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  • Опубликовано: 15 ноя 2024

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  • @OhSoSpurs
    @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +21

    🚨ANNOUNCEMENT - WE NEED YOUR HELP 🚨
    For those who do not know me, my name is Jim and I host the OhSoSpurs podcast. I formed this group following a tough period in my life. I was diagnosed with cancer on the eve of my wedding and my life turned upside down. I found out that I was going to need chemotherapy and other treatments that not only put my life at risk but also meant the prospect of children which had always been a dream of mine was something that may no longer be possible. Once I had the diagnosis, I said to my fiance that if children and a secure future is what she aspired to have in life, then this would be the right moment for us to take separate paths and I would never see it as a reflection on her as a person, it was completely understandable for her to build a new life with someone who she could build a family with and know for certain would be around. She looked me in the eyes in the hospital as we waited to see the Oncologist and told me that regardless of what happens, she wanted to be with me over all those other things. She attended every single chemo session with me and long night. We moved in with my parents as I no longer had an immune system and could not go outside to get my own things safely. Having that support from her is what got me through, I had security that someone was there for me through everything. About mid way through my treatment though I experienced something new I never expected. As I was having a shower and watching clumps of hair clog the drain as the chemo was taking effect, I burst into tears. I had never felt this before. A crushing sense of not being worth anything, a realisation my body was dying and a feeling I was dragging someone else into this situation. It is hard to explain until you truly go through a period of depression but its not as simple as hitting the gym and reading self help books. It was like my brain had realised that the body keeping me alive no longer had a purpose and it was time to remove myself from this world. I would go days where the idea of taking my own life did not scare me at all, it felt like a natural way to move on from this situation and allow others to move on too. I could not get out of it. However I did find things that helped. One was actually
    @LoveTheShirt. The positivity from guys on there when things were not so good with Spurs gave me that little boost each day and some distraction. Football became a solace escape. I even went to a meetup when I probably shouldn't have that the guys had arranged, they bought me drinks and I had a great night hanging out with the voices I enjoyed listening too. They may not remember it as it was years ago but thank you guys.
    Anyway, fortunately, for me the treatment began to work and over time I gradually got better, finishing chemo, rescheduling my wedding, getting my hair back and even thanks to the wonders of modern medicine managing to conceive my son, Jack.
    As I got better though and went back to normal life, back to following Spurs, I found myself being continually dragged down by the negativity around the football club I love that I had previously sought as a place of support. New groups had emerged heavily focused around everything negative or 'holding the club back'. I started to find the idea of talking about Spurs a drain. My escapism had gone.
    So I created OhSoSpurs, a place where we don't talk about those things that drag you down. A place where we could focus on enjoying our club for what it is rather than needing to feel it was our responsibility to make it something else. I asked if anyone else was interested and it went viral. This is where DJ, Jonny, Si and Stu reached out to say they felt the same. The OhSoSpurs group and podcast was born. We have seen some amazing support and lots if growth over the last 2 years, thank you to all those who listen every week, we genuinely love what we do and speaking with you.
    Now the dust has settled and we have a rhythm with the show we thought about whether we could do something bigger to help other people who may be feeling lost. We met
    @CherriesTalking
    who had started a support group for Bournemouth fans who may be struggling with mental health. A place where fans could go if they felt lost or just needed someone to talk to with their football club at the heart of it. As me and the guys were talking it quickly became apparent that we had all been impacted by mental health in our families or personally.
    A final story I wanted to share with you is about my brother in law Toby. A kind, gentle and non confrontational individual who loved Chelsea football club. Toby was preparing for his first day of work and his family had arranged to take him for a pint to celebrate. He had folded his clothes and sent a happy birthday message to a friend and gone for a short walk before heading to the pub. However, for a reason we shall never know, he decided in that moment he would take his own life. Instead of celebrating something with Toby, his family and friends found themselves grieving the life of a wonderful person with no answers as to why.
    These experiences have given us questions similar to the experience that drove the creation of
    @CherriesTalking
    . What if Toby had someone to talk to, a group of people associated to something like football who he may have felt he could share his pain with. Would he still be with us today? In the moment I also considered my life, if I had not had my support network, would I have decided than Plan A was the only real option.
    So here is where we need your help, we want to get Mental Health first aid certified and learn how we can help people who may be looking for support. We want to get ahead of things before it is too late, to create a space for fellow Spurs fans where they know they can go as a first point of call. Somewhere with no judgement or even requirement to talk about their struggles, but a community of safety and support. A quick and easy place you can go if you just need a chat, distraction or support in navigating how you get help.
    The costs to get certified is £250 per person. We are targeting £1000 to get 4 of us mental health first aid trained so that we can set up our official channels and start providing support. We have set up a justgiving page and would welcome any support you can make. If you can't do not worry. A simple like or share of this post helps too. I will personally cover the costs if needed.
    justgiving.com/crowdfunding/OhSoSpurs?B3XZm3y

