The difference is that in the west the law helps them take half of everything you make so they feel entitled to it without needing to resort to subterfuge.
Good advice... I met a bar girl 8 years ago and have been together ever since so there are exceptions to the rule.. But she was in her mid 30s and had gone to Pattaya to meet a foreigner for a permanent partner. I also spoke enough Thai to understand what they were mostly saying in the bar. This was gold for me and I initially did not let on I could understand the majority of their conversations. Because she was older I think it's an advantage she was happy to not to play the game that a lot of girls do. She is a great person moved back to Australia with me went back to school and now is working as an EN in a nursing home. If you are able to find a good Thai woman they make a great partner. As they say once you've had asian you'll never go caucasion😁
@@lance9431 Mate, plenty of Aussie women play around behind their partners back. I had plenty of married women throw them self at me when I was in my 30's. Why be so negative.
If the relationship gets longer, after he introduces you to the family it is no longer cheap. Every family member wants a gift from the foreigner, and one gift every time you go to Thailand. The least mom wants is a washing machine, and so on.
There's a girl I still speak to, she now lives in Finland. When I stayed in Pattaya she would always come and stay with me. I started to really get peed off when every time her phone rang she would dash off into the bathroom or into the hotel corridor. So I said to her, don't treat me like a fool I know you have other boyfriends. It's ok I know this is the way you get your money. She seemed quite relieved that I knew what all the phone calls were about. She told me about her other boyfriends and stopped dashing off every time her phone rang. Did I really think she was going to wait patiently for me to visit once a year?.
Oh that was good Daz ! My first bar fine experience in Pattaya just before covid started I had that line used on me " You have a good heart " But I never liked the girl and didn't pursue her .She pursued me a little online but I told her I didn't want to talk anymore and that was the end of that . If there is one thing I learned on my first trip to Thailand is if you see a girl you like, think quick and take action on her and don't hesitate because you wont get a second chance . Also don't get emotionally involved and let her go when its time . There are many different women and experiences to be had in Thailand it's a wonderful place .
I find that once you actually befriend one or 2, the whole scenario changes. They know that you are not gonna fall for the tricks, so if they actually like you, you can become friends with benefits, and you get to see a lot more of their world. I have been in the room and seen a few of those calls to "sponsors". It is amazing how fast they can turn on the water works.
Michael Trott. It's such fun once you are one of the in crowd with the girls. Friend of mine born in Thailand. Dad part owns bk post. He sat in the bars at night and wrote letters for girls to their sponsor s. Great guy
I really enjoy and appreciate the way you deliver your content: critical topics that we all want to hear about, often being delicate subjects to cover, and you’re straight to the point. Your channel is a Gem!
For 40 years now, I travel to Pattaya, and every year I stay there from three to six months, I speak the Thai language, and I agree with you with all your words.I consider it stupid for a visitor to trust a Thai girl, and I feel sorry for some of the idiots who buy houses and apartments with Thai names and for the knowledge that any Thai girl has a Thai friend who is waiting for her for the money she takes from tourists, etc.
Greeny Travel just did a video regarding the subject of Real Estate. He changed his name though what is channel. One of the things he included was how to get real estate in your own name instead of a girlfriend or Thai.
As a former resident of Pattaya I miss the bar girl stories I used to share with my fellow expats. These of course detail the often times outrageous lies that we were told in order to secure money or explain a period of no contact. "Water buffalo break leg fall in well whole village die unless you send 300,000 baht KAH!". If you can share some more of those stories I would love to hear them.
What a depressing video. I agree with everything you said of course but still very depressing. I just got back from 4 months and Phuket and I experienced many of the things that you're saying. I got my heart broken twice. I thought I was well prepared before I went by watching many RUclips videos. I also thought I was smart enough to be able to detect bullshit. But I got fooled twice. They really do know how to work us. The fake tears. The making you feel that you're special. It's really almost downright evil.
I Had a Bar in Pattaya from 2001 to 2012 with at least 15 Girls and its very true what you have said in this Video at 10 o/clock each Morning i gave them English Lesions they always hated it and used to yawn after about 10 minuets and used to help them with there email translations from boyfriends ..After i sold the Bar long after in around 2015 i was in Bangkok at a Shopping Mall and saw 2 of the Girls who used to Work for me they asked me if i wanted to go to their Bar for a Drink. I Went and they refused my offers of getting them Drinks, they paid for all 4 and said that's for helping them with their English and being a Good Boss.. So hopefully i did something right
I am a new subscriber, and have seen a few of your videos so far. I must say that you have the best content of all the youtubers who speak about Thailand/Pattaya. Most of the other streamers/youtubers give generic information. But not you. So, thank you.
Great stories Daz! I'd like to keep hearing more of them and tips for newcomers. It's crazy how money is the all and be all in life for bar girls. Even over what could be true love. But I guess it's not so surprising if you think about it.
Met a girl my first night in BKK, she wasn’t a bar girl she worked in an electronic golf amusement type thing in BKK. Was texting her whilst I was travelling around Thailand and met up everytime I went to back to BKK. One day she told me ‘today I went to the pharmacy for my mother, as I was walking down the street with my cash in hand I was mugged so now my mother can’t have her medication’ at the time I didn’t think anything of it, I said that’s awful I hope you’re ok. Didn’t send any money but now I think back I’m sure she was trying it on 😂
Shame about the Subs that ain’t been to Patts….. fingers x it will be back to its old Glory. But the good ole days were out of this world. After 1 trip I was Hypnotised…. Hooked. Great channel Mate 👍🏿
Why on earth are dudes so obsessed with Thai bar girls? There are loads of decent respectable single Thai woman that are far more desirable and just as approachable as the loose bar girl.
I agree. I have been many times and have met some good ones. One middle aged lady that is still quite a bit younger than me was subleasing several guest houses as her business venture. Another lady was the shift manager at the McDonalds up next to mini siam. My favorite worked in the Eastiny Place tourist office on Soi 8. So there are plenty of non bar girls to meet up with in Pattaya. One lady used to have her own little internet cafe in the old Tops at the corner of second road and Pattaya Klang. I almost bought the business! Wow that would have bombed pretty quickly
@J C yes I agree. But bar girls not very educated and come from poor backgrounds. Such people tend to be ... Well you know what I mean. Tough at best. You know when I arrived in Thailand in the early 70 it was fun but very very poor. Even BBk
Yeah I am married with children , live in pattaya and this is pretty accurate to what goes on , I have seen and heard it all over the years , some of the things are standard games others are quite elaborate and planned to relieve guys of money and assets , not all though by nature the thais are happy loving family orientated , and the family culture can also be overwhelming to new guys , you date a girl and suddenly your financing the whole family , beware and be smart , I travel around the world with work and to be honest everywhere you go it’s the same , most women who aren’t from wealthy backgrounds or career focused are looking for a sponsor , they may dress it up better or hide it better , but no different , you can sure as hell lose everything in western countries just as easily and in western countries pay child support or alimony for the next 20 years , along with losing all your assets , my advice to newbies , have fun be polite don’t talk about your assets or finances at all , don’t pretend to be rich , don’t pretend to be anything but humble standard guy having a holiday ,don’t spend big anywhere don’t flash your wallet around , the less obvious that you have money ,should keep off the minions , remember they automatically think your rich because your from somewhere else . If you really want companionship or relationship look anywhere else but at bars girls or girls working in entertainment areas , clearly the further away from these areas you go the less English they will speak . And that’s a dead giveaway if she can speak English well she’s usually been there for ages working around foreigners .
