Do something difficult, life for a man is not meant to be easy, so don't pray for an easy life, buh fight to become the best in all difficult situations, conquer and find a way to get rich real quick, always remember as a man you are loved and respected based on how valuable you have become, life for a man is competition, you are competing with every other man, for example Everyman wants that nice car you want, big house, and even business is competition so we have gat to be alert, and the real essence of masculinity is hard work.
As a man its very weird hearing a woman who has absolutely zero experience as a man, tell you how to be a man or what it takes to be a man. That's like men telling her how a maxi pad works. That's out of our field of expertise.
You have a point. She's trying her best but she doesn't really understand masculinity because she doesn't understand the male experience. It's not about seeming masculine or acting masculine. Because then you are faking it. Masculinity is a spirit. A certain internal attitude. Once you have this attitude, your behaviour automatically fixes itself and is masculine. For example if you have a fearful spirit, even if you were to apply all her advice, people would still see that you are a p*ssy. She's talking about what she doesn't understand and has never done. However her videos about women and things to look out for in women are very much on point, because they are in her sphere of competence. I have learned a lot from her.
aunty take it easy no be fight abeg why you dey shout? anyways glad you are ok , that this flood in dubai no carry you go where you no know. Awesome video.
The best example for masculine man is Tommy Shelby in peacky blinders the man is an Alpha or sigma male talking of searing he is, i don't know how to explain that guy 😂😂😂😂
Ehen. Ijay husband go don tire sef 😂 cuz every lil thing he does ijay go b like hell no a masculine wouldn’t act like this The man go don take corrections tire 😂😢
I dont know why RUclips keeps recommending her videos to me. Perhaps YT knows I like listening to talkative women. I agree with her points except the leg crossing. I've never done that in my life. It feels very uncomfortable
I love you but you are vdm hater why mention his name, he is a blogger, so how can you be a blogger without talking, and beside that's his calling I suspect u have personal issue with him.
@@emmanuelosahon4282 e dey pain me oh.. I dey see the ring I think say na fancy.. I was crushing. Me I no do again. Better ladies dey marry, them dey leave red flags for us.
i love ur videos but i disagree with VDM example u gave which discredits us men, most men are dying silently today cos they cant speak up, why are you women afriad of a man who talks? what the mouth made for, is this not the same control pattern on men to keep mute and die in silence? if a woman can talk why cant the men do? unfortunately i thought you are here to teach the men, so why are you reserving some? instead of spilling out the whole truth to men. we men we refuse to be decived again.
Good day Ijay, please what could cause a girl's breast milk to have a salty taste.I noticed that from my girlfriend last Sunday while we're in za oza room
Great advice, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
The best example for masculine man is Tommy Shelby in peacky blinders the man is an Alpha or sigma male talking of searing he is, i don't know how to explain that guy 😂😂😂😂
Do something difficult, life for a man is not meant to be easy, so don't pray for an easy life, buh fight to become the best in all difficult situations, conquer and find a way to get rich real quick, always remember as a man you are loved and respected based on how valuable you have become, life for a man is competition, you are competing with every other man, for example Everyman wants that nice car you want, big house, and even business is competition so we have gat to be alert, and the real essence of masculinity is hard work.
Getting rich real quick just to get a woman? That's the reason we have alot of internet fraudsters in that country.
You are a Top G, I guess you are a fan of Andrew Tate
❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯👍🏾👍🏾
This guy quoted the top G shaaa
Not every men life is based on all those things.
I have watched several times. Relearning this wonderful messages. God bless you nne ♥️
As a man its very weird hearing a woman who has absolutely zero experience as a man, tell you how to be a man or what it takes to be a man. That's like men telling her how a maxi pad works. That's out of our field of expertise.
I was waiting a comment like this🤣🤣
You have a point. She's trying her best but she doesn't really understand masculinity because she doesn't understand the male experience. It's not about seeming masculine or acting masculine. Because then you are faking it. Masculinity is a spirit. A certain internal attitude. Once you have this attitude, your behaviour automatically fixes itself and is masculine. For example if you have a fearful spirit, even if you were to apply all her advice, people would still see that you are a p*ssy. She's talking about what she doesn't understand and has never done. However her videos about women and things to look out for in women are very much on point, because they are in her sphere of competence. I have learned a lot from her.
But most of the things she says are correct
😂😂😂this comment deserves more likes
She is perhaps speaking from a point of view of what she & many ladies desires in a man. Not what it takes to be one. Perspectives.
when you said 2by2 i almost fell off my chair, love the video , keep it up.
Your channel is cool, don’t delete it sistaaa respect to your family
Big applause to u
U really on our side for real 👏👏
Thanks for the knowledge!
"'Baby help me lift this 25liters gallon' and you're struggling and staggering" got me dead laughing😆🤣🤣🤣
Someone looking like a Vegetable. Eeewii Ijay. This one got me laughing.
It’s good to hear these things from a woman 👍, we need to take some of these tips
God bless you real good @Ijay for always letting out the hidden truth
Yes 12:11 that is true I did it to one guy and he greeted me good evening sir … I intimidated him with my eyes 👀 12:11
Sacrifice, bear the fruits or your own labour, this is not a game, this is your fuckinng life G,
I'm jst so grateful that I'm on ur channel.
aunty take it easy no be fight abeg why you dey shout? anyways glad you are ok , that this flood in dubai no carry you go where you no know. Awesome video.
IJAY I LOVE YOU 💗. Thank you so much for being truthful and honest with us all 🥂. God bless you Ijay 😄🙏🏾
Everything she said is pure fax
That's true, I'm going to the gym ❤
Hi IJay, Thanks for telling it like it is!!!.
You dropped all the alphas, thanks.
Awesome video. You nailed the topic
I'm really impressed as i watched this 😊
The best example for masculine man is Tommy Shelby in peacky blinders the man is an Alpha or sigma male talking of searing he is, i don't know how to explain that guy 😂😂😂😂
Making money should even come first
Great video, i love it, keep dem coming.
Fantastic revelation am learning from you lectures baeb
YOU'RE RIGHT ..... but for VDM, it's the nature of the job he has chosen for humanity ....
VDM is a woman in a man's body
Anyone who talk too much can not keep secret
You can't use vdm for an example cos if he is not a talkative like you he won't achive anything.
U sef dey trip for that guy @ nonsmiraj show, there's nothing wrong with his posture abegi. Anyways, thanks for the hints 😊✌
1st time listening to u & Ur jst cute in d points from start to finish! Thumb up👍👍
Mature Content💯
Thanks for this video
😅😅😅
My sister, thank you so much 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂😁😁
Yes that VDM really talks alot😂😂
God bless you forever ❤❤ I am 100% on this though.
Welcome back 👋👋👋👋
Just imagine the husband of this great lady. He go just adjust him posture and attitude tire. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The whole vidoe is in the last 90secs 🤷🏽♂️😊…. Money rules d world
I jay money is very important
Big up youself 🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love you so much Ijay......I am your number 1 fan
❤were you been sis😂 missed you😊
Wait fess… Lemme share this video to VDM
You are correct
Nice one ijay.
Weldon
Respect 🫡
Well-done
Ehen. Ijay husband go don tire sef 😂 cuz every lil thing he does ijay go b like hell no a masculine wouldn’t act like this
The man go don take corrections tire 😂😢
😂😂😂😂
That is wonderful 😊😊
Hahaha I-J you so interested 😊.
Ijay you didn't talk about having soft voice as a man.
If VDM catch you eeh ,your name will automatically be sorry
😂😂😂
LoL 😁 I swear
When did you get married ijay. You just recently making reference to your husband.
Your on point
You are my bae, thank you very much ❤❤❤
You are introducing Europeans mentality eye contact,in Nigeria nothing like eye contact but instead they look down
Lol, VDM is coming for you.
Thank you ❤🇨🇮
TRUE
I GO TELL VDM😄😄😄😂😄
@ buy a wife 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, IJ you be legend
Thanks a lot
Good evening 🌆
Thanx
No crossing of legs, crossing of legs are for women, men should put there leg on they knee .
make money buddies...🤣
❤
Thanks Dear
How is your day going 😊
Alright 👍👍👍
Babe Why you come dey mention VDM ? You want wahala?? 😂😂😂
Definitely...
So you do wedding, u no tell us
Can you date VDM ???
I like this girl
I dont know why RUclips keeps recommending her videos to me. Perhaps YT knows I like listening to talkative women.
I agree with her points except the leg crossing. I've never done that in my life. It feels very uncomfortable
Pls leave VDM for us oooo seem dis joy ur giving us u don't like it
😂😮
I love you but you are vdm hater why mention his name, he is a blogger, so how can you be a blogger without talking, and beside that's his calling I suspect u have personal issue with him.
Oh God why are you married now, i have been planning on how to get to you. Its really painfully but i will endure.
Did I hear husband? I no crush again. Unu bye bye
Lol
I heard too ohh😂😂
Our girl is taken
😂😅 this comment suppose to win award
@@emmanuelosahon4282 e dey pain me oh.. I dey see the ring I think say na fancy.. I was crushing. Me I no do again. Better ladies dey marry, them dey leave red flags for us.
😂😂😂😂 chaaiii
You can not be looking like a vegetable😂😂😂
i love ur videos but i disagree with VDM example u gave which discredits us men, most men are dying silently today cos they cant speak up, why are you women afriad of a man who talks? what the mouth made for, is this not the same control pattern on men to keep mute and die in silence? if a woman can talk why cant the men do? unfortunately i thought you are here to teach the men, so why are you reserving some? instead of spilling out the whole truth to men. we men we refuse to be decived again.
Ohhh so you are married?
Make she no marry because she dey coach you 😅
😃😃😃😃😃
Good day Ijay, please what could cause a girl's breast milk to have a salty taste.I noticed that from my girlfriend last Sunday while we're in za oza room
Great advice, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.
😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰😍😍
😂😂😂😂
I will unfollow you for saying this about Very dark man.
VDM is an activist and he's fighting for justice and fairness so he has to talk.
Chineke meh😂😂😂
How to be more masculine as a man by some woman... 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
You have bad mouth
I love African women
The best example for masculine man is Tommy Shelby in peacky blinders the man is an Alpha or sigma male talking of searing he is, i don't know how to explain that guy 😂😂😂😂