I Had A Miscarriage • Mom In Progress

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

Комментарии • 17 тыс.

  • @livie1234147
    @livie1234147 5 лет назад +572

    When he said “ Can you say it ? “
    And she said “no” . I broke down with her .

  • @whateverfeelsnatural
    @whateverfeelsnatural 5 лет назад +554

    When he said “you know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?” I literally started crying. This is so sad, it’s not fair

  • @heathermakeup18
    @heathermakeup18 5 лет назад +328

    My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. I blamed myself and never thought I’d be pregnant again. Less than 2 years later I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. You’ll get your rainbow baby I know it

    • @darrenzou2483
      @darrenzou2483 5 лет назад

      What's a rainbow baby?

    • @darrenzou2483
      @darrenzou2483 5 лет назад +8

      @Flower Friend :D OHHH
      Congratulations heathermakeup18!

    • @pugparty9839
      @pugparty9839 5 лет назад

      heathermakeup18 a gay baby?

    • @heathermakeup18
      @heathermakeup18 5 лет назад +18

      PugParty a rainbow baby is a baby born after a miscarriage or a loss of a child...

    • @kt27066
      @kt27066 5 лет назад +1

      heathermakeup18
      Oooo yay!!

  • @jaydenf7460
    @jaydenf7460 4 года назад +422

    When her husband said “you know you didn’t do anything wrong right?” And then asked her to say it.... my heart

  • @prishashah2361
    @prishashah2361 5 лет назад +298

    My mother had six miscarriages in ten years trying to have me. So I just want to say Happy Mothers Day to all of the women who have gone through this.

  • @hanna2546
    @hanna2546 5 лет назад +172

    When he said "you know its not youre fault right?" and she goes yeah and he says "can you say that?" and Hannah didn't say anything and started to choke up.. It literally broke me..

    • @mindyb1986
      @mindyb1986 5 лет назад +2

      You always feel like it's your fault even when it's not. I feel like I failed at protecting them and it kills you. My doctor just kept saying it's not your fault like 10 times to me and I still was like there could have been more I could've done to save him.

  • @kariz7199
    @kariz7199 5 лет назад +129

    For those of you making jokes/spreading hate on this video: your lack of empathy is absolutely shocking. Hannah lost a baby that she loved and wanted, and has gone through tremendous pain both mentally and physically. Miscarriage is not uncommon, but that does not make it any less traumatic. Just know that you are poking fun at something that very well could’ve happened to your own mother, your sister, or your friends. Hannah deserves love and support. If this video makes you uncomfortable, don’t watch it. If you hate buzzfeed, stop wasting time commenting on their videos. The purpose of this video is to raise awareness towards women’s health and support others who have also gone through the same thing. Maybe consider what you are doing when you make immature and ignorant comments on such a serious issue.

  • @skyehambrick4425
    @skyehambrick4425 5 лет назад +258

    10:38 completely broke me. u can hear how much matt wants her to be okay again in his voice

    • @marcelacorte6788
      @marcelacorte6788 4 года назад +4

      that's actually her producer Kevin McShane!!

  • @bea-le2rw
    @bea-le2rw 5 лет назад +140

    "i really don't want to make this video" then don't, seriously, you're the most important person in this context so please don't feel forced into doing something you don't want to do because you think you're supposed to

    • @camimistowls7834
      @camimistowls7834 5 лет назад +6

      bea i think she means that she wishes this video didn’t have any reason to happen :(

    • @Stonloy
      @Stonloy 5 лет назад +1

      yeah kinda a dick move on part of Buzzfeed

  • @kaiplue
    @kaiplue 5 лет назад +127

    My cousin had actually given birth earlier this week to a premature baby. The baby died the next day. She lived for only a few hours. Today is Sunday, Mother's day. Today is the day we cremate her baby.
    Kinda sad how things turned out like this. For her, and for you. I could only imagine what you both are going through.

  • @samanthadamian
    @samanthadamian 5 лет назад +101

    the “i just wanna know what i did wrong” made me start crying

  • @SB-fz4ys
    @SB-fz4ys 5 лет назад +1165

    I’m here after just seeing you post about your birth... I’m so happy you’re happy now. You are beautiful and I hope you’re doing well.

  • @mckenizemartin
    @mckenizemartin 5 лет назад +110

    tears literally streamed down my face when you couldn’t say “I didn’t do anything wrong”.

    • @nicoleheartscheer
      @nicoleheartscheer 5 лет назад

      McKenize Martin I had literally just saw your comment right before that happened and I absolutely bawled...

  • @austindoanproductions
    @austindoanproductions 5 лет назад +132

    Saw Hannah cried and when Matt asked her whether she can say it out loud that it is not her fault... but she said no... broke my heart completely...

  • @mabellea-wilson279
    @mabellea-wilson279 5 лет назад +92

    my mum had 11 miscarriages to get me. this made me cry. because i understood and felt her pain. all my love goes out to her

    • @two-face1041
      @two-face1041 5 лет назад +1

      Mabel Erin wow that’s a lot

  • @nope2095
    @nope2095 5 лет назад +285

    Is anyone watching this after she announced her newest pregnancy? So happy for her!

    • @Leilani_jaz14
      @Leilani_jaz14 5 лет назад +10

      Caitlin Gower I’m super happy for her as well!!

  • @litrallynotmebruh9531
    @litrallynotmebruh9531 5 лет назад +271

    The amount of trolls in this comment sections makes me lost hope in humanity. Go somewhere else if you want attention.

