You can see that Stacy feels bad about what she's doing, but that fact that she isn't acting on her conscience and is constantly switching sides just shows how fake and heartless she really is.
Besides Stacey doesn't really deny what she's doing it's just Nikki is a lot more direct but you're right Stacey is more insidious. Also I'm not gay or anything I don't do chick flicks but this one is fuzzy cause Lisa is Alexa's mama in this movie. Two beautiful women 😍😍😍😍😍
I've watched this movie a lot of times already, but I always cry at the moment when Vanessa breaks down. It's amazing how bullying can really mess up one's mind. =( Especially by your so-called friends. Been there so many times. For anyone that's being picked on, or been picked on: stay true to yourself! There's always help available. Nobody deserves to be bullied.
I'm sorry, but I think Stacy's character is the worst type of bully, not Nikki. Nikki is awful and vindictive, but Stacy is two-faced. She seems to enjoy the fact that everyone's crowding around her and making fun of Vanessa whilst pretending to be nice to her. Notice how when she sees Vanessa being bullied she has that little sick smile. It has something to do with peer pressure, but she's just as guilty as Nikki.
At least Stacy looks like she feels some degree of guilt over what's happening, but she is a follower. People like her are too afraid of people like Nikki and that fear keeps them from taking action to stop the bullying. Nikki is just plain evil with no emotions.
Sarah Maske you took the words right out of my mouth!!! Stacy did show that she felt bad over what happened, but Nikki was the instigator and she was clearly jealous just because Vanessa and Stacy were very close.
+Sarah Maske 1. I agree that S was scared and hopefully she learned her lesson 2. Nikki is mean but you never know why because the movie didn't talk about her own life or her parents 3. Tiffany was nasty because she didn't want to be bullied herself along with wanting to fit in. It still was no excuse as she did a fair amount of damage.
This is the saddest part of the movie. the girls are so mean. And they pushed her to the edge. there just jealous cause shes so pretty. And smart Love this movie...
When I was in jr. high, a "friend" told me she knew a guy who wanted to go out with me, and said 'he wants to meet you at so-and-so place at 7:00, go on he really wants to see you'. I knew it was a lie and didn't go. It could have ended up a disaster! But this ALONE was enough to make me stop associating with other teen girls for years. I've now finished school and I still find it hard to trust other girls. This scene really made me tear up because what happened to Vanessa almost happened to me.
Man, I would have taken that cute outfit and gone to the movies, or disco bowling or something. She looked way to nice to stay home and bawl her eyes out!!!
This reminds me of an old friend of mine.... She was going through a lot and I tried to stick up for her. Last words she told me to my face was that she can easily stop speaking to me. Then she stopped. She was my best friend and she moved on. I feel like I can't trust anyone
My former roommate was the same way. She said I didn't deserve anything after she got me a cake fornmy birthday and I had made one. She had no intention of getting me anything originally. I refused it because I knew she wasn't sincere in her gesture. Then she was upset because I was doing things for myself for my birthday month. Her jealousy was evident by her angry words and the look of hate and rage in her eyes. I had to move out. It took me almost a year after that falling out to find somewhere else to live. Still acted evil when I tried to get my security deposit from her. A backstabber indeed. Was there for here in her time of need but she was not appreciative of it. Have since cut her off.
@@shannonperry9884 I lived with two roommates who were bullies to me as well. In my case, they were much older than I was and had an agenda which was only to me to help with bills and chores. They were very controlling and bossy and made it clear that they didn't want me around. As I was talking about a few years back, one of them threw a fit because she learned that I wasn't going to be the maid they hoped next to realizing that I was the weirdo. So pulled a similar stunt that Stacy did with a fake birthday party only she said I wasn't invited because I was under 21 and in my early 20's. Not only did she say that I wasn't invited but that she and her friends were going to occupy the 95% rental house all weekend. However, that was a complete lie but either way, I would not have wanted to go to her party anyway and especially since I discovered that she had a nasty side.
I'm glad with the power of RUclips, the power of pause is very useful. I can see the there were at least three prescription bottles. They were bought at Central Pharmacy and they were prescribed by a Dr. Wolf. The big bottle had 40 tables that Barbara was required to take two a day.
