i live in canada, use public transportation and have had maaaany coats over the years (wool and fur included) but nothing really works as well as a down parka. If i tried to wear my wool coat in -40 degree weather i’d die bestie 😭
Honestly it’s kind of borderline dangerous advice to get rid of a parka. Plus I was so excited when they finally became more trendy, because it meant I could feel comfy and warm without feeling embarrassed about what I was wearing.
I second this advice. DON’T get rid of your parka if you live in Canada or near Canada. It’s a death sentence. Wool coats are a joke. Wool coats are fall wear. Also, secondhand fur coats aren’t always available, and they only look good if they actually fit you. Good luck finding one that fits you at the secondhand store. It’s easier to find a nice parka that fits you.
The thing about “costumes” as a raver is complicated. When I first started attending music festivals and raves, I barely bought any clothes as I tried, intentionally, to use the clothes I already had but I dress really formal/proper outside of the live music scene… so I started buying pieces from sustainable and small businesses to lower my impact on the environment. Also I limit my rave clothes to what can fit in one box. I see some raver-tubers show off how many clothes they get and it’s pretty overwhelming when first starting out but I was able to define my own style over time and not waste money. 💓
I swear you are literally going to change gen z fashion. No influencer is giving advice like this, in a year everyone is going to be going off these recs I can feel it!!!!!!
i would love to see online “window” shopping for fall trends or just more fall trend predictions! i find your trend predictions are most accurate and unique
I have quite a bunch of critique for this video ! For the first two items (off white sneakers and big parka) i don’t agree with the idea of getting rid of these items at all. The advice and “ replacement “ items you gave was really good, but at the end of the day, those initial items stay basic and practical. White sneakers are comfy and go well with so many casual outfits. Big parkas are essential in some places ( i live in Canada and in my city, the temperature can drop to around -22 F in winter, sometimes even lower). These items, even if they aren’t the most stylish, stay practical depending on your current living situation and I think it’s important to consider that when we think about getting rid of/replacing the items we use. I think you gave great ideas to elevate a personal style tho ! About getting rid of items that are the same but in different colors i also don’t necessarily agree. There has some talk recently about uniform wardrobes in the fashion community since the Rick Owen video came out ( Frugal aesthetic and Drew Joiner talked about it in some of their videos i think). It’s definitely a different approach to everyday fashion but i think sticking to a certain style of item of clothing that you love, looks good on you and that you know you’re gonna reach out to wear every time is a pretty sustainable way of doing fashion. This kinda plays into the whole capsule wardrobe idea too, were you have to restrict the items you own to what you really love. So for exemple, if when you go out, you always reach out for the same outfit in a different palette so be it ! in that case you just have to make sure that you really wear all of those items that look the same. Overall i truly think the points brought out in the video are valid but i think there’s more nuance to it to ! Ly 🫶🏽
About the second point: some time ago I realized that I'm always buying black or white t-shirts and thought that I need to stop doing it and switch it up. But then I also realized that I'm almost always wear black or white t-shirts. So I decided to embrace it, but focus on fit and quality. It makes life so much easier - to always have something you are comfortable in and can just throw it on.
i agree, but i think the uniform thing vs. the “stop buying the same and find other things u love” advice can both work but depends on the person. i do find that i’m probably on the uniform side, i may feel weird about the fact i basically wear the same thing but at the same time the outfit works and makes me happy! but some people may benefit from more dynamic approach. i notice the main components of my outfits (top, bottom, shoes) stay kinda uniform but the clothing type i can be more dynamic with is jackets/layers, and maybe jewelry. that, along with changing my hair, makes the uniform approach not feel too repetitive.
Your point at 4:50 is so true, I feel like all the capsule wardrobe girlies always say "if you love it, buy another one in a different color!!!" And I headed their advice so much when I was trying to buy a sustainable wardrobe. i did just that, and oh my god did I get tired of it reallll quick. Now I am trying to get new cuts and textures of clothing items in similar colors, so outfits look cohesive yet still interesting! BTW I've been super into color analysis lately and i think it would make an excellent video topic since your wardrobe matches your natural coloring very well. And I love how you stick to a color palette, yet aren't afraid to add pops of color. I feel like your eye for color is so unique and I'd love to see your thought process behind choosing colors in an outfit :-)
I think this is good advice for people who want a sort of "timeless" and "grown up" look, but obviously, this is for people who are looking for that, and some of us have a more particular style and want a different look. Some of the advice was amazing and universal because we tend to hold onto things we never wear! But really nice advice
There are many reasons why I love Laini but the consistent posting schedule saves my days so many times so I’m so grateful for that!!!!! Especially now being pregnant. When I was pregnant, there was very little I had the energy to do! Will always support even when you take a long break or don’t post, but so grateful for the consistent posting ♥️ Thank you Laini!!!!!!!!
I’ll never give up a big parka to the bar in the middle of winter lol. There are enough cute options if you’re wanting to be warm and stylish ( Norma Kamali sleeping bag coat is a good example). It’s good to explore options rather than swearing off a style entirely.though, Laini did present good alternatives for warm and stylish coats.
I totally agree!! I especially like it for commuting, too, because when I try to wear more layers/long underwear I end up sweating bullets when I get to the ultra-heated buildings at work.