    • @xilogex7403
      @xilogex7403 5 лет назад +11

      There's no need to lose hope in humanity..it's already gone at this point.

    • @bloodpump5442
      @bloodpump5442 5 лет назад +2

      We already lost hope because of these feminists

    • @bloodpump5442
      @bloodpump5442 4 года назад

      @@brandysmith3656 lol

    • @laliuxmentado
      @laliuxmentado 4 года назад

      Fearless Dreamer Your spelling made me lose hope

    • @blah__
      @blah__ 4 года назад

      percinbody what because he put a “s” after section?

  • @Imjustkayhaha
    @Imjustkayhaha 5 лет назад +100

    I had 2 miscarriages before i conceived my rainbow baby. I miscarried a month before i got pregnant with my daughter and shes now 2 and a half months. Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is.

  • @icarusfell3183
    @icarusfell3183 5 лет назад +135

    "I don't know why I'm crying so much."
    "I don't know what I did wrong."
    Oh my god Hannah you don't need to apologise for crying over a loss of a baby you so badly wanted and wanted to do everything right for. And you would've loved the baby so much. You did nothing wrong, miscarriages are so common, no one knows if they'll miscarry, it all just comes down to odds. Wishing you all the best Hannah x

  • @ravenrose5957
    @ravenrose5957 4 года назад +90

    when he said “can you say that” after she said yes to knowing she did nothing wrong, i started crying with her. my heart goes out to you 🤍

  • @hon3yduck223
    @hon3yduck223 5 лет назад +53

    when she was talking to her husband behind the camera, and he told her to say she did nothing wrong, and she said “not yet” it broke my heart

  • @nonstopamber5850
    @nonstopamber5850 5 лет назад +227

    You can see the pain in her eyes heartbreaking

  • @bradandmawm3630
    @bradandmawm3630 5 лет назад +556

    Y'all. Buzzfeed didn't force her to make this video. She did it because she felt it was important to speak publicly about it.

    • @mvpandrew93
      @mvpandrew93 5 лет назад +6

      This 💯

    • @brittanystafford9168
      @brittanystafford9168 5 лет назад +9

      This is a COMMON subject for men and women, its something we cannot control 😪

  • @IckleBloo
    @IckleBloo 5 лет назад +410

    "You know you did nothing wrong right?"
    "Yeah"
    "Can you say it?"
    "No..."
    My heart still shatters hearing this Hannah, even though you are having your little boy soon, it still hits hard 💔💔

    • @Icecandy1882
      @Icecandy1882 3 года назад

      This exchange made me cry and brought back memories

  • @OMGLOLPEACEOUT
    @OMGLOLPEACEOUT 5 лет назад +236

    Those who say that she shouldn’t have made this video don’t understand that it’s important to speak up about these issues. Women should be able to talk about their grief and experiences without feeling shamed. We as women should empower each other and be there for each other.

    • @joeberry8111
      @joeberry8111 5 лет назад +4

      It's so brave And strong that she made this video it's not talked about enough

    • @ameena6485
      @ameena6485 5 лет назад

      +

    • @shefinmathew1849
      @shefinmathew1849 5 лет назад +1

      I like her videos. It is just that, this stuff is personal. U don't want everyone to know about ur personal life. I know it's a hard time for her. Something are needed to stay just in family.

    • @shefinmathew1849
      @shefinmathew1849 5 лет назад

      A reply would be appreciated

    • @ameena6485
      @ameena6485 5 лет назад

      @@shefinmathew1849 I was adding a plus, because I didn't have anything specific to say, but I also wanted this comment to be further up the page, so it's more visible to others.
      It's a gesture that is more meaningful than a like. Watch Hank's video about gaming the comment algorithm and you'll get it.

  • @jesy4867
    @jesy4867 5 лет назад +77

    I can't believe they left her in the hallways like that and no explanation! I hope she gets a chance to have a happy beautiful baby.

  • @Ashleynicole-fk5kx
    @Ashleynicole-fk5kx 5 лет назад +99

    everyone who keeps saying “it’s part of life” so is someone dying, and so is getting cancer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be upset or grieve. I can’t believe some of the comments I’m reading. People should really think before they write. It’s disgusting.

  • @elievalkyrie
    @elievalkyrie 5 лет назад +122

    I miscarriaged with my first pregnancy. Same symptoms as hers, spotting that progressed to bleeding. It was the worst feeling ever because you kinda know that you're losing the baby. What made it worst was one of my coworkers told me "lesson learned" after she heard of my miscarriage like it was my fault and i had to learn from my mistake. People can be so mean to others.

    • @AetherialZ
      @AetherialZ 5 лет назад +2

      I am so so sorry that happened to you. ):

    • @ahmadadeebmasalmah7648
      @ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 5 лет назад +1

      so a 12 year old had intercourse?????????

    • @elievalkyrie
      @elievalkyrie 5 лет назад +4

      @@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 what do u mean?

    • @elievalkyrie
      @elievalkyrie 5 лет назад +1

      @@AetherialZ im okay now, thank you :)

    • @angelapuspita30
      @angelapuspita30 5 лет назад +3

      @@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 I'm sorry but that's just rude. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and let me tell you, most of us are grown up. 🙃
      Edit: also the fact that we both joined RUclips earlier than you and you just joined like 4 years ago really sends lol

  • @Helena-lw6kz
    @Helena-lw6kz 5 лет назад +84

    Some of these comments are disgusting, yes miscarriages happen often but that doesn’t mean they aren’t painful to go through and everyone who is going through a miscarriage deserves a bunch of love and support

  • @paigesimpson9926
    @paigesimpson9926 5 лет назад +77

    If you see a hateful comment, report it. You don't have to engage the bullies. Just report them. As a woman who has struggled with infertility (PCOS raises your chance of a miscarriage), I have been extremely fortunate to never have had a miscarriage. But I know this can help SO many people. The hate is unnecessary but some people truly do not understand how painful this type of thing can be or how freeing it feels to know that you aren't alone.