  • @JamesForbes-j4u
    @JamesForbes-j4u Месяц назад +25

    From Melbourne and just love watching a such a uplifting show. Keep going

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks James! Hi from the other side of the world in London! COYS

  • @jaymac6831
    @jaymac6831 Месяц назад +3

    Loved hearing your testimony about your own life and those around you and I'm glad you've come out the other side. I love what your doing with the pod as well...its much needed...great to see Jay on. One of the very few i can listen to on anything Spurs related....COYS.

  • @birmensdorfer2036
    @birmensdorfer2036 Месяц назад +11

    Confirmed…you guys are best spurs pod group talking lots of sense and keeping a good perspective on life and football

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Cheers, mate. The pod always makes us feel better, especially when the Spurs SM landscape can be bleak 🤍🐓👍

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад

      Ah thanks mate, appreciate you taking the time to send on some kind words. COYS

  • @MultiDwang
    @MultiDwang Месяц назад +20

    Thanks for your Channel Guys. I came to football in recent years after my wife died of cancer. I have come to love the game, but to hate the toxicity around many of the online fan sites. I don't follow Spurs because it means something. I follow them because it means nothing, and yet gives me great joy and comfort. I am so glad I finally found a youtube channel that has perspective.

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +3

      Sorry for your loss mate. That must have been a real tough period. If you ever fancy a chat with us waffling old farts on the panel our door is always open. Much love to you! COYS

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад +2

      So sorry for your loss and glad to have you on board. Spurs is never dull, but it is fun to share the journey with likeminded fans 🤍🐓

  • @dannybizimovski9188
    @dannybizimovski9188 Месяц назад +16

    YOU ARE SUCH A GENTLEMAN. WHAT A BREATH OF FRESH AIR FOR FOOTBALL

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Appreciate your support Danny! COYS

  • @jaynepoland4615
    @jaynepoland4615 Месяц назад +7

    Does put things into perspective. All the very best to you and the team. I work in a supported living care home for people with mental health issues. There is still a stigma about mental health (although it is better than it was) every time someone like yourself and the lads speaks up it helps. I knew there was a reason I loved your channel. 👌🏻😘

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад

      Thanks Jayne ☺️ always great to get to read your comments. Hope you have a wonderful weekend. COYS

  • @Rolf2009kling
    @Rolf2009kling Месяц назад +9

    Another GREAT discussion! Big thanks all four of you!

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Rolf! Hope all is well with you. COYS

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Thanks for the support, Rolf!🙌🤍🐓

  • @sterlmorrison
    @sterlmorrison Месяц назад +4

    Loads of love for this episode boys. Didn't know about Jim's story and the genesis of the pod. Will be donating to an amazing cause 👏. Also fair play to Jay, great guest, really enjoyed this one fellas. Up the Spurs

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you for your support 😊
      Yeah Jay is great, we will have him on again soon! We have Ben Bowman on the show tomorrow and then Hotspur Hippie later this month. COYS

  • @anugranmathimugan2778
    @anugranmathimugan2778 Месяц назад +4

    Great Pod as always people . This game was never going to be pretty with all those changes and youngsters sure enough it turned chaotic after the initial possession domination . But you know what ? they hung in there when they could have collapsed. Kids got a bit of fight in them . Not surprised Gray is play as a right back . Wenger used to introduce young mids by playing them on the flanks . Fabregas , Ramsey , Flamini all started at RB or RW, till they had the defensive know how to play in central mid.

  • @brentonjc
    @brentonjc Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your personal story Jim. You've certainly been through quite a journey. Thanks for your openness and honesty. OhSoSpurs is the only Spurs podcast that I subscribe to now. I just had to escape the toxicity and negativity of the others ... they weren't doing me any good. Keep up the good work.