My first trip was my favourite of all my trips. I was so naive, made every mistake in the book, my senses where in overload. The problem comes after so many trips you can become a bit jaded. Hopefully this break from Pattaya will rekindle my love for the place.
So true 1st time in the Phillipines made all the mistakes had the best time ever might have spent more but it was worth it ! Not knowing what to expect once you know too much it's not so good you will take less risks, the 1st time was wild and crazy !
Been going to Thailand since 77. Love the people , culture, and food. Bar girls....LBFM and nothing more. Keep it that way and you will never wake up with regrets.
Thank you so much! You are so spot on about these Women. I agree so many guys come to Thailand and have no clue. I REALLY appreciate you taking your time to inform young men on what to expect! Your a true EX PAT. Thank you.
I've never been to Thailand and these stories are interesting. I've watches livestreams from the bars a few months ago. Some of the girls look like Professionals and some look so sweet and innocent. I can understand how many guys are fooled by these girls. We always want to believe people won't lie to us or cheat us. When it comes to a beautiful girl, we are so gullible.
you have much more information than other thai-based channels. using the same story to all their sponsors is a gem. also, good info on the reputation of Korean guys in Thailand
Hate to tell you mate but 20 days is what I’d call green as a cabbage. I’ve had 43 years and I see the so called no it all’s everyday. Never think you know it all. I’m still amazed at some shit I see
I personally think your channel is one of the best about Pattaya, no bs and tells it like it is. And I have been to Pattaya hundreds of times. Keep it coming Mike from Melbourne Australia
Trust a bar girl???? Do you trust a used car salesman? I never go past 2 days with a bg.. Do not look for love in bar girls.It it just a business transaction where both parties get what they want. Do be a simp. Don't be taken for a ride.It is just a hobby. Be careful
You are spot on ! I’ve been going there 30 years now and discovered most of this stuff the hard way and these days it’s a short time only because I don’t want them at breakfast. Don’t fall in love guys, it’s much more interesting having a different one every day. Love them as I do I readily admit that they are ‘snakes with tits’.
One of your BEST. Make MORE!🙂👍👍 Also, please make a video on how to stay safe in Pattaya, what neighborhoods to avoid, people, and whatever you think we should know. There are enough videos about scams. I'm coming there after this jab crap is over.😎
I lived in Thailand for over 20 years, here is a bit of an education on the Thai bar Girl: The answer to the question here is NOT AT ALL (speaking from experience, and the fate of others that have tried to tame the Thai bar girl) There is an old saying: "you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl" This is 100% FACT! Once they end up in a bar, and they do NOT end up in foreign bars first they end up in Thai bars first, as the majority don't speak any English ( I know this as I have been in those bars as well, foreigners are NOT usually allowed in Thai go-go bars, but I had a lot of friends, and was able to go, because of that and because I spoke Thai as well) Once they end up in Nana plaza, soi cowboy, Patpong or Pattaya bars and agogos, things then will be taught to them by the other more seasoned girls or the mamasan. Once they make their first couple of bar fines and make more than they have likely ever seen in one month in 1 night, they are hooked. Not to mention that Thais in general DON'T like foreigners, and only see them as walking ATMs, that is why there are 3 prices in Thailand the low Thai price the high Thai price and the very very high foreign price..which tourists and unseasoned foreigners will pay for services! 95% of all Thai girls have at least 1-2 foreigners on the hook (and they believe that they are the only guy and that the girl is their GF, nothing could be further from the truth.) I know Thai bar girls that have upwards of 20 guys (or more) who think that they are the only ones, and some of these girls make 20K-100K+ a month from all the guys that send them money while back in their own countries, you would think with that kind of cash, they would quit working at a bar, quite the contrary they continue, so they can meet more fish to catch and hook for more money) (don't believe me, go to any internet shop, and the shops have different colored cards based on the number of translated e-mails they will send out) she will even juggle them on their visits so that they never know or see her with another fish she has hooked! NEVER ever fall in love with a bar girl, you will end up just regretting that decision...Many are married to a Thai or have a Thai boyfriend and that will not end well for you if that is the case. My MOTTO: I pass on to anyone going to Thailand for erotic entertainment: CATCH & RELEASE! Traditional Thai's (if you can meet one) are the better choice...look into that, but I assure you you will not have sex the same night you meet them and on point, they will come to meet you with 2 or more friends, they will not come alone (this I know as well, as I have dated a traditional Thai, who was the niece of one of the biggest singers in Thailand) If you chose to ignore this comment, I will wish you luck, knowing that you won't have any if you try and change a bargirl...so take my advice as I said CATCH & RELEASE! In closing remember that in Thailand: LOVE is spelled MONEY!
I have only been visiting to Thailand for a decade......... I lived there, for 3 years.......... I agree. 100 % I am a bit smarter than most, but, Not You ! Thanks for posting Kind Sir. !!!!!!
An old game, friends and co-workers in country VN era described poor saps spending big on marriage prep would find out later bride to be already married.
James Stanley. Best comment I ever did see. I love the bars and the girls.and I have seen marriages go well from the bar. But it's is rare. And you got to speak thai. And have a very open mind.which is hard for most guys
I appreciate the information for ‘newbies’ as I am one. I’m planning my first trip to Thailand/Vietnam this winter and using your channel-and others-for research and information, so the detail is appreciated. Can I ask-what’s your favourite island?
If you just accept that they are after your money then you are under no illusions about these girls being in love with you. Then you can't go far wrong.
Many thanks again Darren for an interesting video. From my experience:- 22 years three children, 2 different mothers. Never married. Both from the bar. Two very very different relationships. First an unmitigated fuckin disaster 555, broke up after 3-4 years. Thankfully kept my daughter who is now in University. Second and current Gf fantastic couldn't complain, 12 years together 2 kids great partner. Wonderful mother. Trusted friend.
You are really on the mark with everything you say. I have heard most of it personally. Another thing they love to tell you is how sick their mum,dad, grandma, grandpa, even the village cow is, and all they need is money to fix the issue.
