why you fear your own success (a spiritual perspective)
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
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if you're like me, you are both drawn to and repelled by your dreams. they are at once enticing and terrifying. in today’s soul session we explore a paradoxical fear that many of us face whenever we confront our dreams and desires. but in the typical style of this podcast, we are going to unfold a deep and spiralling web of ideas such as:
+ What do God/source/the universe have to do with the fear of success
+ Why do we associate power to evil?
+ How can we separate toxic/destructive examples of power from loving/constructive versions of it?
+ Why is nature the answer to reclaiming our power?
+ AND...My own experience with cultural grief and shame
I hope you enjoy today’s soul session. stay tuned for more, and if you feel called to, please share it with a friend or your community. i love you ✨💛
Time stamps:
(00:06): The magic of your existence
(01:53): My fears & dreams
(05:11): The paradox of fear
(06:22): God/source/universe & AWE
(12:57): Why we fear our Dreams
(14:17): Healing our relationship with Power
(17:37): Nature & benevolent Power
(21:15): Step into Y(OUR) Power
(22:29): Co-Creation
(27:52): Channeled journaling
(30:00): Why we can't silence ourselves
(31:35): It's bigger than You
(33:10): You have these gifts for a REASON
(35:54): Trust is the opposite of Fear
(36:15): Your own POWER & WISDOM
(40:31): Creativity is how we change the world
(42:21): Affirmations
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Sources mentioned:
The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action by Audre Lorde (electriclitera...)
Ant geopolitics by John Whitfield (aeon.co/essays...
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what's helped me overcome my fear of success is, telling myself I'am "allowed to do so" "I'am allowed to take up space, I had to give myself permission so that it could take place, were as if i just dived deep into
without my consent it felt more scary, its like I'am my own friend encourgIng myself that I can do it💗
I am is the name of the creator (:
Good advice, thank you
Same here...I also had to use the word 'entitled ' to... I've learnt that there's certain words I have to use to get past my Ego. Just by us being born we're entitled to be do and have everything we want... obviously depending on where it's coming from I guess...a pure authentic place...not Ego ❤
i said that to my self just this morning.
When you said “When you called to create and don’t. What happens to those people who are calling to be affected by your creations?” That hit me. Thank you.
Damn 😫
"You are part of the flea market of life. Your table matters."
Who said this ? That line is 🔥🔥🔥
@@msrelly86 she did! in the video
@@msrelly86right?!
I realized the more successful you are, the more you become other peoples business. And squarely, I want to be left alone while I do my thing.
felt!
I feel that too🫠I don't know how to get over that
Thank you so much for watching, sunshine!! And thank you for this thoughtful comment 🥰so grateful for you!!!🌻🦋 If you’re interested, I host a weekly newsletter over on substack at ayandastood.substack.com where I write about this & similar topics!! I’d love to invite you to subscribe & read my latest issue & would love to know your thoughts! 📚📝Sending you love & gratitude and hope you are have a wonderful day!!
Same omg, my desire to be left alone trumples my very clear path to success
We need to stop caring about what they think about our business
I feel like it is the answer because is scares and troubles me but I can’t control their thoughts
“if you feel drawn to create community through your art, that is bigger than you” y’all why I burst into tears when she said this? 😭😭 i feel so validated, thank you for this 🙏🏾
ME TOO AND I JUST DID MY SKINCARE 😭😭
We fear our own power because we’ve been taught such a toxic relationship with power. We need to heal our relationship with power in order to embrace our own W O W 🤯
Honestly ur comments all I needed. Thank you love☺️
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Religion gives away the power to outer sources
I subscribed so fast!!! This video has me sobbing. We often try to convince ourselves out of our higher calling out of fear, telling ourselves we aren’t good enough, not worthy, convincing ourselves desires are evil, but the discomfort of not stepping into our power is often more painful that the discomfort of stepping into it ! Time will pass either way
Same
Haha same
Me too!
literally same
Me too
If you are reading this, it’s time to trust yourself and your power. As Ayanda said, “The ones who are trying to usher in a different kind of being, we cannot be out of our power we cannot be hiding from our power.” Thank you for this powerful reminder.