  • @christait50
    @christait50 Месяц назад +9

    So much respect gor you guys .. i was talking to another spurs fan about my worry for johnsons mental health .. i was called soft .. we have such a long way to go

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Chris! Indeed, poor guy, it seems to affect him a lot based on his recent reactions to the fans too. Hope he gets through this phase

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Yeah it’s improving, but you’re sooooo right, still a long way to go sadly. So proud of Jim for opening up and sharing. Thanks, Cris🙏🏻🤍🐓

  • @simonfoxhall8604
    @simonfoxhall8604 Месяц назад +2

    Wow, Jim!! What an opening. Very moving.
    I hate all the negativity. Considered critique is one thing. Mindless negativity is quite another.
    What a fantastic charity. I’ll support gladly. I know the feeling of despair. So, anyone, or groups, trying to make a difference I hugely respect.
    Thanks for all you do with the channel ☺️ And I wish the very best of health moving forward 🩵🩵

  • @davidpurser126
    @davidpurser126 Месяц назад +3

    Jim, so moved by your journey, thank you for sharing. It's been a circuitous road to this podcast, but really enjoying it. Love all the lads, but really enjoyed Jay's thoughtful insights. Massive support for all of you 🙂

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад

      @@davidpurser126 thanks David, appreciate your kind words and support. Also, for being an OSS legendary member 😅

  • @camroc33
    @camroc33 Месяц назад +10

    Great background story well done Jim a podcast that cares and is involving is just what we need

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Cam 🙂 COYS

  • @ianwest7003
    @ianwest7003 Месяц назад +13

    My eldest son had a suicidal time in his teens. Thankfully, I have a wife who developed Counsellor skills in this time period. He is now a solid adult with great career, focus & upcoming marriage. Respect for the movement & the care.

    • @christait50
      @christait50 Месяц назад +1

      I'm.glad you got through it mate

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Hey Ian, thanks for sharing, great to hear things turned around for your son. COYS

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад +1

      Thanks Ian. It’s amazing how many people share these experiences. How wonderful your wife could use her knowledge to support your son. Take care and up the Spurs🙌🤍🐓

  • @agnewwright754
    @agnewwright754 Месяц назад +8

    I agree with Peterbates7005. Always wondered why I was so attracted to your channel. Now I know. Big up's to all you guys. COYS!!

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад

      Thanks 😊 best thing is getting to know like minded people such as yourself. COYS

  • @peterbates7005
    @peterbates7005 Месяц назад +12

    Awesome intro and thanks for sharing the journey. Now I know the background it makes sense why I look forward to this podcast, genuine people 🥰

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +2

      Thanks Peter :) COYS!

  • @totalsportshpotography
    @totalsportshpotography Месяц назад +4

    What a wonderful Chanel keep up the great work and positive vibes. I’m sick to death of channels with toxic messages all the time who basically are more happy when things go wrong so they can moan and demand another manager goes. Well done lads COYS

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад +1

      Cheers mate. We are supposed to be SUPPORTers after all🤷🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🤍🐓

  • @kevinholditch
    @kevinholditch Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story as to why you started the show. You are incredible how you have faced up to the challenges life has thrown at you.
    Stay strong and keep up the good work!

  • @DrGonzoSokkaJenius
    @DrGonzoSokkaJenius Месяц назад +9

    Having just been through Chemotherapy for Hodgkins Lymphoma, I fully understand the emotional roller-coaster you've been through. I spent a year in and out of hospital (including many stints in Intensive Care) until finally being diagnosed. The one thing that got me through all of this was the unwavering support of my wonderful wife.
    We all go through tough times, and we all need someone to help support us through those bad times. I wish you well with your charity - a most noble cause.
    Steve Hope
    Perth WA

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Steve, hope the chemo is going ok. Pleased to hear you have a great wife by your side. Keep us posted, much love to you and your family. COYS

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Best wishes for your recovery and future health, mate and glad you gave such a wonderful wife to support you.
      Up the Spurs🙌🤍🐓

    • @DrGonzoSokkaJenius
      @DrGonzoSokkaJenius Месяц назад

      Thanks guys. It appears the chemo has worked. Love the non-toxic tone of your show. Long may it last. COYS ps Jim, I'm sooo jealous of your hair 😂

    • @dutchgrass
      @dutchgrass Месяц назад

      All the best for your recovery mate!

  • @chrislonie7642
    @chrislonie7642 Месяц назад +2

    Well said Jay. The side has to be looked at in the context of the whole PL and the context of we've performed first 4 games. Big improvements and they haven't gelled yet.

  • @torbjornjohansson1303
    @torbjornjohansson1303 Месяц назад +5

    Love this channel! Never ever do I want to win a trophy as much as now just to quiet the negative fan base! I hate toxic Tottenham fans more than Gooners, that’s how bad it is unfortunately!

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад +2

      Torbjorn, hard to disagree with you. COYS! 🤍🐓

  • @mikenayler5281
    @mikenayler5281 Месяц назад +5

    At the end of the day….football is just a game. A passionate game but still just a game. Whether the team you support is in the Prem or any other division, you support your club come what may. It gives us pleasure every week of the season and it’s exciting making signings in the windows. Unfortunately there are people, who are never satisfied, they become abusive to managers, players and to other supporters and this negativity does nobody any good. We all want success but it shouldn’t be at any cost.

  • @SDethy
    @SDethy Месяц назад +4

    Good episode guys keep it up🤜🤘

  • @barneyhall2753
    @barneyhall2753 Месяц назад +4

    Ange has talked about in the past, how he wants to give the players the tools to allow them to come up with their own solution in a game.

  • @gowokeyoubecomebroke.4747
    @gowokeyoubecomebroke.4747 Месяц назад +1

    Up The Spurs! Best Wishes for the show's continued success!

  • @MrJellybeen
    @MrJellybeen Месяц назад +8

    Welcome back Jay

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +2

      A great guest. COYS

  • @paulkirk6989
    @paulkirk6989 Месяц назад +6

    OhSoSpurs , the antithesis to Henry Wright TV. One makes me think one makes me chuckle .
    Perhaps negativity , disappointment even anger has been ingrained in Spurs supporters due to season after season of false hope and expectation and underachievement. it's human nature. After all , every supporter of every club starts his journey from the same place.

    • @anugranmathimugan2778
      @anugranmathimugan2778 Месяц назад

      How does Henry Wright have the subs he has despite the pure drivel he spouts.

  • @sidenote7555
    @sidenote7555 Месяц назад +3

    Part of me thinks the changes and subs were to show Levy how we need better depth? 🤷 i mean if he's thinking long term?

  • @shasta5611
    @shasta5611 Месяц назад

    Thanks Jim - I know that football can be such a connection point for people, but perhaps especially for men. I had tears in my eyes while you were giving your intro as mental health issues can affect many of us. Football clubs can be a great point of community, and nobody knows better than this than Ange. This is why he builds such strong support at the clubs he leads. Thank you for creating a positive podcast in a sea of negativity.

  • @drjohnnyd7
    @drjohnnyd7 Месяц назад +5

    perspective

  • @petersaprun5218
    @petersaprun5218 Месяц назад +5

    Good morning boys sunny day in Sydney

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Good morning Peter!

  • @Mungotino
    @Mungotino Месяц назад +1

    Great show, thanks boys

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад

      Our pleasure, glad you enjoyed it! COYS

  • @gregorzinho
    @gregorzinho Месяц назад +1

    Ange’s hands-off, let the players figure it out style reminds me of the great Phil Jackson. That was his philosophy in coaching the Chicago Bulls to 6 NBA titles.

  • @COYS72
    @COYS72 Месяц назад +5

    Evening all!

  • @soulsnipergaming6081
    @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад +4

    PLAY Spence at right back.

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Agree, if Porro is unfit and in EL/ other games. Always good to have competition for places. Remember when we had Walker AND Trippier at the same time.

  • @Rolf2009kling
    @Rolf2009kling Месяц назад +6

    4-1 Spurs Kulusevski x 1, Solanke x 2, Son x 1...COYS!

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      That would be amazing

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      Deki double header?🤣🙏🏻

  • @soulsnipergaming6081
    @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад

    One of the main issues I feel., is the transfer window. Has done very little for the first 11 bas Solanke.... And he needs to start scoring.

  • @davidpurser126
    @davidpurser126 Месяц назад +2

    Love trepidatious 🙂

  • @soulsnipergaming6081
    @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад

    I thought face injury was v Forest, not Palace.

