Myka Stauffer Wanted To Adopt ANOTHER Child, YouTuber LEAKS Her Past?
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- Опубликовано: 7 июл 2024
- Myka and James Stauffer revealed what happened to their adopted son, and people are extremely upset.
This is the second and final part of the series on the Stauffer family.
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Myka and James have no right to adopt another child after what they did.
I know😡
For sure
Frr
Wouldnt it be illegal or noted for trying to adopt again
off topic but AAA YOUR COLOUR RECIPE PFP
All I'm hearing is: "We wanted special needs, but not THOSE special needs."
Yep, I thought that too
She said they were ready for 99 conditions...they are disgusting..poor baby
Yes. We wanted special needs but we wanted it to be easy.
Peace And Love she literally says in a video that all medical professionals warned her not to adopt him to begin with and she joked about it going in one ear and out the other. She knew what she was getting into
For real
“I feel like a failure as a mom”
Maybe cause you’re a failure as a mom, bro 👀
Can't be a failure at something you never were... 😤
she’s not only a failure as a mom, she’s a failure of a human being.
she's not even a mom- her maternal insticts?? nowhere to be found
She’s a failure as a human being
I wouldn’t even call her a mom…
They wanted to adopt little Huxley after he was diagnosed with brain tumor and even when they found out it was terminal, because she wanted to milk his funeral and get all the sympathy and views from it. When the diagnosis changed to autism, they still kept him for fame. When they found out his death wouldn't have been a way to get rid of him, the rehomed little Huxley.
This is all the truth. It's insane yet the truth. And it's even more disturbing, scary and evil than we all imagined
Got shivers there, what a world !
She's clearly suffering from severe Narcissistic disorder. It's horrific that she has access to any child.
😯
Possibly. Very possibly, these people don't deserve respect for throwing away this poor baby lije a used toy.
Oh my god even reading it makes my stomach turn and knowing it happened, if not in the exact way you said, something very similar. It’s so sickening.
“Protect his privacy” clearly that wasn’t what she was worried about when they documented every part of the adoption and his life with them.
I was thinking the same thing. She rewords thinks to fit whatever situation she's in at that moments. I've noticed her contradicting herself a few times over the years.
She wanted to keep what happened (her giving him back to China) a secret, that's what she meant. I don't exactly agree with what she did, but just know that that's what she meant
@@samanthacottrell8646 wdym "I don't exactly agree with what she did"? Why is there an uneeded "exactly" in your sentence? Just say you don't agree with what she did "at all", not "exactly".
"Anything that happened in the home that was hard for him- that's not fair for me to put out publicly. That's his privacy."
Where was that so called privacy when she filmed him... on multiple occasions.. showing him crying and saying, "he's having a meltdown", "he's throwing a tantrum", or "this is his 8th meltdown today".
She’s a freaking you tuber for god sake! There’s no such thing as privacy! If she kept him private, she wouldn’t have of gotten as many views and followers as she wanted. She exploited him on purpose. She’s delusional and disgusting. Am done
How many times is this poor excuse of a mother gonna say “like”.
Emmalynn Voldivosky Every like is her saying “like”
Like, like, like y'know?
LITERALLY like.....
Like I know like it’s like the like I swear she keeps on saying like
Take a shot everytime-
"it drives my husband bonkers" CHILDREN DO WEIRD THINGS JAMES
"he looks at me" ,,,, ok??
I caught that too... Everything is always SO HARD for *THEM* as parents...
What about the children? They have to attempt to survive living under these narcissistic, indifferent, downright neglectful parents...
These parents are clueless at best... Grossly Negligent & Abusive at worst...
paigey ok HE DID NOTTTT HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY THAT WHAT-
His ex-wife who said she herself has narcissistic tendencies, said James is very narcissistic.
That is one of the most disgusting and bizarre parts of this story. He's a little boy. If someone staring at you drives you bonkers, you are not mature enough to be a parent. You're not mature enough to be in Jr. High School. These people are the worst!
huxley should receive compensation for the emotional distress these “ex-parents” inflicted on him
They should have to give him all the money they made off of the poor little guy! What a narcissist she is!!!!!! She didn’t even bother telling her “followers” they even dumped him!!!!!!! She cared NOTHING about his privacy! What a joke!
He should get all the money they made off him!!!!!! And more!!!!!!!!
Agreed it's the least they can do as an apology.horrible ppl.
@@kathyh4804 in some videos ahe used to mock the way he talks as if she was a Chinese person very sad they didnt deserve Huxley.
I agree
"He wanted this" he's 4 years old with an attachment disorder. 🤦♀️
Exactly! It sounds like disinhibited attachment disorder.
This. Giving agency to a four year old is just not taking your own responsibility as a parent.
4 year old with an attachment disorder who had finally become attached to his sister and James and then gets ripped away from them...
iman is mayonnaise What part of this is too difficult for you to understand?
