1. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t avoid difficult conversations 2. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t let emotions control their actions 3. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t hold grudges 4. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t seek validation from others
1. Emotionally intelligent people will avoid difficult conversations that affect the person they would have to bring it to. Why? The other person simply isn’t accountable enough to handle the truth and said conversation will cause a rift. 2. Valid 3. An emotionally intelligent person won’t hold a grudge however they won’t pretend an offense has never occurred. The other person may assume there is a grudge however it’s appropriate to maintain boundaries. 4. Valid. They seek respect.
Only around un-emotionally intelligent people. It is a high honor and blessing among others. And yet, an opportunity to teach others if you possess the patience and influence.
I wish that was the way life worked lol. People don't give a shit about your self righteous "understanding". They want what they want and if you aren't giving it to them, they'll move onto someone who will. Also some people just don't like you and they never will. An emotionally intelligent person is one who's willing to walk away and live without that connection. There's nothing to solve or figure out
People always change. No matter how committed someone's words seem-like promising to marry you or grow old with you until the end of life-it's just how they feel in the moment. One day, he might meet someone new, feel a connection, and in a single night, everything will change. He’ll forget all about you, lose all the love he once had for you, and start a new relationship with her. So, women, if you feel the need to constantly communicate with your boyfriend to help him grow, just walk away. Don't share your heart, Don’t write long paragraphs to him, Don’t beg him to change, Just walk away and choose your own life. He knows he's hurt you and chose to do it. Don’t try to teach him to do better-it’s just help him to manipulation for the next victim.
This really touched my heart. I've been struggling with being honest with myself and others . I just don't feel safe expressing how I feel and it hasn't gotten me anywhere but this made me realise there's truly power in expressing yourself truly and authentically . Thank you 🖤
This video popped out, and I instantly subscribed. I really agree and hate to admit that I do hold resentment. and we can let go; we learn to forgive, but we never forget what they did to us. You can forgive, but you will never forget.
Bro, amazing video. I'm on the same frequency. Well produced content, you were authentic as hell. Real recognize real and your progress bleeds through in your articulation of your story. I'm always seeking like minded content and this was spot on.
this is such a good video, thank you. I really needed to hear this! I love what you said about not triggering emotional responses in other people-- it's something I'm working on! And also letting go of the hurt. i left a toxic job in August and it's hard to let go of the years of hurt because they did me so wrong, made me feels so small, like I'm too young to achieve and my opinions don't matter-- I left because a check is NOT worth people trying to break you. However, letting the hurt go is hard. but I'm trying, so again, thank you for this video
I used to know this guy his name is Fidel. When I was 19, working at a meat packing plant he would go on these tangents about life and death he is very handsome, but he was very misguided when I pressed him on his love life when he spoke about it he would talk about how he was with so many women but they never made him feel happy and sometimes they'd get mad at him, and I've noticed that attractive people have a hard time with responsibility and I think that's due to attractive people having too many options they like having short term relationship but subconsciously want long term relationships with no strings attached. And I said why he said because he's not really attracted to these women, I said to him I get it, you date women that are less attractive than you cause you think/know they won't cheat on you cause you view them as less attractive and the pretty one you spoke of doesn't want you for the very reason you don't want to have a long term relationship with her because you both know your attractive and don't want to settle for less I asked why deny these women a life of real love with someone who actually values them opposed to you using them, and then he kept doing that "straight guy thing" talking bout some "chill, chilllll" when shit gets tough he just shuts down he can't handle somebody that also just as real and raw I just didn't have time for the bs. I'm not saying your like this but from what I observed perhaps like most pretty people you just seem to suffer from to much choice we all think we're open but in reality we all have our biases good looking people often settle for less but also want more "have your cake and eat it too" and that's just not how life works. I got recommended your channel so I jumped through some videos. I promise I'm not trying to clown on you or anything but most of my good looking friends do the same thing they are attractive but lack social awareness when it comes to women when you're a gay man it gives you alot of perspective on both realities both are just to afraid to commit and then they both end up harming eachother cause they can't or won't communicate. Been deciding if I would upload this comment so if you see it that means I committed to it.
I know my reaction is wrong but Damn bro is hella fine. On side note. Sometimes being mature at all things just tiring something id get lose and wandering lost trying to find my purpose again
But some people do not want to discuss the issues they have with you. They do not want to have that difficult conversation and when they do, they refuse to listen to your part or try to understand from your side. In that moment, would do you do?
All the dos on this list be getting me in trouble in society lol I’m just realizing most people don’t care enough to have these conversations and try to compromise
I didn’t think I’d like this video but it was eye opening. I feel like in a relationship I want to understand but I also want a partner who also considers me before he passes judgement you know? I think I want someone who is able to see my perspective too. How old are you because you look younger than men I have dated 😅
1. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t avoid difficult conversations
2. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t let emotions control their actions
3. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t hold grudges
4. Emotionally Intelligent people don’t seek validation from others
M completely opposite 😢
I think the first 3 have nothing to do with emotional intelligence. To certain extent on all of them, there are dynamics when you’d do the opposite
1. Emotionally intelligent people will avoid difficult conversations that affect the person they would have to bring it to. Why? The other person simply isn’t accountable enough to handle the truth and said conversation will cause a rift.
2. Valid
3. An emotionally intelligent person won’t hold a grudge however they won’t pretend an offense has never occurred. The other person may assume there is a grudge however it’s appropriate to maintain boundaries.
4. Valid. They seek respect.
Thank you!