  • @COYS72
    @COYS72 Месяц назад +2

    Q. Within our Squad, who's Ange improved & do you trust him to develop players 🤔

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +2

      Its a good question! Hard to say as most of them are new singings since he joined. The only first team players he inherited that have stayed are Porro (improved), Son (declined but likely due to his age), Bentancur (hard to judge due to injuries) and Romero (hit his peak under Ange but regressed this year).

    • @deandrury4330
      @deandrury4330 Месяц назад +1

      @@OhSoSpursI would also add vdv he is 1 of the best cb in the premier league and he wasn’t one of the best from the get go same as udogie I think he was voted into the premier league team of the year in his first full premier league season

    • @soulsnipergaming6081
      @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад

      Kulu has added quite a bit, but I think this would have come regardless.

  • @stephenparker8250
    @stephenparker8250 Месяц назад

    The example of Phil Jackson not saying anything doesn't work as he had Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen and Rodman to win the game. Where are our leaders in this team?

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      Not talking about the players. Purely comparing the leadership style of Ange to other high profile leaders. Managers don't change their style of leadership depending on who they manage. They may change tactics and treat some players slightly differently to others but their encompassing style is consistent and tied to their personality. COYS

    • @dutchgrass
      @dutchgrass Месяц назад +1

      As Jim said I was referring to the style. Also Jackson did have those players at the Bulls, but he had the same style at the Lakers and not just with the Kobe and Shaq team but the weaker ones that followed.

    • @stephenparker8250
      @stephenparker8250 Месяц назад

      @dutchgrass those two teams were used to winning things still though and have that mentality ingrained in them even if they aren't good enough. At Spurs I think they've forgotten. That's why Liverpool, Utd fans etc can get behind whatever manager because that's what they expect. We simply don't.

    • @stephenparker8250
      @stephenparker8250 Месяц назад

      @OhSoSpurs But in his other teams he probably had leaders in it. I can't see any leaders in this Spurs team tbh. Romeros head seems to be turned, Son argues with the ref instead of geeing up his teammates and Maddison seems to be just for cameras.

    • @OhSoSpurs
      @OhSoSpurs  Месяц назад +1

      @@stephenparker8250 agree with you that the squad lacks a leader. Kukusevski seems to be emerging as the only character he can rely upon

  • @soulsnipergaming6081
    @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад

    Sarr has been shocking.

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      So…. yes, for the last couple of games he’s been way below his best. BUT he is quality and will continue to be very important for us.

  • @soulsnipergaming6081
    @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад

    He looks 'lost'...... He is tactical clueless, plays one way. Issue is the one way is poor. It clogs up the middle, leaves no space to play and leaves two players defending half the pitch.

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад

      I alluded to the same fear in times of his “look” but as the other boys said I don’t agree he is not in control. There are different types of successful leaders. I chose to remain optimistic and believe in long term success.

    • @soulsnipergaming6081
      @soulsnipergaming6081 Месяц назад +1

      good morning Johnny. I hope Ange shows some tactical changes. Needs to create some space for Kulu & Maddison to pull the strings.

  • @kem6291
    @kem6291 Месяц назад +5

    God bless this channel! Football is losing its origins community unity bringing people together! Win lose or draw you support your team! I started going football with my dear dad 50 years ago, my dad who was a spurs fan through and through our love of the team and the game was our time together he passed away last year I miss him so much to the point that I felt what’s the point of me being here anymore but the one thing that helped me was my club and my Spurs family and going to watch them to still be close to my dad so your cause is spot on! I’ve stopped watching the toxic negativity a long time ago your channel is so refreshing and a safe place to listen to like minded Spurs supporters! Keep up the great work! It’s much appreciated!🤍

    • @ossjonny
      @ossjonny Месяц назад +1

      Sorry for the loss of your dad. The memories you have of times going to Spurs with him are amazing. I’ve been going with my two lads, and occasionally my daughter, since there were six years old. Now they are 2&23 and we share two STs between us, meet the OSS crew for a couple of pints before every home game. Fortunately my amazing wife knows how special these times are… like us, I hope you continue to enjoy many more days at WHL and success in the future🙏🏻🤍🐓

  • @MrJellybeen
    @MrJellybeen Месяц назад +2

    13:20 me when I hear its Shepard's pie for dinner :(