I work in a library where I'm on my feet all day and literally my AF1's are my most comfortable shoes for work! I have them in (clean) white and I also have the platform ones in beige which are super cute. They are perfect with my work wardrobe of t-shirt dresses, loose chinos, and baggy cargos too.
Some nice points here. My biggest struggle is always staying warm but stylish in the harsh nyc winter. Wool coats are just not warm after a certain point, neither are trenches. And I'm not gonna wear a fur coat 24/7, it's a little too dressy sometimes for the occasion. As for costumes, the only occasion I see worth keeping them is for Burning Man. I've been slowly building up some costume wear for that, as it's definitely things youd re-use every year with meaning and memory attached to them.
laini really got me there with having 100 different hoodies in my closet.. and for what?! i live in LA so the weather RARELY drops below 70.... laini be really making me reconsider what's in my closet for real
I live in Seattle and there is no way I'm giving away my parkas... They are not just for warmth, in the winter it's often windy and rainy at the same time and a wool coat just won't cut it. This is why most people dress so casually here... You're always getting beat down with wind and rain, plus you have to walk up a bunch of hills. Not good conditions for dressing cute!
I’m sorry, but who tf comments about a person’s BREATHING?? Even if you weren’t 7 months pregnant, why on earth is that something that anyone should feel the need to point out? Like we just not supposed to get good oxygen anymore? My god
I LOVE your videos where you style subscribers or just sit at the computer and put together outfits on canva, those are always so fun and relaxing to watch and doesn't require you to show outfit inspo/put together outfits with your own clothes!
I wear those "mature" clothing items and I tend to look overdressed/fancy even when I was in college. And I was trying to dress down with hoodies to blend in. Thanks for the video! It is like a gentle reminder for me.
People getting cut about the dirty bar sneakers, it’s not an attack but just a ‘branch out and try something new’ or like other’s have said, just clean them! You can literally chuck sneakers in a pillowcase and then in the washing machine on cold temp, or just get a soft toothbrush and scrub them with a gentle cleaner
tysm laini I have this ugly orange baggy Jordan t-shirt wich I hate, so I only use it as a sleeping shirt but the idea of making new space for BETTER clothes that I actually like is such a lifesaver!!
I wish there were more options for plus size second hand. I've wasted so much money on poshmark trying to get gently used clothes to no avail. And parkas are an absolute lifesaver, literally when it's-30 and windy and wet. Function over form wins there! It's shocking how often my costumes have saved the day. Every year there is at least two occasions to wear a fun costume! I've even ended up wearing some items on the regular! I've now built up a cute little tote box of tickle trunk things to break out when called upon. I for one am against purging this as inevitably you will be at a loss at the last second for someone's random roof top 50th bday themed as a 90s rave kid redux, or something like that haha!
i'd love to see clothing items you need for layering! i know the cold weather is still a little far away but i think it'd be smarter to start a cold weather wardrobe now little by little to avoid spending too much money at the same time
ooo interesting first point! i think i do agree- getting rid of whats been a comfortable option for me will push me to try something new and be creative. its like clearing the shelves to invite something new!!! im into it
I had to turn the volume down because you definitely called me out sis. Great video, not everyone will agree with the points made but the moral is to challenge your style, which you clearly teach us everyday. I can’t wait to purge and donate and buy pieces that reflect who I am instead of always looking lazy. 😂💕
i wish i could wear cute fur or wool jackets on the winter but it literally gets SO cold here in canada (like -35 deg C), my aritzia puffer is the only way
Here's a couple things I've wanted to wear but never reach for: 1. Heavy, bulky sweaters. Even in winter, once I get indoors I have to take my sweater off immediately. On the other hand, I have a thin cashmere sweater that I wore the crap out of last year. 2. summer dress pants...I have maybe 2 pair? That's enough. 3. summer jackets or sweaters: where i live summer is hot. I don't work in an office. As cute as these are, I just don't reach for them. It's too hot. 4. high heels!! My feet just can't take it anymore and I'm already tall.
tbh i would love some content on like your experience with pregnancy if youre willing to share. or at least like what you like to eat these days, things you didnt expect to come up, changes youve had to make, etc. i want to have a baby soon but i dont know any young moms irl so im so curious
Gotta disagree on the hoodies, I love to buy a hoodie at every concert or festival I go to it’s like a wearable memory and usually have sick graphics and art on them. But of course plain hoodies will go with everything!
the only hoodies I don’t get rid of are something that has a memory tied to it like for my choir or theatre productions etc :) don’t wear them but tied to so many things!
I had a skirt that I didn’t wear for like three years, until recently. I realized that it was actually cute sideways. But this is not good for the mindset of getting rid of things.
