I spoke to a girl at the gym, and although she has a partner so nothing will happen between us she said to me: “thank you so much for coming up and talking to me, we need more people like you. Keep doing it”. I’m gonna keep approaching now as it’s fun to me.
When you are 'boring', you do not make friends, or meet women. So if you want to make new friends or meet women, stop being so boring, and living such a boring life. Yes, being boring is 'comfortable' but nothing interesting comes out of a 'comfortable life' where you spend all your hours online consuming content. You got this bro
@@Denmosocialyeah I simply emphasized on that because for some bros understanding of that fact will take much pressure from their shoulders. Women are not examiner of who you are. You need something from them, they need something from you.
Didn't have good experience with approaching? But has good experiences with interactions with women. Gather positive experiences (even Visualize works) of you starting conversations with women, and dwell upon them! "girl actually want me to talk to them. And I like it too" is something that would be nice for you to repeat with enthusiasm 😊
Denmo my boy, I used to watch all your videos back in January of this year, but my life changed completely: I found my amazing group of male friends here in Lisbon in January, we've gone on a bunch of hikes and meetups. I've also started cold approaching girls and guys in the end of February always having great conversations. So far, i've probably approached over 90 girls (sometimes with great success and sometimes they have a boyfriend) and met so many new people, I'm so happy I found your videos. I realised that these videos help, but you've got to take action. The last video I saw of you was in the beginning of March, you probably remember me as we spoke before, but now that I have a group of guys who are just like me and I'm having great social events like workouts, hikes, watching the EURO's, and I have literally zero fear of cold approaching anyone as I also teach it all the time on my channel, I really wanted to thank you brother. May we meet very soon and we do a collab for our channels. God bless you Denmo
So, i've been binge watch while subconciously meditate while working the shit out for my drawings deadline. I realized I can utilize my experience, talents, and my skills as professional artist for years to start a convo. Thank you for the first 5 minutes bro, it boost some of my courage to do some shit.
I don't want to make excuses but sometimes some of us work so much that we don't have time or can't afford interesting hobbies that makes us less boring.
Its not exactly that you are boring in every situation . They want the game , they want to hear specific things. If you have a full day of work running from one place to an other and if you have responsibilities in your life , you dont have the energy and willingness to put on the player mask. And trust me , i ve been there and done this. Now that my life has changed and i have goals, responsibilities and worrying about the future , i dont have the willingness to put on the 'entertainer' mask . When i was a student , i just went to the gym and approaching girls , that was my only worry , to get them. As you grow up you dont have time for this shit and it feels childish . And the difference between trying with women and trying with something else (tryharding to become good at a sport, gym,job) is that women are humans and the ego kicks in when you realize you run all day and you have to in a way 'please' them (give them what they want) just to get their attention and it goes on (you know what i am saying). But no girl will come to you , so you have to do it anyways..
I don't like to brag often, but people tend to find me funny and likeable, whilst I'm a bit awkward at times I've got a very colourful and bold personality with strong values. Also, I'm very strong creatively, with a lot of hobbies, projects and goals going on at once. The best part is that I've improved massively since I left secondary school, and when I go to uni in September I'm going to get back into the dating pool properly.
LISTEN GUYS, women love when you have friends and social life, if you r a musician, boxer, painter, youtuber or go camping, running, football, or having projects in general etc, remember girls love atention, the lifestyle you bring they want to flex to other girls,, being any of that is gonna give you status
The concept of “just don’t be boring” sounds a lot easier than it is to put into practice. Any tips on how to stop saying the same ole coined phrases I say in every conversation like, hey, how are you, etc.? Any tips on how to become a better storyteller? Or topics to bring up that don’t lead to boring conversations? Some practical tips, rather than general advice, would be more applicable and much appreciated
18:01 holy shit that example hit hard and is so true, I once met a girl who was so damn into me we met in her city and when I left I was stimulated just writing with her and I never visited her bcs I thought we got enough time so that after 3 month I lost her, I bottled so hard...