I have never been in a relationship with a bar girl. However, I have had monogamous relationships with what you might label as sponsorship seeking Freelancers whose Sponsors had no idea I was banging their online Cuties. There are plenty others out there just like me. You are a Mark!!! You provide her with funds to treat guys like me very well.
Another great story Daz the way you narrate is superb ( sorry for being repetitive) I used to walk from Jomtien Aqua condos (soi that runs adjacent to Jomtien night market) into Sands Cafe and back on a regular basis 4 times a week, just a lovely stroll. Seeing the video bought back wonderful memories. Sorry for sidetracking but I'm 48 get my military pension at 55 and hopefully I'll be out there permanent😊 P.S. Pattaya Park and Dongtan looks odd empty without all the Russians clogging up the beach !!!
Thus is how far I trust I Thai bar girl….. when I get back to the room I put everything in the safe and lock it!!! Girls in bars are there for only one reason, and it’s not love
A few years ago i spent 3 weeks in Buriram with one of my regular girls,she had stopped working the bars as she had a sponsor {FOOL}. He had built her a house,bought a motto etc, and i was shagging his girl while he was slaving away in England to earn enough to support her. NEVER EVER SPONSOR A HOOKER
You can never get enough good advise and expertise, I have been to Pattaya a few times but I will always take all the info I can get. It will keep you out of trouble. Thanks
i have 2 kids with a bar girl. I pay her a monthly allowance and pay the kids school fees but keep it strictly to that. they act as badly as you allow them too. (P.S. my girl is different) Yes i got a DNA test.
i had a few time a girl friend which i picked up at a bar in Pattaya. We spent my hole vacation means about 4 weeks together Never regret it , it was always easy going . Be nice to them and they will be nice to you. Pay them fairly go eating and shopping as you would do it with your wife or girlfriend .
Thank you for all the info, makes sense, I was in Thailand a long time ago and plan on going back someday so I'll keep this in mind, I also like the video and your narration.
There are far better women here in Thailand not all of the girls are Issan Girls who come to walking st to work. You just have to choose the better locations and you’ll meet the good ones
In Thailand I met the most greedy people in my life. The level of how they are able to scam someone is improbable. It really gave me shivers. Sombody have to make a movie about this , really it will be a great succes.
I am a regular traveler to Thailand and it’s always great to have refresher training - the new word I learn from you today is ready for “Plucking”! So funny and helpful, thank you for your stories!
Another great vlog Daz, should be played on the plane over for the newbies. I think we westerners are not mentally geared up to believe that these cute girls can be so devious far as acting goes would make Meryl Streep look like an amateur! to them it like 'shooting fish in a barrel' just be prepared and watch out and be aware when you are being 'reeled in' These girls are good at what they do, their lovely, their aim is to make you fall in love with them and become a finacial sponsor. You can enjoy yourself, just be aware.
Well I'm new subscriber all thought iam not a newbie lol. But yes I gather more Intel and with you're previous how to pick up girls on the street I did not know it takes two thai words. And with you're previous video that it's bad to say how much!. I've bin to Pattaya for several times about 10 times one month. And as well as learn thai language I also gather new things buy looking these informative videos you make. But it's very nice that you and more content creators about pattaya or thailand. Especially expats as they will eventually learn a lot more useful things. To the fact to have trust for thai bar girl, or as they say working girl. I say now. I knew plenty enough before I first go to Thailand pattaya. And sure first time I got overwhelmed. And even I knew it. They are so streetwise and cunning to make you fall in love with them. But as every next trip you get street smart and harder to. It's probably bad to tell this to. But I started playing them to. That it's my seccond trip to Thailand and so on. Here is a streetsmart thing that they use on you. Just by questions. We're u from We're you stay How long you stay We're is you're hotel. With these questions they know if you have money to spend and let's say you tell them I arrived yesterday. Than they know by how long u stay they have time to stay and urn money of you. If u tell them I stay in a low budget hotel. Or a 5 star hotel. They get a pretty idea how much u could be worth. If you go pattaya for first time it's these thing and there charmingness that can completely take u over. And yes one can get so in love with a working girl. And when u go home this girl is not like those other working girls but she probably is. And let's be real there lots of fallangs take them home and as long as you pay for her and family she will stay with you. I myself don't prefer this. Al do it's very hard if you stay with a working girl or aka holiday girlfriend. U even she can get feelings for each other. And this happen to me few times. Because nomather she is a working girls and yes you have stone cold girls with no emotions and for sure guys who bin there so much to detach feelings. But for my first times i go to pattaya depending how you are of course can get in love. So guys these kind of videos must be brain food of knowledge at hand. But unless you can and have enough money. I urge you to not send money every month knowing she has more guys. I even one time go to body2body massage and this girl I picked she like me little more than her playing to like you. She told me she want to meer after her work. I say Okey. But wen she invite me to her room the next day she told me that every night her boyfriend calls her. So I had to wait downstairs and drink coffee and she go to her room. She told me this. So this Arab guy sends her money and she still more les working. She even payed food and taxi for me. So guys please take this as example. Please don't think you're girl is speaking the truth and that she is faithfull. Because they can be stone cold as well. And no these girls don't need a fallang to safe them. And many bar girls love there jobs. How ever not all working girls cant be judged as 100% bad in that way. You have to know there culture as well. They also get forced to do it. Even by there own thai friend or husband. But also at free will. And there also thai girls who get banned from there family and so work onley for them self. But overal Thailand is a country that is not as socially supported as you're own. There family is everything. They fall back on eachother. So be truthfully to you're self and except that it's there work. And they have to find every way to gather you're money. And yes they to can get feelings but I meet girls as wel that are emotionally never allow that to happen. I've also meet working girls that when they like u. They say don't fall in love with me. One of them even show me there savings on account who that way more that I ever had on my own bank accounts. So please don't think they are as poor as you might think. But even with lots of money it's never enough if u are prompted to take care of family or there own children. Or there husband who can't stop drinking. If u come to Pattaya,. Just have a great time. The 3 day rule thing is up to you. But I rather put that in one day rule than take another or just stick with one and have a GFE and a free Guide and good company. But don't fall in love. Haha its so hard not to. But don't
Have you been reading my diary..I fell for 90% of what you described..but..and there’s a big but...I sort of knew the whole time and chose to ignore it...I still found the fantasy they project is worth the exspense..(well in my case anyway )..my advice...gamble only what your happy to lose and enjoy..
What is the short music intro to your videos? I LOVE it. Normally I hate intros and FF through them. I go back and REPLAY your intros because it sounds and looks so great! Well done, sir. Hats off. I just bought you a coffee!
Agree with everything you say, I just stick the the 2 drink rule at every bar and move on to the next one if i'm not feeling the vibe and don't be shy in tipping now and then as You will get a better experience at the bar, especially to the mamasan or owner
Easily said in hindsight or if you have seen it happen to a friend. These guys are in love and logic goes out the window. Once they go down the rabbit hole , they have had it. As long as they learn from the mistake first and never trust one again. These girls are such good liars , but at the end of the day it comes down to money am sorry to say.