  • @Dvyneangel27LilCookie
    @Dvyneangel27LilCookie 5 лет назад +95

    It breaks my heart to see so many bad comments on such a sensitive video. I wanted nothing more than to reach through the screen and hug her 😢

  • @andreawalker1104
    @andreawalker1104 5 лет назад +65

    miscarriages are literally something nobody talks about . I had one back in April & literally felt so alone because no one understood . I cried for a month straight , maybe more , just thinking about it . here I am , pregnant again & I just continue to pray everything goes well . I pray you receive your rainbow baby & have a healthy pregnancy

    • @theasianman4205
      @theasianman4205 5 лет назад

      I will pray that everything will be ok for you guys best of luck 🙏

    • @nicolelopez3127
      @nicolelopez3127 5 лет назад

      Andrea Walker i recently went thru one I have hope I trust gods plan for me praying for you sending you love ,hope n happiness 💙

  • @haleyjoseph2874
    @haleyjoseph2874 5 лет назад +88

    Ugh seeing her start sobbing and not be able to say she didn’t do anything wrong made me start crying. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔

  • @cheesepuffffff
    @cheesepuffffff 5 лет назад +204

    When Matt said... "you know you didn't do anything wrong, right?" and she just broke down in tears... The pain felt so deep in her heart... I'm so so sorry for what happened to you. And I'm happy that you have such an amazing family already! Love from UK 💜

    • @kermitssofachair1658
      @kermitssofachair1658 5 лет назад +4

      fetus deletus that’s cruel and disgusting

    • @stinkytoes3784
      @stinkytoes3784 5 лет назад

      @@kermitssofachair1658 Awww thanks it makes me happy to hear that and encourages me to say more stuff like that 😄

    • @mahbubali4767
      @mahbubali4767 5 лет назад

      @@stinkytoes3784 bruh momento

  • @baleighwiley6457
    @baleighwiley6457 5 лет назад +72

    “You know you didn’t do anything wrong right?”
    “Yeah”
    “Can you say that?”
    “Not yet”
    If my heart didn’t break before, it did there. I saw her pain. What an incredibly strong woman.

  • @controlyourheart
    @controlyourheart 4 года назад +57

    "I don't know why I keep crying"
    Love, you just lost your own child. A person that was someone very special to you. When loosing someone you love, regardless of ever seeing them in or outside the womb, it's absolutely okay to cry. Cry all you need, we're here for you!

  • @ReticulatingSplines_
    @ReticulatingSplines_ 5 лет назад +140

    About 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. This is something people need to know. People should talk about this.

    • @stinkytoes3784
      @stinkytoes3784 5 лет назад +1

      Ahahaha good the more miscarriages the more food I get yum!😋😋

    • @mahbubali4767
      @mahbubali4767 5 лет назад +1

      @@stinkytoes3784 FBI OPEN UP

  • @inthepinkvlogs
    @inthepinkvlogs 5 лет назад +74

    I’m so sorry the ER was busy the night you needed help. I work in an ER and busy nights come unexpectedly. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you know you did nothing wrong. By making this video, you have spread awareness to such a large group of people and your experience will educate so many. Miscarriage is unfortunately common and can happen at all ages. Please don’t get down in yourself for crying, because it truly is a heartbreaking loss of life ❤️

  • @bear6889
    @bear6889 5 лет назад +61

    Had 2 miscarriages. What was the hardest thing was the whole " don't worry, you'll have another one". That was so hard for me. No one cared my baby was gone. It is hard I definitely agree. Glad you are speaking about it.

  • @notokay5568
    @notokay5568 5 лет назад +125

    I feel like people don’t realise that miscarriage emotionally hurts a lot

    • @chuuchuutrainn
      @chuuchuutrainn 4 года назад +5

      Cloudy
      My mom has had 3! And people don’t realize how much it effect the mom. Knowing they were expecting a beautiful baby and moms sometimes think it’s their fault

    • @chuuchuutrainn
      @chuuchuutrainn 4 года назад +3

      I wonder how it’s like for moms to let go of their child

    • @notokay5568
      @notokay5568 4 года назад +2

      chloe yeah, everyone just ignores this i feel. like it doesn’t mean anything like Oh you’ll have better luck next time

  • @annebutnotreally2209
    @annebutnotreally2209 5 лет назад +93

    I never realised how real and devastating miscarriages were until this video...

    • @gnislia
      @gnislia 5 лет назад +1

      annebutnotreally that’s exactly why it’s important that women talk to each other about this. Cuz this video is the sad reality ❤️

  • @kennedyann
    @kennedyann 5 лет назад +52

    I am 15. I don’t have kids, I have never been pregnant. My mother has never had a miscarriage. I literally cannot relate in the slightest, but I sobbed watching this video. Hannah I am so sorry.

  • @ashlynleonard292
    @ashlynleonard292 5 лет назад +98

    I’m seeing so many people comment, “Why is this a video” and it is disgusting . Miscarriage is so common in pregnancies and it isn’t talked about enough. You are so brave to discuss this with the world. I hope that you are your family can get through this sad time ♥️

    • @laladeity2196
      @laladeity2196 5 лет назад +1

      Google my miscarriage you will find that it is talked about alot. they just dont have a big following.