(sigh) man this spoke to me. I'm 30 now. Let me tell you how things went from age 14 - 21. I learned to play the guitar, I played sports, I became a professional photographer, learned some magic tricks, played in a band, sang. At 21 I went through a really rough breakup. I stayed down for a couple of years. I stopped advancing in my hobbies. At age 25, I started to game. I got addicted. Five years later, after wasting my life gaming and not making smart financial decisions, I don't meet many women and I find it hard to be interesting and talking to women. Gaming is fun and all but it doesn't help you in the long run. It really screws you up because you become trapped in your room and get comfortable with solidarity. I'm trying to get out of it now. I haven't done this yet but after watching this video, its looking like I really need to let go of videogames and go back to my old hobbies. I was definitely more interesting back then.
@@begunbiscuit3212 Did this two years ago. An old acquaintance invited me to the gym. He's now my best friend. We've been hitting the gym together. It took me time to make it a routine but i progressed
@@centripetal6157 like as in program them? I've thought of it. I looked into the field and it looks highly stress inducing for low income. working 60 plus hours, stressful deadlines for only 50k a year? I don't know. I'm still thinking about it.
My life is pretty mundane but I’m a guitarist, songwriter, and an aspiring author. The first 2 I’m very good at, I definitely don’t lack confidence in those areas but my singing is my biggest insecurity.
that part about isolation near the end is true. first 24 days out of my 3 year sentence were spent in solitary confinment. never thought Id be excited to speak with a lawyer, but after that I can guarantee you I was. I never usually comment, but I feel like most people who watch your videos are probably the type to check youtube comments so I figured they could get value from reading this. Also wanted to take the opportunity to thank you for what you do. I feel like you were there when no one was, which sounds crazy but is still true in my eyes. May god bless you and everyone humble enough to be willing to step back and learn how to fix their problems.
As you say in your videos... I gess you care a f** what people think about them (not searching for aproval) but man.. I got to tell everyone that you're totally right. THANTS A LOT FOR YOUR CHANNEL
I do have a high paid job, think I do look well, not a Chad but all right. I do sports - boxing, do cold showers, meditate, have a lot of friends ( female as well ), I'm talkative, I do approach girls ( not that much, I'm still new to this ), I do get their instagrams, etc .. but I still suck in the conversation with them, even if I tell them that I do this this and this I still get ghosted in the chat. Maan this dating stuff I though it would be easier :(
I have interests that few people can relate to - yoga, tantra, natural medicine, shamanism etc. And with these interests come a world view that is very different to how the vast majority of people see the world. I am a very colorful person with unique interests, perspectives and stories. But I am struggling relating to and connecting to people (not only women) because we see the world so differently on a fundamental level. This make it different to transmit the skills and interesting stuff I know, and suddenly I find myself being boring. I am not sure how to deal with this. And yes, I know people do yoga. But that is very superficial stretching and bending, I am doing deeper practises, which is why it is diffucult to relate and transmit.
From my own experience, when a woman asks you _“what do you do in your free time?”_ or _"what hobbies do you have?"_ she's essentially saying _"what do you do that we can both enjoy?"_
@@kristiyangrigorov5232 I can't say anything specific because that depends on you, it's a matter of trying new things and sticking with the ones you enjoy. Remember that: 1) What you can find interesting may not be interesting to another person. 2) Don't stop having hobbies just because other people don't enjoy them. Good luck bro.
As a 50+ year old guy, trust me when I saw regrowing a group of male friends has a good chance of being something you'll struggle with when you get older at some point, especially if you end up divorced with no kids, surrounded by married couples, married parents, and divorced parents.
I'm actually really good at repairing things, into cars, racing etc and the woman who I am attracted to have always said "you're not one of those guys are you" and they kind of make fun of me for that. Because of that, I really don't bring it up. Its dumb.
Join classes or at least read, cut out screen time, helpful tips. This is making me thinking of joining an imorov class because I heard it's growth inducing albeit scary. I'm going to look into what's nearby now, been such a homebody. Thanks for the encouragement Jack.