Lainis advice is definitely for the person who wants to expand and experiment with their fashion. Not someone who loves their basics. A cozy outfit doesn’t always mean sweatpants and a T-shirt/hoody it can be knit pants & a sweater that comes off the shoulder for example.
the comfort thing is so true I’ve kept onto things for years because I like how they look sooo much but are always itchy or don’t fit right I’m going to finally let go of those :) it’s possible to find things I’ll like in cuts or textures that feel right
i would love for you to do a shoe / accessory focused video. i really love your advice videos and just got rid of my bar sneakers but am having trouble buying shoes that are both unique and will go with a lot of outfits. A video on styling accessories and making the most out of what accessories we have would be awesome. LOVING these videos and will take any and all advice you have
I've been watching you for over a year now and I just live your content! Still hands down one of my fav channels to date! Can you please please please do a video on fall 2022 show trends/what you're liking/ wearing/wanting? I am in the process of a massive closet purge and am struggling to figure out what styles of new shoes to invest in and don't really have anything that I like. Thanks Laini for all you do!
i’m so guilty of the 100 hoodies and crewnecks 😂 but the thing is i only wear two of them and both of them are plain colors with no graphics lmao i just can’t get myself to throw out the ones i don’t wear bc they were expensive 🥺
I think this video is great for people who actually have a lot of clothes and finding a way to reduce their wardrobe. These dont work for me as I have always been mindful about what i buy and have so my go to white sneaker or puffy parka still is still very in used. Still great advice and they remind me to look at my clothes again!
a blazer is one thing i don't need. if i wear it to work, it's too formal for my office. if i wear it with jeans, i feel like a knockoff princess diana. don't get me started on trying to wear one under my jackets. issa no from me!!
Disclaimer - there are places in the world where parka is the only option for the extreme winter cold. We should never get rid of parkas, for practical reasons. Americans idk, maybe most of the US you can survive by just layering. This advice here is US centric, so let's apply common sense.
I feel like this is more of a “coming out of college Fashion advice”, but you still make a lot of valid points, besides the Parker lmfso it gets - 15 degrees Celsius where I live
Hoodies are great for layering in cold weather. Way better for me than any type of sweater. But a grey hoodie in my country would be considered the most "sporty" thing, much less work-appropriate than one with a print. Puffer jackets are a must in cold European weather, especially if you don't have a car. They're comfortable and can look nice if you choose one that fits your style. There are tons of different options. Maybe US is too warm for that.
i don’t really agree with the parka one. i live in north europe where temperatures can drop down to -25c in the winter and parkas will keep you most warm. obviously there are other coats you can wear but they are often uncomfortable, not waterproof and awful when climbing in snow. also layering with denim and lether just looks unflattering bc you have to zip the coat in the front. i always end up looking like a ball or a caterpillar hahah. it’s definitely a must for ppl who live in colder climates
i agree w everything except the parka , living in minnesota i need it. but if you are in a climate where you can get away with a cuter coat then i agree
since finding your channel I've been thinking about my style way differently and I feel more confident because I am more conscious about what I'm wearing and why
i totally agree with point number 1 but also i wouldn't agree with throwing them out bc they're great for concerts/festivals where your shoes will get destroyeed
You caught me with having too many of one thing. I am big busted and mid sized and really struggle to find clothes that suit my body type. So when I do I feel the need to buy it in all the colours 🙃
White sneakers never worked for me bc they were dirty non stop. But I switched to beige ones and that was a game changer for me because they always look good and pair well with anything more dressed up bc they don't "scream" typical white sport sneaker
you called me out on the hoodies/crewnecks 😭 I have so many when I wear max like 5 every winter/fall lol… definitely going to be purging some of them even though it pains me 🤧
I disagree with most of your opinions, because fashion is ever changing yet endlessly repetitive, but I applaud you for staying true to your opinion, and stating it clearly, I am sure that it is reaching the right people. Overall, wonderful video style
I recently purged a lot of my crew necks and hoodies and I still have so many but I love them!! 😅 also I would love to find a wool trench coat to thrift so I can switch between that and my parka
Can you share a few tipps on styling varsity jacket for every day, you mention it in your last video, i only see people styling it with tank tops and jordans 🥲
This was a great video! All good tips. The one thing I’d say is that I’m sure there are a lot of us watching who aren’t all recently out of college/uni or living in America. Your advice is good for people from way more demographics, but it was weird being talked to like we’re all the same age or recently went to a frat party lol
Great video! Such a great idea! Concerning video ideas you could maybe do more of the computer desk video where you virtually put outfits together on this program you always use. Or maybe make a run down of what sources you got your outfit inspo in X season from etc. Just an idea:) so happy for you and your beautiful growing family
I would love to see like how you get rid of your clothes! Sometimes I feel guilty about not selling things, or not bringing them to the thrift stores I shop at (I don't want it to become my personal closet graveyard) :))
I think on a basis of purely looks, some of these takes are valid. But “dirty bar shoes” are way comfier than heels. Not everyone is willing to destroy their feet just to look cute. And not everyone wants to carry around a big bag with an extra pair of walking shoes to the bar. And while wool coats and fur coats might be more stylish than a parka, parkas are water resistant so if it’s snowing you will remain dry and not wearing an actual wet blanket around. I’d love to hear your solutions for remaining stylish but also being practical in these situations.
100% about the dirty bar shoes!!! i just mean try a black leather shoe opposed to a white sneaker, you can get them just as dirty and beat up but they'll never look nearly as bad. This could be a doc marten, oxfords, riding boots, or even a chunky heeled boot (I have a pair i could run a marathon in) And fur coats are water resistant! real fur coats that is, animal hair is water resistant so it doesn't change when it's dead (gross lol) Obviously these are just my hot takes, and as a fashion channel, a lot of the importance in my wardrobe has to do with style but these are definitely practical and i've been following religiously for a few years now!