I wrote a poem about this concept - how many humans it takes to create ONE you!
do u have it online? are u willing to share it here? that sounds beautiful?
Can we hear it?❤
“Give me room, let me play.” - words all adults need to hear 💯💚
This world, especially where I'm from (USA) desperately needs positive female role models. Thanks for being one and helping others be one too ❤
"We are meant to be unfolding into the potential we see within ourselves." really struck me
I used to get mad when friends betrayed me but I never seen what they seen in me until this year. I was manifesting the biggest creation of my life the universe removed all obstacles which were those fake friends. Now I have no friends but I’m living all my dreams. I’ve always been powerful, everyone around me seen it. Some loved me for it, some became jealous or fearful I was too powerful.
The ego is absolutely terrified when the soul experiences oneness. This is why it takes revenge at us by creating dark nights of the soul
"The universe is queer. Its everything" beautiful
I came to the comments for this❤️🔥✨
These 44 minutes felt like 5 to me...
Your words were exactly what I needed to hear at this precise moment.
Thank you so much! ❤
About 27 minutes’ish in, I fell in love with you even deeper than I already was!!! Your words are filled with SO many permission slips, potent perspective shifts, and just pure remembrance really. I giggle every time you casually slip in a massive truth bomb 😅🤯🥹 so grateful to be connected with you sis!! I feel like we could just hang for hours talking and flowing all over the spectrum of experience, catapulting one another/ourselves into deeper levels of conscious awareness and marveling endlessly in the sheer magic of it all!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
i think the reason why im going on ventures but failing to complete them and having goals but then easily destroying my desire for them is because im afraid of success. dang this hit HARD.
This comment hit me like a brick. Yes. OMG 😭😭😭
32:01 That “What if through you” hits so different. I heard another creator say that “you can’t put a price on inspiration”. Your creations inspire people in ways that you could never imagine. It’s time to create and put ourselves out there!
Watching at 333am. Billy Carson showed me that its easy to have many desires but theres a paralysis, not laziness that keeps us from taking action.
“our soul wants room to play” wow, really felt that one ♥️
Found you on Spotify and had to subscribe to your RUclips as well. You are a STAR, and I’m following you to freedom like Harriet Tubman lol. Love your work.
to freedom!
"Ideas are flirting with me, they're so into me" I LOVE THIS (and deeply relate!)
This whole video was incredible. I loved following the stream of consciousness, and it's all things that have been on my mind lately, especially the part about how our culture has perverted our ideas of power.
Love everything I've heard here today. You are truly in your purpose, and you've earned yourself a subscriber!
this reached who it needed to reach! never have heard of you, neither have searched for these type of topics here on youtube but felt compelled to watch. now i know why. thank you, angel
5000 people for us to be here. That is wild. Thank you for this video!!
This video was sent by God, I swear. I was just touching this subject in therapy and it’s been a subject I’ve been cycling in my brain for months. I found the answer here. Thank you. Thank you. THANKS! ❤
That’s crazy. I’ve been desiring community, true community, my community- looking for my people to “find me” when I got this message that I would be the one creating it. Thank you for your words.
I just came across your channel and this video. Let me just say WOW! You communicate so gracefully and so passionately that it can shake any dormant soul awake.
At first, I didn’t think much of it. My intuition told me to watch it and see what messages I receive. I have been in this limbo stage where I am not sure what I want to do with my life and what I am capable of. One of my set backs is constantly comparing the way I think to others. I ask myself “why don’t I think like that person” and most of the time I think something is wrong with me but I never let myself play. I never let my mind run wild and free. It seems like everytime my mind starts running I find a distraction to shut it down. Thanks to you shining a light on that subject, I will let my mind run free to see where it leads me.
THANK YOU!!!