The start of the video had me concerned. Thought you were about to say don’t be yourself and conform to what society thinks is normal and cool. Thank goodness that wasn’t the case lmao.
Nah. I’ve heard many times that I’m a really nice and funny guy. Can also tell by them laughing at my jokes and enjoying my company. I’m just ugly. Or maybe not ugly, but I’m definitely not the best looking guy where I live. So, yeah, I’m not physically attractive. BOOM.
I have several interesting hobbies (I think at least), including playing multiple sports and recording music, and I also try to show interest in every new person I meet, but I feel like people still don’t think I’m that interesting to talk to. Why might that be?
You know, I am starting to wonder if watching these videos is actually productive. At first, I found some of the information and tips given in his other videos about dating pretty useful. However, as I was watching this one in particular, I was noticing how it felt like what the dude was saying was confirming negative self-beliefs I had about myself and I’m not sure if that is healthy thing I should engage in moving forward. As I was watching it, I realized that I am not a boring person at all, but because this guy appears to have authority as a self-improvement entity, I was allowing him to convince me that I am. No disrespect or hate at all to him, I guess I just had the epiphany that I can’t be letting random RUclipsr strangers convince me of what I think of myself as an adult in his mid 20’s. It reflects pretty badly on the hold that low self-confidence still has on me. I think it’s time that I stop consuming self-improvement content, at least for a good while.
When someone goes to a doctor because they have symptoms of high blood pressure and then the Doctor tells them "you might have high blood pressure because XY and Z" are you going to be get depressed and say "doc why would you confirm my fears"? . No. You would thank the Doctor and take the health advice he has for you to improve your blood pressure. Dude the shoe fits. You have low self esteem. Someone telling you what you don't want to hear isn't the problem. It's your mindset. If you think low of yourself and you say "i'm not a boring person", that means you aren't boring. Which begs to question, If you're not boring and you are interesting because you do things and that means you take risks and aren't afraid of what others think, then why do you have low self esteem? because a person like that doesn't have a low self esteem. I think you just don't like hearing you have to put in work. Get out of that mindset bro. It won't do you good. The first step to fix a problem is to acknowledge that there is one.
Having boring personality and a health disease are completely different things. This comparison doesn't even make sense. And by the way, your personality is set in stone when you hit age 1-3, aka being mostly genetics, so you can't do much about it. You have to just accept certain things about i ourself and work with what you have instead of being some clown to get female attention. @@zumasa9991
I just saw a girl yesterday at church she's too good looking and she was feeding dogs of every single street near church but at that time I was not ready to approach her but now I'm ready to approach whenever i see her but she's too good that I got afraid that what if I fail Help denmo reply plz..
@@calebwalker7619 Bro I was in temple she was just in normal house clothes no makeup feeding street dogs But I don't know that .Will I be able to meet her again? If I see her again I'll approach her
@Notordinaryperson oh she a church girl damn bro ask her out just ask her to be Friends and try to be friends first so u can get comfortable with being around her then when ure ready ask her. U got this💯💪
Watching these a self-check, I'm not in a relationship, but I'm very happy on my own and I have no problem talking to girls :) Absolutely love these, thanks boss!
Like the vids. I was more inspired with your "move out of the city" and your productivity videos, things like "job vs. passion" as well. Do you think you'd be going back to those types of videos?
I am going to be travel vlogger it's only way I can escape boring home life and also women won't be finding me boring. Currently domestic travel and soon international in coming 2-3 years after I earn enough from yt
What makes me different and interesting huh? I like drawing and working on Adobe Illustrator. I make stickers, prints, coffee mugs, and i want to make t-shirts as well. I am trying to sell those
Being boring is a good thing, at least I won't be a playboy, and right woman will come in my life instead of hooking up with different woman every week
Hey Jack, I’m wondering, does becoming a jacked dude put you in competition with people who are good at something ( bodybuilding ) or good looking ? I believe it helps in both but it’s tricky as you can be jacked but ugly
no downside of becoming jacked besides it takes lots of time and you can potentially become too obsessed with it haha but id say your fine to gain muscle
@@Denmosocial Oh dude, right on! it's a struggle to never think you're big / lean enough to go out there and get pus.... practice, I meant get practice! I'll be careful with it thanks bro
*A lot of guys struggle with being too safe or serious in conversations, but this video highlights how important it is to mix in humor and confidence.*
I dont like your tough love approach. I get some of it in moderation but it seems like half your videos most of the time is spent beating your audience with a stick. Other pickup artist / men self help channels dont do this. Not to this extent.