The thing is, when you're totally left alone and nobody 's there who really likes you you start to believe everyone who's acting friendly, especially when the person was your "best friend". That's why Vanessa is still believing Stacy.
they're not doint this cause of the guy, they're jealous of her and the boy is just an excuse. i had bitches like those in my class, but i didnt give them this satisfaction to do what thse did to her. the most important thing is not to behave like vanessa does
I had people in high school bother me. It got pretty bad. I tried ignoring them and that didn't work...probably because I didn't ignore them from the start. If people know they bother you, they will keep on at you.
Vanessa's mom should have pulled her out of school or sued the school for what happened to her daughter and she tried to kill herself and do you think the bullies even care? Vanessa needs to stop talking to those girls. I hated school and this is what is like for a lot of kids being bullied and hated and having no place to go! People are so angry and Stacy is a lair and fake! I hate Stacy and her friends! She played a cruel joke on Vanessa and the party that was going way too far! Way too far!
I hate what is happening here to Vanessa and she was angry and upset and what those girls did to her pushed her over the edge 'I hate Bullies especially ones who bully people for no reason! Bullies are cowards! They really are
I'm not sure this is why, this is just an idea, but I think that the director made Vennessa run off again and again because it shows that running from the problem doesn't solve anything.
AmberAcyde I would ground them the whole semester and make them go to a therapist weekly. They harassed a young girl, defamed her and made chop all of her hair off and run away from school. That is not just bullying but pure maliciousness.
I like the fact that this movie has got the courage of so many people who have been through this to speak out. something like the happened to me, but definatly not as bad as this x
you guys do realize that if vanessa spilled the beans and said that stacey copied her, and stacey got in trouble, the bullying would just get THAT much worse because they now have another "reason" to do it.
+Raquel Ruiz The thing that's so sad is that it seemed like Stacey wasn't even comfortable going along with it. Like she wanted Nikki to like her and to be popular so she was going along with the other girls even though she knew it was wrong.
I'd like for people to stop blaming Vanessa for the shit she's going through and for being angry. I love how supportive her mom is in the second part of the movie but you have to understand that her mom contributed to Vanessa always forgiving Stacy because she always pushed Vanessa on Stacy and told her how she was an 'important friend' asked her if she 'did something to upset her' etc she did it to help Vanessa but it was exactly why Vanessa thought she had to defend her friendship with Stacy.
I dont understand how the fact that Tony not returning Stacy's feelings and having feelings for Vanessa is "doing something to Stacy". All Vanessa did was tell Tony that Stacy liked him its not her fault that Tony isn't interested in Stacy in that way and it did not give Stacy liscense to do what she did to Vanessa. If she was so upset by the fact that Tony wasn't interested in her and saw Vanessa as a threat then she could of just stopped being friends with her. Although that's still a stupid reason to end a friendship with someone over, atleast Vanessa would of known the truth about how fake Stacy was earlier and it would of saved her from going through all the pain she went through. It seems like Vanessa's friendship with Stacy was contingent upon Stacy getting what she wants and having things go her way and if they didnt go the way that she wanted she blamed Vanessa for that and enabled the abuse against her. Vanessa's friendship with Stacy was already over when Stacy found out that Tony wasn't interested in her and liked Vanessa instead. Vanessa declined Tony's request when he asked her out because she knew that Stacy liked him and she was trying to be a good friend. Stacy has major narscissm issues like did it ever occur to her that Tony just didn't like her in a romantic way and that Vanessa isnt responsible for someone else's feelings? There was no fixing things with Stacy because of that, I think the only reason Stacy continued to pretend to be Vanessa's friend was to save face with her family and to convince people like Vanessa's mom that she was a good person and Vanessa was just overreacting. I'm so glad Vanessa finally realized what a fake bitch Stacy was and kicked her ass to the curb it was long overdue.
I don't get why she would still want to be friends with her after this scene? She should have known after the birthday party debacle. I would never talk to someone that did that to me again!! In fact I would probably have confronted them in front of the whole school and cussed them out!!
I had a similar situation with a fake party but the complete opposite with a roommate who was a bully at one point in my life. Rather than tell me that I was invited she lied and said that she was having a party and that I wasn't invited because I was still under 21. I found out that it was fake when I came home late from work to avoid the party only to find that she went out with her friends.
