray for her complete healing. No human being deserves what she went through. God is a miracle worker and I believe that her complete healing will eventually come. God forgets no one.
The fact that she can still talk about it ,it means she is healing from it.she is strong beautiful woman
Well done Yvonne Kawira. You're really doing an awesome job.
Thank you so much for watching.❤❤❤
@@YvonneKawiraTukoi agree... yes you are ❤
@@philomenameier9354 thank you for this. I appreciate you 😌🙏
I have been there, almost with the similar story thou mine are bite marks in my hands, i got married @19yrs and left at 23yrs now am 26yrs and i dont think i will ever get married again in my life
Dont give up yet,thers alot ahead of you.When you have healed in time it shall be well.Keep your faith in God and all the best to you.
Jennie my friend. I cried watching this,😢😢😢. You never told me the whole story. Indeed you are strong my friend .May you continue soaring high.
Always, there to tell you on a coffee date.
After watching this im convinced i made the right decision leaving a narcissistic man early enough! Wueehhh... She is a strong woman and we thank God she has been able to bounce back
Me too....am happily single...wangu hata hakutaka niende duka...saa hii hata club Sina wakunizuia...
For me it wasn't easy after leaving a narcissistic person,he used to follow me everywhere I go.one day he followed me and took my specs coz he knew I can't walk without it!damn I was so scared!
Nilipigwa twice left 5 times in 4 yrs like this is real aki enda tu na day one we have stories untold still
This girl’s English is so👌🏼,she’s also cute..may the experince be just a stepping stone and testimony in your life as the Lord enlarge you
Amen
She is a Luopian what do you expect😅?
But she is a lawyer. They are paid to talk and convince.
Things women go through in marriages God should see us through
Aki God help women
OMG ,never seen such beauty even with scars ❤
We need a Government Ministry of Home Affairs 😢, with guideline and penalties, like Britain or US. Domestic violence is a pandemic in Kenya.
Not in Kenya but Africa,women ad gals are still sexual,morally, emotionally abused and the abusers thinks it's right and our female in power a silent watchers,thus really hurts whoever understands place ad respect a woman deserves.
Yawa yawa you deserve better. Don't let a man ever treat you like this again ❤❤❤
She's a gem
You are such a beautiful and strong woman. My case is exactly like yours.i left after 16 years of marriage. And I don't regret it at all
Beautiful inside out. Your destiny is in God's hands.
With me, what I saw was beyond my expectation. I'm still afraid to get married again
I understand you ,some things change people 😭😭
I understand but ask the holy spirit and be close to God.Don't be afraid
😢😢 imagine she's still pretty,such a strong woman,😢😢hugs dear
Jane you are beautiful inside and out, you have overcome the bad that was intended. Thanks for keeping strong and sharing...
I escaped from my narcissistic boyfriend..after 6 mths of staying together..there were too many redflags but i cldnt see...he threatened me so many times but i came to realise through his cousin that he had a wife who he burnt with acid and run to mombasa for yrs and he was planning to kill me also..soo many things happened in that 6mth time..thank God to my bro and dad they acted fast to save my life😢
I think you should be cautious still such people don't let go easily he might hunt you down and harm always be alert wherever you go I say this from my experience way back trust me they never give up till they hurt you, and pray for GOD'S protection
Look her in her eyes tell her for me, she is the most prettiest woman. God continue blessing her.
Thanks you Jane for highlighting about Violence. A lot of people (women, men and kids )are going through it in silence . Talking about it to the right ear is always a start to some direction of sense.
Jane you're a strong person, the enemy intended to do evil but God turned it around, bravo to your dad.
I was planning to get married next year 😢 let me tell you maina 😭😭😭tano tena sina mbio
Tano Tena mamaaaa💪
😂😂😂😂
Maina hayuko hivyo😂😂😂😂
Your comment got me laughing 🤣🤣🤣 oh my
😂😂😂😂😂😂
jane your beauty still shines through you are a strong woman im glad your strength is our lord jesus🙏❤
She really is a very beautiful lady
Please finish this story ..wouldlike to knw what happened to those men ...did you find justice? Jane you look beautiful ...