@iman is mayonnaise kiddos with attachment disorders often have no stranger danger radar. Any adult that's nice to them is now their best friend and they need to stay with them because that's who's going to protect them. At least in the kid's head.
People who defend them.......... Honey, if they wanted the kid as much as they said, they would've FOSTER him first. No adopted him right awa--- OH. WAIT. You can't film and exploit a foster kid.
Serahmatsu very good point!
OMGGG
At first i gave them the benefit of the doubt but noe I know more and I’m against what they did 99%.
How were they supposed to foster a child from china? It doesn't work like that.
MsBlondeYo Ms.Blonde lol you can foster here in the states and then decided you will adopt out of the states. Let’s me real, they wanted that coin from being ‘the perfect white family that saves a poor little child from China’
Let's call "private rehoming" on online marketplaces what it really is...
Human Trafficking
Alice in Dumbeand 👏👏👏👏
Is it even legal to "privately" rehome a child you brought into the country, get citizenship for, and agreed to be responsible for? I feel like that should be illegal especially when bringing children all the way from their home country and disrupting their entire lives, taking them from everything they know. How does this even work with immigration laws? Its gotta be illegal.
She is evil and it should be illegal.
Agreed! 💯
@@kristingallo2158 I haven't done a lot of digging, but from what I've gathered, it's legal. The cases tend to go through the adoption agencies though, not on f'in online marketplaces. But it happens enough that "private rehoming" is a thing.
But like you said, it shouldn't be. It seems like it's flying below legislators radars, so no one has made a law banning it.
I mean, if you just give your birthed child away, you can be charged with abandonment and neglect. I don't see how this is any different.
I mean . . . Kids always stare when you eat. I open a snickers and young relatives are like 👁👄👁
LOL!!! Yes!!!! My kids (9, 11 and 18) still do that! Even if it’s not something they particularly like! 🤣🤣
Lol
I can’t eat anything I don’t want to share in front of my two year old. She will follow me around and spit out the food I gave her just so I can eat my food. It’s just what kids do.
Exactly!! This is why I eat my Ben and Jerry’s while taking a bath and watching Netflix. If I didn’t do it that way I wouldn’t get any of it. 😂😂. Plus he’s from a different country with different foods. He was young but he was old enough to be curious about what he was seeing. I’m not sure what kind of foods they eat but I guarantee it’s a lot different than the foods he was used to in China.
@@HakunaMatata21 my mom would eat food in the car before coming inside 😂
so basically:
"we wanted a child that had special needs, but didn't have to be taken care of specially."
They wanted a kid that has special needs that don’t live long. So they could be the hero parents and don’t have to take care the kid for ever. Look how disappointed when myka found out “the tumor” in huxleys ct scan is not something detrimental. She was basically very upset because he had autism not cancer
bethany i’m not trying to be a Stan for the RUclipsr but she did put him into therapy for his special needs though I do understand that they could’ve done better but it’s not easy to take care of a child with special needs.
@@isa-qm2jy I understand what you mean...but in this case, it is largely an exploitation of a child, and is very damaging for him.
The long reason why - in the first place they ignore the doctors advice prior to adopting the boy, saying " the words went in and out the other ear". So why are they suddenly listening now when they choose to be irresponsible the first place..they specifically wanted a special need kid but don't bother understanding the boy's situation (food insecurity and mistaken it for the boy throwing a tantrum) and igniting the doctor advice.
Secondly, rehoming a kid comes with lots of risk as well. There are currently no proof that the kid has been sent to another family. Myka claimed that the new family has medical training but she also said she had medical training and that's why she specially wanted a special need child (with obvious special need trait) who is easy to care for.
Thirdly, the Stauffer are loaded, they just bought a new mansion, went on a new holiday after making alot of money off the adoption video and crowd funding without caring about the boy's privacy, yet they cannot afford to get him a better treatment. Not to mention adopted kids who are sent away, might not get readopted, and with this boy's existing attachment issue it will be very difficult for him to adapt to a new environment, not to mentioned a new family. Changing environment once is already quite damaging to a child growth, let alone a kid with special needs and attached disorder. Based on all the envidence out there, not a single one can support how this family really care for this child at all. Maybe you give them the benefit of the doubt, but do more research on it and if all the envidence from countless source (including the Stauffer own words that they will support their biological children if they behave this way instead of giving away) will definitely be obvious to you that this family was using him for clout and returning him when they found it too difficult to handle.
Thank you for knowing how to spell. A breath of fresh air.
Translation: Great for views and clicks but low effort.
“his new mommy has medical professional training” don’t YOU have medical professional training???
edit: yes ik not all medical training is the same, but the whole reason they took him home when they were advised not to (because his condition would most likely get worse) is because she has “medical professional training”
That part made my head hurt
what is 'medical professional training' supposed to mean anyway? CNA, RN, doctor, radiologist, receptionist at a doctors office? Very vague to, yet again, try to make themselves look good because they chose a "qualified" new mom.
yeah she claimed to be, then in the part where her former neighbor was talking about her she said myka didn’t know how to do any of it and she paid people to do her work for her in nursing school, and she only became a nurse because she was bored at home. Truly disgusting
lol she somehow became a RN and only worked for a year until she got fired for throwing a metal tray at her coworker, who was pregnant
Jennifer
I thought that too. Like what is a dentist supposed to do with a special needs child.