At 2:45 when they started playing that low music and they showed those other girls in Stacey's room I thought, "OH NO," and my stomach nearly turned over.
I agree, Vanessa just wants it to end, anyway it can. Who could imagine someone being so devious as to deliberately wanting to detroy someone, it's unthinkable, but it's real life. And when people still tolerate this without doing anything to stop it, then it will go on and on. Just because someone else is being bullied doesn't mean you look the other way. It happens not only in high school, but everywhere, at home, at work etc.
girls can be so cruel :'( i see it all the time around my school and i always try to talk to them and be their friend, of course my friends think im becoming a "loser" but i dnt even care anymore
it didnt get canceled they just lied to her about the party being there or that day.. and she just got tire of all the shit they did to her.. i cried :( i cant believe girls can be so mean.. i've never experienced this but this movie makes it seem like a horrible experience..
My god. Stacy just wants to see Vannessa wither away into a pile of suffering dust. They WANT her to die? They think it's funny that she's in the hospital? Then, they are the worst friends in HISTORY.
it started when i was ten and finally this year turned out to be the first one without any bullying!! i cried so much watching this movie because it so reminds me of myself being hated by the whole class is so hard!!
yeah but getting out of that was not pretty though especially because my parents wouldn't help me. and the reason they starting bullying me in the first place made absolutely no sense
sometimes it happens. Few people have power over us. We try to be closer to them, we try hard, we really love them you know. but of course, if things do not go well, we learn the truth behind the facade.
@@andyandys5356 This comment was made almost a decade and a half ago when I was 15 years old. Not sure what you're expecting in response to your reply 14 years later but uhhhhh thanks for caring about a stranger's usage of "lol" I guess
@FamousCityLights I don't know, I'm from England and I had a fairly similar experience, except i think it only lasts for the first few years at secondary school.
This happened to me. Once on halloween when my friends told me they'd meet me to go trick or treating and they left and went without me and I went all by myself. And the other time was when we went to a movie theatre and well.... I was seated and waiting for them as they were waiting outside the doorway. I went out to tell them the movie was starting and they'd told me they'd be there in a sec. But they didn't and I was left alone because they ditched me and went to another movie. Sad but true.
omg i can so totally relate to this..i lost all my friends over sum stupid boy..i popped pills i cut and everything else..they wuldn't speak to me..the whole school hated me..i was always alone..i feel for her.:(
so true. this happened to me at my new school, except not that bad. Everybody kept calling me anorexic because I'm really skinny. Even my friends would do it. I told my mom and dad, and it just seemed like they were no help at all. They just told me it was something I had to put up with. I wish my parents helped me more like Vanessa mom.
Being 14 is coming from the book, on which this movie is based on. They never said they are 14, Stacy kissed a guy who was 16, she was expecting him to be a better kisser because he was older than her. Hope it clears.
ive had this happen to me before, not QUITE so extreme, but pretty bad. my mom switched me to a different school after that, which is what vannessas mom really should do.
@dingetje We've all made that mistake at one time or another. In grades 4 and 5, my friends would turn against me time and again. And it hurts, big time!! Everyone kept making me think that it was my fault, which I thought it was because I kept trying to reconcile with these guys just like Vanessa did with Stacey. There were times when things would be cool, but the cycle of rejection and bullying would just keep repeating itself over and over again.
I dealt with that...in my early 20s believe it or not. Things would be cool but I was the ass of their jokes and the scapegoat of their problems. I’m no longer friends with them. The ring leader reached out for reconciliation but I rejected him. Just because I forgive him doesn’t mean I want them back as friends.
I've been a teen too lol, but it totally depends on your personality, not so much on your age if you can control your own temper. A good thing is, teens grow up :)
some people are like this as adults. they don't outgrow it; people can have a good or bad personality at any age! some people become like this due to things happening to them
believe me when i say this....u can make it by urself...even though its hard. im a only child...raised toughly...i spent my childhood all alone..& i dont kno much abt friends..& i grew up partially okay in the outside..but der was always alot missin in the inside...well i dont have friends....& i kinda hate myself..so i dont like suffering..or letting anyone hurt me. im a tough girl outside & inside....and no one messes with me and get away with it...cuz i can be very evil and poisonous.