So now, where are those people who did that to u? Because they deserve to be in prison. Watching from Zambia.
I am curious about their whereabouts too, especially that coward of a husband. How can you just drive back a woman back to her parent’s and then drive off. I’m from the same community but madharau zingine my father wouldn’t have accepted. He would have tafutad the parents, gone through the elders of their village and forced them to come rudisha me officially only to be asked to please leave with the cows they’d brought as my dowry once they show up, nkt
I know experiences are different.but when you get to watch such videos i get afraid to even getting married. I jus pray God locates me with someone who is not abusive juu uweh. Anyway my view though. Hugs to the lady 🤗 ❤️ she now knows best 👌
Kuna good marriages,but normal challenges huwa,,, don't fear,may God grant you,,,,Mimi nimeolewa 19 yrs sasa na God is good kuna very caring and God -fearing guys,,I can testify that to the glory of God.
Woiye aki , this has made me so sad.
God please help me love and appreciate my husband 😣😣😣
What a beautiful lady with a genuine heart.
Nimeogopa kuwatch , may God continue lifting her higher and higher
Even before watching all of it I knew he was married to a narcissist coz I have experience it in a relationship
Narcissists have the same traits. My ex fiance treated me horribly. He was very emotionally abusive, very toxic, always started arguments, gave me the silent treatment, got upset over things that don't make sense, got upset if he doesn't get his way, chased me away every after a disagreement, took back the engagement ring, asked for the money he gave me back. I'm trying to heal but it's not easy.
Sorry dear went through the same thing until I lost my son that's when I knew I had to walk away😢😢😢am really trying to heal from it
YOU ARE BEAUTIFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE IN GOD'S OWN IMAGE NA WEWE NI ZAIDI YA MSHINDI
Your dad is one in a million Jane
Yes he is..
I really pray I can be able to pay him someday. You know pay him a trip to Mombasa. Or just buy him some very expensive suit.
Amen to that siz❤@@janeagwenge2776
I can relate to u. My dad said the door will always b open. I left after 2 yrs. My mum being a good african mum was like ah marriages r like this. Stay strong.
Very inspiring story. So very sorry Jane that you had to go through that. The experience you went through was harrowing and by God it brought out a side of you God had purposed would be a saving grace to many other women suffering silently... By all standards you won the battle the Devil intended to destroy you with.
This woman is soooo beautiful and full of brains
Wow, she is so beautiful, even with the scars. Why are men like this?
You are still beautiful Jane, the devil was intimidated by your future hence he wanted to destroy you but God would never allow that! Wishing you the very best
I know her and she is a queen.
Ngai so that man wanted this woman to suffer😢😢😢😢 he was a devil agent weuh...so he found joy seeing her in pain😢😢😢
I'm 42 and I will get married in heaven, have never tried and I'm not intending to marry got two boys and they mean everything to me//I do dating for fun💃💃💃
Be aware of sexual sin. God will judge sin
@@alotoewoi1867😂😂😂na wazee WA wenyewe
sasa unazini tu then unaona uko sawa? olewa acha zako
If you don't want to get married why go sleep around with single or married men . There are very many kids out there waiting for someone to adopt them or go to the hospital ufanye IV. I can't recall the name well.
You should be careful be single or marry.There are consequences of everything and in heaven we don't marry
I think never ignore the first red flags n marriage, be careful when you start staying with a person cos the first red flags show more about the future 😢😢😢😢 may God give peace mama 🙏🙏
She's a beautiful woman.... Very amazing
I loved working with her sometime back ❤
She's super amazing!❤❤
The fact that she still smiling ❤❤❤❤ much love baby girl 💞 💕💕💕💕💕💕
ooh 😭 such a beautiful descent woman doesn't deserve such hell, pole sana Mrembo...
Jane, may God shower you with His blessings. May you be a solution to many people.
Pole for what you went through, you are resilient and may God keep you strong.
The man wanted to humble her because she studied law,but mungu ni nani❤
Jane, everything happens for a reason, you were meant to help those going through coz your body physic puts you in a good way to help them by the way u're beautiful and strong am proud of you.