The way she was treating him when he was having his "meltdowns" says it all.... very cold and unattached! Poor baby!
For real. Those weren't even meltdowns. He was just being VERY slightly fussy. The sad part is the way she treated him on camera was the nicest she ever was to him. Imagine off camera. Scary
The way she treats him she was having meltdown says it all very cold and unattached poor baby
The way she was treating him when he was having his meltdowns say it all... Very cold and unattended! Poor baby for real life.
Myka: *constantly goes on about how she’s a nurse*
Also Myka: *unable to fulfill her son’s medical needs*
She said she was a children's nurse to didn't she?
She claimed an oncology nurse...don’t know what to believe anymore
no because she made a point to make it clear she is a nurse
Maybe she is not even a nurse
Then she was a bad nurse
"Anything is possible with a China adoption" she described like that she was gonna return a wish product. That's so disgusting
I dont even return wish products and they return a whole child
btw i think all chinese adoption associations make it very clear that most children up for adoption HAVE ISSUES. they are obligated to say that. This just prove they did not do enough research before adopting, OR they knew that, but acted like they dont to show they are nice people.
Jefffer They said that the doctors and the adoption agency told them and warned them about his issues and they claimed they didn’t care and it “went in one ear out the other” because they “LoVe HiM So MuCh” and “He’s UnReTuRnAbLe”... and then returned him..
Jefffer The thing is they not only knew, they _specifically asked_ for a special needs child, then, when they were told he may need more care than they initially thought, she said it went ‘in one ear out the other’. The whole situation absolutely infuriated me, but that part gets me the most.
Ik it makes me uncomfortable that my name is pronounced like hers and that I’m gonna become like her 😖
they need to blacklist her from ever adopting again.
They are blacklisted from any legitimate agency. Once a parent re-homes a child they are not allowed to adopt again. However they can go thru private adoption or the black market.
@@chrissyb7916 but don't you need documents to prove it's really your child when you want to send it to school or when you want to travel and need a passport for your adopted child?
I doubt they would try, it’s not like they actually wanted to adopt in the first place and they’re never going to recover on social media
Te Es yeah that’s my question too. But I guess you can enroll kids in school and take them to the doctor if you have a power of attorney that gives you permission. The passport thing I have no idea though.
“New forever family” “Their former son” “Rehomed him”
How upsetting, it sounds like they’ve tried to get a dog from a shelter and it didn’t work out. A HUMAN BABY BOY! This breaks my heart a million times
A human baby boy! This breaks my heart ❤️ a million times. For real life.
“Former son” there is no such thing you cold hearted beasts
Isn 't that the truth? So sickening!
Im so glad my parents kept me, i got generalized anxiety disorder and autism, I'm scared of leaving the house
@@darkenedabyss7808 same
Former son there is no such thing you could hurt beasts
Didn’t she say herself that the doctors told them NOT to adopt the child because his conditions could get worse as he grows??
YEP. Then she refused to take responsibility and said that the doctors didn't tell her the full story (NEWS FLASH: Yes they did, she just tuned it out when it benefitted her and then started listening when it continued to benefit her)
"iT like weNt like thRouGh like oNE eAr anD like, oUT like like like like like like like like like like like tHE like oTHeR. i MILk mY soN bEcaUse iM toO fLaT for HIm to MILk mE sO i feEd him unNuTritional aRSe jUicE."
Two words. Views. Money.
And then suddenly they listened to the doctors when they advised James and Myka to rehome Huxley.
She was saying that when the doc was talking it went in one ear and can out in the other
Can they, like, idk STOP calling Huxley their son... He isn't theirs.
They treat him like an object it’s so gross
I read it instead of he, and it makes me so sad to realize that they probably called him it and I am gonna go cry now
Morgan Pettipas righttt
@@natalieh1950 😷hugs
It’s so annoying they segregated him from their biological kids so they could use him as a way to get money and clear her conscience.
As a foster mother I’ve seen failed fosters....on occasion. And failed adoptions very rarely and when those happen it’s usually understandable with really good reasons. It’s heartbreaking but knowing what I know, it does happen. I came into this series with an open mind with what I’ve experienced but I’m absolutely fuming now!! They used this baby to make money then when he was used up they sent him on his way!
And failed adoptions very rarely and when those happen it's usually understandable with really good reasons. It's heartbreaking but knowing what I know, it does happen . I come into this series with a n open mind too with whatlve expiced but I'm obviously fumming now they used this baby to make money 💰 when he was used up they sent him on his own way !
That is so true
She wants to protect his privacy, AFTER waving him all over the internet. Cry some more.