"There's really nothing we can do." Bullshit. This is exactly what they said to my friends mom while he was being verbally abused, harrased and assaulted by a group of the most cowwardly excuses for human beings on the planet. There are plenty of things that could have been done. Their just affraid of stepping on peoples toes
She was trying to get back in the group. That happens a lot in real life. Some Girls are willing to put up with any crap to get back in with the group.
when I first saw the movie i couldn beleive how mean those girls could be..but asI follow part by part I discovered that if anyone who gets victimised by such subjects do nothing they will not stop....ethical limits do not exist anymore..
i think she was probably thought that if she was friends with stacey it would go away. btw if i got invited to a party by the wrong date then i would probably take the present the next day and chuck it at their head and say have a happy birthday!
something like this hapened to me, my friends all started to be this new girl, and she was turning everyone else against me. i didn't have my mom or anyone. this movie is so good as alot of people have been through this, ans this kinda shows you what and what not to do 10 out of 10
You can see that Stacy feels bad about what she's doing, but that fact that she isn't acting on her conscience and is constantly switching sides just shows how fake and heartless she really is.
Feels bad? Literally, and she never denies it, she tells Vanessa that she's gonna regret telling her off. That's not a true friend.
Besides Stacey doesn't really deny what she's doing it's just Nikki is a lot more direct but you're right Stacey is more insidious. Also I'm not gay or anything I don't do chick flicks but this one is fuzzy cause Lisa is Alexa's mama in this movie. Two beautiful women 😍😍😍😍😍
when your daughter screams at you like that & tells you to go away, that's when she needs a mother the most.
That not gonna happen
Yes that is really is a good idea for that good luck
That is true you needs your mom to help you out
The mom is very loving and patient with her daughter! the way all moms should be
I've watched this movie a lot of times already, but I always cry at the moment when Vanessa breaks down. It's amazing how bullying can really mess up one's mind. =( Especially by your so-called friends. Been there so many times.
For anyone that's being picked on, or been picked on: stay true to yourself! There's always help available. Nobody deserves to be bullied.
I'm sorry, but I think Stacy's character is the worst type of bully, not Nikki. Nikki is awful and vindictive, but Stacy is two-faced. She seems to enjoy the fact that everyone's crowding around her and making fun of Vanessa whilst pretending to be nice to her. Notice how when she sees Vanessa being bullied she has that little sick smile. It has something to do with peer pressure, but she's just as guilty as Nikki.
that girl who plays vanessa is so brilliant...when she crys i cry!
At least Stacy looks like she feels some degree of guilt over what's happening, but she is a follower. People like her are too afraid of people like Nikki and that fear keeps them from taking action to stop the bullying. Nikki is just plain evil with no emotions.
Nicki is a sociopath.
Sarah Maske you took the words right out of my mouth!!! Stacy did show that she felt bad over what happened, but Nikki was the instigator and she was clearly jealous just because Vanessa and Stacy were very close.
+LadyL31786 She was also envious of Ness's looks too.
+Sarah Maske
1. I agree that S was scared and hopefully she learned her lesson
2. Nikki is mean but you never know why because the movie didn't talk about her own life or her parents
3. Tiffany was nasty because she didn't want to be bullied herself along with wanting to fit in. It still was no excuse as she did a fair amount of damage.
Her mom is so sweet and so caring..
This is the saddest part of the movie.
the girls are so mean.
And they pushed her to the edge.
there just jealous cause shes so pretty.
And smart
Love this movie...
When I was in jr. high, a "friend" told me she knew a guy who wanted to go out with me, and said 'he wants to meet you at so-and-so place at 7:00, go on he really wants to see you'. I knew it was a lie and didn't go. It could have ended up a disaster! But this ALONE was enough to make me stop associating with other teen girls for years. I've now finished school and I still find it hard to trust other girls. This scene really made me tear up because what happened to Vanessa almost happened to me.
It's not that easy to just ignore that! I feel so sorry for Vanessa and for her Mum. It's really tough to hadle with those issues..
So true
Man, I would have taken that cute outfit and gone to the movies, or disco bowling or something. She looked way to nice to stay home and bawl her eyes out!!!