  • @ashleyduchaine6794
    @ashleyduchaine6794 4 года назад +49

    I lost my daughter at 34 weeks. I spent years blaming myself. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing that loss happens.

  • @savannahmorrison1461
    @savannahmorrison1461 5 лет назад +54

    When she asked what she did wrong I started crying. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @emmanordgren6086
    @emmanordgren6086 5 лет назад +50

    There are reasons for miscarriages, it doesn't mean you shouldn't have another baby and it's absolutely not your fault. I feel for you and am grateful for people like you who open up about difficult topics. Much love

  • @myname5419
    @myname5419 5 лет назад +79

    I'm very sorry for your loss. Thank you for making this video. Thank you for talking about miscarriage. And screw you to the people making horrible insensitive comments. Miscarriage is very common and it's very hard to go through especially when people don't talk about it and if you do they don't think it's a big deal.

  • @harrietwp
    @harrietwp 4 года назад +43

    my parents had a miscarriage before they had me and they always have said 'its so common, you never hear about other people having miscarriages until you have one then almost everyone you talk to about it has had one, and it's so normal and people should talk about it more'

  • @priscillachang5037
    @priscillachang5037 5 лет назад +54

    Using a horrible experience to raise awareness about something that is almost never talked about 👏👏👏U have made the world a better place

  • @loveuxx100
    @loveuxx100 5 лет назад +46

    10:36
    “You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
    “Yeah”
    “Can you say that”
    “No”
    That broke my heart. I’m praying for you Hannah 💜

  • @littlebunny828
    @littlebunny828 5 лет назад +65

    I don’t know why people are posting mean comments saying that it wasn’t a big deal that she had a miscarriage. It is a HUGE deal! She’s really upset and you can see that, some people are nice and are offering support from behind the screen. Instead of being rude and awful, offer support for her. Would you like someone to laugh and be mean to you when you lost someone you love?

  • @bellem.5455
    @bellem.5455 5 лет назад +99

    Whoever disliked this has absolutely NO soul.

    • @gunwon1604
      @gunwon1604 5 лет назад +5

      Star- Light yeah they probably disliked only because it’s buzzfeed or whatever

  • @laurine3159
    @laurine3159 5 лет назад +55

    I'm only 17 and haven't even come close to being pregnant but this video touched me for some reason. Seeing you cry made me cry. I hope you're alright, you're so strong

  • @lexm17
    @lexm17 5 лет назад +518

    Some of the comments on here are disgusting. Have a word with yourselves.

    • @PigeonCarriere
      @PigeonCarriere 5 лет назад +28

      Some people just weren't raised right by their parents I swear. Empathy people!

    • @blood7078
      @blood7078 5 лет назад +5

      Sounds like a personal problem to me

    • @sverkauu
      @sverkauu 5 лет назад +36

      Darth Hatchet this is not funny at all.

    • @yourgaythoughts1949
      @yourgaythoughts1949 5 лет назад +34

      Darth Hatchet There’s a time and place for dark jokes, and this isn’t it.

    • @mahbubali4767
      @mahbubali4767 5 лет назад +1

      @Darth Hatchet bruh moment

  • @alanafay
    @alanafay 5 лет назад +54

    i read the title and my heart broke.

  • @roseivy790
    @roseivy790 4 года назад +75

    I’m so sorry. I know I’m late, but I’m still so sorry. It is tough. My best friend? Eleanor, married at 20, had triplet girls at 21 and got pregnant with her last child about a year and a half after the triplets were born. Late one night, she called me, in tears. Her husband was working late and she was alone with the girls. I went down to her house 10 minutes later and found her in the bathroom vomiting. “Rose, I think I’m in labor.” I told her she couldn’t be, she was only 26 weeks. I brought the girls to my other friends house who has 2 kids of her own and took Eleanor to the hospital. They confirmed she was indeed in labor. Her husband got there and by the next night, their son was born, but he wasn’t alive. Eleanor hadn’t cried until she held him. She and her husband both were crying so hard, I had to tell the doctor what they wanted to name him. I have so much respect for all mothers.

  • @hmmmmm4768
    @hmmmmm4768 5 лет назад +58

    When she shook her head and can’t accept that it isn’t her fault. That broke my heart, love you Hannah. And I know it’s not processing rn BUT IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT, and you’re loved

  • @fairsweets
    @fairsweets 5 лет назад +68

    it isnt your fault. its hard to understand why these things happen, when you get attached to something and you do so much for the child and you don't even think something like that could happen, but its okay. you did great. you're doing great. none of this was because of you and im really proud you shared this.

  • @kv7310
    @kv7310 5 лет назад +75

    Who disliked this? I don't care if you hate buzz feed, hannah is going through so much and this is important for other women to feel that they aren't alone.

  • @copycatkillerr
    @copycatkillerr 4 года назад +62

    We just buried my unborn baby brother (Noah Benjamin) a couple of weeks ago. He died of sepsis at 24 weeks of being in the womb. Your story has brought inspiration and hope that there are other people out there who know what it's like to lose a baby. Things like this are not brought up enough times in this world. Thank you for sharing.

    • @tejukolapo3149
      @tejukolapo3149 4 года назад +2

      I'm sorry

    • @saniyarathod966
      @saniyarathod966 4 года назад +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss..may God give your family the strength and bless your little brother's soul..Forgive me if I said something that might hurt you in some way..