Great video narration. Really great job. I learn more from you (and Mr. Buzzin P) than most any other tubers. Condo tours are just wonderful and so informative. Never been, but planning a three month stay in Central Pattaya, once things are ready (I feel you have to stay in the Central P area for the first trip), then a couple years stay after that. Will visit Pratumnak and Jomtien during the first visit, but was wanting your opinion if one is better off staying in Pratumnak or Jomtien, if staying for a couple years? Just need good internet, easy access food, public transportation line into the central city.
Talking about newbies or anyone naive, even after stories like this heard over and over again, there are still guys that fall for these girls and disbelieve they're going with a scammer. The old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.
Interesting and informative video as always 👍 many examples that you mentioned, are things that I have heard before from girls or mamasans, word for word 😊 I have many stories from the time when I was a newbie in Pattaya, if we'll have a drink sometimes, I'll be happy to share. Cheers
All very true. Keep making these videos. I'm even picking up pointers, despite 12 years of experience (corona has kept me away for 2 years, so I'm getting rusty)
For New-bees to Thailand , always remember , bar girls are WORKING GIRLS , like any workers they are looking for as much business as possible. The good thing in this day and age is that she has got a camera ( smartphone ) on her all the time , if she is not picking up on it dump her quickly .
My motto is simple: You can't make a h*e a housewife. I have never been to Pattaya, but I have been to similar environments in both Bangkok and Patong. These girls can be extremely predatory. They will love-bomb you, see your kindness as a weakness, promise you the world, make you fall in love with her, lock you down and discard you the moment you are no longer useful to her. Only go short time, bring her to love hotel, don't share personal contact info and keep the mindset that you are business to her. 95+% of the time farang = walking atm.
Some people are just lonely man. I know its easy to make fun of them but these are generally people who never had luck with the opposite sex so a woman who shows interest, genuine or not is welcomed.
Well done for stating the obvious. You've only missed one thing.. and the most important thing. People will treat you the way you treat them. If you consider these bar girls as "working girls' and think nothing of it when you put a price on them, they will of course, put a price on themselves. It's true most of them can't be trusted nor believed. Same goes for their customers.
My favourite one was one girl who sent me a text about how much she "Loved me" and couldn't wait until i returned. Then asked if I would bring my son next time. I don't have kids 😁
Great video very helpful as I'm a newbie to Thailand I've booked for January for 6weeks so any input is appreciated as I don't have a clue from what documents I need what visas I need so thankyou
You’ve got to realize that most of these guys have been losers in the romance department their whole lives. They are desperate to believe this stuff. Perhaps an illusion is better than nothing at all.
Judging by the state of the blokes that walked passed in the filming of this video you are 100% correct; Fat,old,bald and sleazy and probably never had a girlfriend back in their own country.
Best advice I’ve ever been given as a young man was “never fall in love with your hooker”. I wish I had listen because I have fallen for all the bargirl scams. You’ve heard of the three day rule? Keep it to 3 hours. One in the bar, one eating some food, and one in the bedroom. If you don’t live in Thailand with your Thai girlfriend then you’re just a sponsor and she’s still hustling for money... all day, all night.
You can trust them as far as any other woman…I laugh at the insinuation that “western” woman are trustworthy and very different from a bar girl.😂
Right. I just gave money to a women to give money to a friend in jail. The women kept it. Anything lower? Probably.
The difference is that in the west the law helps them take half of everything you make so they feel entitled to it without needing to resort to subterfuge.
Love many, Trust few. One night dates are much more affordable in heart and wallet in the north, south, east and west.
Right on mark
About as much as bar girl can trust you.
Good advice... I met a bar girl 8 years ago and have been together ever since so there are exceptions to the rule.. But she was in her mid 30s and had gone to Pattaya to meet a foreigner for a permanent partner. I also spoke enough Thai to understand what they were mostly saying in the bar. This was gold for me and I initially did not let on I could understand the majority of their conversations. Because she was older I think it's an advantage she was happy to not to play the game that a lot of girls do. She is a great person moved back to Australia with me went back to school and now is working as an EN in a nursing home. If you are able to find a good Thai woman they make a great partner. As they say once you've had asian you'll never go caucasion😁
Once you've had Asian...... Haha, I've never heard that one before, glad you had a happy ending, good luck for the future and thanks for the chuckle 👍
@@lance9431 Mate, plenty of Aussie women play around behind their partners back. I had plenty of married women throw them self at me when I was in my 30's. Why be so negative.
@@adamhend3211 no need to ask
@@lance9431 Yes Mate, I certainly wouldn't.
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Good advice,,,,,but thai girls compared to western girls are still less expensive, more honest, thinner and better looking.
More honest,come on mate!
wait till there is a dispute over 100 baht...see how nice she is then
Agree.
If the relationship gets longer, after he introduces you to the family it is no longer cheap. Every family member wants a gift from the foreigner, and one gift every time you go to Thailand. The least mom wants is a washing machine, and so on.
And their better in the sack race.
There's a girl I still speak to, she now lives in Finland. When I stayed in Pattaya she would always come and stay with me. I started to really get peed off when every time her phone rang she would dash off into the bathroom or into the hotel corridor. So I said to her, don't treat me like a fool I know you have other boyfriends. It's ok I know this is the way you get your money. She seemed quite relieved that I knew what all the phone calls were about. She told me about her other boyfriends and stopped dashing off every time her phone rang. Did I really think she was going to wait patiently for me to visit once a year?.
Every girl I met in the bars had only been in there for 2 months.
How lucky was I to find so many new starters ? 😂🤣😂
haha. Yes. My first visit was in 2004. I have been 15 times, often staying for two months each trip. All the girls were "new".
@@kokikoki12345 Most are hookers back in the village before they even come to the big smoke
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@@gkprivate433 what happens to the old ones?
Yeah, and don't forget she was only the cashier......
Oh that was good Daz ! My first bar fine experience in Pattaya just before covid started I had that line used on me " You have a good heart " But I never liked the girl and didn't pursue her .She pursued me a little online but I told her I didn't want to talk anymore and that was the end of that . If there is one thing I learned on my first trip to Thailand is if you see a girl you like, think quick and take action on her and don't hesitate because you wont get a second chance . Also don't get emotionally involved and let her go when its time . There are many different women and experiences to be had in Thailand it's a wonderful place .
All true
I find that once you actually befriend one or 2, the whole scenario changes. They know that you are not gonna fall for the tricks, so if they actually like you, you can become friends with benefits, and you get to see a lot more of their world. I have been in the room and seen a few of those calls to "sponsors". It is amazing how fast they can turn on the water works.
Michael Trott. It's such fun once you are one of the in crowd with the girls.