This reminds me of an old friend of mine.... She was going through a lot and I tried to stick up for her. Last words she told me to my face was that she can easily stop speaking to me. Then she stopped. She was my best friend and she moved on. I feel like I can't trust anyone
My former roommate was the same way. She said I didn't deserve anything after she got me a cake fornmy birthday and I had made one. She had no intention of getting me anything originally. I refused it because I knew she wasn't sincere in her gesture. Then she was upset because I was doing things for myself for my birthday month. Her jealousy was evident by her angry words and the look of hate and rage in her eyes. I had to move out. It took me almost a year after that falling out to find somewhere else to live. Still acted evil when I tried to get my security deposit from her. A backstabber indeed. Was there for here in her time of need but she was not appreciative of it. Have since cut her off.
@@shannonperry9884 I lived with two roommates who were bullies to me as well. In my case, they were much older than I was and had an agenda which was only to me to help with bills and chores. They were very controlling and bossy and made it clear that they didn't want me around. As I was talking about a few years back, one of them threw a fit because she learned that I wasn't going to be the maid they hoped next to realizing that I was the weirdo. So pulled a similar stunt that Stacy did with a fake birthday party only she said I wasn't invited because I was under 21 and in my early 20's. Not only did she say that I wasn't invited but that she and her friends were going to occupy the 95% rental house all weekend. However, that was a complete lie but either way, I would not have wanted to go to her party anyway and especially since I discovered that she had a nasty side.
I'm glad with the power of RUclips, the power of pause is very useful. I can see the there were at least three prescription bottles. They were bought at Central Pharmacy and they were prescribed by a Dr. Wolf. The big bottle had 40 tables that Barbara was required to take two a day.
The thing is, when you're totally left alone and nobody 's there who really likes you you start to believe everyone who's acting friendly, especially when the person was your "best friend". That's why Vanessa is still believing Stacy.
they're not doint this cause of the guy, they're jealous of her and the boy is just an excuse. i had bitches like those in my class, but i didnt give them this satisfaction to do what thse did to her. the most important thing is not to behave like vanessa does
I had people in high school bother me. It got pretty bad. I tried ignoring them and that didn't work...probably because I didn't ignore them from the start. If people know they bother you, they will keep on at you.
Nessa's mom seems really sweet
I hated the way she treated her mom.
I agree and a great actress too
I can't blame her for that she was going through a lot
She didn't deliberately try to disrespect her she was just super angry and felt like she was not understanding her
this movie rocks.
This movie reminds me of my middle school days :[
Man, Vanessa looks so beautiful dressed like that at 4:00 and it's so sad that she almost died forty five minutes later, thanks to Stacey and Nikki.
I feel sorry for anyone that has or is being bullied. I've been there before and was bullied for six years
ZainR i was bullied at work by a manager and a few coworkers
i LOVE vanessas mom. Now that is a STRONG beautiful woman.
Vanessa's mom should have pulled her out of school or sued the school for what happened to her daughter and she tried to kill herself and do you think the bullies even care? Vanessa needs to stop talking to those girls. I hated school and this is what is like for a lot of kids being bullied and hated and having no place to go! People are so angry and Stacy is a lair and fake! I hate Stacy and her friends! She played a cruel joke on Vanessa and the party that was going way too far! Way too far!
oh god, i love that 70's show xDD
thanks for cheering up anyone who loves that show and is sad about this movie
I hate what is happening here to Vanessa and she was angry and upset and what those girls did to her pushed her over the edge 'I hate Bullies especially ones who bully people for no reason! Bullies are cowards! They really are
she told her off at end she should of done in beginiing
I'm not sure this is why, this is just an idea, but I think that the director made Vennessa run off again and again because it shows that running from the problem doesn't solve anything.
my kid would be in so much trouble if he/she was doing this,
would have computer/phone taken away, any tech communications away , do chores.
AmberAcyde I would ground them the whole semester and make them go to a therapist weekly. They harassed a young girl, defamed her and made chop all of her hair off and run away from school. That is not just bullying but pure maliciousness.
poor vanessa. They're obviously just jealous of her cause she's the smarter and better looking out of all of them. Great acting!
Don't worry Vanessa I'm coming
Hey, at least she had Emily who was kindhearted and genuine.
I like the fact that this movie has got the courage of so many people who have been through this to speak out.
something like the happened to me, but definatly not as bad as this
x
i can't believe nessa can still forgive her, i do believe the rights of forgiving but this has gone too far
you guys do realize that if vanessa spilled the beans and said that stacey copied her, and stacey got in trouble, the bullying would just get THAT much worse because they now have another "reason" to do it.
Maybe not because she would have spilled the beans in the principals office
Vanessa needs to stop talking to them.
Stacey was her one time best friend. Losing a friend hurts
+Raquel Ruiz The thing that's so sad is that it seemed like Stacey wasn't even comfortable going along with it. Like she wanted Nikki to like her and to be popular so she was going along with the other girls even though she knew it was wrong.
needs to stopped now
Good idea
@@raquelruiz5311 the final scene Stacey's experienced that feeling. That's how it hit her so hard
I'd like for people to stop blaming Vanessa for the shit she's going through and for being angry. I love how supportive her mom is in the second part of the movie but you have to understand that her mom contributed to Vanessa always forgiving Stacy because she always pushed Vanessa on Stacy and told her how she was an 'important friend' asked her if she 'did something to upset her' etc she did it to help Vanessa but it was exactly why Vanessa thought she had to defend her friendship with Stacy.
THIS.
I dont understand how the fact that Tony not returning Stacy's feelings and having feelings for Vanessa is "doing something to Stacy". All Vanessa did was tell Tony that Stacy liked him its not her fault that Tony isn't interested in Stacy in that way and it did not give Stacy liscense to do what she did to Vanessa. If she was so upset by the fact that Tony wasn't interested in her and saw Vanessa as a threat then she could of just stopped being friends with her. Although that's still a stupid reason to end a friendship with someone over, atleast Vanessa would of known the truth about how fake Stacy was earlier and it would of saved her from going through all the pain she went through. It seems like Vanessa's friendship with Stacy was contingent upon Stacy getting what she wants and having things go her way and if they didnt go the way that she wanted she blamed Vanessa for that and enabled the abuse against her. Vanessa's friendship with Stacy was already over when Stacy found out that Tony wasn't interested in her and liked Vanessa instead. Vanessa declined Tony's request when he asked her out because she knew that Stacy liked him and she was trying to be a good friend. Stacy has major narscissm issues like did it ever occur to her that Tony just didn't like her in a romantic way and that Vanessa isnt responsible for someone else's feelings? There was no fixing things with Stacy because of that, I think the only reason Stacy continued to pretend to be Vanessa's friend was to save face with her family and to convince people like Vanessa's mom that she was a good person and Vanessa was just overreacting. I'm so glad Vanessa finally realized what a fake bitch Stacy was and kicked her ass to the curb it was long overdue.
My mom laughed at me when I was in that state.... or her boyfriend would just keep yelling. Vanessa was lucky that her mom at least cared!
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I'm not blaming her but she could have stopped being friends with her.
I don't get why she would still want to be friends with her after this scene? She should have known after the birthday party debacle. I would never talk to someone that did that to me again!! In fact I would probably have confronted them in front of the whole school and cussed them out!!
@@josephdelledonne2098 hey I We're have Done The same Thing not to be Friends with her After that.
I had a similar situation with a fake party but the complete opposite with a roommate who was a bully at one point in my life. Rather than tell me that I was invited she lied and said that she was having a party and that I wasn't invited because I was still under 21. I found out that it was fake when I came home late from work to avoid the party only to find that she went out with her friends.
At 2:45 when they started playing that low music and they showed those other girls in Stacey's room I thought, "OH NO," and my stomach nearly turned over.
I agree, Vanessa just wants it to end, anyway it can. Who could imagine someone being so devious as to deliberately wanting to detroy someone, it's unthinkable, but it's real life. And when people still tolerate this without doing anything to stop it, then it will go on and on. Just because someone else is being bullied doesn't mean you look the other way. It happens not only in high school, but everywhere, at home, at work etc.
Sadly, true
I dont understand why Vanessa was so desperate to be Stacey's friend after what she did to her...why cant she just ignored her and make new friends...
girls can be so cruel :'(
i see it all the time around my school and i always try to talk to them and be their friend, of course my friends think im becoming a "loser" but i dnt even care anymore
This is way I only have a handful of friends...trust no-one!! So many fake people out there.
i have a few at my job
You can tell Stacy felt guilty at the slumber party
Yeah because she thought that she was playing a harmless prank until she say that Nessa was in the hospital.
it didnt get canceled they just lied to her about the party being there or that day.. and she just got tire of all the shit they did to her.. i cried :( i cant believe girls can be so mean.. i've never experienced this but this movie makes it seem like a horrible experience..
"she was just PMSing that day" which day was that, looked like she was PMSing all though out the movie lol
so true! if was vanessa i would hang out with the black girl... she seems sooo nice! and alexa vega is great in this movie!!
I know! I hate that Venessa is just letting Stacy to that to her. I would never let it get that far. Venessa need's to grow a backbone.
she's just extremely angry and hurt that stacey minipulated her again. i'd cry too.
yah i know what you mean but the reason i can relate to this movie alot is that simlar things had happened to me
My god. Stacy just wants to see Vannessa wither away into a pile of suffering dust. They WANT her to die? They think it's funny that she's in the hospital? Then, they are the worst friends in HISTORY.
ROXIO7 Pathetic! 😡😡😡
it started when i was ten and finally this year turned out to be the first one without any bullying!!
i cried so much watching this movie because it so reminds me of myself
being hated by the whole class is so hard!!
yeah but getting out of that was not pretty though especially because my parents wouldn't help me. and the reason they starting bullying me in the first place made absolutely no sense
the club part is so sad.. i think this whole movie is sad..
sometimes it happens. Few people have power over us. We try to be closer to them, we try hard, we really love them you know. but of course, if things do not go well, we learn the truth behind the facade.
if i was her, i wouldn't cry AT ALL, i'd be pissed and start swearing and stuff. lol
alexa vega looks like a younger version of eva la rue (aka Natalia Boa Vista from CSI miami). they're both so beautiful!
vanessa is being naive, but at least she had some sense knocked into her head at the end:)
Wow, this scene made me cry lol
wow this comment is from 12 years ago
Hope ur having a good life ❤
Didn't realise people type lol when they're crying
@@andyandys5356 This comment was made almost a decade and a half ago when I was 15 years old. Not sure what you're expecting in response to your reply 14 years later but uhhhhh thanks for caring about a stranger's usage of "lol" I guess
Cry of laughter?
OMG how could Vanessa let Stacey walk all over her..i would have rated Stacey out so fast with the paper situation !
But she doesn't at the end.. and you have to remember that this girl is in 8th grade.
@@vivianbroda3900 how do you know they’re in 8th grade does it say that in the movie
@@qqisjdk a year late but their actually seniors as revealed toward the end during the graduation ceremony
This made me cry :( and it isn't helped by the fact that Vanessa looks like one of my best friends..
Vanessa is so gullible like they clearly arent your real friends
@FamousCityLights I don't know, I'm from England and I had a fairly similar experience, except i think it only lasts for the first few years at secondary school.
the part were vanessa shows up at the club and no ones there makes me cry everytime ):
If that happened to me, I would have been pissed and they probably wouldn't hear the end of it.
no no no not the pills NOT THE PILLS! NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
This happened to me. Once on halloween when my friends told me they'd meet me to go trick or treating and they left and went without me and I went all by myself. And the other time was when we went to a movie theatre and well.... I was seated and waiting for them as they were waiting outside the doorway. I went out to tell them the movie was starting and they'd told me they'd be there in a sec. But they didn't and I was left alone because they ditched me and went to another movie. Sad but true.
omg i can so totally relate to this..i lost all my friends over sum stupid boy..i popped pills i cut and everything else..they wuldn't speak to me..the whole school hated me..i was always alone..i feel for her.:(
This exact thing happened to me in grade six and in grade seven.
Why would Vanessa want nikki tolike her? Nikki is beyond not worth it.
High school. Worst years ever. Both for parents and children. Been there, done that.
dont kill urself ! ok?
u gotta get back at them hoes
ey this scene reminds me of thirteen the ending lol
that scene was upsetting it reminded me the days i was bullied
wish my parents were like that:/
so true. this happened to me at my new school, except not that bad. Everybody kept calling me anorexic because I'm really skinny. Even my friends would do it. I told my mom and dad, and it just seemed like they were no help at all. They just told me it was something I had to put up with. I wish my parents helped me more like Vanessa mom.
I was told to ignore my bullies.
@@telayajackson2.023 I was told the same thing
oh my gosh..why does she keep going back to her? Doesn't she know Staci is using her?...
Being 14 is coming from the book, on which this movie is based on. They never said they are 14, Stacy kissed a guy who was 16, she was expecting him to be a better kisser because he was older than her. Hope it clears.
ive had this happen to me before, not QUITE so extreme, but pretty bad.
my mom switched me to a different school after that, which is what vannessas mom really should do.
@1taylorswifttwilight Alexa Vega, she's also the girl from spy kids. ;D
my friend started laughing at the part where she had the breakdown ;-;
This is so sad. Doesn't make any sense how cruel people can be.....are.
@dingetje
We've all made that mistake at one time or another. In grades 4 and 5, my friends would turn against me time and again. And it hurts, big time!! Everyone kept making me think that it was my fault, which I thought it was because I kept trying to reconcile with these guys just like Vanessa did with Stacey. There were times when things would be cool, but the cycle of rejection and bullying would just keep repeating itself over and over again.
I dealt with that...in my early 20s believe it or not. Things would be cool but I was the ass of their jokes and the scapegoat of their problems. I’m no longer friends with them. The ring leader reached out for reconciliation but I rejected him. Just because I forgive him doesn’t mean I want them back as friends.
I've been a teen too lol, but it totally depends on your personality, not so much on your age if you can control your own temper. A good thing is, teens grow up :)
some people are like this as adults. they don't outgrow it; people can have a good or bad personality at any age! some people become like this due to things happening to them
that vanessa girl is so naive I mean I think it's horrible what they did to her, but she's still desperate for stacey's friendship
So happy Im from England. School was NEVER like this.
me too, I can't believe I even survived that, even when it started when I first went to school
“Vanessa stop! Stop! It’s ok come get in the car, come on get inside”.
It would be better off just transferring schools and start fresh. Poor Vanessa.
True, but this was her last year in middle school and she graduated...hopefully they won't all go to the same high school.
lovelyvegan princess Ummm she was in High School?
I thought it was middle school. When Tony and Ezra were fighting the girls talked about "middle school boys".
Transferring schools wouldn't work
@@Dennis-en8iw it was 8th grade.
if you know how to pick your friends its not like thiss at all
just make good decisions!!
i love this film.
believe me when i say this....u can make it by urself...even though its hard. im a only child...raised toughly...i spent my childhood all alone..& i dont kno much abt friends..& i grew up partially okay in the outside..but der was always alot missin in the inside...well i dont have friends....& i kinda hate myself..so i dont like suffering..or letting anyone hurt me. im a tough girl outside & inside....and no one messes with me and get away with it...cuz i can be very evil and poisonous.
does anyone else wish they could put themselves in a movie just so they could slap the hell out of some the characters
lol when her mom says "christian aguilera" shes got an accent so it sounds cool
such a shame! you dont realise how vindictive and malicious kids can actually be, really good movie
"There's really nothing we can do."
Bullshit. This is exactly what they said to my friends mom while he was being verbally abused, harrased and assaulted by a group of the most cowwardly excuses for human beings on the planet. There are plenty of things that could have been done. Their just affraid of stepping on peoples toes
She was trying to get back in the group. That happens a lot in real life. Some Girls are willing to put up with any crap to get back in with the group.
when I first saw the movie i couldn beleive how mean those girls could be..but asI
follow part by part I discovered that if anyone who gets victimised by such subjects do nothing they will not stop....ethical limits do not exist anymore..
yeah...think so, too...
That a lie she copy her paper
i think she was probably thought that if she was friends with stacey it would go away. btw if i got invited to a party by the wrong date then i would probably take the present the next day and chuck it at their head and say have a happy birthday!
Sooo mean!! >.< For a second, I thought she was dead.
The mother wasn’t there and she got it lol, I wonder if I’d ever met a Barbra in real life
something like this hapened to me, my friends all started to be this new girl, and she was turning everyone else against me. i didn't have my mom or anyone.
this movie is so good as alot of people have been through this, ans this kinda shows you what and what not to do
10 out of 10
i dont get it; whats the big deal with moving school/town?!
then all the problems would be solved