Your FEAR OF BEING SEEN is holding you back | how to fix it (spotlight effect) Must Watch
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- Your fear of being seen is holding you back from all your goals and dreams and I'm here to help you as to how to fix this fear you have. Fear can be so crippling to the point of no movement and being stagnant will not get you anywhere. I'll be sharing a few tips and trips on how to identify what are your fears, what causes them, and how to fix them. This is a very interesting video and I had so much fun making it for you but it also brought up thoughts and emotions I didn't think it would. There are still a few things that need to be fixed so let's get into the video of Your FEAR OF BEING SEEN is holding you back | how to fix it (spotlight effect).
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Intro 00:28
Back Story 01:47
What Causes Fear? 03:32
Why Do You Have This Fear 05:08
My Story 05:25
Tigger 08:28
Being Closed Off 11:43
How To Fix It Tips 13:59
Insecurities 14:29
Attachment Issue 17:39
Failing 19:34
Rejection 20:43
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That story about the abuse😢. I was so triggered , I was almost about to cry. My fear stemmed from being put down by family for years and i didnt trust people after. I havent had a bf cause i just fear mistreatment and triggers. I think no one is perfect and he will make mistakes and i cannot handle no ones mistakes cause its hard for me to bounce back from anything
Family does play a big part in regard to the fear and trauma we had growing up. If you're able to distance yourself away from the ones that cause this pain, then do that. Love them from a distance. Forgive them in your own way. You don't have to tell them that you have but for your own sake to start your healing process. It won't be easy. Just take it a step at a time. Heal your mind and your heart. Treat yourself to how you want to be loved. Love up all on you and take your time to open up to others. Once you're ready to take that next step in having a romantic relationship, you'll meet that one who will also help in your healing process. Yeah, no one is perfect, but try not to think that you'll be mistreated in any and every relationship you go in. The mind is very powerful, and that can be manifested in any relationship. You got this love ❤️. Sending you peace and light ✨️
@@NellSlays wow hon. Thanks so much. I too am Jamaican so I know how family can give beating. So sorry it happened. Im very empathetic so your story was tear jerking. I will follow your advice and slowly open up and be more optimistic. Its very hard because ive been texting different males for years and their personalities turn me off so much , I didnt give any a chance, just went on a few dates and sooooo many of them weŕe just into one thing so you know many red flags. The world is a mess right now so going out there you have to be protected by God. You are very right in yout advice and i will take this new approach. Sometimes guys bring out the worst in my behaviour because alot of the time when i talk to them hearing foolishness mek me cuss and gwaan bad. Like them being annoying🫠 . You are right I will find the one and continue on my journey. I didnt think it will happen but your words have convinced me
I have been loving my fam from a distance and i will continue to do so as you recommended. Thanks so much for your advice. God bless you.
@Subliminal_barbie I love that you're using discernment. I believe that energy is everything. We can't just be intimate with everyone. Whatever energy they have will be transferred to you, so I love that you're seeing all this before moving forward. This world for real is messed up, but the right one is out there. Thank you as well ❤️❤️ I appreciate you