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"Women tend to look at boring men, the same way men look at unattractive women." That comment is gold! Super motivating!
I spoke to a girl at the gym, and although she has a partner so nothing will happen between us she said to me: “thank you so much for coming up and talking to me, we need more people like you. Keep doing it”. I’m gonna keep approaching now as it’s fun to me.
Good luck with that.
atta boy
When you are 'boring', you do not make friends, or meet women. So if you want to make new friends or meet women, stop being so boring, and living such a boring life.
Yes, being boring is 'comfortable' but nothing interesting comes out of a 'comfortable life' where you spend all your hours online consuming content.
You got this bro
You are too boring for them because they are too boring for themselves so they need someone to entertain them and enliven their social life.
yeah, and you get what you want out of it too (hook up) thats the trade
@@Denmosocialyeah I simply emphasized on that because for some bros understanding of that fact will take much pressure from their shoulders. Women are not examiner of who you are. You need something from them, they need something from you.
@@Denmosociala hookup is enjoyed by both parties?
@@krishantaneja8316it is but often times for women a hookup is not the main objective
confident enough to know pretty girls would absolutely love me but not confident enough to actually talk to them. make that make sense
you and 80% of other guys
Didn't have good experience with approaching?
But has good experiences with interactions with women.
Gather positive experiences (even Visualize works) of you starting conversations with women, and dwell upon them!
"girl actually want me to talk to them. And I like it too" is something that would be nice for you to repeat with enthusiasm 😊
@@kotin5725i’ve never had a good experience from approaching a random woman in a non concert, bar/club, college party environment lol
Denmo my boy, I used to watch all your videos back in January of this year, but my life changed completely: I found my amazing group of male friends here in Lisbon in January, we've gone on a bunch of hikes and meetups. I've also started cold approaching girls and guys in the end of February always having great conversations. So far, i've probably approached over 90 girls (sometimes with great success and sometimes they have a boyfriend) and met so many new people, I'm so happy I found your videos. I realised that these videos help, but you've got to take action. The last video I saw of you was in the beginning of March, you probably remember me as we spoke before, but now that I have a group of guys who are just like me and I'm having great social events like workouts, hikes, watching the EURO's, and I have literally zero fear of cold approaching anyone as I also teach it all the time on my channel, I really wanted to thank you brother. May we meet very soon and we do a collab for our channels. God bless you Denmo
absolute weapon thanks for sharing man. gotta send me a testimonial haha
Haha I’ll send one through email really soon, thank you brother, for real, my life feels so much better
Ladies n Gentlemen, I welcome you, Denmo Jr.
So, i've been binge watch while subconciously meditate while working the shit out for my drawings deadline.
I realized I can utilize my experience, talents, and my skills as professional artist for years to start a convo. Thank you for the first 5 minutes bro, it boost some of my courage to do some shit.
I don't want to make excuses but sometimes some of us work so much that we don't have time or can't afford interesting hobbies that makes us less boring.
Its not exactly that you are boring in every situation .
They want the game , they want to hear specific things. If you have a full day of work running from one place to an other and if you have responsibilities in your life , you dont have the energy and willingness to put on the player mask.
And trust me , i ve been there and done this. Now that my life has changed and i have goals, responsibilities and worrying about the future , i dont have the willingness to put on the 'entertainer' mask .
When i was a student , i just went to the gym and approaching girls , that was my only worry , to get them. As you grow up you dont have time for this shit and it feels childish .