Sometimes serving yourself and walking your path, serves others too ❤
"What if that fear is a testament to the fact that you are meeting God?" Whew, Lord have Mercy...I had to pause right there & just take in the power of the paradigm shift. My heart chakra is buzzing & clearing...I honestly feel like a gateway I've been seeking my whole life just got unlocked. Thank you, Spirit! Thank you, Ayan (hope that's your name, pardon if it's not).🙏🏾 First time viewer, immediate subscriber. Let me finish listening to this blessed wisdom now. [Pause] 20 min mark update: OK...I'm a Black woman, political science degree, long-time social worker/community builder stepping in my fullness as a Lightworker/Creator. The struggle with not associating/fearing power as toxic & oppressive has been real. So this Divinely timed message/reminder that power can be a good thing...and we need to be in our full power to honor what we're uniquely meant to contribute to the healing and advancement of collective consciousness. Yes and YES! 💖👏🏾💪🏾
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I allways feel relief when I see GOD , like I am finaly at home, safe, dearly loved. And I tremble with love and fear for His tremendous power.
Just wow…exactly what I needed. Like it’s no coincidence this video popped up on my suggested bc you spoke about musicians and singing and songs and everything involving that and that’s exactly what I’ve been dreaming of pursuing since I was like 10 but the fear of being seen and actually accepting something like that for myself made me ignore my passion and become a teacher. Now don’t get me wrong I’m passionate about my work as a teacher and I love working with kids and I’m grateful for the path that I’ve walked thus far in teaching but now I am really feeling called to walk another path in music and I’ve been trying to suppress the feeling for awhile now. So thank you for this video and thank you for your words
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I trembled like a leaf when I first met the powerful energy of the universe
I feel deep in my heart that we were meant to cross paths today. Thank you so much for this wisdom! The questions that I had became clear! Now, I know that whatever I'm called to do has a purpose someway, whether it is small or big, It has it's own way of impacting and I trust it. Thank you for reminding that my table matters!
Blessings to you, you are a translator of knowledge from Zulu/Namibia/S.Africa. Your cultural heritage is not bound to the languages and you are so valuable to the emerging global consciousness because you can convey your perspective to English speakers.
I literally just asked the universe the other day to send me more teachers/guides, as the past two weeks have been insanely difficult on me and I've felt lost and regressive in so many ways. This video was it's answer and I'm so grateful for that. I needed to hear so many of the things you said, and also have some of my previous beliefs challenged. I'm always craving new perspectives and guidance from souls who have this reassuring energy to them and you made me feel like a kid in a candy shop again. I will be watching more of your videos so thank you, truly it means the world.
The way I cried while listening to this cause it spoke to me in so many ways! Thank you for allowing yourself to be a vessel cause my soul has been seeking exactly this ❤❤
please dont stop making videos/things like this. you're clearly apart of something bigger than us as individuals, thank you for making this video, this came to me just when i needed it. how's that for divine timing. its moments like this for me that serve as reminders/reassurance that nothing is a mistake, and that it is always darkest just before dawn.
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRLLLLLL!!!!
Really, needed to hear this today!
I am NORTH NODE= SCORPIO.
For past few days, every reader keeps telling me... GET OUT THERE!
And Im fkn terrified of my own power
Love you for this, thank you.
I want a podcast
The way your mind works is incredible ! Thinking of fear as dialect through which God speaks to us is nothing I've ever heard before. I will definitely have to familiarize myself to that perspective but I'm pretty sure it will now stay with me forever. Thank you for sharing yourself with us Ayanda! This was a blessing !
My sister introduced me to your channel and I could not be more grateful. I love the way you share your wisdom and I can really resonate with a lot of the things you say. Just wanted to leave a comment saying I appreciate the time you put into making this video, thank you for being yourself and inspiring me by living your own truth
Sending you love and strength (in a spriritual sense) that you get the unlimited hunger for your success and for manifesting it. The world needs exactly YOU! Much love 💕Matthias👋
Suscribed immediatly. When you were talking about gifts, I immediately thought you had the gift of influence. Being able to talk about very complex matters but also being able to make me understand it in a way that is empowering is a divine gift. Usually those types of video where we talk about success and fear are shame oriented. “Just do it, don’t self sabotage, what are you waiting for?” You were able to shed a light inconscious schemes and patterns for me & for that alone I subscribed 🧡🌸
Wow. I am crying ha. Your throat chakra is so open! Thank you for saying all of this. I’ve had so many blocks for so long because I have been afraid of my own power. My whole life I’ve been taught to avoid fear, and thus, avoid my own power. This video has opened my heart to the idea that holding my own power back is also holding the collective’s power back. Thank you again. ❤
24:11 sending love right back. This video was meant for me and I called it in. How powerful is that?! I’ve been feeling so much of what you have said but especially love for those who feel removed from their culture. It’s a bigger gap as time goes by IF we let it. Now I’m part of the 3 generations that will bring our language back. Powerful
I’m an interior designer and I have been feeling like every spiritual post I see is about being a healer or a coach or something that doesn’t resonate with me or my career path, and I’ve recently been feeling very conflicted about it because I feel like what I do is not helping the masses. I am ADHD and I have been thinking a lot about how I can give back. This video inspired me to work in my field until I make it to the top and then use the platform to shine a light on the ADHD community and encourage other ADHD people to not give up on their dreams. With the right support and people around us, we can thrive and show the world our gifts 🎁
Holy…. What if the feeling of fear is you meeting God/Universe. Your words are so healing. Bless you
we are co-creating reality 💜🙏 gratitude
15:08 that whole bit about individual love got me chills. So fucking powerful. You are spitting truth girl!
🎶"I trust myself to know the way!"🎶 Thank you, Ayandastood, for this beautiful new song! I'm making it my gentle theme song 💖🎶
Thank you, dear, for sharing your beautiful thoughts!
This is the first time coming across you & your content and wow, I’m left feeling so seen and held on a conscious and soul level. Thank you for sharing your gift 🤍
Love this so much!!!! ❤
A fear of touching divinity?
THE PROFOUND PUZZLE PIECE THAT JUST CLICKED IN ME
girllll you bODIED this! i'm so glad youtube recommended this video to me! my jaw literally dropped when you made the connection between the fear of meeting The Source and the fear of our own power! wow!!!!
Some people can't relate to this with the opposite side of the spectrum of "expectation" or "entitledness" which is very common, I had to pursue my own journey to accept that it was okay to feel pride in my effect in the world and deserve to earn as others with good income do with hard work.
I just KNEW that lovely, beautiful dialect was South Aftican! Love the “flea market of life” analogy. Love to you, Darling Sister
The section starting around 28:45 hit me right between the eyes. So true.❤
when you said DREAM- i always have constant premonition dreams so with that i’ve been trying to become more aware, more connected to my dreams.. and i had a dream last night that the shower in the hotel room where my dream world self was staying was broken but i went outside to see i had the most beautiful view of the ocean and there was a lovely creek visible too , maybe what i seek is already there i just need to stop looking so hard🙏🏼🙏🏼blessings🥰thank u for guiding me to see this
paused at 1010 : google says meaning is “The 1010 angel number signifies that your spiritual path is in harmony with your soul's mission.” 😍
Your flea market analogy helped have more insight into my worth. Thank you for sharing, Best wishes and have a great day!
I completely agree with you on learning your mother tongue. My ENTIRE family is from Kenya and I was born in the states. My parents said they didn’t want to confuse me when I’m learning in school since my older sisters struggle bc of the language barrier. Unfortunately, my family back home shames and laughs at me for not knowing Swahili/Kisii and it’s a barrier I have the EXACT same feelings as you do. I’m working on it bc I want to understand the ideals and the culture more ❤
The first thing I want to express to you - I love you. Thank you immensely for sharing your BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL, voice. One of your infinite gifts! Your message spoke to my soul, I could feel the Love and Divinity coming through, creating a message like a paintbrush on paper. Thank you for recording and allowing SUCH a inspirational project to unfold. Peace & Blessings to you, friend! Fellow Spiritual Being 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Casually “happened” across your show. I am healing self-expression. Seeing you just flow with it was really inspiring. Keep shining that light of awareness on wherever that rabbit hole takes you my dear soul sister. You sound like home🇿🇦