    • @minyoongiisacat1655
      @minyoongiisacat1655 4 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss god bless you and your family

    • @copycatkillerr
      @copycatkillerr 4 года назад +2

      Thank you, everyone, so much. It means a lot. 😢💛💙

    • @biancaloss3624
      @biancaloss3624 4 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers ❤

  • @taylorstewart6904
    @taylorstewart6904 5 лет назад +51

    This video had me in tears. Do not give up and PLEASE do not feel like you did anything wrong! As someone who has been trying for 2 years, 3 miscarriages and numerous test done...I'm happy to say I'm pregnant (10 weeks). I'm super paranoid and check the heartbeat almost daily. I do feel your pain when you think you've done something wrong. The worst part about all the tests I've have done is point blank I just had very bad luck. There was nothing wrong. But do not ever give up! I was ready to and bam it just happened. All on it's own.

    • @ellierae9943
      @ellierae9943 5 лет назад +1

      praying for you to have a happy, healthy pregnancy

  • @mimirudoll6705
    @mimirudoll6705 5 лет назад +44

    My mom had 3 miscarriages and was terrified when I was born. She thought she would lose me too. I'm married now and still trying to have kids after 8 years. Its brave of you to share your experience with us, Hannah. I want to hug you so bad... To be honest, I'm scared to be a mother but I want to be.

  • @marisaisbaking9507
    @marisaisbaking9507 5 лет назад +64

    I am begging you to ignore the hate on this video. You are brave and strong, even if you don’t feel it, and it can help others that you posted this video.

    • @zayzlah
      @zayzlah 5 лет назад

      Marisaisbaking since when was there hate on the video?

    • @marisaisbaking9507
      @marisaisbaking9507 5 лет назад

      When I first watched the video probably half of the comments were saying this was too much information and that the public didn’t need to know

  • @Rose-wg7hm
    @Rose-wg7hm 4 года назад +98

    Most heartbreaking part is she blamed herself for miscarriage.

  • @fruti_fae
    @fruti_fae 5 лет назад +51

    My heart absolutely shattered to pieces when she couldn't say she didn't do anything wrong. Don't blame yourself for something out of your control. Don't let it stop you from continuing to be an amazing and stunning mom to your kids, and possible kids to come. You're absolutely amazing and we all love you.

  • @sagelindemann
    @sagelindemann 5 лет назад +55

    My mom had 3 miscarriages before having me and even giving birth was difficult. It is still sad for her, many years later. Big hug to you, be brave. Love from Honduras. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @courdillia
    @courdillia 5 лет назад +38

    I had two miscarriages and was totally blindsided. No one talks about it and it can make you feel so alone and scared. Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve started the conversation and now women and families have a place to feel understood and belonged.

  • @evettechampion5214
    @evettechampion5214 4 года назад +39

    Yesterday, I had a D&E to remove the baby. I was 9weeks pregnant.
    Was... that's so strange to say. Not even 48 hours ago, my fiance and I were so excited because we would be able to see our baby and finally get ultrasound pictures.
    We saw the baby... but there wasn't a heartbeat. I cant verbalize the kind of emptiness I feel. It was our first pregnancy and for it to be over so quickly... its heartbreaking.
    Thank you for sharing your story. While I didnt experience the miscarriage the same way as you did, I appreciate your courage to talk about it.
    It's something I cant and dont want to do right now...

    • @skylerhamlyn8454
      @skylerhamlyn8454 4 года назад +2

      i am so sorry

    • @evettechampion5214
      @evettechampion5214 4 года назад +1

      @@skylerhamlyn8454 ❤ thank you. We're trying to optimistic Nd try again. 🤷‍♀️

    • @lizrakewa2042
      @lizrakewa2042 4 года назад +2

      So sorry, I had a miscarriage a few months ago, I understand how you feel. Hugs

    • @lyric5422
      @lyric5422 4 года назад

      We are here for you love. Know that it’s not your fault. Much love

  • @Norma_Cruzcx
    @Norma_Cruzcx 5 лет назад +165

    Some of these comments are so disgusting I can’t even . Please disable these comments I don’t want her to feel worse .

    • @madalynfaith1822
      @madalynfaith1822 5 лет назад +8

      Normita Cruz I know. People saying “this happens to everybody, what makes you special.” Shame on them for even calling them self human. You don’t have to watch the video or comment if you aren’t going to be supportive. Just leave

    • @mvpandrew93
      @mvpandrew93 5 лет назад +2

      No opinions matter, voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯

    • @rm-iu4gs
      @rm-iu4gs 5 лет назад +2

      same these trolls must be living a SAD SAD life

    • @myclassysins
      @myclassysins 5 лет назад

      I literally saw someone that said: "I don't care that you had a miscarriage."

    • @gnarls4480
      @gnarls4480 5 лет назад

      Witch ones. Because im going to disowne them

  • @connersmith9781
    @connersmith9781 5 лет назад +66

    Ok I’m sorry but people need to stop joking around in the comments. Things like this are hard for people. She could be reading these comments crying because of how most of you are completely disrespecting her. I’m so sorry for you.

  • @emmakroon3919
    @emmakroon3919 5 лет назад +65

    It breaks my heart that women feel like they can't call in sick for something like this. Being sick isn't only your body, but also your mind. She needed time to recover mentally. I feel like every women should have that (if she needs it) and shouldn't feel pressured or obligated to get back to work... Thank you for sharing

  • @yahyaali5779
    @yahyaali5779 4 года назад +49

    Me seeing this video, after like a year and a half. I'm like girl don't cry and I just realized that Henry was THE light, the escape that she needed. I feel you Hanna.