And saying his name
This is gross. They should not be allowed to have another child after the first one. They have already proven they can not care for a special needs adopted child.
Aren't adoptions pricey?
I agree
Star Carlson Usually, depends on the agency
Star Carlson international and baby adoption can get v expensive. But adopting from foster care isnt pricy and can be free
Luna Lovegood I’m pretty sure the woman who adopted the child (for some reason can’t think of her name) paid $500 just to see his file, right?
A child isn’t a dog you can’t just rehome it.
Jan Gacha I totally understand what you mean but it’s best to rehome ANY animal when you know you won’t be able to love or care for it the same, it’s better than it getting neglected or hurt. But I agree, what Myka did was disgusting😕
She rehomed pets before
Right yeah. It’s heart breaking enough when you have to rehome a dog, but a CHILD???
@@MAli-ms8sn how was it disgusting?
@@adrianna9458 how wasn't she!
Myka said that they spoke to “tons” of doctors prior to the adoption and were advised not to adopt this child, but they know more than the doctors, and here we are......
She literally said out loud that doctors and others told her not to adopt him, and then went to someone else in order to hear what she wanted, ignoring the advice of professionals at first then ran with just one person saying it will be fine and that it will all be hunky dory. I can't remember the exact video, but there's clips out there
Those doctors understood her motivation. They were looking out for the child.
For real life.
I hear online marketplace re-homing and I simultaneously hear human trafficking!!!
idc if she couldn't "handle" taking care of the first child she doesn't deserve to adopt another one.
Having a kid with a disability isnt anything like having a normal kid
@you're totally right no I don't.
AT LEAST not right away!!!
Avery Martinez my son has the same issues and yes, it’s hard and if he is under or overstimulated, he will cause harm to himself or others but it’s something you have to work on and sacrifice for some who needs you. They had a ton of money they made off of him to do more.
THEY * her husband is guilty too.
“Anything is possible with a China adoption.” She’s literally comparing the son to a stereotypical Chinese cheap product.
honestly it makes me sick.
I know its so so sick
Bad ebay purchase.
Shes wants to return the item amd wants a refund.
Believe it or not, I learned from a couple who adopted from a very overcrowded adoption center in China and that’s not just that one, all (or majority) is overflowing with children and babies, so much so that some children don’t get the care and explicit diagnosis(s). Absolutely not saying what they did is okay, because it’s not! They knew he had health problems before and they opted out and that’s terrible.
My Chinese husband is mad at her because she makes it sound like all orphans in China are damaged goods. There is many reasons kids are orphans in China and most common is the child rule (now is two kids)
yeah "grieving" so much they went on a expensive trip to Bali... Mom of the year folks...
i’ve never heard her say “my son” but instead she says “adopted kid from china..”
I always thought it was so weird how strongly she singled him out from the other kids!
@@mariahhr she used to mock the way he talked in a Chinese accent like when he said apple and her kids would laugh.disgusting
Nah she just says the name she gave him nothing else-😒
The only time she referred to him as her son was when she said « former son » as if your son can suddenly stop being your son.
She says adoption kid from China
They said "forever home" and "when we got (child's name)" like he's a dog.
Rehoming is a common term used for animals. Its gross.
Michelle Howrad oh because animals are worth so much less than humans?
@@user-vm2ep5mt8e yes they are we have more emotions. Rehoming isn't ok. I love my human kids and my fur kids. But I recognize the difference
zee • Yes. Humans don’t put animals above their own species no other species does
They definitely thought of him like a show dog
"I didn't adopt a little boy to share these things publicly" umm that's exactly what you did...??
Yeah exactly what I was thinking
Exactly!
I know!!
Hypocrisy level
People wanted to know
This wasn't mentioned in the video but another reason rehoming him is so hurtful is because some people with autism need structure and any minor change in that schedule can send you into a meltdown so I can't imagine the pain, confusion, and fear that little boy experienced having to leave the family he learned to grow attached to. He'll grow up hearing about this knowing he was given away because he was too much to handle - it will crush his self esteem. If he didn't feel like a burden, he'll definitely feel that now.
She has videos when states “I don’t care what doctors say: my son is not returnable” I MEAN
I couldn't believe it when I seen that video smh sickening 😪
Is not a product is a kid who breath
"He always chose other people instead of us in public situations. He signed and showed tons of emotions to show us." Girl, he's telling you that you're being bad parents.
Right? OMG, if the child is choosing strangers over them, there's probably a very big reason for it.
Not really
Drinking game: take a shot every time she says "like" or "privacy"
or "me"
You better be talking about a shot of water 😂
No thanks. I like my life.
Sounds like alcohol poisoning.
i would end up in the HOSPITAL
As if naming him Huxley wasn’t abuse enough..
Ikr. Her kids has the craziest frickin names. Radleyy and Jaka, NaKova or Kova, Onyx and Huxley!! Never heard any of these names before Miss Thang....
People that name their kids like that are idiots
i don't understand why the name are abusive can someone explain >.< sincerely
He dodged a bullet tbh because she also considered the name Geronimo
Riiiiiighttttt????!?!?
I never heard of a word " former son" before. Former boyfriend, husband yes. This is really horrifying. That little angel deserves more. I think he's better off without these people. Now, I'm scared that they will do it again. 😰😰😰😰
she’s loaded how can she “like not support the child like enough”
Because she wanted that LV bag so much and the mansion and the Cartier bracelet. You know the necessities
It's fair if she can't support him, she shouldn't have got him
@@halahalahala2015 right. like how could one live without them.
I was about to ask how many times is she gonna say like 🤣🤣🤣
Maybe she didn't mean financially? If Huxley had severe behavioral issues that led them to being violent and putting her biological children in physical danger, including her newborn baby... It's possible that she was just not able to support what Huxley needed in order to be safe around her kids
Half of their “apology” is blaming the kid for his disabilities.
It’s sick
RIGHT!!!!
Exactly and she’s just given up her child and is trying to play victim
It’s disgusting how she tries to be the victim
Or the agency...
Am I the only one annoyed with the amount of times this woman says “like” ?
Yes!!!!!!!
Yes!!!! I just commented the same thing! Shes definitely not intelligent!
Definitely not. After the tenth “like” I wanted to pull my hair out haha
Yes!! Very annoying smh
They made so much money out of H that they could have used some of it to hire a full time nanny with special needs training to look after him in the only home he knew.
"I didn't adopt a little boy to share these things publicly"
I- but, you did? You made it like a whole vlog/series of his life and adoption process. The audacity to say that you didn't wanna share those things publicly, yet shared his whole LIFE with you publicly, speaks volumes on how much you care about your self image -_-
Couldn’t have said it better.
PREACHHHH
its absolutely disgusting.
Classic Narcissist.
disturbing:| af
On top of that she even had people donate to the go fund me so they could afford the trip to the adoption... or the adoption itself, didn’t she? Even more so why she owes people an explanation, they paid for it!
and how they have made all the adoption videos private 🙄🙄
It's probably better that child was “returned” because he would have suffered in her hands.
I agree sadly my first thought was atleast maybe this poor baby will be safe 😭
Or because he didn't fit in her aesthetic of "Perfect family."
Yeah it’s really sad that they “returned him” but it’s also good that the child has a home with parents that can actually take proper care of him. But it’s super sad because that child is being moved around. Heart breaking!
Feeling his care would have been inadequate and improper is how I feel this would have ended had they not “rehomed” him. As much of a mess this is, I am hoping that the child needs are met properly now.
He was already suffering, she was starving him
This is so sickening to hear people defending these actions. How can a toddler “choose” a family?! Saying that he wanted this is just insult to injury! He probably just excited to get away from abusive people. Shouldn’t that have been a red flag to the adoption agency how he was happier with other families but they were the only ones who had issues with him.
They put the blame totally on that poor little child who had no say in the situation.
LITERALLY
A red flag to adoption agency is how he was happier with other family families but they were the only one who had issues with him.
That’s what I was thinking. “This is what he wants, this is what’s best for him.” Because you treated him poorly!? Because you’re not trying to meet his needs despite what you say?
As horrible as she is, can we all just be thankful he isn’t with her anymore? I sincerely hope that he’s with a family who can love and take care of him the way he deserves. Let’s hope her other kids have some stability and love coming from somewhere.
For real life
For real life.
They always have a camera in the kids faces so what’s this “privacy “ she keeps talking about trying to keep 😂
It's NOT about the"privacy", it's about THEIR embarrassement!!
Yes only when it's convenient for them...
exactlyyyy brooo 🤷♂️😭
Having a camera on you 24/7 in your living room is not the same as having a camera on you in your bathroom. There are levels of privacy.
They filmed his tantrums but he deserves privacy, bish wut?
"The Adoption Agency didn't disclose all H's needs"
Shut up. They did. It went through one ear and out the other.
Shut it and you don't deserve another child.
EXACTLY THEY ARE NOT STABLE ENOUGH TO EVEN HAVE KIDS.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
Thank you!
THEY STRAIGHT UP SAID THE WANTED A DISABLED CHILD
*That's what Spill didn't say...*
**Myka showing up with her receipt and Karen privilege** “yes I’d like to make a return, the quality of this child is sub-par!”
😑😡
"They're not a family. They're a brand."
Just like the Gardner Quad Squad. They also made some major money off their kids.
They aren’t “grieving”, they are RELIEVED. She kept saying “didn’t want to mess things up” which means she didn’t want to stop the money train. They are such hypocrites it’s disgusting.
That’s not what she meant.
They are happy to get rid of him :(
Zoe Eh I agree when she said didn’t want To mess things up... I didn’t even think of it like that... I thought they were saying they didn’t want to mess things up for the kid... i feel so bad for the kid...
