Yulissa Salcedo Caraballo 🤚🏾 Introvert! When I’m not at school, working, or with family/friends, I’ll always by myself. 🤷🏾♀️ Everyone should enjoy hanging out by themselves. I love it.
What she means is, she used to do certain things only when she is alone, such as reading a book. So she would not read a book around friends or family. So alone time meant reading a book for example. But now she knows she can be with her husband and do the things she used to do alone, such as reading a book.
Trust me.. I'm married and it's so possible to have alone time while being around someone. It's just the fact that you can do what you want to do without being bothered and your spouse is doing what he or she wants to do without having to do the same thing together if that make sense.. basically you can both be around each other while not being underneath each other all the time.. it's hard to explain but I totally understand what she's saying. If I wasn't married, I'd probably be confused too lol 😂
If I’m not mistaken this was uploaded already as a different title 🙄🤔 but as Adrienne said ME TIME is essential for your mental health, not just in a marriage just PERIOD. 🌸
Had to go back and see if she was at the table. I think she didn't speak cause every one lead with how long their relationship is and Loni lead with since now she is in a relationship...... Jeannie is having a lot of me time meanwhile lol
Yeah she said that but you have to look at where she was in her life. Her and her husband were in the peak of their dating when things were so intimate and newly in love. She just now started reading books in silence next to him after 2 years married lol
Like what my mom did to me and my siblings. My dad goes no where without my mom its creepy and anoying when you just want to talk to your mom in private. Ot do something without him.
I'M TOTALLY WITH ADRIENNE ON THIS ONE!!! IT'S DEFINITELY A RED FLAG IF THE MAN YOU'RE WITH DOESN'T WANT YOU TO HAVE YOUR OWN PERSONAL SPACE!! IT COMES OFF AS CONTROLLING... AND I AM DEFINITELY A LONER!!! I ENJOY MY OWN COMPANY..🤷😍😘😜
Im with Tam I need my own sign!!! Im big on naked time; when u get out the shower and u wanna lay in bed a air dry, then lotion up, and take ur time to get dressed.
Jose Gray you mean magazines! Why not marry an ugly man look at Melania! Obviously these type of women would not marry a poor ugly man! Good for them. Life goals
I relate 100% to u Adrienne. I feel like I’m being rude if I’m using my laptop or reading a book around someone but at the same time I like the feeling of knowing you’re there
I think "me time" is different for every person and every relationship. Whatever amount of time is fine as long as both people are comfortable. While I agree your partner should want you to take care of yourself... the amount of time should be realistic. If one person is gone all weekend, every week (my friends husband does that) and the other person feels like they never see the other, that's a problem. You can't just say it's me time to get out of the nitty gritty of a relationship.
Every day. Leave the house. I don't want you in my face and in my ear every minute. That's a no no. If I'm still home, let me take a nap in peace. A grownup should not be needy like a child.
I think it’s healthy to me couples who are always around each other I give that the side eye because you’re either insecure or can’t function without them
Or even people in relationships like you need space without your partner for even the slightest bit it’s insane to me, no matter how much I like someone I don’t crave their presence 24/7.
Cottoncanzy Annchristine yeah I get it you’re just starting a relationship you wanna be around them a lot of after a while give yourself and then some space
@@britbritnicole My friend was in relationship with her man for over 5 years and still obsessed with her man. I don't know I think that makes you seem psycho in my opinion. Like you don't even have a life of your own but your man.
As an introvert I really can’t see myself getting married, I really really need to be alone most of the day or I get very uncomfortable and extremely irritated. I hate that I’m like this and it’s caused me numerous failed relationships, it’s just the way I am.
Lauren Hills your not alone ! I always say I have no idea how I’m going to get married ever ... I like being alone .. I would be so uncomfortable 24/7 you have to constantly communicate with your spouse , you sleep in the Same bed every night and etc ... they are always there and that’s gives me anxiety .. the older I get the worst I get I wanna be alone more it’s brings me peace .. interacting with others stresses me
Octavia Foster exactly!!!! I just can’t imagine that would ever work out for me unless I got lucky an married another extreme introvert and we just made a deal to live separately... which I doubt will happen lmao. Until then, I am so happy by myself.. even though nobody in my life understands. They think I’m depressed or something is wrong with me.. You either understand or you don’t.
