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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
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Hey!!! Thank you so much for helping all of us!! Your words are so comforting. So much positivity!!❤
Thankyou Anna, I'm learning so much about myself. I'm so dysregulated, my life has become so small, I no longer leave the house.
It has felt impossible to heal myself for so long.
I have signed up for the Hay House workshop and extras. I have watched the first one today and I can feel a shift within myself and for the first time in so very long, I feel great relief to know, I'm not going crazy! ... so, Thankyou . Thankyou for finding me, before it's too late 🙏.
I'm going to find the course you spoke of to help write and let go, and for the first time, maybe join a group too (this one). Thankyou.
I'm doing the daily practice now but I find I'm procrastinating alot but when I actually do it I feel great!!
Keep up the great work! It's worth it!
Nika@TeamFairy
Hey!! Working through your new book as of recently!
Thank you, Anna, for your work.
I was very happy to be live with you this time, after consuming yours and other CPTSD content for very long time before.
In the livechat I noticed a question from someone who is in the same situation as me: The person is 47 years old - I am 47, too - and we want to get back into life after roughly a decade of isolation - the sadness which seems inevitable to face, mainly by missing very important professional experience and income - we expect that very hard to deal with.
I'd like to thank the person for sharing the question in the chat - if you are that person and, by any chance, you are reading this, I feel strongly connected to you and would love to be in contact to share experiences and support each other.
But first I'm gonna brush my teeth now 😢
I was so limerarant tthat i lost my self and sabotaged everything.
This is amazing ❤
I did the daily practice religiously for the better part of a year. I reviewed the practice link numerous times to assure I was following the practice as prescribed.
I don’t write to undermine its value but I found it an added task with no clear appreciable positive effect on my dysregulated stress responses. Could it be that it is a practice that works for many and not others?
Some things don't work for everyone. Don't feel like you're doing it wrong! There's tons of other practices to try!
People might not “believe” in CPTSD but it is a legitimate diagnosis, so it’s best not to say you have it unless you’ve been properly diagnosed by a professional. If we throw the term around it becomes meaningless and it’s guaranteed that no one will take it seriously.
It was great to be away !
What's in your tea?
Hi! I joined your 3 day seminar but here in Hawaii, it starts at 5am. Anychance you will replay at a later time?
It's a very lovely space
QUESTION: How do I stop trying to fix people or fix stuff for people?
How do I get one of your awesome CCF coffee mugs??
QUESTION. how to stop manipulation
Wonderful. Hello ❤️
What is the link for the class?
Thank you ! How do i start feeling i am open to new person in a small town . Its such a waist of time and so hurtful ! That i spent all this time on him !
I encourage you to read this free PDF from Anna, "How To Prepare For a Great Relationship": bit.ly/43SH8aV
And if you're interested, try Anna's course "Dating and Relationships for People with Childhood PTSD": bit.ly/3IBbrv7
Nika@TeamFairy
Oh my goodness Ana ..I adore you and have been following you for a cpl years sort of in the backround. I honestly have never figured out how to do the daily practice (maybe self sabotage) I fee like I don't get it .
I have fear..is easy.
but I have resentment doesn't seem to work fir me?¿ you say I have fear that I resent. ? Not sure I understand.
I gotta get your book ..
When you finish the Daily Practice, you are welcome to join our free Daily Practice calls where we practice together. On the calls, you can ask questions about the method if you need clarification :)
• Daily Practice: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice
• To join DP calls - contact our customer service team at hello@crappychildhoodfairy.com
Nika@TeamFairy
QUESTION. Why don't you tell everyone to take vitamins and minerals? This is 101 for head problems. I've the full Monty as far as abuse goes and every time I started getting wacky, I'd also stepped taking supplements. In Australia we are short of minerals in the soil. This is huge people.
TY for the reminder! I try to take Omega-3 + CoQ10, D3, K2 daily and magnesium nightly. I heard Shilajit is more comprehensive but I just couldn’t with the taste 😛😝
@christinaforras so important yet so missed out by almost everyone. Also stopping carbohydrate completely for a week or so has an insane effect on depression. And you get to eat steak every day!
@@andrewparry7528 yes! Refined carbs and sugar can really wreck our mental clarity & emotional capacity. ❤️🩹
Looks lovely!
Question: Does resentment equal fear? I don't understand the connection. Thanks!
Question...i have anniversaries in the fall. The triggers and memories seem to be much worse this year. What is your suggestion as to how I handle them. Currently I am in therapy. It just seems like a lot to deal with.ty
As I suggested in the reply to your other comment, try The Daily Practice, it is a good tool to help with getting regulated: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice
Nika@TeamFairy
Which is what he called our relationship ! I found myself so lonely after my mum passing i couldnt be alone for a while . I feel so dissapinted that he called me toxic . Ans he would spy on me. And co.w up to me in public saying he loved me. I feel better notrhinking aabout him !
BLAST! I missed it!
See you next time!