This podcast episode resonated with me so deeply! I've always felt this tug-of-war between being drawn to my dreams and feeling scared to pursue them. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in this struggle. Can't wait to dive into the deep and spiraling ideas you're going to explore. Keep up the amazing work! 🙌 #SoulSession #DreamsAndDesires
I don’t have the words to describe how impactful your message is. I’m in tears… feeling so seen and understood… so inspired and excited too!!! ⚡️⚡️⚡️Thank you 💖
Thank you so much, sunshine!! This means the absolute world to me, sending you so much love and gratitude!! 🌻🦋
Beautifully said! Thank you for sharing your voice🙏💗
The collective is about to find the lost cord again and connect with the universal wisdom💫
Thissss!! ❤ power “with and to”
“What if my calling is a part of my destiny from my ancestors ” this truth brings me to tears because it touches my heart and resonates so deeply. Like why else would I desire what’s in my heart so much. Rather than push it away, what if embracing it unlocks the future destined for the world since the beginning of time. This is mind blowing, thank you girly. Right. On. Time. 💯
This got me back on track to my path thank you, ive been toggling back ans forth with life today im choosing to keep going
this video made me cry like crazy. it was everything i needed to hear. i didn’t search for it, haven’t ever watched videos like this, nor do i subscribe to you (until today). i’m so grateful
I was definitely sent to your channel. All of your videos represent where I am and have been for quite a while now. Others keep telling me why am I not doing more...not putting myself out there etc...and i keep coming up with some form of procrastination 😅 Appreciate you Queen! 🙏✨💖
Thank you!! I have always felt so weird about the “you yourself create your own reality” it never made sense to me because how could I create the reality in which people are being exploited everyday. But this concept of co-creation makes soooo much more sense to me and makes power seem like less of a destructive force. It has duality just like nature and we co-create with the collective what that power means.
Speaking of vibing - I'm vibing you girl! Thanks RUclips algorithm for connecting me with you. So much truth articulated beautifully 💚
I hear "the universe", "the source" "channeling", its an instant subscribe for me!
I'm so glad there are so many people awakening and talking about formless spirituality.
It is so hard to promote tho since it is so formless in its essence.
I really love your message, thank you so much for what you do for the world ❤ I will try to stay strong and proud in front of the source energy of divinity. As you do, I will continue to bring my own table to the flea market! Thank you for your enlightenment on social dynamics.
I wish you great success for your podcast
"Our souls are longing to sing" ❤❤❤
Resonce was here for me today, i am overjoyed I finally watched your video, the moment i saw the title i knew i was going to subscribe. Thank you for seeing and giving love to the parts of us we try to hide, I've been called to share "collectively" however ive been letting the fear stop me. I envision my success so many times, but then when I need to share my thoughts i get gripped with crippling anxiety and procrastination 😭, i sike myself out before I even reach anywhere. I am learning to give myself grace, love and compassion. I am going to stop lessening my co-creation. I will re lease perfectionism. As you stated "my voice needs room to roam" I will Honor it. Thank you soul much Ayanda ❤
You embody so much joy. Your message(s) could not have been expressed any better. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
girl you've opened my eyes in MANY different ways
The timing of this was perfect. ❤
I feel so seen by your video, your dialogue, your word choice, just everything you were saying resonates with me. Even when you were giving examples about y-tube and using our voices and not being silenced, it literally made me shed a tear. Like you were speaking to my soul and I really appreciate it. Most of my life I’ve felt afraid to be seen cause I was bullied or pushed down but you have made me feel seen and that means the world to me. Please keep posting videos and speaking your truth, thank you again❤️
Again with your video, I'm in tears, sobbing out densities because, by your words, I can feel the space around them and see them for what they are. Fresh space is re-emerging ❤❤
This was lovely. I actually saved this to watch later and had a fear of watching it based on the topic. I remember once telling my then bf that somewhere along the line i developed a fear of success as much as failure and that somehow I was stuck in mediocrity but even that i couldnt stay in and when i did good and was recognised it was a mixture of joy and fear. I think you've covered this topic beautifully. Thanks a lot
You’re soul is beautiful. I loved your thoughts on co-creation.
This video was SO GREAT! While I do feel at times I silence myself, I also experience that when I finally gain the confidence and motivation - I am silenced in blatant or passive aggressive ways BUT this video has given me a different perspective to gauge each time! Thank you for creating this!