Friend of mine born in Thailand. Dad part owns bk post.
He sat in the bars at night and wrote letters for girls to their sponsor s. Great guy
I really enjoy and appreciate the way you deliver your content: critical topics that we all want to hear about, often being delicate subjects to cover, and you’re straight to the point. Your channel is a Gem!
Thank you very much
For 40 years now, I travel to Pattaya, and every year I stay there from three to six months, I speak the Thai language, and I agree with you with all your words.I consider it stupid for a visitor to trust a Thai girl, and I feel sorry for some of the idiots who buy houses and apartments with Thai names and for the knowledge that any Thai girl has a Thai friend who is waiting for her for the money she takes from tourists, etc.
Could you share how you learn to speak Thai? THX buddy.🙂👍
Greeny Travel just did a video regarding the subject of Real Estate. He changed his name though what is channel.
One of the things he included was how to get real estate in your own name instead of a girlfriend or Thai.
I agree what you wrote , thanks alot to let me know about this thai girls
maybe you need to change your photo then???
@@goodo5691 this is my son photo
As a former resident of Pattaya I miss the bar girl stories I used to share with my fellow expats. These of course detail the often times outrageous lies that we were told in order to secure money or explain a period of no contact. "Water buffalo break leg fall in well whole village die unless you send 300,000 baht KAH!". If you can share some more of those stories I would love to hear them.
What a depressing video. I agree with everything you said of course but still very depressing. I just got back from 4 months and Phuket and I experienced many of the things that you're saying. I got my heart broken twice. I thought I was well prepared before I went by watching many RUclips videos. I also thought I was smart enough to be able to detect bullshit. But I got fooled twice.
They really do know how to work us. The fake tears. The making you feel that you're special. It's really almost downright evil.
Yeah, imagine what chance a young inexperienced 22 yr old guy has, and that is who are on their way by the plane load very soon.
I am a brother from US and all frangs are small especially from Europe countrys
It's Survival for them😊
I Had a Bar in Pattaya from 2001 to 2012 with at least 15 Girls and its very true what you have said in this Video at 10 o/clock each Morning i gave them English Lesions they always hated it and used to yawn after about 10 minuets and used to help them with there email translations from boyfriends ..After i sold the Bar long after in around 2015 i was in Bangkok at a Shopping Mall and saw 2 of the Girls who used to Work for me they asked me if i wanted to go to their Bar for a Drink. I Went and they refused my offers of getting them Drinks, they paid for all 4 and said that's for helping them with their English and being a Good Boss.. So hopefully i did something right
My tip is to pay her upon completion of the employment and send her on her way. I have never had a relationship with a BG and never will.
I don’t pay them to stay I pay them to leave 555
The golden rule is.... " You don't pay for the deed, you pay them to leave ".......Or something on those lines......
that is the right way to do it cheaper as well
I am a new subscriber, and have seen a few of your videos so far. I must say that you have the best content of all the youtubers who speak about Thailand/Pattaya. Most of the other streamers/youtubers give generic information. But not you. So, thank you.
I have a friend of mine says this about bar girls: believe the opposite of what they tell you and you would be closer to the truth.
I've never been to Thailand but I sure would like to one day. All of your video's have given me a lot of helpful information. Thank you.
Well narrated and very accurate!
All his videos are
Great stories Daz! I'd like to keep hearing more of them and tips for newcomers. It's crazy how money is the all and be all in life for bar girls. Even over what could be true love. But I guess it's not so surprising if you think about it.
Met a girl my first night in BKK, she wasn’t a bar girl she worked in an electronic golf amusement type thing in BKK. Was texting her whilst I was travelling around Thailand and met up everytime I went to back to BKK. One day she told me ‘today I went to the pharmacy for my mother, as I was walking down the street with my cash in hand I was mugged so now my mother can’t have her medication’ at the time I didn’t think anything of it, I said that’s awful I hope you’re ok. Didn’t send any money but now I think back I’m sure she was trying it on 😂
For sure
In 3rd world countries there is always dramas 😂 !
Most women from other areas will say: "Lady Pattaya no good."
Ha ha yeah and they Thai man no good I like foreigners and there husband is there brother.
Shame about the Subs that ain’t been to Patts….. fingers x it will be back to its old Glory. But the good ole days were out of this world. After 1 trip I was Hypnotised…. Hooked.
Great channel Mate 👍🏿
Why on earth are dudes so obsessed with Thai bar girls? There are loads of decent respectable single Thai woman that are far more desirable and just as approachable as the loose bar girl.
I agree. I have been many times and have met some good ones. One middle aged lady that is still quite a bit younger than me was subleasing several guest houses as her business venture. Another lady was the shift manager at the McDonalds up next to mini siam. My favorite worked in the Eastiny Place tourist office on Soi 8. So there are plenty of non bar girls to meet up with in Pattaya. One lady used to have her own little internet cafe in the old Tops at the corner of second road and Pattaya Klang. I almost bought the business! Wow that would have bombed pretty quickly
The Thais don't really do more than tolerate foreigners these days. My Thai friends tell me
@J C yes I agree. But bar girls not very educated and come from poor backgrounds. Such people tend to be ... Well you know what I mean. Tough at best.
You know when I arrived in Thailand in the early 70 it was fun but very very poor. Even BBk
Because you're not paying them for the sex...you're paying for them to leave.
Because they speak good english. The respectable ones does not(mostly)
Yeah I am married with children , live in pattaya and this is pretty accurate to what goes on , I have seen and heard it all over the years , some of the things are standard games others are quite elaborate and planned to relieve guys of money and assets , not all though by nature the thais are happy loving family orientated , and the family culture can also be overwhelming to new guys , you date a girl and suddenly your financing the whole family , beware and be smart , I travel around the world with work and to be honest everywhere you go it’s the same , most women who aren’t from wealthy backgrounds or career focused are looking for a sponsor , they may dress it up better or hide it better , but no different , you can sure as hell lose everything in western countries just as easily and in western countries pay child support or alimony for the next 20 years , along with losing all your assets , my advice to newbies , have fun be polite don’t talk about your assets or finances at all , don’t pretend to be rich , don’t pretend to be anything but humble standard guy having a holiday ,don’t spend big anywhere don’t flash your wallet around , the less obvious that you have money ,should keep off the minions , remember they automatically think your rich because your from somewhere else . If you really want companionship or relationship look anywhere else but at bars girls or girls working in entertainment areas , clearly the further away from these areas you go the less English they will speak . And that’s a dead giveaway if she can speak English well she’s usually been there for ages working around foreigners .
My first trip was my favourite of all my trips. I was so naive, made every mistake in the book, my senses where in overload. The problem comes after so many trips you can become a bit jaded. Hopefully this break from Pattaya will rekindle my love for the place.
There is nothing like the first time to Thailand you will never get that first time feeling again like a drug.