  • @Bella24.
    @Bella24. 5 лет назад +37

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I also had a miscarriage I had 2 of them ! It was the worse feeling ever. But now I’m almost 9 months pregnant with my rainbow baby.

  • @DB-nd4cj
    @DB-nd4cj 5 лет назад +48

    People need to stop asking “when are you having a child or another child?”

  • @faithe-marieh2094
    @faithe-marieh2094 5 лет назад +100

    I’m 16, my brother is 3. Everyone always mentions something about our age gap but what they don’t know is that I have 6 other siblings watching over me. Losing a baby at any point in the pregnancy is heartbreaking and it’s terrible that people dont talk about it.
    You did nothing wrong and if you need to talk my family and I are always available 💕

    • @addiereece7032
      @addiereece7032 5 лет назад +3

      Oh wow! That must of been horrible to go through. I hope everything is okay! And you and your Brother are having great lives! 💕

    • @rachelel9087
      @rachelel9087 5 лет назад +4

      oh my gosh, that's so heartbreaking.

    • @faithe-marieh2094
      @faithe-marieh2094 5 лет назад

      Savvy_ Gacha thank you so much💕

    • @addiereece7032
      @addiereece7032 5 лет назад +1

      Faithe-Marie H your welcome!

  • @UIAL570
    @UIAL570 4 года назад +37

    When I was growing up I thought miscarriage was this really rare, tragic thing. No one talked about it with me. People whispered about it and if you knew someone who’d had one, you were to keep it a secret and never mention it. It turned out people extremely close to me had lost a baby and had never spoken about it. A woman I knew with a young baby spoke about her previous miscarriage and I couldn’t believe it when two other women in the room said they had experienced one too. I never realized how often it happens. I was probably 17 at the time. I couldn’t believe it. People really need to discuss it more and not treat it like a dirty secret a woman should be ashamed of.

  • @semsem185
    @semsem185 5 лет назад +78

    Lost my daughter at 30 weeks. I know how you feel. I'm so very sorry.

    • @gnislia
      @gnislia 5 лет назад +2

      Seema Phakira god 30 weeks...I’m so sorry ❤️

  • @starheartskull15
    @starheartskull15 5 лет назад +36

    It’s really shocking to me that the er didn’t put you at priority when you were BLEEDING HEAVILY!! I’ve been to the er with my bf five times in the last two weeks cuz he had horrible consistent headaches and stomach pains and finally the last time we went, he had to wait to long he had a panic attack from the pain and completely blacked out and fainted. I understand er’s are crowded with people and it’s hard to fit everyone in but if you see someone heavily bleeding or freaking tf out you should help them ASAP!

  • @Robin-ho5df
    @Robin-ho5df 5 лет назад +68

    Honey, you did nothing wrong. Nothing at all. I looked it up and most of the reasons of miscarriage is because the baby didnt devlope right and the baby just didnt make it and sometimes there is no reason. You will make it through this. I've been through two and its hard. I'm pregnant and almost 12 weeks now and this is the farthest I've been and I pray it works out. You got this. Its hard but you're a strong woman and you got this.

    • @Robin-ho5df
      @Robin-ho5df 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @Grace-jx1sx
      @Grace-jx1sx 5 лет назад

      I wish you the best. Look after yourself💖

    • @Robin-ho5df
      @Robin-ho5df 5 лет назад +1

      @@Grace-jx1sx awe, why thank you. I for sure will. :)

  • @Sarahla91
    @Sarahla91 4 года назад +82

    I watched this video when it came out, but I never knew that it would later become my story too. It just happened and I’m so heartbroken.

    • @molliepaterson4734
      @molliepaterson4734 4 года назад +4

      ❤❤❤

    • @newchaoz
      @newchaoz 4 года назад +2

      I feel so sorry for you.

    • @sarah-lk9dy
      @sarah-lk9dy 4 года назад +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss. grief and loss are some of the worst things to have to live through. I hope you have a good support system around you.

    • @Sarahla91
      @Sarahla91 4 года назад +3

      Sarah Seeliger Thank you for your condolences 💖 I’m lucky to have a solid support system which is definitely very helpful.

    • @markshaqlain1432
      @markshaqlain1432 4 года назад +4

      Im so sorry may god bless your soul

  • @claireyoung3622
    @claireyoung3622 5 лет назад +38

    When you couldn’t say it wasn’t your fault I broke down in tears.
    More than 2 years past my miscarriage and I still can’t bring myself to say it.
    You are not alone ❤️

  • @gloriacamarena6753
    @gloriacamarena6753 5 лет назад +45

    1. there is nothing you could have done or couldn't have done
    2. Keep trying just because you had a miscarriage doesn't mean you should stop trying..
    It's been 6 years now since my miscarriage and I'm still trying.
    Hoping and praying for your rainbow baby 🌈

    • @ellamawson4224
      @ellamawson4224 5 лет назад +1

      Defo keep trying! My parents told me they tried for 5years before having me so just keep going,best of luck!!💜

    • @annagnc0m956
      @annagnc0m956 5 лет назад +1

      Gloria Camarena good luck💞💞💞

    • @gloriacamarena6753
      @gloriacamarena6753 5 лет назад

      Thanks yall

  • @sydneyarguello3194
    @sydneyarguello3194 5 лет назад +50

    The fact that people are saying she is looking for attention is disgusting. She made this because it’s important to know this happens and it really affects people. Women aren’t alone when they go through this and they need to know it. They think they have to just move on.