My past experiences of being silenced when I finally step out in faith and confidence has been a huge barrier to keep trying, expanding and moving forward..thank you for your comment, it feels good to know I'm not alone 🙏🏾🫂
This video is proof that collective conscious is real. Thank you for reminding us of what we know is true ✨
I feel I self sabotage, is because I fear success could be taken away from me . I’m afraid to lose it all, especially someone who was abused all their life and being told “you’re nothing” all your life . And to have success and to lose it all is the one thing I fear because to me it proves the people who put me down all my life that were right about me .. 😢
Oh wow.. as someone whose had similar life experiences, thank you for sharing this.. it feels good to know I'm not alone 🙏🏾🫂
As someone whose had similar life experiences as you, thank you for articulating this..thank you for being vulnerable and sharing, it's made me feel less alone 🙏🏾🫂
you truly have a gift! you speak in such a true, raw and profound way! i just KNOW u were god brought into my life. thank you so much. gave me chills.
God is love, do not be afraid.
Your voice is power. Thanks for owning it and sharing! It guides me today in my reflections.
this video is brilliant. Truly there’s so many points made. I share the shame of not knowing my family’s language fluently, you’re not alone 🫶🏻 a perfect video, thank you for overcoming your fear & sharing 🫶🏻🫶🏻
I very much relate to letting the message flow (versus a small particular packaged/polished video) I haven’t uploaded any of my content to RUclips for that reason. My humble facebook beginnings was simply me just going live, no edits no package. I’m holding back sharing to RUclips due to not having the editing package ability. I needed this, I’m drawn to very similar things as you’re mentioning. I summarize it by saying “I seem to be afraid of my greatness, because it requires me to be great” 🌟
This is such a deeply moving video. Wow. I rarely … meet people who think like this and it’s so lonely sometimes. It’s just me and my bestfriend and our efforts to find more through making content and sending out a beacon.
Wow your words woke something up within me. A sense of remembrance. Thank you ❤
Thank you for stepping forward and bravely sharing your perspective. This is exactly what I needed to hear! It’s also so refreshing to hear someone echo many of the thoughts I’ve personally long held but have struggled to crystallize so succinctly as you have. Thank you, sister. 🙏🏽💫
Wow. 😢 I have never seen a brighter sol. Thank you for the confirmation. I feel you, I hear you!
Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this! I will definitely be hearing this in moments I need it most!
I don’t normally comment on videos but I really wanted to show appreciation for the wisdom and vulnerability you bestowed on us. Certain parts of the video made me look within and in a different perspective from what I’m normally used to. Other parts resonated with the things I knew so intimately that I would have believed you if you said you peaked straight at my soul.
Honestly, I felt an extreme reaction starting to form and had to take a few breaks from finishing your video. A multitude of emotions like fear, sadness, comfort, and understanding washed over me during that time frame.
I know I am meant to receive this as a message so I really wanted to thank you for adding your voice to collective. It made me realize how important it is for me to finally add my owns.
The universe sent me here and I am soooooo grateful to have found you. I needed this sis thank you
It's so so so exciting to see you take your own fear as divine guidance. Wow. You are so healing to my soul.
I wish everyone could listen to this video; you've shared so many important messages that I really needed to hear and need to be reminded of. Thank you, and please keep doing what you do!
I know what you mean. You are a breath of fresh air. I was strolling through RUclips and found you. This message came to me at the right time.
Your podcast has became such a beautiful experience and I feel blessed to be able to connect and understand your words.... thank you for bringing us closer to the truth of things and making me connect to Power in a healthy way! 🌻
Wow! You're just super amazing telling us here what we need to hear and have probably been craving to hear. I recently had a situation with a friend that got triggered by me being me and i had to deeply do some soul searching to see if i felt I had done anything wrong and I hadn't...its not my responsibility what other people are feeling if i have not intentionally done anything to hurt them. I have worked my ass off the last few years to find myself and im not changing for anyone. Universe has been showing me big time the last few months who i no longer need in myvlife as they are not in alignment with this new version of me anymore and they're not ready to move forward so im allowing myself to let them go with love, compassion, gratitude and appreciation. Thank you my Lovely ❤