And the difference between trying with women and trying with something else (tryharding to become good at a sport, gym,job) is that women are humans and the ego kicks in when you realize you run all day and you have to in a way 'please' them (give them what they want) just to get their attention and it goes on (you know what i am saying).
But no girl will come to you , so you have to do it anyways..
Sucks to be a man in this age lol
Thank you so much Denmo!!!❤
I don't like to brag often, but people tend to find me funny and likeable, whilst I'm a bit awkward at times I've got a very colourful and bold personality with strong values. Also, I'm very strong creatively, with a lot of hobbies, projects and goals going on at once. The best part is that I've improved massively since I left secondary school, and when I go to uni in September I'm going to get back into the dating pool properly.
LISTEN GUYS, women love when you have friends and social life, if you r a musician, boxer, painter, youtuber or go camping, running, football, or having projects in general etc, remember girls love atention, the lifestyle you bring they want to flex to other girls,, being any of that is gonna give you status
that makes sense, flex to other girls, coz girls like talk a lot
W vid Denmo, this really opened up my eyes and being more recognized with my habits and how other people feel when they are interacting with me
I don’t why get why people tell you to get off the internet, when they’re in the internet themselves
meet a girl, talk about software, girl gets bored, becomes sleepy, girl leaves, but I get pleasure from telling cool stuff
@shaun3713 the companion of flesh is remarkable, freshly me like to spend time with another fleshy person
ima software engineer and ngl i woulda gotten bored too
The concept of “just don’t be boring” sounds a lot easier than it is to put into practice. Any tips on how to stop saying the same ole coined phrases I say in every conversation like, hey, how are you, etc.? Any tips on how to become a better storyteller? Or topics to bring up that don’t lead to boring conversations? Some practical tips, rather than general advice, would be more applicable and much appreciated
My advice would be to practice conversation with random people everyday. Another would be to try use some emotional message. People bond by emotions
Talk about anything.
Good video Denmo 👊 thanks. Points spot on. So easy to get overstimulated now days.
I always come here when I’m feeling too complacent and need to be called out on my shit. Thank you for that push
18:01 holy shit that example hit hard and is so true, I once met a girl who was so damn into me we met in her city and when I left I was stimulated just writing with her and I never visited her bcs I thought we got enough time so that after 3 month I lost her, I bottled so hard...
(sigh) man this spoke to me. I'm 30 now. Let me tell you how things went from age 14 - 21. I learned to play the guitar, I played sports, I became a professional photographer, learned some magic tricks, played in a band, sang. At 21 I went through a really rough breakup. I stayed down for a couple of years. I stopped advancing in my hobbies. At age 25, I started to game. I got addicted. Five years later, after wasting my life gaming and not making smart financial decisions, I don't meet many women and I find it hard to be interesting and talking to women. Gaming is fun and all but it doesn't help you in the long run. It really screws you up because you become trapped in your room and get comfortable with solidarity. I'm trying to get out of it now. I haven't done this yet but after watching this video, its looking like I really need to let go of videogames and go back to my old hobbies. I was definitely more interesting back then.
First step is going to induction for the gym
What if you want to make video games?
@@begunbiscuit3212 Did this two years ago. An old acquaintance invited me to the gym. He's now my best friend. We've been hitting the gym together. It took me time to make it a routine but i progressed
@@centripetal6157 like as in program them? I've thought of it. I looked into the field and it looks highly stress inducing for low income. working 60 plus hours, stressful deadlines for only 50k a year? I don't know. I'm still thinking about it.
@@zumasa9991Gaming and gym are the only hobbies i have right now :D any advice on what other hobby to take?