So true 1st time in the Phillipines made all the mistakes had the best time ever might have spent more but it was worth it ! Not knowing what to expect once you know too much it's not so good you will take less risks, the 1st time was wild and crazy !
You'll never forget your first time!!!!!
Same here my naive, good heart got taken but I chock it up to holiday fun and if I could not afford to lose the money I would not play their game.
Im a Pattaya veteran 25 years but I still learn from your videos. Best Pattaya channel, bar none.
Excellent. If only a number of my friends had listened to my advice things may have worked out better for them. Thank you. 👌
Been going to Thailand since 77. Love the people , culture, and food. Bar girls....LBFM and nothing more. Keep it that way and you will never wake up with regrets.
Thank you so much! You are so spot on about these Women. I agree so many guys come to Thailand and have no clue. I REALLY appreciate you taking your time to inform young men on what to expect! Your a true EX PAT. Thank you.
I've never been to Thailand and these stories are interesting. I've watches livestreams from the bars a few months ago. Some of the girls look like Professionals and some look so sweet and innocent. I can understand how many guys are fooled by these girls. We always want to believe people won't lie to us or cheat us. When it comes to a beautiful girl, we are so gullible.
Baby faced assassins is the best analogy I've heard 🤣
yes that's human nature. dont think of it more than a business transaction, they can pull your strings like you've never known
you have much more information than other thai-based channels. using the same story to all their sponsors is a gem. also, good info on the reputation of Korean guys in Thailand
I have been to patraya in 2019 for 20 days I know a lot but not everything.
Not a first timer but these videos really help !
Hate to tell you mate but 20 days is what I’d call green as a cabbage. I’ve had 43 years and I see the so called no it all’s everyday. Never think you know it all. I’m still amazed at some shit I see
@@shawnredden1903 Yes I agree We are always learning.
I personally think your channel is one of the best about Pattaya, no bs and tells it like it is. And I have been to Pattaya hundreds of times.
Keep it coming
Mike from Melbourne Australia
So nice of you
Trust a bar girl???? Do you trust a used car salesman? I never go past 2 days with a bg.. Do not look for love in bar girls.It it just a business transaction where both parties get what they want. Do be a simp. Don't be taken for a ride.It is just a hobby. Be careful
Daz, you are quite the gifted storyteller. Thank you for sharing the experience.
Glad you enjoyed it
You are spot on ! I’ve been going there 30 years now and discovered most of this stuff the hard way and these days it’s a short time only because I don’t want them at breakfast.
Don’t fall in love guys, it’s much more interesting having a different one every day. Love them as I do I readily admit that they are ‘snakes with tits’.
i agree......they all start crying on day three saying..."my dad is sick"..or the family buffalo is sick :):)
DAMN, " snakes with tits" 🤔🤔🤔😂🤣😂😁
preach brotha PREACH!
One of your BEST. Make MORE!🙂👍👍
Also, please make a video on how to stay safe in Pattaya, what neighborhoods to avoid, people, and whatever you think we should know. There are enough videos about scams.
I'm coming there after this jab crap is over.😎
Noted!
I lived in Thailand for over 20 years, here is a bit of an education on the Thai bar Girl: The answer to the question here is NOT AT ALL (speaking from experience, and the fate of others that have tried to tame the Thai bar girl) There is an old saying: "you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl" This is 100% FACT! Once they end up in a bar, and they do NOT end up in foreign bars first they end up in Thai bars first, as the majority don't speak any English ( I know this as I have been in those bars as well, foreigners are NOT usually allowed in Thai go-go bars, but I had a lot of friends, and was able to go, because of that and because I spoke Thai as well) Once they end up in Nana plaza, soi cowboy, Patpong or Pattaya bars and agogos, things then will be taught to them by the other more seasoned girls or the mamasan. Once they make their first couple of bar fines and make more than they have likely ever seen in one month in 1 night, they are hooked. Not to mention that Thais in general DON'T like foreigners, and only see them as walking ATMs, that is why there are 3 prices in Thailand the low Thai price the high Thai price and the very very high foreign price..which tourists and unseasoned foreigners will pay for services! 95% of all Thai girls have at least 1-2 foreigners on the hook (and they believe that they are the only guy and that the girl is their GF, nothing could be further from the truth.) I know Thai bar girls that have upwards of 20 guys (or more) who think that they are the only ones, and some of these girls make 20K-100K+ a month from all the guys that send them money while back in their own countries, you would think with that kind of cash, they would quit working at a bar, quite the contrary they continue, so they can meet more fish to catch and hook for more money) (don't believe me, go to any internet shop, and the shops have different colored cards based on the number of translated e-mails they will send out) she will even juggle them on their visits so that they never know or see her with another fish she has hooked! NEVER ever fall in love with a bar girl, you will end up just regretting that decision...Many are married to a Thai or have a Thai boyfriend and that will not end well for you if that is the case. My MOTTO: I pass on to anyone going to Thailand for erotic entertainment: CATCH & RELEASE! Traditional Thai's (if you can meet one) are the better choice...look into that, but I assure you you will not have sex the same night you meet them and on point, they will come to meet you with 2 or more friends, they will not come alone (this I know as well, as I have dated a traditional Thai, who was the niece of one of the biggest singers in Thailand) If you chose to ignore this comment, I will wish you luck, knowing that you won't have any if you try and change a bargirl...so take my advice as I said CATCH & RELEASE! In closing remember that in Thailand: LOVE is spelled MONEY!
I have only been visiting to Thailand for a decade.........
I lived there, for 3 years.......... I agree. 100 %
I am a bit smarter than most, but, Not You !
Thanks for posting Kind Sir. !!!!!!
Priceless info for any wannabe stud or newbie,if at least one mug heeds your wise words it will have been worth it,Well expressed sir.
An old game, friends and co-workers in country VN era described poor saps spending big on marriage prep would find out later bride to be already married.
James Stanley.
Best comment I ever did see.
I love the bars and the girls.and I have seen marriages go well from the bar. But it's is rare. And you got to speak
thai. And have a very open mind.which is hard for most guys
You can't turn a hooker into a housewife
I appreciate the information for ‘newbies’ as I am one. I’m planning my first trip to Thailand/Vietnam this winter and using your channel-and others-for research and information, so the detail is appreciated. Can I ask-what’s your favourite island?
Koh Chang is a foreigner favorite.
If you just accept that they are after your money then you are under no illusions about these girls being in love with you. Then you can't go far wrong.
Made my first of many visits 20 years ago...seen a lot of guys get hustled in this town...
Many thanks again Darren for an interesting video. From my experience:- 22 years three children, 2 different mothers. Never married. Both from the bar. Two very very different relationships. First an unmitigated fuckin disaster 555, broke up after 3-4 years. Thankfully kept my daughter who is now in University. Second and current Gf fantastic couldn't complain, 12 years together 2 kids great partner. Wonderful mother. Trusted friend.