@@laurenhills239 huni I'm the same exact way and when you're alone a lot of ppl especially other women friends will think something's wrong with you as if you are anti social and odd but I'm just very independent and introspective!!! I love my me time and being driven toward my goals. It's complex because I don't want anyone else distracting me from my goals or needing to see as someone 24/7 or try to tell me what to do. Yet, I'd love a loving serious committed relationship at the same time I don't want to lose myself in another person or feel smothered. I need and value my independence sense of self. U aren't alone it's complicated lol
@@Tanyan1026 I am the same way! I get anxiety about potentially getting married or living with someone. My sense of independence and freedom is everything, so I guess I need someone similar. I wouldn't work with a needy smothering type of person that is clingy
Alone time is essential for everyone whether you have a significant other or you a single. Take time to just be SELFISH and do whatever you want to do. Especially in relationships being attacked at the hip and never having time to yourself to suppress is not healthy at all.
Don't isolate yourself. There are people who have been through what you might be facing right now and they overcame it. Don't push people away, surround yourself with people who are spiritually mature and get the help that you need. Isolation when you are in pain and don't know if there's a way out is dangerous and that's why we have suicide cases. Listen, there's nothing that you can be facing that God is not able to solve for with God nothing is impossible. Hold on. Jesus loves you.
A major downfall of my last relationship was the fact that he always wanted to be with me like 24/7 and I’m such a loner I love being in my own company and the fact that he couldn’t respect that really sealed the fate of the relationship , it’s important
Any time where you can MAKE time and both of you actually WANT to make the time or give each other that space ! It's not a bad thing for couples to still have moments here they want to be alone and be on their center ! If anything those are signs of a healthy relationship ! It's a difference for making alone time vs deciding to be alone
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿Loved this topic and it is a very important conversation that I needed to listen to right now since I am an introvert who fears that not spending time with your mate would be a recipe for a separation but listening to this conversation made me realize just how important it actually is to have solo time especially in a relationship. 💯❤️🧒🏿
Wtf is Adrienne talking about? "I just realized I can have my "me" time with my husband". That's not you time. That's just doing separate things with your partner lolol
When your rich you can do all that "me"time. Also, if your single. Which the only one with a real family is Tam. If your a stay at home mom, dad is working most the time. And babysitter is not always an option financially.
If dad is working then he needs to pitch in and help so his wife can recharge her batteries. Mom's need breaks too. No one can do their job effectively without time to recharge.
I have a friend who can't do anything but work without her husband, it is sad. Even getting her hair done he called her 10 times. That seems unhealthy to me.
Married 10 years and the only way to be happily married is to have your “me” time. For both husband and wife. You should have hobbies or other interests. You need to have self self awareness and explore yourself through every phase and journey you go through. This allows you to love yourself then being able to love your partner and having a great union/partnership.
I grew up alone even though being in a house full of people. So I hate being by myself. I love being with somebody who makes me happy. That’s my me time😌
If a newly married couple wants to spend too much time away from one another that is a bad sign. But wanting to spend a little time away just to rejuvenate yourself that is a good thing. Being able to spend some time doing your own thing is a good thing and it helps bring people closer. There are people who enjoy spending every waking moment with their spouse and there are some that do not.
Self-love everybody~I never realized how much there is to discover about myself it’s a much deserved time even though I’m single but even with friends some alone time could have a lot of self-reflect but even if your married some alone is a must for everybody 💕hope everyone had a good day:)
Also you can have me time and be home together. Ladies if you wanna try new makeup looks, or organize your closet, try a new recipe, or read a book while your man plays video games or whatever he likes to do..this can still be me time too! Me time doesn’t always have to be you or him leaving each other to go somewhere else.
That is exactly what Adrienne said. She discovered that Israel is alright with her reading her book, lighting candles and just being in her thoughts and no need for them to be engaged in conversation just because they are in the same room.
I do me time at home. If igo outside or garden. Or i work on my projcts, i like reading, i exercise. I could have pamper time. I can do my thing. I take naps. I dont care i need my naps.
Isn't "Me time" time alone with yourself for rejuvenation and self-reflection. I NEED time away from my spouse in kids. Not just in the same room, where they do that at? (Oh the Houghton house, I guess?) I will take trips with my friends or myself, it is imperative to remember before you were and "Us" you were a "Me". Adrienne's co-dependency makes me very concerend.
Once in a while we do our own thing in the evening time but I don’t think it’s great to get in the habit of always going your separate ways. We’re apart all day when he’s at work so evenings and weekends, we try to spend as much time together as possible.
Qt Pie My fiancé is a little early because he's had a little too much alone time lately 😂😂. I've been working my fitness! It takes like 4-6 hours of my week.
Adrienne thats NOT me time lol me time is something that U Like to do some TIME ONLY for U, i love Going to ROSS or getting my Nails Done. I go to Starbucks its ME TIME👍😀😀
That is ME Time. She loves reading Books, going to the Movie by herself. She has discovered she can still read her books and not have to be engaged in conversation with her husband. Just because you don't do that same things she does, does not mean it is not ME TIME. Your interests are different from hers.
Me time whether you’re married or not is important.... me time doesn’t mean you gotta be alone but do something that will uplift your spirit , put everything back in perspective and focus on things that will allow your spirit to blossom 🌸🌸🍀🌸🌸🌺🌺🍀
I love how they talked about the same subject a while ago and Adrienne wanted to stay stuck to her husband at the time but now she's like: oh I LOOOOOOOOOVE MY ALONE TIME" 😅
Well I've been single for seven years so I get all the me time and alone time I want and I can do whatever I want without having some controlling asshole trying to tell me that I can do something
I need tam to stop swearing to God. That’s blasphemy, sister. I’m not judging you, I’m warning you *Some of you in my comments getting offended cuz I said “I’m warning you”. What else am I supposed say? When I AM warning her! When I’m doing something wrong, I get warned of it, so that I don’t do it again* I’m trying to warn her so that she stops and gets right! Some of you are too sensitive to be online...
@@BriaBarrows well she is basing it on scripture and the bible does spk against it. But again use it as a teaching momment and not a condemning momment. Not cool the way she said it.
sassyasme 123 I’m warning her because of what the Bible says. Don’t take it out of context. How in the world can a Christian warm someone so that they can get right, with all of you people constantly getting offended and taking things sideways??
Not only was this video uploaded with a different title, BUT! this topic was discussed maaaaaaaaaaaaany times! someone on the staff is shading Tamera!!! how many different ways can you basically say "Tamera spends too much time with Adam".
My husband had to understand that as an Aquarius, I need mental breaks and solo travel. Although he understands, he feels that I shouldn’t live a life of luxury solo, then come back home to middle class life. It isn’t fair. Sorry hubby, solo travel gets the best deal
Tami always makes loni laugh and that shows a great friendship between the two. She truly cares about each one in her own little way. Pretty cool to be close like that
I love that she go's to church by herself them again with her husband as a married woman. Don't let being married make u feel like grown twins that r still 3 years old.
I need me time everyday... I am a stay at home mom with 4 kids... as much as I LOVE my husband and my kids and I actually miss them when they are gone, I also love when they go to work and school. I can make myself the food I want with no one ambushing it, drink my coffee while it’s still hot AND watch the history movies and reality shows my husband hates..
@@vanessaquintanilla7763 that's a good thought, wonder why they would have the show so out of balance, doesn't seem fair unless all of them agree to have it that way, which I highly doubt.
My Mom told me that my beautiful Grandparents would sit and read their own thing voraciously during evenings just to unwind and relax for leisure, and that their marriage was so strong. My Mom said they would call each other “Ma” and “Pa” and would always be so affectionately caring to each other. 😭🥰❤️
Why are people so scared in their marriages!!? How do you marry someone and you’ve never read with them around because you thought it was offensive??? That’s not even a major thing to do it’s just reading! Lol like I would not want to be married for 2 years and have always had to go to the book store just to read. Bitch I help pay these bills! 😩😩 you gone watch me read!!
But you are missing the point Adrienne it's alone time you don't always have to be up under your man. Cause if you can't seperate your self from them you are going to have hard time God forbid if y'all breakup
My husband and I are both introverts we like hanging out. But not that much cuz it’ll start to bug us both. Our daughter is actually the only reason we be all up under each other. I like to be by my self all the time. I’ll send my daughter to day care just to be at home light a candle and just relax before husband gets home from work. I love it that way
My husband and I have hobbies that we enjoy independently and also ones that we enjoy together. We try to keep a healthy balance of together time and alone time.
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I’m going on 17 years of marriage and it’s very important to have alone time . Absence makes the heart grow fonder, true statement!
Cindy Ramirez congrats on ur lasting marriage
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What's the secret to successful marriage in your opinion?
So true!!
Yes I just made 19 years with my boo and we both enjoy each other and our time apart its a great balance
Anyone else single and is always having “me time”?