You can still keep white shoes white pretty easily if it's real leather. Just condition them before you start wearing them and spray a few coats of waterproofing spray or wax them and they'll be easy to clean. Just clean them and reapply the waterproofing when necessary. And yes real fur jackets are waterproof to at least some extent but should ideally not be worn when it's bucketing down since it can dry the leather out if it gets soaked, how waterproof a jacket is also depends on what kind of fur it's made of, for example mink, beaver and sable are more waterproof than chinchilla, fox or sheared beaver. A fur jacket is not for everyone but if you take good care of one it will hold for decades. My grandma's mink fur is over 40 years old now but it still looks brand new.
i was with you til the costumes babe 😅 i don’t know what I’d do without my chest of Halloween costumes & accessories lol. At least i keep it separate from my actual closet though haha.
I really like a jeweled toned (bottle green,navy ,burgundy) crew sweatshirt , but a vintage one , they are cut way better , with a loser denim on lazy days
Please do not get rid of or stop wearing your expensive, timeless puffer coats - a practical winter staple that is made to withstand winter elements - because your favorite content creator suggested doing so & instead wearing coats that aren’t as weather resistant or warm. They are timeless and are not an indication of young or basic style. Different coats for different occasions. Especially if you live in a cold area.
Hii, i just found your channel and i've been binge watching your videos! Firstly, congrats on your baby, and maybe you could make a video about shoes? Like casual go to's, going out shoes, for winter and spring/ summer seasons as well?
Maybe you could make a video discussing stuff like balance in proportions and patterns, color blocking, mixing different “aesthetics,” etc. That might take a lot of effort though, so maybe talking about your “style” as a kid since you’re about to have one of your own? I actually like keeping items of my costumes. For one thing, I have a younger sister, so she’s been able to wear my old costumes. But some parts of my costumes have been able to be pieces I wear in real life. For example, my mom made a little cape that looks like a spiderweb for one of my costumes years ago, and I still wear it bc it fits into my personal style! I like to try get as much wear as possible out every piece of clothing I have.
Before everybody goes cutting the shoulder pads out of their fur coats, if you have a more angular face you will look so good & femme fatale in a fur coat with shoulder pads. You will look so good, take a minute to evaluate how your face will work
i've been watching a ton of your vids recently and then last night i had a dream i was pregnant and i was like "damn laini was right i really can't breathe"
don't tell me what to do
shiver me timbers 🥶
didn't u click this video though?
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@@nwqully i’m pretty sure it was a joke because they know they do a lot of these things lol
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i live in canada, use public transportation and have had maaaany coats over the years (wool and fur included) but nothing really works as well as a down parka. If i tried to wear my wool coat in -40 degree weather i’d die bestie 😭
Honestly it’s kind of borderline dangerous advice to get rid of a parka. Plus I was so excited when they finally became more trendy, because it meant I could feel comfy and warm without feeling embarrassed about what I was wearing.
I second this advice. DON’T get rid of your parka if you live in Canada or near Canada. It’s a death sentence. Wool coats are a joke. Wool coats are fall wear. Also, secondhand fur coats aren’t always available, and they only look good if they actually fit you. Good luck finding one that fits you at the secondhand store. It’s easier to find a nice parka that fits you.
This comment should be pinned to save many a life
I live in Idaho and same. It'll be -20° F when I go to work and I neeeed a parka
Same
The thing about “costumes” as a raver is complicated. When I first started attending music festivals and raves, I barely bought any clothes as I tried, intentionally, to use the clothes I already had but I dress really formal/proper outside of the live music scene… so I started buying pieces from sustainable and small businesses to lower my impact on the environment. Also I limit my rave clothes to what can fit in one box. I see some raver-tubers show off how many clothes they get and it’s pretty overwhelming when first starting out but I was able to define my own style over time and not waste money. 💓
I swear you are literally going to change gen z fashion. No influencer is giving advice like this, in a year everyone is going to be going off these recs I can feel it!!!!!!
This is too sweet, thank u
uh what, nothing she said goes against the grain of gen z fashion, or am I just not subscribed to parka tiktok or something?
@@rz1974 everyone at my uni wears puffer jackets almost exclusively
i would love to see online “window” shopping for fall trends or just more fall trend predictions! i find your trend predictions are most accurate and unique
Great idea!!
I have quite a bunch of critique for this video !
For the first two items (off white sneakers and big parka) i don’t agree with the idea of getting rid of these items at all. The advice and “ replacement “ items you gave was really good, but at the end of the day, those initial items stay basic and practical. White sneakers are comfy and go well with so many casual outfits. Big parkas are essential in some places ( i live in Canada and in my city, the temperature can drop to around -22 F in winter, sometimes even lower). These items, even if they aren’t the most stylish, stay practical depending on your current living situation and I think it’s important to consider that when we think about getting rid of/replacing the items we use. I think you gave great ideas to elevate a personal style tho !