My life is pretty mundane but I’m a guitarist, songwriter, and an aspiring author. The first 2 I’m very good at, I definitely don’t lack confidence in those areas but my singing is my biggest insecurity.
that part about isolation near the end is true. first 24 days out of my 3 year sentence were spent in solitary confinment. never thought Id be excited to speak with a lawyer, but after that I can guarantee you I was. I never usually comment, but I feel like most people who watch your videos are probably the type to check youtube comments so I figured they could get value from reading this. Also wanted to take the opportunity to thank you for what you do. I feel like you were there when no one was, which sounds crazy but is still true in my eyes. May god bless you and everyone humble enough to be willing to step back and learn how to fix their problems.
As you say in your videos... I gess you care a f** what people think about them (not searching for aproval) but man.. I got to tell everyone that you're totally right. THANTS A LOT FOR YOUR CHANNEL
I am extremely social, can fight, out work people,gym, meditate and just do my own thing
Plus reading
I do have a high paid job, think I do look well, not a Chad but all right. I do sports - boxing, do cold showers, meditate, have a lot of friends ( female as well ), I'm talkative, I do approach girls ( not that much, I'm still new to this ), I do get their instagrams, etc .. but I still suck in the conversation with them, even if I tell them that I do this this and this I still get ghosted in the chat. Maan this dating stuff I though it would be easier :(
Be sexual & flirty
And you are in located Russia?😢😢😢
I have interests that few people can relate to - yoga, tantra, natural medicine, shamanism etc. And with these interests come a world view that is very different to how the vast majority of people see the world. I am a very colorful person with unique interests, perspectives and stories. But I am struggling relating to and connecting to people (not only women) because we see the world so differently on a fundamental level. This make it different to transmit the skills and interesting stuff I know, and suddenly I find myself being boring. I am not sure how to deal with this.
And yes, I know people do yoga. But that is very superficial stretching and bending, I am doing deeper practises, which is why it is diffucult to relate and transmit.
I can relate to anyone
Greattt info denmo..I guess this can be absolute true way to attract a girl❤❤❤
From my own experience, when a woman asks you _“what do you do in your free time?”_ or _"what hobbies do you have?"_ she's essentially saying _"what do you do that we can both enjoy?"_
I literally only go to the gym as my hobby lol. Idk what hobby to take to become more interesting
@@kristiyangrigorov5232 I can't say anything specific because that depends on you, it's a matter of trying new things and sticking with the ones you enjoy.
Remember that:
1) What you can find interesting may not be interesting to another person.
2) Don't stop having hobbies just because other people don't enjoy them.
Good luck bro.
As a 50+ year old guy, trust me when I saw regrowing a group of male friends has a good chance of being something you'll struggle with when you get older at some point, especially if you end up divorced with no kids, surrounded by married couples, married parents, and divorced parents.
I have the issue of having an interesting life but being boring and unenthusiastic in convos.
I'm actually really good at repairing things, into cars, racing etc and the woman who I am attracted to have always said "you're not one of those guys are you" and they kind of make fun of me for that. Because of that, I really don't bring it up. Its dumb.
They made fun of u, because u were into cars? wtf do women even want these days
@ yep
Very nice video bro.
This was too boring
That's why your in the comment section instead of the real world brother. Praying for you to turn your life around!
@@DenmosocialI think it was a dry joke boss
Bro can't stand a joke 😂☠️
fun begins if the guy who commented is actually a girl
Don't worry dok we got the joke😂
the vegetable and ice cream metaphor was so accurate, i wonder if you actually improvise this
I use that metaphor for a lot of things but yeah it slaps
Man... im gonna die, living the rest of my life alone... nothing i can do.
Same bro it's terrible
😂😂😂The fact that I am watching these veadios to help him make money and I am being called boring hurts my feelings😂😂😂😂😂
when you said thank god Id be in a lot of trouble I started dying laughing lmfao
Denmo mockint "i aM oNLy 5'10" 😭"
Me being 5'4" 🗿
I really gotta get me one of those Canoe specialist diplomas! 😮Watch out ladies, here I come! 🙂
My sheer charisma thats it people trust me easily is mainly what i have.
Join classes or at least read, cut out screen time, helpful tips. This is making me thinking of joining an imorov class because I heard it's growth inducing albeit scary. I'm going to look into what's nearby now, been such a homebody. Thanks for the encouragement Jack.