Nika@TeamFairy
How di you know if its over ?
Yes , i went to a detox scenter ans i told my therapist about you ! What isHay House?
Hay House is my publisher. They are a major, global publisher of self-help books.
QUESTION: is there any standard test that a professional uses to diagnose cptsd?
I can share the quiz Anna has created, "Do you have CPTSD?": bit.ly/3X9MZ7J. The quiz is not intended to be diagnostic, but rather a tool which helps you understand some common manifestations of CPTSD. There is no scoring or ranges. They are for personal reflection around ways you may have been affected by past trauma.
Nika@TeamFairy
Hey Anna: love your work and have been following you for a couple of years. I just wanted to weigh in on comments you make in a lot of your videos regarding interacting with people. IMHO, you often imply that to not engage in society is tantamount to cutting oneself off from life. I disagree. I enjoy my alone time and I would prefer that to spending hours with people I have little in common with, who just want to engage somebody in boring, meaningless conversation because, for that brief time, they are able to forget about their existential crisis. You'll notice by the comment threads in many of your videos that a large proportion on watchers will actually comment on how they find solitude and being alone quite empowering. (BTW, I'm not a hermit, I have a great job where I interact with hundreds of people every day.) Superficial relationships, you might say, but years of observation have shown me that that's the way the world is gravitating towards.
You still interact with hundreds of people a day, though! So you’re not cut off from society. You enjoy your alone time. 😊
Pattauf, it's about the energy and emotions behind it. Some people dont go out there because of depression, fear, reluctance, past experience. Or they became withdrawn but not happy.
Anna says if you are happy with where you are and how u live why change❔ Her advice can be taken when someone is not happy with the situation or cutting themselves off the life flow etc.
If I feel good with how u live great. Some people self isolate & don't feel good about it, the advice is for them.
Is that Dr Vickey’s place
He said he wIted for me but he seems to never have time for me anymore. So I am giving up and i am examining my pattern . Perhaps he is not available ? Heis nowkivi g w his friends mo. As acare taker ans she just says bad things about me . Not the factthat i helped him write a sceeen play . Supported him ! I guess the proof is in the pudding .
Ruh roh. I think YT didn’t like the link I added to a very valuable video. Search Elle Beecher. Her content is golden. ❤
I wonder if pushed him away?
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Question: How do you deal w a sociopath/ narcissist who has kicked me out of my family. She hates me. The treatment I get is really pathetic. I need to stand up to her and the other one. I want boundaries...but The anxiety and disdain she puked on me is predictable. I stay away. Keeps me safe emotionally. Cheers
You can also try The Daily Practice (a free course). It can be a good first step to healing. If you want to go deeper, Anna has a whole course on Healing Childhood PTSD.
Free Daily Practice: bit.ly/CCF_DailyPractice
Healing CPTSD course: bit.ly/CCF_HCPTSD
Nika@TeamFairy
Block them & move on
With life and with self development, introspection and support
@@savioartwork thank you it's safer. Glad we have you.
It was co fusing because i wonder if he I swd me ? Ans now he doesnt need me anymore he is dissapered and is not rherr fpr my needs. No wonder my mum didnt lime him !! Noe she i passed . Yes i feel i want to go awY far away !
I went awaway for 4weeks to work on myself and heard from his sister butnothing from him . I give up !
I went awaway for 4weeks to work on myself and heard from his sister butnothing from him . I give up because he is notavailable . Itfeels l I me highschool as he works as a care taker for otberhe is not available for me . Although i hada panic atrack after we were intimate bec i felt he was holding back . Ans then he seemed upset when i took my cosmetic bag home . Then he called me.said his disfunctional patentsarriage made them love each other as friends.
Gi Anna. My mo. Died. I tried to get back together w my x who said he waited for me when I dumped him.but I realized I was confused because my mom. Hated him but maybe she was right because nowhere MIa emotionally unavailable. I guess I broke up whim initially forthrright reasons. Because he is emotionally notavail , butam>?
she sounds often cold to me: often people say: "I have... and ... oroblems, what shall i do?" And very often is the answer "yes, that's a typical sign of childhood trauma." But no words what could help, just her online course without individual check if that makes sense
What about disassociated relationships?
We went backwards ! We uses Tobe so close.
Hi! I joined your 3 day seminar but here in Hawaii, it starts at 5am. Anychance you will replay at a later time?
I did the daily practice religiously for the better part of a year. I reviewed the practice link numerous times to assure I was following the practice as prescribed.
I don’t write to undermine its value but I found it an added task with no clear appreciable positive effect on my dysregulated stress responses. Could it be that it is a practice that works for many and not others?
She does say so often that it might not help some.....who knows why?😢
@@Yehudit really? I’ve been following for quite some time and have been a member, done the associated courses…and I believe this is ground breaking work into exactly what I’ve struggled with my whole life.. and to date, at age 54! If this is the solution and doesn’t work for some, then what for those of us who need such a tool?