🏹🤍 truth. Room for Mental space is gold.
being emotionally intelligent feels like a curse around everyone else.
Only around un-emotionally intelligent people. It is a high honor and blessing among others. And yet, an opportunity to teach others if you possess the patience and influence.
unless you have the right boundaries in place, which would mean you can embody emotional intelligence in real life and real time.
agreed..
Don't develop an ego about it though, you'll lose progress you've made for it, even with the knowledge, we are no better than anyone
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Sometimes the toughest thing to get over is when the person you hold a grudge against is yourself
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I wish that was the way life worked lol. People don't give a shit about your self righteous "understanding". They want what they want and if you aren't giving it to them, they'll move onto someone who will. Also some people just don't like you and they never will. An emotionally intelligent person is one who's willing to walk away and live without that connection. There's nothing to solve or figure out
I have a calm attitude and I definitely don't seek validation and I can be soft spoken at times and I want people to be able to hear me clearly
People always change. No matter how committed someone's words seem-like promising to marry you or grow old with you until the end of life-it's just how they feel in the moment. One day, he might meet someone new, feel a connection, and in a single night, everything will change. He’ll forget all about you, lose all the love he once had for you, and start a new relationship with her.
So, women, if you feel the need to constantly communicate with your boyfriend to help him grow, just walk away. Don't share your heart, Don’t write long paragraphs to him, Don’t beg him to change, Just walk away and choose your own life. He knows he's hurt you and chose to do it. Don’t try to teach him to do better-it’s just help him to manipulation for the next victim.
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This really touched my heart. I've been struggling with being honest with myself and others . I just don't feel safe expressing how I feel and it hasn't gotten me anywhere but this made me realise there's truly power in expressing yourself truly and authentically . Thank you 🖤
Being an emotionally intelligent teen around ones who aren’t is very isolating.
This video popped out, and I instantly subscribed. I really agree and hate to admit that I do hold resentment. and we can let go; we learn to forgive, but we never forget what they did to us. You can forgive, but you will never forget.
Thank you very much man really, you've help me realize some things that causes this kind of pain that i am experiencing right now..
Hearing you so loud and clear, thank you for your words.
Bro, amazing video. I'm on the same frequency. Well produced content, you were authentic as hell. Real recognize real and your progress bleeds through in your articulation of your story. I'm always seeking like minded content and this was spot on.
You randomly popped up on my feed. Didn’t expect your voice to sound like that but stayed and subscribed lol.
Thanks, didn’t know i needed to see this till i did
omg your voice scared me. was not expecting that on my home page when I clicked the sound on button. was expecting like Eminem rapping voice etc
this is such a good video, thank you. I really needed to hear this! I love what you said about not triggering emotional responses in other people-- it's something I'm working on! And also letting go of the hurt. i left a toxic job in August and it's hard to let go of the years of hurt because they did me so wrong, made me feels so small, like I'm too young to achieve and my opinions don't matter-- I left because a check is NOT worth people trying to break you. However, letting the hurt go is hard. but I'm trying, so again, thank you for this video
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This is really crucial for so many different areas of life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I used to know this guy his name is Fidel. When I was 19, working at a meat packing plant he would go on these tangents about life and death he is very handsome, but he was very misguided when I pressed him on his love life when he spoke about it he would talk about how he was with so many women but they never made him feel happy and sometimes they'd get mad at him, and I've noticed that attractive people have a hard time with responsibility and I think that's due to attractive people having too many options they like having short term relationship but subconsciously want long term relationships with no strings attached. And I said why he said because he's not really attracted to these women, I said to him I get it, you date women that are less attractive than you cause you think/know they won't cheat on you cause you view them as less attractive and the pretty one you spoke of doesn't want you for the very reason you don't want to have a long term relationship with her because you both know your attractive and don't want to settle for less I asked why deny these women a life of real love with someone who actually values them opposed to you using them, and then he kept doing that "straight guy thing" talking bout some "chill, chilllll" when shit gets tough he just shuts down he can't handle somebody that also just as real and raw I just didn't have time for the bs. I'm not saying your like this but from what I observed perhaps like most pretty people you just seem to suffer from to much choice we all think we're open but in reality we all have our biases good looking people often settle for less but also want more "have your cake and eat it too" and that's just not how life works. I got recommended your channel so I jumped through some videos.
I promise I'm not trying to clown on you or anything but most of my good looking friends do the same thing they are attractive but lack social awareness when it comes to women when you're a gay man it gives you alot of perspective on both realities both are just to afraid to commit and then they both end up harming eachother cause they can't or won't communicate.
Been deciding if I would upload this comment so if you see it that means I committed to it.
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I know my reaction is wrong but Damn bro is hella fine. On side note. Sometimes being mature at all things just tiring something id get lose and wandering lost trying to find my purpose again
Thank you!
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But some people do not want to discuss the issues they have with you. They do not want to have that difficult conversation and when they do, they refuse to listen to your part or try to understand from your side. In that moment, would do you do?
Show them this video
All the dos on this list be getting me in trouble in society lol I’m just realizing most people don’t care enough to have these conversations and try to compromise
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2:00 needed to hear that
I didn’t think I’d like this video but it was eye opening. I feel like in a relationship I want to understand but I also want a partner who also considers me before he passes judgement you know?
I think I want someone who is able to see my perspective too.
How old are you because you look younger than men I have dated 😅
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how do emotionally intelligent people deal with a partner that is not emotionally intelligent???
In my opinion, they probably don’t deal with those types of people, it’s not worth the time and energy at all.
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