Found improv classes on Saturday evenings even though it's far! Time to make new friends outside the gym.
Denmo: "stop watching videos", Also Denmo: "don't forget to like and subscribe" MIXED MESSAGES BUHDAH
id rather you stop watching my man
EBAN PAGAN dont' be boring and don't be predictable , some of the best advice for guys.
God Bless you, real fcing advice
I would love to hear more stories that inspired bands to make their songs n so forth.
5ft 10 being a bad thing is wild. That's still tall 😂
Youd be surprised though. The majority of people are already pretty boring.
“Life isn’t about yourself it’s about others” damn, I love this sentence
The start of the video had me concerned. Thought you were about to say don’t be yourself and conform to what society thinks is normal and cool.
Thank goodness that wasn’t the case lmao.
Nah. I’ve heard many times that I’m a really nice and funny guy. Can also tell by them laughing at my jokes and enjoying my company.
I’m just ugly. Or maybe not ugly, but I’m definitely not the best looking guy where I live. So, yeah, I’m not physically attractive. BOOM.
I have several interesting hobbies (I think at least), including playing multiple sports and recording music, and I also try to show interest in every new person I meet, but I feel like people still don’t think I’m that interesting to talk to. Why might that be?
I know more than a few unattractive women that ended up in relationships.
You know, I am starting to wonder if watching these videos is actually productive. At first, I found some of the information and tips given in his other videos about dating pretty useful. However, as I was watching this one in particular, I was noticing how it felt like what the dude was saying was confirming negative self-beliefs I had about myself and I’m not sure if that is healthy thing I should engage in moving forward. As I was watching it, I realized that I am not a boring person at all, but because this guy appears to have authority as a self-improvement entity, I was allowing him to convince me that I am. No disrespect or hate at all to him, I guess I just had the epiphany that I can’t be letting random RUclipsr strangers convince me of what I think of myself as an adult in his mid 20’s. It reflects pretty badly on the hold that low self-confidence still has on me. I think it’s time that I stop consuming self-improvement content, at least for a good while.
When someone goes to a doctor because they have symptoms of high blood pressure and then the Doctor tells them "you might have high blood pressure because XY and Z" are you going to be get depressed and say "doc why would you confirm my fears"? . No. You would thank the Doctor and take the health advice he has for you to improve your blood pressure. Dude the shoe fits. You have low self esteem. Someone telling you what you don't want to hear isn't the problem. It's your mindset. If you think low of yourself and you say "i'm not a boring person", that means you aren't boring. Which begs to question, If you're not boring and you are interesting because you do things and that means you take risks and aren't afraid of what others think, then why do you have low self esteem? because a person like that doesn't have a low self esteem. I think you just don't like hearing you have to put in work. Get out of that mindset bro. It won't do you good. The first step to fix a problem is to acknowledge that there is one.
Having boring personality and a health disease are completely different things. This comparison doesn't even make sense. And by the way, your personality is set in stone when you hit age 1-3, aka being mostly genetics, so you can't do much about it. You have to just accept certain things about i ourself and work with what you have instead of being some clown to get female attention. @@zumasa9991
Well, im a Amateure boxer and doing crazy stuff at school is that enough?
I just saw a girl yesterday at church she's too good looking and she was feeding dogs of every single street near church but at that time I was not ready to approach her but now I'm ready to approach whenever i see her but she's too good that I got afraid that what if I fail
Help denmo reply plz..
Just talk to her bro if she rejects you oh well u cant do nothin about that u can choose who u approach and if you approach at all.
@@calebwalker7619 she's just too preety
@Notordinaryperson dude it's just makeup 100% I promise u she a human being just like u. But I get where u comin from.
