Great episode. I learned so much about this situation. I think for Many conflict comes and goes and a lot is never fully resolved and resentment takes centre stage. Many women especially are in these kinds of marriages, they simply choose peace by giving up on the man and waiting for the kids to grow up so that they can check out. On the other hand men are checked out until kids grow up and by the time they want to resolve the women have moved on emotionally. Thanks Dr Evas for always helping us to understand these things.
Thank you Rachel Mwine and Dr. Evas for this great episode! Dr talked about, Words have power! She also talked about wounds... Can you help do an episode about RESENTMENT?? How does someone go about the healing process, and keep the positive energy towards a partner after a conflict?
i feel bad for that woman, she has gone through much, may God surely comfort her, but one thing i know is staying in a marriage because of the children is a very bad idea, because the children never found her in the marriage, marriage is between 2 people. the best thing we can do for our children is to raise them in a loving healthy home/family, regardless of what that looks like, whether married, co-parenting, single parenting, etc. God bless her heart and help her decide what to do, adult life/old age is nice with a friend, and clearly the husband is not. imagine being "married", but lonely, feeling unworthy, unloved, etc😥 i am pro-marriage, anti-divorce, but sometimes olemmwa!!
The best gift a parent can give to their child is a good parental relationship. True I suffer emotional wounds from my parents' relationship. I'm insecure, I don't trust people, a lot of trauma. It's not a place you'd like your children. It's unhealthy and manifests in many ways even in their adult relationships and friendships
This is such an amazing conversation. I personally empathize with the person who shared the experience. May God give her wisdom to navigate and actually find redemption. Also Dr Evas, thank you for the commitment to share the wisdom that helps us become better human beings. Your glasses are cute too 😅 Mrs Mwine, thank you for your heart 🙏
Seek to Understand, Not to Win: In conflict, it’s easy to focus on being right. Instead, try to understand your partner’s viewpoint. Empathy builds bridges and softens disagreements.
:The best gift any parent can give to their child is a good parental relationship ..." this statement always echoes in my head Thank you Rachael and Dr.Evas
Informative conversation thanks @Racheal and Dr.Evas. please talk about how to deal this the feeling of loneliness and which skill set one needs to be there for a friend struggling with loneliness. Thanks
Thanks for this topic so many of us are in this situation and we are staying for the sake of the kids the question we need to ask ourselves what impact is this toxic relationship have on our children. I would suggest coming up with a topic of how to help children who are in this kind of family environment should we engage them with a family therapist so that they don't carry on such a belief thinking marriage life is horrible into their adult life.
Omg 16 years.. so sorry to this lady. If you identify the cause of conflict is the man's attachment to his family causing failure to be independent... Don't you think this conflict is for life 😢
Thanks for this topic so many of us are in this situation and we are staying for the sake of the kids the question we need to ask ourselves what impact is this toxic relationship have on our children. I would suggest coming up with a topic of how to help children who are in this kind of family environment should we engage them with a family therapist so that they don't carry on such a belief thinking marriage life is horrible into their adult life.
Very important TOPIC with a great deal of logical information for the women on the men's style of problem solving. Thank You Dr.
Great episode. I learned so much about this situation. I think for Many conflict comes and goes and a lot is never fully resolved and resentment takes centre stage. Many women especially are in these kinds of marriages, they simply choose peace by giving up on the man and waiting for the kids to grow up so that they can check out. On the other hand men are checked out until kids grow up and by the time they want to resolve the women have moved on emotionally. Thanks Dr Evas for always helping us to understand these things.
Thank you Rachel Mwine and Dr. Evas for this great episode! Dr talked about, Words have power! She also talked about wounds... Can you help do an episode about RESENTMENT?? How does someone go about the healing process, and keep the positive energy towards a partner after a conflict?
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I have loved the explanation for the statement TIME HEALS EVERY THING.
i feel bad for that woman, she has gone through much, may God surely comfort her, but one thing i know is staying in a marriage because of the children is a very bad idea, because the children never found her in the marriage, marriage is between 2 people. the best thing we can do for our children is to raise them in a loving healthy home/family, regardless of what that looks like, whether married, co-parenting, single parenting, etc.
God bless her heart and help her decide what to do, adult life/old age is nice with a friend, and clearly the husband is not. imagine being "married", but lonely, feeling unworthy, unloved, etc😥
i am pro-marriage, anti-divorce, but sometimes olemmwa!!
The best gift a parent can give to their child is a good parental relationship. True
I suffer emotional wounds from my parents' relationship. I'm insecure, I don't trust people, a lot of trauma. It's not a place you'd like your children. It's unhealthy and manifests in many ways even in their adult relationships and friendships
This is such an amazing conversation. I personally empathize with the person who shared the experience. May God give her wisdom to navigate and actually find redemption.
Also Dr Evas, thank you for the commitment to share the wisdom that helps us become better human beings.
Your glasses are cute too 😅
Mrs Mwine, thank you for your heart 🙏
We appreciate the feedback sam. Thank you.
The best conversation ever!!
Seek to Understand, Not to Win: In conflict, it’s easy to focus on being right. Instead, try to understand your partner’s viewpoint. Empathy builds bridges and softens disagreements.
:The best gift any parent can give to their child is a good parental relationship ..." this statement always echoes in my head
Thank you Rachael and Dr.Evas
You are welcome
Informative conversation thanks @Racheal and Dr.Evas. please talk about how to deal this the feeling of loneliness and which skill set one needs to be there for a friend struggling with loneliness.
Thanks
This has been so educative. Thank you very much
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Thanks very much for this great explanation
Glad it was helpful!
Great conversation. Thank you so much
Thanks for watching
Thanks for this topic so many of us are in this situation and we are staying for the sake of the kids the question we need to ask ourselves what impact is this toxic relationship have on our children. I would suggest coming up with a topic of how to help children who are in this kind of family environment should we engage them with a family therapist so that they don't carry on such a belief thinking marriage life is horrible into their adult life.
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Dr Evas, nga you didn't give us the option of leaving.... oba I was absent minded
Omg 16 years.. so sorry to this lady.
If you identify the cause of conflict is the man's attachment to his family causing failure to be independent... Don't you think this conflict is for life 😢
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Thank you too!
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😂 I never experienced stage 1... am still angry. I feel cheated .
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Thanks for this topic so many of us are in this situation and we are staying for the sake of the kids the question we need to ask ourselves what impact is this toxic relationship have on our children. I would suggest coming up with a topic of how to help children who are in this kind of family environment should we engage them with a family therapist so that they don't carry on such a belief thinking marriage life is horrible into their adult life.