Exactly true and does not need to be a bar girl. If any girl asked for money, move on .
You are really on the mark with everything you say. I have heard most of it personally.
Another thing they love to tell you is how sick their mum,dad, grandma, grandpa, even the village cow is, and all they need is money to fix the issue.
Cow got a flat tire.
Love your videos. I play them in the background as I’m driving. You give a lot of helpful info . I’m a truck driver USA
I have never been in a relationship with a bar girl. However, I have had monogamous relationships with what you might label as sponsorship seeking Freelancers whose Sponsors had no idea I was banging their online Cuties. There are plenty others out there just like me. You are a Mark!!! You provide her with funds to treat guys like me very well.
Another great story Daz the way you narrate is superb ( sorry for being repetitive) I used to walk from Jomtien Aqua condos (soi that runs adjacent to Jomtien night market) into Sands Cafe and back on a regular basis 4 times a week, just a lovely stroll. Seeing the video bought back wonderful memories. Sorry for sidetracking but I'm 48 get my military pension at 55 and hopefully I'll be out there permanent😊 P.S. Pattaya Park and Dongtan looks odd empty without all the Russians clogging up the beach !!!
Thus is how far I trust I Thai bar girl….. when I get back to the room I put everything in the safe and lock it!!! Girls in bars are there for only one reason, and it’s not love
Great video. I agree with it all and enjoyed the walk along the beach.
A few years ago i spent 3 weeks in Buriram with one of my regular girls,she had stopped working the bars as she had a sponsor {FOOL}. He had built her a house,bought a motto etc, and i was shagging his girl while he was slaving away in England to earn enough to support her. NEVER EVER SPONSOR A HOOKER
you bad man l would never go with another mans woman some one went with my ex thail girlfriend he knows lam looking for him
You can never get enough good advise and expertise, I have been to Pattaya a few times but I will always take all the info I can get. It will keep you out of trouble.
Thanks
i have 2 kids with a bar girl. I pay her a monthly allowance and pay the kids school fees but keep it strictly to that. they act as badly as you allow them too. (P.S. my girl is different) Yes i got a DNA test.
I just arrived in Pattaya for the first time last month. Very good information. Thanks
Always a fun bit of info and a few good chuckles
Good advice.and words are well phrased and said..It's really kind of you...tq
i had a few time a girl friend which i picked up at a bar in Pattaya. We spent my hole vacation means about 4 weeks together Never regret it , it was always easy going . Be nice to them and they will be nice to you. Pay them fairly go eating and shopping as you would do it with your wife or girlfriend .
this sounds great as long as you do not sponsor her at end of trip
Thank you for all the info, makes sense, I was in Thailand a long time ago and plan on going back someday so I'll
keep this in mind, I also like the video and your narration.
The long standing rule is : 3 days MAXXXXXXXXXX
Block and Ghost............
So in a nutshell, you can trust a Pattaya bar girl as far as you can throw up.
There are far better women here in Thailand not all of the girls are Issan Girls who come to walking st to work. You just have to choose the better locations and you’ll meet the good ones
In Thailand I met the most greedy people in my life. The level of how they are able to scam someone is improbable. It really gave me shivers. Sombody have to make a movie about this , really it will be a great succes.
I am a regular traveler to Thailand and it’s always great to have refresher training - the new word I learn from you today is ready for “Plucking”! So funny and helpful, thank you for your stories!
Another great vlog Daz, should be played on the plane over for the newbies.
I think we westerners are not mentally geared up to believe that these cute girls can be so devious far as acting goes would make Meryl Streep look like an amateur!
to them it like 'shooting fish in a barrel' just be prepared and watch out and be aware when you are being 'reeled in'
These girls are good at what they do, their lovely, their aim is to make you fall in love with them and become a finacial sponsor.
You can enjoy yourself, just be aware.
Well I'm new subscriber all thought iam not a newbie lol. But yes I gather more Intel and with you're previous how to pick up girls on the street I did not know it takes two thai words. And with you're previous video that it's bad to say how much!. I've bin to Pattaya for several times about 10 times one month. And as well as learn thai language I also gather new things buy looking these informative videos you make.
But it's very nice that you and more content creators about pattaya or thailand. Especially expats as they will eventually learn a lot more useful things.
To the fact to have trust for thai bar girl, or as they say working girl. I say now.
I knew plenty enough before I first go to Thailand pattaya. And sure first time I got overwhelmed. And even I knew it. They are so streetwise and cunning to make you fall in love with them. But as every next trip you get street smart and harder to. It's probably bad to tell this to. But I started playing them to. That it's my seccond trip to Thailand and so on.
Here is a streetsmart thing that they use on you. Just by questions.
We're u from
We're you stay
How long you stay
We're is you're hotel.
With these questions they know if you have money to spend and let's say you tell them I arrived yesterday. Than they know by how long u stay they have time to stay and urn money of you. If u tell them I stay in a low budget hotel. Or a 5 star hotel. They get a pretty idea how much u could be worth.
If you go pattaya for first time it's these thing and there charmingness that can completely take u over.
And yes one can get so in love with a working girl. And when u go home this girl is not like those other working girls but she probably is. And let's be real there lots of fallangs take them home and as long as you pay for her and family she will stay with you. I myself don't prefer this.
Al do it's very hard if you stay with a working girl or aka holiday girlfriend. U even she can get feelings for each other. And this happen to me few times. Because nomather she is a working girls and yes you have stone cold girls with no emotions and for sure guys who bin there so much to detach feelings. But for my first times i go to pattaya depending how you are of course can get in love.
So guys these kind of videos must be brain food of knowledge at hand. But unless you can and have enough money. I urge you to not send money every month knowing she has more guys.
I even one time go to body2body massage and this girl I picked she like me little more than her playing to like you. She told me she want to meer after her work. I say Okey. But wen she invite me to her room the next day she told me that every night her boyfriend calls her. So I had to wait downstairs and drink coffee and she go to her room. She told me this. So this Arab guy sends her money and she still more les working. She even payed food and taxi for me.
So guys please take this as example. Please don't think you're girl is speaking the truth and that she is faithfull. Because they can be stone cold as well. And no these girls don't need a fallang to safe them. And many bar girls love there jobs.
How ever not all working girls cant be judged as 100% bad in that way. You have to know there culture as well. They also get forced to do it. Even by there own thai friend or husband. But also at free will. And there also thai girls who get banned from there family and so work onley for them self. But overal Thailand is a country that is not as socially supported as you're own. There family is everything. They fall back on eachother.
So be truthfully to you're self and except that it's there work. And they have to find every way to gather you're money. And yes they to can get feelings but I meet girls as wel that are emotionally never allow that to happen.
I've also meet working girls that when they like u. They say don't fall in love with me. One of them even show me there savings on account who that way more that I ever had on my own bank accounts.