I have way too much ME TIME. LOL
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Yulissa Salcedo Caraballo 🤚🏾 Introvert! When I’m not at school, working, or with family/friends, I’ll always by myself. 🤷🏾♀️ Everyone should enjoy hanging out by themselves. I love it.
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I think Adrienne is referring to quiet time... not alone time lol. Gotta love her though
whats the difference? Some people like to do solitary quiet things when they are alone so for them the two things are the same.
trinigrl09 Exactly🤷🏿♀️
Actually they’re talking about “me time”..And it’s different things for different people so🤷🏻♀️
What she means is, she used to do certain things only when she is alone, such as reading a book. So she would not read a book around friends or family. So alone time meant reading a book for example. But now she knows she can be with her husband and do the things she used to do alone, such as reading a book.
Trust me.. I'm married and it's so possible to have alone time while being around someone. It's just the fact that you can do what you want to do without being bothered and your spouse is doing what he or she wants to do without having to do the same thing together if that make sense.. basically you can both be around each other while not being underneath each other all the time.. it's hard to explain but I totally understand what she's saying. If I wasn't married, I'd probably be confused too lol 😂
If I’m not mistaken this was uploaded already as a different title 🙄🤔 but as Adrienne said ME TIME is essential for your mental health, not just in a marriage just PERIOD. 🌸
youre right! and this topic was discussed many times
Yeah I’ve seen this clip a loootttt
This is the first time i didn’t hear Jeannie speak.
Had to go back and see if she was at the table. I think she didn't speak cause every one lead with how long their relationship is and Loni lead with since now she is in a relationship...... Jeannie is having a lot of me time meanwhile lol
Because Adrienne took over the conversation as usual LOL
@@berniceanne chill
She's the only one that doesn't have a man right now so maybe she thought she'd miss this one out.
I feel like I already knew Jeanie’s answer, even when she was with Freddie she expressed how much she likes her “alone time”
“Why you laughin’ Loni?” Is Tamera’s favourite phrase 😂
It is😂😂 I love the way she say it to lmao
But Loni is always snickering for no good reason. Why was she laughing? It made no sense.
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Because it was funny. Even the audience laughed
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@@4daluvofnikki Girl, calm down
Isn’t Adrienne the one that said a long time ago she doesn’t like hanging out with her girl friends cause she prefers to be with her man 100%? Lol
Adrienne also says that she changes her mind show after show, From what she learns from her co-hosts. People are complex
Paola Alvarez yea idk if u know but people do this thing called growing and changing.
UTEN LAMA it’s called two years into your marriage 😂 lol
Yeah she said that but you have to look at where she was in her life. Her and her husband were in the peak of their dating when things were so intimate and newly in love. She just now started reading books in silence next to him after 2 years married lol
it is called maturing. Do you have a problem with that?
Adrienne's definition of alone time is different since her husband is still there..lol I love Tam's definition and she looks beautiful this season.
very important to have friendships....cuz some women just leave everyone for their man
Yup people like wendy William's.
Like what my mom did to me and my siblings. My dad goes no where without my mom its creepy and anoying when you just want to talk to your mom in private. Ot do something without him.
💯 I will never get that
Bria Barrows unless u ain’t got no friends then it’s ok 🤷♀️ lol
I'M TOTALLY WITH ADRIENNE ON THIS ONE!!! IT'S DEFINITELY A RED FLAG IF THE MAN YOU'RE WITH DOESN'T WANT YOU TO HAVE YOUR OWN PERSONAL SPACE!! IT COMES OFF AS CONTROLLING... AND I AM DEFINITELY A LONER!!! I ENJOY MY OWN COMPANY..🤷😍😘😜
Wisdom 1245 Me too 💯🧒🏿
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Wisdom 1245 it also a sign of him cheating
Definitely agree with you @Wisdom narcissistic men! PeriodT!
Oh great to know because that is how my dad is to my mom
People always question why I do my hobbies without my husband. I’m like because I don’t need to be with him 24/7.
That's very strange that people ask you about it. Get Lives people!
Who else is having thier "me time" watching RUclips videos.....on the toilet!
Nasty 🤢
Me all the time.
@MrsEva Garcia, *whispers* did you put cameras in my house, wtf..
Im with Tam
I need my own sign!!! Im big on naked time; when u get out the shower and u wanna lay in bed a air dry, then lotion up, and take ur time to get dressed.
Lol i do that too
vannesa Colin OMGosh I thought that was just me!!
RIGHT!
I do naked time too Hahahah cooking and walking around naked is life
vannesa Colin I love that too.
Adrienne living that rich life loll get it girl
Reading a book is a rich life?
Jose Gray you mean magazines! Why not marry an ugly man look at Melania! Obviously these type of women would not marry a poor ugly man! Good for them. Life goals
@@hlatino03 that's what i thought
@@hlatino03 lol no of course not.. what made it "rich life" was the whole picture she painted
A I He actually makes more than her but she’s still a multi millionaire. Together they’ll be billionaires soon.
No problem with alone time in a marriage but when it’s TOO much then there’s a problem
I relate 100% to u Adrienne. I feel like I’m being rude if I’m using my laptop or reading a book around someone but at the same time I like the feeling of knowing you’re there
All alone time is good the more the better. Gives you focus
I think "me time" is different for every person and every relationship. Whatever amount of time is fine as long as both people are comfortable.
While I agree your partner should want you to take care of yourself... the amount of time should be realistic. If one person is gone all weekend, every week (my friends husband does that) and the other person feels like they never see the other, that's a problem. You can't just say it's me time to get out of the nitty gritty of a relationship.
That straight up sounds like a double life I would not put up with that! Every weekend? Where boo?!
@@daladorous haha that's what I told my friend! But you know some people never learn.
I could really go in on this topic but I will simply say love yourself, love them, but don't forget to love the others who came before them.
Our alone time is when we’re at our jobs! Lol after that I really miss my husband like genuinely.
That's sweet lol
Every day. Leave the house. I don't want you in my face and in my ear every minute. That's a no no. If I'm still home, let me take a nap in peace. A grownup should not be needy like a child.
Namor I feel that
I think it’s healthy to me couples who are always around each other I give that the side eye because you’re either insecure or can’t function without them
Or even people in relationships like you need space without your partner for even the slightest bit it’s insane to me, no matter how much I like someone I don’t crave their presence 24/7.
I have a friend whose around her man 24/7 and is on the phone with him at work. She's insecure and jobless
Cottoncanzy Annchristine yeah I get it you’re just starting a relationship you wanna be around them a lot of after a while give yourself and then some space
Beautiful Girl my point exactly
@@britbritnicole My friend was in relationship with her man for over 5 years and still obsessed with her man. I don't know I think that makes you seem psycho in my opinion. Like you don't even have a life of your own but your man.
As an introvert I really can’t see myself getting married, I really really need to be alone most of the day or I get very uncomfortable and extremely irritated. I hate that I’m like this and it’s caused me numerous failed relationships, it’s just the way I am.
Lauren Hills your not alone ! I always say I have no idea how I’m going to get married ever ... I like being alone .. I would be so uncomfortable 24/7 you have to constantly communicate with your spouse , you sleep in the Same bed every night and etc ... they are always there and that’s gives me anxiety .. the older I get the worst I get I wanna be alone more it’s brings me peace .. interacting with others stresses me
Octavia Foster exactly!!!! I just can’t imagine that would ever work out for me unless I got lucky an married another extreme introvert and we just made a deal to live separately... which I doubt will happen lmao. Until then, I am so happy by myself.. even though nobody in my life understands. They think I’m depressed or something is wrong with me.. You either understand or you don’t.
I'm an introvert and I'm married...I'm also very independent, its hard.
@@laurenhills239 huni I'm the same exact way and when you're alone a lot of ppl especially other women friends will think something's wrong with you as if you are anti social and odd but I'm just very independent and introspective!!! I love my me time and being driven toward my goals. It's complex because I don't want anyone else distracting me from my goals or needing to see as someone 24/7 or try to tell me what to do. Yet, I'd love a loving serious committed relationship at the same time I don't want to lose myself in another person or feel smothered. I need and value my independence sense of self. U aren't alone it's complicated lol
@@Tanyan1026 I am the same way! I get anxiety about potentially getting married or living with someone. My sense of independence and freedom is everything, so I guess I need someone similar. I wouldn't work with a needy smothering type of person that is clingy
Alone time is essential for everyone whether you have a significant other or you a single. Take time to just be SELFISH and do whatever you want to do. Especially in relationships being attacked at the hip and never having time to yourself to suppress is not healthy at all.
Don't isolate yourself. There are people who have been through what you might be facing right now and they overcame it. Don't push people away, surround yourself with people who are spiritually mature and get the help that you need. Isolation when you are in pain and don't know if there's a way out is dangerous and that's why we have suicide cases. Listen, there's nothing that you can be facing that God is not able to solve for with God nothing is impossible. Hold on. Jesus loves you.
A major downfall of my last relationship was the fact that he always wanted to be with me like 24/7 and I’m such a loner I love being in my own company and the fact that he couldn’t respect that really sealed the fate of the relationship , it’s important
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Everything Adrienne says always sounds like a fairytale
brianna wilson Disney gal
Because fairytale s aren't real or true
Any time where you can MAKE time and both of you actually WANT to make the time or give each other that space ! It's not a bad thing for couples to still have moments here they want to be alone and be on their center ! If anything those are signs of a healthy relationship ! It's a difference for making alone time vs deciding to be alone
Myronn Coleman Well said one of my favourite commenters on RUclips 💯🧒🏿
Renee Smith me ? Really ? Why thank you so much ❤️🙏🏽
So nice of Adam to have bought Tamera this sign! I would love it
I love my alone time! I have to have it!! Let me breathe! I kove it. Watching tv by myself, relaxing, being independent I love it!
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿Loved this topic and it is a very important conversation that I needed to listen to right now since I am an introvert who fears that not spending time with your mate would be a recipe for a separation but listening to this conversation made me realize just how important it actually is to have solo time especially in a relationship. 💯❤️🧒🏿
I think there is something special about friendships and relationships where you can be alone "together".
Wtf is Adrienne talking about? "I just realized I can have my "me" time with my husband". That's not you time. That's just doing separate things with your partner lolol
I love what Adrienne said, my SO talks so much I'm not even going to attempt it though.
When your rich you can do all that "me"time. Also, if your single. Which the only one with a real family is Tam. If your a stay at home mom, dad is working most the time. And babysitter is not always an option financially.
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If dad is working then he needs to pitch in and help so his wife can recharge her batteries. Mom's need breaks too. No one can do their job effectively without time to recharge.
@BRI why? What's the point? It's RUclips not a damn thesis, and you obviously knew what they were trying to say...
What do you mean the only one with a real family is tamera?
Coco s dads also need a recharge when they come in from working all day. Just highlighting that ✨
being offended doesn't necessarily mean a red flag it could depend on the situation for that. So think about that too.
I’ve been married 19years & I love spending any time with him! It’s all about quiet time together! As much as quality!🧡🦋🙏🌺🧡
I'm somewhat a loner too Ade and when people try to include themselves in my plans I politely decline.
I can't with Tamera saying "Bubble bath" (2:29). Tamera is super funny LOL
PS: Jeannie laughed too 😅😅😄😄😄
LOL Adrienne you are adorable 😂 having “me time” with your husband
Am I the only one who notices Loni always making faces when Adrienne speaks. Like she's over her and the way she thinks ?😂🤔
I actually love this question and a one I can think about
I connect most with AD & Jeannie .. everything AD said is exactly how I feel about my me time.
I have a friend who can't do anything but work without her husband, it is sad. Even getting her hair done he called her 10 times. That seems unhealthy to me.
Married 10 years and the only way to be happily married is to have your “me” time. For both husband and wife. You should have hobbies or other interests. You need to have self self awareness and explore yourself through every phase and journey you go through. This allows you to love yourself then being able to love your partner and having a great union/partnership.
I am like Adrienne, i take myself out all the time, im definitely an introvert, but i know how to be sociable
I grew up alone even though being in a house full of people. So I hate being by myself. I love being with somebody who makes me happy. That’s my me time😌
It's funny the amount of these clips has Temera saying "Why you laughing, Loni? 😂😂😂 It's all in good fun. They are good friends ❤️
Awe man, I needed this early in my marriage. So true.
If a newly married couple wants to spend too much time away from one another that is a bad sign. But wanting to spend a little time away just to rejuvenate yourself that is a good thing. Being able to spend some time doing your own thing is a good thing and it helps bring people closer. There are people who enjoy spending every waking moment with their spouse and there are some that do not.
I NEEDDDD THAT SIGN TAMERA!!!! Except my husband will act like he can't read 😒
YoungWifeLife 😂😂😊
I’m single and I get bored of ppl easily lol I can’t imagine being married 😮
Self-love everybody~I never realized how much there is to discover about myself it’s a much deserved time even though I’m single but even with friends some alone time could have a lot of self-reflect but even if your married some alone is a must for everybody 💕hope everyone had a good day:)
This goes for anyone. Give someone the chance to miss you for crying out loud lol its healthy for everyone
Also you can have me time and be home together. Ladies if you wanna try new makeup looks, or organize your closet, try a new recipe, or read a book while your man plays video games or whatever he likes to do..this can still be me time too! Me time doesn’t always have to be you or him leaving each other to go somewhere else.
That is exactly what Adrienne said. She discovered that Israel is alright with her reading her book, lighting candles and just being in her thoughts and no need for them to be engaged in conversation just because they are in the same room.
Can we get a segment for Nipsey Hussle. Talk About what he’s done for his community. Y’all talked about R Kelly.
Alysia Hall facts!! They talk about the same topics in a different way smh . LONG LIVE NIPSEY 🏁🤘🏾 Marathon Continues
I do me time at home. If igo outside or garden. Or i work on my projcts, i like reading, i exercise. I could have pamper time. I can do my thing. I take naps. I dont care i need my naps.
I had to go back and check to see if Jeannie was even there cause she was sooooooo quiet. My heart goes out to her.
Isn't "Me time" time alone with yourself for rejuvenation and self-reflection. I NEED time away from my spouse in kids. Not just in the same room, where they do that at? (Oh the Houghton house, I guess?) I will take trips with my friends or myself, it is imperative to remember before you were and "Us" you were a "Me". Adrienne's co-dependency makes me very concerend.
Once in a while we do our own thing in the evening time but I don’t think it’s great to get in the habit of always going your separate ways. We’re apart all day when he’s at work so evenings and weekends, we try to spend as much time together as possible.
Qt Pie My fiancé is a little early because he's had a little too much alone time lately 😂😂. I've been working my fitness! It takes like 4-6 hours of my week.
Adrienne thats NOT me time lol me time is something that U Like to do some TIME ONLY for U, i love Going to ROSS or getting my Nails Done. I go to Starbucks its ME TIME👍😀😀
That is ME Time. She loves reading Books, going to the Movie by herself. She has discovered she can still read her books and not have to be engaged in conversation with her husband. Just because you don't do that same things she does, does not mean it is not ME TIME. Your interests are different from hers.
Me time whether you’re married or not is important.... me time doesn’t mean you gotta be alone but do something that will uplift your spirit , put everything back in perspective and focus on things that will allow your spirit to blossom 🌸🌸🍀🌸🌸🌺🌺🍀
its become my6 daily night routine to watch "THE REAL" CLIPS BEFORE BED
Honestly Loni has been annoying me lately. It's like she is too involved in Tamera's life...
Angel Alexander they all jealous but jeannie
heatsd I don’t think tamera is tbh but I agree
baddestkweeny youre insane
@@bsbgirl85 Tamaga im crying
I love how they talked about the same subject a while ago and Adrienne wanted to stay stuck to her husband at the time but now she's like: oh I LOOOOOOOOOVE MY ALONE TIME" 😅
Well I've been single for seven years so I get all the me time and alone time I want and I can do whatever I want without having some controlling asshole trying to tell me that I can do something
I need tam to stop swearing to God. That’s blasphemy, sister. I’m not judging you, I’m warning you
*Some of you in my comments getting offended cuz I said “I’m warning you”. What else am I supposed say? When I AM warning her! When I’m doing something wrong, I get warned of it, so that I don’t do it again* I’m trying to warn her so that she stops and gets right!
Some of you are too sensitive to be online...
Wow. I agree but the "Im warning you" seems a little too damning. A better way could have been said. IJS.
not that serious....you bitter
Deathly sounds like you’re judging
@@BriaBarrows well she is basing it on scripture and the bible does spk against it. But again use it as a teaching momment and not a condemning momment. Not cool the way she said it.
sassyasme 123 I’m warning her because of what the Bible says. Don’t take it out of context. How in the world can a Christian warm someone so that they can get right, with all of you people constantly getting offended and taking things sideways??
i love these women.i have nothing bad to say about them because they real to me.
Tamara has kids so she KNOWS WHATS UPPPO!!
Not only was this video uploaded with a different title, BUT! this topic was discussed maaaaaaaaaaaaany times! someone on the staff is shading Tamera!!! how many different ways can you basically say "Tamera spends too much time with Adam".
What happen to Jiennie today? She literally didn't say anything.