About getting rid of items that are the same but in different colors i also don’t necessarily agree. There has some talk recently about uniform wardrobes in the fashion community since the Rick Owen video came out ( Frugal aesthetic and Drew Joiner talked about it in some of their videos i think). It’s definitely a different approach to everyday fashion but i think sticking to a certain style of item of clothing that you love, looks good on you and that you know you’re gonna reach out to wear every time is a pretty sustainable way of doing fashion. This kinda plays into the whole capsule wardrobe idea too, were you have to restrict the items you own to what you really love. So for exemple, if when you go out, you always reach out for the same outfit in a different palette so be it ! in that case you just have to make sure that you really wear all of those items that look the same.
Overall i truly think the points brought out in the video are valid but i think there’s more nuance to it to ! Ly 🫶🏽
literally thought the exact same thing!
I completely agree I was about to comment this !!
About the second point: some time ago I realized that I'm always buying black or white t-shirts and thought that I need to stop doing it and switch it up. But then I also realized that I'm almost always wear black or white t-shirts. So I decided to embrace it, but focus on fit and quality. It makes life so much easier - to always have something you are comfortable in and can just throw it on.
i agree, but i think the uniform thing vs. the “stop buying the same and find other things u love” advice can both work but depends on the person. i do find that i’m probably on the uniform side, i may feel weird about the fact i basically wear the same thing but at the same time the outfit works and makes me happy! but some people may benefit from more dynamic approach. i notice the main components of my outfits (top, bottom, shoes) stay kinda uniform but the clothing type i can be more dynamic with is jackets/layers, and maybe jewelry. that, along with changing my hair, makes the uniform approach not feel too repetitive.
Thoughtful critique, but I’ve gotta back Laini on the sneakers thing lol those can get public health hazard levels lmao
Your point at 4:50 is so true, I feel like all the capsule wardrobe girlies always say "if you love it, buy another one in a different color!!!" And I headed their advice so much when I was trying to buy a sustainable wardrobe. i did just that, and oh my god did I get tired of it reallll quick. Now I am trying to get new cuts and textures of clothing items in similar colors, so outfits look cohesive yet still interesting!
BTW I've been super into color analysis lately and i think it would make an excellent video topic since your wardrobe matches your natural coloring very well. And I love how you stick to a color palette, yet aren't afraid to add pops of color. I feel like your eye for color is so unique and I'd love to see your thought process behind choosing colors in an outfit :-)
I think this is good advice for people who want a sort of "timeless" and "grown up" look, but obviously, this is for people who are looking for that, and some of us have a more particular style and want a different look. Some of the advice was amazing and universal because we tend to hold onto things we never wear! But really nice advice
There are many reasons why I love Laini but the consistent posting schedule saves my days so many times so I’m so grateful for that!!!!! Especially now being pregnant. When I was pregnant, there was very little I had the energy to do! Will always support even when you take a long break or don’t post, but so grateful for the consistent posting ♥️
Thank you Laini!!!!!!!!
I’ll never give up a big parka to the bar in the middle of winter lol. There are enough cute options if you’re wanting to be warm and stylish ( Norma Kamali sleeping bag coat is a good example). It’s good to explore options rather than swearing off a style entirely.though, Laini did present good alternatives for warm and stylish coats.
Could you name a few more stylish parkas if you could? I'm on the search, I would really appreciate it ❤️
I totally agree!! I especially like it for commuting, too, because when I try to wear more layers/long underwear I end up sweating bullets when I get to the ultra-heated buildings at work.
I'll never stop wearing my bf's huge parka (usually open) to the shops in winter because it's like wearing a duvet.
i am still such an AF1 fan because they are so comfy and classic to me, but i wash them regularly to keep them sparkly clean! makes a huge difference
a clean white sneaker is always the move, i just see dirty air force ones the most that's why i said that shoe specifically lol
I work in a library where I'm on my feet all day and literally my AF1's are my most comfortable shoes for work! I have them in (clean) white and I also have the platform ones in beige which are super cute. They are perfect with my work wardrobe of t-shirt dresses, loose chinos, and baggy cargos too.
Some nice points here. My biggest struggle is always staying warm but stylish in the harsh nyc winter. Wool coats are just not warm after a certain point, neither are trenches. And I'm not gonna wear a fur coat 24/7, it's a little too dressy sometimes for the occasion. As for costumes, the only occasion I see worth keeping them is for Burning Man. I've been slowly building up some costume wear for that, as it's definitely things youd re-use every year with meaning and memory attached to them.
Fur jackets are useless after a certain point too - when it’s wet and they get soaked, you honestly feel colder with it on
laini really got me there with having 100 different hoodies in my closet.. and for what?! i live in LA so the weather RARELY drops below 70.... laini be really making me reconsider what's in my closet for real
Hahahaha I was soooo guilty of this & finally opened my eyes
Same. I'm guilty of having too many hoodies and I live in San Diego.
I really need to pare it down as well!
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I live in Seattle and there is no way I'm giving away my parkas... They are not just for warmth, in the winter it's often windy and rainy at the same time and a wool coat just won't cut it. This is why most people dress so casually here... You're always getting beat down with wind and rain, plus you have to walk up a bunch of hills. Not good conditions for dressing cute!
this timing is INSANE!! was literally about to closet purge tomorrow,, thankyou thankyou laini as always a lifesaver
I’m sorry, but who tf comments about a person’s BREATHING?? Even if you weren’t 7 months pregnant, why on earth is that something that anyone should feel the need to point out? Like we just not supposed to get good oxygen anymore? My god
I read this as soon as she talked about it. It's honestly baffling...