@@calebwalker7619 Bro I was in temple she was just in normal house clothes no makeup feeding street dogs
But I don't know that .Will I be able to meet her again? If I see her again I'll approach her
@Notordinaryperson oh she a church girl damn bro ask her out just ask her to be Friends and try to be friends first so u can get comfortable with being around her then when ure ready ask her. U got this💯💪
Ofc I am, so what
well do you want to make friends and meet women or hang out in the youtube comment section? Your call man
@@Denmosocial I have friends, I hang out but I dont talk w women and im alr
@dth9339 then stop watching the videos and stfu
@dth9339 then stop watching the videos and stfu
@@dth9339 alright.
P. S.
Why do you then even watch videos like that in the first place?
Shit, I figured women would find me enthusiastically talking about classic rock boring.
Watching these a self-check, I'm not in a relationship, but I'm very happy on my own and I have no problem talking to girls :)
Absolutely love these, thanks boss!
I guess I don’t care either way. I don’t care what women want from me. I’m perfectly happy with who I am and what I have.
Same here.
Never ever change yourself for a woman, but also don't be a nice, shy and insecure guy.
Me : How to stop being boring around women?
Denmo: It doesn't matter if your aren't into the same things...
act like you are anyways
What if *everything* is boring? Everything you do, and everything everyone else does and says?
11:33 save your time
If a simple peaceful life is boring then I want to be boring. Women don't like peace though.
Like the vids. I was more inspired with your "move out of the city" and your productivity videos, things like "job vs. passion" as well. Do you think you'd be going back to those types of videos?
I'll make some of those soon yeah
Denmo this video is a fallacy because there are men out there who are way more boring than me but they have girlfriends
just curious why u always holding something to eat or drink while approaching?? is it like to look engaging or sum other shi?
it might only be the videos you've seen but I don't always. If I do its coffee tho im a caffeine junkie haha
I am going to be travel vlogger it's only way I can escape boring home life and also women won't be finding me boring. Currently domestic travel and soon international in coming 2-3 years after I earn enough from yt
You should dig a little deeper into the lyrics of hotel California
What makes me different and interesting huh?
I like drawing and working on Adobe Illustrator. I make stickers, prints, coffee mugs, and i want to make t-shirts as well.
I am trying to sell those
But Denmo my hair doesnt match my face, what should i do :DD
Being boring is a good thing, at least I won't be a playboy, and right woman will come in my life instead of hooking up with different woman every week
Good luck man
I think men have a threshold. If she is cute to an extent, then her personality does maje her more attractive. I think that way anyway.
I play guitar i invest i read psychology.
Its always hilarious these big youtubers telling you to get offline. Lmao fine bro lets boycott this channel.
I can draw triangles and quads using GPU on my computers
Is this supposed to be news? We have been discussing this for years regarding the bad-boy tingles or lack thereof.
Great
Hey Jack, I’m wondering, does becoming a jacked dude put you in competition with people who are good at something ( bodybuilding ) or good looking ? I believe it helps in both but it’s tricky as you can be jacked but ugly
no downside of becoming jacked besides it takes lots of time and you can potentially become too obsessed with it haha but id say your fine to gain muscle
@@Denmosocial Oh dude, right on! it's a struggle to never think you're big / lean enough to go out there and get pus.... practice, I meant get practice! I'll be careful with it thanks bro
Genuine stuff
Denmo, please consider getting rid of that trippy background. Makes the viddo hard to watch
the wood you mean?
This is the least boring video I ever did see!
What if math is my thing
*A lot of guys struggle with being too safe or serious in conversations, but this video highlights how important it is to mix in humor and confidence.*
nahhh look is the first 50 percent..so it does matter
absolute cope. looks matter both for men and women, stop lying please
Simple have something to in life something like a job
It is drawing a good thing?
drawing is fine man ofcourse
good
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Well I don’t like boring as hell women either. I found this woman in all she does is workout, it’s so boring to me
Denmo
this video is actually helps guys
thats the point. tough medicine but it is meant to help
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I dont like your tough love approach. I get some of it in moderation but it seems like half your videos most of the time is spent beating your audience with a stick. Other pickup artist / men self help channels dont do this. Not to this extent.
A lil too close to home 😂