My husband had to understand that as an Aquarius, I need mental breaks and solo travel. Although he understands, he feels that I shouldn’t live a life of luxury solo, then come back home to middle class life. It isn’t fair. Sorry hubby, solo travel gets the best deal
Solo travel? You’re not wife material. You’re street meat. Get packed out.
Im curious of what Jeannie would have said...
lmaooo why Tamera said "Bubble, you know, Bath" with the most southern accent.
I like being by myself.Forgive me but people are annoying.My hubby was an interstate trucker and he would be gone weeks at a time and I loved it!
Tamera quit swearing to God!! Just let your yes mean yes and your no mean no! You should know this girl!
I thought the SAME thing. Love her though. I just cringe EVERYTIME she says that
I agree. She probably forgets though.
@@irene4217 yeah. But as a mature believer some things you would think they wouldn't forget. It just doesnt sound right.
In the same breath we shouldn't be quick to judge her. Am sure we also have our faults as believers. No one is perfect.
@@irene4217 no one is judging aka condemning her. Its an observation according to the bible.
Tami always makes loni laugh and that shows a great friendship between the two. She truly cares about each one in her own little way. Pretty cool to be close like that
I love that she go's to church by herself them again with her husband as a married woman. Don't let being married make u feel like grown twins that r still 3 years old.
My friend who has been healthily and happily married to her first love for 17 yrs told me make sure you are not always together
That's How I Feel Tamara! I LOVE Working Out Alone 🏋🏾♀️ ❤💪🏾
I'm watching this at 4:44. Alone time from your husband is HIGHLY IMPORTANT
I love this conversation I love being alone but I do desire a husband so I will need a do not disturb sign when I get married
I need me time everyday... I am a stay at home mom with 4 kids... as much as I LOVE my husband and my kids and I actually miss them when they are gone, I also love when they go to work and school. I can make myself the food I want with no one ambushing it, drink my coffee while it’s still hot AND watch the history movies and reality shows my husband hates..
why does adrienne always have to speak first on all topics? 😫
She's annoying and an attention grabber, thinks she knows it all.
She does it so much I believe it’s a producers call
@@vanessaquintanilla7763 that's a good thought, wonder why they would have the show so out of balance, doesn't seem fair unless all of them agree to have it that way, which I highly doubt.
My Mom told me that my beautiful Grandparents would sit and read their own thing voraciously during evenings just to unwind and relax for leisure, and that their marriage was so strong. My Mom said they would call each other “Ma” and “Pa” and would always be so affectionately caring to each other. 😭🥰❤️
wowwww, that’s BEAUTIFUL!! cant wait to have this in the future!! God bless you and your family ❤️
Tamera lets talk about these lashes!! tell us what brand/style loving them
I think having alone time to yourself is normal and everyone should have it at some point.
Tamera is the cutest like I want to be her bestie every time I’m watching the real 😂
Why are people so scared in their marriages!!? How do you marry someone and you’ve never read with them around because you thought it was offensive??? That’s not even a major thing to do it’s just reading! Lol like I would not want to be married for 2 years and have always had to go to the book store just to read. Bitch I help pay these bills! 😩😩 you gone watch me read!!
But you are missing the point Adrienne it's alone time you don't always have to be up under your man. Cause if you can't seperate your self from them you are going to have hard time God forbid if y'all breakup
I thought we are talking about Alone time....
Loving Adrienne's Blazer 💁🏾♀️
My husband and I are both introverts we like hanging out. But not that much cuz it’ll start to bug us both. Our daughter is actually the only reason we be all up under each other. I like to be by my self all the time. I’ll send my daughter to day care just to be at home light a candle and just relax before husband gets home from work. I love it that way
I think loni loves Adam.they is no way she can always get this annoyed when tamara talks about his husband it's annoying ..mxm
I agree with yall I FEEL IN RELATUONSHIPS YOU BOTH NEED ME TIME CAUSE TIME TO YOUR SELF AND NOT SUFFICATE EACHOTHER AND KEEPS YOU SANE ALSO
I absolutely agree! I think alone time in a relationship is very important!
My husband and I have hobbies that we enjoy independently and also ones that we enjoy together. We try to keep a healthy balance of together time and alone time.
If I was a newlywed I'd be absolutely fine being by myself 24/7 365 days a year
The way my mind is set up i think I'd need like a whole month of me time. But then I'm not married nor am I dating 😏😏
Adrienne knows & we all kno damn well she aint no introvert bruh lmaooo sis would speak to anybody & start a convo cauze she feels alone 😂😂😂😂