Right she’s growing a human being inside of her😌
I LOVE your videos where you style subscribers or just sit at the computer and put together outfits on canva, those are always so fun and relaxing to watch and doesn't require you to show outfit inspo/put together outfits with your own clothes!
deal! i love them too haha
I wear those "mature" clothing items and I tend to look overdressed/fancy even when I was in college. And I was trying to dress down with hoodies to blend in. Thanks for the video! It is like a gentle reminder for me.
can't let go of my parka during city winters :/ but agree, for anything that's not a dog walk or commuting, there are other options!!
damn you came out HOT with the “bestie it’s time to get rid of frat shoes”!! I honestly needed to hear that, thank you.
I’m thankful for ur open mind
sneakers, parka and hoodies are the most important things in the wardrobe in my country for fall, winter and spring
People getting cut about the dirty bar sneakers, it’s not an attack but just a ‘branch out and try something new’ or like other’s have said, just clean them! You can literally chuck sneakers in a pillowcase and then in the washing machine on cold temp, or just get a soft toothbrush and scrub them with a gentle cleaner
U get it
tysm laini I have this ugly orange baggy Jordan t-shirt wich I hate, so I only use it as a sleeping shirt but the idea of making new space for BETTER clothes that I actually like is such a lifesaver!!
I wish there were more options for plus size second hand. I've wasted so much money on poshmark trying to get gently used clothes to no avail. And parkas are an absolute lifesaver, literally when it's-30 and windy and wet. Function over form wins there!
It's shocking how often my costumes have saved the day. Every year there is at least two occasions to wear a fun costume! I've even ended up wearing some items on the regular! I've now built up a cute little tote box of tickle trunk things to break out when called upon. I for one am against purging this as inevitably you will be at a loss at the last second for someone's random roof top 50th bday themed as a 90s rave kid redux, or something like that haha!
it's okay you're heavy breathing, take your time Laini!! Love your videos ❤
i'd love to see clothing items you need for layering! i know the cold weather is still a little far away but i think it'd be smarter to start a cold weather wardrobe now little by little to avoid spending too much money at the same time
ooo interesting first point! i think i do agree- getting rid of whats been a comfortable option for me will push me to try something new and be creative. its like clearing the shelves to invite something new!!! im into it
I had to turn the volume down because you definitely called me out sis. Great video, not everyone will agree with the points made but the moral is to challenge your style, which you clearly teach us everyday. I can’t wait to purge and donate and buy pieces that reflect who I am instead of always looking lazy. 😂💕
i wish i could wear cute fur or wool jackets on the winter but it literally gets SO cold here in canada (like -35 deg C), my aritzia puffer is the only way
Here's a couple things I've wanted to wear but never reach for: 1. Heavy, bulky sweaters. Even in winter, once I get indoors I have to take my sweater off immediately. On the other hand, I have a thin cashmere sweater that I wore the crap out of last year. 2. summer dress pants...I have maybe 2 pair? That's enough. 3. summer jackets or sweaters: where i live summer is hot. I don't work in an office. As cute as these are, I just don't reach for them. It's too hot. 4. high heels!! My feet just can't take it anymore and I'm already tall.
tbh i would love some content on like your experience with pregnancy if youre willing to share. or at least like what you like to eat these days, things you didnt expect to come up, changes youve had to make, etc. i want to have a baby soon but i dont know any young moms irl so im so curious
Gotta disagree on the hoodies, I love to buy a hoodie at every concert or festival I go to it’s like a wearable memory and usually have sick graphics and art on them. But of course plain hoodies will go with everything!
Same, hoodies are my fav type of clothes and the one I feel most confortable in
the only hoodies I don’t get rid of are something that has a memory tied to it like for my choir or theatre productions etc :) don’t wear them but tied to so many things!
I had a skirt that I didn’t wear for like three years, until recently. I realized that it was actually cute sideways. But this is not good for the mindset of getting rid of things.
Lainis advice is definitely for the person who wants to expand and experiment with their fashion. Not someone who loves their basics. A cozy outfit doesn’t always mean sweatpants and a T-shirt/hoody it can be knit pants & a sweater that comes off the shoulder for example.
You get it
the comfort thing is so true I’ve kept onto things for years because I like how they look sooo much but are always itchy or don’t fit right I’m going to finally let go of those :) it’s possible to find things I’ll like in cuts or textures that feel right
i would love for you to do a shoe / accessory focused video. i really love your advice videos and just got rid of my bar sneakers but am having trouble buying shoes that are both unique and will go with a lot of outfits. A video on styling accessories and making the most out of what accessories we have would be awesome. LOVING these videos and will take any and all advice you have
It’s funny cuz I actually love my dirty white canvas sneakers for the very reason that I like to break the clean look with them 🙃
I've been watching you for over a year now and I just live your content! Still hands down one of my fav channels to date! Can you please please please do a video on fall 2022 show trends/what you're liking/ wearing/wanting? I am in the process of a massive closet purge and am struggling to figure out what styles of new shoes to invest in and don't really have anything that I like. Thanks Laini for all you do!