    • @laladeity2196
      @laladeity2196 5 лет назад

      shes posting it on buzzfeed which is a fuel for all the negative comments as buzzfeed has been deemed social justice warrior/feminist central with a pinch of ignorant sexism towards males for no validated reason but yes saying shes looking for attention is sad if she put this on her own channel instead it wouldnt be that way

  • @laceyreitz4289
    @laceyreitz4289 5 лет назад +179

    “You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
    “Yeah...”
    “Can you say it?”
    “....No......not yet.”
    This struck something deep within my soul. I miscarried my first baby April of 2018 at 8 weeks. We had made the mistake of telling everyone when we first found out because we were SO excited. When I miscarried, I blamed and questioned myself and my choices for those two months for so long; my husband would tell me that I did nothing wrong. My OB told me that there was nothing I did or could do. However, you can’t help thinking, “It was my body, how is it not my fault?” My body healed so much quicker than my heart, but we are now expecting again, and I am almost five months along. Thank you so much for being vulnerable, and for being willing to share such a painful, deeply personal experience. ❤️

    • @Em-mu8ne
      @Em-mu8ne 5 лет назад +2

      Aww thats so sad...I hope your next baby comes out healthy! Stay strong!

    • @laceyreitz4289
      @laceyreitz4289 5 лет назад +1

      Join the Shrek Religion today Thank you so much; that is what we are hoping for! We just have to get through the next five months. That’s what I keep telling myself. :)

    • @EslyLoraine
      @EslyLoraine 5 лет назад +1

      Omg this is like my story, I had a miscarriage on may 2018, at 8 weeks, and at that time everybody knew about my pregnancy. Now I'm 5 months pregnant 🌈
      Wish you the best 👶🏻

    • @laceyreitz4289
      @laceyreitz4289 5 лет назад +1

      itseslyloraine I am so, so sorry for your loss; congratulations on your rainbow baby, though!! Just a few more months to go, and we get to hold them in our arms! ❤️🌈

    • @shevahauser1780
      @shevahauser1780 3 года назад +1

      @@laceyreitz4289 I hope you and baby are happy and healthy!

  • @bubblebunz7039
    @bubblebunz7039 5 лет назад +215

    (Edited) Although majority are supportive comments, I still believe that their are still some concerns about the comment section, but if Hannah believes that this video can help other women be aware about miscarriages then I’ll respect her choice. This doesn’t mean that I completely agree with not disabling comments, but luckily those who replied to my comments at made me see a whole new side of this video. I hope this video can be educational like Hannah wanted. :) I wish to all future parents well.

    • @leso_O
      @leso_O 5 лет назад +1

      Bubble Bunz totally agree

    • @mvpandrew93
      @mvpandrew93 5 лет назад +3

      No opinions matter voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯

    • @jjennymmariee
      @jjennymmariee 5 лет назад +3

      Hannah has already said in reply to another comment that she wants to keep it open for other women to share their experiences. If you already know that the negative comments are going to affect you, then don’t? read? the comment section????

    • @BobTheBuilder-dk5ry
      @BobTheBuilder-dk5ry 5 лет назад +1

      Jenny Marie
      Maybe they didn’t see that reply

    • @arjunyeleshwarapu
      @arjunyeleshwarapu 5 лет назад

      Censorship is amazing

  • @malindaparham2365
    @malindaparham2365 5 лет назад +46

    You are so strong for publicly sharing this. We love you and are behind you. You did NOTHING wrong.

  • @anabeldawn2765
    @anabeldawn2765 5 лет назад +67

    I wish i could give you a hug. I lost my son at 20 weeks and 3 days.. its was horrifying, it hurt so bad that i couldn’t even get off the couch, and when i had my daughter and my contractions didnt even hurt because the miscarriage pain was so much worse. Im so very sorry that you had to experience this, its so heartbreaking and painful. You are so wonderful and so strong. ❤️

  • @reagangard8409
    @reagangard8409 2 года назад +122

    Hi everyone I just want to start off saying there is someone posting on here going by the name of AGESI. They’ve been posting some horrible things on others comments. Please don’t fight with them your never going to win, just report and ignore them. If we don’t give them what they want,a reaction,they will eventually stop or get kicked off RUclips . Don’t waist your time and effort on someone who is truly doesn’t care and just wants to hurt people ,I’m assuming their either hurting or have a mental issue going on. Just repot and ignore
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    I also want to say thank you to anyone who has shared their story, I know it’s hard to voice these heartbreaking experiences but know that there are so many people who love and support you.

    • @deekshithasaisreearagonda5920
      @deekshithasaisreearagonda5920 2 года назад +8

      @@ageis3250 oh my god,You need counselling

    • @incarosen6343
      @incarosen6343 Год назад +12

      @@ageis3250it sounds like YOU are unhappy in this world. Perhaps you’re going through something, or something has happened to you that has turned you into a spiteful cynic, who sees the world as an awful place and nothing more. But not all of us see the world the way you do. Some of us are happy with our lives. Yes, sure there are awful things in the world and a lot of issues that need to be resolved. But I truly hope you come to recognise that life truly is beautiful, and miraculous and special. It is a gift to exist in this world. Life can be messy and awful as well, but that’s what it means to be human. Humanity means to evolve and learn through the good and the bad.
      I truly hope you come to see goodness in the world, and recognise that life is worth living. People are not selfish for bringing children into the world. Your joy at someone’s miscarriage is disturbing. Maybe I can’t convince you not to be happy about it, but I hope you can understand why Hannah and other people are sad about it, and maybe conduct yourself more respectfully in these comment sections. And if you can’t do that, maybe refrain from commenting at all.
      You describe the world as being a terrible place, and yet you’re actively making it a worse place by harassing and bullying other people. Get off the internet and reflect on your actions.