So please don't think they are as poor as you might think. But even with lots of money it's never enough if u are prompted to take care of family or there own children. Or there husband who can't stop drinking.
If u come to Pattaya,. Just have a great time. The 3 day rule thing is up to you. But I rather put that in one day rule than take another or just stick with one and have a GFE and a free Guide and good company. But don't fall in love. Haha its so hard not to. But don't
Thanks for sharing
These are my favourite videos by far. Ever entertaining
Awesome video, historical information with current present day video, good mix; you're a good story teller =)
Thank you so much 😀
Have you been reading my diary..I fell for 90% of what you described..but..and there’s a big but...I sort of knew the whole time and chose to ignore it...I still found the fantasy they project is worth the exspense..(well in my case anyway )..my advice...gamble only what your happy to lose and enjoy..
good stuff. valuable info. pls share more. great insights cannot find anywhere else!
Great content.
I notice other you tubers are robbing your facts and passing them off as their own.
Original is always best.
Keep up the good work.
I like this type of video, you give us advice and information that we need. This is excellent Information for all of us men.
Thanks for the great story’s and the walk along the beach
What is the short music intro to your videos? I LOVE it. Normally I hate intros and FF through them. I go back and REPLAY your intros because it sounds and looks so great!
Well done, sir. Hats off.
I just bought you a coffee!
Yes, thanks for the coffee, I don't think the music has a name, I just found it randomly.
Daz, incredibly useful information and warnings to always think with the big head!
Glad it was helpful!
Nice stories with practical lessons. The beach walk also is excellent.
Agree with everything you say, I just stick the the 2 drink rule at every bar and move on to the next one if i'm not feeling the vibe and don't be shy in tipping now and then as You will get a better experience at the bar, especially to the mamasan or owner
ha ha I could only drink 2
"A fool and his money are easily parted!"
Correct. But here, at least the fool's money is enjoyed down to the last penny.
@@pattycakes9115 Bang for your buck😛
@@pattycakes9115 A fool
can rent or can be robbed, fools choice
Easily said in hindsight or if you have seen it happen to a friend. These guys are in love and logic goes out the window. Once they go down the rabbit hole , they have had it. As long as they learn from the mistake first and never trust one again. These girls are such good liars , but at the end of the day it comes down to money am sorry to say.
Great video narration. Really great job. I learn more from you (and Mr. Buzzin P) than most any other tubers. Condo tours are just wonderful and so informative. Never been, but planning a three month stay in Central Pattaya, once things are ready (I feel you have to stay in the Central P area for the first trip), then a couple years stay after that. Will visit Pratumnak and Jomtien during the first visit, but was wanting your opinion if one is better off staying in Pratumnak or Jomtien, if staying for a couple years? Just need good internet, easy access food, public transportation line into the central city.
If you like going out every night stay central Pattaya
Yes, 1st time stay central, until you get the layout
Enjoying the stories. Thank you 🙏
And enjoying the visuals also.
Talking about newbies or anyone naive, even after stories like this heard over and over again, there are still guys that fall for these girls and disbelieve they're going with a scammer. The old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.
and the other saying, can't help stupid ;-)
I wish l heard this info YEARS AGO! You are spot on!!
I like your voice mate. Great story teller!
Interesting and informative video as always 👍 many examples that you mentioned, are things that I have heard before from girls or mamasans, word for word 😊
I have many stories from the time when I was a newbie in Pattaya, if we'll have a drink sometimes, I'll be happy to share.
Cheers
Look forward to it
Great video and information. You could write a book. I enjoy these types of videos
All very true. Keep making these videos. I'm even picking up pointers, despite 12 years of experience (corona has kept me away for 2 years, so I'm getting rusty)
Good stuff!
For New-bees to Thailand , always remember , bar girls are WORKING GIRLS , like any workers they are looking for as much business as possible. The good thing in this day and age is that she has got a camera ( smartphone ) on her all the time , if she is not picking up on it dump her quickly .
Brother these stories could one day turn into a sitcom.
Thai bar girls are angels. Big hearts. Fun. They love life. Trust me.
no hooker loves her life
My motto is simple: You can't make a h*e a housewife. I have never been to Pattaya, but I have been to similar environments in both Bangkok and Patong. These girls can be extremely predatory. They will love-bomb you, see your kindness as a weakness, promise you the world, make you fall in love with her, lock you down and discard you the moment you are no longer useful to her. Only go short time, bring her to love hotel, don't share personal contact info and keep the mindset that you are business to her. 95+% of the time farang = walking atm.
The 168 dislikes of your video must be from guys who believe that their bargirl is different and that they really ARE in love :)
Some people are just lonely man. I know its easy to make fun of them but these are generally people who never had luck with the opposite sex so a woman who shows interest, genuine or not is welcomed.
Well done for stating the obvious. You've only missed one thing.. and the most important thing. People will treat you the way you treat them. If you consider these bar girls as "working girls' and think nothing of it when you put a price on them, they will of course, put a price on themselves. It's true most of them can't be trusted nor believed. Same goes for their customers.
True. If you respect people, your life will be so much better. Most people are really nice if you honestly want to know them.
Yet another fact packed video. And all so true !
The best way of describing these girls, is summed up in two words. "Pathological liars"
Pathalogical liars. Very true, they learn from Horace Johnsen.
This information is invaluable and 100% correct the real funny part is they won't listen my girls different 555555
My favourite one was one girl who sent me a text about how much she "Loved me" and couldn't wait until i returned. Then asked if I would bring my son next time.
I don't have kids 😁
Yes. Loved the vid. Thank you :)
I've been coming to Pattaya since 1993 and agree with you you can't trust them but then your paying for sex so why would you want to trust them.
"The truth?" ...."You can't handle the truth!"
Thank you been to Bangkok not Pattaya, and will definitely remember " you have a good heart ", look forward to next instalment.
Thanks for watching!
yes love these videos please keep us noobs informerd thank you 4 your knoledge.
Great video very helpful as I'm a newbie to Thailand I've booked for January for 6weeks so any input is appreciated as I don't have a clue from what documents I need what visas I need so thankyou
You’ve got to realize that most of these guys have been losers in the romance department their whole lives. They are desperate to believe this stuff. Perhaps an illusion is better than nothing at all.
very true. and sad.
Judging by the state of the blokes that walked passed in the filming of this video you are 100% correct; Fat,old,bald and sleazy and probably never had a girlfriend back in their own country.
Best advice I’ve ever been given as a young man was “never fall in love with your hooker”. I wish I had listen because I have fallen for all the bargirl scams. You’ve heard of the three day rule? Keep it to 3 hours. One in the bar, one eating some food, and one in the bedroom. If you don’t live in Thailand with your Thai girlfriend then you’re just a sponsor and she’s still hustling for money... all day, all night.
You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl.