That blew my mind….you just explained my 17 year relationship, right down to his death two years ago! I’m watching this one twice. That was deep. Love and appreciate your work…
I can assure you he is a Rockstar in this life.he embodies that style! He brings a mashup of Astrological riffs and chords with drum beats keeping everything in rhythm and synchronizing it all!
It is the focus on lack that creates the hunger, not the desire. Directing your Plutonian lazer focus on lack generates a vampiric black hole in your energy field with a hunger so profound that it can never be saited by external forces. If you switch your focus to generate an outpouring of love and appreciation toward the external, the hole becomes filled with and endless energy source which enables you to feel more connected to the people and things you love and appreciate, and helps manifest more more connection. I just wanted to clarify, because too many people go toward hyper independence as defence mechanism which is just as unhealthy as codependency. You can not kill the need for external connection.
When I externalize my love expression fully people become obsessed with me. I’m learning boundaries which seems to be the biggest challenge with Venus conjunct Pluto.
I am a 3 degree Scorpio rising, Pluto on my ascendant, Venus at 0 degree Pisces trine my Pluto/Scorpio ascendant. I feel this deeply, but I will say I have always felt divinely protected and divinely unconditionally loved by God since I was a child, and I tend to love people, see their wounds and reasons for bad behavior without attaching myself to them, which has helped since I grew up moving every 6 months to a year. I did get into a 20 year marriage where I loved him unconditionally (still do), but their was definitely an unhealthy dynamic of me finding someone with an insatiable need to be fulfilled through any and all external factors. He was never happy or satisfied. Only a miracle could create the circumstances where he’d even feel the desire to be content in any aspect of his life. I’m so very sad for him.
Yeah my Gemini venus is more afflicted but grateful with a few trines to north node in leo and libra pluto. The affliction,venus opposite sag neptune square mars and saturn in virgo 9th. Relationships have been difficult in the past. I self sacrificed alot just to recieve bread crumbs.I was very deprived of family bonding or healthy love(narcissistic abuse) groomed to be an extension of others desires at my own expense as well as a scapegoat for their pain. It's been a very challenging experience since i truly and deeply love to love and value deep committed bonds. I have been loving myself regardless while simultaneously reprogramming the old and learning what healthy whole relationships look and feel like within. My kinks lol not bondage byt respect if people are into it. I like the energy of threesomes 🤷♀️ Gemini 😄
Love these long videos 💗💗💗 I love hearing you read. My venus is in Pisces ♓ I don't think my venus is debilitated but I am a Cap sun and scorpio rising. Pluto in the 12th. But I have struggled with addiction to drugs and love... you name it. I love so deeply I have lost myself which I'm still working on. I've been on methadone since I was 18 I'm 41 and I still haven't been able to let that go either. Even though I've tried. Opiate addiction isn't something many survive though. So I'm thankful for still being here to this 3D reality.
1H Venus Capricorn ♑️ square Pluto Libra ♎️ 10h, also have Rahu 10 H ♏️ NN. It was a long journey but able to heal. Pluto has been transiting in my 1H.
Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. So many obsessive thoughts with everything. That exactly how I feel too. Black or white. A small mouth with a big belly. Getting little bites but never satisfied.
This video is really great! Tan astrology did a Sun / Venus Pluto aspect video as well, if you haven’t seen her channel you might like her style as well :3
I agree with almost everything said here But!! 😁 .. If someone has to be polyamourous or smthn like that it shows to me that this person defenitley feels empty inside and therefore is to greedy externaly.. Bcs if im really fullfilled in my self I can commit completely to that one person that matches me perfectly bcs it's a mirror of my healed self! Im scorpio rising.. Pluto in 12 opposing venus and mercury (but venus exactly..) neptune trines venus exactly (but also mercury) and neptune sextiles pluto.. From house 2 btw.. And eros is also involved next to neptune.. And saturn is on my ascendant.. Im very into moral 😁 and I dont think any body would appreciate to be just one of some 😏
Not everybody who has this aspect will necessarily be polyamorous, often far from it. One of my points in this discussion is for someone on that path not to feel judged, because Pluto can take us to those difficult places for karmic reasons sometimes. I agree that poly is probably not for most people. Many who do it find themselves looking back on it later as a phase. But not everyone.
Yes as an experience for a while it might be an option for those who needs that.. And I was surprised hearing this thought bcs I know smn with pluto opposition Venus / Mars who recently told me that they are exactly that.. Polyamourous (that's why I know what that is.. Bcs it was new to me 😁) so u are right with that 💡
Grr I'm a Venus in Pisces trine Pluto in Scorpio and this is literally me. I'm happy I have a Trine though thank God because I'm becoming very aware of my need to seek emotional security outside myself and am working on it #shadowworkgalore haha. My Chiron is in 7th Leo with my 7th house cusp on Cancer so this is def a repeated pattern in my chart
If you're interested, i've been creating a good primer for Vedic astrology through this playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLZxmWvmvHyNgJVaKmhuVLpp0fUd0Ibfdu To truly get into vedic astrology i recommend a teacher. I used Asheville Vedic Astrology's apprenticeship program, and it has been great for me. Aside from that, books are your best friend! I recommend "Light on Life," by Robert Svodoba and Hart de Fouw as my personal fave.
Would you help someone in a living hell with all bad aspects related to relationship matters? I am exactly what you've described in this video and more. Please help me!
Thanks for watching folks, feel free to email me at astrology@dustincormier.net if you'd like a reading :)
That blew my mind….you just explained my 17 year relationship, right down to his death two years ago! I’m watching this one twice. That was deep. Love and appreciate your work…
So glad to help, thanks for watching.
That hair though🤗❤I think you were a rockstar in another life😁🧨💥
Trying to be a rockstar in this life too 😁 loll, spanks!
I can assure you he is a Rockstar in this life.he embodies that style! He brings a mashup of Astrological riffs and chords with drum beats keeping everything in rhythm and synchronizing it all!
It is the focus on lack that creates the hunger, not the desire. Directing your Plutonian lazer focus on lack generates a vampiric black hole in your energy field with a hunger so profound that it can never be saited by external forces. If you switch your focus to generate an outpouring of love and appreciation toward the external, the hole becomes filled with and endless energy source which enables you to feel more connected to the people and things you love and appreciate, and helps manifest more more connection. I just wanted to clarify, because too many people go toward hyper independence as defence mechanism which is just as unhealthy as codependency. You can not kill the need for external connection.
Wow this is some grounded tantric wisdom. Thank you for sharing, Franciska.
When I externalize my love expression fully people become obsessed with me. I’m learning boundaries which seems to be the biggest challenge with Venus conjunct Pluto.
Thanks for reading this.
Thank you so so so much for taking the time out and reading this incredible information ❤❤
You are so welcome!
I am a 3 degree Scorpio rising, Pluto on my ascendant, Venus at 0 degree Pisces trine my Pluto/Scorpio ascendant. I feel this deeply, but I will say I have always felt divinely protected and divinely unconditionally loved by God since I was a child, and I tend to love people, see their wounds and reasons for bad behavior without attaching myself to them, which has helped since I grew up moving every 6 months to a year. I did get into a 20 year marriage where I loved him unconditionally (still do), but their was definitely an unhealthy dynamic of me finding someone with an insatiable need to be fulfilled through any and all external factors. He was never happy or satisfied. Only a miracle could create the circumstances where he’d even feel the desire to be content in any aspect of his life. I’m so very sad for him.
It fits like a glove. I'm a Pluto, Venus and Mercury conjunct, in scorpio, in the 6th house. Its a long journey of self love learning :)
Oh how is the conjunction? I have pluto in 12 opposing venus and mercury in 6 and tomorrow Pluto transit exactly squares my pluto 🫣
At 25:00 you described a “triangular situation” yes I have been caught in this situation lol 😆 I have the square with Virgo Venus not fun
Yeah my Gemini venus is more afflicted but grateful with a few trines to north node in leo and libra pluto. The affliction,venus opposite sag neptune square mars and saturn in virgo 9th.
Relationships have been difficult in the past. I self sacrificed alot just to recieve bread crumbs.I was very deprived of family bonding or healthy love(narcissistic abuse) groomed to be an extension of others desires at my own expense as well as a scapegoat for their pain. It's been a very challenging experience since i truly and deeply love to love and value deep committed bonds. I have been loving myself regardless while simultaneously reprogramming the old and learning what healthy whole relationships look and feel like within. My kinks lol not bondage byt respect if people are into it. I like the energy of threesomes 🤷♀️ Gemini 😄
Sooooo interesting!!! Love your videos and insight. Please don't stop.. 💜 (here is my venus square pluto talking!!)