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Such a helpful video! Perfect timing as I’ll be decluttering my closet this weekend. I have a hard time letting go of certain things so wish me luck 😅
i’m so guilty of the 100 hoodies and crewnecks 😂 but the thing is i only wear two of them and both of them are plain colors with no graphics lmao i just can’t get myself to throw out the ones i don’t wear bc they were expensive 🥺
definitely keep them! they’ll be good to wear once you wear out the current plain ones
I think this video is great for people who actually have a lot of clothes and finding a way to reduce their wardrobe. These dont work for me as I have always been mindful about what i buy and have so my go to white sneaker or puffy parka still is still very in used. Still great advice and they remind me to look at my clothes again!
a blazer is one thing i don't need. if i wear it to work, it's too formal for my office. if i wear it with jeans, i feel like a knockoff princess diana. don't get me started on trying to wear one under my jackets. issa no from me!!
Hahahah totally get this
Disclaimer - there are places in the world where parka is the only option for the extreme winter cold. We should never get rid of parkas, for practical reasons. Americans idk, maybe most of the US you can survive by just layering. This advice here is US centric, so let's apply common sense.
not the breathing comment 😭😭😭😭 queen keep on breathing loud I support you
u have such a calming aura
I feel like this is more of a “coming out of college Fashion advice”, but you still make a lot of valid points, besides the Parker lmfso it gets - 15 degrees Celsius where I live
I wear the same Halloween costume every year. I think it’s fine to keep one or two.
people get grossed out about wearing second hand fur coats and then go and buy brand new duvet + fur trim parkas from the grossest companies lol
I’m going into my last year of uni and your videos lately have been so helpful! ❤️❤️❤️
Hoodies are great for layering in cold weather. Way better for me than any type of sweater. But a grey hoodie in my country would be considered the most "sporty" thing, much less work-appropriate than one with a print.
Puffer jackets are a must in cold European weather, especially if you don't have a car. They're comfortable and can look nice if you choose one that fits your style. There are tons of different options. Maybe US is too warm for that.
i don’t really agree with the parka one. i live in north europe where temperatures can drop down to -25c in the winter and parkas will keep you most warm. obviously there are other coats you can wear but they are often uncomfortable, not waterproof and awful when climbing in snow. also layering with denim and lether just looks unflattering bc you have to zip the coat in the front. i always end up looking like a ball or a caterpillar hahah. it’s definitely a must for ppl who live in colder climates
i agree w everything except the parka , living in minnesota i need it. but if you are in a climate where you can get away with a cuter coat then i agree
I love hearing Whitney in the intro! I saw them in Michigan when they were touring on Light Upon the Lake. Great band!
since finding your channel I've been thinking about my style way differently and I feel more confident because I am more conscious about what I'm wearing and why
i totally agree with point number 1 but also i wouldn't agree with throwing them out bc they're great for concerts/festivals where your shoes will get destroyeed
You caught me with having too many of one thing. I am big busted and mid sized and really struggle to find clothes that suit my body type. So when I do I feel the need to buy it in all the colours 🙃
If it works for u, don’t stop!!!!!
@@LainiOzark it hardly does. I have to branch out because I feel like I have no clothes xx
Dirty white sneakers are a must have and a vibeeee 🤣 But for me it’s white converse, I’m not a fan of dirty Air Force 1s either haha
I was literally thinking damn I hope laini uploads today...I miss her 🥺
edit: would love to see baby's thrifted clothes hall!
Laini: you don’t need costumes in your closet
Me, a cosplayer: 👀
White sneakers never worked for me bc they were dirty non stop. But I switched to beige ones and that was a game changer for me because they always look good and pair well with anything more dressed up bc they don't "scream" typical white sport sneaker
you called me out on the hoodies/crewnecks 😭 I have so many when I wear max like 5 every winter/fall lol… definitely going to be purging some of them even though it pains me 🤧
the hundred hoodies are my favorites.
then never let them go!!!!!!!!!!!!
I disagree with most of your opinions, because fashion is ever changing yet endlessly repetitive, but I applaud you for staying true to your opinion, and stating it clearly, I am sure that it is reaching the right people. Overall, wonderful video style
I recently purged a lot of my crew necks and hoodies and I still have so many but I love them!! 😅 also I would love to find a wool trench coat to thrift so I can switch between that and my parka
Can you share a few tipps on styling varsity jacket for every day, you mention it in your last video, i only see people styling it with tank tops and jordans 🥲
Preppy! In my last vid I used pictures of what I mean by this, no Jordan’s or white tanks lol
This was a great video! All good tips. The one thing I’d say is that I’m sure there are a lot of us watching who aren’t all recently out of college/uni or living in America. Your advice is good for people from way more demographics, but it was weird being talked to like we’re all the same age or recently went to a frat party lol
Also maybe clothes that you are waiting to fit into…. Unless I suppose it can motivate you to workout and stay fit?
Great video! Such a great idea! Concerning video ideas you could maybe do more of the computer desk video where you virtually put outfits together on this program you always use. Or maybe make a run down of what sources you got your outfit inspo in X season from etc. Just an idea:) so happy for you and your beautiful growing family
I would love to see like how you get rid of your clothes! Sometimes I feel guilty about not selling things, or not bringing them to the thrift stores I shop at (I don't want it to become my personal closet graveyard) :))
I think on a basis of purely looks, some of these takes are valid. But “dirty bar shoes” are way comfier than heels. Not everyone is willing to destroy their feet just to look cute. And not everyone wants to carry around a big bag with an extra pair of walking shoes to the bar. And while wool coats and fur coats might be more stylish than a parka, parkas are water resistant so if it’s snowing you will remain dry and not wearing an actual wet blanket around. I’d love to hear your solutions for remaining stylish but also being practical in these situations.