They moneytised his rehoming video !! Yeah never exploited it .. none of that money will go to him ! Over 5 million views
Fr when she said that her emotions on her face didn’t show saddest nor grieving 🙄
Spill: "Please wait until the end of the video before forming your overall opinion on what happened"
Everyone including me: no
Right! Lol ditto
Before I even clicked...
“It’s time to rage”
IzaCchi Samee dudeee
🤣
Absolutely not waiting 🤣
They talk in circles and use "big" words incorrectly. These two are scary.
What I've always found weird is how James says 'how hard *Myka* has tried' and how hard things have been for her. He seems to be a present father with the other children, so why does it sound like he was no part of this???
SHE COMPLAINED ABOUT HOW HE WATCHES THEM WHEN THEY EAT?????? I-... Shes asking if she’s ready for a 2nd adoption????? Oh my god? This is disturbing
Exactly that is ridiculous!
That's weird. He's four for goodness sake
Almost every child does this, she just needed another excuse
It depends on the situation but I think its a good sign when children/baby's pay close attention to what you do, and its even better when they do the same thing or try to mimic it in some way!
And even if that “isn’t normal”, the child had autism, there are things she just had to deal with, to learn to handle, because normal off him is not the same for her or her chiodren, and as parents, the father and the mother are responsables to teach their children to understand that their little brother is normal, he just has different necessities.s
What I heard: "ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. ME. US. US. US. US. I. I. I. I. I. WE. WE. WE. WE."
Not: "our child, my son, my child, our child, our baby, Him. He. His, Their."
They're narcissists and didn't even think about his best interests.
Genevieve Gleason 😂 honestly tho
she's a girl tho, but yeah so right
mathers
no I’m pretty sure the kid is a boy
Selfish woman
I could imagine he didn't need a camera in his face either. So glad he isn't with this vile family anymore.
It’s frightening how vulnerable the adoption laws make children leaving them open to all kinds of abuse and neglect. This is a much larger issue than this one case.
I really just want the children to have a happy life.
Alina J hes in a better place now that he’s away from them
@@xyla3513 I hope
Me too!!!
Preach! I just want Huxley to have a life where he flourishes!!!
Huxley seemed so sweet and fun, he just needed some support, I really wish he has found his well deserved forever home❤️
She duct taped his thumb. DUCT. TAPED. HIS. THUMBS. That's child abuse.
I couldn't even imagine doing that to my toddler. That makes me so sick, my heart aches for that beautiful boy.
@@S19657 one of her biological child also sucks their thumbs but she doesn't do the same to them. its only Huxley
i don't think that's abuse my mom put tape (not duck tape like painters tape) on my thumb so i wouldn't get a gap in my teeth but in the south we always have remidies she prolly got it off a mommy group
Samantha l know right my heart hurts for that little kid
Just because abuse happen to you doesn’t mean it’s not abuse
As someone with chronic disabilities which developed in my late teens, I politely messaged the mom asking her what she plans to do if her biological kids turn disabled as well, and if she plans to give them away too.
Not until after she exploits them of course 🙃
A old teacher of mine had a special need. He was born in Vietnam and was very poor. And he was born around the time of a war. And a family had decided to adopt him and his sister. He was raised amazingly and his whole family loved him so much. And he got married and had daughters. And he is currently mourning the death of his adoptive mother.
The words “former” and “son” just don’t make sense together.
It sounds like Huxley was already passed away 😅, heck even our deceased family member wouldn't be called as 'former'
“They gave us a sheet with a list of 100 conditions and we were ok with 99 of them” apparently not because you tossed him aside like he was trash and then took off to Bali
Yeah and they did a fundraiser to get money for him but they didn’t even show us anything
1000th like
Micha Mariana luvfyguggg
The missing part? He was just horrible at representing their brand, connection with their followers, generating ad revenue or corporate sponsors. No "it factor". No screen presence.
Their new baby from Moldova arrives July 6th. They are naming him Orwell Stauffer, and he looks like a much better fit. Blonde and just adorable. He has Downs Syndrome, but Myka was a nurse, and can take care of him.
@@tranzco1173 How do you know this?
"forever family" they're talking about him like he's a pet, i can't.
I was adopted from Romania 🇷🇴, I grew up with issues and my mom bailed out so I feel this kids pain :-( I’m lucky my dads side of family took the time to raise me .
Me too, adopted from Romania by a (divorced) single mother with 2 other children and a full-time job. It was a recipe for disaster. My early/teen/twenties were destroyed. I received Jesus Christ at 26, and I had an anchor for my soul and life. Now, I'm happily married and looking forward to having our own children. I really thank God alone for drawing me to Himself and for giving me a second chance at having my own family soon. Glory to God!
They're adopting kids like Thanos collecting infinity stones.
At least thanos knows the important the infinity stones
Yeah (; - ;)
@@moon5497 I know thanks knows his stuff i like some other peopl
Thanos would never let an infinity stone go.
Omg 😂
Why adopt another kid when u gave up the first adopted kid? Istg people are losing brain cells during quarantine...