  • @maggiemcghee1550
    @maggiemcghee1550 5 лет назад +40

    “I wish someone had talked to me about this”. Thank you for talking about your miscarriage even when you didn’t want too. Your story is helping people you don’t even know and making them feel like they aren’t alone. ❤️

  • @hernandezalejandro8465
    @hernandezalejandro8465 5 лет назад +37

    As a guy who cant understand exactly how it feels, its very important for me too educate myself and for u too come with this story and speak out is incredible, thank you.

  • @clairestilwill5284
    @clairestilwill5284 5 лет назад +71

    My son died about a year ago and I still cry every single day... I don’t talk about it and honestly some days it’s too hard to even think about him.. I would give anything to have him back.. to hold him in my arms again and see his smile.. I’m so sorry.. you are not alone.

    • @T7d534
      @T7d534 5 лет назад +2

      I'm so sorry 😭😭😭❤

    • @calliemarie4203
      @calliemarie4203 5 лет назад +2

      I’m really sorry Claire! 💕

    • @mindyb1986
      @mindyb1986 5 лет назад

      How old was he? What was his name? I've found its hard to talk about at first, but once you get over that feeling of idk know what it is, like protecting yourself from your own feelings, it feels so good to talk about them and remember them.

    • @Omar-pw9rv
      @Omar-pw9rv 5 лет назад

      pk

  • @IndigoRoses7
    @IndigoRoses7 5 лет назад +43

    My sister was pregnant with twins, had one at 21 weeks. He didn't make it. Could keep baby #2 in another month miraculously..she is turning 3 in December. She's my sweet angel miracle niece. I still mourn my nephew. Still sad that one day my niece will know she had a twin brother that she never got to meet

  • @GamerGeekChicUK
    @GamerGeekChicUK 5 лет назад +46

    I recently lost twins on 1st of march.... I burried the remains (I was 11 weeks) in a plant pot with a cherry blossom tree and we had blossoms this April which is rare for new tree and was so happy I got to see my mog twins give life.... I'm still greiving. it was a horror scene when it happened....

  • @PrincessIzusu
    @PrincessIzusu 5 лет назад +38

    What broke me most is her not being able to say it wasn't her fault. Hannah, I hope you get to that point. I hope you forgive yourself, even though there's nothing to forgive. I hope you stay hopeful and remember the short moments of joy over pain of loss. ♥️

  • @catherinejohnson2794
    @catherinejohnson2794 5 лет назад +35

    This is why I think asking “when are you gonna get pregnant?!” is honestly a rude question. You don’t know what people are going through. Thank you for sharing this video, such an important topic. 💞

  • @irishone1012
    @irishone1012 4 года назад +46

    When her husband asked if she can say if she knows that she did nothing wrong and she said no, my heart completely dropped and I bawled even more then I was. I’m young and have never had kids so I do not understand the pain, but I can see that it’s something that does take a toll on someone. I’m so sorry that that’s happened to you. I’ve never talked to my mother about whether she’s had a miscarriage or not or if it’s a high thing in my family line. I’m scared that it may be and I have to go through what you’ve gone through. You are strong and loved Hannah💗💗

    • @irishone1012
      @irishone1012 4 года назад

      LW // Really? I honestly thought that was her husband who said that

    • @irishone1012
      @irishone1012 4 года назад

      LW // hmm. Weird

  • @AyunaBudaeva
    @AyunaBudaeva 5 лет назад +46

    Miscarriage happens so much more often than people think.. unfortunately 😢
    All of you ladies who had to go through it, you are beautiful, you are powerful, you are not alone!🌺
    It’s not our fault, we will be ok 🙂

  • @jazzzy__1
    @jazzzy__1 5 лет назад +57

    I went into labor and gave natural birth to my beautiful daughter Madison Rey Vasquez at 20 weeks on May 23rd, 2019. Just four days ago. They placed her in my arms, she took one breathe and moved her arm towards me and passed away. It was the hardest and the most painful day of my life, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I still wake up each morning thinking she is still in my tummy, only to realize she is not. It's been the hardest days of my and my fiance's lives. But your video have given me some hope and made me feel less alone and empty inside. I just wanted to take the time to say I'm so very sorry for you loss and thank you for sharing your story and helping provide a ray of light for me in these darkest of times. You have helped me more than you will ever know. ♥️

    • @etogalya
      @etogalya 5 лет назад +4

      Jasmine Pinto thank you for sharing your story, I’ve had earlier miscarriages, I can’t imaging having to hold the little one. May God bless your family 💜💜

    • @kitsmile2725
      @kitsmile2725 5 лет назад +2

      I’m praying for you 🙏 your baby is in heaven 👼🏻

    • @kt27066
      @kt27066 5 лет назад +2

      Jasmine Pinto
      I hope your ok

  • @LilysCorner143
    @LilysCorner143 5 лет назад +70

    Hannah is the the world's okayest mom.
    Hannah is one of the world's strongest mom's
    Hannah is one of the world's most awesome mom's.
    tomorrow's mother's day
    Hannah is the mother of 3 children not 2 even though the child is gone she is still it's mother.
    and she deserves to feel love rn she is the world's Hannahest mom.

    • @Sinvm5fz
      @Sinvm5fz 5 лет назад +1

      aww this warmed my heart 😁