100% about the dirty bar shoes!!! i just mean try a black leather shoe opposed to a white sneaker, you can get them just as dirty and beat up but they'll never look nearly as bad. This could be a doc marten, oxfords, riding boots, or even a chunky heeled boot (I have a pair i could run a marathon in) And fur coats are water resistant! real fur coats that is, animal hair is water resistant so it doesn't change when it's dead (gross lol) Obviously these are just my hot takes, and as a fashion channel, a lot of the importance in my wardrobe has to do with style but these are definitely practical and i've been following religiously for a few years now!
You can still keep white shoes white pretty easily if it's real leather. Just condition them before you start wearing them and spray a few coats of waterproofing spray or wax them and they'll be easy to clean. Just clean them and reapply the waterproofing when necessary.
And yes real fur jackets are waterproof to at least some extent but should ideally not be worn when it's bucketing down since it can dry the leather out if it gets soaked, how waterproof a jacket is also depends on what kind of fur it's made of, for example mink, beaver and sable are more waterproof than chinchilla, fox or sheared beaver.
A fur jacket is not for everyone but if you take good care of one it will hold for decades. My grandma's mink fur is over 40 years old now but it still looks brand new.
i was with you til the costumes babe 😅 i don’t know what I’d do without my chest of Halloween costumes & accessories lol. At least i keep it separate from my actual closet though haha.
Hahahah maybe I’m just not a costume person… we’ll see how this changes when I have a daughter lol
@@LainiOzark I’ve always been into like dress up so it’s so hard for me to let that kinda stuff go 😂💖
the section about the dirty white sneakers hit a little too close to home. i think you've convinced me to finally let mine go.
Hahahahhahaa I’m sorry, but it’s also time
Could you do a video about “How to not over consume”! You kind of touched on it when you spoke about having the same item in various colors :)
Girl- a warm coat is essential to survival in any Northern country. A wool fashion coat is not going to cut it.
Lol in the beginning when you said queen I immediately thought of Elizabeth II lol
RIP
Packing for college soon so this is super helpful
The timing of this video is soooo perfect!
I need to clean out my closet bc I’m moving to a new city!!!
Love your videos ❤️❤️❤️
I really like a jeweled toned (bottle green,navy ,burgundy) crew sweatshirt , but a vintage one , they are cut way better , with a loser denim on lazy days
I loveee this kind of video! So helpful as we go into cooler months
Please do not get rid of or stop wearing your expensive, timeless puffer coats - a practical winter staple that is made to withstand winter elements - because your favorite content creator suggested doing so & instead wearing coats that aren’t as weather resistant or warm. They are timeless and are not an indication of young or basic style. Different coats for different occasions. Especially if you live in a cold area.
Yesss I’m sorry I don’t get the dirty sneaker thing….
i love it here
I've been using the same Halloween costume since I was 13 (I'm now 19) and it's always a safe fallback when I leave things too late lol.
Happy weekend, Laini!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hii, i just found your channel and i've been binge watching your videos! Firstly, congrats on your baby, and maybe you could make a video about shoes? Like casual go to's, going out shoes, for winter and spring/ summer seasons as well?
lainniiii please teach me how to dress for the cold!!!! georgia girl moving significantly further up north & does not know how snow works 😩
Maybe you could make a video discussing stuff like balance in proportions and patterns, color blocking, mixing different “aesthetics,” etc.
That might take a lot of effort though, so maybe talking about your “style” as a kid since you’re about to have one of your own?
I actually like keeping items of my costumes. For one thing, I have a younger sister, so she’s been able to wear my old costumes. But some parts of my costumes have been able to be pieces I wear in real life.
For example, my mom made a little cape that looks like a spiderweb for one of my costumes years ago, and I still wear it bc it fits into my personal style! I like to try get as much wear as possible out every piece of clothing I have.
Oh man, I thought my parka was cute 🤣🤣
But no really if I’m dressing nice I have a leopard trench and a leather trench and silver faux fur coat. 😁😁
starting my weekend good thank you Laini
song at the end, a banger
My closet would be empty if I would live up to your advice 😂😂😂
yess i‘m so early, been waiting for this one, you just made my day ! :)
I'm so glad!
Before everybody goes cutting the shoulder pads out of their fur coats, if you have a more angular face you will look so good & femme fatale in a fur coat with shoulder pads. You will look so good, take a minute to evaluate how your face will work
you are such a delicate person, i really love that
Where do you get rid of your old clothes? Do you donate or resell? Tyia 💌💌
donate most but more expensive pieces ill sell on poshmark!
Just purged my closet but I’m gonna purge it again now…
i've been watching a ton of your vids recently and then last night i had a dream i was pregnant and i was like "damn laini was right i really can't breathe"
HAHAHAHAHA
loved these alternatives, ty Laini
Such good tips, thank you ❤!
Glad it was helpful!
video idea: going out shoes that aren't sneakers (but are still comfy) !