Kawira ,we need part 2 about the court process and how the verdict was reached.Flowers to Jane🎉🎉❤❤🇬🇧🇬🇧
SHAME ON THAT MAN!!!!
Na Jane Bado uko na ring 💍, siungetupa Kwa bahari ikwende na mateso yake....
She's so pretty despite her scares yet to listen to her story
She is a very wonderful woman .
She went through a lot may God give inner and physical healing. It's not easy😢😢
Jane you are a very confident lady. May God use you to help others. Your heart is of gold..
Such a beautiful African Queen. May God continue holding you and guiding your steps...
I feel sorry for kindhearted women ...they really suffer in these streets of relationships. Sasa mtu hata simple providence ni shida
People are so inhuman....she is such a beautiful gal❤
Sorry Jane, you have overcome the temptation and God saved you for a purpose.
Blessings!
Jane, your beauty radiates even behind the scars. Glad you are no longer with that idiot of a man. You will rise again for sure. All the best gal
Jane you are beautiful! I love the fact that you are healed. Blessings ! .
Sorry Jane for what you went through. Healing isn't easy I once was in an abusive marriage but thank God I left
Ten yrs in marriage,i walk away when he started being violent, better single but healthy
So touching story and interesting.... One hv learn alot jane.
I just want to tell Jane she an amazing woman with very good parents n just be strong my dear take time with you self do you and you are very beautiful be blessed my sister ❤❤❤❤
Oh my Goodness. You have triumphed girl. Go go go!!!!!!
Such a beautiful soul....jane l saw you in town sometimes back migori....keep going jaber.
Your beauty is still evident❤
You're very beautiful Jane. Thank you for your story🙏🏿
Why do you not give this lady time to herself with no interruption?
Mimi naye kusema ukweli kitu kama hiyo siwezi samehea wallahi......nikipona i go for that devil na acid mtungi mzima ama akatwe makagari.....aiiii somethings cant be forgiven....he did that ndio usiwahi pendwa...mimi pia nakata hiyo dudu asiwahi skia mapenzi na mke yeyote..
She is a super woman, and very beautiful, vegence is for the Lord, Jane He will fight for you 😍❤️🙏
She has beauty of the heart,seen through the scars,what an amazing woman!❤❤❤
You are so beautiful dear,one wouldn't even easily realize anything.❤❤❤❤❤❤,Let go completely and let God🙏
Black, beauty and brains ...Jane you are a winner.We appreciate your story
Sorry for what happened. You're very strong, beautiful on the outside and inside. Great inspiration, eloquent and larger than life personality. 🎉
Aki her hair is so beautiful and she is so beautiful
I love seeing natural hair. Won’t complain about weave either but natural is so nice ❤
So, so sorry darling Jane, it's well. You are still strong and beautiful, and God still has a mission for you to empower and encourage other victims
Things we here happening in marriage woyee my heart sin nik but l believe if you trust in GOD and allow him to lead you he will never lead you astray.hugs dia ❤you are beuriful
Having supportive family members is very vital when faced with such. May God bless our parents and to those who have guardians.
Pole sana Jane, what a pretty girl you are inside and outside. Jisamehe tu for not kukubali akuwa msee mpoa, na watu wale sio wapowa carnive with walee wasee hawakupendi.
But this is painful Jane.
She's beautiful, strong and a survivor.... May you find peace and all the happiness in the world.
Pole sana dear. May God heal you completely. You are beautiful. Now I see some of the reasons why my parents always discourage me from dating a man who is below my education level or not as established as me. This is not to say that men who have more than you cannot be narcissistic, but it helps to have a man who does not feel like he is not as good as you.
Am glad you are still alive and pretty
Some of this men damage you so bad such by the time you are leaving them it takes years to get back pieces of your forner self but when you do it feels amazing.
Jane my friend and fellow peace actor ❤❤❤
Your Story Jane is so heartbreaking. I am crying as i am watching your video. I am so sorry .
But shes so beautiful with her scars..hugs mummy😢