Love these long videos 💗💗💗
I love hearing you read.
My venus is in Pisces ♓
I don't think my venus is debilitated but I am a Cap sun and scorpio rising. Pluto in the 12th. But I have struggled with addiction to drugs and love... you name it. I love so deeply I have lost myself which I'm still working on. I've been on methadone since I was 18 I'm 41 and I still haven't been able to let that go either. Even though I've tried. Opiate addiction isn't something many survive though. So I'm thankful for still being here to this 3D reality.
Gratefulness is where all healing starts!
Great reading! 👍
Ty ty ty
1H Venus Capricorn ♑️ square Pluto Libra ♎️ 10h, also have Rahu 10 H ♏️ NN. It was a long journey but able to heal. Pluto has been transiting in my 1H.
I have Pluto conjunct Venus RX in 4h Leo. I’m 61 and have somewhat of an understanding but not much on this. Thanks very much for the vid.💖🌟
Venus in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. So many obsessive thoughts with everything. That exactly how I feel too. Black or white. A small mouth with a big belly. Getting little bites but never satisfied.
very interesting 10:30 I got Venus conjunced Saturn trine Pluto in the 10th 👀
saturn and Venus in Aires 🤸♀ wish me luck 🧚♂
This video is really great! Tan astrology did a Sun / Venus Pluto aspect video as well, if you haven’t seen her channel you might like her style as well :3
Yes i love her channel! I'll have to check that episode out :) Thanks for watching.
@@HowtorockAstrology Oh awesome!! Thank you for posting, I really enjoy your videos and hope u get the recognition u deserve ✨
@@emer4lds How sweet of you to say, I appreciate it! 🌿🦁🌺 I'm glad you've enjoyed.
High stakes karma poker.. Ante up.
I agree with almost everything said here But!! 😁 .. If someone has to be polyamourous or smthn like that it shows to me that this person defenitley feels empty inside and therefore is to greedy externaly.. Bcs if im really fullfilled in my self I can commit completely to that one person that matches me perfectly bcs it's a mirror of my healed self!
Im scorpio rising.. Pluto in 12 opposing venus and mercury (but venus exactly..) neptune trines venus exactly (but also mercury) and neptune sextiles pluto.. From house 2 btw.. And eros is also involved next to neptune..
And saturn is on my ascendant.. Im very into moral 😁 and I dont think any body would appreciate to be just one of some 😏
Not everybody who has this aspect will necessarily be polyamorous, often far from it.
One of my points in this discussion is for someone on that path not to feel judged, because Pluto can take us to those difficult places for karmic reasons sometimes.
I agree that poly is probably not for most people. Many who do it find themselves looking back on it later as a phase. But not everyone.
Yes as an experience for a while it might be an option for those who needs that..
And I was surprised hearing this thought bcs I know smn with pluto opposition Venus / Mars who recently told me that they are exactly that.. Polyamourous (that's why I know what that is.. Bcs it was new to me 😁) so u are right with that 💡
Grr I'm a Venus in Pisces trine Pluto in Scorpio and this is literally me. I'm happy I have a Trine though thank God because I'm becoming very aware of my need to seek emotional security outside myself and am working on it #shadowworkgalore haha. My Chiron is in 7th Leo with my 7th house cusp on Cancer so this is def a repeated pattern in my chart
Where and how can I study Vedic astrology?!?!
If you're interested, i've been creating a good primer for Vedic astrology through this playlist:
ruclips.net/p/PLZxmWvmvHyNgJVaKmhuVLpp0fUd0Ibfdu
To truly get into vedic astrology i recommend a teacher. I used Asheville Vedic Astrology's apprenticeship program, and it has been great for me.
Aside from that, books are your best friend! I recommend "Light on Life," by Robert Svodoba and Hart de Fouw as my personal fave.
Would you help someone in a living hell with all bad aspects related to relationship matters? I am exactly what you've described in this video and more. Please help me!
Hey. Feel free to email me at astrology@dustincormier.net and i'll see if I can do anything for you.
Navigatable lol
Hi @glucksklee4476 my pluto conjuncts at 8 degrees