She has been like this for awhile now...evil witch
Are we surprised? They decided to have another biological child after adopting their special needs child but claim he is "too much to handle." If he was that much work, then why did you have another kid???? They don't care.
Because the reason they wanted to adopt a kid in the first place still exist. You’re acting like they gave up the kid because they didn’t want to help a less fortunate kid anymore. They couldn’t help THAT KID but he’s not the only unwanted child in the world so he’s they should surely adopt. What self less thing have you done lately?
@@nikki2442 soo they basically EXCHANGED him. Can you really defend these horrible actions?
MONIQUE FLEMINGS They definitely shouldn’t adopt another child.
I became epileptic when I was in 7th grade. I couldn't imagine the feeling if my parents gave up on me and tossed me away. I just wanna give that little boy a hug! He deserves so much better and I hope he's getting that now. God bless him and the people who are looking after him now.
Similar thing happened to my partner as it did with Huxley. I hope everyone who is neurodivergent is NEVER hurt like this.
Notice how she's always saying how hard it was for HER. How difficult these times have been for THEM. How upset THEY are. They never considered how his life would be, and already was, impacted.
This whole situation just screams "I wanted to adopt a child who has special needs and is from another country to make me look like an amazing person, but when the child actually showed behaviors of their problems I got annoyed and gave it back"
My god the possibility that they thought of h-- as an "it" breaks my heart
They legit got annoyed because he stared at them.. While they ate.. Something so harmless drove the husband "bonkers" as they said. Makes me think what legit behavior issues he had and how they treated him because of it because it "annoyed them".
@@KarloStars This is a bad sign for them, staring is a way of curiosity for kids (not even just H--, this is normal for kids). This means he wasn't taught how to eat, but it's good because he was trying to learn for himself. He was showing progress through staring, and he might have autism so he doesn't know staring is creepy and rude (not insulting him, that's what people consider it), but it also means he LEARNING for himself so good on him.
She even said if her bio children had special needs, she’d do anything for them. Just shows she never saw that little boy as one of her own
Myka: "I wOuLd NeVeR gEt RiD oF mY cHiLd"
also Myka : *re-homes him*
thanks for the likes everyone didn't expect that much :)
Re-abandons him tbh
I think she said MY CHILD. so like thats the 🍵
She’s acting like he’s a handbag that she liked when she bought it but then got sick of it and returned it. Discusting
Don’t use their words of “re-homing” him like he’ a dog. Say it like it is.
They’re RE-ABANDONING him.
And James ***
endangering a pregnant woman's baby is the most vile thing you could do. i hope the former nurse delivered a healthy baby. i can't believe she hurt a pregnant woman. she's sick in the head and needs help. and that on top of abandoning a child. i can't believe how awful this woman is oh my God.
“4 year old boy whose privacy should be respected”... which curiously was not respected when you were shoving a camera in his face.
I am a mom to a 16 yr old with high functioning autism and cognitive delays. He’s also deaf. I’m 1:40 into this video and I’m in shock.
I’m sorry, do you think I was told about every special need my son would have? Nope!
We went for years without a diagnosis and knowing something wasn’t right. Because my son is deaf, they didn’t have a sure fire way of testing him for autism. The appearance of autism made itself very known. Then, in February of this year, he was diagnosed with epilepsy.
It doesn’t matter what information you are told or aren’t told. You adapt.
Don’t try to change the child to fit the environment. Change the environment to fit the child.
They don’t deserve the chance to adopt again. IMO
PERIOD! you aren’t told about what potential special needs your kid could have when they’re born!?? my little brother was diagnosed with autism only ~3-5 years ago (hard time remember, i’m only 16 now and he’s 13) and it’s not like we were gonna “trade him in”?????
That's what I thought too. My aus babies are 20 and 6. This kid was a 3. With proper help he could have had a lot of growth. My kids are tested at a 2&4
Eloquently put!
Totaly. My older brother have autism and it’s not always easy but it’s life. My mom would cringe if she had to listen to this horrible story 😓
Exactly this. Would they have sent one of their biological children to another family? No is the answer. They used that poor little boy for online fame and monetary gain. When the going got tougher than they were willing to deal with, they simply got rid of the problem. Worst. Couple. Ever. They should never be allowed to adopt ever again.
THAT CHILD CANNOT EVEN CONSENT TO BE ON CAMERA LET ALONE CONSENT TO BEING RE HOMED AGAIN AFTER MOVING AN ENTIRE CONTINENT
(*Edit: tysm for the likes kind strangers Idk how to handle my new fame 🤣🤣*)
Exactly ! If this would have been done off camera and without monetizing him it wouldn’t be as bad as it is now.
omg tysm for the likes kind ppl ik its not seen as alot but thanks hehe
@@jenathent4840 they would never have done it if it wasnt for money, lets be real
When you have a child biologically you don't know about ALL physical or emotional problems they may have. There is guarantee they will be healthy forever.....like ever! An adopted child is no different. My heart breaks for him because he had no clue why he was abandoned. I just pray he is in a safe and loving environment now and is now truly thriving.
Imagine a little child staring at you when you eat, and getting infuriated by it......😢
Myka: *rage*
Normal moms: *making faces at the staring child*
literally so many kids do it
I was a child who stared when people ate, even when I wasn't hungry or even hated that food. It wasn't that I wanted it, it was just a habit, but I was yelled at so much that I'm actually scared of even looking at people chewing anymore. I'm hoping their reaction wasn't shouting at him for staring, but I wouldn't be surprised.
“Like respect his privacy like hes a child like but like also like i filmed him for months for like, my own social gain and like, money, but like that was harmless cuz like its money. But like be private for him like, k?”
Anonymous the amount of “likes” is so accurate 🤣💀
Oooooof
I'm like done 😂
Yeah I like how privacy is suddenly very important, yet she films all of her kids (who are too young to understand what's happening, let alone consent to it) so she'll get sponsorship money.
It hurt to hear that many likes
"It's not about me," she says, right after making it about her.
tHe KiD kEpT wAtChInG tHeM wHiLe ThEy'Re eAtInG aNd HeR hUsBaNd LoSt HiS mInD
yet she wanna adopt more kids, her husband probably would hurt them.
sule b all the video clips I’ve seen of her talking about updates on her adopted child are all about her! Or how he was acting more normal. They were awful
I’m sorry. If she didn’t know that most China adoptions come with that rocking behavior in cribs then she didn’t do her research
That's a common symptoms with all adopted children.
Cribs then she didn't do her research
When someone adopts a dog and gives him away, several times, it says a lot about their character. If you do this to a dog you certainly are more able to do it to a person. And they did, to a special needs toddler. It’s heartbreaking what I’m hearing actually... I’m a nursing student, vegetarian, dog and human lover, and everything about this goes against my values. I understand it must not be easy at all coping with having a SN child. But nothing justifies their actions.
“His new mommy has medical professional help” uuuhhhh wasn’t that your excuse about being a nurse that you could handle it? ☕️ just sayin
So are these parents gonna give back the money or....?
@@jzv.71
Okay ?......
@@jzv.71 And?
What money?
@@lauralol6511 they got money from the videos they made with him... Fund raiser to adopted the child.
@@lauralol6511 all the money they earned of the child for 3 years
we all know why she adopted him, and it wasn't because she genuinely wanted to give a child a home, but for her narcissistic supply, and when she realized that he wouldn't give her what she wanted, she got rid of him.
The classic discard.
Woman, YOU impacted his life the minute you laid eyes on his picture. You returned him when you promised you'd never "return" him. I cannot imagine the rejection this little boy must feel.
So their 4yo son who has autism and does not speak, told them he wanted another family?
Great point!
10:56 “we would never give up a child”
THATS WHAT YOU LITERALLY DID I-
I rolled my eyes at that part
Narcissist logic works like that. They are separate from their actions.
it's unfortunate that boy ended up in that family but i'm actually glad he's not there anymore and hope his new caretakers are more loving and capable
I know this is old news, but I have mild Autism Spectrum Disorder. Change is so hard for me, and someone with more severe autism have an even harder time. I'm so disappointed for this child but I'm glad he's in a better home with a mom that can take care of him the way he needs
I love how she apologizes to her viewers instead of Huxley. Its how I know she isn't sorry about the Huxley situation she is sorry about the public backlash she received smh 🤦🏾♀️
Bingo
Yep
Oh yeah thanks hux for all the money we made off u that's what she thinks
She is only sorry for backlash she has no regrets
Privacy
“My child is not returnable.”
Honestly, "rehoming" him was the best thing to happen to the poor kid. These awful people were not the right family for him. I hope the rest of his life is much better and more stable 💖
Can’t take anyone serious when every other word in their statement is “like”
Right!? English is not my first language so I rarely use it but it just lets all her statements appear even less serious. It's a general pet peeve of mine though
IKR
@@makaylavandamme2502 Now visiting the rehab
Lina Lavender that is all I could think of with her quotes
Yes, or repeatedly refers to themselves as a mama in a creepy baby voice. Gross.
I don't trust anyone who says "like" every other word.
hard agree
Agree 💯
idk if this is a joke but ur obviously being srs about not trusting her but i think her saying "like" a lot shows that she at least does care and its not scripted and thats somewhat decent honestly
@ending explained and???? That's their job. So her agent did their job, and what?
she said it 18 times
“We want to protect his privacy.”
TRANSLATION: “We didn’t want you to see us abusing him.”
Once I got to this part of the series, I went and gave my mom a hug for never giving up on me. She didn't adopt me, but I have NVLD so this story hurts me deeply, Huxley didn't deserve to placed with this incompetent family, and I'm glad he's gone to a family that can ACTUALLY help him.
"Former son"
That is.... so painful to hear.
Her just saying son in general just disgust me